When a Man loves you....., Baaaabbbbyyyyyy.... He will leave NO ROOM for questions, you here me.... NONE! He is very loud with his actions. And leaves you with only security within the relationship with everything he does in that relationship with you. If you have to question anything... its not and never was anything serious. You are a placeholder. Leave and Move on fast and not slow.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
You hear that 🫵
@Bdiamondz2 ай бұрын
Maybe he's being a placeholder for the woman ....it can go both ways.
@marib18812 ай бұрын
@Bdiamondz True. I'm just speaking to the POV though.
@sesethuntaphane39332 ай бұрын
Yes, girl... I hear you, and I'm listening to check on mine.
@saluuud2 ай бұрын
😆😆😆@ "...fast and not slow"!
@sarahsmile28832 ай бұрын
Normalize women focusing on their divine purpose which is NOT a man and then god will send him in when we are ready .
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Absolutely agree!!! You focus more on you and build you!
@Bdiamondz28 күн бұрын
@@sarahsmile2883 Sometimes, we have to practice what we preach and talk to ourselves to make it happen. Also, practice accountability.
@strawberrysmoofie2 ай бұрын
You’ll never really KNOW a man loves you until you’ve been genuinely loved by a man before. It’s really difficult to tell without that, but as soon as you meet a man who pours into you? Hoooo child, the bar will be raised so high
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
I absolutely agree 💯 And hey thank you for watching ❤️
@JiHu-d8c2 ай бұрын
Yeaaaaaasssssss this is so true. You know what love feels like. And honey, it feels great. It’s precious.
@FresaPeroNoParaTuMermelada2 ай бұрын
God first. Any man second.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
PERIOD!!!!!!!! Thank you for watching 😊
@ninashirley432Ай бұрын
Amen
@geremymason59362 ай бұрын
Take it from a man that fell in love with a woman, he should want to see that you are ok, even if there’s no gain for him. That’s unconditional love. It may seem a little extreme, but a man that is truly in love with you will want you to be happy, healthy, and thriving, even if it means he gets nothing from it. He’d honestly be willing to let you go from his life if he felt like he wasn’t adding any value and especially if he felt like he was causing you harm. He should take an interest in you and know your likes to do things that matter to you. He will not use things that you told him in moments of vulnerability to use as manipulative tactics against you. He should put forth an honest effort to see you smile and to show you how much you mean to him. He should also be able to be vulnerable with you so that you know what’s going on with him. He should also be able to express why he loves you outside of himself. The last segment was correct - it should not be what you do for him, but why he loves you as a person. A man that loves you will be willing to go to the ends of the earth and stretch himself thin just to show you how much you mean to him. And don’t get convenience confused with sacrifice. A man that sacrifices for you loves you.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
This is incredible Thank you 😊
@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi17212 ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya 😔🥺😭 Thank you for sharing. Can a man be in a relationship for 10 years, propose marriage twice then when rejected fall out of love but stay around for the kids and occasional inner course with his baby's mother. Then me another and secure (lady b)her before officially releasing the BM without taking time to heal in between relationships? Can a man just drop some they are "in love with" for another person?
@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi17212 ай бұрын
And what about the saying "what one woman won't do, another one will" line. Does that still apply when man is truly in love? Or i mean "loves a woman"? There is a difference.
@geremymason59362 ай бұрын
@@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 I don’t separate the two when it comes to romantic relationships. There is a difference between loving someone (platonic, familial, etc) and being in love with someone (romantic) but I’m specifically talking about romantic relationships with this post.
@Ang-iz5hv3 ай бұрын
Actions ALWAYS speak louder than words, in ANY relationship.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
@@Ang-iz5hv Louder please 📢
@ItsAuntieKaren2 ай бұрын
A man can only truly love when he is driven by the Holy Spirit.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Am Glad you said it!!! Thank you
@BrolloDiPodo2 ай бұрын
Based and Christ-pilled 👍
@marciebaker98162 ай бұрын
Pleeeease
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
@@marciebaker9816 You disagree? 😂
@christinacreates23932 ай бұрын
What about people who aren’t Christian? Muslims don’t love their wives?????? What about Buddhist people? They can’t demonstrate deep true love for their partners???? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
@Tresdrole1232 ай бұрын
You don’t need to watch a 24 minute video to know whether or not a man loves you. If he loves you, you’ll know.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
EXACTLY 💯
@Heygirl-Hey3 ай бұрын
The fact that you're watching this video He definitely doesn't love you Run ... You will eventually find better.
