How to use Lofty Questions to Transform Your Life

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[@SelfHelpforLife]

Love it!

[@Mikerivera036]

This method was originally created by Noah St John and they are called afformations

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Aaah yes! I'm aware of his work.

[@g.abzilla7665]

I started using lofty questions in my visualisation meditation. Very effective!

[@SelfHelpforLife]

That's wonderful! - Thanks for sharing

[@Qplyy]

Great video! I learned these were called afformations/askfirmations but I like this terminology too! I love a ‘how’ lofty question like ‘how did my life get to be so perfect?’ It feels more natural to my way of speaking, and gets my mind working on figuring out the method, rather than an explanation of why.

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks! Yes absolutely! The mind loves questions!

[@dimpiearora1255]

Loved it, will practice

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[@SelfHelpforLife]

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[@SelfHelpforLife]

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💜Thank you. _BRILLIANT it really helps and works for me_ . 💜

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Awesome! - Great to hear that this worked for you!

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Your posts have given me much encouragement to understand myself and how to handle events...As I see it when I asked, the answer came from your utube...thank you

[@InnerJob.Afirmations.Healings]

Big Thanks, that was illuminating 😊

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You're very welcome

[@amyelizabeth8432]

Thank you! I love your thinking process! Thank you for sharing and being a part of the positive ripple effect! Your thoughts are much needed. 🌱🌞🌱🌞🌱🌞🌱🌞🌱🌞🌱🌞🌱🌞🌱

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You're very welcome Amy. Glad you resonate with my thinking processes.

[@scottmorton1330]

Thank-you for being so helpful !!! Scott Morton

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You're very welcome Scott

[@rah3540]

To new beginnings 🎉

[@elohimfire1]

What do you think of creating Lofty questions subliminals to play at night as you fall asleep or during meditation?

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Yes, that's a great idea. Your brain will be in the slower Alpha wave state at these times, so the answers to the lofty questions will go in at a deeper level.

[@cinderellaconstant5801]

I have watched Vishan's explanation and I really resonated with how you explained this. Thank you so much.

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks! I really appreciate your feedback!

[@crosskross]

Thank you 🙏❤️🙏

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You're very welcome Yohann

[@mustafaadams790]

You are such a good teacher that can simplify complex teaching. kudos! Am now one of your disciples.

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Wow, thank you!

[@Hadjer_369]

Thank you so much 🙏I felt really good listening to this lovely lofty questions 😌❤️

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You’re very welcome 😊

[@bigroller]

you are very good explaining these topics , thank you

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks!

[@felosamokoena2815]

Thank you for making these so easy. Lol it's also how you speak to us so smoothly as those you reading it from somewhere on qué even. Thanks South Africa , watching.

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks! Glad it helps simplify things for you. And lovely to hear that you're watching my videos from South Africa.

[@milan4542]

Thank You Sir

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You're very welcome

[@streaminthedesertwithjanen9563]

I love this new approach to doing things. It us a new revelation. Will practice it for sure to be more successful

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Yes it certainly is! Enjoy practising lofty questions and seeing the results.

[@sejalkothari6687]

You have explained this very elaborately and in simple terms..thank you. 🙏

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Glad it was helpful! You're very welcome Sejal.

[@karenhowick6531]

Thank you for sharing these ideas & questions, which make sense and seem completely workable.

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You're very welcome!

[@karenhowick6531]

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[@priyankar8742]

Excellent! extremely useful video, Thank You! 🙏

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You're very welcome! Glad it was helpful

[@smo8545]

Your voice is very soothing Thank you so much 💐

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks! - You're very welcome.

[@nellyugraham9665]

Love this some much, my vibes immediately jumped Thx dear ❤

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You're very welcome Nellyu, lovely to hear that your vibes jumped!

[@justsaying13]

Ohhhh this is good. Love those questions. Thank you for sharing 😊✌🥰

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks Sian, Glad you found these questions helpful.

