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@noraphelps9662
@noraphelps9662 4 жыл бұрын
HI ! I am Filipina my husband is 9 years older than me when we were young some people told me did I marry him because he is Canadian that always upset me because we got married because we were in love we are 28 years married now with a beautiful daughter he has been so kind and loving to me to this day we work hard together because he was poor when I met him.If you treat your wife right she will stay with you
@paulabergstrom6802
@paulabergstrom6802 4 жыл бұрын
this is the gap 65-25
@michaelsix9684
@michaelsix9684 4 жыл бұрын
marriage is really building a life together, most Am. women don't know this since they didn't see this role modeled when they were kids
@joekr9424
@joekr9424 4 жыл бұрын
@@paulabergstrom6802 lucky girl, she will be able to learn a lot from all his experience.
@mikehkitune6630
@mikehkitune6630 4 жыл бұрын
Paula Bergstrom so what? They are happy that’s all it matters.
@sanjuanlaunionvlog
@sanjuanlaunionvlog 4 жыл бұрын
Do you live in Canada?
@Grayman58
@Grayman58 4 жыл бұрын
Great story guys .I have been married to a Philipina for 30 years you will never find a more hardworking culture we have 2 grown children and even though it's been 30 years and we are getting ready to retire soon to the Philippines we still hold hands when we are out like it's the beginning of our relationship.
@LisaH-dk4jg
@LisaH-dk4jg 2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully she wasn't a child when you met!😖
@donwebb6776
@donwebb6776 4 жыл бұрын
I met my wife via email, 2004 transferred cards, telephone calls for 1 year, I went to the PI in 2005, ask her to marry me, been married 15 years. We now have 2 daughters, I am 59 she is now 38, best decision I ever made. We reside in the US. We were married in the PI.
@michaelsix9684
@michaelsix9684 4 жыл бұрын
so happy for you, congrats, and wish you more great years together
@yollyb9239
@yollyb9239 4 жыл бұрын
Happy for You! 🙏❤️🙏
@probinsyanangtisay401
@probinsyanangtisay401 4 жыл бұрын
I met my american husband on facebook but honestly i dont believe fb,cuz i think thats a fairy tales story only,my own kids create on me fb and teaching me step by step until i know to get message to husband,and he tell me ,hey baby just download messenger app,and now we using messenger to call everyday,but the first time we chatting i dare my husband if you real come and visit me in phillippines i kiss you 100 times if you real,and i got mistakes cuz hes real💋guys and now we have a beautiful baby now but sad cuz our daughter was celebrating birthday this coming 23 augost but my husband did come cuz this covid thing😭and why we love american cuz their caring and loving and they not looking our past my husband accept me even i have 3kids and he raising them us his own kids i have college 2junior high school and we have our own daughter now she looks like father👀
@not1but2and37
@not1but2and37 4 жыл бұрын
@@SunRise-ul7ko A woman takes greater risk. Brings her all alone to a place far away from her home, family, and friends. She can end up paying with her life as found in the news sometimes.
@raycortez5667
@raycortez5667 4 жыл бұрын
@@probinsyanangtisay401 good for you I married a Filipina with four children and I raised them all and I bring them all to United States and two are married got a bunch of grandkids. I have been married for 20 years.
@aaronhorenstein7501
@aaronhorenstein7501 4 жыл бұрын
I met my wife on the Internet, flew to Cagayan de Oro two months later, and applied for our wedding license during that wonderful visit. I flew back to Cagayan de Oro about six weeks later and we got married. It took nine months for her visa to be awarded (a very tough time period for us). I was able to visit her once in the interim. We married in May 2005. Fifteen years later, we have a beautiful, smart daughter and a happy family life together. It's been a life blessing.
@jennyvemmadrid2753
@jennyvemmadrid2753 4 жыл бұрын
Your so lucky to marry a filipina from Cdo...hehehe!!!
@probinsyanangtisay401
@probinsyanangtisay401 4 жыл бұрын
Nice my husband is american and we get married 3yrs already and we have a beautiful daughter now and smart😘my husband older than me 15 yrs i love him even he have tupak,and now we not renting house we have our own house here in iloilo for he save money to process my paper to come in US cuz my daughter is already US citizen na we only do is to registered in our daughter in US embassy in manila but we can cuz this covid😭
@ehutson555
@ehutson555 4 жыл бұрын
Loved when she became comfortable with the interview and had fun with it !! Thank you for sharing !!
@TerryClarkAccordioncrazy
@TerryClarkAccordioncrazy 4 жыл бұрын
You're both courageous to put this story out including all the awkward moments. I wish you both every happiness.
@liliareg5653
@liliareg5653 2 жыл бұрын
I was all smile watching this video. I’m convinced she knew from the first meeting that there was “something” or spark (for lack of a better term) but she was too shy, awkward, and somewhat scared to interact with Mark. Pero ramdam ko ang KILIG mo day!😜I’m glad Mark knew how to handle the situation. You two seem very happy and you genuinely care for each other. Stay happy ang in loved. Thanks for sharing.
@charlesherbert4514
@charlesherbert4514 2 жыл бұрын
Henry, it's nice to hear stories like yours
@carmenRR11422
@carmenRR11422 4 жыл бұрын
Put Jen on your video all the time. She's funny and I actually enjoyed listening and watching her. She's quite naive. But genuine of her feelings.😍
@lowreztv
@lowreztv 4 жыл бұрын
No bashing here!! She's just being practical and he's just living his life. This woman's answers are very typical, and cultural, she's probably not a scammer, she's just knows she has few options and this guy seems nice. So STOP the crap, and let them live.
