How To Win Against A Narcissist

[@ianurag95]

Be mysterious, react less, keep calm this will work like a charm ✌️

[@royferguson3909]

a Ninja wins, by default. it's a head - game . I like games. respect to you

[@jananabanana3180]

Very well said...!!!

[@keneciaesson420]

This was me in his face 😂

[@michelegray5970]

The keeping calm can be soooooo hard sometimes.

[@denisechaoub90]

Yup agree doing that now

[@G3mini33]

You win by being silent and ignoring them to the fullest extent!

[@4453-y5f]

ThaT ParT☝️👍

[@jananabanana3180]

You are SO right...!!!

[@achmed2pac]

A Narcistic person is Demon Possesed...My own brother was also a Narcist but when i prayed to Jesus to set him Free and i kept on Praying Persistently for days and Even Weeks he eventually got Set Free! Whoever the Son of God has Set free is Free and Free INDEED! 😄Believe in the Words of Jesus People every thing is possible with him that is Obedient to the words of Jesus Christ and pray's according to His will🙏💟Also sin will take us to Hell...

[@SamanthaWho]

Been doing this all my life to my narcissistic mother. She tells everyone that I am rude and disrespectful 😂

[@achmed2pac]

@@SamanthaWho or you could just pray to God with a Sincere heart in the Name of Jesus Christ to free you mother from the evil Demonic Selfish Spirit of Narcissim that dwells in her body and free her from this bondage so you can continue to love her and she to love you instead of fighting against flesh and blood you must learn to walk in the Spirit!! 🙏🏾 ❤ May jesus bless you and free your mother like he freed my brother because i kept on diligently praying and praying in HIS Name to free him 😀 every time in Prayer until Gods Time comes 🙏🏾

[@rupaliparikh758]

Yes! You said it 👍..the only way to expose them is to let them expose themselves...!..

[@LION-on4gd]

EXACTLY! The boomerang turns back to them!! See what you did without thinking about the conséquences! Too late! Bye bye!

[@jananabanana3180]

And don't they look foolish....!!!!

[@royferguson3909]

yep , 'the garbage will take itself out .

[@marysheebathomas1501]

Absolutely 😂

[@Thumper68]

A narcissist is to scared to look me in the eyes.

[@royferguson3909]

so would I be if I was called Thumper . You ain't no ' push- over ' . deep respect to you

[@kimberly5465]

I noticed this too. It's like saying I see what you're doing and you cannot affect me.

[@eagleeye2300]

Be unreadable, and unpredictable. Bam.

[@teresaduncan6891]

DO NOT REPOND TO ANYTHING THEY SAY OR DO. GIVE THEM THE FLATLINE! Drives them INSANE!

[@jananabanana3180]

Very gratifying to observe... actually very funny... pay back's a BITCH.....HA HA...!!!!!!

[@MaxwellRyder5]

@@jananabanana3180yessir

[@NeonDungeon]

I'm doing this but It's easier said than done when they constantly stand there saying the most insane or shocking things and you're constantly dumbfounded..if not by their words, then the way they say them, if not by the way they say them, then when they choose to say them, if not by when they choose to say them, then by the grounds they are standing on that makes them say it. By the end of the day with listeningto to all their self absorbed theories of their grandeur its like you've solved the grand unified theory of the universe but you look at them, and it's just them a narcissist with nothing, more or less than they had yesterday.

[@OlaDeen2018]

The narcissist had started telling our mutual friends that I was a druggie. So when I started disappearing for hours every day, she began believing her own false narrative. Boy, was she ever shocked when she learned I had been going out house-hunting and had bought my own house and was moving out! I only told her after the closing. I'll never forget the look on her face...it was a priceless moment!

[@kritikaroy5058]

😍

[@Tyndalic]

Keeping my thoughts to myself for days drove my ex narcissist insane. I gray rocked him. Nothing he said or did caused a reaction. He screamed in my face, accusing me of vile things & even got physical and I have no reaction. I was a blank stare. Then I left. He told me he was very impressed with my change and it scared him. No reaction to that! He just snapped!

[@keneciaesson420]

😂 good one

[@longislandny696]

Cutting off their supply is the way to win against those Demons. No Contact is the best way.Access Denied 🙅‍♀️

[@rachelthompson7487]

That's why a couple of my family members ask questions that are none of their darn business.

