Does He LOVE YOU! (Signs he's into you and he loves you)

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Chommi Kenya

Chommi Kenya

Күн бұрын

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@marib1881
@marib1881 2 ай бұрын
When a Man loves you....., Baaaabbbbyyyyyy.... He will leave NO ROOM for questions, you here me.... NONE! He is very loud with his actions. And leaves you with only security within the relationship with everything he does in that relationship with you. If you have to question anything... its not and never was anything serious. You are a placeholder. Leave and Move on fast and not slow.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
You hear that 🫵
@Bdiamondz
@Bdiamondz 2 ай бұрын
Maybe he's being a placeholder for the woman ....it can go both ways.
@marib1881
@marib1881 2 ай бұрын
@Bdiamondz True. I'm just speaking to the POV though.
@sesethuntaphane3933
@sesethuntaphane3933 2 ай бұрын
Yes, girl... I hear you, and I'm listening to check on mine.
@saluuud
@saluuud 2 ай бұрын
😆😆😆@ "...fast and not slow"!
@sarahsmile2883
@sarahsmile2883 2 ай бұрын
Normalize women focusing on their divine purpose which is NOT a man and then god will send him in when we are ready .
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely agree!!! You focus more on you and build you!
@Bdiamondz
@Bdiamondz 28 күн бұрын
@@sarahsmile2883 Sometimes, we have to practice what we preach and talk to ourselves to make it happen. Also, practice accountability.
@strawberrysmoofie
@strawberrysmoofie 2 ай бұрын
You’ll never really KNOW a man loves you until you’ve been genuinely loved by a man before. It’s really difficult to tell without that, but as soon as you meet a man who pours into you? Hoooo child, the bar will be raised so high
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
I absolutely agree 💯 And hey thank you for watching ❤️
@JiHu-d8c
@JiHu-d8c 2 ай бұрын
Yeaaaaaasssssss this is so true. You know what love feels like. And honey, it feels great. It’s precious.
@FresaPeroNoParaTuMermelada
@FresaPeroNoParaTuMermelada 2 ай бұрын
God first. Any man second.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
PERIOD!!!!!!!! Thank you for watching 😊
@ninashirley432
@ninashirley432 Ай бұрын
Amen
@geremymason5936
@geremymason5936 2 ай бұрын
Take it from a man that fell in love with a woman, he should want to see that you are ok, even if there’s no gain for him. That’s unconditional love. It may seem a little extreme, but a man that is truly in love with you will want you to be happy, healthy, and thriving, even if it means he gets nothing from it. He’d honestly be willing to let you go from his life if he felt like he wasn’t adding any value and especially if he felt like he was causing you harm. He should take an interest in you and know your likes to do things that matter to you. He will not use things that you told him in moments of vulnerability to use as manipulative tactics against you. He should put forth an honest effort to see you smile and to show you how much you mean to him. He should also be able to be vulnerable with you so that you know what’s going on with him. He should also be able to express why he loves you outside of himself. The last segment was correct - it should not be what you do for him, but why he loves you as a person. A man that loves you will be willing to go to the ends of the earth and stretch himself thin just to show you how much you mean to him. And don’t get convenience confused with sacrifice. A man that sacrifices for you loves you.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
This is incredible Thank you 😊
@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721
@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 2 ай бұрын
​@@Chommikenya 😔🥺😭 Thank you for sharing. Can a man be in a relationship for 10 years, propose marriage twice then when rejected fall out of love but stay around for the kids and occasional inner course with his baby's mother. Then me another and secure (lady b)her before officially releasing the BM without taking time to heal in between relationships? Can a man just drop some they are "in love with" for another person?
@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721
@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 2 ай бұрын
And what about the saying "what one woman won't do, another one will" line. Does that still apply when man is truly in love? Or i mean "loves a woman"? There is a difference.
@geremymason5936
@geremymason5936 2 ай бұрын
@@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 I don’t separate the two when it comes to romantic relationships. There is a difference between loving someone (platonic, familial, etc) and being in love with someone (romantic) but I’m specifically talking about romantic relationships with this post.
