How to Use Silence as a Defensive Weapon

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Generally speaking if you've been accused of something negative in the media and and there's a lot of people talking bad about you, being quiet and letting people forget about you and forget about the the anger usually works help you rebuild up your reputation so it's kind of like if you mess up sometimes, distance or not talking helps people forget the bad that you've done and built and rebuild your reputation and you see a lot of Brands doing that and you see a lot of celebrities and politicians doing that too. The most powerful people use silence as a defensive tool right the most powerful people know when to speak and when not to speak.
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[@jehan9]

100%. I used to say everything or text everything when I’m mad. Didn’t get me anywhere. But now, I put my phone down or take myself out of the situation. Then self-sooth. Nap, gym, journaling or taking myself out on a date. It feels good when you’ve calmed down and realized you are in control of your feelings and actions.

[@eveheart2876]

I like that 👏

[@fireeye33]

sounds peaceful even just by reading it.

[@tammylee3681]

I’ve been working on how I treat others & listening more than I speak. This video is helpful & right on time!

[@andreeal9089]

Stay silent when: You're angry You don't have all the facts. Always verify what you learn. If your words will offend a weaker person It's time to listen (stop interrupting) be interested in other people. You're tempted to make light of holy things. Abide to their rules and don't try to offend them. Some people are more sensitive. You're tempted to joke about sin. Don't joke around about anything If you're gonna be ashamed of your words later If you're words will convey the wrong impression Don't gossip You're tempted to lie If your words will damage a friendship or someone's reputation When you're beings critical with yourselves and others You can't say it without screaming Raising your voice is a sign of loosing control your words will give your friends and family a poor impression you may have to eat your words later you already said it more than one time you are tempted to flatter a wicked person You are supposed to be working instead

[@sonias9722]

Which book was it?

[@beigelover95]

Lately, i'm learning to listen more than I speak and make people feel really good. So grateful to be 27 and learnt this crucial life lesson at such a young age. Thanks Dalexis for more insight on why I should continue this.

[@shahedmanasra3295]

father alex!! U’ve helped me grow my mentality through two years, never commented but today I had to. Just realized how much I listen to you and always come back to your videos, thank u faaathee

[@AB-ib3nf]

Proverbs 15:1..& James 1:19 FYI* Discusses this directly, about silence & thoughtfully behaviors, instead of confrontation when angry.

[@massmediamanager9443]

I live in Russia and have been listening to father Alex for a few years already. Never disappoints. The best in this genre. ❤❤❤

[@confettybetty]

So proud of you Dalexis.

[@shawdeejay5408]

I love watching the interrogation videos ! “No comment “ Is what lawyers will advise you to say . I’m working on this , just going to take a walk run it off , go in my car listen to a relaxing podcast . Game changer

[@samsneedamyer5935]

Always good to shut the heck up and listen to people when they talk, however sometimes people come to talk to you because they want to be asked questions it’s like they want you to dissect their mind

[@aishanoorsheikh105]

It was very helpful that's true silence is very powerful

[@seraphxangel9353]

IM ACTUALLY JUST READING THIS BOOK AND YOURE SPOILING IT 🫵😡

[@onaraider2007]

Which book ?

[@itzchelm]

Yay finally caught you live

[@eveheart2876]

😂 “That was a complete set up “ 🤣 😂 😂

[@la_baby_khalil7703]

Howard Stern Back in The Day in The 90's...HE WAS THE BOMB TOO FUNNY...😀😂😁😛😝😜😋

[@kandismartin7056]

He looks great!! Nice haircut.

[@leonorsilva134]

This is really good.

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[@eveheart2876]

😂 😂 bruh ! You were a mess when drunk 🤣 😆 . We need more stories telling content

[@dreambig7425]

I would like for you to visit other cities in the US. You rarely do workshops in the US and if you do, its New York. What about Atlanta, Miami, Houston etc… we don’t get no love?