[@div17730]

Thanks a ton for this....❤

[@SelfHelpforLife]

My pleasure 😊

[@LoveandMoneySchool]

Such a great explanation of this concept! Thank you!!!😀

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks! Glad you found it helpful

[@nancykaoru1983]

Thank you so much!

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You're very welcome Yihsin.

[@antheacrookes8772]

Loving your videos!! I cannot tell you how much you are helping me. Thank you so so much!!!

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You’re very welcome Anthea. So pleased to hear about how they are helping you.

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Wonderful, thank you 😊

[@SelfHelpforLife]

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[@tablemountain918]

Very thought provoking indeed.

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Yes indeed!

[@mitrakheirollahi2913]

You are brilliant by the way🤘♥️👍

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thank you so much 😀

[@taniacamilleri6516]

I heard about this concept yesterday and i really resonated with it cause i always thought that there must be something else regarding affirmations and i loved the way you explained it, simple and to the point...Thank you for sharing

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Glad you found this video helpful Tania. Yes Lofty Questions are easy to understand and use.

[@konstantinosk1198]

Thanks a million Paul!!

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You're very welcome Konstantinos

[@mitrakheirollahi2913]

Thanks for your viedo

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You're very welcome Mitra

[@noelleross80]

I like this. I don't know if you have listened to Mike Sweet's NLP podcast. (I have zero expertise here!) but he was also talking about powerful questions. I thought of and wrote a list of questions of things I wanted to happen but I had deemed impossible. Like, "I wonder when I am going to make _________laugh really hard today. " It worked! So surprising! Thanks for reminding me to do this more

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You're very welcome Noelle, Great to see you putting this into action!

[@veronicapena7094]

Can you help with lofty questions for learning new subjects, studies and test taking? Much thanks!

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Hi Veronica, Just follow the same 4 key components. Here are some examples. "Why is it always exciting for me to learn new subjects?" or "Why is it always easy for me to study effectively?" or "Why am I always so amazing at taking tests?" Hope this helps. Paul

[@veronicapena7094]

@@SelfHelpforLife Your thoughts ... Why is it that I always achieve exemplary high marks on my tests, every time?

[@nisakelly123]

Your content is so liberating. So grateful to have found you!!

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks - so glad you found me too!

[@pablotonelli8520]

good afternoon, these "lofty questions" can be repeated as many times as you want, either silently or out loud??? thank you so much.

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Yes that's right. And when you can, out loud is better.

[@pablotonelli8520]

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Thank you so much you are the best 💐💐💐💐💐💐💐

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks! I appreciate your feedback.

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You are a treasure of life giving information

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks Shreya, I appreciate your lovely comment.

[@petermiller2764]

Great vid, thanks!

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks Peter

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I loved this, And the way you explained. Thank you, 💜💛❤️

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks! - Glad you found this video useful.

[@पुढेकाय]

This is worth full sir

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks!

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Loved it!! 💯♥️

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks!

[@anjalipatil3274]

Thanks for your Devine guidance. Why universe always unfolds infinite brilliant ideas and unlimited action plan in order to conquer challenges in my life successfully effortlessly instantaneously? Is this ok

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Yes that seems great to me!

[@anjalipatil3274]

@@SelfHelpforLife I am so greatful to you for aknowlizing my efforts

[@emmirmoran5582]

Thank you so much

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You're most welcome

[@meenanaidoo714]

Just listening to you has brought me a better vibe. How do I ask a question about being more articulate and calm when speaking with others. Thank you.

[@elohimfire1]

As someone who also struggles with just this sort of thing, you could try asking the question; Why am I always brilliantly calm and articulate when speaking with others? That is if you haven't figured that one out already and if you have then Cheers!:)

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Hi Meena, That's lovely to hear. Yes, Wes's lofty question example is perfect! I would use that.

[@mitrakh7914]

Hi again,we have to stick in one lofty question or could be several object.Thank you very much for replying in advane😊💕🙏

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Hi Mitra, Yes it's fine to have several. Not too many though - I would say 10 max at any one time.

[@heatherbennett1129]

Thanks

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You're very welcome Heather.