@Ang-iz5hv
@Ang-iz5hv 3 ай бұрын
Actions ALWAYS speak louder than words, in ANY relationship.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
@@Ang-iz5hv Louder please 📢
@ItsAuntieKaren
@ItsAuntieKaren 2 ай бұрын
A man can only truly love when he is driven by the Holy Spirit.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Am Glad you said it!!! Thank you
@BrolloDiPodo
@BrolloDiPodo 2 ай бұрын
Based and Christ-pilled 👍
@marciebaker9816
@marciebaker9816 2 ай бұрын
Pleeeease
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
@@marciebaker9816 You disagree? 😂
@christinacreates2393
@christinacreates2393 2 ай бұрын
What about people who aren’t Christian? Muslims don’t love their wives?????? What about Buddhist people? They can’t demonstrate deep true love for their partners???? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
@Tresdrole123
@Tresdrole123 2 ай бұрын
You don’t need to watch a 24 minute video to know whether or not a man loves you. If he loves you, you’ll know.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
EXACTLY 💯
@Heygirl-Hey
@Heygirl-Hey 3 ай бұрын
The fact that you're watching this video He definitely doesn't love you Run ... You will eventually find better.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 PERIOD
@chewie6988
@chewie6988 3 ай бұрын
Plot twist. I am a guy watching this to make sure I am doing right by the person I love. 😂
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 3 ай бұрын
​@@chewie6988 you're a good man!!😂
@Maskman_original
@Maskman_original 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 stupid
@cro8sandy
@cro8sandy 2 ай бұрын
Why do they ask for number when they don't like you
@colorfulsin
@colorfulsin 2 ай бұрын
Sorry but this is exhausting. Men should just date each other
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
I absolutely agree 💯
@namimindyaw1201
@namimindyaw1201 2 ай бұрын
Exactly. 😂😂😂
@OrganicallyYahs
@OrganicallyYahs 2 ай бұрын
They already do
@jimmie8101
@jimmie8101 2 ай бұрын
It's still just as confusing. Trust me.
@nemotheo1629
@nemotheo1629 2 ай бұрын
I told someone am opting out coz it's just a never ending rules and you are never sure for real why do I have to go through all this ?
@jadegreen1554
@jadegreen1554 Ай бұрын
Be careful with all of these: • he will make you feel there is no other woman • he will give all attention to you • he will share intimate secrets • he will be stuck under you. Be careful with all of these, because they can present when someone is genuine, but these can also present with love-bombing from a narcissist. Be careful. With the lovebombing you WILL feel your body and gut rejecting him.
@JesusGeek33
@JesusGeek33 27 күн бұрын
Sadly a narc can do all this until you’re comfortable
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 27 күн бұрын
And that's why you need to know the signs of a Narcissist Man Hey thank you for watching ❤️
@JesusGeek33
@JesusGeek33 27 күн бұрын
@@Chommikenya Yes! Although my journey is unfortunate but I’m grateful I know how callous people can be
@ishabellanamthrak1015
@ishabellanamthrak1015 2 ай бұрын
There is no formula.... people love each other or don't. Be yourself.😊
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Yes Be yourself!! Thank you for watching ❤️
@koyankrumah9857
@koyankrumah9857 2 ай бұрын
Isn’t everyone else tired of men and their games? Why come after me if you have no intention of doing right by me? Enough of the science behind men and their behaviours or lack of! It’s tiring and I am tired of hearing it!
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
I know right!!! It's just like let them go date they fellow men!!
@djshockafrica4330
@djshockafrica4330 2 ай бұрын
This!
@Mynameshelenbtw
@Mynameshelenbtw 2 ай бұрын
😂 yes. Like just forget it!!
@briasworld8
@briasworld8 2 ай бұрын
🤷👏💅
@marisolrivera5255
@marisolrivera5255 2 ай бұрын
A man who loves you won't have you questioning and committed and vulnerable find ways to be around you and leave no room for any other. He respects you physically emotionally and spiritually.
@mercijoy3006
@mercijoy3006 25 күн бұрын
Fact!!!! I can testify to this. We have had a splendid year with him. I can not wait to spend the rest of my life with him, and I pray to God to bless him in the next lifetime.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 7 күн бұрын
@LissaVents
@LissaVents 2 ай бұрын
Damn I aint never been loved😂😂😂
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂It's not that serious babe.....
