How To Wash, Detangle, Condition, & Style Natural Type 4 Hair For Black Men & Black Women || NTRGLD

Hey folks, here's a quick-ish video tutorial on how I first, wash my natural type 4 hair, followed by the methods and products I utilize while conditioning & detangling. Lastly, I'll go over my styling process... spoiler alert I don't style my hair.
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Midnight Rose: ntrgldshop.com/products/midni...
Destiny's Regrowth: ntrgldshop.com/products/desti...
Wooden Thick Hair Pick: ntrgldshop.com/products/woode...
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Why I'm doing this video.
02:23 - How I wash my natural hair.
02:43 - The soap I use to wash my natural hair.
03:43 - The first step in the detangling process.
03:55 - Epic Ass Jumbo Comb
05:20 - Rice water hair moisturizer
05:54 - Sea Moss hair moisturizer
06:21 - Hair butter for extra slippage
06:46 - Leave-In hair conditioner
07:10 - Finger detangling & Comb Detangling
08:27 - Adding extra slippage
08:41 - Thick hair pick for styling
08:25 - In conclusion
10:34 - The aftermath
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[@MarMar5654]

Honestly, as a black dude who's parents wouldn't let him grow out his hair and chop it off constantly, this was very useful, unlike my sisters i never had long hair till now so learning how to care for it has been an issue.

[@NETERGOLD]

Very glad I could help

[@malachisdreads140]

Now that we are grown men we can grow our hair as we please 💯👈🏼💯

[@Gejokono]

I grew up this exact same way. Tryna do tings right

[@jayreeceashton5699]

I have an afro and ive recently been trying to keep it healthy but its hard because there are so many products out there and its confusing to know which ones are good. I was wondering if you bought these products do they actually help@@Gejokono

[@Cmonmanny]

Exactly !! Growing out my hair has humbled the fuck out of me. I’m so used to seeing my barber every week. Now I see him once a month for a quick low taper and trim my Afro a bit. I always wanted to try different hair styles such as natural curls, braids and maybe do locs in a few years.

[@2Common4Speaking]

love this! we need more black men to make content like this.

[@FaithsStardust]

I love his presence - It’s like he’s gentle, and takes control. If I find out he’s gay, i’ll be so annoyed.

[@forebidden]

@@FaithsStardust you’re so weird lmfao. stop trying to spread ur homophobic agenda

[@fumky4768]

Fr, i grew up with my hispanic parents and ive been so distraught about my hair because I realized how much ive been neglecting it

[@jazzsingerlady]

@@FaithsStardust absolutely an unnecessary statement. He is a king (and won't be sleeping with you 😒🙄) REGARDLESS.

[@FaithsStardust]

@@forebidden How the fck am I being homophobic!? 2 weeks later, and i’m seeing these replies... If I have to spell it out to you. It’s a JOKE. He seems like a nice attractive guy and i’m a straight woman. So OBVIOUSLY, if I found out he was gay, I would (jokingly) be annoyed because he wouldn’t be attracted to women - of which, I AM. I genuinely can’t believe I had to spell this out to all of you.

[@calibeauty1222]

I LOOOOVE the content. The only thing I would suggest, especially if you’re doing this with the intent to help black children that are being raised by non black families is to be more gentle with detangling. Especially if they are little girls who want to retain length. Start with detangling your hair with conditioner and comb from the ends of your hair and work your way to the roots. I work in sections and take my time. The conditioner provides more slip making detangling easier.

[@bettyhall5732]

I Love seeing our Black men going through before grooming routine. Please continue teaching great basics of grooming thank you blessings for you and your family. PEACE.

[@2Common4Speaking]

this video is sooo transparent and real! i've been looking for videos for years that show my process and i'm not mad that one of the best videos is coming from a black man. Maybe I'll make a video to represent for us sisters.

[@NETERGOLD]

Thank you so much!

[@Trippznn]

You’re such a good guy man and great products!! Wishing you and your family all the best 🙌🏽✊🏽

[@opelope]

You have an interesting aesthetic. (In a good way) Love the look of 4c hair on you. More reasons to love 4c hair!

[@theradninja4666]

These are the videos I need, my parents never taught me how to take care of my hair. My dad is bald, and my mom relaxes her hair.