@catman3953
@catman3953 4 жыл бұрын
As long as both understand what they're in the game for, I agree with you. But I don't want him to come back in five years saying, "She took me for a ride." ;-) Some people have said if a 60 year old marries a 20 year old, and take her to the US, the UK or any Western nation, it won't be long before she "grows up" in the new culture, and it's bye, bye. I have seen the same with many other ethnic groups. I know guys from the Vietnam era brought over girls they met in a bar. There's something about that bar life, I guess whether it's Thailand, Vietnam, or Korea, and that is maybe you can take the girl out of the bar, but can't take the bar out of the girl. But it seems these little provincial Filipinas are cut from a different cloth. They seem to be more religious and kind-hearted in general. But there are stories about online Filipina scammers. Maybe there is a boyfriend helping them with the scamming business.
@jerseyboy1791
@jerseyboy1791 4 жыл бұрын
I have lived in the philippine over 8 years. And i know very well not to believe anything this people say. Taking her mom on a date is a very bad sign !! She was checking out her future ATM machine .
@jerseyboy1791
@jerseyboy1791 4 жыл бұрын
@@airportatheist1645 You know what the problem is a lot of these guys to come to the Philippine. Automatically feel sorry for these people. They don't realize by doing so they going to be taken for a fool.. You have to ask yourself what does a 25 year old girl finds attractive of a 65 old man ? I can assure you she's being manipulated by her mother to be into this relationship. I have seen is so many times and it does not end well. It only ends well for the filipino family = $$££€€
@romeodeguzman9041
@romeodeguzman9041 2 жыл бұрын
"This people"? What kind of jerk are you? And, are you clairvouyant to know from afar what a person is thinking? You think staying for 8 years here makes you an expert of the country's culture? Go back to the hole you're from..
@pinoyako5892
@pinoyako5892 2 жыл бұрын
The american guy is very kind, the filipina is genuine and honest, they both deserved each other
@eunicesanchez3820
@eunicesanchez3820 3 жыл бұрын
I felt the same way when I met my husband. It needed more time to really feel comfortable. I want to take things slowly since I was really afraid at first. He is a foreigner also. We are now 6 years married and blessed with a daughter. Goodluck to you both and stay happy!
@sandraosborn171
@sandraosborn171 4 жыл бұрын
Older man always give us security and make us feel comfortable and love and they are easy to love back
@jpark589
@jpark589 4 жыл бұрын
I’m a old man
@danielobara4692
@danielobara4692 4 жыл бұрын
@@jpark589 it's about Cash. She is going to leave him. Or have some young guy, pumping the hell out of her.
@danielobara4692
@danielobara4692 3 жыл бұрын
@@Filo-Joe it's my comment, dont be aggressive. 🙈🙈
@mariegalang9674
@mariegalang9674 4 жыл бұрын
Its not new.I am one of them.My husband is 19 yrs older than me(German) of course married life is not full of roses there are torns along the way specialy different culture,need a big patient and understanding.Its give and take.We lasted 30 yrs...then he got sick of cancer and gone for 9 yrs now.The last words he says to me....."THANK YOU FOR ALL THE LOVE AND CARE AND SACRIFICES YOU SPENT WITH ME AND I LOVE YOU"...We have a daughter 37 Yrs....Yes at first we have a nice life,he is working in hotel as cook but later life change to difficult moment but I did not leave him..we work together to fix whatever need to fix.We lived 16 yrs in Philippines,he loves to stay but later he change his mind so we transfer in Germany.But after my daughter schooling she went back to Philippines and get married.She loves to stay in Philippines.She was born and grew up there.So when I retire I will go back to my country....GOODLUCK TO BOTH OF YOU!!!LOVE IS NOT ALWAYS MONEY...ITS THE FEELINGS TOWARDS THE PERSON!
@justflooreit4me1
@justflooreit4me1 Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this video. Thanks for sharing. Best wishes for a long happy life together.
@briansanders7752
@briansanders7752 4 жыл бұрын
No disrespect and before I even say it I hope im wrong...... Observing the body language of this dear young lady in my opinion suggest she is there but not overly comfortable. She is with him but not so much into him. But if he is happy and she says she is happy thats all that matters......... ? Respectfully
@Spinnaker79
@Spinnaker79 4 жыл бұрын
if men treat Filipina right, with respect. not thinking they're after your money... they will love you back. what you give to them, they will give it back to you, more than you give...
@marriebernas4727
@marriebernas4727 4 жыл бұрын
100 % back to him . people don' even understand that i give him allowance. and give him more than he gave me. what he gave me is priceless,that a person can not pay. he is my husband, friend and a soulmate. nobody could pay a price for that.
@kenwilliamsvoice
@kenwilliamsvoice 4 жыл бұрын
@@AaronOlafson your wife pays you a monetary allowance
@mariegalang9674
@mariegalang9674 4 жыл бұрын
@@AaronOlafson hahahahahahhaha
@markminister2599
@markminister2599 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. Wonderful.
