How to tell if an INFP loves you 💑

[@gracemagana7966]

I been in love with the same person since 4th grade (almost 7 years now), and I never spoke to him, and when I did, I always acted really weird, I never talk with him because I was afraid he might not like me, even If i know he is a very good person, now he is in a relationship with a really nice girl, and I feel bad because I had many years to try It out, but I was scared. ✌😢

[@marinambti]

Grace Magaña I understand you! I recently had the same situation where i was in love with this person who was free and open for communication, but i was too shy to open up and be more initiative. Now this person is in a relationship as well, and i feel kind of sad about it. I think that it takes time to learn how to be more confident and fearless when it comes to relationships, but that’s ok, everything will be fine:)

[@daniskzuvu7784]

The same thing happened to me 😭✋🏻 but 5 years for me -INFJ

[@SashaS-f8h]

WHY IS THE FIRST PART LOWKEY MEEEEE!!!😭😭😭😭

[@tylersingleton9284]

Me too (infj male). Liked my infp since 8th grade. We became best friends and she met someone else and ended up marrying him. We lost touch after I married someone else. A decade later we reconnected, both divorcees. I fell in love all over again, but it's still a one way attraction.

[@omarma7815]

INFJ here and I think I am starting to fall in love with this INFP girl, some things correlated with what you said and others didnt, so I am not sure how she views me, I hope I dont fall into a wormhole of doubt because of this and actually get the courage to confront her about my feelings. update: we are dating now and are deeply in love, I couldnt be happier ...

[@DaughterofAthena13]

I'm curious how this stood the test of time

[@user-vw6xp5nl6t]

Are you still together??????? :)

[@samsonquies7922]

Best update

[@divyanshsrivastava7312]

Hey man, Thanks a lot for the update, I'm an INFJ and in the same like process.... ummm... i have watched sooo many vids at this point just to make sense of things... soo yaa Thanks for providing motivation.....

[@TheInfamousRPGGroup-on-Rumble]

I read the title like, "How to Tell if an INFP Loves You," and I was like "Yes. The Answer is Yes they do."

[@cjkeys5580]

INFP 🙋‍♀️ I didn't have a boyfriend until 25 because I see a lot of things I didn't like in boys. I am not a person approacher but I approached this guy and I opened up so much to him. But broke up with me in the midst of the pandemic. I really took it to heart. I mean I built hopes and dreams for me and this person. I opened myself up to him - something I almost never do.

[@marinambti]

can relate 100% my baby

[@lpm894]

My mom is infp too, my dad has adhd so is hard somtimes. So my mom always told me that love is more than a emotion or feeling, It is a choice, every day, every minute, every second, we must chose who will love. They have been married for 30 years. So I guess is true... Even though I have 100 crushes in a month.

[@marinambti]

crushes are natural. i’m much more picky and selective now than i was before for sure. i hope you’ll find your one and only true love, baby c:

[@rickyhadrian5165]

I had a case where i love this woman so much and i did nothing to shows my feelings, a couple weeks passed and my friend told me that he likes her, ( i didn't tell him that i like her too ) but umm... my friend told me that he has made the moves but somehow her responds not quitely well. When i heard that i felt relief but somehow i helped him to understand what she may likes from my perspectives and told him whatever i think he should do to win over her heart. A couple months past they became a couple, my friend always told me how thankfull he was from all the advices that i gave. As an INFP male i felt happy for him, but hate myself very much that i almost jumped from the top floors of my apartment. Lucky enough my mom called me to pick her up from the station, and i somehow managed to pull that one off....

[@marinambti]

Ricky Hadrian that’s great!

[@jayhive4884]

I had this confusing case of whatever with this INFP guy (I just learned that he's an INFP) and I somehow feel that he likes me too based on his gestures (detective work here) and how he speaks to me, etc. It's just confusing. I gave him opportunities, clues, although I also tried to hide my feelings big time, I makeup by dropping some hints that I like him, too, and subtly offering him an opportunity to tell me if he has feelings for me COZ dang it, the way he moves, and my detective work and my gut "affirming" that (lol), he looks like he does. He kept on catching my attention, joking around, kept on initiating a conversation, goofing around, even mirrors me, STUUUFFF, I have a feeling he is stalking me on social media because he would "like" the most nonsensical of my post and he doesn't do this to his friends' post so much (one of our friends told me if he likes a post, he really means it because he really doesn't do it insincerely). So.. I decided to drop him like it's hot convincing myself that he really doesn't like me coz if he does, he'd tell me, he'd pursue me. I ignored him coz entertaining him will only hurt me, I look at him with sad eyes when he tried to initiate a conversation with me even though it was apparent that I was already ignoring him because in my head I don't know where it's heading. He might just be enjoying the flirting going on and just likes to observe me respond but I'm hurting because I don't see any commitment going on any time soon and I fall in love with him like I finally found someone I've been looking for all my life, I even wondered if He felt the same and if he felt like we found each other, but you know, it's hard to assume. -ENFP

[@hiraethari]

@@jayhive4884 oh my god are we the same person??? i relate too much

[@jayhive4884]

@@hiraethari He INFP, too? Hope everything goes well for you. Sad story of ENFP - INFP bond.