@Chommikenya3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 PERIOD
@chewie69883 ай бұрын
Plot twist. I am a guy watching this to make sure I am doing right by the person I love. 😂
@Chommikenya3 ай бұрын
@@chewie6988 you're a good man!!😂
@Maskman_original3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 stupid
@cro8sandy2 ай бұрын
Why do they ask for number when they don't like you
@colorfulsin2 ай бұрын
Sorry but this is exhausting. Men should just date each other
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
I absolutely agree 💯
@namimindyaw12012 ай бұрын
Exactly. 😂😂😂
@OrganicallyYahs2 ай бұрын
They already do
@jimmie81012 ай бұрын
It's still just as confusing. Trust me.
@nemotheo16292 ай бұрын
I told someone am opting out coz it's just a never ending rules and you are never sure for real why do I have to go through all this ?
@jadegreen1554Ай бұрын
Be careful with all of these: • he will make you feel there is no other woman • he will give all attention to you • he will share intimate secrets • he will be stuck under you. Be careful with all of these, because they can present when someone is genuine, but these can also present with love-bombing from a narcissist. Be careful. With the lovebombing you WILL feel your body and gut rejecting him.
@JesusGeek3327 күн бұрын
Sadly a narc can do all this until you’re comfortable
@Chommikenya27 күн бұрын
And that's why you need to know the signs of a Narcissist Man Hey thank you for watching ❤️
@JesusGeek3327 күн бұрын
@@Chommikenya Yes! Although my journey is unfortunate but I’m grateful I know how callous people can be
@ishabellanamthrak10152 ай бұрын
There is no formula.... people love each other or don't. Be yourself.😊
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Yes Be yourself!! Thank you for watching ❤️
@koyankrumah98572 ай бұрын
Isn’t everyone else tired of men and their games? Why come after me if you have no intention of doing right by me? Enough of the science behind men and their behaviours or lack of! It’s tiring and I am tired of hearing it!
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
I know right!!! It's just like let them go date they fellow men!!
@djshockafrica43302 ай бұрын
This!
@Mynameshelenbtw2 ай бұрын
😂 yes. Like just forget it!!
@briasworld82 ай бұрын
🤷👏💅
@marisolrivera52552 ай бұрын
A man who loves you won't have you questioning and committed and vulnerable find ways to be around you and leave no room for any other. He respects you physically emotionally and spiritually.
@mercijoy300625 күн бұрын
Fact!!!! I can testify to this. We have had a splendid year with him. I can not wait to spend the rest of my life with him, and I pray to God to bless him in the next lifetime.
@Chommikenya7 күн бұрын
❤
@LissaVents2 ай бұрын
Damn I aint never been loved😂😂😂
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂It's not that serious babe.....
@Laceeadventuretime2 ай бұрын
Same sis 😭
@alchemizedsoul122 ай бұрын
give that love to yourself ❤
@UnknownUnknown-yl1lt2 ай бұрын
Same here😒
@catherinemuller32772 ай бұрын
@@Laceeadventuretime Me, too... It's okay. We will practice self love. We are God's daughters and worthy of love.
@lauramckiernan32132 ай бұрын
Yeah, alot of men do all that and they are into you in the beginning, but dont confuse being into you with wanting a relationship.
@nikicarter20482 ай бұрын
Remember gaslighting an love bombing an manipulation
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Love bombing!!
@KurosakiLuvar012 ай бұрын
@@lauramckiernan3213 exactly. That love bombing bullshite
@MelissaChildofGod3782 ай бұрын
This truth right here. NOT GOING TO TELL YOU 'YOUR CRAZY AND DELUSIONAL' when your telling him how you feel
@TheSweetie2232 ай бұрын
THAT PART !!! thats what im going through currently & just ended it today. I couldn't take that shit no more. I was bout ready to pew pew his ass so i have to remove myself. Can't talk to him about shit not even my day at work without him brushing it off or making it seem like im complaining because i had a bad day. Girl i hate this mutha fcka. Just writing about him is triggering me
@TheSweetie2232 ай бұрын
He's literally the human squidward from SpongeBob.
