How To Tell She's USING YOU!

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Courtney Ryan

Courtney Ryan

Күн бұрын

In this video, I go over 4 signs she could be using you. The last thing I want to see is you guys getting taken advantage of so make sure you watch until the end. Have any of these happened to you? Let me know in the comments below and tell me what you want me to talk about next.
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@maxalmonte14
@maxalmonte14 3 жыл бұрын
The bottom line: if a girl doesn't want to invest anything in the relationship then she's using you.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
Spot on
@donkeykong1234
@donkeykong1234 3 жыл бұрын
i mean investing is a bit confusing to qualify, as i would rather not go through the fake reaching for wallet charade without actually expecting to pay it (or without consequence down the line). i'm fine paying for most/every thing, but yes - it has to be paid back in equity somewhere eventually. cannot just be a one way street.
@donkeykong1234
@donkeykong1234 3 жыл бұрын
@Cmndr Roy Fokker i'm married - wife is stay at home mom/wife. of course, i'm paying for everything. even when she is paying for something, that money probably came from me. we don't need to pretend with a charade of who is paying for what. obviously the expectation is that she carries her part of the relationship in whatever non-monetary way to make it equitable. same with dating.
@donkeykong1234
@donkeykong1234 3 жыл бұрын
@Cmndr Roy Fokker i'd reply but i don't really care. if being a simp means having a family and a housewife, ok. have a nice day.
@Andrew-oj3pv
@Andrew-oj3pv 3 жыл бұрын
@@donkeykong1234 I don’t think he understands that a marriage is different than dating. Any tips for being married?
@tylerle8357
@tylerle8357 3 жыл бұрын
since there's no summary guy Using you... 1. she needs something 2. you pay for everything 3. booty call 4. It's all about her
@7oy
@7oy 2 жыл бұрын
You are the hero I was looking for.
@harryschlitz4067
@harryschlitz4067 2 жыл бұрын
Uhhh. What again is wrong with # 3 ???
@53strat55
@53strat55 Жыл бұрын
Booty call does not need to be using;p
@kimmythegoat34
@kimmythegoat34 Жыл бұрын
​@@harryschlitz4067 just using u for s3x and if she does this she probably does this with other guys, unless u like that sort of thing
@zeenuf00
@zeenuf00 2 ай бұрын
​@harryschlitz4067 She uses sex to manipulate people. It 'ain't rocket science.
@josuemiamire
@josuemiamire 3 жыл бұрын
Some girls are shady, but Courtney is our light 💡 😂
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂 I love it
@official_karmastudios5413
@official_karmastudios5413 3 жыл бұрын
*N o w t h a t I s c l e v e r*
@jayb3033
@jayb3033 3 жыл бұрын
Yes Courtney is awesome!!!💥
@hanumandehru7388
@hanumandehru7388 3 жыл бұрын
ghanta, she is not allowing to be friend
@tendertony6828
@tendertony6828 3 жыл бұрын
She’s a little pick me... unattractive
@jasongomez4443
@jasongomez4443 3 жыл бұрын
I think one more sign to throw out there is if she texts/calls you because she’s bored! That just happened to me and I think it’s good to know. If she’s just talking to you because she’s bored *RED FLAG*
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely!!!
@bahaatamer1245
@bahaatamer1245 3 жыл бұрын
Seriously wishing somebody would've told me this a few months ago, because I was recently under this manipulation and I didn't even notice it!
@cameronf3343
@cameronf3343 3 жыл бұрын
No bigger turn off than seeing your phone light up saying “I’m bored what’s up”. I respond with I’m busy even if I’m just getting myself a drink.
@bahaatamer1245
@bahaatamer1245 3 жыл бұрын
@@cameronf3343 don't you just feel like you want to set some people on fire, but you can't?
@jasongomez4443
@jasongomez4443 3 жыл бұрын
@@cameronf3343 hell yeah bro! I’m definitely gonna be using that one for sure!
