How To Tell If She's Cheating

[@muzapps2733]

Look guys, if u know that you're not the jealous type & you suspect something's going on, trust your instincts because you're more than likely right....

[@tc2010vancouver]

I approve this message. Trust your intuition, you know what you dont know

[@kurtalexzander3502]

Muz Apps thank you

[@MrQuagmire26]

I agree. I'm often told my wife that I'm jealous and controlling and that it's not my business who she talks to.

[@johnpatrick3458]

Gut will be right 95% of the time, but also statistics. I read something the other day that cited a study out of a university where they interviewed 3,000 married women. 61% of them admitted to cheating on their spouse at some point and 28% have never cheated but thought about it! That leaves 11% of married women who have never cheated nor thought about it. Good luck guys!

[@ianroberts992]

I'm currently going through this my gut is saying run but my heart won't let an she just says in paranoid an insecure

[@hollywood5274]

A woman of integrity will tell you she is done with you........and THEN move on!

[@SkullyX99]

What if she's indirect about it, and doesn't tell you up front? Something like: "Forget it." "Keep your money." Me? I decided not to chase her down and reassure myself. I chose to end things. It was a really bad relationship anyway.

[@17shakil]

Very few women does that

[@hollywood5274]

@@17shakil Because there are very few women with integrity!

[@art3251]

A friend of mine lost his mother a few years back. The day she passed away, one of her last words of wisdom to him was, "Expect the worst from a woman and learn to embrace it."

[@Nick-ue9of]

The hard part is controlling yourself and not bringing bad vibes in knowing she's a hoebag

[@James-xg7qp]

Hahaha so true

[@asapwynne]

That’s bull Shit. We shouldn’t have to deal with that.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

Omg

[@Elterraplanista]

Crazy my grandfather told me almost the same except the embrace it part

[@promyntheus2782]

Law of Attraction, sometimes things don't work out for a reason. Either both grow and vibrate together, or one outgrows the other and vibrates out the relationship. Let them go, learn from the lesson, move on. It ended that way for a reason.

[@shysterrtube]

never forgive a woman who cheats on you, and if you are the other guy you're an idiot. She is just as likely to cheat on you too. Once a cheater always a cheater. There's no point in the rabbit forgiving the lion.

[@jackcapewell4373]

I learnt from that mistake.

[@cainewest492]

Forgive but don’t take her back pointless holding grudges in my opinion you can’t move on with your life

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Perception is reality.

[@V27RV]

One man‘s pain is another man‘s pleasure

[@V27RV]

@Amy Rend She fucking around bruh

[@johnnyg7899]

@Amaury Falcon hope you left her. That's a clear sign that she cannot move on.

[@crackersnbed6903]

I trust my girl implicitly. I saw this big black dude leaving her house last week and she told me he was the plumber and her pipes needed fixing. She said he lays really good pipe and like I said, I trust her implicitly.

[@xalmightyxjayx3647]

Your bitch got her guts punched lmao

[@crackersnbed6903]

Really

[@RayneOfLyte888]

LOL

[@TL-ki2rz]

Lol

[@wowza935]

MC dagger based on ur propic, this seems true.

[@samyi9396]

a loyal women....no such thing, it's like looking for the golden unicorn.

[@jonesfredrick94]

@@bryrayne9666 woman your cheating so be quiet

[@jonesfredrick94]

@@bryrayne9666 ignorance is rooted in the heart of a woman your living proof and millions of others

[@Xsilif]

Sam Yi Loyal women exist.

[@perkinskurt6147]

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[@bnfjay3250]

Incel

[@John-sz6mc]

My No. 1 rule: Your woman has no male friends. Full stop. If they argue you drop them and keep searching for a decent lady. Works 100% of the time. I don't allow idiots floating around my woman. If she accepts it she loves me if she doesn't she does not really care for me and i'm better off without her.

[@lukehart1500]

I’m not sure if this coworker is a cheater, but at first she seemed alright but now she seems unhappy, upset, and she’s ignored me once. I’ve overheard her talking about her boyfriend. She is just insecure with a bad bloke.

[@PraiseThaDon]

A woman with guy friends either slept with them in the past or plans to. If they fight you on it then, they're just a 304

[@chozen5043]

guys watch how she uses her cellphone.. if shes always hiding it our wont let you use it......... then something is up. #experience d it first hand

[@dinomorell5163]

Cho Zen Or its masked with a female friend or family member but is really a guy that she has on the side!

[@TVismyopiate]

+Cho Zen Or lets you use it, because she's wise to that detection-strategy... but watches you like a HAWK whilst you do so. Then it's even worse - she's a gambler. What if she gambles with protection and STIs? They can be transmitted by mouth, too!

[@smittyg6700]

Men do that all the time when they are cheating.

[@safenabors3006]

I could care less if a woman goes through my cellphone because I'm honest. Have nothing to hide. But a woman--that's a different story. MEN--ALWAYS go through a woman's phone.

[@alcudiababe1]

Safe Nabors im not saying that you have something to hide but (aside from the fact you have trust issues) its still a breech of confidentuality. Its like going to her Doctor and demanding that he tells you everything about her medical history you are breeching her trust in you by doing that. Your going to screw it up when you meet the right girl arent you 😔 Even if she understands and is sympathetic because of prievious rekationships your suspicions and going through her emails or phones she will find your behaviour problematic and no one even if they really like you willwant to be checked up on. Its like because of whats happened you dont trust them and she hasnt done anything to you - without trust and working both ways you cant have a relationship, it cant work, it just cant.

[@alisaiful6717]

How to tell she is cheating? Simple. She dont want to spend time texting or answering your calls..But you could see she is always online most of the time

[@oxysz]

sam rock are you really making up stories on KZbin comments to promote your private investigation business and or scam?

