How Turn A Break-Up Into a Break Through | MJ Harris

[@blissyogi7000]

I learned to not take things so personally. People's treatment of me is not a testament to who I am, but who they are.

[@findyourpixiedusteveryday6344]

indeed! it says all about the other... always remind that... and remember the everyone in the world is you pushed out

[@serenathedreamer979]

the lesson i learned from heartbreak is to never EVER love someone more THAN YOU LOVE YOURSELF

[@mya8892]

I’m

[@anjiluv9528]

Malcolm jamal harris you are phenomenal

[@juwimoosa415]

Best lesson I learned was you could be the best woman possible but if a man don't want you there's literally nothing you can do to change that.

[@jessicagadson5320]

If someone shows you who they are believe them and run away from narcissistic men

[@ACole-to3ij]

Jessica Gadson preach .. it’s so tough

[@jessicagadson5320]

Ash Cole I hate to say it but it took distance to break the cycle I was in. God bless and stay strong beautiful

[@deniseger9898]

And especially narc men with a bad temper they craaaazy!

[@illatek]

And women

[@ShellyKingston]

I am not afraid to walk away anymore. As a matter of fact, it’s easier now

[@Sweetheart7179]

Same here cause I know that I'm not afraid to be single and by myself and that my guy will come I'm not rushing it right now

[@queenalley1456]

I am so grateful for you best friend your inspirations has helped me to deal with my issues in life much easier now. Thanks gorgeous you are a blessing ♥️💕🤗$neikababy32

[@prettyhendrickson2726]

I want to get to a point in my life like this. I just want to be able to walk away from people

[@ivygalindez3118]

I learned to never again give anybody too many chances, especially when they don’t value promises

[@LowVlogDrives]

Greatest lesson ive learned is to pay more attention to my intuition.

[@chocolategirlnoelle2915]

I literally have had this lesson on replay everyday I’m going through a really rough break up. I am so grateful that I found your channel.

[@nievesbrantley3660]

Wow I'm going through it now, as of last night after 5yrs he had the nerve to break up on the phone after he moved out while i was in the hospital so I'm really needing this lesson

[@kimberlyjohnson8674]

Nieves Brantley To leave somebody in to do that when they’re out of the hospital let me know he was a real douche bag and didn’t deserve you you may not see it now but he did you a favor because he clearly plan that long ago

[@janiebutterfly5251]

I'm thinking of you and can feel your pain I'm the same I'm sending you love and light and many blessings stay safe 🤗🤗💐💐💐💐💐💐💐❤❤🥰💝

[@tw.6011]

Same it really hurts😔

[@chocolategirlnoelle2915]

T W. Awww love you got this it’s been 7 months since I said that about my trifling ex and now I don’t even think twice about him.

[@imaqtat16]

The biggest lesson I learned is go where you are celebrated and not tolerated

[@mattiematthews9310]

My greatest lesson in my marriage is i did not set boundaries. I continued to believe his heart was true. 6 yrs later i am getting divorced.

[@ontheotherside3681]

My lesson learned.. Set boundaries and stick with them. “I’m sorry, it won’t happen again” Five times later, I finally said this is enough.

[@joshiibosh_ii]

I just ended a seven year relationship with a grown boy. So that lesson that mama said picture five years later. Yes, it is a horrible experience. Do not waste time on potential. Nooooo

[@mysterylady5995]

I learned that I can't be with a talker. I need space and alone time. I'm finally with someone who needs what I need. Never settle.

[@airplainchild]

In my last relationship I learned that just because you want it to work (very badly), that doesn't mean it's going to.

[@toyadawson7735]

Thank you for sharing. The biggest lesson I've learned is that he was everything I made him, in my mind. He only got away with what I allowed.

[@brandynsmith2382]

This was amazing! One lesson I learned from past relationships that I can share with others is to love yourself unconditionally and stay true to yourself.

[@brandynsmith2382]

MJ Harris no problem..thank you for sharing great information!

[@rosesolorio81]

Always

[@PsychedPerspective]

Believe patterns and behaviors not words. Also hold yourself accountable some of us future fake ourselves. We knew from day one they weren’t the right person to be investing any time/energy into.

[@pazyamor1313]

💯

[@gottiuahupirapi6959]

some people are alergic to good people so being too nice i guess it is taken for granted

[@marellaplatt1003]

The lesson I learned was don't forget who you are trying to make someone to love and appreciate you and you stop valuing oneself

[@Thessaloniaworsley]

This

[@strawberrymilk4170]

I learned to not be so transparent when I’m getting to know someone. Not everyone has the same values as us, and to not believe the worst in people, old or new, no matter what you’ve gone through. Give everyone the benefit of the doubt.

