Do You Think the INFP Is Hard to Love? Lex Can Help

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Lex Morningstar

Lex Morningstar

Күн бұрын

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@foi_kenneth
@foi_kenneth 4 жыл бұрын
So basically as an INFP, I'm single because I don't want to just date anyone, and it has to be someone who truly accepts and understands who I am, which can be very troublesome bc INFPs are hard to understand.
@nanadapricot2952
@nanadapricot2952 4 жыл бұрын
trueee and people keeps on saying im playing hard to get bcuz they didnt understand how i am. the truth is, i tried accepting people every now and then. but i couldnt find someone who accept me and most importantly, understand me
@foi_kenneth
@foi_kenneth 4 жыл бұрын
@Menzies Coline yess stan conan 👓💙
@foi_kenneth
@foi_kenneth 4 жыл бұрын
@@nanadapricot2952 we rly just aren't for some people. At least in our daydreams we get to enjoy the relationships we can't force in reality 😅🤣
@nanadapricot2952
@nanadapricot2952 4 жыл бұрын
@@foi_kenneth yas true dat 🥺
@Userykp
@Userykp 4 жыл бұрын
Yep 🤟 story of my life.
@toufikhouari7027
@toufikhouari7027 3 жыл бұрын
We are born to understand Not to be understood Unfortunately
@hollylanevintagetreasures
@hollylanevintagetreasures 2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@trinityflow
@trinityflow 4 жыл бұрын
Once bitten twice shy - The INFP story.
@dakotaraines7296
@dakotaraines7296 4 жыл бұрын
So I myself am a Male INFP-T and all my life hardly anyone has understood me as a person but I met my beautiful future wife and she is an ISFJ-T and it’s amazing how quickly we connected and we have so much in common, it’s simply amazing how she alone took down all of my walls and really got to me and I likewise did for her. Our connection is so strong we have been together for almost 2 years now!!!! Soon to be my wife🥰💚
@nanadapricot2952
@nanadapricot2952 4 жыл бұрын
thats great ! meanwhile i am on the search to find my plus one and lemme tell u, im exhausted but still hoping lol
@dakotaraines7296
@dakotaraines7296 4 жыл бұрын
Nanad Apricot when you find her/him it’ll be amazin good luck:))
@nanadapricot2952
@nanadapricot2952 4 жыл бұрын
@@dakotaraines7296 aww thanks :3
@antoinettenovella1630
@antoinettenovella1630 4 жыл бұрын
Dakota - love that. I wish you both a phenomenal life.
@dakotaraines7296
@dakotaraines7296 4 жыл бұрын
Antoinette Novella you’re so sweet🥺 thank you so much from the both of us
@bezoznaught5261
@bezoznaught5261 4 жыл бұрын
I need to find a new job, because my job is rigid, structured, and boring as hell and we have to meet all these deadlines on time, and I don't know if I can do it anymore, it's like I'm losing my soul, it's the best paying job I've ever had, but I dont like it and I can't feel like an individual. I genuinely don't care about the company's goals, visions, values, it's a bunch of useless garbage.
@huyked
@huyked 4 жыл бұрын
What's the job? I'm an INFP... but maybe we like different things. :D
@bezoznaught5261
@bezoznaught5261 4 жыл бұрын
@@huyked in banking, small business complaints
@antoinettenovella1630
@antoinettenovella1630 4 жыл бұрын
That is likely a result of ineffective leadership and incongruent marketing. Irrespective, try to stick to your job whilst applying for others. Employers prefer poaching active employees.
@poet279
@poet279 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment. I absolutely hate my job and I feel like I am losing my soul too. You described my situation.
@jesselee4405
@jesselee4405 4 жыл бұрын
If you start caring about the company's goal and direction and talk to people who are also interested in furthering the business, you may be surprised that you find some hidden motivation.