@Mindful.Movement.01Ай бұрын
@@TheSweetie223awww sorry you went through that love ❤. Good for you for choosing yourself though
@TiffieB-2 ай бұрын
😂 @ 8:41 He said “He won’t let you know about his other wives because he really respects you.” That sounds crazy!!
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
@@TiffieB- listen to that again 😂😭
@GB_0082 ай бұрын
Chile! 😂 He was just another diaspora dusty.😅🤭
@nikicarter20482 ай бұрын
Basically when a man really love a woman. He has the same emotions an respect for you like you do him. Or someone that you was really into. Women act like this all the time.. but males dont return the same love back. Instead they take advantage an dog the girl just because she loves him. 😢
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
So true!! Thank you for watching ❤️
@CJN57872 ай бұрын
It also means HE doesn't love himself.....RUN
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
@@CJN5787 Thank you for watching ❤️
@CJN5787Ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya I had to to remind myself how grateful I am for my life and to remind you that God still has a reason for you to still be here. 💕 and 🚨
@Thrivegrl242 ай бұрын
So what this video is confirming is my man my man my man my man lovesssssssss meeeee.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
PERIOD GURL 💞
@tnt39292 ай бұрын
@@Thrivegrl24 Right! Mine definitely does...but I already knew that.😁
@KL31NGR0552 ай бұрын
Same here. I can't believe this is actually happening! ❤
@UnknownUnknown-yl1lt2 ай бұрын
Must be nice..I'm happy for you sis💕
@natural33622 ай бұрын
When a man loves you, he won't cheat. A man rather die to protect his women and cheaters rather be with someone else and he doesn't care whether you're hurt or not, he only cares about himself So please divorce any cheaters. Have self worth. You owe it to yourself, the only one that has been there for you in time of hardship Don't let any men mock you.cheating is a mockery on you and your marriage
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
@@natural3362 Thank you for watching ❤️
@marisolrivera52552 ай бұрын
Actions speak louder than words how a man's treats you
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
True!
@OItsSasha2 ай бұрын
2:11 I dont take trauma dumping from a guy as a sign he's into me
@EasyBreezie2 ай бұрын
Guys that trauma dump do this with ALL women. Lmao I don’t take that as a special sign either.
@cecee34802 ай бұрын
Don’t. I’m a dancer and I hear men’s problems all the time. They will pay me (a stranger) to talk about problems and gain pity before they go see a therapist. They don’t want actual help but for a woman to be like awww want me to make you feel better and justify their behavior and life choices.
@ba85012 ай бұрын
I was about to say that lol
@phillyzstyar7 күн бұрын
First time I heard the phrase was from this guy im currently talking too… He said I’m sorry for trauma dumping 😮
@jadegreen1554Ай бұрын
This was one of the better ones: “When a man loves you he will be wrapped up in the totality of the energy of you. I repeat: he will be wrapped up in the totality of the energy of you.” But he still respects you fully. Be careful with this one though, because it doesn’t mean possessive or obsessive over you like you are property. That is a dangerous man, and you need to run.
@Freakymum16452 ай бұрын
Modern dating advice for men is to treat women that he really likes with indifference and rudeness. Just saying.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
That's toxic masculinity
@Freakymum16452 ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya yes, and that’s bad. Thanks for your agreement.
@marisolrivera52552 ай бұрын
A man would love you at your best and at your worst and still accept you .
@shineepropertyof5hinee2 ай бұрын
If you have to ask if he likes/loves you already have your answer x
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
@@shineepropertyof5hinee oouh!!!! Thank you for watching ❤️
@روايةبانغتان2 ай бұрын
Puting a ring in your finger before putting a babie in you belly... Good point
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
@@روايةبانغتان Thank you for watching ❤️
@روايةبانغتانАй бұрын
@@Chommikenya you welcome 😊
@Mindful.Movement.01Ай бұрын
Lmao 😂that girl who talked about leaving stuff at his house 😂😂😂 she need to speak for herself I take all my shit baby cause I don’t ever know when imma need it again. I didn’t know people still do that.