@Laceeadventuretime
@Laceeadventuretime 2 ай бұрын
Same sis 😭
@alchemizedsoul12
@alchemizedsoul12 2 ай бұрын
give that love to yourself ❤
@UnknownUnknown-yl1lt
@UnknownUnknown-yl1lt 2 ай бұрын
Same here😒
@catherinemuller3277
@catherinemuller3277 2 ай бұрын
@@Laceeadventuretime Me, too... It's okay. We will practice self love. We are God's daughters and worthy of love.
@lauramckiernan3213
@lauramckiernan3213 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, alot of men do all that and they are into you in the beginning, but dont confuse being into you with wanting a relationship.
@nikicarter2048
@nikicarter2048 2 ай бұрын
Remember gaslighting an love bombing an manipulation
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Love bombing!!
@KurosakiLuvar01
@KurosakiLuvar01 2 ай бұрын
@@lauramckiernan3213 exactly. That love bombing bullshite
@MelissaChildofGod378
@MelissaChildofGod378 2 ай бұрын
This truth right here. NOT GOING TO TELL YOU 'YOUR CRAZY AND DELUSIONAL' when your telling him how you feel
@TheSweetie223
@TheSweetie223 2 ай бұрын
THAT PART !!! thats what im going through currently & just ended it today. I couldn't take that shit no more. I was bout ready to pew pew his ass so i have to remove myself. Can't talk to him about shit not even my day at work without him brushing it off or making it seem like im complaining because i had a bad day. Girl i hate this mutha fcka. Just writing about him is triggering me
@TheSweetie223
@TheSweetie223 2 ай бұрын
He's literally the human squidward from SpongeBob.
@Mindful.Movement.01
@Mindful.Movement.01 Ай бұрын
@@TheSweetie223awww sorry you went through that love ❤. Good for you for choosing yourself though
@TiffieB-
@TiffieB- 2 ай бұрын
😂 @ 8:41 He said “He won’t let you know about his other wives because he really respects you.” That sounds crazy!!
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
@@TiffieB- listen to that again 😂😭
@GB_008
@GB_008 2 ай бұрын
Chile! 😂 He was just another diaspora dusty.😅🤭
@nikicarter2048
@nikicarter2048 2 ай бұрын
Basically when a man really love a woman. He has the same emotions an respect for you like you do him. Or someone that you was really into. Women act like this all the time.. but males dont return the same love back. Instead they take advantage an dog the girl just because she loves him. 😢
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
So true!! Thank you for watching ❤️
@CJN5787
@CJN5787 2 ай бұрын
It also means HE doesn't love himself.....RUN
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
@@CJN5787 Thank you for watching ❤️
@CJN5787
@CJN5787 Ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya I had to to remind myself how grateful I am for my life and to remind you that God still has a reason for you to still be here. 💕 and 🚨
@Thrivegrl24
@Thrivegrl24 2 ай бұрын
So what this video is confirming is my man my man my man my man lovesssssssss meeeee.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
PERIOD GURL 💞
@tnt3929
@tnt3929 2 ай бұрын
@@Thrivegrl24 Right! Mine definitely does...but I already knew that.😁
@KL31NGR055
@KL31NGR055 2 ай бұрын
Same here. I can't believe this is actually happening! ❤
@UnknownUnknown-yl1lt
@UnknownUnknown-yl1lt 2 ай бұрын
Must be nice..I'm happy for you sis💕
@natural3362
@natural3362 2 ай бұрын
When a man loves you, he won't cheat. A man rather die to protect his women and cheaters rather be with someone else and he doesn't care whether you're hurt or not, he only cares about himself So please divorce any cheaters. Have self worth. You owe it to yourself, the only one that has been there for you in time of hardship Don't let any men mock you.cheating is a mockery on you and your marriage
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
@@natural3362 Thank you for watching ❤️
@marisolrivera5255
@marisolrivera5255 2 ай бұрын
Actions speak louder than words how a man's treats you
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
True!
@OItsSasha
@OItsSasha 2 ай бұрын
2:11 I dont take trauma dumping from a guy as a sign he's into me
@EasyBreezie
@EasyBreezie 2 ай бұрын
Guys that trauma dump do this with ALL women. Lmao I don’t take that as a special sign either.
@cecee3480
@cecee3480 2 ай бұрын
Don’t. I’m a dancer and I hear men’s problems all the time. They will pay me (a stranger) to talk about problems and gain pity before they go see a therapist. They don’t want actual help but for a woman to be like awww want me to make you feel better and justify their behavior and life choices.
