Wow, I so appreciate the specifics on money because I grew up in a scarcity mindset, and I've never really gotten out of it. I had no idea what other people spend on clothes, and honestly, this makes me feel better when I don't look like you or other folks online because I had no idea my same style of pants were 10x cheaper and lower quality. Now I understand why wide leg trousers look different on me in many ways and it gives me peace to know I don't just suck and I'm not just ugly. I still can't afford much of anything, but it helps me be at peace with what I do have and stop wishing it was something else. Thank you so much for talking on specifics! I also know now after listening to you that I want a higher paying job so I CAN look and feel the way I want to, and that I'm worth it!
@missfernandez__ Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this...I recognise the experience so much through my own past experience! Transforming a scarcity mindset into an abundance mindset is life-changing! It's a daily practice which has such an amazing impact on our experience of life...and I'm so pleased to read this because it sounds like the beginning of major shifts for you! I'm super excited for you...and yes queen, you're worth it, and you are more than capable of attracting that job! Sending you love for this unfoldment!!
@veronxska11 ай бұрын
Your channel is underrated! I wish more would subscribe to you! Your advice seems very personal and fresh, unlike other cookie-cutter influencers I have watched 😂
@spiceyblessing Жыл бұрын
Amazing!! This is timely for me, especially your tip on budgeting for specific sale periods! 🙌🏽 If you have any recommendations for good outlets in the UK, that’ll be much appreciated too 😊
@formerjadedlass Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that you are saying that we don't need to build our warddrobe all at once. I am making a conscious effort to elevate my warddrobe due to sustainability reasons i.e. I don't need 10+ pants but rather 2-3 pants that are good quality and can last me years. However that makes me very particular with what I buy. I would sometimes bite the bullet to ease the "need" to cross out an item from my essentials warddrobe list but an overnight sleep and 2-cups of coffee later, I would run back to the store to return it because it's not exactly what I need. Thank you for the chat hun. New fan here!
@missfernandez__ Жыл бұрын
I resonate with this so much!! I used to think that I overthought my purchases; and then over time, realised that it wasn’t overthought - rather, training in mindfulness! Love it!!
@MelissaSutton-h6q Жыл бұрын
Great advice as always. It’s such a relief to lose the urgency and just take your time finding the right thing. ❤
@elizabethp6209 Жыл бұрын
Appreciate the weaving in of the concepts around abundance (and scarcity). Also, super helpful to hear how you think through investing in your wardrobe, in certain pieces. Love your content. Sending good vibes from Northern California.
@missfernandez__ Жыл бұрын
Hey Elizabeth! Happy to hear that you found it helpful ☺️ I’m a big fan of connecting our desires with a couple of practical techniques! Big love back at you from Brisbane! 🥰
@kelly.smith22 Жыл бұрын
Currently in the midst of trying to be slower with my fashion consumption and trying to not randomly buy during sales as this has been a massive issue for me in the past. You are so right! I ended up with so many things that didn’t fit quite right or weren’t exactly what I was looking for but I purchased because they were on a big sale.
@LianvS Жыл бұрын
Nice and insightful, thanks! Any recommendations on online outlet store accessible from EU by chance?
@missfernandez__ Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! Im doing some research as we speak! ☺️ Which part of EU are you most interested in?
@LianvS Жыл бұрын
@@missfernandez__ oh thank you! North West EU. Im located in the Netherlands/Germany, and also do really like French brands.
@Pjayysan Жыл бұрын
I am so happy to stumble across your channel. I am at a place where I am learning who I am all over again. I plan to take all of your courses! 😄 To be honest, I am a bit nervous because of my unique body shape 😬( inverted triangle, short torso, long legs, high H square bum 🍑, 5'0 ft, 135lbs) whew 😅. I need your help 🫴🏾😄