@venom7558
@venom7558 3 жыл бұрын
Speaking as a man who is romantic,tries to treat women with respect and has a big heart,to have a girl treat you like this is devastating. You try to be nice and be a gentleman,but it just ends up biting you in the ass later. Things like this makes dating so hard nowadays. Thanks again for a wonderful and informative video,Courtney!
@vklnew9824
@vklnew9824 3 жыл бұрын
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@vklnew9824
@vklnew9824 3 жыл бұрын
Exploit her before she exploits you
@cameronf3343
@cameronf3343 3 жыл бұрын
@@vklnew9824 Yes, because that’s how the world gets better, exploit before be exploited rather than just say bye. That’s some solid logic.
@vklnew9824
@vklnew9824 3 жыл бұрын
@@cameronf3343 you've got a point with "just say bye", but what I meant to say is women deserve a taste of their own Machiavellian medicine.
@pjuliano9000
@pjuliano9000 3 жыл бұрын
The American zeitgeist is ominous .. davvero dovrebbe parlare alle donne dalle altre paese
@Foundry_made
@Foundry_made 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, things shouldn't be transactional, but one of the basics of human relationships is RECIPROCITY. If you're giving a girl ANYTHING, not necessarily material things, and not getting ANYTHING back, and she's not making any effort, SHE'S USING YOU.
@sudeshgaur6059
@sudeshgaur6059 3 жыл бұрын
When she calls me for money or help, suddenly there is a problem with my network.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@brianfiszman3179
@brianfiszman3179 3 жыл бұрын
@@CourtneyRyan i wish more women were like you :-(
@pviau90
@pviau90 3 жыл бұрын
Me too! We must have the same carrier 😅
@zaheershaikh3269
@zaheershaikh3269 3 жыл бұрын
Bhai ye Courtney ke tips hamare gaon ke ladkiyo par kaise implement kar sakte ho?
@brianfiszman3179
@brianfiszman3179 3 жыл бұрын
@Cmndr Roy Fokker idk bro, if a woman fucks you just because of your money, you know what you are in with her for
@Smootus
@Smootus 3 жыл бұрын
I was raised where I should pay for everything on a date..... then I met the love of my life and she demanded that she pay for at least half of our dates..... what a shock!
@Ace.0.0.0.
@Ace.0.0.0. 3 жыл бұрын
That's a good sign. This is a woman who puts her money where her mouth is. Her actions align with her words.
@ACM1PT95
@ACM1PT95 3 жыл бұрын
That's how it should be
@ceeb107
@ceeb107 Жыл бұрын
Happy for you Bryan that’s how women act when they desire crave and respect you. Women that demand the man pays even if they are capable see you as a backup plan most of the time or better than nothing. Trust me they invest in men they truly desire
@pviau90
@pviau90 3 жыл бұрын
Guys, YOU are the prize. This simple mindset change can weed out so many of these leeches.
@justaskmeiknow5584
@justaskmeiknow5584 3 жыл бұрын
Another mindset change...you may WANT one but you don't NEED one
@expose.1370
@expose.1370 3 жыл бұрын
I've been used as a toy, manipulated by others for their own benefit. thank you Courtney for teaching me
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that but happy to help!
@hanumandehru7388
@hanumandehru7388 3 жыл бұрын
congrat,u r socialized
@Ace.0.0.0.
@Ace.0.0.0. 3 жыл бұрын
Remember, we all can make choices. You are free to leave at any time. Be a gentleman about it. Kindness does not mean weakness. Be polite, honest, & direct. You are allowed to say 'no' to a woman. You don't need her approval.
@tybaf_a056siddhantkamble7
@tybaf_a056siddhantkamble7 3 жыл бұрын
Here comes the girl who is making our life better through her videos 🥰
@PaulG_1985
@PaulG_1985 3 жыл бұрын
Being used is so dehumanizing. To use someone is probably sociopathic.
@franklinj1038
@franklinj1038 2 жыл бұрын
0h.. u kno my Ex too?!?