[@eveheart2876]

This video reminds of “The invention of lying “ 😂. Silence is better indeed

[@linap.4211]

I ve been practicing staying silence when I have nothing to say and stop trying to impress people. Unfortunately, when you're the one who say less, other people feel entitled to taaaalk and talk shit even if you are not interested. Then I feel like i HAVE to speak (even when I have nothing important to say) so the other person can shut tf up 😂

[@Imarislife]

This was a good video!!!!!!!!!!

[@lou15176]

Talk is cheap. Silence is expensive......

[@pizza8714]

Love the ending😂

[@AB-ib3nf]

People use so called jokes to say what they really mean or to purposely tear others down. That's why your jokes don't go over well, because they seem genuine & your apologies don't.

[@eveheart2876]

I love the fact you took accountability 😂 😂

[@esetravels]

Can you also do a course on the 48 laws of power? Like the Robert green book club you use to have? And art of seduction course for the book? Please so we can always have it when we buy the course when you make one.

[@paolanamuncura8879]

I love Borat XD

[@user-ro7so8ij1r]

This is a good video

[@tylermichelle]

Hi Alex 😊

[@enchantedzx]

PLEASE VISIT AUSTRALIA🏁🏁🏁🏁🏁

[@carmelle2665]

Telling women to be quiet, that’s original. Silence is not always tact and it is tact that is golden, not silence

[@Nightswim_]

Yeah I stopped doing that, because no one reciprocates respecting my belief system… If there is any notice of being slightly conservative (which in todays political landscape is actually centrist ) people automatically pre judge you . Or call you a bigot which is a big word.. While I can be open minded about others, they can’t so I don’t even try to make friends anymore since politics just automatically comes out in every conversation (trans, pronouns etc)

[@nancyvargas8258]

🔥🔥🔥

[@tangerin511]

Wow Alex Fyodor Dostoevsky is my favorite, I guess I like consuming dark content 😈

[@paolanamuncura8879]

18:26 lmao, we latinos joke about everything. but in america most people are squared You must know that dalexist

[@la_baby_khalil7703]

😁😂😀 We don't cancel ANYBODY...Lol! 😛😝😜😋 There's NO ✋ such thing as Cancel Culture to US...For me, if everyone wants to wear The Marachi Apparel, or a Hijab, TRUST ME I will be so proud, and I will feel like I'm in Heaven 🌈⛅☁⭐🌠 🙌👏😘...It's so Honorable TO ME, to US...🙏😇🙏

[@asmaettazy7171]

waitiiiing

[@emmanloveadventures2196]

Just want to tell you that I tried all that I learned from your vids to this guy. It worked mostly but I think I may have done something wrong coz he still ends up cheating everytime. Maybe he is just a jerk and the good thing is he just tells me that he's the one to blame. Or maybe this is just weeding out a trashy toxic person from my life who has no dreams and no plans. Maybe he feels irritated whenever I talk about my life goals.

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

🤫

[@freeagentgirl23]

Wait, did you leave the last part out?

[@JuzzMe-xu4mu]

That was his way of showing silence😂😂😉

[@freeagentgirl23]

@@JuzzMe-xu4mu hahahaha

[@bujitea8522]

Why do you say “illusion of power”

[@carmelle2665]

Because he knows it’s just a facade.

[@candycamus]

What about when you are silent but gossip in your mind. Does that mean we've moved past this more primitive egoic form of thinking? Or is this more ideological thinking creeping in? Haahahaha Very interesting topic Delexus !

[@user-yk9sk7pg6v]

100%

[@stephaniedejesus7584]

You look very different 😮……

[@essencelatricethomas]

The white power part is my kind of humor 😂😂😂😂 and im black

[@anavidovic5797]

borat lol !!!!!!!!

[@la_baby_khalil7703]

👍😘 Now, I'm gonna see that 🎥 Borat: Lol! And, Bruno...😁😂😀😛😝😜😋