@jkff2472
@jkff2472 4 жыл бұрын
INFP tip: Stop wasting all your time and energy in the hope that someone you like or want to be liked by, will finally see you as you really are, and truly accept and love you. They. Are. Not. Worth. It. I wasted many years of my life before finally learning this. Please don’t waste yours. I was more aloof when I was younger, and found the constant and harsh judgements that people would make without even knowing me, absolutely crushing. I desperately wanted to be understood, and started bending over backwards to please people. You deserve to have people in your life that won’t leave you to make all the effort. People that will meet you halfway. That will give you the same benefit of the doubt that you give others and not rush to judgement. ♥️🙏🏼
@gail9566
@gail9566 2 жыл бұрын
Boy you said it all.
@syahrulshiddiq9733
@syahrulshiddiq9733 4 жыл бұрын
I think the reasons why INFP hard to love are 1. As Fi-dominant user INFPs would look for a partner who is willing to go well with their moral values 2. Innocence of Si-child function, makes INFPs crave for deep value of love 3. Te-inferior makes INFPs set this very thick shell that makes them very picky to whom they will open up to. INFPs are really afraid that people will think badly of them. 4. The work of Ni-critical parent function makes INFPs not allowing themselves to want things because of an incident or two from the past 5. Se-trickster causes INFPs to not aware of what kind of experience they are giving to others, like acting awkward, or wearing funny clothes and we are judged heavily for that. As an INFP the above points are what I have learnt so far, we have so much obstacles dudes...
@ethanclark640
@ethanclark640 2 жыл бұрын
yeah infp males have it rough but im here for it haha
@theshimmerglimmers105
@theshimmerglimmers105 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like we have secret whirlwinds inside us, and it takes a lot of energy to keep them under control. I always feel a sense of sadness that once someone experiences that whirlwind, they’ll never see us the same way. It’s almost inevitable. We are basically gentle people I think but we can also be monsters in certain situations. It’s hard for us to just act nice and normal and I think most people just want someone who is nice and normal. At least this has been my experience ✌️
@nanadapricot2952
@nanadapricot2952 4 жыл бұрын
u describe me so well 😂
@poet279
@poet279 4 жыл бұрын
How come you described me?
@izzyfox7575
@izzyfox7575 4 жыл бұрын
Damn, this is the most accurate description of me I think I have ever read.
@Jdawgd1
@Jdawgd1 4 жыл бұрын
Wooow. I've felt this way my entire life and never heard it articulated. Truth!
@eminemstrash2021
@eminemstrash2021 Жыл бұрын
As an ENTJ I want to see the monster, I'm cool and confident in all environments.
@Brynja24
@Brynja24 4 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say: your videos make me happy! Finally, since I figured out that I am an INFP, I know that I am right the way I am.
@antoinettenovella1630
@antoinettenovella1630 4 жыл бұрын
Veronika, she is spot on. glad you are here.
@Brynja24
@Brynja24 4 жыл бұрын
@@antoinettenovella1630 Aw, thank you so much!
@fosterjacobs2757
@fosterjacobs2757 4 жыл бұрын
Really just realizing who I am!❤️
@jaygodfrey6186
@jaygodfrey6186 2 жыл бұрын
The only reason I have a problem falling in love is that almost everyone out there is so fake. What you interact with at first takes a short while before you meet the real person later on.
@jessica5497
@jessica5497 4 жыл бұрын
People say that I am "difficult to love", because I am really *intense* or *deslocated* - "out of touch with reality" and therefore sometimes insensitive, reserved and intimidating, but sometimes extremely sensitive in art per se, besides being fragile...something that they can't put in the same box, sadly.
@lelelew2735
@lelelew2735 3 жыл бұрын
I dont see how that's difficult to love🤷🏽‍♂️
@Robidu1973
@Robidu1973 3 жыл бұрын
@@lelelew2735 The problem is that that doesn't really fit how people oftentimes expect others to function (it's a problem especially with xSxJ). If they cannot get a clear picture of you (well-nigh impossible with the INFP), they are going to make all sorts of assumptions about you, up to the point of writing you off as "too difficult to deal with".