[@rickyhadrian5165]

@@jayhive4884 Holy shit, this was 3 days ago. Perhaps it wasn't to late, please help that guy, seriously if the way my INFP and his INFP think the samr way, that was it, that was exactly how I will behaved towards the girl i used to like. Mirroring, Looking at her , even Following her , I knew it sounded creepy but that was the only thing I can do to caught her attention. In reality we often to be fear of rejection, and it's like our worst enemy, so I don't know, as much hint you gave to us, is nothing we can do about. But I would suggest if you like him too, try to communicate on private, like chatting, it would easier for us to expressed our feeling, since INFP tend to be active on the internet. And also I think when you gave him your sad look, he would felt crushed as he might think that you actually hate him, and he would assumed in any possibilities of the reasons of why did you started to hate him. Anyway it's only if his INFP are similar to mine.

[@northwestwind85]

Something very disappointing was hearing someone: ''It's not everything, it's just kinda there'' when you tell them that finding true love and being there for someone is one of life's greatest things. It can hurt an INFP deeply. Find people who don't find your value in love a weakness and find people who see it as beauty. INFP's can be the most hurt in love but also the happiest if they find the right person because they know it's special.

[@CloneSeizure]

So, basically I'm a psychopath ..... sounds about right.

[@marinambti]

Clone Seizure no you’re noooot

[@rick9471]

Love ur pfp

[@Dasani_water_drinker]

Yes. You are.

[@levvellene7246]

We often do fall in love, but we never tell (even ourselves...). I'm happy for those who move beyond that!

[@Nicholas_Shaw.]

INFP’s must have admirers by the dozen, so adorable. TY.

[@springseason2706]

sadly we don't

[@Nicholas_Shaw.]

Maybe because I’m an ENFJ I can see what there missing and that is something very unique and special. Stay strong and never loose your self belief.

[@springseason2706]

@@Nicholas_Shaw. that's so sweet. thank you 🥺

[@shawnagunn9054]

Oh my God, she is adorable....I fall in love with as many people and things as possible. I want to encourage younger INFP's that you learn the faster you forgive the ones that hurt, disappointed, abused, or rejected us. I found that there is no hurt I will never overcome. I never try to stop loving them, I just need to accept they don't want me, forgive buy boik, learn to forgive as you grieve. It's like a window of pain. That frame if pain become a lot smaller when I forgive, accept and allow myself to go free. I also don't focus on what they did, I try to evaluate what I could have done better. It works.

[@thea-1984]

The way and the look you were talking remind me of Johnny Depp... We all are INFP and sometimes we just fell in love with the romanticized past that never existed and broken into pieces and hard to find the capability to seek love again.

[@athulyanarayanan2760]

I have this huge crush on an infp girl. I'm an enfp and the connection between enfp-infp is wild. I love infps. They're the sweetest people you'll ever meet and will do anything to help someone they care about. About 6 months ago she told me she used to like me. I want to tell her but Infps make it impossible to read how they feel about you romantically!!!

[@BullyMaguire4ever]

I bet they still like you. INFP are afraid of rejection so afraid to admit their feelings if they don’t know if you like them back.

[@tinaranathania]

@@BullyMaguire4ever that is true :))

[@reya28]

I'm an INFP but when it comes to my feelings, I try to be true to them, so if I love a person I do things to show it to him or her. Maybe you didn't know her love language

[@joanaborrellsanchez9225]

Hi, I'm an INFP in love with an ENFP. I'm really good at reading people and if my intuition doesn't betray me I can tell he has a crush on me. I'm an expert at confusing people even if I don't want to, so he can't tell if I like him or not. I really want to tell him but it's so hard, he has a girlfriend and they're almost braking up. He's going through a hard time so I don't want to confuse him more about his feelings...

[@RandomNirvanaSXE]

You're so beautiful, love the make up too. Good video!

[@mybricksters9800]

I feel like I have the energy of the ☀️ when I’m in love so when it ends it feels like the end of the world.

[@bres.4806]

I feel this.

