This is what's happening to me now. The best solution really is not to talk to him/her. Focus on yourself. Why would you waste your time on someone who doesn't really appreciate you?
@Pwettydamsel8 ай бұрын
Same with me here. Sent him messages it took him the whole day to reply and flared up when I tried communicating with him. I just left him and I'm working on myself right now. Good riddance to bad rubbish
@naimohussein17935 ай бұрын
@@Pwettydamsel
@carolb3869 Жыл бұрын
If THEY are behaving this way (taking you for granted), THEY are not for you.
@vivstone4596 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Too much emotional work and stress.
@ufuomat3295 Жыл бұрын
Unconditional love is madness 😆
@deepubagrecha Жыл бұрын
We all love your work so much,we forget all our worries
@kew8245 ай бұрын
Absolutely how I feel. He used to make time to see me regularly. Now that he knows how much I love him, he barely makes time to even call. I'm beginning to feel like I'm being taken for granted. I'm getting angry.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video is able to help you!
@dr.dharapatel97066 ай бұрын
Focus on your self ! Love your self !
@dorothyseletsoane3055 Жыл бұрын
Also doing the same. Today is my first day not taking his calls and read his messages. He’s been calling the whole day. But I do miss him😢😢
@jayak82177 ай бұрын
Hey, so how did everything with the relationship go?
@ernichee7737Ай бұрын
I love how you convey the message. All you said was true. I felt he take granted of me and it made me sad. I know I need to stand up and walk away,
@SS-in1ts Жыл бұрын
So very true😂 staying quiet is the ABSOLUTE hardest thing to do. I know men learn and “hear” via actions not words and for women it’s usually words so it’s unnatural to speak this foreign language and it stirs up bad feelings that lingers.
@joliemiranda5685 Жыл бұрын
God bless you Alex. This post, its entire content and the upcoming masterclass is very timely. I sincerely appreciate you and all you do in rebuilding my self value and confidence (despite all mistakes made), and that of lots of women out there
@tammi9084 ай бұрын
Im so tired of being there for that man everytime he has a problem. Im literally there for him every time he needs me. Not once has he been there for me. I wont lose anything by shutting the door on him. Unfortunately for him he will lose a person who always gets him out of a jam. I'm a very good friend to him and he is the last person i would i call in time of need. Im absolutely done ! Im done being his " go to" ... find someone else to use.
@Stylishbymariana3 ай бұрын
@tammi908 I'm also going through this right now 😢
@trayle12205 ай бұрын
I’m not worried about loosing him forever I wish he would leave me alone!
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear! Why do you say this?
@trayle12205 ай бұрын
@@FrenchRelationshipExpertbecause he’s a narcissist and will do anything to get back just to use me.
@anjithaaji33384 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@DD-ry4mm Жыл бұрын
Great video❤ thank you soo much. I think the best way is shut the door forever! What do you think?I think we cant BLUFF! cuz if we just give them a ice treatment the momment we accept them back it will reinforce the belief that they are in control! Shut the door 4ever and be happy 🚩
@nimfabangay7318 Жыл бұрын
Trusting God....ty
@YF-ey7uq5 ай бұрын
This is not love this is madness. 😂 Love you Alex x
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@deepubagrecha Жыл бұрын
Your advices are practically very nice and geniune
@deepubagrecha Жыл бұрын
Very happy morning,be happy
@deepubagrecha Жыл бұрын
Ur tips and advice are golden words🎉❤
@mildredmulumbi228 Жыл бұрын
This awesome, am loving the teaching ❤🙏
@deepubagrecha Жыл бұрын
Hi good morning world's super best coach🎉❤love ur hardwork so much,, whenever we get time we listen watch tunning to your channel,
@IreneLeonard-cw3xp Жыл бұрын
Thank you soo much am watching from kenya
@rashidamammah8309 Жыл бұрын
I'm Rashida from Ghana
@melvinaoctaviamanley857528 күн бұрын
Thanks you sir.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert27 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@theresadomen9185 Жыл бұрын
Watching from siargao Island
@deepubagrecha Жыл бұрын
Hope and wish ur channel grows more and more
@hildekatjizumo6521 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Alex ❤
@TinoGetrude4 ай бұрын
This z my condition now.... thanks papa
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@halimausman9366 Жыл бұрын
Thanks dear. Very very true
@theimmortalman56710 ай бұрын
Sir! I'm a man. My mother always come before me for everything i want! But I don't take her for granted too! I do respect her! I do care her! First of all, not all men are same. Second, i want to know about my solution 😞
@rienpeccia2745 Жыл бұрын
On point as alwaysM
@zahraalbaloochi2841 Жыл бұрын
True 100%
@deepubagrecha Жыл бұрын
Take care
@terezapolakova31483 ай бұрын
Amazing advice!!! Not like the BS from Paul Friedman and his theory about unconditional love! Exactly once you love him unconditionally he will start taking you for granted! Men need to be kept on their toes
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@jennypc9515 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Alex 🙏another great video. 😊
@mer72142 ай бұрын
Girls I said out of sight out of mind 😂broke up via text + blocked him bc he wasn’t trying to do anything and was laughing and making jokes when I was seriously talking to him it’s been a month and I couldn’t even cry bc I saw how he just wanted to keep me as an option
@FrenchRelationshipExpert2 ай бұрын
It's great that you made a decision for yourself, especially if you felt that this person wasn't taking you seriously and was just keeping you as an option. Blocking someone who doesn't respect you and doesn't value your presence is a step towards healing and reaffirming your self-worth.