[@uhg6765]

Very nice.. what questions Wl it be if my children are not doing good and not getting job. Also I'm looking for bigger house to leave comfortably. Pls help me to create questions. Thanks

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Just follow the key principles of phrasing the question in the positive, starting with "Why" and including "always" or "at all times" Here are some examples. Why do my children always do everything it takes to get a great job? Why do my children always do great things? Why is it always easy for me to find a bigger house that I can comfortably live in? Hope these help. Paul

[@NG-ib5pe]

Thank you Sir. I will definitely try this questions and send feedback to you. God Bless you always.❤️🙏

[@MountainofInspiration]

You do have awesome content. Why did you stop uploading videos?

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Haven't stopped. Just taking a break. I'm working on a new video that should go out next week.

[@mitrakh7914]

Hi Paul,I love your videos.my question is can I do it for manifest for someone else?

[@SelfHelpforLife]

I've never tried it, so I'm not sure. What I have found is that when you change things within yourself, other people often change. It can be quite magical when this happens!

[@mitrakh7914]

Thanks I will give a try and let you know if turns positive 😊

[@sonalisingh4771]

These questions are revolutionary for life Tysm sir for such a big contribution 💓

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks! Glad you see the power of Lofty questions.

[@kakolidebnath8119]

This video is incredible, very easy to understand. But I didn't understand two questions because of pronunciation problem, one is why is my life always so amazing....... what is the whole sentence please type for me. And another one is last one. Why does the Universe give me more than enough........what was after that?

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Hi Kakoli, thanks for your feedback. The first one is "Why is my life always so amazing that it exceeds all my expectations?" and the other one is "Why does the universe always give me more than enough health, vitality, and energy to reach my goals?". All my videos also have blog posts, so that will help you with any pronunciation problems. Here is the link to the lofty questions article. selfhelpforlife.com/lofty-questions/. Hope this helps. Paul

[@kakolidebnath8119]

@@SelfHelpforLife Thank you very much! You are a very loving and kind person that you respond me and replied me so nicely. Thanks for solving my problem. I am practicing these all questions. They are really very powerful. I feel some different energy like inspiration or exciting energy inside me while practicing these questions. Thank you so much for this value you have provided us through this video. Much Love :)

[@sanjeevsinha7306]

Totally new concept,very effective and am glad I learnt it from your great,soothing voice and simple way for implementing.May God give you more energy for more videos of such relevant topics.

[@vikas74-09]

In a relaxed state, how many lofty questions could one ask? Is there a limit before the subconscious gets confused or overwhelmed? Also, can we get specific in our loft questions about income, time frames to achieving a goal, etc? Thank you!

[@SelfHelpforLife]

I would keep it to 10 or less. There is tremendous power in your mind focusing on one idea at a time, so less is often more. Yes being specific is fine too. Hope this helps.

[@vikas74-09]

@@SelfHelpforLife Answer is helpful. Thank you for taking the time to respond.

[@soroushsaffarzadeh3007]

Thank you and one question about health, when I ask why am I always healthy? my mind rejects it...and says No you can't be healthy always...can you correct me please? Shall I omit the word always?? or ask it differently? I appreciate your answer.

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Hi Soroush, Yes removing "always" could help. Other lofty questions could be "Why am I always learning ways to become more healthy?" or "Why do I always put in the effort to be as healthy as I can be?" Turning some of the affirmation statements in this video blog into Lofty Questions could be another option. selfhelpforlife.com/affirmations-that-work/ The most important thing is that your mind can accept the idea.

[@mitrakheirollahi2913]

Its me again dear paul, I want to buy a house that im love with it,But as you say the voice in the head,the house is very very expensive far than where im now ,what kind of question would you help me with to own my company n the house plsi ♥️😍🌹,thanks in advanced

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Hi Mitra, Perhaps something like "Why do I always take effective action each day. to get one step closer to buying my dream home."

[@mitrakheirollahi2913]

Thank you very much

[@mitrakheirollahi2913]

Can i use How and what too...

[@alvinceaser-ie4on]

About how long does it take to get results?

[@SelfHelpforLife]

It varies, and it can take some time. Maybe start with simple questions that are easy to measure.