@ba8501
@ba8501 2 ай бұрын
I was about to say that lol
@phillyzstyar
@phillyzstyar 7 күн бұрын
First time I heard the phrase was from this guy im currently talking too… He said I’m sorry for trauma dumping 😮
@jadegreen1554
@jadegreen1554 Ай бұрын
This was one of the better ones: “When a man loves you he will be wrapped up in the totality of the energy of you. I repeat: he will be wrapped up in the totality of the energy of you.” But he still respects you fully. Be careful with this one though, because it doesn’t mean possessive or obsessive over you like you are property. That is a dangerous man, and you need to run.
@Freakymum1645
@Freakymum1645 2 ай бұрын
Modern dating advice for men is to treat women that he really likes with indifference and rudeness. Just saying.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
That's toxic masculinity
@Freakymum1645
@Freakymum1645 2 ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya yes, and that’s bad. Thanks for your agreement.
@marisolrivera5255
@marisolrivera5255 2 ай бұрын
A man would love you at your best and at your worst and still accept you .
@shineepropertyof5hinee
@shineepropertyof5hinee 2 ай бұрын
If you have to ask if he likes/loves you already have your answer x
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
@@shineepropertyof5hinee oouh!!!! Thank you for watching ❤️
@روايةبانغتان
@روايةبانغتان 2 ай бұрын
Puting a ring in your finger before putting a babie in you belly... Good point
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
@@روايةبانغتان Thank you for watching ❤️
@روايةبانغتان
@روايةبانغتان Ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya you welcome 😊
@Mindful.Movement.01
@Mindful.Movement.01 Ай бұрын
Lmao 😂that girl who talked about leaving stuff at his house 😂😂😂 she need to speak for herself I take all my shit baby cause I don’t ever know when imma need it again. I didn’t know people still do that.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
😂 people still do that actually
@Mindful.Movement.01
@Mindful.Movement.01 Ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya 😂😂😂 omg that’s crazy
@serenitygilles7064
@serenitygilles7064 2 ай бұрын
Good stuff guys! The painful truth we NEED to hear 💖
@fatouleigh2968
@fatouleigh2968 2 ай бұрын
Watching this video makes me miss my late husband. He was a real man and manifested all these positive behaviours. He loved me and I love him.❤
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
I love to see this ❤️ May He rest in peace 🕊️ Thank you for watching ❤️
@mamadara2146
@mamadara2146 2 ай бұрын
Before we got married, my man always had a reason to meet in the afternoon. he often suddenly appears in front of my workplace. and send texts regularly and patiently wait for replies without getting angry (I'm too busy at work sometimes). He always sticks around.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
@@mamadara2146 Thank you!!!
@gabriellacindyxoxo
@gabriellacindyxoxo 2 ай бұрын
always forgive is not love but no slef respect
@suselperez2409
@suselperez2409 Ай бұрын
They’re not capable of true love but they’re excellent at manipulation.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
Be careful!!!
@SatumainenOlento
@SatumainenOlento 2 ай бұрын
Great video! Extremely well done compilation!!! ❤❤❤
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching 😊
@jadegreen1554
@jadegreen1554 Ай бұрын
The Nigerian one was totally toxic and sickening sorry. “When a man loves you, he will hide his other relationships from you” 🤦‍♀️🤢
@TrulyMademoizelle
@TrulyMademoizelle Ай бұрын
Facts get off my screen
@jadegreen1554
@jadegreen1554 Ай бұрын
@@TrulyMademoizelle sorry for Nigerian women and children. Very very sorry for them.
@xoxobutterfly
@xoxobutterfly 2 ай бұрын
I give up 😢 im just so exhausted
@Laceeadventuretime
@Laceeadventuretime 2 ай бұрын
Same 🥲
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Let's start prioritizing ourselves now
@shakirasmith6454
@shakirasmith6454 2 ай бұрын
@@Laceeadventuretime off topic, but you are gorgeous! ❤❤
@Laceeadventuretime
@Laceeadventuretime 2 ай бұрын
@@shakirasmith6454 thank you ❤️❤️❤️
@bonnie2057
@bonnie2057 2 ай бұрын
i believe the mens opinion they should know as men what a man feels what a man thinks
@goddessgoldglow
@goddessgoldglow 2 ай бұрын
I can listen to these men all night
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Watch as many times as you want 😄 Thank you for watching ❤️
@Mindful.Movement.01
@Mindful.Movement.01 Ай бұрын
An important thing that I have noticed is that there are barely any videos out there holding men accountable and telling them that they need to heal go to therapy know their worth love themselves yet women are always held to a higher standard and expected to do all this work and when they do level up and heal now it’s no man to choose because they are not being held accountable no one is telling them to pick better no one is telling them to go to therapy. I’m really over all this shit. Women level up and have the chance to choose better only to be told they supposedly gone die alone with cats but the moment a woman picks the wrong man now all of a sudden she should’ve chose better. This why I don’t take them seriously. The jokes write themselves
@namimindyaw1201
@namimindyaw1201 2 ай бұрын
lol. The only comment I agree with is the one who says women are carried away by what men say.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
You disagree with the rest?