[@ryanturner9979]

@@oxysz im sure hes being honest ...shit works man

[@u-alrdyknoc.v.o8539]

Fr .. I just text one and they text right back asking how can i help you .. So seem legit for the most part ..

[@tonyjones345]

@@chrisrock1021 is this legit?

[@Jerry4050]

Yeah my girlfriend is starting to do this to me now, in the past she would do this to me several times. Now I just keep my distance and wait for her and not be so needy.

[@MrShysterme]

There are reasons women cheat that have nothing to do with you or the relationship. Sometimes it is just a basic failing on their part in terms of self-control, selfishness, or being too needy of male attention/validation. For instance, women with certain personality disorders (e.g. BPD) are very likely to cheat on partners simply because they were "broken" in the past. Beware of women that were mistreated by their parents and then were with men that mistreated them. They will typically think everyone, including you, is like that and so they do not view things in terms of morality. It is a dog eat dog world of no integrity for them.

[@TVismyopiate]

+MrShysterme I agree. Yet I've been there (some brutal abuse as a child) myself and risen above it already by age 20 or something. As I'd rather be loved than harm people for a bit of pleasure etc. The only antidote to hatred as hatred gives rise to all these disorders, is LOVE. Self-love, and offering love. Instead, people love power and settle for that. Or are loved elsewhere. It's not just the obvious BPD or other PDs - even fairly level-headed women act like this sometimes. It can simply be hormonal and a strong sex-drive, with a bit of the attention / validation thing on top. Or no need for integrity in their eyes, because they never valued what integrity brings, or never joined the dots between cause-and-effect to avoid what they don't like?

[@TVismyopiate]

Peter Midnight I agree mate. I've obviously had enough pain to prompt me to think about this plenty, haven't I? You too, or helpfully not so much pain. "Broes before hoes." comes to mind for some reason. But stop your broes abusing women = less broken women out there hurting the next innocent guy.

[@TVismyopiate]

Peter Midnight I'll give you another tip: CAPITALISM is to blame. Feminists and such allowed women to earn (thus doubling the competition for jobs). This doubled the potential pressure on workers, due to extra supply, although that's a very simplistic economic argument. However, culturally and socially, these girls are under stress and pressure like the working guys they compete with and / or replace. They thus have to blow-off more steam at the weekend. They thus perhaps drink more or drug more or just need more sex. Since work is a fact of life, yet morality is fluid, they choose the convenience of no morals. Even morals that they can set for themselves( amoral as opposed to conflicting moral belief systems of different types).

[@MrShysterme]

+monica guerrero Um...it is wrong to judge someone as unfit for a relationship because they have a mental disorder that will cause them to be a bad partner?

[@TheGorflick]

Its how they are, if a guy seduces them they dont care a shit about her boyfriend, you must never trust a woman and never leave her alone and never think she really loves you, she just want you love her

[@downwardspiral3252]

Trust your gut. If something don't feel right, it's not! be cool, but...follow up on things that seem suspicious.

[@SeVinKru3ger]

You'll NEVER be the only guy any female is talking to..... your replacement is always there waiting for you to fail so he can swoop in for the SMASH!!!!! I've been that "friend" soooo many times, I know.

[@adarkgothicforest8508]

its rare but their are some woman that dont have someone waiting... but those girls don't use social media and are loners and are into cool nerdy stuff...again those girls are rare these days

[@christpilled2460]

@@adarkgothicforest8508 There are plenty of girls like that

[@jacoblay96]

@@christpilled2460 not really

[@christpilled2460]

@@jacoblay96 I'm sure there are. It's either that they are already taken or that they are too young at the moment

[@StanfordtheArtist]

“She’ll never be yours-It’s just your turn”...

[@blueskies7035]

Even without spying or being creepy, there are always ways to ask questions that you already know the answer to. If you see a pattern of uncomfortable behavior or unexpected (untruthful) answers, tuck it away until you are ready to pull the whole plug.

[@SupernaturalExplorer]

Watch out for male co-workers that your gf wants to hang out with. Never trust these words from her: "he's gay", "I look at him like a brother", "I'm not attracted to him". There is no reason for any woman to hang out and chill with another man, unless she's looking for a way out, building a relationship with that guy on the side, and when the time strikes (a fight, argument etc), she'll go to that guy and drown her emotional build up to him, which in turn that guy (who is sexually attracted to her (no guy goes after girls in LTR's unless he wants to bang her) will play the nice guy approach and they'll end up sleeping together. The moment she wants a guy friend anytime in your relationship, be on guard, watch for signs, and be prepared that your relationship may end soon. This also goes for guys wanting girls as friends..same scenario. Guys and girls can never be "just friends", there will always be some sort of attraction.

[@omartavarez1223]

@Dr.'sorders She definitely cheated

[@pantheresque6658]

rubbish. all my mates are male , only 2 are female and those two women are not even in the same country. I don't fancy all my mates?? like eh? how's that work? that;s like saying you fancy everybody that's male in your nearest huge supermarket lol - KEEP IT REAL. friendship is friendship. Love is love, Somebody that cheats basically isn't happy and has'nt the ballz to say so and try to fix it, or thinks they can get away with having more (or different sort of) sexyfun than they get at home and nobody will find out. But trust me, WOMEN ARE PALS WITH MEN. all my mates are blokes I am not in love with any of them , you can be IN LOVE WITH a man and be best friends obvs, that's your BOYFRIEND/fiancee/husband, but you 'love in a appreciate them' way, love your pals, coz they're your pals. I don't get along with women much and it's just sheer fluke my mates are blokes. I sure as hell would'nt stop being pals with my mates crikey I just would'nt have s=e=x with them ..OBVS ?? lol . (Why the heck would I anyway??) Sex is for a relationship? being in Love? ...Cheating per se though , is cruel. You'd have to be of a secretive and cruel temperament to do so. A real honest good woman would confront issues lacking before even DREAMING of cheating (and prob wouldnt even cheat, she'd try and try, and/or leave, ? ...too many folks just give up or don't even try to fix issues these days.

