Why You're Not A Priority

[@kevindavis1281]

Just don't fall for it. Be busy. Do your own thing and don't compromise it. Work on bringing your own value up! That's it! There's your answer!!

[@petergrebinger8480]

They all play games all the time

[@Pursuit4happiness]

@@mrs9225 Sadly some guys do the same so it just ppl you have a doom in love mentality not allowing ppl who do not have that mentality get frustrated with great ppl who can not get over the past or insecurities ... so yeah we have to accept that ugly truth and move on

[@hermanlucaslucas846]

@@mrs9225 they have this "believe women" thing going in I think its going to be another nail in the coffin for the cause of women.

[@Intension123]

@@mrs9225 Facts, right there. The majority of women have it so easy in life, not having to initiate, having the power of choosing and they manipulate the living shit out of it. Women are so stuck inside their feeling entitled bubble, that they just dont give a damn about anything other then themselfs and act like spoiled princesses who are able to do or act the way they want, without penalty. Being shallow, entitled and craving free attention, comes to women naturally, especially with the social media that killed dating for most men and the feminists.

[@yeahokaycoolcool]

A bit different when you're married, but okay

[@aron8949]

don't be afraid to lose her, I had a women that was stringing me along, I was clearly not a priority, I told her to hit me up when she wants to hang out, I never hit her up again, and she never hit me up again. now I do not have to focus any time on a woman who is not into me.

[@svasianfilipiname6603]

No one has “a truck load” of options unless you’re filthy rich or, famous, or you’re at least a 7+/10! 🙂

[@ElevateResumeDesign]

Aron amen brotha

[@jjmusicarchive2998]

9 days no contact for me. She started saying she’s gotta check her schedule and being flaky. I’ve had enough. Everything was going well for the first month. I was so happy. Crazy how that can be taken away so quickly. I’ll hit her up in 4 or 5 days and try one more time. She’s shy so idk, Still, i thought she’d reach out. It’s hard to wait and not overpersue

[@krissyegee]

I completely agree. Walk away, she ain’t worth your time ✌🏾

[@rickmorgan1441]

@@toddgoogle4387 what industry you work in )

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Correct. All you can do is your best and sometimes that still will not be enough.

[@somyan8540]

Coach Corey Wayne - true. 😔

[@robertgibbs7513]

Women are so complicated Coach Corey Wayne the old days used to be easy it was easier back in the old days for a man to get a woman but now it's like almost impossible

[@johnbingaman3645]

@@robertgibbs7513 you're right, and the older you get it's even harder, the older they are they have more baggage ,damage, multiple marriages and kids and exes in the background, and very independent, and a lot of the women in their fifties and sixties are really out of shape with a lot of extra pounds

[@johnbingaman3645]

@@kristianthaulow yes this is what you have to do, Corey's books and knowledge are very great stuff, but the older you get it does get harder Slim Pickens oh, well you hope they're Slim, knowledge is power

[@jennifersinatra5743]

Women are told to do the same thing..lol.. we're all so cautious as people are so fickle.

[@jazzoj5]

3:31 this is how I lost the last chick I was dating, don't let these girls waste your time. If you get the feeling you're not a priority or you're chasing way more than her, pull back, make other things in your life a priority over seeing her, if she likes you she'll make more of an effort, if not charge it to the game and move on.

[@Malitubee]

This!!!

[@growitheflow]

Charge it to the Game. 💳

[@monie948]

if someone or something is important to you you make time for it.

[@ladyfay7777]

Exactly this.

[@ladyfay7777]

Please stop stalking me on yt.

[@eggyolkeo6422]

@@mrs9225 God damn you hit the nail right in the head.

[@eggyolkeo6422]

@@mrs9225 I know what you mean, once they start to make excuses not to text, not even in her spare time or stop giving a shit about you, there's someone else in the picture. Happened to me recently. So I walked away.

[@flo_ridaa7074]

👍🏼

[@Drumdad90]

When my ex dumped me 5 years ago, I was devastated. I feel like the pain wouldnt end, my ego was hurt and I loved her so much. Almost destroyed my life. This guy saved me. Whenever im sad and misses her, I watch a ton of his vid and even bought his book. Thanks Coach. You saved my life. I came out fine and is now living the life I dreamt of. That ex gf started begging me and tried to win me back and I dumped her.

[@lunababy662]

It sucks when people see u as unimportant not a fun feeling

[@uravggamer4620]

Good job man, good job

[@croatiancroissant28776]

I did the same. I just wasn’t interested anymore

[@bills1779]

Good !!