@joebruhin2098
@joebruhin2098 4 жыл бұрын
Hi, just listened to a few of your interviews, very good questions and conversations, you are good at it. I'm presently not in the Philippines but living in the US with my Filipina wife for 8 years now. I have a sweet place here if I didn't I would probably be in Palawan, I last was in the Ph in February 2020. From the very beginning like most here I made it absolutely clear to my wife that I did not want a child and she understood that. I thought I was too old and it wouldn't be fair to the kid to have an old dad especially in the US, also it has been said with older guys the percentages of having a not normal child is much higher. I love my Filipina wife and she seems happy with me and the situation we have, she never complains. As time goes on my love for her s deepened. I was 58 and she 36 when we met. I do have one regret and that is I did not give her a baby. Most if not ALL Filipinas want to be a mother and have a child. If a western man truly love a Filipina he will give her what she really desires and that is a child, it is paramount. When I'm gone my wife will be well taken care of if the economies don't totally crash she has a home here and comfortable and enough to buy one in the Philippines if she wants but I didn't give her a child and I know she is disappointed about that fact even though she doesn't say so and it hurts me to know it....I do my best to please her and we take care of each other but if I had it over again even though I don't want another child I would not deprive her of being a mother. Filipinas may say it's ok if we don't have a child (mine did) but in truth it's not...I know they want to be a mother I wish I would have been more considerate 9 years ago. Wishing you all the best with your relationship, I love the Philippines....Unceasing Blessings!
@heartoftexan
@heartoftexan 4 жыл бұрын
15 year age gap between filipina wife/me. Our baby born at 53 (me), 37 (her). Got snipped the next month. My wife/daughter gave me the strength to go forward, move on from the ruin/pain of my previous life. Now living in Laguna with 0 regrets. Past life get dimmer as time goes on.
@claritanarce9601
@claritanarce9601 4 жыл бұрын
We Filipinas, most of us love to have children.or atleast a child.
@joebruhin2098
@joebruhin2098 4 жыл бұрын
@@heartoftexan Happy for you Clark. I'm content with my situation just wish I would have made my Filipina wife a mother. A bit too late now although it could be done. I love the Philippines and look forward to our return (hopefully this winter if travel becomes better) but we have a sweet peaceful garden home here. My point here was if you truly love your Filipina make her a mother. I've thought about adoption if I do move to Ph but it wouldn't be the same. As I said she doesn't complain or even comment on not having a child, most Filipinas wouldn't but it would be that much more sweeter if she did...for me she is all I desire.
@joebruhin2098
@joebruhin2098 4 жыл бұрын
@@claritanarce9601 Of course, may you have a loving family.
@paulatudor691
@paulatudor691 4 жыл бұрын
Well then give her a baby.
@petertosh4748
@petertosh4748 4 жыл бұрын
All the best. Longggg engagement. If it is an act, no one can keep it up for too long...NEVER make yourself worth more dead than alive.
@ianhop
@ianhop 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@mapleleaf7530
@mapleleaf7530 4 жыл бұрын
@@ianhop never get life insurance ...not a.healthy idea
@majorronaldmandell7835
@majorronaldmandell7835 4 жыл бұрын
peter tosh Well, actually Filipinas can keep up an act for a long time. In fact, a very long time. Actually for years, even though you see them everyday while you are courting them. My wife kept up a “Miss Sweetie Pie, butter would not melt in my mouth act”, perfectly for almost four years, while I lived in the Philippines. Immediately after we married that changed quickly and radically. I could not recognize her as the person I had know. Tons of meanness, rudeness, insults, put downs, ingratitude, and bipolar anger popped up.
@ianhop
@ianhop 4 жыл бұрын
@@majorronaldmandell7835 That just sounds like women everywhere
@majorronaldmandell7835
@majorronaldmandell7835 4 жыл бұрын
Ian Hopper: Trust me, not even close. In the West, frankness is valued to a certain extent, and we are quite frank when speaking with others. We are accustomed to expressing our true opinions, and feelings with those we know at least fairy well. It is completely different in the Philippines. There, frankness is not valued at all, and in all conversation outside of the immediate family, even with best friends, frankness is very seldom express. Instead, people say what sounds good, as opposed to the true. In other words, people very seldom speak the truth, outside of the immediate family. Instead, they lie. You can trust nothing that is said to you. Filipinos do not expect the truth, because they themselves do not use it. Americans do expect the truth. If you know a Filipina for five years, you will still be hearing what sounds good from her as opposed to the truth. Once you are married, you become immediate family, and you will start to hear what they really think, and feel, and you won’t like it one bit. Where as before, she told you what a swell guy you are, how generous, how thoughtful, how kind, good looking, etc., now you will find that none of this was true at all. You will find that you are ugly, selfish, have a bad attitude, dress in a sloppy manner, walk wrong, sit wrong, you’re stupid, etc., and those are just the good things they have to say about you.
@garycampbell9079
@garycampbell9079 4 жыл бұрын
From listening to your life experiences previously and the depths to which you sunk before giving the Philippines a shot I must say how happy I am for you that you have found Jen and conversely how she has found you. Most of the negative comments you will receive about age difference and "red flags" I would dismiss as you are no fool and have the insight to know that if something feels right then it most likely is. I have been the victim of two Filipina scammers and from what I can see and hear from you and Jen there is no hint of anything other than a experienced man who is switched on and a conservative respectful girl who is happy to be with you long term. Good luck to you both.
@myendlesslove5120
@myendlesslove5120 2 жыл бұрын
Its so sad when u have good intentions and u end up being scammed. I feel you. Been there not just once but 3x. A lot of men coming here have multiple gf. So they have a choice.
@dexterday
@dexterday 2 жыл бұрын
Jee. That’s another train crash about to happen.