@marybell2002
@marybell2002 2 жыл бұрын
Dehumanized is the perfect word to describe how it feels. I'm a woman who recently went on first date with a guy who started asking me a bunch of financial questions immediately. It was obvious it was all about using me for money so I lied a bit and downplayed how much money I made. He immediately walked out and never came back. Even though I dodged a bullet I went home and cried like a baby. I felt horrible about myself.
@cadewardlaw5162
@cadewardlaw5162 2 жыл бұрын
@@marybell2002 maybe he didnt want to continue the relationship if you weren't financially stable. That could make him feel like he'll have to pay for everything. I'm not saying that hes right here, I'm saying that he might have just had the same concerns as you.
@marybell2002
@marybell2002 2 жыл бұрын
@@cadewardlaw5162 We weren't in a relationship, we had just met. In the end I was relieved. He seemed like the type of man who would need the woman to wear the pants and run the show. In the past women needed men's money so it was fine for us to do everything else. Now that we are bringing money to a relationship, if the man can't cook, clean, make plans etc. he really becomes a burden.
@jackr2287
@jackr2287 Жыл бұрын
Women don't want to be reduced to their sexually features, and men don't want to be reduced to their pocketbook. But it's a heck of a temptation for both sets, because I think the discussion around hypergamy and "male gaze" suggests that the forces are intense, and if not socialized to reduce their dominance, are catastrophic. Especially as we enter into a digital era, where the excesses of both wreck havoc on those who don't have the discipline or strength or fortune to hold out against a tidal force.
@jeffreyfigueiredo1740
@jeffreyfigueiredo1740 3 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! Paying a girl to text you??? Really? This is actually happening nowadays? I hope any dude that has watched this video doesn’t let that s...t happen!!! Great video Courtney 👍🏾
@admirbarucija2018
@admirbarucija2018 3 жыл бұрын
This is very important advice!! Sometimes in the moment it can be hard to tell, or when you really want a connection and downplay signs of being used
@lion1970
@lion1970 3 жыл бұрын
She gives you a sign only when she is in need of something, on the opposite side she gives you a sign when you miss her and it is very often , like hi what are you up to , what are you doing ? she is interested in you but becareful it can be a trap at first because playing a game is almost within the reach of any woman , hahaha sorry the truth is always scary , better be scared than buried alive lol
@sinistergrinch
@sinistergrinch 3 жыл бұрын
Still getting over a really toxic relationship, but really glad to see that there’s still some awesome girls out there with a moral compass lol. Learning the hard way that it’s too easy to ignore obvious red flags with really attractive girls. Trying super hard to not take the easy path and just rebound or get involved w a girl to take my mind off things. Definitely appreciate your content and all of your advice on things! Great video!
@Ace.0.0.0.
@Ace.0.0.0. 3 жыл бұрын
Remember, all that glitters is not gold. Every very attractive woman I have been with had issues. For an LTR, stick with the girl next door types. Most of them have their feet firmly on the ground, and if you are a high value guy, they will submit to you. A good woman will make your life easier, not more difficult.
@sinistergrinch
@sinistergrinch 3 жыл бұрын
@@Ace.0.0.0. definitely agree brother
@cjsport1254
@cjsport1254 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Courtney for being awesome. So many people live with antiquated rules. You are evolved!
@paddyofurniture9523
@paddyofurniture9523 3 жыл бұрын
As a guy who dated a gold digger and got taken advantage of, I wish I could go back in time and show 21-year-old me this video. That guy was an idiot, but he didn't know any better, because he had no experience. Thank you for doing what you do, Courtney.
@DerekKGray
@DerekKGray 3 жыл бұрын
This was a great video! I wish I saw stuff like this a long time ago before I had gotten married to a narcicist who did stuff like this a lot. Thanks for being an advocate for us guys out there, good to see women that are level-headed and just wanna see good relationships be found.
@kratos1553
@kratos1553 3 жыл бұрын
This is probably your most important video you’ve produced so far since it gives advice so many guys need to hear. Thanks for making it!