[@diamon1312]

I am a woman and I think that's totally true:"you should value your self" best advice ever👏

[@alisaiful6717]

I had gone through all those things.. Its terrible when you found out you were not a priority. I returned back the treatment and stop making her a priority. Problem solved. I moved on with my life

[@jamesnghiem3718]

Ali Saiful g>\ I Se

[@rancesullivan2446]

Sometimes it's better 2 just walk away. Take what dignity u still have and go. It's easier when u have been repeatedly disrespected...

[@caroltrimble2738]

This is very true

[@Aquariuswonder86]

Exactly

[@bob-a-louannamaria7960]

I don’t like this tactic entirely. To be ok with her fucking around with other dudes. fuck that

[@bob-a-louannamaria7960]

Al Pacino cool story bro

[@Lerroy007]

7:37 what to say if shes not treating you like a priority 14:14 what to do if she wont make date 14:43 what to say if she calls you the night of

[@lovemecom3832]

This advice is helpful and enlightened for us, When someone is really into you no matter how busy she is she must willing to give his precious time just to be with you. Stop pursuing this kind of things because she is not valued time your effort.

[@wildflowersmile3224]

If you are really into someone you WILL find time for them, just like you find time for a very exciting hobby you love.

[@harrisn3693]

The only way a girl will be interested in a bloke that aint born white nor is rockin a rockstar lifestyle is if they flash cash at a bar and be str8 up spitting pickup lines like eminem. I blame BET and MTV for women's fucked up minds

[@eggyolkeo6422]

Some talk to you in their free time, and some free their time to talk to you. Know the difference

[@liamjohnson3247]

Exactly

[@jamarnicholas5697]

Just be real and if she doesn't reciprocate someone else will.. I hate games.

[@t-bone6636]

@@mrs9225 truth is in long term -> be yourself, but improve yourself steadily in all aspects!

[@dickyarjuna1566]

Its not a game.. it just how commonly human psylogical attraction works.

[@t-bone6636]

@@mrs9225So I dated that girl a couple of times. watching movies at the cinema. holding hands etc. she says she wants to take it slow.. she sais shes still a virgin. she moves in another city for studiing. I wont text her again.

[@t-bone6636]

all action like kissing and holding hand came from me. she never did anything by herself.. sign that she is not interested i guess.

[@joellgc]

The game never ends my boy

[@flannsixtyseven7489]

If you are not a priority just leave. Waited for one year because i loved her so much. Hurt me even more. Should have left at her first backing away.

[@liamjohnson3247]

Exactly

[@greenhax92]

Same mistake

[@johannesolofsson221]

Same here......

[@ziggypop79]

I’m in the same boat. I spend a couple days a week and any talk of the future or moving in together she doesn’t wanna know. Friends priority over me.

[@scratchytwo]

Thank you Coach. I have been seeing a girl for 3 weeks now. I fell for her so fast without realizing that I was being way too needy and always waiting around for her to meet up. She would often be "too busy" and would hang out with friends instead of seeing me. When we do actually meet up to see each other, she would "have to leave" after 2 to 3 hours. I would always feel so sad. Decided to finally research about my situation and found this very helpful video. Subscribed and will watch your other videos!! If only we can all just act/do how we feel/want, dating would be much easier. I guess this is why people play the dating game :( People just want what they can't have and take what they do have for granted. Sad

[@okhouri]

The sad truth of the matter is that women's only way of judging a man's worth is by how much he appears to want her. If he seems easy, she assumes he's worthless. Corey is asking us to be strong and to overcome our emotions at the beginning, until our true value is clear to the woman.

[@jjmusicarchive2998]

9 days no contact for me. She started saying she’s gotta check her schedule and being flaky. I’ve had enough. Everything was going well for the first month. I was so happy. Crazy how that can be taken away so quickly. I’ll hit her up in 4 or 5 days and try one more time. She’s shy so idk, Still, i thought she’d reach out. It’s hard to wait and not overpersue

[@itsjustnopinionok]

Jan 2020. I feel sad. Im 51 and just now realizing i'm that guy. And why so many girls blew me off in the past. I (was) that nice guy. Im buying you book. My life starts over today.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

read my book to learn the basics

[@vijaysiddhartha326]

awesome book

[@somyan8540]

Coach Corey Wayne - yes I preffer to read than to watch and listen too

[@reyray6287]

Getting your book ASAP, I’ve never had an issue picking up women but I have had issues maintaining and understanding them, I’ve been watching most of your videos and applying what I’ve learn, now I see how much I’ve been f***ing up lol, thanks for everything!!!

