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Coach Corey Wayne

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@paulzaher4645
@paulzaher4645 6 жыл бұрын
Just remember not EVERY woman with Daddy issues are crazy, some actually have the intelligence to work through their problems and have evolved. Having said that should you meet a crazy with Daddy issues, don't try to fix their problems and don't justify there actions, rather just show her the door. I have been there done that, it hurts to let someone go specially when your in love - but think long term how it will affect your life negatively....
@hannam8705
@hannam8705 5 жыл бұрын
So I guess I'll start lying from now on. I see why smart women don't reveal everything too soon
@jamesmoore4397
@jamesmoore4397 5 жыл бұрын
Worded perfectly.... currently going through the circular thinking/feeling... wanting her back and knowing it will only end later because she is who she is. Best not to invest anymore of myself into a dead end.
@NCredleg
@NCredleg 5 жыл бұрын
@@hannam8705 oh, you mean that isn't your fallback position?
@diapersFTMFW11
@diapersFTMFW11 5 жыл бұрын
@@hannam8705 SAD!
@yazzy1979
@yazzy1979 4 жыл бұрын
People are people Men have drama too just like women and I feel everyone has to be accountable for their emotional health and growth so that they can be in relationship and be their best selves to create amazing experiences together. 🤎 Paul
@john7018
@john7018 7 жыл бұрын
Slowly but surely we are being given a house tour..
@ForzaTerra89
@ForzaTerra89 4 жыл бұрын
Having recently broke up with someone with BPD I can warn anyone to run as much as possible before you get feelings as you will get hurt
@rolfmeyermusic
@rolfmeyermusic 7 жыл бұрын
His crib looks fresh, he knows what he's doing
@mizzprezli
@mizzprezli 5 жыл бұрын
Please tell me u realize it's a fake background, right? Haha!
@israelelms8306
@israelelms8306 5 жыл бұрын
@@mizzprezli that's his house
@Moneyxsharks
@Moneyxsharks 5 жыл бұрын
Yup! Dope crib.
@larmufc1
@larmufc1 5 жыл бұрын
That’s because he read his own book ten to 15 times
@Madmok128
@Madmok128 5 жыл бұрын
He charges 1000$ an hour for one on-one coaching
@OwolabbyAzeez
@OwolabbyAzeez 7 жыл бұрын
If you're reading this I hope you have a blessed day :). Corey keep the regular uploads coming
@josephhernandez1605
@josephhernandez1605 7 жыл бұрын
Owolabby Azeez and you have a blessed day as well.🤙
@kyotomasterlord3888
@kyotomasterlord3888 5 жыл бұрын
My man
@vernonwilliams8644
@vernonwilliams8644 6 жыл бұрын
Every man should date a narcissistic woman atleast once to learn and use Corey's work to improve. 4th read now and I'm finally noticing my mistakes.
@aldersonsanku34
@aldersonsanku34 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao! That is suicidal ride 🤣
@devtoslick
@devtoslick 2 жыл бұрын
Sadly I had to. Luckily we were only in the dating stage for a few months. At least now I can learn from Corey
@Siri13434
@Siri13434 Жыл бұрын
I dated one back in the day well I was maried then , boy she gave me flames , pure ass bitch she wrecked my life dude, now I know
@whyc2094
@whyc2094 Жыл бұрын
@@aldersonsanku34 Then what would call this?: Last 3 of my ex gfs were either borderline personality disorder or bipolar.
@aldersonsanku34
@aldersonsanku34 Жыл бұрын
@@whyc2094 That is highly risky thing to do with minimum positive outcome. Although you can learn a lot about woman in general that way and even help them to be a better person, you will soon feel emotionally drained to the point it becomes more of a headache where going away is the most right thing to do for your own sake. Cause, the woman you are with themselves need to have the urge to help themselves and your effort will give high outcome, else it is better you can work on yourself till a better woman comes along.
@robertdavis4976
@robertdavis4976 4 жыл бұрын
Red flags I ignored. Her telling me she loved me 2 weeks into the relationship. Another was saying she wanted to put me first and her kids second at the beginning. She is a caring person for the most part but I felt still some kind of emotional disconnection on a subconscious level. Anyways, she is insecure and had self esteem issues. 2 years later into the relationship she cheated. 4 times within 2 weeks with a co-worker. One of those days was Christmas Eve. I lived with her. Absolute devastation. She lied right to my face multiple times even swearing on her kids lives. I still knew. We broke up. I came back 4 months later to see if we could make it work. I found out I just cant take back a cheater. I just have to focus on me. Fuck the paranoia, the lack of trust. It's broken.
@Micoolaw
@Micoolaw 3 жыл бұрын
Dang man. I am sorry to hear that. Pain breeds growth🙌
@kuriakosejim8696
@kuriakosejim8696 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry man How are you now?
@davidlee6117
@davidlee6117 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that man. It's a shit situation I can relate. Almost a year ago I parted ways with my partner and today my suspicions have been confirmed my ex who I loved dearly is pregnant with her rebound. Reason we broke up was stupidity and immaturity. Plain and simple. We were getting back together but then she ran off with a co worker and is now carrying his child. Which is not the greatest of news but what can you do. 🤷‍♂️ Look after yourself out there on that path of life!