[@prjdghyt]

I'm an INFP. I am actually brave and a risk taker. I can admit my feelings to someone. But I had crushes in college whom I never spoke at all but I am head over heels for them.even.though I just see them. And they don't know I exist. 😞 hahahaha!

[@declassified금]

I have an INFP friend who's probably going to fall in love soon and this person is like a younger sibling to me so that's why I care that much (and probably because I'm an INFJ haha). Thank you for sharing this insights, I have learned a lot!

[@marinambti]

you’re welcome)

[@wehopoutthecoupe825]

We're the same. I have a younger INFP friend, I'm an INFJ and I'm the one who grew in love with him first. He already knew what I feel, I just confessed last January 9. Then he started taking care of me, how I noticed? Because I'm the one who takes care of him most of the time back then and now, the table is turning.

[@lui_frndo]

I met up with an INFP as an ENFP. I do not know if it was a date though. We text daily currently, even if its not much. He drove me home, payed for my drinks and I payed for his on the meet up after. We also hugged each other multiple times, touched each others hands a bit and he let me pick music to listen to from his phone in his car. We also have a lot of eye contact and talk about personal stuff. Is he romantically interested in me?

[@rachelmartina1851]

As an INFP, I don't think romantic love exists. I was a very hopeless romantic person and believed that love conquered everything, and all other bullshit things. But now for me, romantic love is just an illusion. I prefer just imagining falling in love than making it happen in real life and risking another heartbreak. I think it's just a waste of time fighting for love, I better use my precious time and energy to fight for other important things in life.

[@Lucas-nj1fs]

on my pov, you need to fight for love when you know that you will have a return, because a life without love can be boring sometimes, its a feeling that kinda guides me

[@MeAnINFP]

Nice video! I feel the fellow INFP vibes 😊

[@intellectualfilms4883]

I saw the title and your face next to it ... And I fell in love ... Damn!

[@micasa5633]

Is it just me or all infp come off as flirty because I love to compliment people and this guy told me to stop flirting with him and I was like “dude, no it's not like that i don't like you at all ..no I mean I like you but u know what I mean... Its just blah blah blah... :(

[@marinambti]

tell him to go fuck himself. you deserve better people around you honey pie.

[@micasa5633]

@@marinambti tysm 😭😭💛

[@marinambti]

@@micasa5633 ily sweetie

[@felicitymecha8329]

So accurate. I really don't allow people to come close unless I know that they are not insensitive or unkind.

[@karlito4694]

Is possible i cant feel love, or idk, because a didnt at love.

[@marinambti]

Tadeáš Karlito infps can be aromatic

[@leonheart319]

as an entj 8w9 i hope she's (infp 4w5) loving me :D thanks for your help marina ^^

[@sage8200]

What a great video. If I broke an INFP's heart how do I get their trust back? Thank you so much. 🙂🙏

[@marinambti]

Nancy C-R Hi! Thank you for your question) if you want an infp to trust you again, you need to let them know that you can change your ways of behavior and you care. Infps can actually forgive easily, but if you screw them over more than 3 times, you’ll be forever gone and you won’t even know why, ahahaha. So be careful, cause the lack of communication can be dangerous:)

[@prjdghyt]

It's true. We forgive and forgive... I think it's like a strength/weakness because people take advantage of us for that. 😅

[@_brightwit]

infps forgive veery easily. just hold their hand and say your sorry

[@Invisibility397]

Communication skills are a must for relationships...Also try INFP-T + INFJ-T ... INFJ-A - INFP-A

[@tinatuna7012]

i dont think i become an enfj i don’t really know what i become i respect love and appreciate it but i don’t think i deserve it and i push those people away also been told i’m extremely hard to read

[@marinambti]

you become a coconut

[@infpreflections]

I think I have come to the point in my life where if I loved someone, I would tell them outright. But like you said in the end of the video, you love everyone and so do I.

[@maysky3695]

As an INFP, if I fall in love with someone they would only see dust, as I run for the hills!

[@charlespackwood2055]

if an infp can fall in love 500 times a month, then you use a great amount of your processor with regards to interpersonal information. you must be interpersonal geniuses or not...

[@lindsaybriggie3277]

Infps love everything and everyone.

[@FloridaMarlinWrangler]

ENTP here. I have an INFP female friend who is very concerned about my well being and does seem hovering sometimes. I guess thats her way of showing her affection for me. I understand now why she acts like an ENFJ towards me. Thank you for clarifying that

[@عبدالرحمنسليمان.المايسترو]

Fellow Entp If you may Do u feel like infps and Entps Have this weirdo connection !?