[@SupernaturalExplorer]

@@pantheresque6658 Not once did you say that you were currently in a relationship. If you're single, go ahead and have as many guy friends as you want, but I can tell you, those guys have some type of attraction to you, even if you've friend zoned them. Or maybe you know this, and enjoy the attention that they give you, and just kinda stringing them along. Or perhaps you're truly oblivious, and honestly think that men and women can be "just friends". If that's the case, you're probably young and naive, when it comes to men's attraction to women. If you're currently in a relationship, why are you hanging out with all these guys for? Would you like it if your BF was hanging out with a bunch of girls that were single, and he's like "oh they're just friends", and he's spending hours and hours at their place, or texting/talking on the phone with them, instead of being with you? The answer is No. You would question his motives, and theirs. Likewise, a BF would question your motives, and the motives of your guy friends. When a relationship starts and gets serious, the proper, and mature thing to do is tell your guy friends "We can't talk/hang out anymore, I'm currently in a relationship", and likewise the guy says the same to his lady friends. Girls have girl friends, guys have guy friends.

[@darkalan1562]

Correct

[@darkalan1562]

@@pantheresque6658 You dont fancy them. But they fancy you, and you're too dumb to see it.

[@neildavis2939]

It doesn't matter if they're happy or not believe me if they're going to do it they're going to do it it doesn't matter if she's unhappy happy they're going to do it

[@ConnorDRyan]

Neil Davis yep. I started a relationship with a girl with who cheating on her boyfriend at the time. They didn’t break up until a month after I was seeing her. Then our relationship ended because I caught her cheating. It’s just how some women are and we can’t blame ourselves for their behavior

[@sheldor73]

@@ConnorDRyan one of the best answers and advice.

[@johnbingaman3645]

I dated my wife for 5 years, we got married, she woke me up 2 a.m. in the morning 2 months after the marriage and said I do not love you, everybody said well you got to work on a marriage ,the next woman that tells me that.... I'll be out within the hour, we went four more years,,, she hooked up with a guy .. when I was working ,,the guy she hooked up with her beat the hell out of her for five years, they broke up and guess who she called ??the one and only me. I said no thank you she was a conniver a liar a cheater with low integrity...... she tried to clean my clock also and it was her fault, remember fellas always get a prenuptial agreement, and make sure the girl you date has equal value to what you have has her own house or own car a good job and money so they don't suck you dry...,

[@skyfall1481]

You can’t stop them!!! You have to trust them anywhere, anytime around anyone. It will be what will be. But vet early on and don’t ignore the red flags. These cheaters will do it in plain sight, they don’t care!!!!

[@derekazyan9942]

Yeah I’m really good to my gf and I caught her using dating sites

[@joshualett6997]

if she locks her phone, other people say that she's talking s*** about you. if it takes her 2 hours to go through a drive-thru if she's always starting a little fights with you if she's constantly asking when you're going to be home from work or where you're at but isn't hooking up with you run. if her schedule has made drastic changes that can't be explained or she's buying tons of new clothes she's cheating on you bro true story another big one is she's no longer interested in your family at all it's because of the guilt of being around people who really love you and knowing what she did

[@EagDesert]

God, you just described her like like you've met her. She's basically doing all of that.

[@onlyreflex8661]

EagDesert Good luck brother

[@bristolgriggs4576]

New clothes don't mean that ( necessarily).. however, if its new undies and bras ( lacy pretty things) but yet YOU don't see her wearing them... that's a sure sign

[@jonswartz8862]

literally everything in this comment is happening to me, and what Corey says "insecure and passive agressive."

[@RGTomoenage11]

EagDesert move on

[@MrDaveB56]

How to tell if she's cheating: 1) check to see if she's breathing. If she isn't, then she's not cheating.

[@earthpart3]

lol

[@nick421]

Legend!!

[@nunyabizniss77]

You're completely wrong 1) check if she exists

[@realblackpilot1349]

MrDaveB56 or ask her and see if hear breathing and if her voice changes or her actions after are different

[@robinsonjsmith2776]

😂

[@peterm1826]

this is why i'am totally single their not worth the problems

[@gregcampbelle3696]

I wanted to be married to one woman my whole adult life, I really did and I always felt this way from the time i started getting interested in girls. I wanted the relationship that my grandparents had. I sewed my wild oats as much as anybody in my late teens and early twenties, but I was always looking forward to settling down and be loyal to one woman. I'm approaching 40 now and I've realized that ship has pretty much sailed, after divorce and the psycho single mom shuffle. Almost all the single women my age have hit the wall HARD or have mega baggage. They are not even remotely attractive to me anymore. The ones who are attractive to me are the ones who date wealthy men, of which I am far from being. Millennial girls are so fucked up I can't even stand most of them. I'll fuck the ones I can get, but that's about it. Escorts and sugar babies are the way to go for middle aged men who are at least somewhat financially secure. You are gonna pay regardless, whether it is rental or a purchase you are stuck with.

[@snakesmokin4004]

Peter M i once told my dad " when i grow up im not gonna get married" and he said "if you do that you are fucking smart,

[@theshield1613]

@@gregcampbelle3696 back than our grandparents and great grandparents they experience and felt real love . today you barley see that social media has ruined relationships and marriages why because your bf, gf, husband or wife could be cheating on you on facebook Instagram or other. back than it was easy to spot if your partner was cheating or not you could follow him or her where they go or you could hear them talking on the the phone you could go to the kitchen or the other room to pick up the house phone and you could hear the conversation but you can't do that today's phone because most people don't have house phones only cellphones you could hid mostly everything on your cell phones this is part of the NWO to separate relationships and marriages

[@ekowkumasi1178]

no one is worth the problems.