@chewj3225Ай бұрын
I have one sided feelings for him, he knows that cause i told him 2 months ago, and he said he viewed me as a friend, i respected that, despite knowing i'm going to get hurt if i want to continue the friendship, i still wanted to stay friends like before. Since then things have been a little different, it's normal i know. These days he is friendly a day, talks, sends me links, memes, i do that too as we used to do before. But then again after someday he becomes distant. He dosen't reply or sees my msgs, memes for more than 24 hour, 14 hours like that despite of being online 24/7, and posting online. I can't even ask him anything beacause i'm afraid of loosing him completely. Why is he doing that? Can anyone tell me?
@mer721412 күн бұрын
@@chewj3225 look if a man chooses you he’s going to reply even at work trust me I’m sorry but he is showing you that he doesn’t have to reply right away maybe to make it clear that he’s not interested and doesn’t want to give you a hope of maybe by staying close to you reply right away that something could happen…just like how you would treat a good friend but want to keep distance so they don’t read it as a sign of maybe…just go out there be happy don’t stress about him love someone who actually loves you back …. u can also look for new friends do healthy habits with ppl u love
@MojRa Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@angelstarr495 Жыл бұрын
What about a man who comes and goes for years?
@deepubagrecha Жыл бұрын
🎉❤have a awesome great time
@nasheedanashi5741 Жыл бұрын
Thank u 💚
@FrenchRelationshipExpert Жыл бұрын
You're always welcome!
@thelaziestbee Жыл бұрын
This is true!
@RinateKinda7 ай бұрын
Sotrue
@FrenchRelationshipExpert7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@humanimalic8 ай бұрын
So sad in my case it's not even a boyfriend doing this but a husband. It's hard to avoid the situation. I feel like I myself have fallen out of love already. Makes it hard to even try. Because I know he's interested in someone else not me. It makes me feel devalued and has negativity affected by my self worth and self esteem. Even when things are back to normal, to me things ain't the same, because I'm wounded inside.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert8 ай бұрын
Hi there, I'm sorry to hear about whats happening! I know Coach Alex would love to help you but he would need to learn a little more about what you're going through in order to give you advice on this. I would highly advice you book a coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
@anissaholmes44952 ай бұрын
This is my exact story.
@monasingh3305 Жыл бұрын
❤goood Mr. Alex
@AmyChoy87 Жыл бұрын
Does this apply to the men who just divorced ?
@17msmyra Жыл бұрын
Hi. This is happening now😌
@kimgordon3695 Жыл бұрын
Sunday 11:00c 12:00e 💞
@hannetjiepretorius4225 Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@LOULOUBELLA1989 Жыл бұрын
staying quiet doesn't always work sometimes it back fires
@vivstone4596 Жыл бұрын
how?😊
@madinahkasozi2789 Жыл бұрын
True especially to men with ego it doesn't matter to them
@Rubyruppells Жыл бұрын
Alex, hoping you see this. I always watch your videos. After 7 weeks of “break” but talking consistently, he doesn’t know if he wants to be with me, or what he wants from his life, that he needs time to think because he’s actually clinically depressed, started antidepressants last week.. I’ve been waiting for him to make up his mind (he’s not seeing other people, it’s not that kind of break). 2 days ago I was burnt out, mad and told him to never contact me again, because I’m done waiting. I declared we are “broken up just like how you wanted”. Today is his birthday and I feel immensely sad, obviously wish we could work things out. Should I say happy birthday??
@vinnie122 Жыл бұрын
No.. He doesn't like you enough
@fatupower4571 Жыл бұрын
I have already told him that I'm scared losing him. So now what to do next?
@siaitsme6800 Жыл бұрын
🤷♀️
@dbkg87 Жыл бұрын
Get a feal theraist, don't liste to this bs, this is terrible and destroy people and relationships.