@robertdean4312
@robertdean4312 4 жыл бұрын
Mark, thanks for sharing your story. I been married to a Filipina for 37 years and sooo happy. I’m 68 now and believe for many more years. So your still fit and healthy and you have a genuine lovely lady there. So enjoy happiness together. Cheers Aussie Bob
@CalvinRoyHarrison
@CalvinRoyHarrison 2 жыл бұрын
Great interview. I really enjoyed listening.
@tracygrant9095
@tracygrant9095 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds real simple to me 'i like your skin colour' well I am black beauty and i love our skin colour..... lololol
@tracygrant9095
@tracygrant9095 3 жыл бұрын
Oh thats ok, I love my beautifill country Guyana!!
@mickeyrider2792
@mickeyrider2792 4 жыл бұрын
Surprisingly these relationships work, enjoy and have a great life together 😀
@justininarkansas7792
@justininarkansas7792 4 жыл бұрын
you are a very patient man to put up with so much non communication those first few days
@justininarkansas7792
@justininarkansas7792 4 жыл бұрын
@@GV-19871 I would not say desperate. I dated two women each who had each been in the convent for over 10 years, the first couple of dates were awkward, but at least they conversed easily. I was patient, but not with no talking
@xx2108abc769
@xx2108abc769 4 жыл бұрын
@@chicanoonthego 😁🤣
@robertlang8952
@robertlang8952 3 жыл бұрын
I LIKE HOW CUTE MODEST DECENT SHE IS, RESPECTS HER MOTHER, SO REFRESHING, she is a KEEPER btw idk why i cspslck but i'm not gonna change it now lol
@juneliad1160
@juneliad1160 3 жыл бұрын
I hope after 15 years she still cares..I find you good guy.....goodluck
@MrMediterrano
@MrMediterrano Жыл бұрын
I watched a video about the 100 most beautiful Philippinas and still found 2/3 of them not so special. When in Ukraine however, I often could not decide which girl to run after. On the other side, Philippines girls seem to be very nice and sincere which Ukrainian girls for sure aren’t. If I was in Philippines, I wouldn’t know how I would deal with the situation of liking the girls as a person without being physically attracted to them. Would my taste adapt to what is available so that I would end up being happily together with a Philippina or would I end up being frustrated and alone?…
@Jay-vr9ir
@Jay-vr9ir 4 жыл бұрын
I had a friend that moved to the Philippines and married a woman from there , he was shot to death . Be careful.
@fym7976
@fym7976 4 жыл бұрын
That will happened to you if you fool around!🤣
@kelbat1961
@kelbat1961 4 жыл бұрын
Good video. It started off a little slow but at the end her personality emerged. Congratulations to you both.
@ianhop
@ianhop 4 жыл бұрын
Similar to their relationship haha. I don’t think I’d have the patience for a girl like that
@Wolff13
@Wolff13 3 жыл бұрын
Patience is a virtue.
@Connor_Dempsey
@Connor_Dempsey Жыл бұрын
She is so cute, in a sincere sweet way. Best of luck. I wish I had a sweet Filipina female instead of my mean ungreateful "feminist" American female. I will dream about meeting a sweet Filipina female like her. Thank you.
@michaela.abbott222
@michaela.abbott222 4 ай бұрын
Nice. Glad for the two of you. She's a keeper.
@kelcat34
@kelcat34 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I believe that she never was asked out on a date, cuz there's so many beautiful women in the Philippines that a lot of women get lost in the sauce. A lot of women in the Philippines and in Thailand don't know that they're beautiful cuz there's so many beautiful women.
@horacesubayar794
@horacesubayar794 3 жыл бұрын
So she was looking for a foreigner with white skin to form a relationship with? I truly don't know what to comment on because I don't understand the culture over there so my advice to you if you want it is to GO SLOW.
@ervincuarteros735
@ervincuarteros735 3 жыл бұрын
Boss, if you have any trouble with Jen. Contact Tulfo. If her family tries to control or influences your relationship better set things straight. But anyways, best wishes for both of you sir. Hopefully Jen stays humble and faithful to you.
@HankHill757
@HankHill757 4 жыл бұрын
American dating vs Filipino dating is different. She seems like a nice conservative girl, just young, insecure and doesn’t have the experience age brings like you have. Take it slow, get to know each other well and treat her well. She’s a beautiful woman and will get more confident and worldly as you guys do more together.
@nhatevi1972
@nhatevi1972 Жыл бұрын
I agree
@michaeldemarillac9992
@michaeldemarillac9992 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations, Philippines has a different culture and a different way of looking at the world, including with age differences and even when westerner's bring their new brides to our western country it works, provided you haven't picked one that is out to cheat and play games from the outset, thankfully they are easy to spot. What is more scary is the angry divorced women we have to choose from back home (not all are like that but rare ones are hard to find). They won't even look at you unless you pass the asset third degree and you don't even rate if you don't conform, have the right car, right job, conventional home etc. They want you to provide for them as a sort of entitlement. They find it easier to bail than work through issues because there is the comforting knowledge that they will walk away with your assets and so they take your money and on it goes.
@markmoody5624
@markmoody5624 3 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one that was feeling extremely anxious watching this? At the end I'm starting to understand and really like Jenny and her humble demeanor. But am I the only one that felt like this?
@markmoody5624
@markmoody5624 3 жыл бұрын
@@everymanhasastory oh, thanks for answering my question to your viewers. Lol. But, I also want to say, I respect your decision to find peace in your life. The anxiety I was feeling was simply because you chime across to me in this video as a controlling individual. I'm probably not correct and I hope I'm am. But just thought I'd explain my feelings. I wish you guys the best.