[@sararushiti3416]

Coach Corey Wayne I love your videos, but can you make videos for women as well? :)

[@AgeOfBile]

None of us really want "that person". What we really want is how "that person" made us feel, or (if it's not an ex) how we BELIEVE they will make us feel once we're with them. Focus on achieving that feeling. You can feel that way whether you're with someone or not. Once you do, the right person will appear to match the way you feel. Focus on the relationship you want, not on any one person who may or may not be able to help you achieve it. Life can get very interesting once you can get your focus to shift in this way. Be open to ALL opportunities.

[@antoniohawkins3756]

Sounds like Abraham Hicks😊

[@reginstravels]

Sounds like Noah Elkrief

[@eddiecarter8134]

Well said.

[@AzraelPercussionNEO]

Need to work on the "ALL Opporunties" part. Need to stop with all the "All Eggs On One Basket bs"

[@Johnny-k9f]

I decided to buy your book and listened to it several times after I went through a breakup in November last year. She unfriended me in all her social media accounts and then went off social media. I did not contact her since then and now she is sending me friend request. She is back after seven months. Thank you, Coach Corey!

[@barad-dur9236]

I met a girl and things moved way too fast between the two of us. I showed one glint of insecurity/emotional weakness/neediness through ONE text and it all came crumbling down. Since then, I only let her reach out to me, and when she does, I always make one overture for her to meet. I’m in the thick of it atm, I’ll know prob by next week whether or not it’s never going to happen. But thanks to Corey at least I’m putting in the absolute minimal effort until there’s a concrete outcome. I totally fucked up, so now it’s damage control and I can only hope to salvage things. She’s not my soulmate but she’s certainly worth being patient for, so long as I don’t sacrifice any more of my psyche or priorities for her. Been dating some other girls too, to help remind myself of my options.

[@jsm0m]

Scarcity creates value fellas 👍🏼

[@flo_ridaa7074]

👍🏼

[@HomemadeNub]

Corey Wayne nailed the video in the first minute basically. You will remove your attention and then they will either a) come back or b) a better one comes!!

[@jacobniu1283]

I was with a girl for 10mnths. We only saw eachother every second weekend. I wanted her to see me more. The months do matter. Its called natural progression. Never settle for anything other than what you think you deserve. I had enough when in 14days we only spent 2hrs together. I love n miss her soo much!!! But I want more from a relationship

[@texshayhopkins8812]

Corey, I've been in a relationship with my lady for nearly a year.. this video really opened up my eyes to what I've been doing wrong that's stopped her from pursuing me.. it's much appreciated what you've shared here..

[@richardrichard9953]

The brutal honesty of these videos is surreal. It sucks when you realize that he's talking about you and you have to be honest with yourself and how you have behaved and caused a lot of the torment in your life.

[@erict9052]

Yeah it's a cold slap on the face to wake the hell up

[@delilah1479]

Yeah, I finally woke up too. Wish I had listened to my friends who told me to walk away a long time ago.

[@SonOfDaProphets]

Ill make it easy on everyone, get more than one option! You’ll see how much effort someone puts in when you not too focused on them...

[@mtbers]

Wow the first guys story is the exact same as mine. Super pathetic, never realized until you hear it from the third person.

[@EthiopianSCOOT23]

mtbers same for me.

[@18Darkside]

Can't let emotion's take over.

[@siggiAg86]

I think this is one of your best videos. I watch it every few months to reset my mindset.

[@theforexcartel6893]

Coach I've watched several of your vids over a few weeks. what I'm beginning to gather is everyone must undergo constant psychological/deception warfare to keep a person's attention for as long as possible.. my question is at what point do you stop being "psychological" and start being yourself? I dare say never. I also dare say that relationships must not be real if this is what dating or relationships has evolved to in this so called modern age. But then again perhaps it's always been this way. Truly there is nothing new under the sun.

[@reliefernandezb18]

two weeks, two weeks of just listening to your podcast.... it's magic... it's fucking working.... i'll use this month's audible credit to buy your book.

