Notes: 1. Trust his leadership (Example: What Eve did not do, "Let me ask my husband") 2. Speak life to him in private and in public. Be encouraging (Example: Abigail's words to David) 3. Give him space to process (Example: Esther taking time to talk to King Xerxes) 4. Pay attention to him (Example: Jezebel's attention to her husband) 5. Support him without being controlling. Offer value without imposing 6. Contribute to the things he does. Get interested in the things he loves. 7. Pray for and about him.
@LajuIrenАй бұрын
Thanks for watching
@beatriceagbabiaka182729 күн бұрын
It's worth it Thank you ❤️❤️
@user-ri9tu1ls6y19 күн бұрын
Good evening ma, please can a lady marry a guy who is not spiritual as her
@LajuIrenАй бұрын
Please Subscribe
@orjibabyАй бұрын
I have subscribed o mama
@jeremiaherinola9625Ай бұрын
Me too
@imisioluwafajimiАй бұрын
What stood out for me is “give value without control” and “I should be okay if things don’t go my way”
@user-re9ox7sl8eАй бұрын
Let people's individuality grow even though you're now 1 with them
@ruthgift_xxАй бұрын
Emphasis on Giving him space 😭 it’s hard but I’ll try😂
@TaiwoAdetola-qg7dwАй бұрын
😂😂❤❤
@user-re9ox7sl8eАй бұрын
For real. I don't even know how to do this.
@TaiwoAdetola-qg7dwАй бұрын
@@user-re9ox7sl8e may God guide and help you as you try.
@TaiwoAdetola-qg7dwАй бұрын
Also, you can sit with him and discuss it. ✨
@priscillachinsembu4669Ай бұрын
Just keep busy...you have a life of your own..your own interests and all ...@@user-re9ox7sl8e
@kayodemattojoАй бұрын
It's that moment Jezebel became an example 😂😂😂 the vastness of analogies drives home every point Thank you, PL ❤
@yomaibuje621Ай бұрын
Thank you so much ma for this video. This was a whole sermon for me. I wrote down almost 4 pages of points. May your wealth of wisdom never run dry ma.
@temi45Ай бұрын
Trust his leadership. 👌🏼 Very profound.
@user-re9ox7sl8eАй бұрын
The part about giving time to process...very difficult. Thanks for the Analogy. Esther was giving him time and space to process. Mary too... Communicate it; leave it with him, leave it with God. Give God time to work on your behalf. (Lol. What do I really need Jews for).
@imoleokediji5047Ай бұрын
It's this person is our enemy and should be prayed against for me 😂😭 Support without control, very solid
@vivianjohn1555Ай бұрын
You look so beautiful here Your skin routine is it 👌
@TaiwoAdetola-qg7dwАй бұрын
❤❤❤ Every week on PL's channel is a breath of fresh air. She talks about very important topics in very simple and edifying ways. I love it here! Amaka, why haven't you subscribed? 👀 Plus, PL's laughter is so contagious😂. ❤❤❤
@reveleerhemaushindiwangu8330Ай бұрын
This video popped up when I was facing a difficult time. God bless you ma😇
@thetemitopeojo8261Ай бұрын
Yes. Abigail is so smart!! I loved her answer. She was very diplomatic, yet soft.
@UdoyeTobechukwuАй бұрын
Speak life to your man always, Compliment, pray, support, Acts of service and pay attention to him. No truer words
@ojotuleemmanuelokutepaАй бұрын
Everything you said here is super spot on my PL Ma! “Support without control” is a such a spot on counsel!
@Obianuju-NwankwoАй бұрын
I love you Pastor Laju. I'm a Big Fan❤❤❤
@ephatagh3642Ай бұрын
In this generation we will normalize Godly wisdom. Thank you PL for churning out this timeless truth.
@nueljaszper3333Ай бұрын
You see that " When she watches football with me" is is an irrefutable KEY. 😂
@oshowiseАй бұрын
Support without control! That's my stand out point! Thank you PL. this is so spot on. I'll make sure my woman sees this🤭🤭
@kiswendsidalydieyanongo1391Ай бұрын
Offer help and value without control ❤
@olusegunabraham9015Ай бұрын
God bless you Ma'am... You have no idea just how many men you have spoken up for. This was so profound ❤
@ikechukwuanumudu9470Ай бұрын
Let me share with my wife 😊😊
@peaceeromonsele4999Ай бұрын
PL is so full of wisdom! Thank you, PL. ❤
@estellenachela6592Ай бұрын
You need to let people's individuality grow even when you are now one with them.
@marvellous-goddavid2401Ай бұрын
Support without control... Beautiful video PL! GOD bless you!❤
@stephenolosunde2942Ай бұрын
Get interested in the things he love... Kaiii ❤
@alerotuneАй бұрын
So good! lol @ ‘not your enemy’❤
@DavidovbiageleАй бұрын
I love how, Detailed, Insightful and Intentional this video and the other version of it are; Very Solid points, very interesting examples from Scriptures (even the most unassuming ones) 😅. Great analogies, and to cap it off I discovered that they’re the exact same length to the last second. PL you deserve some accolades 👏 Thank you ma
@user-vj6cf5uz3lАй бұрын
Offering value without control
@fiery_angelАй бұрын
Nnayi let us die here😭😂 So many secrets and valuable wisdom🥺God bless you PL❤
@ThisisDikkyАй бұрын
Here early to mark attendance! ✅
@dplusgraphixstudioАй бұрын
PL , God bless you. I have watched the what ladies wants too. I would advise this is also reinstated at upcoming Ladies Conference. You capped it all.