@saks5thave.687
@saks5thave.687 2 жыл бұрын
Yup… do we all live the same life ? It’s crazy because she did both of those things at the beginning of our time together and I willingly ignored it out of my own desperation and lust
@saks5thave.687
@saks5thave.687 2 жыл бұрын
Must be a cancer ♋️ woman😂
@scottdelaney98
@scottdelaney98 5 жыл бұрын
"Success is not final, failure is not fatal. It is the courage to continue that counts." - Winston Churchill
@eddievasquez2883
@eddievasquez2883 7 жыл бұрын
She left? This guy should consider himself LUCKY.Don't go after her!!! I'm on my 4th time reading Corey's book.
@halcioncocaine2096
@halcioncocaine2096 5 жыл бұрын
Stick that book where it hurts fool🇯🇲
@TheFlightmongoose
@TheFlightmongoose 5 жыл бұрын
Gotta read it 10 to 15 times brotha
@pdors94
@pdors94 5 жыл бұрын
Lol..foreal he should...and he better pray she doesn't come back..
@jamesg2609
@jamesg2609 4 жыл бұрын
I was married to a BPD for almost 9 years. She gaslighted me so subtlley. Was sweet as pie in the beginning. Hooked me good. She left 4 months ago and miss her. I don't miss the drama and the severe alcoholic she turned into. I bought your book. Listened to your videos. Getting my life back on track. It's hard not to think about her and break the small binds that connected us together. With time it will be better. She changed when she inherited lots of money and property. Now she is independently wealthy. Thanks Corey for what you do for us saps...
@hexxappeal1737
@hexxappeal1737 3 жыл бұрын
I just left a 3 year relationship with a BPD/Narc Alcoholic about 5 weeks ago and as bat shit crazy as she was I was so in love and still am, probably with just the fantasy of her. I was wondering how you're doing a year from when you commented this?
@diegovargas2489
@diegovargas2489 3 жыл бұрын
I have a BPD ex wife , we were married for 6 years. Broke up about 3 months ago. For the people that don’t know bpd pd is hard to understand what we go through but one thing for sure this was a blessing for me as is making me grow in so many aspects of my life. I’m going through an evolution with my self. Trust God and the process. God is doing this for you !
@Pistonhammer
@Pistonhammer 2 жыл бұрын
Could you tell us the " aftermath " of what happened with you guys after she inherited all those wealth , James ?? Is everything going okay now between the two of you ??
@jimg6476
@jimg6476 2 жыл бұрын
Update. 3 years ago today she left. She called me out of the blue 10 months later in August of 2020. We had lunch and talked for 3 hours. We got back together until Thanksgiving. She after we spilt up found a new man and broke up with him . Because he figured her out. So I was the fall back guy. On Thanksgiving she told me she had to distance herself from me. She said goodbye and haven't seen her in 2 years except a few phone calls. One was a drunken darling one on her part. I miss her but have realized am better off without here. I have dated some since. Will never commit to anyone again. I just am going MGTOW. Men going their own way. It's easier no broken hearts again.
@jdldo6539
@jdldo6539 5 жыл бұрын
Be careful with women (or men) who are too close to their mothers. These situations are extremely toxic and often worse than those who are not close with their parents.
@killergreek55
@killergreek55 2 жыл бұрын
@Nana Kwame same its fuckin nuts i just didnt know the word for it but her mom was always in control of her emotions and one day i told her that she is just like her mom and she responded with i am my mothers daughter it was. So fucking disgusting
@airplot3767
@airplot3767 7 жыл бұрын
"I shall never be ashamed to quote a bad author if what he says is good." Seneca
@CoachCoreyWayne
@CoachCoreyWayne 7 жыл бұрын
nice quote
@racylaserjet
@racylaserjet 7 жыл бұрын
Indeed. Even a broken clock is right twice a day.
@davidstone4725
@davidstone4725 5 жыл бұрын
"Mark Twain once said: A man who always tell the truth will never have to remember a lie. But he also said: There once was a big black guy named Niger Jim. So..." -Luis CK
@Rootword7
@Rootword7 4 жыл бұрын
David Stone Minus the G, but hard on the R. Nice. He also said “It’s easier to fool someone than it is to convince someone that they’ve been fooled.” That’s probably not verbatim... but it’s a goddamn good quote.
@angelamwatts
@angelamwatts 6 жыл бұрын
Most times a personality disorder is hard to detect in the beginning of a relationship. This is why I strongly believe that it's best to not engage in sex for at least 3 months. Take the time to get to know the person who you met. Once sex is involved it's very hard to break away. Give love a chance to blossom.
@krinka1458
@krinka1458 3 жыл бұрын
Wow so true, I'm learning. But it's hard 😭
@immanuelkh
@immanuelkh 3 жыл бұрын
Nah
@sallyjrwjrw6766
@sallyjrwjrw6766 11 ай бұрын
@angelamwatts I totally agree not to jump into bed. I recently saw someone bring up 6 months. Corey constantly talks about sleeping together after a couple of weeks and if a woman doesn't put out then she is too structured. Corey gets a lot right but not everything which is why it's best to follow 2-3 dating coaches to get a more balanced view and figure out your own values, methods, opinions, etc.