@brendanwithey1549
@brendanwithey1549 4 жыл бұрын
I get the intensity that's spot on especially when I'm thinking at a 100 mph
@Cuspofrevolution
@Cuspofrevolution 20 күн бұрын
Tell me about it. Overthinking and being overwhelmed a constant
@crystaljean522
@crystaljean522 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome vid Lex! I recently got out of a long-term relationship with a covert narcissist(beware, INFP's are prime narc bait! (he tested as an ISFJ, btw)) At first he adored every little thing about me but slowly and insidiously over time tried to make me feel 'less than' and useless and I was very worn down and anxiety-riddled at the end but he didn't take all of my life-force away, I had enough reserved resilience to leave finally leave him(although it was not easy). I've been healing very well and honestly don't think I'll ever get into another romantic relationship. I've had my children now and will never change myself or pretend to suit anyone else or fit in again, I've regained my inner strength and don't need anyone's approval! We are certainly enigmatic and complex to be sure, we're the softest, most sensitive type but if our core values and integrity are challenged, also the fiercest type! Good luck with the move! Moving is an absolute nightmare to me!! I hope it all goes smoothly, can't wait to see you at your new place! God bless 💖💕
@gail9566
@gail9566 2 жыл бұрын
Im a 60 year old INFP. Im really done with relationships. Im not good at them and I now prefer to focus on myself and my own interests.
@Lexmorningstarnz
@Lexmorningstarnz 4 жыл бұрын
We’re having a lot of trouble getting the internet up and running properly in our new place, so if my uploads slow down, please know it’s because of a great deal of confusion going on at my internet provide’s end 😂
@psyakaun377
@psyakaun377 4 жыл бұрын
Are you an Aussie tho? just wondering xP
@Lexmorningstarnz
@Lexmorningstarnz 4 жыл бұрын
PsyaKaun? We’re in New Zealand. We run on fibre, but our new place has had the connection destroyed, so we’re going wireless until they reinstall it. It’s going to take a while though haha.
@psyakaun377
@psyakaun377 4 жыл бұрын
@@Lexmorningstarnz ​ Hope you get it up and running soon
@rachelmartina1851
@rachelmartina1851 2 жыл бұрын
Since I was a child, I've always dreamt of finding the right person who could love and accept me fully. The more mature I am, the better I understand what self love is. Self love is a complete acceptance for who I am. I accept that I am my own home. I am my own soulmate. I am my own best friend✌
@abdiasnemo2634
@abdiasnemo2634 4 жыл бұрын
9:39 I can confirm this. When I was chosing my first car people were advising me to buy something "usefull" and cheap. A car were there would be enough space and insurance not costing a leg. But I ignored all of that. I wanted a fast car. A car where I can feel the road. A car that would bring a smile to my face. A car the I will always look forward to drive. I ended buying a Miata. Its really fun to drive. But it also went against every advise. There is no space, to the point it almost become useless, and insurance is fricking high. But I love my miata. At the end I got the car I wanted, and it's all that matters.
@brumbybailey6599
@brumbybailey6599 4 жыл бұрын
Same principle, different outcome; I got my dream vehicle despite everyone advising against it, an ancient LandCruiser. That car makes me smile.
@weareallinthis3668
@weareallinthis3668 Жыл бұрын
❤️😂
@brianmcghie4316
@brianmcghie4316 4 жыл бұрын
Hey lex, one of the things people....most people dont seem to understand about us as infp's that supposedly makes us "hard to love" is we dont like intrusion....I know I simply cannot stand people who try and force themselves on me no matter how critical the objective or the situation is. I never start trusting someone until I know they respect boundaries. I guess we have an unbreakable energy field around us that keeps out the wrong type of people. See when something has to be forced that's a sign that they dont know what there doing...I personally have NEVER met anyone that is persistantly invasive that has ever turned out to be a good person. I think our line in the sand is a little bit further away but how that line is treated will determine whethet or not we're a tiger or a butterfly.
@mightymixsal
@mightymixsal 2 жыл бұрын
What's weird is that when people would ask me what I look for in a relationship, the only answer I would have is "I just want someone who can understand me and someone who can I can talk with," and they would always ask me why, but I never knew why myself. I've never really thought about what I look for in a partner, but after learning that I was an INFP, I slowly started to understand why.