[@ryanturner9979]

@@theshield1613 yes cheating now starts online usually

[@djchewmacca]

I recently went through my gfs phone because she was acting suspicious. My suspicions were correct. She had been flirting with a guy she met over a year ago when she took our little girl swimming. I know it's not right to go through her phone but I had to know for certain for my own sanity. I suggested we have an open relationship and she didn't like the idea. I've basically told her if she wants to continue flirting with this guy then go for it but I won't be part of it anymore. I've had enough of the lies and deception.

[@chincherries9567]

"BEST OPTION????" There's no OPTION in a relationship.....if u want FUCKING OPTIONS......DO NOT get into a relationship!!!!!!!

[@sapuanharon1066]

Goog

[@lisawarren2491]

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[@shaneleone4606]

Lisa Warren that is the only documented case

[@snakesmokin4004]

chincherries so true i once told my dad when i grow up i don't want to marry anyone and he said" if you do that you are so fucking smart"

[@lamargt56]

what's done in the dark comes to the light anyway so it's no need to search for it. It will come out anyway

[@Jnb21]

Not true at all

[@marty6850]

Not always that can take years before it comes out

[@Jnb21]

From what ive seen, the truth doesnt surface until the relationship has ended sometimes even years afterwards. Its fucked up. Worst feeling in the world

[@joshuatravis4766]

The best way to find out is set traps and watch , dont say a word

[@chicoda1uh838]

Not true

[@tyleranderson5137]

I think it's time to find yourself a new wife man. Woman rarely ever stop cheating once they have already.

[@yasinimalya4001]

It hurts like hell, cheating, drama everywhere 😬

[@JT-ei3ly]

Human are complicated

[@elnara1]

There can’t be smoke without fire. Guys who say that they don’t like drama usually provoking girls to display drama. If a man is alpha and knows how to communicate there won’t be any drama.

[@ThandoKING]

@@elnara1 gaslighting troll alert 🤡 just take responsibility for your actions

[@bangband1]

@@elnara1 Women taking no responsibility as usual.

[@kimcobrakai.23]

Similar to my past relationship experience. one of the good option to read the sign is paying attention to the women's action because action speaks louder than the words.

[@joeyluna8695]

I got a headache!

[@patriciovalenzuela6119]

It is simple. You are a nice respectful guy etc. She cheats, she looses you. There are more women out there that will be smarter than that one. Just... don’t take her back when it is her timeo to cry. Not because you want to punish her, but because she is not at your level of maturity so she is simply not worth it....

[@Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52]

*LOSES

[@kushagrasonkar]

Why shouldn't I look into her phone if I suspect smthng is wrong? I did it only one time in all my relationships and turns out I was right. She was sleeping with a bunch of dudes. If i hadn't looked into her phone, there was no way she would have told this to me herself.

[@eltorolocowey]

Any man that thinks it won't happen to him then it's probably happening to him, he's the most likely to get cheated on because he trusts her way too much to ever think it'll happen to him....

[@AutotuneSucksBalls]

1) Sudden changes in looks .e.g. never wears heavy make up, but all of the sudden starts caking her face, starts buying nice shoes getting excessively dressed up to go out. Any break in routine is a huge RED FLAG. 2) Get's very upset when you touch her cellphone even to move it 3) Shows interest in an activity she never liked before e.g. "I'm going to a garage sale with the gf's " but never went with you. 4) Hidden birth control you both don't use 5) When u want sex she is always "tired"

[@MobilediscowirralCoUk]

Number 5 is massive true sign you know the score

[@callanc3925]

@@MobilediscowirralCoUk Also though, if she suddenly wants sex all the time. Sometimes they think theyre being slick by giving it to you more to make you think "well theres no way shes getting it somewhere else"

[@sweyn8054]

I'm not sure my wife is cheating I just know shes a compulsive liar and a thief. I definitely relate to being the one who has to fix it. I've given her the opportunity to get counseling going and she won't. Told her I'm not fixing things anymore and still nothing. I'm a believer that if I can't trust you with something small I definitely can't trust you with something big. Thanks for the info and advice. I'm to a point I don't care if I find anything out I'm just over it. The no integrity thing hit way close to home. Much of what you said hit home

[@MicSokol]

I stick to one rule - mutual respect, no lies of any kind whatsoever and I make sure that the other party understands that it doesn't take much for me to leave if I am being disrespected. So far I was never cheated.

[@gregcampbelle3696]

That you know of.

[@finngrant234]

That works on some level. But if a woman loses interest you're done either way. And women are definitely more liable to cheat - they have all the power in terms of sex yes/sex no never forget that. If a woman is loyal like you are it's a fucking rarity, IF you are truly loyal too.

[@scottyboy8880]

U just never found out

[@charlesnemec4280]

I would not have a girlfriend that didn't have phone transparency with me...

[@koma7778]

I agree. I learned it the hard way. If its first few months i wouldnt check. But if something is suspicious its mandatory. Cant have a serious relationship if someone is acting suspicious but refuses to prove they didnt betray your trust

[@skyfall1481]

100%. It’s all in the phone!!!!! If it gets to the point of asking to see their phone- res clearly a lack of trust and you probably need to leave. Social media has a lot to answer for. They are one person to you in real life and another online. These scallywags are disgusting.

[@SurlyMontanan]

I'm living in a SE Asian Country in which I felt that many people lacked integrity. Then I consider the number of "love hotels" and the startling rate of adultery here and this video makes a lot of sense.