[@sakak977]

I think we all have that category of feeling less idiots in our families. I'm going through the worst low of my life currently and they're least bothered about the wellbeing of my children or me... They thrive on the questions and assumptions though. They don't deserve to be called family. Family is not like this.

[@sakak977]

@@jt5792 thanks a million! Every person that reaches out to me over here is like a Ray of sunshine. Sometimes I sit back and reflect that iam in the midst of total strangers who understand each word of mine so perfectly and reach out to me with love and empathy... While those that were supposed to be in that role can only pass senseless judgements and gorge on my suffering. They shall meet their end /fall from grace. I hope I live long enough to see it, hopefully.

[@jennifernelson9980]

got it right!! they can't read you!! so they get so scared!!!

[@a.williams9]

Exactly! This is true. Become unpredictable as their obnoxious behaviour patterns are always predictable which they rely on to prey on their victims.

[@sparklypoet1454]

100% truth. Be unreadable. Ignore them. Don't react. It works.

[@kiwi_rainbows]

Wow, you just described my parents with perfection😮

[@drsarahassouna]

This basically means you win against a narcissist by acquiring some of their narcissistic traits ! which easier said than done when it's against your own nature

[@sgt92]

God.... Exactly my thoughts.. 😅

[@royferguson3909]

make it your nature . it's a dance

[@martinahavelkova9828]

Thats how empath evolve in super empath. Became more narcissistic.

[@forrealtho4062]

It fades as soon as you meet someone who isnt a narc then you can relax

[@blammin9217]

Once you acknowledge that you're talking to someone with npd you realize it's not a real conversation. And they won't listen to your concern or logic. For your own sanity you have to put on your gloves and hat and mask that were made to handle this toxicity. You have to go into another mode of communication. If you want to engage with them that is.

[@nightmareappliance]

This is…. Exactly what happened in my situation. He tried to Hoover back, I set a strong boundary which he tried to knock down. When he knew I wasn’t interested, he started to try and trigger me by triangulating me with other people… and I still didn’t react. He panicked… assaulted another female staff… off suspended/potential termination. And I didn’t even have to do anything.

[@jananabanana3180]

That's the best part....!!!!

[@carolovesteven]

🎯 they’re actually more ritualistic and predictable than their supposed “prey.” They are creatures stuck in a vicious cycle of supply and demand.

[@thomasacevedo212]

That is so........soooo....soooo true! Try and give then NO information and keep them guessing. My narcissist ex would hate it during our divorce when I never told her anything and refer her to speak to my lawyer and not talk to me.

[@sharonparis8916]

Great video!Provocation,to get a reaction out of you and if you take the bait now you look like the crazy one.I’m just now learning about narcism and I am beginning to learn no reaction is best (after 33 years of reacting) thank you for your videos great teaching tool on your channel.

[@salliegallegos918]

With all these wonderful videos educating us about how to cope with narcs, they will begin to starve.

[@yemisiaderuku2902]

​@@salliegallegos918 absolutely Greetings from Nigeria

[@keeponkeepinon4891]

Love this! And, oh, so true! Finally. Finally. Finally I am free.

[@Magdalene777]

If possible ghost them. Especially when they don't expect it.

[@WeR1bodyNChrist]

I agree. Just let them get a migraine trying to figure you out! 😂

[@thegameoflife2131]

True When u stay silent and stay in character they will blabber to anyone who will listen to regulate their emotions that u have triggered and expose themselves

[@RKX_Errant]

Spot on, Danish!!! I had to learn this the hard way. Only one caveat I will add; they may take this to the next level which is to hack your phone, computer, etc. and they are also capable of snooping through your personal things physically if this route is available to them. I've had this done to me and lost thousands of dollars because of it. Information is their life's blood. Starve the beast!!

[@hannuimmonen2219]

When you walkaway.. we have a winner😉

[@nancyhjort5348]

I used to call it "going teflon." It is not my anger, not my fault, and not my project.

[@elijahsvrbinge7166]

Gotta mask my aura around these people

[@tdr_paraadvisor3996]

you are truly a gift from God thank you so much for these videos 💯🌌

[@StinkyCatFarts]

I’m going through this now. Knowing what makes him tick, and using it against him is the most horrific thing ever. I genuinely don’t understand how people can actually do this day to day.

[@pamelakelley5535]

He constantly tried to think for me. Like he knew what my thoughts were. It drove me nuts because he was wrong every time.