@g.banderas1242
@g.banderas1242 3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree,sometimes it's difficult to say no because you have to evaluate your situation and is it really appreciative. But unless you want to be a sugar daddy you are absolutely right. 🤔🤨👍good advice. Keep up the great work. 💃
@Shreadington
@Shreadington 3 жыл бұрын
When my wife finished medical school she was pregnant with our first. She told me after the baby is born I think I'll be a stay at home mom for a while. I told her, NOPE you've got school loans to pay. You're going to work after 12 weeks. She started back 2 weeks early 😁 Stand your ground especially in the early years of marriage in a constructive way. Remember, dating is good behavior.
@jambajoby32
@jambajoby32 3 жыл бұрын
Court is the only one lookin out for me! You’re the best!
@EpicDadventures
@EpicDadventures 3 жыл бұрын
I love how real your videos are getting. Keep up the good work!
@ryangilley8764
@ryangilley8764 3 жыл бұрын
OMG Courtney, you're pumping out mad videos now. Are you officially a KZbinr full-time?
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
Haha yes sir! ❤️
@elitefitness341
@elitefitness341 3 жыл бұрын
@Cmndr Roy Fokker Most people have an agenda regardless of if it's seen or not. A lot of guys tell me, "I would never pay for sex". I then ask, "have you ever bought her dinner of put up with her bitching at you because she's hot? The answer is yes. I then say, "well then Brother, you're paying a price one way or another". My point is, even if she used you for sex because you're good at it and you got good sex in return, perhaps she did use you for that even though it was mutual. Just a perspective.
@RaZoR7i7
@RaZoR7i7 3 жыл бұрын
Dating is hard for guys thank you Courtney for speaking the truth for someone who never had the opportunity to talked to girls I appreciate that there are women who understands our situation or at least my situation ✌️
@richieday
@richieday 3 жыл бұрын
Started following over the past Couple of months and enjoying all the content. I can see and hear in your voice how you are getting more comfortable in your videos. 👏🏻
@topanimeiq773
@topanimeiq773 3 жыл бұрын
Love what u doing to the channel the last few weeks, lots of good work keep going
@StarlightSGs
@StarlightSGs 3 жыл бұрын
Stay safe Courtney, you're amazing.
@MrKreationsHD
@MrKreationsHD 3 жыл бұрын
Courtney was spitting straight FIRE this episode!!!
@jimscycleandautotn8508
@jimscycleandautotn8508 3 жыл бұрын
Classy Courtney , thanks and have a blessed week.
@backpackingtony1779
@backpackingtony1779 3 жыл бұрын
I wish your channel was around when I was younger. Women did all these things to me. Would have been great or have a big sister looking out for me! You’re the best Courtney!
@lijojake
@lijojake 3 жыл бұрын
Thank God there are still girls like you in the world.
@jasonbourne6323
@jasonbourne6323 3 жыл бұрын
I love these videos. Often a women's point of view is always good.
@Bourbonguy-jo3st
@Bourbonguy-jo3st 2 жыл бұрын
In her previous videos, Courtney says that she was cheated on by other guys. How could anyone cheat on this woman? Courtney is a beautiful woman on the outside, but she is such a genuine and beautiful woman on the inside. She is the closest thing to a unicorn we have! Thanks for making these videos, Courtney! You're really looking out for guys everywhere.
@suntitan4419
@suntitan4419 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like girls should be watching your videos too because most of the ones I meet seem to think the guy should literally do everything wish they would put in some effort from time to time
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@terrylim9902
@terrylim9902 3 жыл бұрын
Good advice again Courtney!👍. Never be a simp for any women who don't bring any value to the table. Money cannot buy attraction or love.