[@keitany7039]

Yes my best friend is basically an entp and I'm an infp

[@عبدالرحمنسليمان.المايسترو]

@@keitany7039 if you may How do you view him or her entirely ?! Thank you in advance

[@keitany7039]

@@عبدالرحمنسليمان.المايسترو when I met him I don't know why but I just felt comfortable and I feel like he gets me more than anyone else and sometimes he predicts what im about to do or say 😂

[@عبدالرحمنسليمان.المايسترو]

@@keitany7039 Yes that is so entp How about the tough arguments you both had As an entp when I like someone I tend to argue with him on our visions Beliefs and everything? How he managed to deal with your fi And how your fi manged to go with the bluently crazy ti of his and his lack of fi?!

[@keitany7039]

@@عبدالرحمنسليمان.المايسترو that's an issue that comes up but my fi basically makes up for his lack of fi and vice versa I help him get in tune with his feelings since at times he ignores it and follows his intuition And he helps me see things for what they are since my feelings get in the way You just have to find your own way around it...I think we both find that difference between us fascinating

[@pooja350]

Enfj's are usually the best types for an infp. My problem is that I have yet to find one :(

[@marinambti]

how can i help you bunny

[@rocketassistedgoat1079]

ENFJ, INFJ, ENTJ and INTJ, are all great matches. As for the introvert/extrovert thing-if one of you is, say, double introverted [looping]; then an introvert would seem like an extrovert to you.

[@erikdekker1]

INTJ here, I am trying to build up something with an INFP.

[@elsa407]

that might not be true

[@rain-3d4y]

Entps are definitely just as scared of heartbreak if not more but we have practice doing difficult things bc we think about how it is logical to do so and used to trying new things

[@Some86]

Marina, it's ridiculously scary that you and I feel exactly similarly, the way you talk and your mannerisms dude i feel like I'm watching myself 😂❤️...oh girl I was also thinking of talking about this on my channel but now that you've talked about it( I'm glad you talked about it), I would love to add some points in my video as well ( if in future I think of making a video on the same topic)..!

[@astralfluxaf]

Wow amazing video thank you! Can you do what ENFP becomes when they’re in love?

[@marinambti]

of course!

[@johnmadun1234]

I love your smile

[@user-uzmpy432]

That's soooooo mean!!!! I tried my best to make sure that there's enough distance between me and my infp friend but she's fallen into me. WHY???

[@AJ-lg2sg]

I'm here to see if I like someone

[@baseera6532]

“Chop his legs off” dear oh dear 😂🤦🏽‍♂️

[@withinofwhat1083]

What if infp is not actually scared of breakup .. but over analyzing, thinking that one girl you spend your life is with someone else making out.. the one that said.. I am always here for you. She said she was here for me!, she said so!, even if we’re not dating, I thought you had fun being around me..but I was no longer fun..without you, it felt like I don’t belong -infp somewhere in the deep hole

[@marinambti]

i love you man

[@withinofwhat1083]

@@marinambti thank you, you to...

[@helenwood8482]

I am allegedly an INFP, but I'm starting to doubt it, because romantic love does not exist for me. I have never been in love and never will, because it's too much of a risk for me and for them.

[@marinambti]

you’re emo

[@gnathp4497]

Granted, I am not an infp. I am an intj, however, I used to feel exactly like you do, to the dot. I didnt think there ever was a reason to get into a relationship because the risk was too great, and I didnt believe in love (at least for myself). It is possible though, that you will eventually find a person that you click so well with that it almost feels like they were made for you (this is what happened to me). However, it may also be entirely possible that you are aromantic, and theres nothing wrong with that either. Only time will tell!

[@smartgenes1]

That is totally INFP.

[@elsa407]

i am infp-T and i feel the same.

[@williamoforangedidnothingwrong]

what is your skincare/make-up routine? your skin looks amazing! also subbed

[@marinambti]

i wash my face with my infp tears

[@2d3z]

@@marinambti Same lol

[@goxcrazii]

INFJ here. I fell in love with an INFP. he broke up with me for good reasons but my response what crazy and he wanted and seek to revenge and hurt me. He did. But he continued to check up on me through social media and I assumed he was a narcissist. Because he had all the tendencies of a narcissist. Long story short. I still believe this is someone I want in my life romantically or not. Crazy right lol

[@marinambti]

both infjs and infps can be narcissistic. god complex is hard to get rid off. take it easy baby. ily.❤️

[@goxcrazii]

@@marinambti yes! I was a narcissist too!! Just didn’t know. Thank you lovely! Love you!

[@marinambti]

@@goxcrazii love you too, my dear! take care! always put yourself first🌸✨🌸

[@user-uzmpy432]

I feel F when an infp is into me. I want to run so I did.