[@violetfrankson5924]

I Am naturally Unpredictable 🙂

[@jananabanana3180]

I learned NOT to be triggered or respond. Emotionally, I simply turned off and quit sharing. It was VERY SATISFYING to observe. I used to think to my late ex-Narc husband...." My thoughts are MINE and are NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.....!!!"

[@egobuilders415]

Thank you bro this is exactly what I needed!!!!!

[@sloanmagnum5009]

Haha. My narc ex would always start a fight over nothing. Shed then turn it into loud shouting and bringing up the past as well as stuff that was irrelevant. I stopped engaging early on in the relationship and got to the point where I would just sit there and listen, I'd hardly respond, maybe saying "oh ok" or "alright, do and say whatever you want. I dont even know what your talking about anymore". Essentially being silent and non combative. Ooh, let me tell you. That would piss her off more than anything. Because she would just be making an absolute fool of her self and didnt want to go down in flames by her self so she would say things or talk shit to get me to react so she could turn it all around and make me look like the crazy one, she wasnt getting away with that lol. Towards the end of our relationship, I would just say as little as possible or ignore her. She would flip out and say all sorts of the stuff that had nothing to do with anything. She eventually practically left out of nowhere. I think its because she made such a fool of her self and lost all her power by not getting a reaction out of me that she eventually folded and couldnt stand it any more. She probably needed to find someone else she could boss around and take control over. It was embarrassing. Here I am rational and logical and she would be acting like a stark raving lunatic every chance she got. I mean, I'm a fool for putting up with it for so long because I didnt have what it took to leave her and she always threatened me saying if i ever left i would be sorry kind of stuff. Pathetic, I know, but if you're familiar with law enforcement and courts, you know that a woman can make hell for you if they want. They can make up any lie and get away with. But its over now and has been for awhile. I couldnt be happier.

[@jananabanana3180]

I loved to watch his panic and his uncertainty...!!!!

[@forrealtho4062]

Its true when they tried to make me believe i had the problem all i did was nothing, and watched her days later try to tell me whatever i wanted to hear begging for forgiveness to get a response Even then she got nothing.

[@elizabethortiz2571]

Sooooo TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!! Narcissist are 😈

[@andydufresne8034]

Somebody once told me "don't get afraid around bees because they smell your fear hormones and it triggers them to attack." I don't know whether this is true, but I endeavored to get control of my emotions in such scenarios. Twice over recent years, I found myself being charged at by big dogs barking viciously, a rotweiler and then a pit bull. In both moments, I told myself to stay calm, not release fear into my bloodstream, and not run. I stayed perfectly still, looked them in the eyes, said "are you going to be good?" to the rot, and "hello" to the pittie, and in both cases they stopped charging, walked up to me with tail nubs wagging, and put their noses in my palm. I'm not saying narcissists will wag their tails and become friendly, but it''s an interesting case study in controlling your emotions under stress and how wild animals respond differently based on how you act. I wonder if it isn't that narcissists are convinced everyone is out to get them and they are looking for signs that you are on the attack to prove it to themselves, and I suspect that there have been moments where I've calmed them down simply by showing no emotion and giving them nothing to misinterpret as an attack, and that their surprise was in realizing I wasn't on the attack and that disarmed them. I've started viewing interactions with them the same as wild animals. It happens on a primal emotional level with creatures incapable of reason. Think of a scared animal backed into a corner lashing out at rescuers trying to get close enough to save it, and that's how I approach the narcissist now. Watch The Dodo videos to see how it's done.

[@yemisiaderuku2902]

Thank you

[@robinbranco437]

Thank you for sharing this information👍 my younger sister took out a 5 foot restraining order in me in my own house 😂😂😂🤦‍♂️😳

[@angelaizzo641]

Amazingly on point.

[@mc1618]

What even more crazy wow many people on this planet are narcissistic. I can pick up on them after few conversations. My ex said I can run but can’t hide! There literally every were! It’s like a game of chest!

[@DidiyogasalsastudioTM]

so helpful, I was wondering how to do this today thank you Danish

[@keeponkeepinon4891]

I am getting better at being uninvolved on a soul basis as well. And, you know, I really don't want to "win." But there seems to be no middle ground here. So I cultivate my Mona Lisa smile. (keeps my mouth shut, too!)