@jaymedalbeth6962
@jaymedalbeth6962 3 жыл бұрын
I've been used as a rebound. Then she went cold and distant on me. So I told her goodbye
@FirebirdCamaro1220
@FirebirdCamaro1220 3 жыл бұрын
I was a rebound once. At least the woman had the decency to properly break up with me when she realized she wasn't over the ex
@jaymedalbeth6962
@jaymedalbeth6962 3 жыл бұрын
@@FirebirdCamaro1220 What I can't understand is that she wasted your time knowing full well what was going to happen between you and her
@FirebirdCamaro1220
@FirebirdCamaro1220 3 жыл бұрын
@@jaymedalbeth6962 I didn't know, I didn't find out about her ex until literally the day before we broke up
@jaymedalbeth6962
@jaymedalbeth6962 3 жыл бұрын
@@FirebirdCamaro1220 😳 She should've been honest from the start. I'm so sorry to hear about this 😔
@FirebirdCamaro1220
@FirebirdCamaro1220 3 жыл бұрын
@@jaymedalbeth6962 water under the bridge now. I've been with the same great woman for 7 years now and we're engaged to be married
@dlwhite1965
@dlwhite1965 Жыл бұрын
Once you have been through a divorce you are wary of making a mistake in becoming emotionally invested. Thank you for your bringing this problem into focus.
@marcopaez9047
@marcopaez9047 3 жыл бұрын
Courtney,you are a blessing sent from up above !!! thank You !
@kamalsmusic
@kamalsmusic 3 жыл бұрын
Seems like you've been working hard on making content, great job!
@soulassassin2494
@soulassassin2494 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Courtney, Great video and thank god I never went through that when I was dating! Take care yo
@jamesclough2638
@jamesclough2638 3 жыл бұрын
I've been used a lot. You are absolutely right.
@Lawrence_L.A._Auble
@Lawrence_L.A._Auble 3 жыл бұрын
Straight talk and solid calls on usability....
@arabgamingtv1261
@arabgamingtv1261 3 жыл бұрын
My favorite wingwoman ❤️. your upload rate these days is a dream come true.
@Felix-nr5ux
@Felix-nr5ux 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Courtney, Thank you so much for this video you made. I was feeling really sad because I had cut this girl I talk too for 2 years now. I bail her out of so many bad situations. I just got tired of it. I was not getting anything of the relationship. there was constant texting because she needed my help. she only text me because she wanted a favor from me. I felt angry because she put me in the situation that I had no option but to say no. I felt like I was being taken on a guilt trip in order for this girl to get what she wanted from me. I am not going to let this go on anymore. I am done. I felt like for a long time, I received nothing in return and now I believe it. I thank you so much once again Courtney for making this video available. I do not feel so much sadness anymore and now I can move on and look for better things ahead. I will watch all your videos and give it a thumbs up each one... take care... from Felix
@m.badillo1513
@m.badillo1513 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Courtney, i definitely appreciate it.
@jefflee7704
@jefflee7704 10 ай бұрын
Your very honest woman who tells it as it is. Thank you and much appreciated of your advice
@PetreAkaliyski-the-IM-stuggler
@PetreAkaliyski-the-IM-stuggler 3 жыл бұрын
Courtney, you are awesome. A true lady. Thanks
@johngonzalez4298
@johngonzalez4298 3 жыл бұрын
This is a good topic to talk about. Thank you Courtney ❤🌹
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome ❤️
@danielmagicmusic2708
@danielmagicmusic2708 3 жыл бұрын
@@CourtneyRyan Make a video about red flags for girls🥰
@vincentmartinez8241
@vincentmartinez8241 3 жыл бұрын
Ms Courtney you have an adorable way of speaking! ❤❤❤
@petersevilla7242
@petersevilla7242 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Courtney, Thanks for posting this video. Good stuff to know! I just starting dating again and I love watching your videos. They do help a lot! I recently bought one of the colognes over the weekend that you suggested which was the Prada Black! It smells so good! Best Regards, Peter S.