@TheTwinkletoad
@TheTwinkletoad 4 жыл бұрын
I find this video with her very interesting. its really neat being able to see a bit of her culture from her point of view. it opened my eyes up to a few things I never thought about. :) congradulations you two.
@mannytorres9179
@mannytorres9179 4 жыл бұрын
I was in the US Navy for 20 yrs and have had so many friends with different colors. I just wanted to thank all foreigners who married Filipino women. I'm proud to be FILAm. I'm now residing in Cavite City but going back and forth to 🇺🇸 to visit my 2 daughters and their family. Best of good luck to both of you.
@riderretired5258
@riderretired5258 4 жыл бұрын
Spent a lot of time in Cavite City. Did 5 years there on shore duty (2 different tours) both in the 60's. Will never forget all those good times. Best duty station at Sangley .Point a sailor could dream of.
@ladydragonpropertiesforsal6700
@ladydragonpropertiesforsal6700 4 жыл бұрын
I felt so sad reading negative comments about jen. I met het a couple of months ago. To all the bbashers out there. Look yourself infront the mirror and ask yourself who is the real U!!! Jen is a young kind hearted woman. And Mark is a much older guy for Jen. So what? Its their life. If theyre happy being together then leave them alone!! Who are we to judge them? There are lotts of couple who are same age, but the question is , are they really happy being with each other? The result, they end up cheating, divorce, what else? . This wotld is full of hypocrisy!.
@sundazzle8745
@sundazzle8745 4 жыл бұрын
Well said Mhelite
@sundazzle8745
@sundazzle8745 4 жыл бұрын
@Van peter It's so unfortunate that a lot of people are so judgmental 😔
@sundazzle8745
@sundazzle8745 4 жыл бұрын
@Van peter I'm glad that you did not go through with you bad thoughts. I can't wait for us to retire in the Philippines in the near future. God bless you and your family..
@casamiraloveinit9172
@casamiraloveinit9172 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly right, love is does not matter about the age ,It matters about the attitude and the understanding each other. Eventhough the same age or rich guy and the guy has bad attitude the girl will stay away no matter she's inlove the person.The attitude and understanding each othe is the most important to have long lasting marriage.
@davidg.2217
@davidg.2217 2 жыл бұрын
JEN IS DUMB. HE IS DELUSIONAL.
@joemann5353
@joemann5353 4 жыл бұрын
Lucky you, you found an original filipina uninfluenced by western style mindset.. thats the most exciting about our filipinas. You should never rush them.
@KajDalfall
@KajDalfall 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing.
@richardibanez6462
@richardibanez6462 4 жыл бұрын
She’s a very nice lady with typical but honest Filipino girl character on a dating situation. Good for you man! She’s a good one. 👍
@sundazzle8745
@sundazzle8745 4 жыл бұрын
She was raised in a very conservative background 😊 this kind of filipina still exist, specially in the province.
@curtneilson5502
@curtneilson5502 2 жыл бұрын
"Of course I want white" lol ouch; yeah, i've met many pinay throuh the years in Hong Kong and most prefer lighter skin.....Congrats, you guys make a lovely couple and give me hope
@jimgall3725
@jimgall3725 4 жыл бұрын
Unless you are long term cross-culturally experienced, you might not appreciate this video in its true dimensions. Her situation and viewpoints are considered very normal here. This is NOT what most foreigners are expecting, but should be aware of. Excellent and candid presentation. Thank you for revealing a reality.
@01samig
@01samig 4 жыл бұрын
You got a genuine good girl right there. 👍🏾
@lesliesalmon6116
@lesliesalmon6116 3 жыл бұрын
Really? Her dating criteria is "foreign and white"?
@lynnnguyen30
@lynnnguyen30 3 жыл бұрын
Leslie Salmon Exactly She’s either still baby, pretending innocent and homie girl. She knows men would love that and that how she got him.
@macray63
@macray63 3 жыл бұрын
If pilipina intruduced you to her family it means shes is serious,but if not shes probably one of those hustler working in tha bar
@joyfullypacinglife8847
@joyfullypacinglife8847 4 жыл бұрын
I don't believe that she never had a date in her life before this relationship. She's obviously lying...looks like she had other foreign boyfriends already. This guy is sooooo naive!
@angelolimcangco646
@angelolimcangco646 4 жыл бұрын
Man let me tell you something , I’m not putting down Filipino women but in reality THE ONLY REASON THEY GO TO FOREIGNERS it’s because of STABILITY PERIOD !!! So they can leave the Philippines and SUPPORT their families that’s it so it’s really a sacrifice but in return you get their LOYALTY . So it’s really a winwin situation for both of you if you want to look at it in a good way .
@elsatabud8827
@elsatabud8827 4 жыл бұрын
Hello Sir I am a British man living Mindinao Philippines with my Filipina partner. I am 64 and my partner is 43. I think we all should not pass a judgement on your relationship. We do not know from watching this Video how she feels about you. When a Filipina in love with a man it is easy to know. My only suggestion is that you watch and observe how a Filipina in love reacts.
@pvnlouie
@pvnlouie 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Elsa, you make a very interesting point here: "My only suggestion is that you watch and observe how a Filipina in love reacts." Guessing you are a Filipina too, so am very curious to hear: how one in love reacts, and what we should look for "When a Filipina in love with a man it is easy to know".