@lovelylittlegirl3332
@lovelylittlegirl3332 26 күн бұрын
If you’re watching this video, he probably doesn’t. Not enough to give you the security of expressing it to you anyway.
@nafisaxolmatova1814
@nafisaxolmatova1814 2 ай бұрын
I am married, yet have twin daughters 😢 we had a fight because of his family members were rude and disrespectful to me, I moved to my parents house with daughters one month ago. All he did was just few phone calls telling me that I was wrong and should be more patient and serve to this family ( yeah we live together with his family ) I said I am going to divorce him, he refused said he loves me and his daughters but in reality in this month he never came to see me and daughters. Asked him to send girls warm clothes as summer is ending but he said he didn’t know where it is 😢 I don’t know why I should have such a man in my life if he is not even going to do anything for his daughters
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Wishing You the best in making the right choice that you feel is best for you and your daughters ❤️🌹Much love 🫶 Thank you for watching ❤️
@ndshen
@ndshen Ай бұрын
Divorce him. You deserve better.
@nafisaxolmatova1814
@nafisaxolmatova1814 Ай бұрын
@@ChommikenyaThanks for understanding 😢 I don’t see my future with him
@nafisaxolmatova1814
@nafisaxolmatova1814 Ай бұрын
@@ndshenThanks for support 😢 sometimes not everyone understands why you have to cut people from your life
@Time4change111
@Time4change111 Ай бұрын
Pray dear, this is a hard time for you and your girls, please pray, you deserve protection, respect and you are not maid, you are God's daughter. Please go to the Heavenly Father in your spirit and speak openly with him and allow God to miniter to your heart. Call upon Jesus Christ of Nazareth and allow him to heal you and guide you as the Holy spirit and you guardian Angels guide you. Pray for everyone, including yourself, forgive and let Father lead you with love to the best decision while wsking God to heal your husband and his family dear. God bless ❤ 🫂​@@nafisaxolmatova1814
@artisticagi
@artisticagi 2 ай бұрын
0:34 if you are seeking effort, then run!
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
@@artisticagi This is the one 🔥 Thank you for watching ❤️
@ninashirley432
@ninashirley432 Ай бұрын
Weak men are also more focused on money and how they look in the mirror!
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
@@ninashirley432 that's Deep Thank you for watching ❤️
@cherryb5244
@cherryb5244 2 ай бұрын
These guys only exist in books for me.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
I hope you understand you deserve exactly what you read on those books Thank you for watching ❤️
@maggiemcnally2087
@maggiemcnally2087 Ай бұрын
Listen to these men
@ElevateYourWorth
@ElevateYourWorth Ай бұрын
I’m just here to point out. I cannot stand seeing people driving down the road recording stuff for social media. I could give a crap less if a man loves me, but is inconsiderate on the road of his life my life in the lives of others because he rather be recording videos for content. So they can get likes click and view on social media. Good human beings don’t put the lives of others- at risk for this kind of stuff.
@niekelombard4434
@niekelombard4434 Ай бұрын
He is stationary. Watch carefully.