@mykolachemezov991
@mykolachemezov991 3 жыл бұрын
What an honest and bold review! I wish someone told me that in my 20s )). You have some much courage to rise such topic revelaing some girl's tricks.Thank you, Courntey! Your labor and efforts are much appreciated! Greetings from Ukraine ))
@bevisleiyan2273
@bevisleiyan2273 3 жыл бұрын
I thought that other male channels gave great advice, but Courtney is just A1💯 Great tips, I love them all❤
@JoshuaJamesWagoner
@JoshuaJamesWagoner 9 ай бұрын
You nailed this video! I have been used by girls before and even now I'm looking at some behaviors that a girl I like is doing. She is showing some signs of using me, and I haven't been getting much in return. I find myself making excuses for why she can't see me but can go to a party. The signs are clear. I need to stop being so available and willing to be used. Thank you Courtney.
@TheAmbSteve
@TheAmbSteve Жыл бұрын
Always appreciate the videos and advice Courtney. Also, shout out to Cleveland! I grew up there and always fun to get back up there and spend time in Put-in-Bay
@abhinavsharma8460
@abhinavsharma8460 3 жыл бұрын
This is something i found useful after browsing for 2 hours
@johngomes8874
@johngomes8874 2 жыл бұрын
Very interesting segment. When I was younger I fell things like this. But it's good to hear your take on it.
@sivanavelt3707
@sivanavelt3707 3 жыл бұрын
O MY GOD courtney you are EYE OPENER
@littlebear1520
@littlebear1520 Жыл бұрын
Amen I really appreciate the knowledge that you passed to us because unlike other dating coaches you put it just right in the hardcore and tell it like it is it would be nice if there were more women like you
@SLAF999
@SLAF999 3 жыл бұрын
As usual very great content , you are on fire! lots of videos, maybe you can talk about the first disagreements when you are dating someone...and unfortunately your advice here was 10 years late for me...so I learnt it the hard way...
@funwithshay5945
@funwithshay5945 3 жыл бұрын
I just needed it . thank you!
@TheHornet1fan
@TheHornet1fan 3 жыл бұрын
Wow,you just basically described my growing years w a few exceptions in people using .
@RetroCaptain
@RetroCaptain 3 жыл бұрын
I always found that the ladies I met who were serious, after the first date, offered in one way or another. One Tipped the Wait Staff, another paid for Dessert, and the most serious one, went so far as taking me to a much fancier place on our next date, & insisted on covering the cost. The most shallow one made me do all the driving, paying, etc.,"every time"...
@donaldmackerer9032
@donaldmackerer9032 11 ай бұрын
Courtney this was great. Thank you so much.
@davidgolf3245
@davidgolf3245 3 жыл бұрын
Didn't watch the video, but I love it when a woman uses my body. They can use me all day and night. Thanks I am here all week.
@tendertony6828
@tendertony6828 3 жыл бұрын
Right, this woman is jealous as hell! She must be GREAT IN BED. 🤣👌🤨
@timr3255
@timr3255 3 жыл бұрын
Courtney I've been used by girls before especially one girl it was horrible....great video! 😊
@mightefm0717
@mightefm0717 3 жыл бұрын
Courtney, thanks for the advice. I can tell you truly understand a man’s heart.👍
@eoinbrennan3949
@eoinbrennan3949 3 жыл бұрын
#1. She needs something #2. You pay for everything #3. You're a booty call #4. Its all about her. Let me just say also, the genuine outrage you showed when talking about some girls charging money to guys to text them was pretty cool. It shows you actually like men, I think there's a lot of girls who try to use men but who don't actually like men in their hearts. And the truth is the same for some guys who don't actually love women, they only want to get something from them.
@nickf9392
@nickf9392 3 жыл бұрын
100% described my last girlfriend. She was the Grand Poobah user of all the woman I have been with. A ton of other issues on top of it, passive / aggressive narcissist, love bombing insecure hyper critical gold digger. Yes..... I know what I was feelin....but what was I THINKING!!! Gone now, I feel like my self again!