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
😂 people still do that actually
@Mindful.Movement.01Ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya 😂😂😂 omg that’s crazy
@serenitygilles70642 ай бұрын
Good stuff guys! The painful truth we NEED to hear 💖
@fatouleigh29682 ай бұрын
Watching this video makes me miss my late husband. He was a real man and manifested all these positive behaviours. He loved me and I love him.❤
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
I love to see this ❤️ May He rest in peace 🕊️ Thank you for watching ❤️
@mamadara21462 ай бұрын
Before we got married, my man always had a reason to meet in the afternoon. he often suddenly appears in front of my workplace. and send texts regularly and patiently wait for replies without getting angry (I'm too busy at work sometimes). He always sticks around.
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
@@mamadara2146 Thank you!!!
@gabriellacindyxoxo2 ай бұрын
always forgive is not love but no slef respect
@suselperez2409Ай бұрын
They’re not capable of true love but they’re excellent at manipulation.
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
Be careful!!!
@SatumainenOlento2 ай бұрын
Great video! Extremely well done compilation!!! ❤❤❤
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching 😊
@jadegreen1554Ай бұрын
The Nigerian one was totally toxic and sickening sorry. “When a man loves you, he will hide his other relationships from you” 🤦♀️🤢
@TrulyMademoizelleАй бұрын
Facts get off my screen
@jadegreen1554Ай бұрын
@@TrulyMademoizelle sorry for Nigerian women and children. Very very sorry for them.
@xoxobutterfly2 ай бұрын
I give up 😢 im just so exhausted
@Laceeadventuretime2 ай бұрын
Same 🥲
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Let's start prioritizing ourselves now
@shakirasmith64542 ай бұрын
@@Laceeadventuretime off topic, but you are gorgeous! ❤❤
@Laceeadventuretime2 ай бұрын
@@shakirasmith6454 thank you ❤️❤️❤️
@bonnie20572 ай бұрын
i believe the mens opinion they should know as men what a man feels what a man thinks
@goddessgoldglow2 ай бұрын
I can listen to these men all night
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Watch as many times as you want 😄 Thank you for watching ❤️
@Mindful.Movement.01Ай бұрын
An important thing that I have noticed is that there are barely any videos out there holding men accountable and telling them that they need to heal go to therapy know their worth love themselves yet women are always held to a higher standard and expected to do all this work and when they do level up and heal now it’s no man to choose because they are not being held accountable no one is telling them to pick better no one is telling them to go to therapy. I’m really over all this shit. Women level up and have the chance to choose better only to be told they supposedly gone die alone with cats but the moment a woman picks the wrong man now all of a sudden she should’ve chose better. This why I don’t take them seriously. The jokes write themselves
@namimindyaw12012 ай бұрын
lol. The only comment I agree with is the one who says women are carried away by what men say.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
You disagree with the rest?
@lovelylittlegirl333226 күн бұрын
If you’re watching this video, he probably doesn’t. Not enough to give you the security of expressing it to you anyway.
@nafisaxolmatova18142 ай бұрын
I am married, yet have twin daughters 😢 we had a fight because of his family members were rude and disrespectful to me, I moved to my parents house with daughters one month ago. All he did was just few phone calls telling me that I was wrong and should be more patient and serve to this family ( yeah we live together with his family ) I said I am going to divorce him, he refused said he loves me and his daughters but in reality in this month he never came to see me and daughters. Asked him to send girls warm clothes as summer is ending but he said he didn’t know where it is 😢 I don’t know why I should have such a man in my life if he is not even going to do anything for his daughters
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Wishing You the best in making the right choice that you feel is best for you and your daughters ❤️🌹Much love 🫶 Thank you for watching ❤️
@ndshenАй бұрын
Divorce him. You deserve better.
@nafisaxolmatova1814Ай бұрын
@@ChommikenyaThanks for understanding 😢 I don’t see my future with him
@nafisaxolmatova1814Ай бұрын
@@ndshenThanks for support 😢 sometimes not everyone understands why you have to cut people from your life
@Time4change111Ай бұрын
Pray dear, this is a hard time for you and your girls, please pray, you deserve protection, respect and you are not maid, you are God's daughter. Please go to the Heavenly Father in your spirit and speak openly with him and allow God to miniter to your heart. Call upon Jesus Christ of Nazareth and allow him to heal you and guide you as the Holy spirit and you guardian Angels guide you. Pray for everyone, including yourself, forgive and let Father lead you with love to the best decision while wsking God to heal your husband and his family dear. God bless ❤ 🫂@@nafisaxolmatova1814
@artisticagi2 ай бұрын
0:34 if you are seeking effort, then run!