[@katiewilliams9381]

Hey I'm a woman and I always watch you when I really need some true honest direct advice..you really helped me through my break up and then when meeting new people.. Thanks coach Corey ..ps, I love your smile xxxx

[@delilah1479]

I was not this boyfriend's priority. I certainly was at the bottom of his priority list. Last minute dates with him. I became his "option." Not his priority. I finally called him out on this and walked away. It hurts but it is for the best and I will come out better in the long run.

[@bennyblanco6704]

It definitely works I stopped all contact and then guess what ? She started pursuing me coach is right stop all communication even all social media you'll see the magic work good luck !

[@billelliott3507]

good looks coach I almost gave the talk without realizing what I was about to do.

[@jonathangant251]

Set her free because she playing with someone else . Men never wait for a woman .

[@fargeeks]

I wait, because if i seek then i feel like im some dude trying to seek obligations to value me when they dont have to do so. So yeah waiting is better off

[@petermachiela5441]

When she says I'm not looking for a relationship just say me neither take it easy. Like Corey said have fun & hookup

[@davetrottier]

It’s hard to walk away for good, but even if you re-attract her you’ll be stuck constantly playing the indifference game. Why bother being with someone who’s not on the same level as you.

[@jonathangant251]

Believe me find other .

[@spajas8092]

Jonathan Gant except 95% of girls are like this. After a while you’ll end up playing the emotionally detached indifference game with a woman you’re serious about, but if you don’t play it, she’ll lose interest and leave you. It’s so stupid.

[@santoparfano1910]

Exactly..if you have to change who you are to reattact a mate then walk away bc thet aren't really into you.

[@TravelButter]

If they come back then that means something has changed for them. So just be yourself in front of them but don’t make them the focus of your life. Stick to your purpose and you’ll see just how important they really are in the grand scheme. As a result they’ll sense that energy and their attraction will stay high.

[@lunababy662]

Going through this and its true u get there attention for a few n u have to keep playing the game. Well i dont want to play anymore

[@doramaso]

Surely after a year of being with someone you have a right to know where you stand.Brilliant video other than that.

[@JohnDoe-dt3by]

True. Overcoming neediness.

[@eggyolkeo6422]

Don't be waiting for nobody, walk away and do your own thing.

[@SmileyMT]

Games of tennis was suggested by the Rock in the comments here and after looking back its the best analogy I've heard. It's really helps with the 20:80 principle. Also valuing yourself as he says here.

[@radaka]

Some people are more in love with the idea of someone than they really are in love with the person. Or they love the way you made them feel, or what they think or thought you had or could have together. Sometimes it's not even true love for that person. Nobody likes to feel rejected, makes you feel like you're not good enough or wonder what's wrong with yourself. When someone walks away LET THEM GO. And don't be pathetic! That'll push someone away or make them RUN even faster. Don't act like you can't live or be happy without them. Don't constantly obsess, call, text, keep tabs on, or STALK someone. Even if you feel psycho inside come on, at least play it cool. Nobody can miss someone or think about good thoughts when you won't get out of their ass and act pathetic. And you shouldn't embarrass yourself like that. Get help, learn to love yourself and learn to have the same qualities that you look for in someone. You can't expect qualities out of someone that you don't have yourself. Work on YOU, and it'll work out.

[@thelayman6189]

Rachel you said many things in one breath

[@AzraelPercussionNEO]

Nailed it. It is time to let her go. I am just a sex toy to her. Nothing real there. Music & Weight Lifting Focused keep the train rolling.

[@thelayman6189]

Its funny Rachel, this video popped up today and without knowing I already had commented a month ago, I was once again straightaway intrigued by your long reply and lo I found my own comment below.... No offense Rachel, just sharing a lighter moment !

[@davidcresse5647]

Rachel used periods. Laymen used commas, .

[@sweetswing1]

In short make youself your prioity. First comes you, then your family or close friends, then her.

[@swiitdoll]

Faksakes this is exactly how I treat men. Even my hobbies come before him.

[@zuzukyd]

Forever Young lol that a bit much isnt it? Hobbies dont go first lol(sounds a bit overkill to me rly)

[@andjela6351]

Yeah, this is exactly the reason why I ended my relationship. If you can't make your partner a priority you are not my cup of tea, simple as that, ende. Why people are in a relatioships if they do not have a capability to make their partners as a priority. So that is not a good advice.. How anyone can create a family with someone who does not know how to commit and how to sacrifice. Nope, there is not future at all.

[@charliemvrphy]

Started reading 3% Man. Great material and easy read!