@basicinfo2022 Жыл бұрын
Act like it never happened lol or start over with a new man
@vivstone4596 Жыл бұрын
Quite childish. Best too call time out on those kinds of men.
@latoyajoel7671 Жыл бұрын
Guess it's a life of playing hard to get all your life to not gain his attention.
@ushamadhuribilung2595 Жыл бұрын
Good evening,Alex ...our love relationship is broken but he is telling i will not leave not going away from you and telling we will stay as a good friend.. I can't understand,do you mean.
@angeliclight-h8h5 ай бұрын
Hi Alex if i show him that i am upset will it show to him that i need him ?
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 ай бұрын
Hi there! I know Coach Alex would like to help you but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
@rashidamammah8309 Жыл бұрын
I've been following you for a while, all you said in your previous videos are all reality. I spaced out the union. So he's not talking to me. But always viewing my status. I don't get him
@jdee9844 Жыл бұрын
Hi Alex, unfortunately I missed this (only just seen it!) Will you be doing another one? Was the masterclass recorded? This topic would be really beneficial to me right now… Thank you in advance 😊
@saksami Жыл бұрын
Love this video episode ❤ Alex exudes Light & Amusing vibes 😄
@angeliclight-h8h5 ай бұрын
Hi Alex when you say do not ask questions so should i answer his calls like nothing is happening should i show him i do not care too much talk to him like he is not important maybe thats the solution because he does take me for granted i am upset about the way he treated me but now if i show him i am upset i t will show to him that i make him important is that what you mean please let me know thank you
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 ай бұрын
Hi there! I know Coach Alex would like to help you but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
@Joyline-z3c Жыл бұрын
Hey alex is it okay to ask reasons for such
@SusmitaSarkar-hl1ll Жыл бұрын
Alex what should I do that my ex will marry with me
@nimfabangay7318 Жыл бұрын
Come what may?
@DD-ry4mm Жыл бұрын
Do you think we should shut the door without explaning anything?
@FrenchRelationshipExpert Жыл бұрын
This depends on your situation! If you are looking for advice on your situation I would highly suggest you book a call with Coach Alex using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
@annerichards929610 ай бұрын
I love you Alex ❤😮
@FrenchRelationshipExpert10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your support! I appreciate this!
@angeliclight-h8h5 ай бұрын
Hi Alex since he takes me for granted he doesnot make me his priority he only calls me to talk about his friends or family nothing about us he calls me but does not see me well i am very upset should i tell him you are using me you are playing games etc or i should say nothing please let me know what to do i am very upset!
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 ай бұрын
Hi there! I know Coach Alex would like to help you but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
@tlc6756 Жыл бұрын
If it's to an extreme, just start telling him you'll be dating other guys. Simple.
@jaffarrazza77787 ай бұрын
Hi Alex! My crush knows this I was putting all my efforts in the relationship but he was normal now I have distanced myself from him will he come back to me please give me his reply Alex
@FrenchRelationshipExpert7 ай бұрын
i there! I know Coach Alex would love to help you but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you through this. I hope you find the time to book a coaching session with me! www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
@deepubagrecha Жыл бұрын
🎉❤
@LOULOUBELLA1989 Жыл бұрын
have you got a breathing technique video for when he ignores you to stop you overreacting 🤣🤣🙄
@deepubagrecha Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@georgetiakas289 ай бұрын
My ex contacted me twice for stupid reasons like PS5 problem.I suggested that we do it together with email etc.. She didn't respond to my question and, long story short, that she had already a different email. I replied: 'Ok, as you wish.' Should I continue to maintain no contact until she shows genuine interest?
@FrenchRelationshipExpert9 ай бұрын
Yes! It's important to try to not respond to her...
@georgetiakas289 ай бұрын
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert thank you Alex! I feel like she's afraid to show interest or go to a conversation. Still, i go full no contact and if she sends something stupid again, i should respond, but very neutrally, or not at all you mean? i am burning inside and need a short advice please. thank you very much!
@ADORABEL25 Жыл бұрын
Block and delete him. Bye
@mitchellmisha229911 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@faustytaylor6979 Жыл бұрын
Hmmmmmmmmmmm...😢
@deepubagrecha Жыл бұрын
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@EsleyGetrude-wc5xc8 ай бұрын
He doent deserves a women like me...move on
@FrenchRelationshipExpert8 ай бұрын
That's right!
@faustytaylor6979 Жыл бұрын
How I wish I would have listened and watched your videos early, but I know it's better late than never. Thanks for this video Jah guidance and protection blessed. 🫶
@lindaleyrer86476 ай бұрын
Don’t let yourself be a doormat! Focus on yourself. Find new hobbies, interests and friends. Don’t call, text until he reaches out. Love yourself first.🩷
@FrenchRelationshipExpert6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching and for your comment!