@blaydu
@blaydu 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFJ and I absolutely adore my INFP girl ❤️❤️❤️ My best friend/cousin is also an INFP. Love you guys and your uniqueness and authenticity!
@bluemassgamer17
@bluemassgamer17 4 жыл бұрын
As an INFP alot of people don't understand it when I say. I love people, I hate humanity.
@SarahJacksonLV
@SarahJacksonLV 2 жыл бұрын
New sub here...INFP with history of morphing into ENFP when needed...and ADHD and Highly sensitive (all 6 of them) and what you do is empowering...goingbthrough life not knowing these terms or understanding our natures etc...it's terrifying honestly...maybe younger people can find your videos and hear these things and they can avoid confusion, destruction, and pain of being all these things....and avoid wondering in the dark with no one able to relate to them...you help, thank you:)
@KOHARUKOUSUKEI
@KOHARUKOUSUKEI 4 жыл бұрын
WHERE MY INFP GANG AT!! Let's keep being authentic in this authenticity hating world. Love you all and remember to Spiral On.~ P.S. Spot on video as always Lex!
@Lexmorningstarnz
@Lexmorningstarnz 4 жыл бұрын
Cheers!! I’m going to do exactly that!!! By the way... you to!!
@KOHARUKOUSUKEI
@KOHARUKOUSUKEI 4 жыл бұрын
@@Lexmorningstarnz Anytime!~
@sookie2764
@sookie2764 4 жыл бұрын
it depends on the household chores tho, i really love doing the dishings and laundry as that gives me times to be alone with my thoguhts. Whereas chores like vacuuming i absolutely hate is bc its so noisy n troublesome i cant think
@sara.the.muggle
@sara.the.muggle 4 жыл бұрын
I've been with my ENFJ husband for 12 years. He has gotten used to my intenseness. 😂 Great video, Lex ♥
@slamislife74
@slamislife74 4 жыл бұрын
ENFJ!!!!!! Love that type :)
@antoinettenovella1630
@antoinettenovella1630 4 жыл бұрын
ENFJ and INFP are an awesome balance of personalities. Love the combination.
@sara.the.muggle
@sara.the.muggle 4 жыл бұрын
@Quirini Copie It just happened! We were immediately drawn to each other. He's my best friend. My really annoying best friend 😂
@anjalysurendran4054
@anjalysurendran4054 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFP and my husband is an ENFJ too......
@dicedrice7216
@dicedrice7216 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFP with ADHD. That's why I'm crazy.... and fun!
@reginaldknowles3890
@reginaldknowles3890 4 жыл бұрын
Killed it on all them. Was just straight-up, helplessly nodding, lol. Especially the part about being difficult to understand; wanting to connect and relate to people, yet, "nobody understands me!", "You don't know what it's like!" God, that one slapped harder than my bullies in high school, lolol
@joiamed8544
@joiamed8544 3 жыл бұрын
It seems to me that INFPs have a hard time finding each other. INFPs would seem to be great for each other and thus the need for understanding each other in an intimate relationship is taken care of.
@hannahbanana4661
@hannahbanana4661 4 жыл бұрын
your really helping me understand my constant results of infp. I realize I have always have been. I was much more the stereotypical INFP when I was young now I have matured and changed but still am and infp . You make me feel more sure of myself. Thank you
@roisinp9988
@roisinp9988 2 ай бұрын
As an INFP, i don't think we are not hard to love. We just need to meet the right people who truly understand us and those who find beauty in the love we are willing to give. It can be overwhelming for some people but the right ones will definitely stay.
@angelbennett6617
@angelbennett6617 3 жыл бұрын
It takes one to know one really stands true. I feel "naked" for a lack of a better example. Thank you for making me feel understood for the first time ever.