[@patrick9939]

corey thank you for helping me, i was with a narcissist .now i am not , she made me feel less than a man .never again . your videos are changing my life for the better thank you

[@HumbleTrader001]

He could "follow all the rules" (whatever they are) and she still might not be all that into him. There's no "holy grail" (or any guarantees whatsoever) when it comes to relationships.

[@tonyl9075]

Its crazy because a woman can have u over multiple times deeply embrace you mentally and physically, share personal topics with you so warm and undoubtedly trustworhy in character. she tells you things she thinks are amazing about you even little things you do or say. Kisses you so passionately asks you not to leave her bed, babies you and in that moment you think "There's no way she could stop liking me like this unless I was a jerk or cheated on her or something band this is easy" . then she mysteriously starts texting less or acting not like herself and it can feel like how can they betray me...and so suddenly,and for no reason?.."I didn't mess things up according to my male standards here." When you actually were doing things wrong. imo it takes learning that its just the nature of the female . Trust Corey Wayne its science he teaches.

[@Fakestockguru]

tony l yup, i just experienced that. The girl was pursuing me and i thought she had a crush on me. Then all the sudden out of the blue she gave me the “better off as friends.”

[@TheSpiritualNomad]

Love you one week. Distant the other. Crazy. But that is the reality.

[@jennifersinatra5743]

Men do the same. I think women are more relationship seekers over men in general.. go figure.

[@carterkississou8006]

this is very valuable advices , I am myself facing similar situations. Thank you Corey , there is a lot of us out there facing the same situation

[@louiepcs]

been married a long time... that woman who you pamper and worry about what she thinks, who is all about herself, you would wish you never met after a few years. Because she will only get worse and more btchy when she get too comfortable. If u think u r not a priority now, when u have kids, you are just a doormat who makes money for her. So if you are dating a girl who needs to be the focus on your relationship, run barry. RUN!

[@4spida2fingaz0]

Louie Bernabe I'll take heed to that thank you

[@thesnakedecides3423]

It's brutal. Most women will show that dark side if they get the opportunity. Sad reality is, they will worshop the ground you walk on so long as you're fulfilling their fantasy or whatever. Once you stop being that source of emotions, you're lower than an insect to them.

[@radaka]

That is really sad to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't value you or your happiness or needs. But both sexes are guilty of that. It's not just women who do that. There ARE good women too. And I know there are good men. Have you truly honestly sat down, when not pissed and explained to your partner how you feel? Or what they are doing to make you feel that way? And if yes and they continue to do the same, then that really does suck because I was in a marriage like that and I finally realized there was nothing I could do or say to make him care or love me differently. So after knowing I had done everything I could to make my marriage work, I got out of it. I knew I'd never be happy like that or loved the way I thought love should feel. I have no regrets because I gave my all. I know God brought me my husband now because we've been together 14 years and we do those things for each other. I'm so thankful and grateful for him and never ever take him for granted. He's my best buddy. Have and don't lose the qualities you want in your partner. But don't waste it on the wrong partner either

[@krijskovacic4938]

I am RUNNING!!!

[@jonzhang2379]

Xox I use be have same problem with my x.run as fast as you can bro!

[@ladyYeniel]

The problem is not you!! She is dating someone else that she likes more. Facts.

[@mtbiker4life918]

She's just looking for attention while seeing other dudes. He needs to block her. Stop allowing women to do this. Be up front with her, tell her you're not into games and move on. This whole "let women come to you" has a line.

[@thetalkinggrowthchannel9262]

I agree. But that's when vetting plays an important role

[@theresamargarethmil2443]

This is exactly what happening to me. He always taking me as options and I feel sad.

[@redfloyd69]

Can someone please explain why someone can be completely into you then suddenly just disappear? The opposite of what is going on in this video.

[@delilah1479]

Yup, when he finally would contact me trying for a last minute date, I told him I already made plans as I don't wait for the last minute stuff.

[@daffydlandegge3843]

I'd really like to hear your take on long distance relationships as "chatting" on the phone are the dates you speak of or video calls. Some of what you describe doesnt apply in that situation, meanwhile some remains a standard.

[@daffydlandegge3843]

@@Sparkyspage Only if it's long term and one or both individuals are highly insecure and/or desperately need validation from others

[@shortingthetrend]

Great video coach Corey Wayne. I always watch every video bro.