@angelamwatts
@angelamwatts 11 ай бұрын
@@sallyjrwjrw6766 I don't think it's a good idea to jump into bed after only a couple weeks of dating. The courtship phase of a relationship is extremely important. It's the time when you are developing a friendship, enjoying time together and getting to know each other. I think that waiting for love to develop gives love a chance to blossom and eventually when the sex happens, it will be much more meaningful.
@nicholasdiaz3733
@nicholasdiaz3733 6 жыл бұрын
I saw red flags since day one and called a few as they happened. Still to this day I am accused of being crazy and I have been making it up. We were married with children and it has been very tough first four months sleeping in my truck. Fair advice see the signs, don't if ore them and follow your gut. Don't be another fool in love.
@zebergman2491
@zebergman2491 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Corey You have no idea how much you have helped me. Whenever I have dealt with issues i've gone back to your videos and they always set my mind straight. Two years ago, I was destroyed after not getting the girl I wanted, I went through your material like a maniac, and ended up in a relationship with the most beautiful girl I have ever scored with in my life. Life was perfect, then I found out she was mentally ill, I had completely ignored all the red flags, and she cheated on me (like she had done to her former partners). I will no longer cherry pick the information you share. I can relate to you so much when you said in one of your videos "I still love her till this day,... but", I cannot fix her either. But I enjoyed the ride, before it got too fucked up. Thanks for being there, I will donate to you for the help you have given me. all the best
@donkndave7811
@donkndave7811 7 жыл бұрын
I lived that life with a BPD for 10 years. Found your work and found my dignity and inner voice of reason. I would love to do a follow up to this letter. You rock, Corey! One of the best so far... Danger WILL ROBINSON! Same Bat Time, Same Bat Channel! Bahaha!
@gimic5679
@gimic5679 7 жыл бұрын
yeah!
@Don-pk2uy
@Don-pk2uy 6 жыл бұрын
9 years for me buddy, she was diagnosed and cheated and left me without a single care in the world. She would literally create fights out of nothing, or would push and push until you just fucking explode. Every single week it was constant up and downs
@diegovargas2489
@diegovargas2489 3 жыл бұрын
@@Don-pk2uy 6 years with BPD ex wife man I know exactly what u went through is crazy how all bpds are the same lol.
@Don-pk2uy
@Don-pk2uy 3 жыл бұрын
@@diegovargas2489 bro glad you're away from that craziness
@magicj599
@magicj599 2 жыл бұрын
@@Don-pk2uy Yup, and I bet when you exploded, she started saying she feared you and your anger, or told you caused her anxiety.....though prior to that you stayed calm and were accused of not caring or loving enough. Am I close?
@Oldsmob455
@Oldsmob455 7 жыл бұрын
Edison was a chump compared to Tesla.
@CoachCoreyWayne
@CoachCoreyWayne 7 жыл бұрын
Tesla was a genius
@nathaniellive3169
@nathaniellive3169 7 жыл бұрын
And why waste valuable comment space? Cmon Oldsmob455 be different, don't be a troll like 98% of ... hope you caught on
@tutabugarin1468
@tutabugarin1468 7 жыл бұрын
Coach Corey Wayne and a Serb baby ,and a Serb 😃
@87rodolfo87
@87rodolfo87 6 жыл бұрын
Check out Tesla quote about modern women. GG
@ironmanspartan9070
@ironmanspartan9070 6 жыл бұрын
Oldsmob455 THANKYOU!!!
@mimsc2914
@mimsc2914 7 жыл бұрын
I'm a woman, and I love your advice!
@halcioncocaine2096
@halcioncocaine2096 5 жыл бұрын
Sorry for being your gender👵👠👚👒♀
@Jermaine22294
@Jermaine22294 7 жыл бұрын
This video CLEARED up the situation with my girlfriend as to why we get into an argument about feminism and her having a lot of "guy friends" which aren't her friends and why if I go and have girl friends she freaks out even though I have them around as bait for her for if and/or when she fucks up, but I won't do anything with them while we are in the relationship
@michaelhussey440
@michaelhussey440 4 ай бұрын
8.56 whatever people say or do to you is 'a reflection of how they feel about themselves in a moment ' . So true. Also remember a great quote from Robert Greene 'Laws of Human Nature' , '48 Laws of Power' etc is that 'no one ever does anything ONCE.' If you see manipulation, lies, aggression etc it will ALWAYS happen again and again.
@bharris0619
@bharris0619 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for finally doing another BPD show. I had that happen with my ex. Sweetest first two months the rest was hell.
@markmeelhuysen5359
@markmeelhuysen5359 7 жыл бұрын
This sounds so incredibly similar to the marriage I'm just getting out of... My money was her money, her money was her money; we stayed impoverished our whole marriage. Rules and more rules, incessant demands, ultimatums; all against me. Accusing me of having Asperger, being a Narcissist, and having BPD. Ironically, when we took the Minnesota Multiphasic, I had depression and she had Severe Narcissism and a very high chance for BPD. What a load of projection... I found Coach Corey Wayne's stuff near the end of our marriage and I realized I'd been weak and tolerated what I should not have. And if I'd known this stuff, I would not have not have married her. All I can do is hope the next guys and husbands are going to figure her out faster than I did and that I, once mastering how to be a 3% man, don't have to repeat giving my heart and soul over to a man-eater who's unwilling to do different.