@anjalimujumdar8480
@anjalimujumdar8480 3 жыл бұрын
Its so good that you admitted at the start that it's clickbait,than us getting to end of the video & being disappointed. So authentic
@EthicsandEconomics
@EthicsandEconomics 3 жыл бұрын
We are more afraid of being "misunderstood" Rather than being "understood"
@davidspingler6337
@davidspingler6337 Жыл бұрын
the worst is when you finally do put that trust in a partner, then spend 20 years with them only for them to finally come clean that they never did actually love you for who you are, but for what to they thought they could “change” you into 😞
@huyked
@huyked 4 жыл бұрын
12:49 "not growing anyone's corn" Oh my gosh, that's an idiom I've never heard of (maybe you made it up, as a cursory search didn't come up with anything) but made complete sense. Nice! :D
@nanadapricot2952
@nanadapricot2952 4 жыл бұрын
i like it too
@huyked
@huyked 4 жыл бұрын
@@nanadapricot2952 Haha! Yes! Thanks for letting me know.
@geenbar3617
@geenbar3617 3 жыл бұрын
I just came across your channel. I’m INFP and have recently been diagnosed with ADHD and find your videos so relatable 😄
@mendagy
@mendagy 4 жыл бұрын
Wow. Just WOW. All of these things are me. In a nutshell!!! I am a HORRIBLE bookkeeper - bill & taxes are always done late. We could probably gone to the Bahamas with all the money paid on "late fees"!!! And I procrastinate like crazy. But, tbh, I do much better under pressure. Do you? Thanks, as always, for your words & sunny smile!! Good luck with the move!!! (Use it to purge all of the crap we INFPs tend to hang onto...!!😄) Blessings from Texas!!💗
@Cuspofrevolution
@Cuspofrevolution 20 күн бұрын
As an infp with an entp be true to yourself but also be open to dif views, and put yourself in uncomfortable situations and challenge your fears bit by bit. I love my partner but he doesn't fully understand either but i am learning perhaps i don't fully understand him either. I get days still where i don't want to interact at all with anyone, moody, but another thing is try to set aside your emotions, i know kettle calling black, im working on it too, but getting the job done and learning to overcome your weaknesses make for a more functional relationship. Ive been told some harsh truths as infp, lazy, selfish, deluded, give up too easily, angry mf, and though it can sting once you except these defaults of an infp you can work on it. Ignorance is one for me. If something didnt go with what i believed i didnt want to hear about it, but growth only comes from listening rather then projecting opinions. And read more non fiction or subjects that will improve your current hangups like im very messy and disorganised with kids and dogs and house to run. While i was honoured to have such a role it takes a lot of personal responsibility something i still struggle with but learn about yourself and the areas and maybe get tips from those who excel in that area. Doing chunks of work in between relaxation helps productivity but changing gears from one to the other can be difficult as i can get in loops or ruts. Understanding yourself, all facets, particularly the ones you don't want to admit to yourself, will make you understand others better and that while you may consider them this and that they have hang ups just like you only different which we make consider insensitive or arrogant or even narcissistic but in the end strength will come from all the tough times but you got to be able to withstand the storm and not hide while it brews. Gain them scars, gain those hardships and be stronger for it then write write write and read read read but make sure you experiment and interact with people. I used to look down all the time, now while i still suffer anxiety, i can go out and not necessarily have that deep compulsion to not look people in the eyes or smile or speak up. Our voices are only as timid and unheard as we make it. You want your opinion to matter stop dribbling crap and read up so when your voicing yourself to be that teacher and wise person it comes from truth not just an idealised idea in your head plus personal experiences are a must. Don't be couch potato for too long. I was for 20 odd years before a mental breakdown as reality hit forced me out of my comfort zone. Sensitivity is who we are, we cry, we yell and get angry, we laugh, we cry and laugh, we are human and we all as a collective group of different personalities and characters have something to learn and gain from each others points of views. 🎉❤😊🙏 fear is only what you don't see, so pinpoint it and expose it it will have no power over you then...
@Miochh
@Miochh 3 жыл бұрын
I relate so much to not wanting to do the dishes 😭 same goes with with anything that doesn't feel exciting to me. I just leave it to the last minute and then regret my procrastinating later 😂
@BongosMuscular
@BongosMuscular Жыл бұрын
People do not like being called out on their BS, the logical traps, the lies. We are extremely blunt, passionate and intense in doing so aannd, as i learned the hard way, this will come back and bite you in the ass.