[@JadedGenXer]

This is good advice for men and women. Men do the same and no one should be hanging on a maybe constantly. Simple as this : if they set the next date on the first date , there high on their priorities. If you both make plans on the Moday or Wednesday for Friday or Saturday, your still high on their priorities but if you get a maybe on the Thursdays for Friday, you are a back up plan and if you get a what are you doing now any day , your a boredom killer and they have nothing better to do. Dont go to a 9pm Friday night text message , come over . All their other plans fell through. . Maybe means no but if im board i might call all text. Your not a priority at all If they are in to you , they want to make sure they have time locked down with you in advance and they will not want to let you down or make you feel less than .... who ever else. Guys , it feels shit all round . The 30% bit is a bit of bull though. If a woman is doing 70% of the work . She is going to feel like you 30% priority. She is going to feel like she is less than . She will look else where. She will look for at least someone thats going to give her at least 50% priority to give you her 50% priority.. Dont push them away as treat them mean , keep them keep is just mean... for anyone. Im blowing off phone calls atm because i get to many maybe's, last min arangment and 30% effort from a guy. Im not that bloody needy to be treated like this. He could had a chance, hes blown it . I like him but it sure looks like he is not in to me as much as i am in to him , so im backing off to not get hurt. Ill find someone that dosent make me live on maybe's. Yes im a woman.

[@patrickbrawner2438]

Agreed. Do you thing, pursue your interests, live your life, and you'll attract the people you want to be around.

[@ntegeoscar]

awesome work bro. your stuff works!! you saved my relationship bro. thank you

[@ntegeoscar]

Dude is so good, Nothing brings happiness to a man like knowing and understanding attraction levels of his woman.

[@bluedinero3055]

Jerk berk 305nigga #carolcity #305

[@richdrago8235]

Wonder what has happened to the covenant we made to God and each other? The marriage vows are to be taken seriously...life happens, and it takes patience, forgiveness and love.

[@guntherachterhof4876]

Unfortunately, these days are gone.

[@redforeman3572]

The definition of a loser: I dated a girl for 8 months and she’s still not my girlfriend

[@sam_alimi]

It’s not cool to call someone a loser if they don’t know much about women

[@bluetheminx]

@@sam_alimi yeah it is

[@dylanbeasley5392]

Corey, you're really a godsend. Thank you

[@peterwapemoose2710]

Coach! Why would any man want to be a woman's second or third choice? Go for it if you just want sex but dont commit to someone who gives it free to everyone else.

[@ploagieskiekn1377]

Right video, right time!

[@ggwp7019]

Every women that has lost attraction towards me has always gone with someone else or their ex. I agree with you Corey but for me it has always been she had my replacement in place. Sometimes I went along with the jerking around or would just stay distant and every time it’s the same thing. I’m not saying it wasn’t my fault but often times it wouldn’t matter. I removed my attention and it showed she didn’t value me. I think ultimately they don’t value me even when they are doing the perusing. I honestly think it has more to do with the quality of people in my area

[@AzraelPercussionNEO]

Gg Wp Shit women. Going for guy to guy. Or going back to their shit ex's. The shit never changes.

[@拥]

Not saying you don’t, but #1 priority is to value yourself

[@rickmorgan1441]

if youre not 35 you havent hit your peak yet so bluer skies ahead in that case

[@bieituns]

Yep the same thing happened to me, the girl already had my replacement lined up and started distancing herself and looking for an excuse to leave me and blame m for it. These girls are bitches, no integrity or decency.

[@kevinethan5751]

@@bieituns ukr heartless humans

[@sharonsheaffer8964]

my man has a drinking problem and all he wants to do is spend time with his friend (male) and do everything he wants and thinks when he comes home that everything is fine dandy I never cheated on my boyfriend and never would but I think it comes to the end

[@Goldblooded559]

Sharon Sheaffer im going thru this rite now and im sick and tired of it..i let him have it today

[@lsj8693]

Does the 80/20 rule still apply to a middle aged single mom that has an 18 yr old and a 10 yr old daughters?

[@billybob-fh4wz]

Yeah, like everyone says if people want to see you they will find even 4 seconds to be with you.

[@RulezmakerBF]

So it kinda ended with my girl a few days ago; she asked me if we can be friends to which I wrote I'll let you in on it later. Problem is it's been already 4-5 days since I haven't talked to her. Should I just walk away or tell her, i dont want any platonic kinda friendship and I'll let the door open in case you ever change your mind. Do I say it now or just let it be. Cause considering her, she thinks I'm done with her

[@Hhhh22222-w]

Tell her you don't agree with being friends and if she changes her mind to call you and walk away from her and move on. If she calls you then you have the power make sure you make her chase

[@nicolaorton8603]

Problem with this dude is he's hooked on and desperate for a woman who had next to no interest in him to start with. Her lame once-in-a-while texts convey she had nothing going on at the time. Dude knows she can take or leave him.