@shoentanbhat9563
@shoentanbhat9563 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Courtney good vid! I love your content and you
@siralfred2446
@siralfred2446 3 жыл бұрын
Man don't u just put a smile on your face knowing Courtney is on your side 😁
@Carloshernandez-kk7dp
@Carloshernandez-kk7dp 3 жыл бұрын
Teddy gives me the content I wanna hear and usually gets me in trouble But your Content is the things I need to hear for a happy life 😆 Thank you
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
🥰🥰🥰 a nice watch + confidence = happy life!! 😂
@nathanjgtaylor1985
@nathanjgtaylor1985 3 жыл бұрын
Was used several times before, never again. Kicked dating into touch.
@cormacmoloney5172
@cormacmoloney5172 3 жыл бұрын
Great advice Courtney! Can you do a video on questions to ask a girl you like?
@eugeniogibson172
@eugeniogibson172 13 күн бұрын
THANK YOU VERY MUCH! Your advice is greatly appreciated!!
@jimlucas8414
@jimlucas8414 3 жыл бұрын
I know what you’re saying. I see guys on Twitter pay girls to humiliate them and disrespect them I mean shit at least I have respect for myself and some pride.
@garyshack3511
@garyshack3511 11 ай бұрын
The simple fact is that if a woman don't want a relationship with me, I move on to somebody else who would accept me for what I'm about, I don't force the issue, I let it come to me
@gl5249
@gl5249 3 жыл бұрын
You' are a good Woman, Courtney The world needs more women like you. Men need Women like you in their lives.
@danielsalazar6211
@danielsalazar6211 3 жыл бұрын
If only there were more women around the world like you Courtney .
@henrycollins2478
@henrycollins2478 3 жыл бұрын
If she is using me, then that’s impressive. I’m single, like you’re a genius
@rafaelsocorro3363
@rafaelsocorro3363 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 💕😊 it happen to me . I was use .😔 Thank you Courtney you are a angel 😇❤️ God bless you .
@juanprado3235
@juanprado3235 9 ай бұрын
Yeah she’s right not all girls are like that maybe 90% are shady and 10% are okay.
@clfrostyletrasmano3737
@clfrostyletrasmano3737 3 жыл бұрын
Love dizz courtney..stay blessed🙏❤
@babayaga5236
@babayaga5236 3 жыл бұрын
Thank God because a girl made a video like that seriously thank you
@EduardoSantos-pv8yo
@EduardoSantos-pv8yo 3 жыл бұрын
Godamm, she's not using me. Thank you, Courtney. 👍🏼
@ejames6431
@ejames6431 3 жыл бұрын
This is true. All good advice.
@MusaMansu
@MusaMansu 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of good advice here as usual.
@SamiUddin13
@SamiUddin13 3 жыл бұрын
The first one you mentioned about being hit up for favors really got me good. During college, there was this gorgeous Moroccan girl that I met through mutual friends in the cafeteria. We introduced each other and I had her laughing at all the Bengali and South Asian jokes I was making in regards to stereotypes I've been associated with and we hit it off from there. I see her in the cafeteria again and she was really happy to see me, we started talking about our life stories and then exchanged contact info. Later on she hit me up asking to help her with an assignment so I helped her out of my own free will. After helping her, she would send me heart emojis and smiles while thanking me. During the semester, she would hit me time from time with a convo then lead straight into helping with her homework. I was clueless at the time since I was heavily invested into her. Because of that she asked me out and I said yes, and was really looking forward to hanging out with her for the summer. What my dumb as did was made myself available 24/7 because I thought that would get her to like me more. One time I was in the technology center about to study for my finals and she was blowing up my phone asking to help her with an essay in class. I told her I had to study for my finals and she kept begging me. I reluctantly gave him and proceeded to helping her thinking I would get it out the way and get to my own studying. During my time in class, she would hit up my phone asking me to help her and my friends are making jokes saying to delete her number. I told her I'm not available until I got home, so when I got home is when she expected me. Mind you during the whole time, my ass was simping for her by responding right away to phone calls and texts, to being available 24/7 which I didn't realize made me weak. So when summer came around she agreed to go out with me, but bailed on me last minute the first time because she had to baby sit her sister's kids. So I forgave her and went on with my life. Then she agreed to hang out with me the second time, but bailed on me last minute saying that she got stuck at work. So I took it in me to not curse her out but forgive her. Keep in mind as I was texting her and calling her, she wasn't reciprocating. Then her and I made plans to hang out for the third time and of course she bailed on me again. That's when I realized that this girl really wasn't into me at all because she only wanted me for favors and didn't treat me like a 1st prize like I did her. So when she hit me up asking for help, I told her no and when she begged I said no again causing her to get mad. After that I deleted her number and removed her on Facebook so I'm not reminding of her toxic personality and like to keep it that way. And by the way, I was also a dumb ass for not talking to other girls because I kept thinking that this girl would be the one without realizing what my other options would be. So moral of the story is to not be available 24/7, don't place your eggs in 1 basket, set boundaries, don't be so responsive to calls or texts if she doesn't do the same, and don't put in any time or effort if she isn't reciprocating the same thing. I've learned my lesson from that experience.
