HOW WOMEN CHEAT AND WHY MEN CAN'T FORGIVE! The Hard Truth Revealed

[@ryanjimenez4472]

She is 100% right. A man with boundaries is what is respected.

[@Massimo_U]

she is right. period

[@jimarger8533]

If deceit is involved with the cheating then it is unforgivable.

[@Tinman3658]

This guy is a SIMP. Sad, Nadia understands this than him

[@mikedevonish3933]

Soooo, he thinks it's the man's fault. His argument sounds like one a woman would make. He cheated, as stated in the beginning, my analysis is he's over compensating for how he's 'wronged' women and feels he's in a position to 'teach' men Not to be him by way of SIMP behaviors. Thank you. Next time I'll charge.

[@jetts18111]

Spot on

[@honeylavender1122]

He keeps talking over her

[@ShaunyP26]

Matthew with the subtle victim blaming of the husband here. Nice job.

[@seniorvespa2743]

He struggles to listen when Sadia talks, he constantly interrupts her when she patiently waits and only then replies. It shows that he is not listening to her point and is coming from a space of being triggered or at least defensive. Surely a woman's take of female nature should be a learning opportunity for men, not a place to argue one's existing POV.

[@riddheshzaveri8103]

Everyone in the comment section say that Mathew does not listen to Sadia, Sadia is 100% correct. The thing is, Sadia talks about how women in general expect masculinity from men based on the evolutionary psychology. But Mathew talks about LOVE and Forgiveness in a relationship which is above Masculinity, Ego, Pride etc. In a way they both are correct but I think that Mathew makes more sense as he talks about the value of Forgiveness (which is a part of true selfless love). When someone very dear to you, cheats on you then it triggers intensive pain & suffering inside of you but at that moment you will have one of your two sides (EGO or LOVE - we have both of these in different proportions in us) that will make a decision. The ego wants to walk away to keep the self-respect & pride but the LOVE wants to forgive and keep the relationship alive.

[@gustavorubi3740]

Never!! a man that forgives a cheater is not masculine. SK is totally right

[@denisships2861]

She is right but her advise applies only for girlfriends, marriage isxa different thing. Marriage bond implies a chance for forgiveness cause bigger things are involved like kids, legacy, connection and generational wealth transmission. The sanctity of marriage obliterates the automatic Zadia approach. Ending a relationship like an alpha doesn't make you an alpha.

[@Kenoooobiiiii]

The fact that there are bigger things involved imo is exactly why there should be no chance for forgiveness when it comes to infidelity. The cheater made the choice to throw it all away for what...some strange? It's the cheater's way of showing you exactly what they think of what the other party provides.

[@skaraplis]

that dude is patheticm really, I mean he doesn't even know what a cheating woman is all about and poor Sadia mostt probably feels sorry for him

[@davewinterton4]

Matthew is pandering. Sadia is correct.

[@perceptions101]

He should open his ears and close his mouth…

[@leonelmartinez4135]

Women cheat because she doesn't respect him, the relationship or herself.

[@Antaeres]

I love how none of you ever talk about non monogamy. Humans are not inherently monogamous, that is a fact. Therefore there are plenty of people who are forced to believe monogamy is the only way, and perhaps shame themselves for wanting somebody else. I don't think people should be forgiven for cheating. People need to be educated about relationships styles and find ones that work for them - otherwise the person who actively chooses cheating is betraying and disrespecting you. Period point blank. Cheating is never acceptable. But also, let's please speak about relationships other than monogomy for once.

[@Lyle-fv9mm]

Non monogamy is single, if that’s the case, stay in your own house, pay your own bills, simples

[@mirkakondekova2398]

:)

[@JohnAckon-d2c]

Sadia is way too 1 demensional, she should check stats on relationships that have worked, when a woman cheats, and understand how it worked afterwards. I feel sorry for all the men she has advised in the past.

[@danielhamilton5094]

SIMP

[@willbain9130]

Are there any stats out there of successful relationships after the woman cheats? I've been looking & looking for some for years now, have found almost nothing. The reality of what Sadia is saying, at the fundamental level, is spot on.

[@JohnAckon-d2c]

@willbain9130 So if you haven't found any, that means you found the contrary? Most men, won't share such information, if they are willing to work it out with their spouses. Is really simple, a good woman, can make a bad choice, that doesn't define her. You also have to know that her clientele are goldiggers, who marry men for money, not good women.

[@desba3846]

Sadia is too one dimensional.

[@jusueg.3859]

forgive, be free, and love again ⛓️‍💥💜 you owe it to yourself 🪴