[@NETERGOLD]

Glad I could help

[@lovelysanders6767]

I absolutely love your content! You are truly a blessing to others therefore look forward to be blessed abundantly! I salute you black King, please keep doing what your doing!

[@branbranshenanigans1693]

He’s giving me king 👑 vibes ❤️

[@tramekn]

Yes. African King!

[@nichele3692]

Big King Vibes agreed 👑👑👑👑

[@hadiyaharnold7582]

@@tramekn noooo, hebrew israelite kings!

[@Solitude633]

Because he is 👑

[@spongebob8157]

Why hebrew but not african?

[@jamilawilliams243]

I remember that site "Chocolate Hair /Vanilla Care" I think she had good intentions, wanting to learn to do her adopted black daughters hair. But, I love that your intentionally doing a tutorial for those who may not have gotten these lessons . I don't need the lesson but your voice is so calming. Thank you for your service lol

[@curlycamillechenelle2147]

Love your hair!! It looks so soft and wonderful.

[@Iman-ve3il]

So refreshing to see black kings on fb raw and uncut teaching about hair and skin care❤. ….You have a new subscriber 😊

[@boblokey94]

This post is facts im 6 months into my hair journey and i love my hair so much. You wont know how great something can be without attempting it!!!

[@NETERGOLD]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@kamillagutierrez9006]

Thank you! My nephew has type 4 hair and no one really knows how to deal with it besides me since I have super curly hair too but nowhere near his level. This is very informative and he can def follow along

[@BijuuSage]

Hell awaited you if opened your eyes during that wash. Good vid 👍🏿

[@NETERGOLD]

almost got me!

[@learningexperience9181]

This is my favorite comment! 😂

[@yendouyalw.laridja1837]

I always thought you deep conditioned, but all you really need are natural products and a good detangler. Keep it up 👍🏾 💪🏾

[@NETERGOLD]

I rarely deep condition but when I do.... wooo child

[@tylerperry5751]

@@NETERGOLD chile* lol, great content, thumbs up.

[@mashonwilliams4393]

Thanks a lot bro! Just started my journey I appreciate you a lot, just bought the wooden pick and some butter and body oil can’t wait to get more things for my hair

[@NETERGOLD]

yo! thank you so much! we truly appreciate this!

[@ciaranhorkan2633]

I was looking for this content, amazing to see it so many thanks. I'm actually white Irish with natural afro 4c hair. Unsurprisingly there was no hair care lessons taught by my family/friends. Keep up the content, I'm sure you're helping loads of people looking to learn for themselves ❤️✌️

[@audrianalalaxoxo]

My honey was raised by his white family in England so never got taught how to take care of his skin or hair. So now me and him are learning together for his health and for our future babies health and beauty.

[@otiatyreas4067]

love the content ur doing amazing work on educating black males on how to take care of there hair

[@soyouthought8231]

I love the why are you so ashy sign👏👏👏👏

[@NETERGOLD]

Hehehe thank you!

[@user-qe6ow2sw2i]

Also...I can't stop seeing donald glover when I see you! It's the cut and the beard I guess! VIBES

[@passionfruit-rita3820]

Youre such a beautiful man omg I clicked so fast 🥰🥰☺️

[@Gejokono]

So glad I found this. I’m always seeing videos of people with 4c hair but my hair is much thicker, like yours. And you more so honest and funny so this was informative and enjoyable

[@NETERGOLD]

Thank you so much

[@kaydub287]

I love it when men are into hair care 🥰 come on king!

[@NETERGOLD]

hehehe thank you so much!

[@captaintoad-ef6zt]

my hair is as dense as yours, but when I comb it out, it leads to a lot of breakage. i recommend finger detangling. gives you more control , and less breakage. thanks brother ✌

[@henrysaravia4661]

Respek bruhh frr you know your audience💪🏾💪🏾

[@ratchetveli]

Love this thought process and consideration.

[@NETERGOLD]

Thank you!

[@maddieb84]

My husband has a similar hair texture but doesnt take the time to take care of his hair properly, this is extremely helpful for me in starting to take care of his hair. Thank you so much for your detailed explanations.

[@smarterwitheverystep]

Your baby is cursed

[@Past_10]

Is your husband white

[@yowcephhelm5910]

Seems like you're the one cursed

[@miakonifka1251]

My man got 4a-4b hair and he been tryna find the right products to care for his hair thank you for this video!