@billt8075
@billt8075 4 жыл бұрын
I was DYING from laughter when you commented about the cold water. 😂😂😂 my wife is exactly the same way. I lost my coffee when you said you google things she believes. Because I do the exact same thing!! I think you definitely should have her on for more videos. She can be of a lot of help to your subscribers giving her input on why Filipinas think, act or do what they do. Able to explain the culture etc. To the bashers out there putting their noses in business you have absolutely no reason to be in? Live and let live. If THEY are happy is ALL that matters and should matter. No reason for your hateful words and comments. Best of luck to you both Mark. Be safe.
@jazztocountry1047
@jazztocountry1047 3 жыл бұрын
It is common for people to use websites nowadays. Twenty five is old enough to know what she wants. Does she like your height as well?
@allenpew8544
@allenpew8544 3 жыл бұрын
It’s basically true about the cold water . It the real problem is drinking cold drinks with greasy foods because the oil or grease conceals and will just add to the fat you already have .
@healthydeliciousvlog3044
@healthydeliciousvlog3044 2 жыл бұрын
Your wife speak good English
@CogitoTesting
@CogitoTesting 4 жыл бұрын
She is a very shy woman who likes to keep things to herself. Anyway I wish you guys all the best: Much love and happiness.
@tonylee7291
@tonylee7291 4 жыл бұрын
Very nice chat. She is a lovely woman. I wish you both a happy life. When she gets her channel. Let us know
@raineedaytinyfilms
@raineedaytinyfilms 3 жыл бұрын
I’m from the USA and I’ve always loved older men (Steady, not wild, kind from experience) and I married one!
@kabysummit5801
@kabysummit5801 3 жыл бұрын
Wow eye opening about the dating culture differences
@HeritagePianos
@HeritagePianos 3 жыл бұрын
Think she loves you? 😂 Your time will come buddy.....😌🤣😅😁🤓😎😆🤣
@miketurpin4959
@miketurpin4959 2 жыл бұрын
All I can say to the guys is DO YOUR RESEARCH. Be careful and watch out for red flags and don't be so quick to trust the first beautiful woman that sweet talks to you. Not all Filipinas are honest and we men are pretty dumb when a beautiful woman comes into our lives. Just be careful guys cause not all situations will be as great as mine or the guy in this video
@rogeruk9263
@rogeruk9263 4 жыл бұрын
She seems genuine lady look after her and treat her with respect, don’t worry about being worlds apart with cultural differences. Filipino women are loyal and very hard working. Best wishes. From a man whose married to one.
@heartoftexan
@heartoftexan 4 жыл бұрын
Ako din.
@catman3953
@catman3953 4 жыл бұрын
Not all Filipina women are the way you say they are. You need to watch more of these videos.
@mariaelenalagunay1123
@mariaelenalagunay1123 4 жыл бұрын
I agree
@mariegalang9674
@mariegalang9674 4 жыл бұрын
Generally speaking...there are also some nuts hahahah
@GSXSF-250
@GSXSF-250 3 жыл бұрын
I experienced a bad apple 🍎....
@jenbill
@jenbill 4 жыл бұрын
Big age difference may want to slow down a little 4 months already engaged to fast, no doubt she likes foreigners they provide the best opportunity to rise above the extreme poverty many Pilipino families struggle with. Nothing wrong with wanting a better life who doesn’t, perfectly reasonable for her to try and achieve, as long there is trust and absolute total honesty between both of you then you’re on the right path. I’m American and met my Filipina wife in similar fashion this was done before internet all by correspondence, would take about 3 weeks to receive reply, this is where trust and honesty come in, life is a gamble but can only win if you play. I brought her to the U.S and been happily married for 23 years now, good luck just take it slow.
@yvonnemarais7671
@yvonnemarais7671 4 жыл бұрын
what was your age difference?
@jenbill
@jenbill 4 жыл бұрын
@@yvonnemarais7671 I forgot to include this 15 years, now that I’m 60 she is 45 really doesn’t seem much of a difference the older you get.
@danielbianchi3479
@danielbianchi3479 Жыл бұрын
You got very lucky, a True Blue Filipina! Shy, but totally as real as they come! Merry Christmas to you both!❤❤❤😂
@colman9635
@colman9635 4 жыл бұрын
She seems like a very nice woman. Good luck to you both
@SuperstudentAcademy
@SuperstudentAcademy 4 жыл бұрын
she is honest. most filipinas are genuine and family-oriented... only a few really are "scammers"
@jeffuk3940
@jeffuk3940 4 жыл бұрын
I've been to the Philippines many times over the last 8 years. Its a great place for a vacation. I will admit I have met many women there in the past. But in reality I always preferred to be on my own long term. Your a 65 year old male with a poor financial track record. You have hooked up with a woman 40 years younger than yourself and are calling her your fiance. She has had no past experience of the opposite sex. As exciting as it may seem the reality is with lack of birth control used in the Philippines children can be a consequence. My point is does a 65 year old man need more financial burdens.
@canderson718
@canderson718 4 жыл бұрын
Hopefully he's had the "snip snip" procedure
@feexits2478
@feexits2478 4 жыл бұрын
No/
@jeffuk3940
@jeffuk3940 4 жыл бұрын
@@canderson718 Its so easy to fall in love with the first one you meet. Better off meeting a few in the beginning otherwise history will end up repeating itself
@CoachatCole
@CoachatCole 4 жыл бұрын
Nailed it.
@jeffuk3940
@jeffuk3940 4 жыл бұрын
@Lesley Hughes Yep 👍
@ronadexplorer1362
@ronadexplorer1362 4 жыл бұрын
She’s such a nice person and her honesty and sincerity is there.