@petitcoeur-q6r
@petitcoeur-q6r 2 ай бұрын
Yep that ex never truly loved me - definitely always"too busy" so he didn't care about me. He left me and discarded - I was used. A place holder was what I was. They were never in love at all - so good luck in them finding the "one". They never listened to what I said to them - never been vulnerable - so they never trusted me. Avoidants are never going to let their guard down - only for the "right" person apparently - a magical woman that doesn't trigger them and just does what they want and say with no arguing. They never wanted to be around me - they never wanted me around - only for their convenience. I was not valued - he didn't treat me right. Them saying "I love you" is bs.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Glad you know better now!! Thank you for watching ❤️
@petitcoeur-q6r
@petitcoeur-q6r 2 ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya yep sure do - his actions are more important than empty words and promises :)
@lala5061
@lala5061 2 ай бұрын
👏🏽🙌🏽
@ndshen
@ndshen Ай бұрын
Listen to his actions
@Blackgirlmagicbeyou
@Blackgirlmagicbeyou 3 ай бұрын
This is so true
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 3 ай бұрын
💯 Thank you for watching
@VictoriaHerizon
@VictoriaHerizon Ай бұрын
Lmfao if he truly loves us, you wouldn’t watching this shit lmfao.
@Mindful.Movement.01
@Mindful.Movement.01 Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Iamkrystamarie
@Iamkrystamarie Ай бұрын
PAUSE. What is sick is I’ve witnessed men do all of these things mentioned in this video as well the “he’s not that into you” video at the same time🙄 bruh atp we need to do monthly lie detector test. My head hurts😬
@bates839
@bates839 Ай бұрын
Exactly
@Mindful.Movement.01
@Mindful.Movement.01 Ай бұрын
Girl mine too lol 🥴
@jadegreen1554
@jadegreen1554 Ай бұрын
When he wants to fully immerse himself in your story, when he sees the way you process the world better than you see it yourself, he loves you.
@themadcreative
@themadcreative 2 ай бұрын
imagine he's watching this too and using these tips to manipulate you
@galaxylucia1898
@galaxylucia1898 Ай бұрын
True, but ppl can only fake it for so long.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
@@galaxylucia1898 True!!!
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
@@themadcreative hey thank you for watching
@nla5307
@nla5307 2 ай бұрын
These men feel like liars to my spirit.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
In 2024 you trust men?? 😂 In Nella rose voice! Thank you for watching ❤️☺️
@RitaDSouza-lw5gp
@RitaDSouza-lw5gp 2 ай бұрын
I'm just waything from God to be.Done..the.decission ony life
@Isak.a
@Isak.a 3 ай бұрын
The man they are talking about is in ladies friendzone
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 3 ай бұрын
😂how did you know?
@HealingbeginswithU
@HealingbeginswithU 3 ай бұрын
If this is not the truth! These are also the men that they don't want, but want them to love like this, and in turn have issues with reciprocation. That is people in general. The high is not being chased, but being ignored.
@ariesjae6436
@ariesjae6436 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@lillyflower7501
@lillyflower7501 2 ай бұрын
Amen
@lpsglitterpaws8536
@lpsglitterpaws8536 2 ай бұрын
Omg! You are sooooo right!!!! 😮
@Nunyabuiznesss1111
@Nunyabuiznesss1111 2 ай бұрын
I am a woman and I prefer getting this information from the men rather than the women. I feel like only men can really give you tools when it comes to what men want and how men think.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely agree 💯 Thank you for watching ❤️
@cocochanel4936
@cocochanel4936 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
My pleasure! ☺️
@Wazey-by8lv
@Wazey-by8lv 2 ай бұрын
Needed this 💜💜💜
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it 😊
@andriavinithalobo5813
@andriavinithalobo5813 2 ай бұрын
3:58 so trueee! Thats necessary
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Are you genuinely concerned?! Hey Thank you for watching ☺️
@naomidambe
@naomidambe 8 күн бұрын
Yoh hleng i love uphilani❤
@RoyalPsilocybin
@RoyalPsilocybin Ай бұрын
18:38 to 18:58 best bit in the whole vid and 22:30
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@KeishaMs
@KeishaMs 2 ай бұрын
Ok are there any good single men in these comments? Hi, Im Keisha.:) LOL
@jadegreen1554
@jadegreen1554 Ай бұрын
The big question here: 1) How does a woman make herself someone a man would love? 2) what are some of the deal breakers men see immediately?
@Angelitaasmr
@Angelitaasmr 2 ай бұрын
Wow thanks guys!
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 2 ай бұрын
9:22 idk about every single day. Is it necessary? @10:55 if we truly love someone we don't wanna hurt them! Bingo! We don't wanna worry them! @11:25 when we really love someone we take on their problems too without even trying.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@gabriellacindyxoxo
@gabriellacindyxoxo 2 ай бұрын
not always , remember trauma n avoidant attachtment etc
@EternalflameC.L.