@flamingrobin5957
@flamingrobin5957 2 жыл бұрын
i dont think love is ever hard. if you've been loved well love comes easy. grace is the key to love not based on others performance
@WillinovaTV
@WillinovaTV 4 жыл бұрын
11:31 “ROBOTRONIC” I felt that
@flamingrobin5957
@flamingrobin5957 2 жыл бұрын
im a very confrontational infp not in a bad way. but people often don't know how to handle me. i guess my Northwest polite passive culture really irritates me so i have adapted to try and make a difference by training people to have necessary conversations
@cycrachel1578
@cycrachel1578 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Lex! I'm an INFP and I love your videos, they make me feel so understood!! 💕
@wimsylogic65
@wimsylogic65 4 жыл бұрын
U story and what you're saying sounds just like me in my husband. Since I started looking into my personality type have been rather shocked like you look into a dictionary to find the meaning of Of something and then seeing Your own picture. I'm amazed by how accurate these videos are to me.
@baymac7483
@baymac7483 2 жыл бұрын
Lex, thank you so much for your videos!! Without them I would have never discovered my true self and the way to cope with my “flaws” in a way that helps me and the people around me! Once I took the MBTI I got INFP (I took it twice too lol 😂) from there I started watching your videos and I have more of a sense of myself and I’m so grateful for it!! Thank you girl!! Keep up your hard work! It doesn’t go unnoticed! 🥰🥰🥰
@dionysialemonaki273
@dionysialemonaki273 4 жыл бұрын
Lex,your videos always make me feel understood and seen. Thank you for this one 🙏🤗
@Lewiss721
@Lewiss721 3 жыл бұрын
Pretty much everytime someone leaves me they say it's because they thought I didn't love(even tho I most likely really did) or they say I'm too perfect and I deserve someone better :'c
@Brenda-uf8pk
@Brenda-uf8pk 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos they help met to accept my personality and nature. I grew up in a pretty harsh environment and seeing apart of myself represented in a positive light is super helpful❤️💕👑⭐️
@KingNelly205
@KingNelly205 4 жыл бұрын
love this video somebody understands me. INFP here and just subscribed.
@Feoshyt
@Feoshyt 2 жыл бұрын
I've always been too open with my heart, I'm idealistic and always see the good in people. This has made things so hard, I have been hurt and recently left an abusive relationship that has left me hardened to others. I want to be with someone who values their relationships, who is loyal and wants to know me,who can SEE me and love me for what I am. So now, having a crush on someone, it's so uncomfortable! The anxiety that I feel while my head and heart fight over control. I just end up turning inward more and more, effectively sabotaging any chance of connecting with someone.
@miwa297
@miwa297 3 жыл бұрын
this is unrelated but i just really wanna mention it. you're so gorgeous😍!
@arjuscarlet55555
@arjuscarlet55555 4 жыл бұрын
I'm not hard to love I'm just an acquired taste and I've known that for a very long time now.😂😂😂😂
@readingnarcissism
@readingnarcissism 4 жыл бұрын
Such a great take on our personality...can relate to all !
@hichipoky
@hichipoky 3 жыл бұрын
love your honesty. thanks Lex😄
@santinamarie4699
@santinamarie4699 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome video glad I found you
@raynemarie1932
@raynemarie1932 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I love you lex but I just round out i mistyped myslef as an INFP and im actually an ISFP. Im still going to watch u tho cause I love you🥰💛😂😂😂lol
@AprilTomorrow
@AprilTomorrow 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the affirming video!
@iMobinator
@iMobinator 4 жыл бұрын
spot on, ty!
@FifiM.17
@FifiM.17 3 жыл бұрын
as an INFP I can relate 100%
@saracarlson-kringle
@saracarlson-kringle 4 жыл бұрын
I now investigate and vet the people who want a piece of me. Just because someone 'sees' you, doesn't mean they won't use or abuse you.
@danieltaylor42384
@danieltaylor42384 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you thank you thank you. I feel like you’re telling me about myself to a T!