[@erikdekker1]

INTJ-T here, I am trying to build something with an INFP. Any tips/advice?

[@marinambti]

try to be soft, try to listen to them. if you see them doing some stupid shit don’t be afraid of it and just call them out. and also try to ask them out as much as possible, if you do something together it will help you get to know this person so much better.

[@erikdekker1]

@@marinambti I already roasted her the shit out of many times. She comes back everytime. INTJ people can't tolerate stupid shit lol. But I can be kind too. She finds me kind & rude at the same time, what I find extremely confusing sometimes. Infp people are strange as fuck, but funny. Maybe you should look at the personalty type INTJ-T (T= TUBULANT (SUBTYPE). We think almost like the same, only INTJ are more open & honest and extremely blunt/brutal hahaha. If you have questions about the INTJ you can ask me.

[@marinambti]

@@erikdekker1 call them out when it’s necessary. don’t be rude for no reason. and try to treat them with respect, don’t overstep boundaries just to feed your ego, it’s unnecessary. infps are very sensitive and even if they act a certain way it doesn’t mean that they should be disrespected.

[@erikdekker1]

@@marinambti I called her out , because of bad behavior. We hangout everyday. INTJ's have a extremely hard time with understanding the emotions of others including their own. I think that is good why INFP are more about feelings, they can teach INTJ'S how te become more one with their Fi that is the 3 slot of the INTJ. Like first slot ( Ni) second slot ( Te) third slot ( Fi) and the last one is ( Se). The INFP has this: First slot (Fi) ( so the first slot of the INFP is the third one of the INTJ), so especially in the beginning it can be really hard for the INTJ & INFP to communicate, but in the longer run both adept to others mbti functions, second slot of the INFP is (Ne), third slot (Si) and the last one is (Te) the second slot of the INTJ. So what will happen if the 2 work out well, the INFP teaches the INTJ to be more with their (Fi function) & the INTJ learns the INFP more about the ( Te function) both types are extremely one with their intuition, so their is already an intuition connection from the start, if they communicate.

[@morningstar8501]

Is it possible that I was never in love with someone and I don’t really love people. Is it weird cause I’m sure that it’s weird and tbh I just have a gf for sex I don’t really love her and I feel bad cause I know that sooner or later I’m gonna break up with her. Holy shit I just realized that I’m a terrible human being as I was writing this damn

[@marinambti]

you’re not a horrible human being. but break up with your gf if you wanna be honest with yourself and her as well.

[@kieronreilly6713]

Tbh im in a similar situation

[@smartgenes1]

No, especially if you're INFP, as you experience things more deeply and will find most people superficial.

[@meganhardy6700]

It's possible for you to be allosexual (bisexual, heterosexual, homosexual, etc.) and aromantic ^^

[@ramirroxd6986]

omg youre just like me altho im a boy .i swear

[@ferrariunicorn]

For me the one thing that helped me with all these feelings, emotions and concerns came down to one simple matter; 1. you're someone who's open to dating one person at a time in order get to know each other so that we can figure out if we do/don't want to continue dating? Or 2. you're someone who's open to dating more than one person at a time for whatever reason you may have? Be genuine, honest and forthcoming about initial and future intentions - we all have the right to make choices based off the facts presented to us - when we know better we do better ♥️ #lessfuckeryplease 😅

[@astralfluxaf]

The ranch references 🤣

[@supersaiyan8437]

Speaking as an isfp enfjs are too much

[@marinambti]

on God

[@tokimeikun947]

I am sure she is in love with me

[@marinambti]

don’t be so sure

[@patrycjag3918]

1:15 So relatable 😜😅

[@marinambti]

☺️☺️

[@JonesHand]

Why do you look almost like her? Enfj

[@JonesHand]

She's infp

[@JonesHand]

I become intj. In love. Love is a decision, not an emotion. It doesn't behave like an emotion.

[@JonesHand]

Find my library. And yes, enfj suffocate-infp need attention.

[@marinambti]

@@JonesHand are you talking to yourself my darling

[@JonesHand]

@@marinambti she's infp. My friend. Why do they look alike? Don't be fragile.

[@rusinovspace]

Я кажется влюбился

[@marinambti]

🥺🥺❤️❤️

[@ashutoshsingh221]

I can hardly pronounce her surname

[@marinambti]

👁👄👁

[@6o671]

I'm a female INTP, However, in relationships I became an INFP, does that make me an ENFJ as well? 😂💔

[@marinambti]

no, it’s not like you can suddenly become another type, but i know that when intps fall in love, they become extremely caring and affectionate towards their crush.

[@bres.4806]

I love this. Everything resonates.🌸