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
@@artisticagi This is the one 🔥 Thank you for watching ❤️
@ninashirley432Ай бұрын
Weak men are also more focused on money and how they look in the mirror!
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
@@ninashirley432 that's Deep Thank you for watching ❤️
@cherryb52442 ай бұрын
These guys only exist in books for me.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
I hope you understand you deserve exactly what you read on those books Thank you for watching ❤️
@maggiemcnally2087Ай бұрын
Listen to these men
@ElevateYourWorthАй бұрын
I’m just here to point out. I cannot stand seeing people driving down the road recording stuff for social media. I could give a crap less if a man loves me, but is inconsiderate on the road of his life my life in the lives of others because he rather be recording videos for content. So they can get likes click and view on social media. Good human beings don’t put the lives of others- at risk for this kind of stuff.
@niekelombard4434Ай бұрын
He is stationary. Watch carefully.
@petitcoeur-q6r2 ай бұрын
Yep that ex never truly loved me - definitely always"too busy" so he didn't care about me. He left me and discarded - I was used. A place holder was what I was. They were never in love at all - so good luck in them finding the "one". They never listened to what I said to them - never been vulnerable - so they never trusted me. Avoidants are never going to let their guard down - only for the "right" person apparently - a magical woman that doesn't trigger them and just does what they want and say with no arguing. They never wanted to be around me - they never wanted me around - only for their convenience. I was not valued - he didn't treat me right. Them saying "I love you" is bs.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Glad you know better now!! Thank you for watching ❤️
@petitcoeur-q6r2 ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya yep sure do - his actions are more important than empty words and promises :)
@lala50612 ай бұрын
👏🏽🙌🏽
@ndshenАй бұрын
Listen to his actions
@Blackgirlmagicbeyou3 ай бұрын
This is so true
@Chommikenya3 ай бұрын
💯 Thank you for watching
@VictoriaHerizonАй бұрын
Lmfao if he truly loves us, you wouldn’t watching this shit lmfao.
@Mindful.Movement.01Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@IamkrystamarieАй бұрын
PAUSE. What is sick is I’ve witnessed men do all of these things mentioned in this video as well the “he’s not that into you” video at the same time🙄 bruh atp we need to do monthly lie detector test. My head hurts😬
@bates839Ай бұрын
Exactly
@Mindful.Movement.01Ай бұрын
Girl mine too lol 🥴
@jadegreen1554Ай бұрын
When he wants to fully immerse himself in your story, when he sees the way you process the world better than you see it yourself, he loves you.
@themadcreative2 ай бұрын
imagine he's watching this too and using these tips to manipulate you
@galaxylucia1898Ай бұрын
True, but ppl can only fake it for so long.
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
@@galaxylucia1898 True!!!
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
@@themadcreative hey thank you for watching
@nla53072 ай бұрын
These men feel like liars to my spirit.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
In 2024 you trust men?? 😂 In Nella rose voice! Thank you for watching ❤️☺️
@RitaDSouza-lw5gp2 ай бұрын
I'm just waything from God to be.Done..the.decission ony life
@Isak.a3 ай бұрын
The man they are talking about is in ladies friendzone
@Chommikenya3 ай бұрын
😂how did you know?
@HealingbeginswithU3 ай бұрын
If this is not the truth! These are also the men that they don't want, but want them to love like this, and in turn have issues with reciprocation. That is people in general. The high is not being chased, but being ignored.