@halcioncocaine2096
@halcioncocaine2096 5 жыл бұрын
The dreaded money card,please be original💰💲
@Micoolaw
@Micoolaw 3 жыл бұрын
Man, if nothing else, thank you for leaving this comment. I’m currently dating a girl who is projecting on me in a similar way. But I didn’t realize what she was doing is actually projecting, until I read your comment.
@magicj599
@magicj599 2 жыл бұрын
I hear you. I bet you started become weak and tolerated it. Constant state of chaos is their mindset and it's actually sad to witness. I bet you even experienced this one: you were praised for your efforts on 1 thing to outsiders, while simultaneously being chided at home for the same action. A lot of men like to say be the alpha, but they don't actually know what it looks like from the inside, especially when married.
@saxabass
@saxabass 2 жыл бұрын
The Asperger’s accusation sounds eerily familiar. My ex wife said the same thing to me, along with calling me retarded basically every other day.
@pinoy122793
@pinoy122793 4 жыл бұрын
Doing the same, on my third read and still learning and improving every day. Ever since I started reading, I noticed more women are into me without me trying at all. It is because my body language has gotten so much better. Before Coach Corey Wayne, I’ve had women tell me I’m cute, good looking, hot, and handsome, even though I really try to be humble about it, but admittedly I used to make mistakes of over pursuing and even recently I made the same mistake with one woman on that and the rest I’m good with. It’s good to know that the 3% man is 100% masculine, always moves on from the past, learns from mistakes, is confident, insensitive, politically incorrect, centered in his masculine and mind, and is focused on his mission, drive, purpose, goals, and dreams more than the woman. Strongly put, I already know how to focus on myself first and let the women come to me more, but the reason why I follow coach Corey Wayne especially for a while now is because I have to stop being too stubborn and apply the right things in life. But yeah, this is a great video for me because it fits well with my dating experiences. Dealt with many women with two ex girlfriends, but looking to get better in the future.
@JSoulKeys
@JSoulKeys 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Coach, man your like a surrogate father to me. Thanks for helping me out
@CoachCoreyWayne
@CoachCoreyWayne 7 жыл бұрын
I'm honored. Thank you for the kind words.
@jestione1
@jestione1 3 жыл бұрын
+
@Supafly1998
@Supafly1998 7 жыл бұрын
I get asked for advice a lot and my response is always coach Corey Wayne. C'mon man!
@giladk787
@giladk787 7 жыл бұрын
Supafly1998. absofakcinglutely
@josephhernandez1605
@josephhernandez1605 7 жыл бұрын
Well said 👍
@mikeak7331
@mikeak7331 7 жыл бұрын
1 out of 3? That means the other two women are running around untreated! 😂
@normanmacfarlane3049
@normanmacfarlane3049 4 жыл бұрын
Hahaha . . . Good one LMFAO
@rajaalghul
@rajaalghul 6 жыл бұрын
Video starts at 7:12
@spacemeter3001
@spacemeter3001 5 жыл бұрын
Also put the speed on 1,25
@jezworld
@jezworld 7 жыл бұрын
So glad you've stopped the intro music. Great move coach.
@Pwnicus187
@Pwnicus187 7 жыл бұрын
JEZWORLD i get that tune stuck in my head some days... it kills me
@TheWaynelds
@TheWaynelds 7 жыл бұрын
Sabokaye Esoco Yeah, ive heard it other places too. One time my gf was watching KZbin videos about a company she worked for, which played that music. I heard it from the other room and thought she was watching Corey's vids.
@karzir2328
@karzir2328 7 жыл бұрын
hahahahaha
@joemacfilms
@joemacfilms 6 жыл бұрын
Currently trying to tell if this one girl is genuinely not interested, or is really shy and does that playing games insecure thing to get power
@EJayyDreadHead
@EJayyDreadHead 6 жыл бұрын
Blake 💀😂😂😂😂😂
@lovingsnowboarder7664
@lovingsnowboarder7664 Жыл бұрын
We're lucky to have this man on youtube ❤️
@Channel-jn1oi
@Channel-jn1oi 5 жыл бұрын
Hello World. It's 'Bob' here, the original poster of the letter to Coach Corey over 2 years ago. Just thought I'd let you know the girl in question went on and repeated exactly the same behaviour to two other men. Both of them ended things with her for behaviour almost IDENTICAL to what Corey is describing here. These people will never change. Ever. They are who they are. P.S. - I read the book over 15 times. Even have the audiobook playing from my PC at work 😊😊👍👍
@michaelsolomon1517
@michaelsolomon1517 7 жыл бұрын
OMG this sounds EXACTLY like the woman that brought me to your work Corey , thank God I found your work!!
@gueomduduto
@gueomduduto 7 жыл бұрын
"Night gathers, and now my watch begins. It shall not end until my death. I shall take no wife, hold no lands, father no children. I shall wear no crowns and win no glory. I shall live and die at my post. I am the sword in the darkness. I am the watcher on the walls. I am the shield that guards the realms of men. I pledge my life and honor to the Night's Watch, for this night and all the nights to come." :D
@w.e.572
@w.e.572 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this story. And this is a very important video for everyone to watch - watch it 10 times! It is easy for us, as spectators, to judge the guy and blame him for not seeing all of the red flags, but this can happen to anyone if we are not vigilant. I dated a narc for a very long time; people around me tried to warn me but I was so determined to make it work that I ignored the warnings. A very important red flag for me has been when girls try to control my contact with friends and family. That is a sign of a controlling person right there. Be also careful about girls who talk bad about your best friends.