[@moniquejones9086]

Stop trying to make people great that’s not ready.

[@nicolelopez3648]

Divine alignment, you’ve helped me so much to put things in perspective and realize I’m not alone. God bless you! One major lesson I learned from a previous dating experience was to recognize when someone evokes feelings of sadness and suffering more than of love and empowerment. It cannot be ignored, we must always stay true to ourselves! Love your content so much, wish you many blessings ✨

[@pazyamor1313]

Yessss beautifully said. That's it I would always say that I'm enhancing your life but you're depleting mine. 🥰💯

[@goddessbutterfly27]

This break up cuts the deepest. But it was Necessary

[@stellarstar9340]

Anyone sense just automatically thumbs up MJ's videos because you just freaking KNOW they're going to be 🔥🔥🔥👌🏻👏🏻🙌🏻💪🏻😌🙏🏻❣️💓👍🏻🤴🏾👑💁🏾‍♂️

[@veronicathompson6368]

I new for a long time we were not equally yoked, yet I stayed to long !

[@palmamingozzi5736]

I learned to let go of pain and suffering and replaced it with peace and serenity.

[@taneishagriggs9796]

learn to love myself first and pour back into myself and not a empty/broken man that I thought I could fix

[@popoturner]

I love this. I learned from my past relationship is to love you, know your worth. Know that you are a beautiful one of a kind of woman. It is ok to walk away, when a person so you there true colors, hunny believe them. Better yet, when a person want to chase after them let go. Move forward with your life and not backward. You should never alone anyone around you that's going to disturb your peace.

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

amen amen amen!

[@lwilson3005]

Been threw it pain made me 💪.. everyone deserve love and a life but they don't deserve pain when other people dishes out paying to them just because they open their hearts to him it's not right it's not okay but sometimes when you go through pain you become even more stronger and you know how to deal with it next time someone's tries to put pain in your life you can ask you see it before it happens you can see the signs coming a mile away shame on there once but never the second time a man that I truly cared about did that to me I learn from my mistakes boy did I learn.

[@jackeebonner1]

December 11, 2019..I definitely learned through the pain of a broken spirit! 💔 But, I'm better now, a new day, a new year and a better new life! I have to 💋 myself! My BEST is yet to come, it here y'all! 💖 Living it up, oh yeah! 🤣😂😅

[@patriciaearley4177]

I believe he's well aware of my value however he chooses to be manipulative and selfish also a bit immature.He definitely operates on a lower vibration while I'm on a higher vibration.The one thing we both agree on that we definitely care for each other but their has to be better communication for starters

[@stacielivinthedream8510]

You need to let him go! Never be with a manipulator or a selfish person because you will end up unhappy and angry and hurt

[@saundradodson2351]

THIS SO HIT HOME AND EYE AWAKENING! Wished I found this year's ago, learned all these lessons the hard way. Hearing this would have saved me years I can't back.

[@paolaramos3208]

Talk about bread crumbing the person they say they love

[@HM-ml6sm]

Great advice. If they don't have a value system. Why let them pull you down to their level. Don't hold on. Let Them Go!

[@VivianPerezRFM]

My fav quote that has been a lesson and I live by is Ppl will forget what you said, ppl will forget what you did, but ppl will never forget how you made them feel. I'm conscious of how ppl make me feel (my spiritual guides) and also how I make others feel. I want ppl to experience a feel good vibe when around me cuz life is too short for anything else!

[@ashleydroste3827]

Put your time effort and energy into someone who is willing to do the same. Those three things you can not get back. It applies to everyone in your life. ❤️ your videos always bringing a positive mindset

[@darlawarmann8623]

I learned when you see someone with no compassion early on thats a end of story not a red flag, people who are not compassionate dont belong in my life, and people who don't forgive or let go of trivial things. Or negative people or mind sets no time for any of them. Listen to your gut in the beginning even if you can't explain it let them go

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[@kipj9900]

The question your mom asked you makes so much sense!!!

[@TheMoonkelly]

Sometimes our biggest failures are our best teachers.

[@aleta7287]

🙌🏽 🙌🏽 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 😍😍😍😍💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 EVERYTHING YOU'VE STATED IN THIS VIDEO IS ON POINT!!! THANKS SO MUCH!!!!! 😘😘😘

[@Mai-fn5ml]

I learn to love myself first. Believe it when people show you who they are.

[@sage8889]

Very wise words. Thanks 4 your transparency. The greatest lesson that I learned is vulnerability is my 💪.

[@johnstewart4986]

MJ, you walked down my street in lesson 2! I just told someone exactly what he said just an hour before I watched this video. The more I try to communicate with her, the more she shuts down. Apparently, she not interested but won't tell me.