[@jjmusicarchive2998]

9 days no contact for me. She started saying she’s gotta check her schedule and being flaky. I’ve had enough. Everything was going well for the first month. I was so happy. Crazy how that can be taken away so quickly. I’ll hit her up in 4 or 5 days and try one more time. She’s shy so idk, Still, i thought she’d reach out. It’s hard to wait and not overpersue

[@jjmusicarchive2998]

Scott Stanley problem is I feel like I’m in love with her. I can’t walk away for that long without driving myself crazy. There’s other women in my life but none of them compare. I think 2 weeks is long enough. She said we were dating in the beginning. It’s not normal to not see someone you’re dating for 2 or more weeks

[@jsm0m]

So on point!!! ... guys listen to Coach Corey he knows what's up 👏🏼

[@maxlife9721]

IVE HEARD THIS A MILLION TIMES BUT IT JUST CLICKED WHY IN A PSYCHOLOGY REASON BY THE "FIGURE OUT YOUR SCHEDULE" THING...SHE HAS TO THINK SHE HAS THE POWER AND SHE IS CHASING....AND SHE IS MAKING THE MOVE..

[@markaw2403]

Girlfriend says no sex until marriage and wants me to see a psychiatrist. What do you think coach ?

[@garygreen5243]

i think when it comes.to being in a relationship with somebody and they leave and become your ex, i think some people or afraid to let go of that feeling of wanting somebody because they feel if they dont have that feeling they wont want them anymore when actually your just valuing yourself doesnt mean you still cant have feelings for them because you dont have that obsessive feeling

[@JJst0rm]

what to do when your in a relationship and You're Not A Priority ?

[@adi_sekar]

Johnyae Jones Get out from the relationship. What happened?

[@cyco781loco1]

The second email 😂😂😂 come on over bring...."Pause" no bottle of wine here.

[@brunowario5169]

From my experience, if you have to try much in a relationship, its gonna get you heartbroken, chasing women will chase them away. If a woman likes you she will show it through her actions, she will call you, text you ask to meet. If she doesn't do any of this I'm pretty sure she is not into you much, you can choose to increase your value or keep chasing her only for her to dump you,

[@fargeeks]

I had a lady who already has a boyfriend and a child with, tried pulling off these actions and i actually thought I had a chance with her but boy i was wrong Oh and she told me one time that she wished i pursued her

[@joshuamelendez2604]

I'm dating a woman that uses her kid as a excuse alot. I know her son has to come first, but she uses it way too much. How do I go about this?

[@alfredmatthews1746]

leave her

[@jjmusicarchive2998]

9 days no contact for me. She started saying she’s gotta check her schedule and being flaky and not making definite plans. I’ve had enough of that... I did the takeaway and she never hit me up . Everything was going well for the first month. I was so happy. Crazy how that can be taken away so quickly. I’ll hit her up in 4 or 5 days and try one more time. She’s shy so idk, Still, i thought she’d reach out. It’s hard to wait and not overpersue

[@dlwsport250]

I, The Mask as a woman, don’t.

[@jjmusicarchive2998]

It’s over now she’s not interested in taking it any further

[@dlwsport250]

I, The Mask it’s rough for you right now. Heartbreak is harder on the body than heroin. You, however have found this website. I have read the book four times and my son is FINALLY reading it. Crazy Bald Mutha knows that of which he writes.

[@djnevous3us]

but if u don't pursue some1 won't it look like yr interested in her?

[@mrsalviboy94]

A women or man should be a compliment/ an improvement to your already complete life not a necessity. I used to believe happiness came from having a lovely woman in my life until I learned the harsh truth. I worked on myself asked what is my purpose? Everything changes. To those unable to understand this ask yourselves this, how were you raised? Was it a loveless home, no affection or enough attention from parents? That's the root of the cause, is not completely your fault if you act a certain way with women. It is a process to change and find that emotional strength within you, find a hobby, do a job you love and you'll realize that happiness comes from within not from having another person trust me and trust life.

[@flo_ridaa7074]

👍🏼

[@bills1779]

Great advice 👍

[@amazingdogface1153]

My question is why he is smiling in the thumb nail, while saying, "You're not a priorety."