@rudolfgolezpianist4322
@rudolfgolezpianist4322 4 жыл бұрын
I've been looking for a channel like this! Thank you for this real life sharing on The Philippines
@alarefcoby3874
@alarefcoby3874 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t think she likes you
@pedrotinaco1
@pedrotinaco1 Жыл бұрын
We're glad for you two. Great conversation.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@TheMarkaaa
@TheMarkaaa 4 жыл бұрын
well done mark ,, shes a sweetheart ,, sweat and innocent 11 good luck in the future with her
@steinar8182
@steinar8182 2 жыл бұрын
You are both wonderful people!
@sirliner8035
@sirliner8035 4 жыл бұрын
She "showed up right on time"? Dude, you've got a keeper. That's rare as hell for a Filipina 😉
@xx2108abc769
@xx2108abc769 4 жыл бұрын
@@everymanhasastory... I'm not putting you down Mister but I'm trying to make you aware of the tactics of some of the filipinas. Live yr life enjoy the remaining years of yr life "happy" by not being a victim.
@henryyu4987
@henryyu4987 4 жыл бұрын
Its common here especially in the province for filipinas are still single and havent had a date.
@xx2108abc769
@xx2108abc769 4 жыл бұрын
@@everymanhasastory perfect relationship in a short period of time! Yea sure! You are a perfect match!
@xx2108abc769
@xx2108abc769 4 жыл бұрын
@@everymanhasastory 😂😁😊😅
@pvnlouie
@pvnlouie 4 жыл бұрын
@@everymanhasastory She came across as genuine. That was smart of you (sought out only nice country girls). This is first time watching your vids here, but I'm guessing you are not in the countryside. Is she just a "country girl" in the city?
@pattywest1
@pattywest1 3 жыл бұрын
What a lovely conversation
@OPMfan65
@OPMfan65 4 жыл бұрын
1:00 Filipino Cupid, wow that's where I met my wife online back in 2012. My wife and I got married in 2013 so we've been together for 7 years now. Time really flies. I'm Filipino and grew up in the Philippines at the bigger urban area of the country i.e. Baguio City. Watching your interview with Jen, I sense the conservativeness of women from the provinces compared to a woman who lives in the City like Manila. The conservativeness of Filipina women could be due to the Maria Clara Spanish influence to our culture kind of thing.
@healthydeliciousvlog3044
@healthydeliciousvlog3044 2 жыл бұрын
Understand the filipina culture and beside in the province you are so BLESS she is very Good lady
@robertc.fisher3214
@robertc.fisher3214 4 жыл бұрын
I liked your interview with Jen, she seems very shy but she was starting to open up at the end. Good luck to both of you!
@salustianosuay8381
@salustianosuay8381 4 жыл бұрын
I guess she is still even virgin.
@barbaracook7142
@barbaracook7142 3 жыл бұрын
@@salustianosuay8381 why us that your business?? Very rude
@dave261055
@dave261055 3 жыл бұрын
Wow she is so lucky she’s won the lottery and he’s lucky he doesn’t have to look at a woman his own age real true love
@catherinemorris908
@catherinemorris908 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, true love at its best.
@ateviemacs7114
@ateviemacs7114 3 жыл бұрын
I have so much respect young ladys at your age still ask permission from your parent,that's very filipino...because now a days "GIRLS" think they can decide and just do what ever they want( but not all tho)
@alfredolopez4621
@alfredolopez4621 4 жыл бұрын
Lol ! ! ! Hypocrisy. . . Or game how ever you want to call it. Taking advantage of the ignorants just like the religious organizations.
@chuck5555
@chuck5555 4 жыл бұрын
One of the best interviews I’ve watched. Y’all had me laughing the whole way through. Thanks 🙏🏻
@iloiloguy
@iloiloguy 4 жыл бұрын
I hope that when I arrive in the Philippines, I’ll find a nice lady like her who isn’t hung up on white guys. I’m a US citizen, but I’m not white. 👍🏽
@terryashley4674
@terryashley4674 4 жыл бұрын
I'm about the same complexion as Jen; maybe a tad darker, but I'd never be mistaken for being white. I don't have a problem with my skin color, but I have heard from many Filipinas that white skin is preferred. Actually, I don't get it. Filipinas are gorgeous, absolutely gorgeous and they're not white. 🤗
@jamitall5158
@jamitall5158 4 жыл бұрын
HaHa!! I meet my Girlfriend...OH , I mean My Fiance!.. four months Ago!! .. @ .55 You are Crazy!!
@terripeek2346
@terripeek2346 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t know why but Filipina have this thing with white skin! Lol I’m married to an African American and we’ve been married for 12 years, my family moved to America from the Philippines when I was 12.
@garetttayler4247
@garetttayler4247 4 жыл бұрын
SHE SEEMS PLEASANT ENOUGH BUT SHE SEEMED A LITTLE BORED. HOPE THEY CAN FIND SOME COMMON GROUND FOR CONVERSATIONS. WITHOUT GOOD COMMUNICATION ON ALL LEVELS--SERIOUS, PLAYFUL, SEXUALLY INTIMATE--THEY COULD BOTH GET BORED WITH EACH OTHER
@faltio69
@faltio69 4 жыл бұрын
Garett Tayler Dude she is 25 he is 65!