@EternalflameC.L. 2 ай бұрын
Heal those before entering relationship no excuses
@Alixir1228
@Alixir1228 2 ай бұрын
Those kind of men cannot love properly so who cares? Still feels like crap with them.
@jenster29
@jenster29 2 ай бұрын
Love bombing can also seem like 'effort'
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Actually yes! Thank you for the input
@ninashirley432
@ninashirley432 Ай бұрын
What about the guys that hang out with couples, 😂 Or much younger girls ! Red flag 🚩
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
😂
@cocoaocean
@cocoaocean 2 ай бұрын
Many layers of relationships. Men asking for love is offensive. When a man behaves in duty, that's the gold standard. Love is for our children. A dutiful man allows love for those that depend on us. A man in his feelings about sentiments of "love " is a thief. Media set this "love " show going and nothing has been loving ever since. When a man doesn't love me I still make him useful. I cant respect a man hinged on love for the opposite sex. Duty to her though is deeper. When he loves his children its better than with me. Taking that "love " and not connecting to God instead is so distorted. Why are.grown adults still needing so much while duty is neglected? Its so corny and destructive to those that really deserve love, our children. Instead, the dodo bird man wants that or he's in his feelings or worse. 😢😢
@VeeKayGreenerGrass
@VeeKayGreenerGrass 2 ай бұрын
There's a difference between love and affection. Love isn't feelings. The woman talking about happiness: happiness comes from within yourself, nothing to do with someone making you do it or doing it for you. Happiness is an individual inside job. The man listing social media posting: I honestly don't like men I'm dating posting me, nor do I post them. Our first photos will be wedding photos 😅
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
@@VeeKayGreenerGrass 😂😂The first photos to post on his social media should be wedding photos 😂😂 Am taking notes And hey thank you for watching ❤️
@Melvina1975
@Melvina1975 2 ай бұрын
What if he's a narcissist doing these things??
@KurosakiLuvar01
@KurosakiLuvar01 2 ай бұрын
Then listen to your body. It always tells you to leave. Through, sickness, headaches, cramps, irregular cycle lack of sleep, lack of appetite, sudden body odor never experienced before. These are also signs. Listen to your body and observe the narc closely.
@cecee3480
@cecee3480 2 ай бұрын
He’s cheating. If you aren’t okay with that then you have to leave.
@cha9165
@cha9165 2 ай бұрын
Run
@nonai7897
@nonai7897 2 ай бұрын
Narcissists are never worth it!! RUN
@nikicarter2048
@nikicarter2048 2 ай бұрын
​@@KurosakiLuvar01yes a male stressing you will cause all these things
@ShmaeyaSaffold
@ShmaeyaSaffold Ай бұрын
So deep so so deep
@RitaDSouza-lw5gp
@RitaDSouza-lw5gp 2 ай бұрын
Becouse I in Trutfull way I don't know But I had surrender the boundry bettween.me and any.one who is not for me
@Baaaybeeeh
@Baaaybeeeh 2 ай бұрын
We don’t need you to love us. Romance and love is a distraction and it’s unnecessary. We need men to provide for us, be faithful to us, cover us, defend us, and father our children. We need nothing else.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
As women we don't need love?!
@VeeKayGreenerGrass
@VeeKayGreenerGrass 2 ай бұрын
Love isn't feelings, yet most describe it as feelings. Most men are not capable of love.
@rosaclick1995
@rosaclick1995 2 ай бұрын
Those things are what love is.
@Baaaybeeeh
@Baaaybeeeh 2 ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya I guess I could have been more clear. To rephrase, love and romance are not the same, but they are used interchangeably. The provision, faithfulness, covering, defending, and fathering that’s love. We need love in that way. In my opinion.
@Alixir1228
@Alixir1228 2 ай бұрын
We don't need love, but we want it.
@Laceeadventuretime
@Laceeadventuretime 2 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!!
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching 😊
@amandamoore8421
@amandamoore8421 2 ай бұрын
So they say watch his actions. he drove an hour to watch my first dance show, because he knew it was important for me. Came up to me after with flowers. I said let me go change into my regular clothes and I’ll come find you. He left!!?? and started driving back home without saying goodbye… so what do his actions mean??