[@ivanbarbosa81]

thank you so much for this great advice Corey.just realized I dont need to proof anything to no one.just be myself

[@noahfox99]

+Coach Corey Wayne I am going to buy your book you have been very helpful I'm going to put a lot of this advice into practice thanks man!

[@deletoblue319]

Well i make time for my girlfriend, she doesn't for me, i finally have her as my girl but what i thought it was gonna be like, i was wrong, i thought she was different, great, loving, but she is growing cold and distant. What have i done wrong?

[@jenkinz1]

You haven’t or didn’t do anything bro. This is how the world creates the modern woman unfortunately. People are programmed to be toxic. Unfortunate but true.

[@jneptune1540]

She just doesn’t want to be with you.

[@bguy86]

My ex will block me , and then unblock me days to a week later , I don’t waste time in asking her about checking her schedule and crap. Then she says she doesn’t want s relationship with me and then blocks me again ... wtf how am I supposed to get her back ? ( she also stated dating someone right after we broke up )

[@bguy86]

I’ve read you’re book 4 times and I’m on the 5th time . I don’t reach out to her when she blocks me , I leave it alone and walk away .. she doesn’t set dates , and always texts me stupid ass shit that doesn’t have any meaning ..

[@bguy86]

Tanessa Stephenson yeah I’ve started dating other women , been on a lot of dates in the last 2 months . Up until last night I never had a full night of sleep . Today I woke up refreshed , happy and have no concern for her anymore after I’ve looked at how horrible she treated me while I was doing things for her and she was fcking someone else at night

[@wulfclaw4921]

If you aren't a priority and SHE is....Expect NO GOOD TO COME OF IT !

[@believe4854]

That really will helps me a lot...I’m gonna use it from now 4:30 am feb 19 2020...

[@JakelaWeeze]

This is very smart and helpful advice, Thanks

[@jadeboskoyous4081]

when was your last happiest relationships😢

[@ceranko]

Corey you have great advice. Thanks!

[@thenofilterguy3061]

At that point just let her go man.. no women is worth all this waiting around.

[@lindseyhebert5568]

I used to be a priority of a group and they used to say sweet true loyal and appreciate me as their #1 now they are putting their son as #1 so I am too sweet and special we hardly chat so it’s too frustrating so now I feel unappreciated like a failure to me I’m crying

[@davidgriffin79]

The take away from this is that you don't let them think they're the only game in town; there's a big ocean out there with lots of fish in it.

[@RealCoachLee]

David Griffin I agree but it’s also important that it’s more than just not letting them think that. It needs to be true. You do have other options if she isn’t interested or isn’t making you a priority.

[@lr4569]

What do u do if she asks to meet up with u but then flakes and u never ask her but she keeps asking and then just flakes

[@trizzle83100]

Have a girl like that I work with right now . I never hit her up again after she flaked twice . 2 -3 weeks later she hit me up, I made a definite date , we chilled had fun and hooked up . Just dont chase bro, act like you dont give a fuck . Find other chicks to date too

[@FrankTheTank624]

This is what I needed

[@bennyblanco6704]

Hi coach this is exactly what's going on with me it's a once a week I see basically a sex date but she lets me stay over then after that day shes goes cold . But I agree I do text her more than she does and I'm the one that asks her if I can see her always . She always gives me responses like maybe , probably or idk . I need to back and value myself more ur right . Thank u I'll take ur advice.

[@Ataensic]

How do you get her to want to see you more than once a week? Well, how did she get you to want to see her more than once a week? (she's indifferent, unavailable, difficult to get ahold of, has a life of her own, hasn't chased you at all, is self-validating, & doesn't need or even want you) You want to feast at her banquet because on the inside you're just a pauper begging for scraps. Stop contacting this person; you have a lot of inner work to do.

[@bieituns]

Wow typical mindset of a woman, completely heartless and ruthless.

[@bieituns]

@Jennifer Boehm you mean a narcissistic sociopath?

[@kevinethan5751]

@@bieituns facts

[@DAC2254]

I once hated you for political comment you made , now I understand your point and I know you’re right. 🌹 All respect.. thank you

[@guess199]

If i date a girl 8 months and there’s no relationship, I’m done. I’m not dating someone that long and not have exclusivity, not trying to sleep with someone who is probably sleeping around. That’s a hook up not a possible girlfriend. The girl I’m seeing now asks me on dates most of the time, i ask her a like 10% of the time.