@greenbarat
@greenbarat 6 жыл бұрын
Hey Corey, when I start my day watching about 1 hour of your videos, I have a better day.
@Kaioshin9000
@Kaioshin9000 7 жыл бұрын
before every new video I'm always busy looking at the background.
@LostOneOmega
@LostOneOmega 7 жыл бұрын
cesarThePencilest same. Also, I miss the intro.
@Kaioshin9000
@Kaioshin9000 7 жыл бұрын
+LostOneOmega plus idk if u noticed but the font's on the thumbnail are lighter and not a sold black like the older ones.
@donnahannaford6840
@donnahannaford6840 7 жыл бұрын
same
@mav1877
@mav1877 7 жыл бұрын
I just want to play the pinball machine.
@josephhernandez1605
@josephhernandez1605 7 жыл бұрын
Chris Plummer hahahaha that's good, it's does look as you said.
@thiagosantana214
@thiagosantana214 5 жыл бұрын
"Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to read your book 10 to 15 times and you feed him for a lifetime."
@club323
@club323 7 жыл бұрын
On being codependent: "Oh, it's ok, we'll fix it through love.." Hahaha!!
@shatteredsquare
@shatteredsquare 5 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
@garza1992619
@garza1992619 7 жыл бұрын
I haven't seen this video,but I just had to say you're the best bro. you have made my love life easier.thank you.
@Pr0m3th3us90
@Pr0m3th3us90 5 жыл бұрын
i need to stop watching your videos at 4 am, good shit man.
@janice3691
@janice3691 5 жыл бұрын
Consider yourself lucky you are no longer in that situation. Great advice!
@Mr96tears
@Mr96tears 7 жыл бұрын
"Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime."
@bear532
@bear532 7 жыл бұрын
Chris Slonske Light fire for man and you'll keep him warm for a night. Light man on fire and you'll keep him warm for the rest of his life.
@ElevatingConscious
@ElevatingConscious 6 жыл бұрын
- Donald J. Trump
@mariomicossi
@mariomicossi 5 жыл бұрын
"Teach him how to sell fish, and you'll feed him for life without the drudgery of having to eat fish every damn day..." Lol
@crackericeproductions
@crackericeproductions 4 жыл бұрын
Have you ever been fishing lol depends on the spot i guess lmao
@josenavas9968
@josenavas9968 6 жыл бұрын
Coach; as I look at the most recent comments that were made as recent as a year ago. Sir I believe your right to a certain extent. Look to the parent's to understand the person you hope to have a long term relationship with. To me it is a yes and no example. For the most part. I herd this from a friend a few years ago. A most enlightening individual. He said this "if you don't learn you'll be put in a place where you will" Take this as however you will. There is truth in pain and joy or so I believe..
@briansmobile1
@briansmobile1 6 жыл бұрын
13:30-13:40 "Younger me would have been like- oh you're so pretty... we'll just fix it through love... " LOL! Frick'n priceless!
@MikelKiriakos
@MikelKiriakos 4 жыл бұрын
Its funny how so many dudes convince themselves of that! Priceless
@corinnajohnson7391
@corinnajohnson7391 3 жыл бұрын
@@MikelKiriakos I was guilty of it.....then God was like "LET THE TRUTH WASH OVER YOU"........and I was saved from the biggest bullet of my life.
@miked2418
@miked2418 7 жыл бұрын
It's nice to see you increasing in subscribers everyday! Keep up the good work Corey!
@craigthurmond988
@craigthurmond988 6 жыл бұрын
You have so much to offer the world....from you I have learned much. I would like to encourage to consider the perspectives of those who don't look like you though. I'm a social worker who often hears some of what you believe being voiced by people whom I hope you wouldn't align yourself with. I've listened to you discuss your experiences while in middle and high school and how you had to fear for your safety. I'm sorry that you had that experience. Believe it or not there are many who wake up to that feeling everyday and they are adults.
@Marvinflores
@Marvinflores 7 жыл бұрын
I read your book four times and you are on point right on. Thank you for your hard work, greetings from NJ.
@FilterChain
@FilterChain 7 жыл бұрын
shit man millions of people on KZbin and i see your profile twice in a lifetime - that's crazy cool! hahaha
@petersonyak8905
@petersonyak8905 4 жыл бұрын
Amen to you both... I still love my crazy woman after a year of breaking up with her... but I love myself equally She won't change and I will not put up with it. Better to love the good memories than live a shitty life💁‍♂️
@g.p.mushrooms5496
@g.p.mushrooms5496 5 жыл бұрын
Omg I was with a B.P.D. chick. It was a nightmare, I literally have nightmares about it still. They'll fool you and destroy you..
@VwapTrader
@VwapTrader 4 жыл бұрын
@Thien Nguyen No, you're just a beta simp with no balls. Work on yourself and one day you won't want to be near a BPD type of person let alone in a relationship with one.
@danmor9918
@danmor9918 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah ur right
@akhtaruzzamanjoy8524
@akhtaruzzamanjoy8524 3 жыл бұрын
@@VwapTrader dude it has nothing to do with beta or alpha. Girls with bpd is very hard to crack at first.