[@texasmade2719]

Lets be real about this topic. Marriage and relationship does not stop the man nor the woman from wanting other people. It does not matter how good one looks or how much money one has. Human nature takes its course more in a relationship than being single meaning once in a relationship or married the more people gonna want to come at you and the more tempted you are to want step out and try something new. Of course your challenge with your integrity of not wanting to cheat but because its so hard people come up with different opportunities to step outside of their marriage or relationship using these ideas (separate, open marriage /open relationship, side piece, breaks). These ideas make cheating seem okay as long as they break up with the person to cheat and then get back together. This is how our world is we try to find ways to make our wrong seem right so we won't feel guilty for the things we do. Instead of be honest with oneself and working on your self to be right and to do right, we rather do wrong and make it seem right which does not resolve the issue when it comes up again later on down the road.

[@timothyirwin8974]

Her mother kept telling me my wife was losing weight. That was more than a hint looking back at it now.

[@gachasnookie639]

How to tell of your cheating: Shes always on her phone and always tries to avoid kisses

[@Eazyindallas]

Once she's doing those things that's it you only have 2 options...leave or play the same game.

[@user-dv2hc8zt3o]

The biggest red flag that she's cheating on you is when all of sudden she wants to "hang out" with some other guy who's "just her friend and you don't have to worry about him"

[@AbstractM0use]

Mine was more insidious. She'd say she was going to hang out with her girlfriends, but she was really hooking up with guys. She'd actually hang out with her girlfriends long enough so she could take pics with them so she could prove she was with them. I found out she'd lied once when she said she was meeting one of her girlfriends for sushi. She actually did that, and posted pics on Facebook. She stayed out late, too. The next day I'd noticed her friend had posted pics of the same night, but there were 2 guys hanging out with them, too. When I asked her about that, she said she didn't know the guys were going to be there and that one of them was there to meet her friend and the other just happened to be with him. She didn't want to tell me they were there because she didn't want me to worry. I believed her at the time, but this was a giant red flag in hindsight. She would have broken up with me on the spot had I gone out with my guy friends and hid the fact there were women with us, too.

[@cl1xor]

I'm following Coreys advice for like 2 months now, and like half of the women i meet, date and hookup with either have boyfriends or are in the process of breaking up. If i ask them about their motives it's usually that they are unsure of something (sexually mostly) and want to get the feedback they want (i.e. that they're still desirable). So from a relationship perspective best thing to do imo is keep confirming that they're beautiful once in a while.

[@amaravaldez-paz6163]

My girlfriend made certain things on her Facebook private that wasn’t private before She also has a privacy screen on her phone.... idk two small things but as a person who has been cheated on in the past hiding is usually the first sign.

[@bamnibaum]

He is the guy that watches you leave and sneaks in and takes care of what you should be taking care of!

[@daviddidaniele8483]

Omg, my ex had no intergrity about herself. I never new that. I kept believing her. She cheated which I caught was 10 times, so just imagine how many times she really did. I'm not a cheater but now I understand life way more, thank you

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Yep. Make her feel more special than the other women she worries about losing you to.

[@alcudiababe1]

i must also add, never go out with a girl who has the potential to drop or discard you - what do i mean by that? Dont go out with someone just based on their looks if she makes you drool then thats it she has the potential to up and leave you. Get to know a girl first. Of course it makes you look good if she is smoking hot but if a guy is serious about a girl dont just make it all about their looks. Really, really attractive women know they are attractive they really do and dont forget they are getting offers all the time and sizing you up but those types of women can be way too up their own ass and think half other people are stupid anyway and you want to be with a woman you feel comfortable with

[@ski8799]

@alcudiababe1 - very true, great point. I do have a beautiful girlfriend and she knows that she is beautiful, she is extremely conceited. So, guys are always all over her and I am living in hell, there is always a new guy popping out from somewhere and its exhausting... Lately, I have started looking inward and I have reinforced my self confidence and I kind of don't give a shit, anyways, unless a guy can do as I have done, its not worth the headache, but excellent point though and sooo true!

[@finngrant234]

I agree to some degree. Put it this way. If we were just faceless bots talking to each other, would she still be the same person in your eyes? That's where personality comes in. Sexual attraction is undeniable, but a congruent, attractive balanced personality - now that's hard to find irrespective of looks.

[@manofthehour1983]

He 100% should look at her phone if he has the gut feeling shes cheating, dont be a sucka.

[@alcudiababe1]

And if he looks, and she's not, he's just broke her trust

[@alcudiababe1]

@Dr.'sorders and if his mind goes to auto poilet of what originally happened to him he could be screwing up a relationship with a nice person. It would be awful to be a girlfriend to someone who doubts your loyalty. You' d smile at a bloke to be polite if he was in your way, or you were buying groceries and your fella would be saying that he was hitting on you and you were letting it so how can he trust you? Girls, who care deeply for the fella they are with, have to say goodbye to them even if they don't want to, because how can they stick around with someone invading their privacy and doubting loyalty. They won't at first want to be like other girls who have left him, they will want to prove they are different but when someone checks your phone, doubts you at any given moment its hardly a blossoming relationship

[@alcudiababe1]

@Dr.'sorders or what if, some girl has the exact same experiences would you allow her to check your phone? How would it make you feel if she accused you of cheating all the time days when your running late or having to come home from work an hour later etc.

[@alcudiababe1]

@Dr.'sorders I hear what your saying but I don't believe that's how you build trust

[@Pma686]

@@alcudiababe1 simply put, you cant trust anyone these days. Period. That's why relationships fail so often. Nobody can be trusted. Best to just stay single!

[@DigitalFlavaMrkting]

Man, you are dead on about my Ex.

[@matthew7291]

Hello Corey Wayne, I've heard you say, "the professions that have the most cheaters is police officers, and nurses." You say, for whatever reason those professions are the worst for relationships. Yesterday night I had an intense conversation that ended in a beautiful nurse leaving a bar crying. Not my intention. I think you know why those professions have the most cheaters. Care to share?

