When an INFP has a crush on you

[@zephdo2971]

yep. time is really precious for me as an INFP. I only spend my time on people i like

[@kithigginson4649]

As a male INFP, this is all very relatable.

[@JonesHand]

ENFJ: I think she is infp, but she could be isfj or isfp. We've been flirting since we met a few months ago. She's letting me into her head, she's (over 21) half my age. I'm taking my time. Smart?

[@JonesHand]

I think I should give her some space. Certainly complaining about being single, that twenty years age difference between us, scares me. If she's enfp, she would have given up weeks ago.

[@NPSvideo678]

@@JonesHandthis made me LOL. Sorry. 😂

[@CatchMyDriftfishing]

We just found your channel not too long ago and we were hoping you guys would post more videos soon! I'm also an INFP man happily married to an INFJ woman. We've had our share of struggles and difficult times but we do get along so well. We share the same quirky sense of humour and know each other well enough to anticipate when the other will say or do something and laugh about it. We share similar likes and hobbies, like hiking, being outdoors, photography and fishing to name a few. She truly is my best friend and I'm so very thankful she was patient enough to wait around for me lol I proposed to my wife at the Niagara Whirlpool. All she knew was we were going fishing there and I had bought a new "lure" for her. She also got shaky leg syndrome when I proposed haha

[@infjAJ]

We love this so much!! Shared hobbies/interests are the best and something we’re so grateful for. I wonder if that’s more common in infj/infp relationships

[@CatchMyDriftfishing]

@@infjAJ I think it is maybe a combination of similar upbringings but also the fact that both personality types are creative and artistic and although they may not share exactly the same hobbies/ arts in every aspect, each one can appreciate and understand that it's what the other is passionate about.

[@translationmlt2128]

So accurate! I feel like if we are interested about someone, they're never gonna be able to tell haha 😂

[@chrisbulcraig8983]

You guys are delightful . . keep that openness + care going! . . from a INFJ loving my INFP after 38yrs 💕. .

[@tinari_9275]

HAI. I just finished your INFP INFJ relationship video and aghhhhh I’m so happy to see the date being 4 years and then seeing this now and it’s the lovely duo 🤭 thought i was too late. I am an INFP and my gf (Future wife) is an INFJ. We are LDR atm… but we’ve sat long enough in liking each other that I can say without a fathom of a doubt that we love each other. It was great to hear what it’s like for the types from start, interact with each other in the real world. Every video is a hypothetical…. Theoretical video, I was looking for real intimate, informative videos to base myself off of. So happy that I found y’all and idk if it still stands that you’re interested in hearing other’s perspectives but I find it that I isolate when I have to use up my social battery. She has one too and it depletes faster than mine, but she has a way of putting on a mask till the party is over. I feel like I do the same too but she instantly asks me if I’m okay like she’s the one with her finger in my switch. We call to go to sleep and I cried(I was happy she was back) when she called me back after it accidentally disconnected. She was getting flustered but I thought about her sleep and instantly pushed my happiness down till she was asleep… then I kicked and screamed on mute.

[@cutiepi3_patti]

When i have a crush on someone i ignored, look away, or even run away 😭🤣

[@ammar9279]

Infp can make the first move but it's better for people to want them/making the first move especially if you're an Se user . Don't worry, infp usually like people making the first move and if the infp rejects you it will be the subtlest thing ever haha.

[@NPSvideo678]

For sure. This INSP male doesn’t want to hurt anyone.

[@PersonWhoAsked]

(INFP) first crush made me confused and overwhelmed for a while when it first started. ended up with a crush on my childhood friend. concealed it well the first six months, till it got harder to hide. i got more awkward, but as time went on it became less overwhelming. it seems like to me he likes me, and my family keeps saying he definitely does. (honestly the first time i was told he definitely likes me i was actually terrified of the idea that he likes me. i didn't feel ready for that experience back then. felt like a punch to the gut when i was told. it was pretty daunting). i have liked him like that for at least a year now. i managed to text him saying i care about him. also my best friend told him i'm kinda nervous around him. i wonder if he just doesn't want to risk asking? he has started to visit more often. maybe I just need to give it time, or maybe i'll ask in the future. he does show a lot of signs. it's less overwhelming now. i enjoy the feeling now. (i remember asking my older sister what it was like to like someone, and i was told it was a warm feeling, and i'll just know when it happens. but nobody warned me it would be this intense! 😅 i guess it's a little different for everyone. it felt like fear nerves excitement hot and sick all at once, all through my core. big shock when i got that reaction for the first time. i tried to blame it on just simply being happy to see my friend, or feeling under the weather. eventually accepted it and came to enjoy it. spent the year working on myself, maturing, getting fit and healthy, discovering a lot about myself and vastly changing, partially to feel more ready for loving another person).