@Benner3454
@Benner3454 7 жыл бұрын
Holy shit! For a minute I thought you were talking about my ex....So many similarities to my situation. I have a buddy who is dating this crazy chick with no integrity but he's blinded by her looks/sex....He thinks she'd never cheat on him like she cheated on her old boyfriend with him!! Guys, as Corey has said many times over...People DO NOT CHANGE unless they want to....Do not waste time trying to be someone's savior...that is NOT a role as a boyfriend/husband....They need to be apart of their own rescue! "Dumb people learn from their own mistakes; Smart people learn from other people's mistakes"
@nesra8786
@nesra8786 5 жыл бұрын
I have also had an eerily similar experience, personality disorders are no joke. Commitment made, for both books.
@edreyes5381
@edreyes5381 7 жыл бұрын
Cory, I loved this video of all your other videos because of your funny and sarcastic comments and all of your references like Danger Will Robinson and all your facial expressions. You provided a lot of excellent information while at the same time cracking me up. Excellent job! Keep it up.
@KenRuan
@KenRuan 7 жыл бұрын
You know how to stand up for what you represent...this is admirable!
@jonesneverlikedyou4824
@jonesneverlikedyou4824 7 жыл бұрын
I wish I walked away sooner. My ex became an escort about 18months back and I stayed with her because I loved her, but she'd explode with rage so many times and blaming me for everything. She'd read my skype and facebook conversations and she had no boundaries. She even wrote a kindle book called, "The 21st century escort" about her sexual exploits. I've never read it. She even has a video done by Corey Wayne a couple of years back on the differences between us and our conflicts. She hates being an escort now and she pressured me to marry her (3rd time for her) She then asked if I'd like to have kids. I can imagine the trouble I'd be in now if she had my child. I'm pretty messed up over it to be honest. It was like dating Betty Blue Now she has a youtube advice channel and the last 3 videos have been 'advice' but are just rants about me and the father of her child, calling us narcissists. It is not the case with me. I was very supportive to her but nothing was ever good enough. Just to make it clear, I'm not a weak or needy person, I just thought I could handle it. I'm a high value, successful guy and have very little problem getting girlfriends. I guess I just fell for the wrong one. I've gone MGTOW because it's I can't be dealing with the insanity
@bonganimkhwanazi2081
@bonganimkhwanazi2081 6 жыл бұрын
Damn.
@gerryvandepol8666
@gerryvandepol8666 6 жыл бұрын
It would appear that you fell for somebody and after that it was downhill.... many have been there....an escort? really!?....poor choice...many have been there...she has a kid...an escort..wants a baby and you fell for her?,but you are not weak or needy?...like myself it takes a while to understand what cognitive dissonance is and that you fuct up and that woman should be someone else’s problem .
@GG-mx9fj
@GG-mx9fj 2 жыл бұрын
@@gerryvandepol8666 that’s why he went MGTOW, to avoid personal responsibility in this case. To own that you are 50% of all interactions, take accountability.
@Lewisevans1618
@Lewisevans1618 4 жыл бұрын
Ive had more red flags than a soviet bull charge and still wrapped myself in them like a someone shivering with exposure
@MrSpvdes
@MrSpvdes 3 жыл бұрын
Powerful stuff right there, the woman in the story was projecting a lot, your assessment of her was spot on, I've seen and experienced this and I can tell that she was trying to manipulate him. I love your videos, they're truly timeless.
@hunbundoe7627
@hunbundoe7627 7 жыл бұрын
I think this is one of the funniest videos you have...all your voices and impressions are hilarious!!!👏🏼✨😆😘
@AhmedHassan-jo3or
@AhmedHassan-jo3or 7 жыл бұрын
"Ohhh we'll fix it through love". You're hilarious
@vaibhav4799
@vaibhav4799 Жыл бұрын
Red flags that I ignored was agreeing everything she said although it was shitty, agreeing that he is just a friend while she made me jealous while posting shitty pictures with her guy bestfriends and ruining my mental peace, agreeing to put her needs first then mine, agreeing that I won't find anyone when she leaves, putting up with constant break up threats, agreeing to put her first then me, putting up with shit on my face when she told me other guys are hot and she has lot of options, fast forward she left me but I will heal. I made mistakes too like arguing, yelling but the mistake which I made was not calling her out for her bad behaviour and letting her use me as a doormat, am fucked up rn but will heal thanks to this guy.
@valerieh5400
@valerieh5400 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Corey for your videos. They are so informational and educational. I hope to read your books soon. I plan to write down all the red flags I can think of tonight and take responsibility instead of blaming my partner. I know my relationship is not doing well so I’m hoping to learn from my mistakes before I ever get involved again. I plan to work on myself now and into the future. I’m only 26, but I want to be a better overall human being and woman. Anyway thanks again for your time and video, it’s much appreciated!
@davidbecquer3624
@davidbecquer3624 7 жыл бұрын
The notification appears, and now my watch begins! I am the Sword in the Darkness lol
@Designbluejv
@Designbluejv 6 жыл бұрын
Idk why Corey but this video made my cry of relief
@mikebowser48
@mikebowser48 7 жыл бұрын
Loved this video, thanks for sharing, we all benefit when we share and don't have to make the same mistakes.