[@PedroDVC]

Leave her and have self-respect bro!

[@anthonyshelton7828]

This guy is top class! Such a blessing through my worst moments

[@mpg869]

relationships !!!!.....never again !!!

[@jacobgilles2392]

Bout to end mine

[@juangarcia-sz8pl]

i didn't hear any of the signs that she's cheating

[@atlargera]

juan garcia i know right 😂

[@frankiesmom8478]

If you suspect a partner is cheating on you observe how they act around you with their phone.

[@skyfall1481]

If they’re ignoring their phone as well...they don’t always have to be checking it. Honestly, we can’t win. But if there is no trust, then let them go.

[@bradleyhiggins8303]

I'm fifteen and this is already so relatable

[@plightoftheblackwoman6835]

Corey even if this woman apologized to you -- you still should have been done. She didn't value you enough as a person and rubbed this other guy in your face -- she was willing to risk loosing you b/c you meant nothing to her. An apology is not enough. If you are ever in a situation like that again -- you can accept her apology but that does not mean you have to accept her. Forgiveness is not synonymous with Reconciliation.

[@scottkayrouz236]

I agree with your concept if you are dealing with habitual cheaters and liars. Throw away women. Your plan is spending time and effort on someone you know isn’t for you. The types of women you would have to use these tactics on aren’t the type that you marry if you are a sane man. It’s nice to be able to diagnose particular behavior as red flags, but gut feelings and waiting to see by watching the behavior will tell you the same thing. If you have to use tactics that don’t come natural just to get some you aren’t really happy in that relationship anyway. Always have option B, C, D and E in case things fall apart. They may very quickly without much warning. You are missing the fact that you are trying to make logic of an illogical mindset of a woman. She controls men that allow her to. If that isn’t happening she will move on to those she can, unless she’s a unicorn. People change, so do their feelings for someone. You can’t control anyone else and as soon as you realize that you are better off. It’s hard to let go of a woman you have feelings for, but if she is involved in lying about where she is and there are other men she’s involved with it’s game over. You won’t be happy. Time to face reality and move on. Get away from her. Be sure and have all the fun with her you can before you do. Play some serious head games and fuck her up good first, because if it’s a jezebel demon inside her she will eat you alive and you’ll never even know it. Once you figure her out she has totally screwed you over. Have no mercy on that type of person. Be sure to use her for all she’s worth first because that’s all she’s doing to you.

[@redbullsurfer3686]

fuck that I rather stay single,i rather spend my money on a surf board then a lady who cheats on a guy.

[@demetriusrasberry1851]

Sound like my first kid mother always sleeping on her phone never wanted to have sex so them two reasons I knew what time it was now my second son mom you just said a red flag that I know for a fact I'm quite before someone gets hurt. I am tried of relationships tried of starting over I completely closed my heart I know I will never love again

[@leonak7654]

I was in a relationship for 8years , I always had a strong feeling that my Ex girlfriend.. sleeping with her Ex behind my back for many years! One night we had a massive arguement: about why she keep distancing her self to me , so I dumped her, But guess what, after 2 weeks..she went back to her Ex, I was right , Always listen to your gut feeling.

[@johnnyg7899]

I have had many relationships in over 50 years. Been married more than once and so I have a pretty good idea of what cheating looks like. Women tend to say well, get over your past. As if the behaviors never get repeated. One thing is for sure. Every single time I suspected someone was cheating on me, I was right 100% of the times. Out of 39 women I have dated or married in my lifetime, only 2 were faithful.

[@josem6761]

Similar experience. Hanging out w girl whom I had bad gut feeling on. For some reason this guy always seemed to pop up when we were hanging out. we had a fight then later we made up and hung out with her family. She then tells me she invited you know whi come over and hang out too. I ways like WTF. Needless to say the sht hit the fan. I ended up leaving that night by saying I was tired and had to go. Later both her cousins apologized to me for the asshill she was that night. By the way, ti this day she never apologized for doing that and maintains she did nothing wrong. She even tried to spin it against me with her cousins, but they both said she was in the wrong that day to this day. Anyway, there were res flags all along, and we have not seen each other since. Pay attention guys, its all there in plain sight.

[@mgtow-balance3409]

once a man learns *female nature,* no woman stands a chance

[@Vanxius]

So i have this girlfriend or 10 months now, she has started doing renaissance this summer. She stays weekends over there. She has recently been not wanting sex and is just being secretive. I asked her what if I were to come over one night and spend the the night in her tent. She got really defensive and said that was against the rules. I later ask what her tent looked like and she said i didnt need to know that. I feel this heart wrenching pain when i think about it. Im not sure of what to do

[@sagelionrubikon6237]

Trust your gut

[@tonrobert3391]

If I suspect my girlfriend is cheating knowing myself & I have a an opportunity to find out the truth by picking up her phone I will.

[@mgtow-balance3409]

you fuckin' damn right. why wouldn't a person naturally act on information they know is a detriment to them? that bullshit about the phone is BITCHES's way of shaming men into trusting "their" women i'm surprised this man gave such pussy ass "advice" to men. whenever a man starts using the same lines that FEMALES use, is when i lose all trust in him

[@judahb3ar]

So do we need to keep a “distance” from our girl, even when we’ve been dating several months? That’s what I don’t understand, it feels like at some point these games need to stop, who wants to have a long term relationship like this, it’s exhausting

[@RevRumble_]

At the end of the day you know of she is or she isn’t. Some love the thought of it, but it’s actually very easy to tell if she really is. Trust your instinct & don’t get too attached. There is a double standard w/ woman.. they will always try to play you or keep the upper hand. The only way to tell she’s not cheating is if she’s with you and all over you.

[@berineayala4767]

This shit so insightful! Thank you Corey Wayne! You are awesome

[@mixedblkpinay]

Why should you be an option.. When you can be a choice.