@jleano609
@jleano609 3 жыл бұрын
Stories like this give me optimism that there are some smart guys out there. Most telling is that you say that you regret the time and energy you put into a fruitless relationship. It shows you value yourself which is the number one positive attitude in life in general and especially in dealing with women. Good Man!
@SamiUddin13
@SamiUddin13 3 жыл бұрын
@@jleano609 Thanks. The important thing is to learn from an experience like that, otherwise it'll happen again hence why it's important to learn from your mistakes.
@jleano609
@jleano609 3 жыл бұрын
@@SamiUddin13 Exactly - no such things as mistakes, only learning experiences!
@ceeb107
@ceeb107 Жыл бұрын
@@SamiUddin13 thank you greatly for sharing bro. I had a girl when I was in college english class I would help her out with assignments here and there not totally but some effort on my end. She said oh we can hang out once semester over we not as busy and guess what? Her grandpa fell first time for a date she didnt come I was like ok that happened. then she kept saying she was busy then she said "Why are you texting me bro, I dont know who number this is." I called her blocked me then I called her on another phone she heard my voice and hung up. Lesson Learned. Then when school came back into next semester heard she dropped out and was already in a lot of debt. Ehh maybe she had a lot of stress from school and debt but that aint my problem.
@apetonix253
@apetonix253 Жыл бұрын
thank you courtney i needed this :)
@jonydepp9484
@jonydepp9484 3 жыл бұрын
Courtney I found out this type of girls in my college thanks for the information you gave us ..many are gold diggers and and wants to use man for thier benefits ... I can figure out what kind of people they are ... Thank you Courtney , it helps me , iam happy my own way . I remain just single and happy of it.
@legendbtv
@legendbtv 3 жыл бұрын
This sounds so awful to have happen to someone. The most sad thing is that this can actually happen in the real world.
@Servant1666
@Servant1666 3 жыл бұрын
PREEECH IT SISTER !!!
@CDeeez94
@CDeeez94 3 жыл бұрын
This is God's work, Courtney 🙏
@geronimo67
@geronimo67 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Courtney, I did the right thing.
@harrymiller6363
@harrymiller6363 3 жыл бұрын
You are a bright light ❤️ thank u for being so reel we love you 👍
@albertnavas3790
@albertnavas3790 3 жыл бұрын
Your the best sis I love your videos ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Abduln27
@Abduln27 3 жыл бұрын
You had me dying of laughter. Love your content, long time viewer.
@kelechiibekwe4753
@kelechiibekwe4753 3 жыл бұрын
Second person here 😄. Love your content Courtney 😄
@jeffreywilliams7222
@jeffreywilliams7222 3 жыл бұрын
Yo Courtney the #4 is the one I fell victim to. I bought her a lit if things feeling that she would give back in return. But when my birthday came I never heard from her
@brandondacosta6735
@brandondacosta6735 3 жыл бұрын
Damn, no girls call me ever let alone on a Tuesday night after an evening at the bar..... GREAT VIDEO as always!
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