[@ammar9279]

I've waited thank you for posting 👌

[@Tanner0]

07:31 - I think You calling him a player gives us INFP men way too much credit, but we will take it.

[@NPSvideo678]

Heck yeah it does. I’m just “cautious.”

[@imi_xo]

So glad I've found your channel. :D Love your vibe and energy. New subbie from the UK. -- an INFJ

[@juni_pearl_9591]

Even as an INFP female this is extremely accurate.

[@heatherhafer3333]

Infp here. I agree. I relate to this guy.

[@Mindsetolympics]

He talks like an infp. Very intentional with what he says for sure (im an infp female)

[@Sweetie_87]

Woo -- can you do a vid about INFJ crushes xx

[@aladdout9454]

How are you both looking prettier with time!!?🥺🥺

[@Krishnapriya1]

Thank youuuuuuuu ❤❤❤❤

[@Nicryn]

It's so damn relatable!

[@talonthorn]

Am I right in thinking that an INFP expresses their like for someone by sharing things they equally value? I think it's their authenticity that makes them transparent in this way. That might actually be a Fi thing too.

[@josh34578]

Thoughts on limerence vs. a healthy crush?

[@translationmlt2128]

I heard infp and infj have this limerce thing a lot

[@heatherhafer3333]

​@@translationmlt2128what is limerence?

[@translationmlt2128]

@@heatherhafer3333 it's when you infatuate on someone more than normal, to the point of obsession without having a lot of reasons to

[@heatherhafer3333]

@@translationmlt2128 Thanks

[@wally4golly]

Someday future self

[@Whyareyoustalkingme123]

How long should someone wait to make a move on an INFP? I don’t wanna rush him

[@Nicryn]

If he is spending time with you, helping you with things. Watch movies for you, shows interest in your Hobby's and searches for deep conversations, the chances are high :)

[@aladdout9454]

So? any updates? Did u ask him what he meant by that?

[@majorbooklover420]

Where are ya'll from? I detect some Southern accents lol! Love the video!

[@infjAJ]

Haha we’re from Maryland!

[@majorbooklover420]

@@infjAJ Sending love from Texas! ❤️

[@squeenie77]

I have met an INFP and I am interested in him, but he says he doesn't know what he wants yet. Can y'all give me some advice?

[@Nicryn]

Give him a little time of freedom. If he comes on his own, it's the biggest indicator. If he don't know what he wants, and I am honest, he don't want you.

[@mikicerise6250]

Show interest in his anxieties. If he is saying that, there are things nagging him, making him worry it wouldn't work. Maybe things he's scared to tell you because it might ruin what you already have. Tell him you'd like to talk about it. INFP males have a very feminine disposition about relationships, we're cautious, wary of being too vulernable too quickly, and tend to take things very slowly. Currently I'm getting to know someone but I'm also unsure... why? They're very political and I'm worried they just would not tolerate me disagreeing with them about their politics. I'd *like* to clarify that with them... but when I subtly suggest, "hey... something's bothering me..." they just don't pick up the signal and reply, "oh yeah, let's talk, I want to hear what you're worried about." So I'm kind of waiting for the right moment to broach the topic myself. Meanwhile... well, I don't want to go too far into an emotional rabbit hole that might end up blowing up in my face. So I'm my typical ambiguous self, not wanting to push them away, but not wanting them too close either when I don't feel secure about it. 🤷

[@paulsang-02]

Never related to a video more…!

[@peaches039]

You two are even cuter together now, so sweet to hear that you're engaged, congrats!! Don't know if you have talked about it in previous videos, but do you know what your enneagram type or instinctual variants are?

[@infjAJ]

Thank you so much! I believe I’m a 4w5 sx/sp/so and Brooks is 9w1 sp/sx/so

[@peaches039]

@@infjAJ It's so nice to see the infj - infp dynamic with other people. I share your instinct stack with an 4w3 type and one of my dearest friends is an Infp. Brooks expressions remind me so much of him. Thank you! 🤗