[@terrilee734]

Been there

[@carmenguasp6821]

Am crazy about you!!! You are changing my life. I can’t stop listening to you. I not longer wash tv or radio. Every moment I have I listen to your videos. Love you 💕 and thank you. Many blessings your ways 🙏

[@canuckchick8955]

This video has helped me so much and I’ll watch it over and over again as I deal with the productive pain of this break up. 😪😪

[@Realtalknewyorkwithjanique]

I love your personality beautiful soul ❤️

[@choppingitupwithchristina]

My lesson is that I still have healing to do and that I’m not ready to be in a new relationship.

[@xw7239]

AMEN! Mr. Harris, you are a messenger of God.

[@Noodles736]

My friends and I love watching your videos, you’re like the older brother we never had!

[@andreabest8846]

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[@makeupcrazi22]

You have such a attractive smile! Love your spirit hun!

[@stephaniejohnson9837]

Man, you are really teaching me very valuable lessons, love you

[@lindsay5348]

I am blown away !!!! This is one of the best things I have ever heard !!!!!!God bless you !!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏An angel 😇

[@leanettebrown4765]

I learn not to give up my power

[@jbaby4655]

This was everything It came up at a time I needed it. So thank you very much I believe letting go has been so hard to do. My biggest lesson is letting go of fear of not finding what I felt I found in the person I lost. Realizing that everything that was in that person I already and always had in me ❤️

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[@savannaghhartwell5106]

You are the master of this I can say I’ve never seen anyone who hood their own like you... you just keep it pushing 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@sage8889]

Viewing this for the 5th time is more Powerful than when I 1st viewed time. It confirmed & I celebrate myself for utilizing the lessons in this sharing. Thank you!🎓

[@paulahall9291]

IM GOING THROUGH A TERRIBLE BREAK UP RIGHT NOW😔 I AM SOOO HURT! MY HEART IS BROKEN IN A MILLION PIECES....AND I DONT KNOW HOW TO HEAL😢

[@paulahall9291]

Medline... THANK YOU OH SO SO MUCH FOR YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT....I REALLY NEEDED TO HEAR THOSE WORDS...I WILL DEFINITELY APPLY THEM TO MY SITUATION... AND YES ...I DO BELIEVE IN A HIGHER UNIVERSAL POWER(I AM ACTUALLY IN TUNE WITH MY SPIRITUALITY) WHICH I AM ALSO LEANING ON AS WELL....🙂 THANK YOU FOR CARING THANK YOU FOR SHARING... I WISH YOU LOVE LIGHT AND POSITIVE ENERGY .. ASE❤

[@LowVlogDrives]

@@paulahall9291 my last relationship actually pushed me into digging deep into learning how to love me and spirituality. All ive been doing is Self development and learning more about the universe and the love my inner being has for me. 💕

[@vhayashi7369]

I love you MJ so much!!! You are so BRILLIANT!!!! Always teaching me so much... 2 kinds of pain passive and productive.... That is GENIUS!!!! Thank you for helping so many people realize what they are doing to themselves and how to fix it!!! Love to you always and blessings!!!

[@TexasStardust11]

This video is amazing! It had my lightbulb burning and shining bright cause you brought so much insight on my current relationships with people. Thank you MJ, I truly 💜💜 yoooou!!!! You are awesome 🙌🙌💯💯

[@isaacakaly3668]

Wow! I needed to hear this. My heart feels like it’s in shambles but I know it’s a necessary process for my healing. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@ladyjoy6665]

So true, I loved the way you put it across. Seeing the person 5 years time with the same attitude. Scary thought

[@temerawhyte2942]

I felt this to my core , “ the potential “

[@feleciashurn8853]

Understanding my value. I’m going through!

[@lMDC1]

Thank you so much for this. Maybe you have no idea how much this helps people, so i just wanted you to remind it.

[@jeniferryan4077]

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[@D33N9]

Living in space to attract things u need love and deserve

[@reneeperry687]

Hello, happy I found this one from a year or so ago. Better late than never, the chats I've seen are inspirational and enlightening. I have learned so much which has given me a new outlook on relationships, finance and above all, living the best life I can. Thank you for all you do, you are a beacon to so many.❤ Time 3:01P VA(Hampton Roads)

[@glittersparkle5148]

You talking so much to that is aggravating my spirit that I allowed myself to do everything that you said not to do. Chicago love

[@bridgetm7431]

I love myself enough to let you go....thank you so much MJ. Love you much😘

[@michelledouthard5325]

I. LOVE. YOU. PERIOD!!! Preach!!

[@lindajones8298]

I Love you MJ. My MJ. You motivated me to except what I see. I depend on me.

