How we're Coping with our Failed IVF Cycle Grief

This has been an incredibly challenging couple of weeks and we wanted to share how we've been coping with our unsuccessful embryo transfer in the hopes that it might help some of you out there.
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How we're Coping with our Failed IVF Cycle Grief
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[@ClaireSara]

Thanks everyone so much for your love and support ❤

[@Louis--]

It was yesterday when I last checked to see I hadn't missed anything. I'm still in awe of how open you have been. Sending love.

[@themcsaras]

Thank you so much for your beautiful support, we are so grateful ♥️

[@ElleNaturally]

❤❤❤❤ ohh no, just read the vid title and I’m already heart broken. Thinking about you both and sending 🫶🏽

[@ClaireSara]

Thank you ❤ it’s been a rough patch but we’re hopeful for our next attempt ❤❤❤

[@themcsaras]

Thank you ❤️

[@karensara3697]

Sending Lots of Love & Hugs to Our Beautiful Girls 🥰🥰 So Pleased I Got to Have Some Real Hugs Last Week 😘😘

[@ClaireSara]

Love you Mum ❤

[@themcsaras]

Love you Mum/Mama K ❤️

[@saralange1579]

What a beautiful and honest sharing of your experiences. You're both so adorable and charming while giving us your raw perspective. I found this episode heartbreaking and up-lifting. ALSO! Massive samesame on the unreasonable anger outbursts. When I have a pain or unacknowledged emotion it tends to spring out randomly over something unrelated and minor and it always focuses on my husband. He's my safe space and working on finding healthy ways of expressing/venting those emotions is a jouuurney. Thanks so much for giving us this slice into your lives. Love and miss you both dearly XXXXX

[@themcsaras]

It is such a journey indeed! Love you and your beautiful fam so much and love that we’re all forever learning and growing and working it out. Perfectly imperfect 😅💙💙💙

[@sabrinaoliver3099]

Such open hearted and vulnerable sharing ❤ Sending mountains of love to you both and trust in divine timing. Xxx

[@themcsaras]

Thanks Sabs 🩷🩷 we love you so very much 💚

[@Louis--]

It's so hard when you're watching someone else do a painful thing when you can only watch. My partner had to be lanced for blood tests every day and you feel very guilty.

[@themcsaras]

That must have been so difficult. It can be challenging in different ways whether you're the person going through it physically or supporting that person through it all. Sending love your way.

[@ninadaggett]

I’m so sorry but thank you for sharing. I had a facebook friend this week say she has done 5 IVF treatments and was devastated and hearing it on video makes it easier to understand from someone who has never done IVF. I wish I knew earlier to understand more about some friends who have gone through this and I would have given more love and support

[@themcsaras]

Thank you so much for sharing that, we are so glad that our sharing can be helpful in such a way. Sending love your way and hope you’re doing well 🧡 Thanks so much for watching 🥰

[@shannonhagen]

Got the timer set and I’ve been pretty sad you’ve had to go through this and I’ll be very much wanting to be here with you both ❤

[@themcsaras]

Love you Shannon ❤️❤️❤️

[@owenmcdermott7356]

Call Leah and Nina my heart goes out to you both. I know how you must feel although I never had to experience anything like this in my life but I know that you will prevail in your quest. I have a child. You both deserve this wonderful experience, and I feel in my bones that this will happen, I have so much admiration for what you’re both are doing. I truly love you both and wish you all the best. I know there are happy times coming God bless Owen❤❤😮

[@owenmcdermott7356]

My previous post was directed toward Claire and Nina. Sorry for the typo. God bless.

[@themcsaras]

Thank you so much for your beautiful comment Owen, it means a lot. We’re so grateful to have such lovely generous people like yourself following along with our journey 🩷❤️💜

[@jakeholmes9296]

So sorry to hear sending y’all love.🏳️‍🌈🧡

[@themcsaras]

Thanks Jake ♥️ Sending love your way.