@tobolitocogito
@tobolitocogito 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I didn’t understand why I keep triggering demons in people. It’s my ego-demolishing bullshit filter of Truth
@caramelcocoa234
@caramelcocoa234 3 жыл бұрын
Best comment I’ve read in a while!!!
@caramelcocoa234
@caramelcocoa234 3 жыл бұрын
9:53 literally me watching this video instead of doing the dishes to understand why I’m this way. And it’s a priority !!!!
@rebeccaweichey7237
@rebeccaweichey7237 3 жыл бұрын
Yes we are intense and deep.
@TotalRookie_LV
@TotalRookie_LV 3 жыл бұрын
Well, if it's so rare, how come I have INFP-T Mediator result too and I found this channel? XD However, when I did the test two years ago, my result was ISFP-T - type: Turbulent Adventurer, role: Explorer. But that is because on several of those categories (energy, nature and identity) I'm really, really close to 50/50, so I can switch between them sometimes, I guess, but "mind" and "tactics" are more definitely set.
@etherealblue
@etherealblue 3 жыл бұрын
I rarely give anyone a like and your video wasn't that great but I felt it with my fi that you kind of understood me. So I liked your video. Now I feel like a jackass. Don't stop making videos just because I sound like an ass.
@iHengbok
@iHengbok 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! You said it all perfectly. Thank you!
@NetStrider
@NetStrider 2 жыл бұрын
I feel so understood :)
@steviejames8334
@steviejames8334 3 жыл бұрын
what is the song is this video?? so good i keep zoning out everytime it fades in...
@loisrabies8713
@loisrabies8713 4 жыл бұрын
I’m married but I can’t figure out how to type my husband and he refuses any tests lol.
@bernadettebockis4120
@bernadettebockis4120 4 жыл бұрын
There is the 4-question test.
@DagToreLarsen
@DagToreLarsen 2 жыл бұрын
No, I dont think INFPs are hard to love)) I found out recently that my wife through 13 years is an INFP and nobody understands me better than her. She is my love, confident and best friend. And our 12 year old daughter is also an INFP. And for me? I am INFP 9w1, Melancholic - Aquarius sun, Libra rising, Aries Moon and Pieces in Venus and DF - As a INFP I tend to be drawn to other feelers and empaths. Thinking and sensing people not so. I feel they dont "get me" as well as feeling types.
@abigailracheldewolfe6421
@abigailracheldewolfe6421 3 жыл бұрын
TY for your amazing insights. :") So helpful and understanding.
@luzvimindaleonor5777
@luzvimindaleonor5777 4 жыл бұрын
But I really somehow feel I can be difficult to love as an INFP. Because, after all, being understood is not something I wanted to require from people around me. I somehow learned to get by seeing people go because of my complexities. Hehe... By the way, thank you for this video! I felt mirrored. 👍
@pennystpierre4740
@pennystpierre4740 4 жыл бұрын
I Agree with you Lex.
@TheProdigalPrincess777
@TheProdigalPrincess777 4 жыл бұрын
I think I am an Infp. Every personality test says that i am. And all the descriptions of an infp. But people have said I am mean 😂. Several times. But I don't put up with BS. Actually some the Heyoka traits seem to hit home as well. Either way I'm a weirdo and I am loved unconditionally by someone. But it ain't easy on his poor soul. I have given him gray hair in 5 years.
@sakyathalagahawatta5969
@sakyathalagahawatta5969 4 жыл бұрын
Same ,I'm an infp and everyone calls me egotistical cuz I dont put up with BS either , im usually very patient but there are certain things that tick me and everyone thinks I'm weird cuz I don't act normal which is why I've never dated anyone yet lol 😂.
@TheProdigalPrincess777
@TheProdigalPrincess777 4 жыл бұрын
@@sakyathalagahawatta5969feel ya pain. Literally 😂😂
@sakyathalagahawatta5969
@sakyathalagahawatta5969 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheProdigalPrincess777 😂💔
@N00b4qu1
@N00b4qu1 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, give the an excuse to blame something else other than myself for my failed romatic life no wait, it's still myself
@shabanahameed80
@shabanahameed80 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you dear..