@johnhop9354
@johnhop9354 3 жыл бұрын
Garett Tayler I’m a Korean woman married to American man 35 years. When I met my husband I was 25 years old just graduate college. Hard to believe her childish talking and action. Cultural difference???? Lol. And even she attend college????? What’s her job?? No chemistry!!! But sure he looks like gentleman. But we all know truth. 25 years vs.65. So, don’t ever ask her why she chose him. -Not my bus.lol.- I liked his other videos because he was simply very honest about his life.
@boelong4428
@boelong4428 4 жыл бұрын
I am pure blooded Filipino and I am 6"3 how about that? Except my skin,it's so dark, got sun burn all the time, maybe she's not into me also,,you may be lucky bro, ,she's mean and straight to the point about the "skin color" but to tell you,,majority of filipina women doesn't have the same preferences.,but it's the fact that both Filipino men and women are open minded,,we embrace any race of any color and we are all human of same species after all
@samella35
@samella35 3 жыл бұрын
Self love is the highest priority. Melanin is a blessing. Hope her elder companion educate her of same.
@ag4allgood
@ag4allgood 2 жыл бұрын
Nice Mark , I think that was your best interview EVER ! Jen is so whole some & even though she didn't show affection until much later in your dating its a glimpse inside a very nice Philippina women who lived in the province. It is great to get that insight. Jen is a treasure !
@misslopez88
@misslopez88 4 жыл бұрын
Wow she’s a good listener and attentive👌🏽
@theexperiment8498
@theexperiment8498 3 жыл бұрын
I was married 22years to Filipina. I laughed when he said no one spoke on the first date. I had the exact same experience🤣😂🤣
@weliveinsf
@weliveinsf 4 жыл бұрын
The Philippines was colonized by Spain for 400 years and a few decades by the US, there's still remnants of "colonial mentality " white race is something to be looked up. A lot of filipnas want to have a mestiza/mestizo children, a better chance in life. It's not all about love, it's financial...love comes later. It's a second chance in life for the guy and a better life and future for the girl and her family. Good luck guys.
@shortandlongterminvesting6979
@shortandlongterminvesting6979 4 жыл бұрын
You’ve been dating for four months and now are engaged? Go slow
@tedbell7960
@tedbell7960 4 жыл бұрын
Jedi He wasn’t her first, he wasn’t in the top ten
@mr.friendandcompany6329
@mr.friendandcompany6329 4 жыл бұрын
In the Philippines many couples get married quickly when they met. Women there wear their heart on their sleeves. They commit fast. It's not uncommon.
@LoveBeyondTheSea
@LoveBeyondTheSea 4 жыл бұрын
We got married in less than eight weeks. It all comes down to commitment.
@Philmeupgm
@Philmeupgm 4 жыл бұрын
@@mr.friendandcompany6329 not at all I'm 5 years relationship with my boyfriend but I am not that in a hurry to live with him I love those moment we're still dating 😍 🇦🇺🇵🇭
@hirofan
@hirofan 4 жыл бұрын
I knew my wife two months got engaged.. big mistake >__
@richieredw2142
@richieredw2142 4 жыл бұрын
I don't know, has she never been on a date before at age 25 years? You mean she's a virgin? That's hard to believe, but ok I hope it will work out between both of you, and that she's not in this for the cash
@carmenm.rodriguez2440
@carmenm.rodriguez2440 4 жыл бұрын
I have a friend who met a who met a young woman from the Philippines, married her, and after a few years, found out that she had a not one but two previous marriages, and no divorce... Be very aware, do your research...
@romeodeguzman9041
@romeodeguzman9041 2 жыл бұрын
Not possible now. When anyone gets married nowadays, the government will require tgat both parties submit a CENOMAR or the certificate of no marriage..you can only get that from the government agency NSO or the National Statistics Office..
@paulcarlisle7892
@paulcarlisle7892 3 жыл бұрын
That’s great. She is very nice. A bright little spirit. Hope I’m as lucky. It pays to take your time. Thanks for sharing.
@yavuzadam5766
@yavuzadam5766 Жыл бұрын
Allah please help get me out of this hell America I am an immigrant that is stuck in America I would give my whole life to get out of this hell called America I don’t have my passport because my country Turkey 🇹🇷 doesn’t want me America not a citizen yet I hate dating scene in America it’s trash. Please Allah give me a good wife and peace of mind American woman are 304s I want to come to Philiphines I can pay $20 k just to get a chance to travel there and stay there
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory Жыл бұрын
Don't give up
@yavuzadam5766
@yavuzadam5766 Жыл бұрын
@@everymanhasastory thanks 🙏
@sct4040
@sct4040 4 жыл бұрын
He doesn't look 65, much younger . Race and age is not that big a deal. She is brave to date him, a foreigner though. I think most women just want a nice guy who would treat them well, not necessarily rich. Jen is a very old fashioned woman, and young for her age. American woman are very old for their age. By 25, they are like 35 years old.
@buddylewis2743
@buddylewis2743 4 жыл бұрын
That was a good interview. I feel like I got to know a little bit about you two and how the relationship developed. Good luck and best wishes.
@colemant6845
@colemant6845 3 жыл бұрын
What do Filipino men think about these old Western Guys taking their women???
@yvonnemarais7671
@yvonnemarais7671 4 жыл бұрын
He is too old for her !She will have to put up with him whilst still young. In the end Is it about MONEY and EASY LIFE?Sorry but I cannot help wondering about that.
@stevec3291
@stevec3291 3 жыл бұрын
congratulations guys! Do take care.
@orejasshellane8489
@orejasshellane8489 4 жыл бұрын
Shes not looking at him.😂😂😂
@duhhawaiian
@duhhawaiian 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you. She's sweet.
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