@Comfort_EbiАй бұрын
We're set!💃
@BlessingOpatewaАй бұрын
Here catching up with PL ✍️
@MasqueradeHQАй бұрын
Royalty + Royalty 😊😊😊😊
@EniolaOmoboniАй бұрын
You look so beautiful PL, thank you for the heads up, I would use these when my man comes🥰❤️
@BlessingOpatewaАй бұрын
Value Value Value 🔥🔥
@joshuaobioma9933Ай бұрын
Beautiful
@debaosaghaeАй бұрын
Thank you, PL! 😍
@_immaculataАй бұрын
Thank you so much PL Ma❤
@FaithAdegboyeАй бұрын
Thank you, ma
@tolulopeelizabeth7142Ай бұрын
So insightful ma
@gloriadarko3082Ай бұрын
Thank you ma 🙏
@afolabioluwadamilola6986Ай бұрын
Thank you ma
@Mide_liteАй бұрын
Learnt alot ma
@oluwaseunusidamenАй бұрын
Thank you PL
@glorycharles6035Ай бұрын
Super excited for this episode ❤️🥳🥳
@tomisin_ariyoАй бұрын
Your eyes are beautiful 🤩❤️❤️
@joyigunma8267Ай бұрын
Awesome video! Thank you so much, PL!❤
@ogechionyeaboh7502Ай бұрын
This is beautiful
@favourndakaraАй бұрын
Thank you, PL.🙌🏽
@NkemhalimАй бұрын
PL!!! Thank you, mama❤
@CatxdthbkidАй бұрын
Thank you
@agomisraelАй бұрын
Insightful
@kanifechinyereАй бұрын
🔥🔥🔥 Quite insightful thanks you PL❤
@user-re9ox7sl8eАй бұрын
I've been looking forward to this episode.
@oluwatobiloladeborah5337Ай бұрын
Thank you PL😊
@imisioluwafajimiАй бұрын
Thank you PL❤❤❤
@maameamabainson2254Ай бұрын
First time watching your video, I really enjoyed it thanks❤
@fiyinfoluwaawopetu1559Ай бұрын
I have this video on repeat and repeat
@franklinodaroАй бұрын
Thank you for this video PL🙏
@ruthgift_xxАй бұрын
Thank you PL🎉❤
@bridgetojoАй бұрын
We are here again!!!
@siVertueuxАй бұрын
This is wisdom! Thank you ❤
@augustacyrilАй бұрын
Very impactful Thank you ma
@chuwanzichristy2518Ай бұрын
Thank you Ma
@temi45Ай бұрын
On my way to my WhatsApp community so they come to follow sharp. 🏃🏽♀️
@BeingempresspearlАй бұрын
Full of wisdom ❤😊
@InspiredGriseleАй бұрын
Guilty about time to process. Thank you Ma
@tolulopesobowale5785Ай бұрын
So much value! Thank you Ma
@enanguko2237Ай бұрын
Thank you Ma. God bless you.
@victoryughakpoteni6942Ай бұрын
Thank you ma’am ❤
@treasurebenson9773Ай бұрын
Thank you soo much PL this was extremely helpful and enlightening. ❤
@odeytheresaoАй бұрын
Thank you PL. God bless you ma.
@favourmmesoma48Ай бұрын
Thank you ma I love you so much ❣️
@ikechukwugrace8559Ай бұрын
Very insightful. God bless you ma
@florenceimakanАй бұрын
PL is such a wise woman❤
@orieoghenerichesАй бұрын
I just love you too much ma❤
@nazasdiary2599Ай бұрын
PL you’re sooo beautiful 🥺🥰😍
@elizabethshiawoyaomoworare8328Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this beautiful masterpiece
@karennwaomonoh1295Ай бұрын
“What do I really need Jews for…”😂😂
@cynthiaihuoma751Ай бұрын
😂😂I heard that too😂
@GracefullyKarenАй бұрын
Everything that you said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. Speaking life is key. Wisdom is principle. Support, being an awesome cheerleader. God bless you 🙏🏿.
@OlamideofthenationsАй бұрын
This is very insightful Thank you ma
@emeeliagape20 күн бұрын
I love the way you smile. It makes us want to watch it more. Love, love, love it.
@vanessaonuoha2437Ай бұрын
These are gems❤! Thank you PL. we are wiser for it
@blessingochifea1794Ай бұрын
Thank you PL ❤ I learnt a lot
@kolawoleoluwatola5693Ай бұрын
Thank you so much, ma I like watching your videos ❤
@temidayoadekunle4154Ай бұрын
Thank you PL. I’m grateful to God, for the day I stumbled on your channel ❤
@thetemitopeojo8261Ай бұрын
Thank you ma for this video. I like how you started the video and didn’t generalize men’s needs.
@peteradeleye5713Ай бұрын
Thank you so much PL for this content, you are doing well ma'am. The aspect that resonated with me although I am single and not yet in a relationship is women speaking life to me. That really touched me.
@ramalucid16Ай бұрын
Wow!! These words are heavenly inspired I believe. God bless you and more grace🙏
@Thomas.MakinwaАй бұрын
PL, you're one of the best teachers I know! Thank you for these gems❤
@beev3467Ай бұрын
Whoop whoop!!! 🥳🥳
@user-ds6gp3kx7fАй бұрын
I'm not yet married but I'm glad I got to listen to this, so I can apply this when I get there 😊, thank you ma for this.
@nanyaintechАй бұрын
Hi PL, I love the way you use bible references to butress your points.
@agnesbadzi8579Ай бұрын
Emphasis value and offer help without control
@DeborahBriggsDBАй бұрын
Thank you so much, Mama ❤🔥 Just started watching and the first point is so spot on! 👏👏👏
@onomebenjamin7525Ай бұрын
Thank you so much ma'am.. God bless you with more wisdom... I love and celebrate you Ma.