@MoMeBeDyHeEtc
@MoMeBeDyHeEtc 7 жыл бұрын
It's always so funny to trigger people who live and think in the "spectrum of extreme tolerance". Great video coach, Thank you for your wisdom :).
@lofi-latmiya
@lofi-latmiya 7 жыл бұрын
Me ex and I had a huge argument on the second date! I just convinced myself it was a one off. Looking back there were so many goddamn red flags, emotionally/mentally unstable, habitual lies, short temper, etc. Anyway glad I discovered this book after. Here's to the future. 4th read so far.
@benh2156
@benh2156 3 жыл бұрын
My ex of six years had a great relationship with her parents, and they were still together(unicorn situation right?). Turns out though her dad cheated once in the past.... well.... guess the apple really doesn't fall far from the tree!
@foreignidea712
@foreignidea712 7 жыл бұрын
Corey..you provide a service for relationships, which helps lots of people. You should keep the focus there. Political opinion could cloud the reception of the message you're trying to provide. You're a great relationship coach...stay a coach dude.
@CoachCoreyWayne
@CoachCoreyWayne 7 жыл бұрын
I'm a life coach, not a relationship coach. You do not get to define me or tell me what I can and can't talk about. I shared a great quote from our President. If you can't handle that without getting butt-hurt or offended, then unsubscribe and follow someone else snowflake. I do not answer to you or anyone else.
@foreignidea712
@foreignidea712 7 жыл бұрын
Coach Corey Wayne Wow! Butt-hurt why?? I'm not a political guy at all. I am a vet though. Not a snowflake. The tone and context of what I wrote before was not aggressive. I simply wanted to share a perspective is all, because i felt like it. The same way you felt like quoting. Youre the one who took it to left field dude. I don't need to control anyone but myself. You defined yourself pretty well in this thread. Maybe try not trying to interpret tone via text?? That was kind of wack bro. I'm done with this.
@JuanAguirre-zn5mz
@JuanAguirre-zn5mz 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Corey, looking forward for your second book!
@mysterio1570
@mysterio1570 4 жыл бұрын
CCWayne. One thing you have over most Ytubers is that you look direct into the camera and communicate. I think that the other Ytubers could learn from you that aspect of communication.
@kibuladesire8019
@kibuladesire8019 5 жыл бұрын
*CAN YOU TALK ABOUT GREEN FLAGS*
@vdrwatch
@vdrwatch 7 жыл бұрын
Coach, you ARE the man!!! "We'll just fix it with love!" was hilarious!
@jonj3086
@jonj3086 7 жыл бұрын
exactly stay true to yourself never sell yourself short and trade your morals and values.
@diegovilla45
@diegovilla45 7 жыл бұрын
You are the best Corey. Thank you for your help. I will make a donation whenever I can.
@thejosh38
@thejosh38 6 жыл бұрын
Bob, she was FOR SURE bpd, I dated this girl for six months with diagnosed bpd and she told me once: "I sometimes start fights to make a little drama, just to keep things interesting". She was also SUPERRR jealous of any girl I had anything to do with. Was ridiculous. She was insanely hot but still not worth it. Don't feel bad my man, I personally don't think that anyone can have a successful relationship with this kind of person, unless the girl (or guy) is medicated for their condition.
@SimoneBogus
@SimoneBogus 7 жыл бұрын
I love tha old pinball blinking in the backgroung! Sooo mancave
@rIVERSIDEAUTOINC
@rIVERSIDEAUTOINC 7 жыл бұрын
finally!!! I'm so glad you made this video on bpd... been there and it's horrible and devesating. there's nothing you can do but get the fuck out. hardest thing I've ever had to do but man, looking back I'm so glad I did...
@svtben
@svtben 7 жыл бұрын
As my mentor would say: "Success is success is success."
@martinallen6521
@martinallen6521 5 жыл бұрын
Coach Corey. I appreciate your honesty. You’re so right. And by the way I support President Trump 100 %. He’s a mans man. Finally we have a president with a true masculine core and leader who is really trying to make America great again. Your coaching videos are helping me to recognize, grow and overcome my insecurities to have the best relationship experience ever. You rock bro 😎
@gregallen8047
@gregallen8047 7 жыл бұрын
Lets go Mr. Wayne
@angelazahn4304
@angelazahn4304 5 жыл бұрын
Correy your very honest an straight to the point .I find u humor as well
@edwardchier5471
@edwardchier5471 6 жыл бұрын
Corey -you are the Man!! As for this guy, he found my ex wife ! Poor guy had to learn the hard way. After 15 years, with a BPD wife I said screw it and went to school for psychology (Industrial and Organizational Psychology) but still had to learn these signs he discusses. The part where she liked to his face and make him believe the lie. That's called "Gaslighting" Google that term it's an interesting tactic. The threatening to cut herself "Emotional Blackmail" . That cool phone in bathroom rule reminds me. I'm at marriage counseling and I said look this woman has these crazy jealousy rules that proves she is nuts!! I said, we have a rule I cannot be in the same car, sit next to at a bar go to lunch with. Or Call another woman without her sitting there listening .....I'm a Salesman for Food Distribution company for God sakes, haha, all the cake and cupcakes shops are owned by women and I have to call them for their weekly food supplies. I said, you see how she is Nuttier than a Snickers bar?? He said, (mind you this guy has PHD) No Ed, sounds to me like you are the dumb one!!!!!! Im like wtf, dude, that is crazy shit who makes up that rule??? He says, No Ed , You are the crazy one!!! Huh, he says she can make up all the rules she wants .....only a Dumb ass like YOU agrees to it!! So lesson learned, I get his message now. Don't agree to crazy shit that makes you crazy! Carpe Diem, Ed
@fitzieo1
@fitzieo1 6 жыл бұрын
Hey Corey I have just ordered your book. If you think this guy has had it bad, one day I will tell my story it is really bad. I have gone from being single and reasonably happy 7 years ago, with my own property and no debts and nothing on finance. Then meeting what I can only describe as a crazy Bitch.To sitting here writing this, with debts of £30'000, maxed out credit card £6000. soon to be homeless. All down to meeting a woman and not doing anything, when the red flags appeared. They were there I just refused to act through fear of being alone. I realise what an imbecile I have been. It is possibly too late for me. I just hope any body reading this will buy your book, to avoid the pitfalls I refused to see.