[@vanessafrancis7711]

You have been a blessing. I can’t wait until you release your book. I see it helping a lot of people.

[@aliavaid2760]

Thank God I found you MJ I watch you everyday!!! God bless you!!!! I don’t know what the heck I’d do without your advice and I appreciate you taking the time to really get into it & explain everything

[@lissairenemashaka9953]

2020 going thru divorce, this is a MAJOR eye opener! Everything is now really making sense!! Thanx MJ😍

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I just love, love,love you... you hit the nail right on the head...BOOM...and yes I Share

[@facetedperspectives9950]

Potent message, MJ..... powerful and so many relevant truths spoken. Interesting how maturity can give one the strength to speak their truth and be fully aware of their value. Acceptance of a person as they present, comes with taking all that goes with it. Never mind trying to change them OR bank on potential. SCREW THAT‼️‼️ If they can’t operate at the level ONE needs; Do Not hold on or change yourself. It’s never too late to recognize your own value. Life teaches some powerful lessons, if one is willing to learn from mistakes. I loved your message. YES, letting go is the ULTIMATE act of self love. Awesome confirmation of what I’ve thought for years💯‼️👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽

[@fanniemims5980]

Ditto! What an eye opener.

[@SaraFJones]

Thank you, sir! I think we should see the letting go as doing what's best for the situation and everyone involved! It's not simply because we love ourselves more. There IS a right and wrong and while there is a loving component to letting go, it's truly for everyone involved.

[@harajuko385]

This is so powerful: I am letting go, as an act of self-love 💫

[@liuwie5310]

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[@OkJess0404]

Your mother is a wise woman! Whoa! #Gamechanger MJ, thank you for these lessons!

[@eugenefontenot7898]

I learned to never go in a woman's purse , not ever again!

[@mamancooper942]

CHILLLLDDD I GOT IN A RELATIONSHIP BASED ON A POTENTIAL! I married a man this past April though there were so many things that told me to run. Because of potential I married him. He said we’ll do the work when we get Marry. Update, about 6 months later currently and I’m filing for divorce. In fact filed for divorce last week and going through the process. This man has put me through so much tears, stripped me off my self esteem and so much more

[@nancybaker2935]

You have no idea what you have done for me...thank you

[@hannahb1237]

Needed to hear this today. THANK YOU

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[@robinbanks3806]

Be true to myself

[@Sabrielaaa888]

I won the lottery in 2017. ❤ What a great year

[@nancybaker2935]

He my best friend my done was turned into a relationship talking about I didn't want this because I didn't want to lose my friend and he crying. .this should have never happened. .but I thought it was the most beautiful thing because I loved him more than anything. .but he became high strong verbal abuse with me because we know all about each other he was my king and I was his queen. .but I did all the work for him and always felt short

[@tracismith1715]

Hidden agendas! We don't know what purpose or what strategy someone has planned out to get you. Sadly sad but, IDK if love is the journey seeked nowadays. My biggest fear is the "UNKNOWN"!!!!!!

[@choppingitupwithchristina]

This was so helpful!! Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and thoughts💛💛💛

[@lifewlanae5356]

I love you so much you give me so much strength and courage to stop doin myself a disservice

[@ebonyshorter562]

You are enough! My lesson

[@wannavinson556]

Never project your wants on anyone

[@valmariesamuels5711]

I love you has a beautiful soul you answer my question about what I'm going through thank you very much.

[@rosesolorio81]

I learned to be true to myself and be myself and if my partner if in any way shape or form is trying to change me and who iam that is not a person I'm going to keep in my life

[@christinethomas5281]

Yes baby dont discount your value work!

[@stacielivinthedream8510]

I love you, I love you, I love you MJ❣️❣️❣️ You give the best advice! Isn't he the best friend you never had???? ❤️❤️❤️

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[@tiachantel]

Thank you for these videos, so helpful ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@gegeneal1835]

I’ve just ran across this video & your channel & I must say I love ❤️ what I see!! I’m only 26 but literally I told myself a few years ago that when it came to relationships I had to take the person for who they are NOW and not what they COULD BE later. I said if they didn’t change for the rest of their lives could I see myself still being with them? If the answer was no, I had to let them go! I was notorious for liking someone’s potential versus the person they actually are; I still catch myself doing from time to time.

[@josephedwards5872]

Say it again and again brother..

[@judithhaven8820]

Phenomenal video!

[@tesaperry2575]

Love your words of wisdom you are truly an angel I really love you MJ an your family stay blessed ❤️😇

[@katrinawilliams9546]

MJ be on it!! I love you MJ ❤

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[@Roni-Ron]

Don’t abandon my boundaries🥰🥰🥰