@ariesjae64362 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@lillyflower75012 ай бұрын
Amen
@lpsglitterpaws85362 ай бұрын
Omg! You are sooooo right!!!! 😮
@Nunyabuiznesss11112 ай бұрын
I am a woman and I prefer getting this information from the men rather than the women. I feel like only men can really give you tools when it comes to what men want and how men think.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Absolutely agree 💯 Thank you for watching ❤️
@cocochanel49362 ай бұрын
Thank you for this
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
My pleasure! ☺️
@Wazey-by8lv2 ай бұрын
Needed this 💜💜💜
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it 😊
@andriavinithalobo58132 ай бұрын
3:58 so trueee! Thats necessary
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Are you genuinely concerned?! Hey Thank you for watching ☺️
@naomidambe8 күн бұрын
Yoh hleng i love uphilani❤
@RoyalPsilocybinАй бұрын
18:38 to 18:58 best bit in the whole vid and 22:30
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@KeishaMs2 ай бұрын
Ok are there any good single men in these comments? Hi, Im Keisha.:) LOL
@jadegreen1554Ай бұрын
The big question here: 1) How does a woman make herself someone a man would love? 2) what are some of the deal breakers men see immediately?
@Angelitaasmr2 ай бұрын
Wow thanks guys!
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@Katrica6702 ай бұрын
9:22 idk about every single day. Is it necessary? @10:55 if we truly love someone we don't wanna hurt them! Bingo! We don't wanna worry them! @11:25 when we really love someone we take on their problems too without even trying.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@gabriellacindyxoxo2 ай бұрын
not always , remember trauma n avoidant attachtment etc
@EternalflameC.L.2 ай бұрын
Heal those before entering relationship no excuses
@Alixir12282 ай бұрын
Those kind of men cannot love properly so who cares? Still feels like crap with them.
@jenster292 ай бұрын
Love bombing can also seem like 'effort'
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Actually yes! Thank you for the input
@ninashirley432Ай бұрын
What about the guys that hang out with couples, 😂 Or much younger girls ! Red flag 🚩
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
😂
@cocoaocean2 ай бұрын
Many layers of relationships. Men asking for love is offensive. When a man behaves in duty, that's the gold standard. Love is for our children. A dutiful man allows love for those that depend on us. A man in his feelings about sentiments of "love " is a thief. Media set this "love " show going and nothing has been loving ever since. When a man doesn't love me I still make him useful. I cant respect a man hinged on love for the opposite sex. Duty to her though is deeper. When he loves his children its better than with me. Taking that "love " and not connecting to God instead is so distorted. Why are.grown adults still needing so much while duty is neglected? Its so corny and destructive to those that really deserve love, our children. Instead, the dodo bird man wants that or he's in his feelings or worse. 😢😢
@VeeKayGreenerGrass2 ай бұрын
There's a difference between love and affection. Love isn't feelings. The woman talking about happiness: happiness comes from within yourself, nothing to do with someone making you do it or doing it for you. Happiness is an individual inside job. The man listing social media posting: I honestly don't like men I'm dating posting me, nor do I post them. Our first photos will be wedding photos 😅
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
@@VeeKayGreenerGrass 😂😂The first photos to post on his social media should be wedding photos 😂😂 Am taking notes And hey thank you for watching ❤️
@Melvina19752 ай бұрын
What if he's a narcissist doing these things??
@KurosakiLuvar012 ай бұрын
Then listen to your body. It always tells you to leave. Through, sickness, headaches, cramps, irregular cycle lack of sleep, lack of appetite, sudden body odor never experienced before. These are also signs. Listen to your body and observe the narc closely.
@cecee34802 ай бұрын
He’s cheating. If you aren’t okay with that then you have to leave.
@cha91652 ай бұрын
Run
@nonai78972 ай бұрын
Narcissists are never worth it!! RUN
@nikicarter20482 ай бұрын
@@KurosakiLuvar01yes a male stressing you will cause all these things
@ShmaeyaSaffoldАй бұрын
So deep so so deep
@RitaDSouza-lw5gp2 ай бұрын
Becouse I in Trutfull way I don't know But I had surrender the boundry bettween.me and any.one who is not for me
@Baaaybeeeh2 ай бұрын
We don’t need you to love us. Romance and love is a distraction and it’s unnecessary. We need men to provide for us, be faithful to us, cover us, defend us, and father our children. We need nothing else.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
As women we don't need love?!
@VeeKayGreenerGrass2 ай бұрын
Love isn't feelings, yet most describe it as feelings. Most men are not capable of love.
@rosaclick19952 ай бұрын
Those things are what love is.