[@NETERGOLD]

Glad I could help!

[@TransitAngst]

I usually watch a different Type 4 hair youtuber but the thumbnail for this video made me click on this. Love it 😂

[@gerrimiller3491]

Under these extensions are 4b hair....I'm always looking for ways to untangle my beautiful hair. People see me with natural hair updo and say wow....look at all that long curly hair. I'm like that's all me...naptually me😁 folks. I love your hair too boo🌟

[@Decadancehallking]

Even with two black parents 😩. I wasn't allowed to grow my hair out

[@FolksNem7]

Facts I’m still learning as well

[@yafavbrujita762]

My goodness your hair is so beautiful 😍

[@FightBizzness]

My guy has the best beard I’ve ever saw and never mentioned it once lol 🔥🔥

[@NETERGOLD]

Aye! thank you so much!

[@DMMA0726]

I came here because this was pushed to the top of my feed and not gonna lie that still in the shower is the best thirst trap I've ever seen my man.

[@NETERGOLD]

😹😹😹 thank you.

[@JustCallMeJass]

This is my first time viewing. I wanted to bust into the comment section like "why didn't anyone tell me" I was on a totally different category on KZbin 🥴🥴🥴

[@quezsevere2045]

Bros delivery is hilarious great personality got hooked from fb, looking into your products much love salute.

[@NETERGOLD]

Aye! thank you so much!

[@quezsevere2045]

@@NETERGOLD anytime , embodiment of a real one, When the whole family in the mix

[@NETERGOLD]

Way too kind. Thank you!

[@FaithsStardust]

10:00 Nice video, I liked that you showed the reality of a grubby/dirty bath tub at the end of the video = very transparent. It would have been nice if you explained what you did to your hair after you washed it.. twist it, air dry, towel dry, hairdryer, style....? I often find that when I leave my wet hair to air dry, it very quickly starts to tangle. Yours seems to have avoided that stage, so it would be helpful to know what you did after the wash.

[@davisstarsha3630]

HIS VIBES HIS PRESENCE ASE' KING 👑

[@NETERGOLD]

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@LadyKay78]

Thank you for sharing! I cannot wait to buy all those products! You might need the bonnet since you fall asleep on the couch; that way your mane is protected ☺️

[@NETERGOLD]

I has one but I fall asleep before putting it on 🥲🥲🥲

[@mikej2133]

@Khalila G could I use a wave cap instead

[@latanyadavis3037]

Beautiful hair! Looks thick and healthy

[@selamhazel4708]

Healthy even with all the damage that even he admits lol??

[@livelovely4681]

@@selamhazel4708 hair is made up of protein, it can withstand certain amounts of damage or else we would bald headed 😂😭

[@mangovasco3296]

​@@selamhazel4708hair can be a mixture of healthy + damaged

[@tallmanjuice4622]

I be asking myself why I’m so ashy if I don’t put on my home made sea moss sheabutter with aloe and oils love your channel bro

[@LM33333]

The back of your hair looks cool in the style. No need to change. You rock it well. 👍

[@selamhazel4708]

Lmfaooooooo

[@ugenewis]

Thanks for posting this bro🙏🏽💪🏽

[@NETERGOLD]

Thank you for watching!

[@ms.evegene]

All your hair is nice. Face, head, arms, and chest✊🏾💜

[@NETERGOLD]

aye!!! Thank you!

[@shaquanbranche6541]

Awesome content brother ✊🏾

[@NETERGOLD]

Thank you so much!

[@LadyKay78]

Pre-pooing is also a benefit and less shedding! You detangle first with the pre-poo and then have a smooth transition shampooing.

[@malstar8808]

Yes I agree pre pooing is amazing

[@kymanielouis4184]

lol that's a funny word, but yeah pre-pooinh definitely works

[@yellowlove424]

Love the name of the products!

[@NETERGOLD]

Hehe thank you!