@TheNCcope
@TheNCcope 7 жыл бұрын
thanks man you have changed my life
@Gnosis33
@Gnosis33 7 жыл бұрын
I don't know if this is something that only happened to me or there are also others out there who have experienced this. After i learned about how attraction works with women and gained the knowledge of being the alpha male, i've noticed that the girls are drawn to me like magnet as if they sense and feel that I know how to properly attract women. For the past 10 days iv had random girls came up to me and started a conversation and I get more girls look at me or trying make eye contact me or just more attention from girls in general. This has never happened to me before.
@sunshinestate1306
@sunshinestate1306 2 жыл бұрын
What the proper way to attract woman?
@ENIGMAXII2112
@ENIGMAXII2112 5 жыл бұрын
Oh my.... This was dark, depressing... Funny... But this could be your life too! Thank for the talk/ video...
@WildflowerAnn
@WildflowerAnn 6 жыл бұрын
I accidented upon this video & decided to see what the Red Flags were. I started to click off, but stayed the course & I have to say that I sat here and laughed out loud. I had never heard of you before, maybe I'll have to watch some more. LOL
@StompingRabbits
@StompingRabbits 6 жыл бұрын
If there is something insurmountable about a woman's behavior or lifestyle sometimes it's best to pass her up even if she's hot. I'm talking deal breaking scenarios, sociopathic or extreme narcissistic behavior, existing relationships with other men or seedy sex industry occupations.... Do yourself a favor unless you're desperate or slumming and bolt!
@krystofcharles8798
@krystofcharles8798 4 ай бұрын
Had a long distance situation for 7months. We met and our plan was to stay together for a month under the same rooth. 4 days after she landed i found out she was texting a exboyfriend and another male friend behind my back . Kicked her out with class. She was crying Saying she love me..yes she didnt had her father around growing up..and after lying about the messages for 30mins, she admitted everything when i told her we are done. Stay strong kings and become the best version of yourself.
@mike7146
@mike7146 6 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately there are broke ppl like myself who have to methodically go through your videos over and over due to living paycheck to paycheck
@kristinat8298
@kristinat8298 5 жыл бұрын
Great insight and honesty.
@MrChambers8109
@MrChambers8109 7 жыл бұрын
10:10 The reflection on the parent paradigm is big.
@tadamori
@tadamori 7 жыл бұрын
Not a Trump supporter but I appreciate your sense of humor and candor.
@nicktanner5962
@nicktanner5962 4 жыл бұрын
Hi coach, wow so you had mentioned a Quote from the late great Wayne Dyer, I actually dated his youngest daughter which turned out to be a disaster in so many different ways Forcing me to take a look at my own faults & actions, And changes that I will be needing to make for the future which coincidentally lead me to your work. So special shout out to the wonderful Wayne Dyer who’s A genius in his own right, and his daughter😐🤨🤔🥶
@joshbrookes6439
@joshbrookes6439 7 жыл бұрын
By far the funniest and most entertaining video to date, at one point I thought you had definitely downed a few beers before you hit the record button. You Seemed happy, relaxed and really confident to let the natural comedic side of your personality all hang out and as a result the video was brilliant :)
@AbdullaHernandez
@AbdullaHernandez 6 жыл бұрын
Omg funniest video yet 🤣 this really helps me understand the playful vibe, and I couldn't stop listening 😂
@fixthisone
@fixthisone 7 жыл бұрын
If I let failure stop me. I'd never grow my skill to be able to repair anything and get to see smiles on my customers' faces :(
@rikij05
@rikij05 8 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@rikij05
@rikij05 8 ай бұрын
I owe you way more than I could ever repay you. ty ❤️
@davidrobertjones2097
@davidrobertjones2097 3 жыл бұрын
You are what i was about to be, until I ignored my own rules... keep up god's work !
@marcusfrazier4923
@marcusfrazier4923 7 жыл бұрын
"I should've fuckin' listened to that fuckin' shaved-headed bastard......" Lmao.
@DatsyukOn94
@DatsyukOn94 5 жыл бұрын
Danger will Robinson, love it!
@dougmatchell910
@dougmatchell910 7 жыл бұрын
bought you audio book and listen to the whole 7 hours today and replayed certain things learned a lot, am I supposed to listen to it 10 to 15 or more. you need to do a video book so we can see you face expressions on things lol.
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