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How to Tell Your Child Their Mom Is a Narcissist: 10 Do’s and Don’ts You Need to Know

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Coach Liliya Labonte

Coach Liliya Labonte

Күн бұрын

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@SomeGuy-xf9bc
@SomeGuy-xf9bc Ай бұрын
I think the worst thing you can do is not tell them anything. I wish someone would have told me my mother was a narcissist. I patterned her behavior as normal and ended up marrying another one. So much wasted life trying to figure out what I was doing wrong.
@craiggertheeunknown
@craiggertheeunknown Ай бұрын
My lifes story of 45yrs.
@georget.6357
@georget.6357 Ай бұрын
"It's ok to pull out your phone and film if you don't feel safe." Thank you Ms. Labonte for saying this and validating my actions and my children's safety. My advice with narcissistic marriages: grab your kids, legal documents and move out NOW! There is no right time, and they will never change, ever. I am currently safe, happy, free, sleeping well, healing, surrounded by positive caring sane people, and my kids are thriving.
@CoachLiliya
@CoachLiliya Ай бұрын
You are very welcome. Happy to hear that you got out🙏🏻wishing you and your kids all that you need
@Phil..._
@Phil..._ Ай бұрын
Hey Lilya. I love your deep insights, they're very concise ane helpful. Can I ask you something. In my experience women protect other women, almost regardless of facts (unless it's something reprehensible and that involves a child being provenly abused by a women). But the sisterhood is strong and universal in my experience. My question is this - what makes you so different?
@stanmiyamoto6434
@stanmiyamoto6434 25 күн бұрын
Good observation. I'd be interested in the answer.
@MrBluedude33
@MrBluedude33 Ай бұрын
my daughter is just 4, and when her mother yells or goes off her head at her for no reason my daughter actually tells me she tries to walk away but her mother follows her. this is while im at work usually. what can i teach my daughter to do when im not home and this happens?? i cries when she told me that cus i know that happens to me as well. :(
@withSeraphim
@withSeraphim Ай бұрын
Well, I've actually done everything. I've called her a narcissist, validated my son's feelings, told him it's not his fault and that she grew up in a hostile environment... I guess fathers like me aren't trained life coaches and make mistakes too. But dang, sometimes my frustration with her surfaces and I say things under my breath. I told my son I'd never leave him, so I'm here for two more years.
@FadeToBlackLLC
@FadeToBlackLLC 22 күн бұрын
The EX went completely off on my daughter the other day. I felt so bad for her as she cried. I tried my best to say the things as you mentioned in this video. My son thinks she's trying to make him better. It's so dysfunctional. I have a relaxed safe home for them but they still gravitate towards the mother. I just want them to see she has issues and understand she isn't living through a normal set of eyes. I wanted her my daughter to talk to someone and they wouldn't let me unless the mother signed off??? So very frustrating.
@timmyblock6785
@timmyblock6785 Ай бұрын
Money money money the mom just wants money she could care less
@harrygleason7191
@harrygleason7191 Ай бұрын
Me and my daughter know rhat mom is one my daughter took a behavior class and learned all about her mom for me thw dad i had ro figure it out and watch you tube channels i was blown away and how i learned im still with the mom i have to be i have to be unril i have a opening then I'm gone
@MrBluedude33
@MrBluedude33 Ай бұрын
i hear you brother, im waiting till i can save and my kids to be in primary school as they are toddlers atm, then im out and taking the kids.
@Johnnyroten
@Johnnyroten Ай бұрын
This should be taught in schools before learning your abc’s.
@u2canmakeadifference603
@u2canmakeadifference603 20 күн бұрын
Hi Coach Liliya. What do you do when your wife, now ex, has turned your children against you? They have become her “Flying Monkeys”. My daughter has become a carbon copy of how her mother treats me. My son has just written me off, and wants nothing to do with me. I was very involved in their lives, and outside of my teaching career, my family was my life. After almost 20 years of a toxic marriage, I became severely depressed, and had to retire early from teaching. It’s been over 5 years since I retired, and I’m trying to survive on my retirement of $16,600 a year. I want to reconnect with my kids, and if that ever happens, I want them to know what their mother is, and have them get the help that they need to be able have healthy relationships going forward. What should I say or do?
@CoachLiliya
@CoachLiliya 20 күн бұрын
The sad reality is that there is nothing you can do. Your children are likely narcissists since they were raised as “carbon copies” and have written you off with zero empathy. I really feel for you and I want you to know that you are not alone. Acceptance is everything here. You can hope that your kids treated you this way as a result of severe parental alienation, but again, I don’t want to give you false hope. I am very sorry. I wish you everything you need. You have you’d freedom and your peace now and no one can take that from you. 🙏🏻🤍
@We_shall_overcom
@We_shall_overcom Ай бұрын
💯 🙏🏻
@oskarwall2611
@oskarwall2611 23 күн бұрын
Question: how to use my wife's narcistic mother tactics with "deal" with my narcistic wife ? Cleary considering minute 4 of this video what I made ( not planned) I just went on long walk when weather was nice next day after fight .... coincidentky give her a quet panishement ( it was not planned) . What could trigger totaly different behaviours next day in narcistic person the most ...?
@kostadinpantev
@kostadinpantev Ай бұрын
Yeah, you try being stable... :/
@NarcissistHex-nf9eq
@NarcissistHex-nf9eq Ай бұрын
As a self-aware diagnosed narcissist, I think the worst thing you can do is not tell them anything. Very good though ,I have to say very interesting information here.
@CoachLiliya
@CoachLiliya Ай бұрын
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