[@Hokage2719]

Love your content man new follower how often do you wash your hair to keep it healthy

[@Sowhat20036]

I just asked a question on Instagram after watching your video. And I felt so dumb hahah but thank you for your kindness. I ordered yesterday and this video was attached lol I needed it! I'm adopted and the youngest of 5. 3 straight haired bio kids and then my mixed sister and then me. So idk what I'm doing😮‍💨

[@paco680]

Bro you look absolutely amazing, I absolutely love type 4 hair and beard, unfortunately mine is straight even though it's easier to take care of it, it doesn't look as good as yours💪🏿

[@NETERGOLD]

Aye! thank you so much!

[@arcanepayaso]

How do you go about drying your hair afterwards? I work all day and shower pretty late at night. I want to get a hair dryer because I'm tired of using a towel and I know that is not the right way to handle my hair. I'm looking forward to learning more about hair care from your channel 🔥

[@simeonkasumu5464]

how frequently should we do this and what are the necessary products?

[@therealstephkisha9705]

Gonna forward this to my daughter she has 4c hair.

[@NETERGOLD]

Thank you!

[@BB11249]

HANDSOME, MY GOD!

[@finesse79johnson76]

Yum Yum ...good vid my boi

[@FreyjaJeffries]

Oml this is so helpful my man’s hair is so thick ❤😂

[@NETERGOLD]

Hehe glad we could help

[@ChrisorDrown]

How often do you wash your hair? Mine is similar in type and length.

[@Nuny-x9z]

invest in a pick with longer teeth and picking the back... pick towards the back when showering, moisturizing, and styling. hope this helps

[@jackiejackson8484]

Beautiful hair.

[@Ro77cky]

African race is so gifted genetically strong and great hair!

[@Florence-mq1gk]

love it!

[@NETERGOLD]

thank you!

[@LoXena]

I don't like the comparison to a "brillo pad", our hair is more like a cloud, cotton candy or a crown. Maybe try using a moisturizing shampoo instead of African black soap because it's really drying and stripping for type 4 hair. Try to detangle by sections starting by the end of your hair saturated with a thick conditioner because you are causing split ends and breakage when you just force the comb in your hair like that. You use way to much different liquid sprays and instead of one spray and one moisturizing leave- in conditioner. Your hair is not nappy or beady, it's dry because of the lack of proper products. You should deep condition at least twice per month. You hair is shorter at the back because it's broken, you are way too rough when you detangle it, it should be done slowly and with care.

[@LovingMyOwnSkin]

Thank you!!

[@althe4564]

I agree, but sometimes my hair is so dry and rough that it feels like a Brillo pad 😂

[@Sowhat20036]

My hair is nothing like a cloud or cotton candy that stuff has no knots no tangles and dissolved in water. My hair will eat your fingers alive. After this whole process I'm hoping for clouds

[@mikej2133]

Do y'all think the contaminated water supply in the shower has an effect on our hair? Should we wear shower caps in the shower and then just wash our hair in the sink with purified water or something?

[@maverickbull1909]

His hair is like a Brillow pad. Has nothing to do with your hair or “our” hair since “our” hair is all different.

[@Teddyperkins6825]

Thank you !💪🏽🖤

[@NETERGOLD]

No, thank you for watching!

[@sais640]

3 is the magic number for cleaning hair

[@IsaiahxDaVinci]

My dad is a bald black man and my mom is Puerto Rican… thanks brotha!

[@ABlue-iz4rg]

Can I use the big epic comb for detangling and styling? My afro is still a small fro, but is getting thicker/bigger.

[@NETERGOLD]

You can.

[@JennJennntv]

You should try detangling your hair before washing and I promise the process will become easier while you wash and condition your hair. The fact that you use rice water that can be used to detangle pre wash, if you’re interested I actually have a video on my channel of my rice water routine & you’ll see how to easily detangle your 4C hair

[@LoveVirgo]

I wanted him to detangle his ends first and work toward the roots. I cringed every time he yanked through detangling.

[@JennJennntv]

@@LoveVirgo yeah he definitely messed up when he wet his hair with out detangling it first 😩 but he’s a man lol and I love that he’s trying 🙏🏾 I hope he sees this comment thread tho so moving forward the process can be easier for him

[@BigMacApe]

how do i fix if my hair is like curling up at the top like frizz

[@colettemcwilliams1325]

I was looking for the wooden combs on your site. Where can i find those.

[@NETERGOLD]

Here’s the direct link ntrgldshop.com/collections/wooden-combs

[@nerdbamarich2063]

Your hair is so healthy and long. Blessings🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@NETERGOLD]

too kind! thank you!