[@mitrakh7914]

Dear Paul ,Could you help me with a lofty question for my house which is for sale .I want to sell it for good money.Maybe because I’m not very good in English 😌 .I do appreciate it from my ❤️.Thank you

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Hi Mitra. Here are a couple of lofty question examples. Why do I always sell my house for X amount of money or more? Why do I always find it easy to get an excellent price for my house? Hope these help.

[@aidangmccarthy]

Why am I so great at hurling? Why am I so fit, fast and powerfully athletic? Why am I such an inspirational leader? Why am I a social butterfly 🦋? Why am I so calm and grounded to the EARTH? Lofty Questions. Questions are the answers

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Hi Aidan, these are awesome lofty questions! Thanks for sharing them.

[@mitrakheirollahi2913]

How many time?has to be every day?

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Hi Mitra, Ideally yes, the more often the better. However, being consistent is important, even if it's 2 or 3 times a week.

[@robertoancea4876]

nice one!

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks!

[@berna98744]

Just one thing I didn’t understand. Do we answer the question after we asked it? Or do we just ask and leave it?

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Hi Berna, the questions are posed in such a way that they will encourage helpful answers, insights or solutions. So often an answer will come naturally. However, never try to force an answer. Asking the questions will help shift your mindset, regardless of whether answers come or not. Hope this helps. Paul

[@shenaliwaduge6728]

How often per day must these be said consciously mentally

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Hi Shenali, once a day is fine to start with, and you can do it more often if you want to.

[@sambodhiture6852]

Does it is helpful to use lofty questions while sleep instead of affirmation?

[@SelfHelpforLife]

As lofty questions encourage your subconscious mind to provide an answer, they are best done when awake. As you're going to sleep or just waking up could work. I would give it a try and see what happens. Hope this helps.

[@sambodhiture6852]

@@SelfHelpforLife Thank you I definitely going to try and share my experience.

[@anzellaful]

How to rephrase lofty question...why do I get mean/angry/rude people always?????

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Hi Anzella, think of the opposite words to these. Mean could be kind, Angry, could be peaceful, rude could be polite etc? So your lofty question becomes Why do I always meet kind, peaceful and polite people?

[@shubhamchoudhary980]

How often should one ask these questions?

[@SelfHelpforLife]

I would do this daily to start with. Once it becomes a habit, you'll find that your brain naturally uses these questions. Hope this helps.

[@sheilareyes5511]

Thank you! This, by far, has been THE most beneficial, practical, and easiest to implement advice I have EVER received!

[@SelfHelpforLife]

You're very welcome Sheila! So pleased that my videos are simple, practical and easy to implement.

[@abcd8132]

So I am going yo ask questions even though it's not true?

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Great question. I would suggest starting the lofty question with the words "How could I". For example "How could I be surrounded by joy and happiness at all times? or "how could I always learn positively from any experience?" This will help make the lofty questions more believable and more true to you. Hope this helps. Paul

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[@TrendingPendingVideos]

can someone help with this part? What if im asking someting like why do I have so much money I cant spend it all but my inner mind my subconscious you know full well its saying NO YOU DONT ? WHAT are you on about you only have x amount in the bank GO LOOK lol or what made the universe make me so lucky? well my inner mind automatically says even if i try to stop it PFF NAH what u on about? the universe didnt you are always unlucky stupid See????? what am i suppsoe to do

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Great question and sorry for not answering it until now. Yes that's the inner critic at play! We all have that at times, including me! What I would suggest is to make your questions more believable. For example, "why is it easy for me to make all the money I need", or "how can I notice the universe helping me to be successful and lucky?" I would also check out my video blog on creating believable affirmations, as the language suggested in this article could be adapted for lofty questions. Here is the link - selfhelpforlife.com/affirmations-that-work. hope this helps.

[@chullanmallu]

why do i have so much money to buy a private jet

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Love it!

[@dl6519]

Why am I always the pinkest elephant in the room?

[@barbdennis7979]

Bravo?

[@SelfHelpforLife]

Thanks Barb