@Baaaybeeeh2 ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya I guess I could have been more clear. To rephrase, love and romance are not the same, but they are used interchangeably. The provision, faithfulness, covering, defending, and fathering that’s love. We need love in that way. In my opinion.
@Alixir12282 ай бұрын
We don't need love, but we want it.
@Laceeadventuretime2 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!!
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching 😊
@amandamoore84212 ай бұрын
So they say watch his actions. he drove an hour to watch my first dance show, because he knew it was important for me. Came up to me after with flowers. I said let me go change into my regular clothes and I’ll come find you. He left!!?? and started driving back home without saying goodbye… so what do his actions mean??
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
Let's hear what people have to say about that?! 😂 You should ask him why he left.
@amandamoore84212 ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya asked him to stay, he came back and said only 30 minutes. I asked if it was ok to go back with him. (We both had to go back same direction) he was hesitant but agreed. Something about needing to go home and watch the stock market (crypto/fx etc) (hobby) He can’t stay with me. I said just drop me off and then you can go home and do your thing… He could have told me his plan at the start instead of not saying anything. 😂
@dolcesweet51732 ай бұрын
It could be that he’s doing just enough/ aka “ the bare minimum”. Or he actually needed to watch the stock market. But since you posted this question it means your gut knows what the answer is which is you know he’s doing the bare minimum.
@shantimindproductions55852 ай бұрын
He's got someone else.
@KurosakiLuvar012 ай бұрын
@@shantimindproductions5585 this is what I was gonna say. This man in a whole other relationship and needs to hurry back home before she starts getting suspicious
@GENRTS2 ай бұрын
Trauma dumping is not a green flag
@KurosakiLuvar012 ай бұрын
Right
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
@@GENRTS Thank you for watching
@AryonaSamoto2 ай бұрын
My family and all the men in my life always sacrificed me(even crimes committed against me, I was sacrificed). I don't trust anyone anymore to believe that the men described in this video actually exists.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
It can be difficult to trust anyone really..... You need to start healing yourself from past traumas
@AryonaSamoto2 ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya from what I've seen and heard, it's not worth it. I'm better off alone.
@Chommikenya2 ай бұрын
@@AryonaSamoto EVEN BETTER!!!
@KurosakiLuvar012 ай бұрын
Same. I don’t trust ONE.
@TheCakediva082 ай бұрын
They exist. I have one
@ShmaeyaSaffoldАй бұрын
So true so true
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@LkeaFeather2 ай бұрын
These people are just spewing out their own philosophies...and the rest is common sense. 😂
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
@@LkeaFeather Thank you for watching ❤️
@missellz76302 ай бұрын
Put it this way my man loves me I’m not on here for confirmation on if he loves me or not I’m on here for entertainment that’s how you know a man loves you, you don’t have to watch videos to know 😂😂💯
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
@@missellz7630 Absolutely 😂 Hey thank you for watching ❤️
@gabriellacindyxoxo2 ай бұрын
no love language is different , not evrryone can say i love u words of affirm
@ShmaeyaSaffoldАй бұрын
Yea peace yes calm
@Katrica6702 ай бұрын
14:15 who is that and what video is that? It says Homilia.
@Katrica6702 ай бұрын
20:07 -20:18 20:20 -20:43
@jovialjae2 ай бұрын
8:26 "He lies to you"......"he will hide his wives" i sure hope this guy is trolling because...WHAT???🥴
@corimoon33602 ай бұрын
This is why we must always watch who we listen to and take advice from. 😂
@VeeKayGreenerGrass2 ай бұрын
Nah. He is African.😂
@Chommikenya29 күн бұрын
😂😂 Thank you for watching ❤️
@hylianflower968124 күн бұрын
hes never loved me.
@Katrica6702 ай бұрын
20:44 -20:56
@DashaTheDivineDivah2 ай бұрын
Smh... Wow... That is all
@RitaDSouza-lw5gp2 ай бұрын
Very true
@Katrica6702 ай бұрын
22:05 -23:24
@Katrica6702 ай бұрын
21:05 -21:56
@Katrica6702 ай бұрын
23:44 -24:38
@ShmaeyaSaffoldАй бұрын
Yes tried to help you no matter what not say you got it