[@nerdbamarich2063]

@@NETERGOLD you're more than welcome

[@The4P_]

How do we fix the back and train it to be not curl down

[@jadenmartin4980]

Are you suppose to put all those oils energy time you take s shower?

[@vicious26]

I can’t detangle my short Afro hair. I’ve been trying on one side for an hour while wet. It just rips if I start at the ends.

[@Mr_Bawon]

Good video!

[@JessieValentinoo]

Your hair is beautiful king

[@NETERGOLD]

Thank you so much!

[@user-dn9kk9qu5y]

hey bro my hairs receded can you help advise me ?

[@ethanmacharia5307]

I barely have half of these products and I'm in Africa specifically Kenya so couldn you recommend where I can get some of these stuff. Specifically the combs

[@NETERGOLD]

All of these products are available at www.ntrgld.com

[@bettyhall5732]

Much LOVE.

[@davidjnichisti1108]

This is a great video for educating white people. I know we ask dumbass questions and react to some things we know nothing about. I'll keep watching videos like this until I know terms and procedures etc so I won't look so stupid the next time the subject of black hair comes up. I know I'm fairly old and the way I grew up there wasn't any info on black hair so I'm determined to learn. Thanks 😉

[@conscious_competence3703]

Thank you for trying to learn.

[@ralphdonn9518]

Dude cut yourself some slack bro, of course as a white person you won't know much about our hair. No offense I can't stand when it sounds like you loathe your own race, stay comfortable in your own skin and stop putting down your own people

[@iismellgood]

thanks man

[@NETERGOLD]

no, thank you!

[@2Common4Speaking]

this is sooo me. we have the same texture

[@keahharrison4765]

In the words of En Vogue and Salt n Peppa “Whatta man, Whatta man” 😏

[@devonbig14]

Growing up I was never taught how to do this so the video was helpful❤🥹

[@NETERGOLD]

Glad I could help

[@kingsleyezeh9905]

I got a question? Do you do this everyday?

[@epicOway]

Thanks so much. My brother is 12 and trying to grow an afro, but he knows nothing about hair care.

[@Solitude633]

How often you wash your hair?

[@althe4564]

Washing natural 4c hair is such a work out for me 😂

[@nancybreaux9684]

Your hair is thick and beautiful.

[@NETERGOLD]

Thank you very much!

[@earthtodanni7746]

amazing 🙏🏾 how often do you do this routine ?

[@NETERGOLD]

Every couple of weeks. I usually finger detangle daily though

[@sudilos1172]

“Buy my products.”. There I summed up the video for you. I usually only buy products if I like what the persons hair looks like after.

[@NETERGOLD]

Lol

[@SaxandRelax]

Bro has the perfect beard

[@NETERGOLD]

Aye! thank you so much!

[@mimi-gs7cw]

I wish i had thick hair like you

[@isaiahv5794]

MY HAIR WAS FLAT IN THE BACK LIKE THAT! what worked for me was trimming split ends, satin pillow case with a bonnet, and protective styles. I can't grow long hair without some kind of protective style or else my back will be one inch while the rest is 5 inches

[@smartkidslose]

Just section your hair it’s so much easier and quicker

[@Diz_27]

How often do you wash your hair like this? Also what products donyou use on a daily for your fro and beard?

[@NETERGOLD]

Once a week for the washing. Hair: ntrgldshop.com/products/sura Beard: ntrgldshop.com/products/gurzil-hair-butter

[@Alfred-ro9tk]

Preciate the video but I got some questions, how often should I pick my hair in general, and what can I do about hair flatening in the front from like sitting on the couch?

[@NETERGOLD]

Once a week should be fine unless you want it for styling purposes. Use a satin durag / bonnet or stop sitting that way. ntrgldshop.com/search?q=satin

[@Alfred-ro9tk]

Some sources say every single day, is that unhealthy for my hair?

[@NETERGOLD]

I personally wouldn’t recruit because it’s a lot of manipulation to your hair that could cause breakage but folks do it daily for style purposes and see just fine so it all comes down to you hair

[@Ahn-mu3db]

Do those sprays smell good? The names sound like they smell rlly good lol U have beautiful hair btw