[@TylerSane5]

Another good way to find out if someone is cheating when your chilling either about to watch a movie or listen to music try to pick something that has to do with cheating! They will most likely start acting weird and very uncomfortable! I did this with my last GF well ex now cuz I knew something was up! When I threw on a song that talked about cheating she said do we have to listen to this? Really? And got all mad and it was the only song she had a problem with out of all the songs before that! I could just feel the vibe anyways a week later we broke up and she was with the guy I expected she was cheating with within a week! They didn't last long then she came back to me but I broke up with her 4 months later cuz I didn't feel like it was the same after that!.

[@TylerSane5]

Worked for me :p lol

[@ILrukiamaxim55]

NICE XD

[@grandoldsoul4691]

what if she sings along with it LOL! RED FLAG!

[@notaavegotchi]

Lol my ex also cheated, I took her back then left her, never ever

[@PadreNick]

What songs and movies you watched 😂😂

[@millerelex]

When somebody tells you who they are.... Believe them!

[@kingalpha8389]

...the first time.

[@sheldor73]

Nope! Very unwise thing to do! You give terrible advice!

[@rbascon64]

I learned from Sandra Johannson that no matter how well you treat her, she will lie to you about the guy it didn't work out before you. In a passive aggressive and narcissistic fashion, she destroyed our relationship in one fell swoop leaving me wondering WTF happened while she's hooked up with the dude she's been waiting to finally come around.

[@tedsmith878]

You KNOW what to do. You need to cut her loose dude.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Well done dude :)

[@bradyworsencroft6845]

man I wish I could have seen the vid years ago. still with my wife but 4 affairs later. I'm not a saint by any stretch, I feel like I have been doing a lot of revenge cheating... not healthy. what should I do?

[@omniXenderman]

Decide to be in an open relationship at that point if you're good enough to get laid right back, or just divorce

[@snpll7906]

I have something that has been bothering me for quite some time. My girlfriend of 5 years and I broke up after an argument for a period of about 3 weeks. The argument is that she has a "Friend" that is a guy and they have had sexual relations in the past. I never thought she was the cheating type but she and this guy would hang out when I was not around, it bothered me and it led me to suspect there might be something going on. After the argument and a few weeks we started working things out, here's my concern.. Before our break up we had just changed the sheets and when we got back together there were sex stains on them somehow. She deny's any sexual activity when we were separated but I just don't believe her even though she is genuinely pretty honest, I tried to let it go, but it has recently been haunting me and affecting the way I have been towards her...I have been very distant due to the manifestation of these thoughts and feelings again and it is seriously affecting our relationship. I haven't said anything to her about it but I want to. It's like catching a kid doing something you know they did but they just won't fess up. What to do, what to think...

[@Ohenry0828]

Just End it Bro. Women having guy friends complicate things. Read. Corey's book 15 times. And find a woman that is in the same pages as you. You have to be straight up in the beginning. You need to let them know what you want. And if they don'tagree with it and there's another bus in 15 minutes. P.S. She cheated. Women are good liars.

[@zach7384]

I've been in similar situations, man. What it always comes down to with me is, if you're confident those stain's aren't from you, they had to come from somewhere else. It's just that simple. You must then decide if it's something you're willing to put aside for the feelings you have for her. If she will never admit the truth, she's probably not worth the effort of a serious relationship. If she still benefits your life, for one reason or another, it may still be worth sticking around. If she's going to fuck you around and lie to your face, but choose to stay around, get what you can out of her. That is if the pro's out weigh the con's, of course. Not for reasons of revenge, but treat the relationship as she does so things are on an even playing field.

[@zach7384]

Also, the problem with assumptions is of course the lack of proof. Are you positive they're sex stains? Make a list of all of her actions that leave you feeling something isn't right, is it lengthy? In my experience, it's often the case that your feelings aren't lying to you. In the event that you find out you were right all along, make the decision that puts the power back into your hands. Leave, or even the playing field.

[@alcudiababe1]

Shane Gibson Your over thinking it. If she is being this honest with you and she has been truthful to you i wouldnt worry. Trust me its when women are not that open you've got to worry. I have sex with my fiance but when i do i dont check the bed to see if there are any stains!! I think you have touch of OCD. I believe you need to work on yourself, dont chuck a nice girl away because of your insecurities better yet talk to her - chances are she'll put your mind to rest because the only problem you have asking these questions on here is some guys are bitter and twisted from past experiences and they'll tell you straight up what they think you should do but this needs to come from you - how about if she is nice as she is, do what iive suggested, sitting and talking with her. Nothing can move forward if you dont but i will mention one thing to you when i moved into a flat with my boyfriend he always said it wouldnt bother him if female friends came to the house but if any guy mates did hed want to be there. Not that anything would happen but hed just want to be there and i introduce friends of mine to him all the time not everyone had the privledge of coming over but i think you both should find some common ground rules you both agree on.

[@shadybrooks8174]

Personally I would never be friends with a guy that I use to fuck when I have a new man. You think that guy isnt gonna want to screw her again? He probably already is and if she cared about u that much she would take you feelings into consideration. Unless you went all bat shit crazy on her.

[@astheticgirl4684]

I met my kids mother by her cheating on her then boyfriend. Now I'm starting to see signs that I'm next. Boy was I stupid for that....

[@dareksanders7623]

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[@bornagain1589]

Where is your video about how to tell if he is cheating?

[@BrentB1961]

Deal with it...there are plenty of sites you ask for...this is for men....deal with it

[@KingBowserVlog]

Equalityyy waaah

[@liamcroxford]

Yep Im There. Get away. Totally agree.