@asmith1393
@asmith1393 Жыл бұрын
Not to be doom and gloom, but as an infp male, what this told me is that I'm pretty much doom to be single.
@allana6960
@allana6960 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your mind and heart ❤️ I'm really enjoying all your videos!!!
@Robidu1973
@Robidu1973 3 жыл бұрын
The point is, you are hard to love if and only if people don't understand you. Since xSxJ seems to be the most common group, people frequently assume that things have to run a certain way (of course, different xSxJ can clash, because everyone has a different perception on how things are supposed to be, and if people don't sync their perceptions, you are inevitably incurring trouble). This, of course, isn't going to work with xNFx, especially when we can clearly see problems appear on the horizon. According to my experience that's dismissed all too frequently ("You're making this up"), but once crap actually hits the fan, people are quite dumbfounded.
@AS-jq4lb
@AS-jq4lb 4 жыл бұрын
haha, i guess we should have the title ”Chief Bubble Burster” 😃
@atomiccritter6492
@atomiccritter6492 4 жыл бұрын
I would actually say that INTP is probably more deserving of that title - I think INFPs know social dynamics a bit too much to generally rock the boat - I never get the impression that INTPs particualrly care or have a clue about social niceties to not burst bubbles - got to love them for it tbh
@GoMary
@GoMary 3 жыл бұрын
This is so me!
@meemsasa21
@meemsasa21 3 жыл бұрын
I relate to all of it...
@sakyathalagahawatta5969
@sakyathalagahawatta5969 4 жыл бұрын
Recently everyone's been saying I have too high expectations and that I dont live in the real world which is probably y I've never been in a relationship. I often wonder whether thered be someone who would accept me for who I am rather than changing me . Does anybody else have any experience in this situation ?
@AlexBermann
@AlexBermann 4 жыл бұрын
That basically was my situation until 3 days ago. Before that, my attitude was basically, "I prefer my fantasy world, then" because getting in a relationship just to say I was in a relationship seemed a waste of time and energy.
@sakyathalagahawatta5969
@sakyathalagahawatta5969 4 жыл бұрын
@@AlexBermann same that's exactly what I feel
@ashwinigautam7282
@ashwinigautam7282 4 жыл бұрын
Subscribed🙂🙂🙂💙💙
@bernadettebockis4120
@bernadettebockis4120 4 жыл бұрын
OMG. Are you me?
@coutsieD
@coutsieD 3 жыл бұрын
We're the human version of cilantro 😆
@silvio.r8443
@silvio.r8443 3 жыл бұрын
Have you looked into dr elaine Aron's research into highly sensitive people? She has some great talks on KZbin
@Eveava2383
@Eveava2383 3 жыл бұрын
This is me.. I’m so sorry for my behavior
@stephenfegely
@stephenfegely 4 жыл бұрын
Powerful
@hayleyneal6558
@hayleyneal6558 2 жыл бұрын
Lex what is your partner MBTI type?
@boopdoop2251
@boopdoop2251 2 жыл бұрын
I’m an infp and I don’t have any issues stating my opinions lol
@gis3leandrade
@gis3leandrade 4 жыл бұрын
hard to love? nah, I am adorable! *.* hehehe
@spacemonkey2546
@spacemonkey2546 3 жыл бұрын
Do you need help moving? I'm free if you do. 😇❤️😘
@miriamcooper1320
@miriamcooper1320 4 жыл бұрын
What about an infp going through loss?
@carolin2220
@carolin2220 3 жыл бұрын
100% accurate
@runningupthathill7
@runningupthathill7 3 жыл бұрын
Hello pretty what is your ennetype?
@angleslikeyou537
@angleslikeyou537 2 жыл бұрын
shes INFP
@juliemoyer5656
@juliemoyer5656 4 жыл бұрын
Lol... my partner and I call it Juliesplaining...
@cherrytreelanesoapcompany3724
@cherrytreelanesoapcompany3724 3 жыл бұрын
This is 100%
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