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
Let's hear what people have to say about that?! 😂 You should ask him why he left.
@amandamoore8421
@amandamoore8421 2 ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya asked him to stay, he came back and said only 30 minutes. I asked if it was ok to go back with him. (We both had to go back same direction) he was hesitant but agreed. Something about needing to go home and watch the stock market (crypto/fx etc) (hobby) He can’t stay with me. I said just drop me off and then you can go home and do your thing… He could have told me his plan at the start instead of not saying anything. 😂
@dolcesweet5173
@dolcesweet5173 2 ай бұрын
It could be that he’s doing just enough/ aka “ the bare minimum”. Or he actually needed to watch the stock market. But since you posted this question it means your gut knows what the answer is which is you know he’s doing the bare minimum.
@shantimindproductions5585
@shantimindproductions5585 2 ай бұрын
He's got someone else.
@KurosakiLuvar01
@KurosakiLuvar01 2 ай бұрын
@@shantimindproductions5585 this is what I was gonna say. This man in a whole other relationship and needs to hurry back home before she starts getting suspicious
@GENRTS
@GENRTS 2 ай бұрын
Trauma dumping is not a green flag
@KurosakiLuvar01
@KurosakiLuvar01 2 ай бұрын
Right
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
@@GENRTS Thank you for watching
@AryonaSamoto
@AryonaSamoto 2 ай бұрын
My family and all the men in my life always sacrificed me(even crimes committed against me, I was sacrificed). I don't trust anyone anymore to believe that the men described in this video actually exists.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
It can be difficult to trust anyone really..... You need to start healing yourself from past traumas
@AryonaSamoto
@AryonaSamoto 2 ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya from what I've seen and heard, it's not worth it. I'm better off alone.
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 2 ай бұрын
@@AryonaSamoto EVEN BETTER!!!
@KurosakiLuvar01
@KurosakiLuvar01 2 ай бұрын
Same. I don’t trust ONE.
@TheCakediva08
@TheCakediva08 2 ай бұрын
They exist. I have one
@ShmaeyaSaffold
@ShmaeyaSaffold Ай бұрын
So true so true
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@LkeaFeather
@LkeaFeather 2 ай бұрын
These people are just spewing out their own philosophies...and the rest is common sense. 😂
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
@@LkeaFeather Thank you for watching ❤️
@missellz7630
@missellz7630 2 ай бұрын
Put it this way my man loves me I’m not on here for confirmation on if he loves me or not I’m on here for entertainment that’s how you know a man loves you, you don’t have to watch videos to know 😂😂💯
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
@@missellz7630 Absolutely 😂 Hey thank you for watching ❤️
@gabriellacindyxoxo
@gabriellacindyxoxo 2 ай бұрын
no love language is different , not evrryone can say i love u words of affirm
@ShmaeyaSaffold
@ShmaeyaSaffold Ай бұрын
Yea peace yes calm
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 2 ай бұрын
14:15 who is that and what video is that? It says Homilia.
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 2 ай бұрын
20:07 -20:18 20:20 -20:43
@jovialjae
@jovialjae 2 ай бұрын
8:26 "He lies to you"......"he will hide his wives" i sure hope this guy is trolling because...WHAT???🥴
@corimoon3360
@corimoon3360 2 ай бұрын
This is why we must always watch who we listen to and take advice from. 😂
@VeeKayGreenerGrass
@VeeKayGreenerGrass 2 ай бұрын
Nah. He is African.😂
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya 29 күн бұрын
😂😂 Thank you for watching ❤️
@hylianflower9681
@hylianflower9681 24 күн бұрын
hes never loved me.
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 2 ай бұрын
20:44 -20:56
@DashaTheDivineDivah
@DashaTheDivineDivah 2 ай бұрын
Smh... Wow... That is all
@RitaDSouza-lw5gp
@RitaDSouza-lw5gp 2 ай бұрын
Very true
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 2 ай бұрын
22:05 -23:24
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 2 ай бұрын
21:05 -21:56
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 2 ай бұрын
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@ShmaeyaSaffold
@ShmaeyaSaffold Ай бұрын
Yes tried to help you no matter what not say you got it
@genanunez8170
@genanunez8170 2 ай бұрын
Yes AMEN
@Chommikenya
@Chommikenya Ай бұрын
@@genanunez8170 Hey thank you for watching ❤️
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