[@JohnMarochko-hs5em]

My GF was a narcissist.She thought I was stupid .She always got caught lying .No she wasn't at no Chantels .I Text it's over .Havent seen her in 3 weeks .No contact

[@romesrepublic]

If she want's a break or is talking about breaking up, you need to get to the bottom of why she feels that way. Otherwise just leave. Also, if she starts spending a lot of time with a new guy friend, he's her plan b. She should want to spend most of her time with you.

[@trevorross1311]

Sup Corey,the videos are very true and helpful!!!.And i must admit,most of the things that ur saying u should'nt do i'm doing.So i have some work to do.But again,the videos are very helpful and keep up the good work man.

[@stevebyrum5571]

This video literally has gave me my strength back. I literally your example and definition of passive aggressive was needle sharp spot on.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

I responded to your comment in my recent KZbin video titled: "Two Cheating Lovers"

[@ernestthomas5281]

when you start itching she's cheating .

[@krystianpedziwiater4466]

How do I know for sure she’s cheating? It seems she deletes all her messages on Instagram or Facebook. I look through her phone and I find nothing. She seems to take a while getting home from work. It just seems a little too good to be true.

[@apriltaplac204]

Sometimes what happens from the past makes us hurt other people too.. It affects us about how people treated us and we pass it on to others because we receive such a big abuse to our life that we ended up being abusive to others.

[@lordbjesomar]

true

[@monkeyking8131]

Lion Heart it is an excuse. I hurt others because I've been hurt. more proof that shows women are weak

[@AbstractM0use]

Wow, thank you for reminding me of something my ex said in the beginning of our relationship that I'd totally forgotten about. She said she'll probably be the one that screws up our relationship because she always does. I totally disregarded that statement for the same reasons: I thought I'd be different. She was the same way. Beautiful, sexy and had a secret group of guy "friends" waiting for their turn. (And they eventually got it) Lesson learned.

[@KCinSD84]

She's never your girl, it's just your turn!

[@vsbarry5769]

what you telling in your story is exactly what is happening in my relationship

[@toddashcraft6453]

Just saw a guys name i think my girlfriend just added on snapchat, looked him up and he lives in a city north of her, and tonight she was at someones house in that city and idk of any of her friends that live there. And she hasnt been texting me just as often but more lazily than normal. I feel like thats a red flag

[@donovan3872]

Watching this made me feel better. Thanks Corey.

[@carolynsaintpaul7423]

the funny thing about women is that most of them are unaware if they'e behaving in a self destructive manner. u can't tell m that neither cuz responsibility is not their friend

[@mgtow-balance3409]

hmmm.... and why would a woman be telling this to men? that "unaware* thing is pure bullshit. i hold women 100% accountable for THEIR actions, just as i would a man. and as has always been the case, women ALWAYS know what they're doing. so when females try to ACT like this, it's more gaslighting they're using -- and NOT just being oblivious. to say this is vagina knighting for women ps: and a female saying this points to the fact that either a) this woman is stupid because as a woman she doesn't know about *female nature,* or b) she does know, but is ACTing as if she doesn't know, which makes her a 100% liar so which one is it?

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Thanks :)

[@killeracura]

my gf all of the sudden rejected my love but she was very jealous when she saw me talking to a female friend of me was she cheating on me?

[@LifewithChance8800]

Sad thing is red flags hit my girlfriend like her shields her phone and she got mad at me she almost seems like she is texting someone else and never says good morning or talks to me as much. I think I’m getting fed up

[@johnnyg7899]

They all do that. Women always think that their social circle is bigger than life and that men have no clue. Whenever they do that "I'm busy routine", its best to do the same behavior back to them twofold. You have to show that you are a high value man and that there are plenty of options for you. Only then will they take notice and start taking you more serious. If you don't, they will always weight their options and consider you as optional.

[@callanc3925]

@@johnnyg7899 nah if shes already changing her behaviour dont even try and make her change back. Either end it on the spot, or do like you said and change in the same way until she starts wanting you again and then leave her anyways. Never give a chick the pleasure of thinking shes irreplaceable, never give her the pleasure of thinking shes integral to your life.

[@fidelitycheckonline2014]

Hiding phones or sleeping with the phone under the pillow is a big sign they are trying to hide something from you.

[@TheBritishPunter]

Amen brother

[@Billybunts]

Maybe she's waiting for the phone fairy to pick her phone up

[@EpiKProphecy09]

If she’s cheating fuck it oh well move on and be wiser, don’t let bullshit excuses hold you back from finding out the real truth even if it hurts

[@dareksanders7623]

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[@Nox_Aeterna]

am i really the only one who's wondering how many relationships this guy had... because for almost every problem he has a personal experience..... how..... how the fuck are you getting so many relationships

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

+Joshua van Wijk I'm 45 dude. It's called living life to the fullest.

[@Nox_Aeterna]

+Coach Corey Wayne well dude, anyway thanks for all the vid's, it really helps me a lot when i have question's about how to deal with my relationship. bcuz damn man she can be a pain in the ass sometimes, but i love her, and i respect her.

[@arbiabrami2751]

+Coach Corey Wayne You sir are a great man.

[@todddeckard7771]

+Coach Corey Wayne so HOW to confront? Watching the video now.

[@infomedia2037]

+Coach Corey Wayne Or man-whoring???? Dude, ewwww!!!

[@ConservativeWatchParty]

My finaces co worker at her new job was "just a friend" and weeks later she left me for him. I suspected it all along when she stopped coming home after work. Theyre both bartenders.

[@tubenachos]

Fact: Women ALWAYS have a backup plan.

[@kvs7876]

Why shouldn’t you look at her phone? She should be doing what she’s doing. This is actually happening to me and my girl friend right now with her ex.

[@CideShowEntOGJames]

I feel like in being cheated on right now. We are engaged, I love her di much but I think she is cheating. I can't prove it but u feel it

[@chrisadams5124]

Leave her. She is cheating.