[@nellie2mkhize608]

Thank you sooo much I needed to hear this🌟🌟

[@jacklimcortez7660]

Thank you Danish 💙❤️😊 Very helpful its difficult when you are an emotional person Will work on this

[@LoveSource1111]

Amen Danish ! only God been helping me. only God

[@TheHonorableEagle]

Thanks 🙏 I’m going to try this my parents are like this

[@jennyjacob7615]

This is Gold 😂 True though

[@baibaandersson9454]

Exactly. Thank you for explaining. How sad that I had not idea in my marriage about this. Totally wright. Amen.

[@PriyankaSharma-c9u]

When they come to me, I intimidated them, They reacted, They blocked me and I keep intimidating them😂

[@melindasmith3713]

They will try , by expecting you to chznge again , like you owe them a new you .

[@CurlyHostile]

Your videos are great

[@SamanthaWho]

You are so experienced in this and honestly you give great advice. I love it and thank you for your help!

[@crystalcole888]

Thank you very much sir. Heard 👍

[@denisechaoub90]

Yup beyond true

[@twigityful]

How to be unreadable but also respectful and not dismissive ?

[@merigoribilli564]

How long? You will be Exhausted and will have no Choice but to respond. You cant hold yourself back forever. What if your Mind Gets Overwhelmed by too many thoughts and you cant handle stress and pain?. There is a limit of what you can endure. If they can lie what else they can do.

[@kayinatkidunya]

Ur the best Danish 👍

[@beautypablotamarini7315]

Thank you Danish

[@inbornhealer]

Exactly 💯

[@dianakroenke4013]

I'm going to try this

[@anak5183]

This is so true! Great video!

[@dr.mallikagoyal7293]

Great video again

[@jyotis5732]

A narcissist is also unpredictable and unreadable so many times, so we also doing that won't be like being like them?

[@theresadunlap1969]

Thank you

[@basque727]

Totally agree Danish. 👍

[@jacquelinefroehle3583]

Wonderful information. Thank you Danish!!!

[@Dancer9412]

Lol i changed my country, made my accounts private, changed my number and yet this somehow found me and still harasses me Narcissist’s are damn scary

[@navneetakumar1814]

Thx exillion times

[@tovenrvik6336]

Narcissists are obsessed wt control ‼️

[@Alex_Valero]

Oh yeah, based on your video’s i went gray rock, and all the truth came out, it was actually kind of amusing. Not a relationship, but with work. Try to bait me into reaction by saying i contribute nothing to the company, and i’m not getting any more opportunities…zero reaction. Then went to switch it up 180° and put a carrot on a string of future opportunities. I gave no reaction. All i’ve done is point out the extra dumb errors that keep on keeping on, and for that i’m the extra bad guy 😂. Scarface said it best “Chyu need people layke me! So chyu can point chyour finger, and say, DATS da bad guy!”

[@anantakishordash6449]

If you know the word narcissistic . The mental suffering will reduce to 50%

[@michaellendzian2655]

I support this message

[@mariamatala3702]

This is very good to know .thank you.

[@missygeno4391]

True.. And easily said than done..

[@rloc99]

Thank you 😊⭐🌴🫡

[@idahamidah2211]

they will make their flying monkeys to do their duties

[@shivanithakur8938]

Wonderful

[@peachnehi7340]

i wonder if they try to do this to everyone ? or only to their target? they choose targets who they perceive as weak

[@sugahcookie8827]

My mom all day!

[@jacquelinecruz4187]

Exactly

[@shaivonpoitier1832]

Youll never win just run

[@mrsimo7144]

You are brilliant with this stuff. But having gone through through a narc 4 times, how do you have the energy to keep talking about it? I find them so very wearing. Thanks ❤️

[@myrnasharif499]

thanks, i don ' t mind what they do and say , i'm done with them !!

[@rhondamcdonald8086]

Soooo Truuuuue!!!😏

[@rubyvonestone]

Exactly...tu

[@veronicaatkins4417]

Amen

[@random837]

That poor decision is to beat me or talk cheap things about my character

[@LadyFaTV]

Omg I just fell for it

[@rhondahicks1806]

Bless those that curse you

[@rajnibhatia6581]

Shukriya Danish

[@thornless9073]

Yup

[@royferguson3909]

I like this

[@lisaoberle9721]

FACT FACT FACT 💯💯

[@peletisaratuigamala7296]

❤❤❤

[@ashleyscott879]

💜

[@J49-g8u]

🔥

[@carolclark5776]

this really workks run them around the block a few times. touch down

[@dookhynafeesa7069]

Ya so true

[@Charmainecharmainecharmaine]

Let them win; you can’t reason with a 2 year old