HOW WOMEN SPOT MEN WHO WATCH ADULT CONTENT?

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In this impactful episode of Impact Theory, Sadia Khan and Tom Bileyu explore the profound influence of pornography on men's relationship choices and self-esteem. Sadia explains how porn distorts the selection process, leading to dehumanized views of women and poor relationship outcomes. Tom shares his insights on overcoming societal influences and taking control of personal behavior. Discover how to align your values with your actions and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
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[@nahfhey2766]

It isn't always your fault you are the way you are, but it's your responsibility to fix it.

[@_munkykok_]

You tell them, nhafhey! 👍

[@user-zf8yl1fq7g]

Those women from those countries are looking for older men. You can't blame the men. You have said in the past choose the woman who chooses you.

[@ponokunishima1]

That’s one of the reasons why I deleted my Instagram account, so I wouldn’t get sucked in to following all those models I used to.

[@slylockfox85]

The part about not reducing whymen to a private part if you have experience with them couldn't be more wrong. It's experience with them that causes you to realize that most don't offer anything outside of their private parts.

[@thrilla72]

Oh sheeet

[@jacobclayton2954]

Eh. I thonks its a spectrum. Some are amazing. Some are not so amazing and some are right in the middle. Just like us men.

[@RJT-hp8vk]

@@jacobclayton2954

[@KtotheG]

Boom... she "womansplains" too much, at times. Sometimes, she's on point and other times, she's not. This is one of those times she's not.

[@ravilution]

Is it possible you're doing something that doesn't attract a quality woman?

[@gordongekko2781]

Q: How do women spot men who watch adult content? A: It's the men who aren't blind.

[@KtotheG]

Women watch it more than we do, but they're insistent on demonizing men for it.

[@cristinachaliandroi1369]

How men spot women who watch adult content😜(reality in reverse)

[@danielm4949]

Sadia, you are correct about your description in regards to problem solving! I find when I challenge myself regularly and develop a routine to solve a variety of issues, my motivation/energy levels increase.

[@stevehartwell1861]

100% projection here. Bushido.

[@gordongekko2781]

I cannot speak to other cultures, but in America it would be absurd to blame men for choosing the wrong partners since (social media + dating apps) have given women ALL of the options and left most men with none. Also, this will likely lead to the end of our society within a generation or two.

[@A_DANK_NUG]

Her accent is half her platform

[@KtotheG]

What about her beauty? The English accent is too ubiquitous to be exotic.

[@Formula-602]

@@KtotheG j

[@slylockfox85]

So blames corn industry (typical since YT is mostly men and she can't blame them or risk alienating them) but won't say anything about the whymen who make the corn, even though they are the ones complaining about the alleged ramifications of it. Then claims that life is too easy for men and has a more detrimental effect vs whymen. I disagree. We are literally witnessing what happens when life gets too easy for whymen. They believe that they don't need a man for anything other than physical needs and proceed to mate select accordingly.

[@justtekina6709]

i don't understand why anyone take her seriously she is exactly like that one femaloe cult leader that women worship i forgot her name but she had a thumbnail im sure you seen saying how to be rich

[@GoldKingsMan]

Ya. Did she Botox her cheeks?

[@KtotheG]

Her argument is more about male utility than anything. Women depend on male utility. If they can't use us, then that is a problem that needs attention and fixing.

[@danielcobbins8861]

No mention about romance novels, which is porn for women. Fifty Shades of Gray, anyone?

[@GoldKingsMan]

@@danielcobbins8861 Ya I remember news of women wetting themselves at the cinema watching that movie..

[@1091Floyd21]

Does it address the title of the video at any point?

[@Dan1ell]

Nope.

[@zibtihaj3213]

3:57 - there are a lot - combat training .... ju jitsu, boxing etc etc ... business ... the individual makes it happen

[@jameslaughton7479]

Not true what she says about desiring women of different cultures. It is the VALUES of the non-western women that are MOST attractive.

[@trueindividual1417]

THANK YOU. We didn't start out being attracted to foreign women. Our minds were closed off to those possibilities because once upon a time we had no NEED to pursue outside America. The social value has gone to SHIT so obviously we have to look elsehwere. Supply & Demand. This ain't rocket science and it's gone over her head, yet she has previous videos elaborating on the issues with Modern American Women so right now this sounds a bit contradictive.

[@srbaruchi]

Interesting comparison of porn and food. What holds true for both is that moderate, controlled (to use Tom's word) consumption of both is critical to staying physically and emotionally healthy. If the body and mind are healthy in most ways -- leading to a productive social life -- then periodic excesses of either food or porn should not be a problem. It's not the porn that is disabling young men. It's their reluctance (or inability) to actively pursue, experience, and appreciate real women.

[@michaelanthony4750]

clickbait

[@judithbatke3169]

Dear Sadia Khan, you´re right about so many things. Please stop filling your face. There is an egg-shaped bulge on your cheek, that doesn´t belong there. Please know you´re beautiful inside and out und you don´t need to mess with your face. A beautiful woman may age, but she doesn´t loose her grace and wisdom. So please please just let nature do its thing.

[@anonymissed3611]

True.

[@riccardomacedo2898]

He is right. I have high self esteem but I struggle with anxiety that affects my mood to be self confident on many occasions. That sucks! Nothing that a beer can't solve😂😂😂

[@daisyflower8362]

It solves it? For how long before you need another beer?

[@UTFapollomarine7409]

Your good bro we all have struggles not the same but we all in this dude God bless 🙏

[@riccardomacedo2898]

@@daisyflower8362 I was being sarcastic 😁but fortunately just one beer get me in the flow.. and it's good for me, because I do hate beer and alcohol in general. But you are right. Alcoholic drinks do no't solve anything. 😊

[@riccardomacedo2898]

@@UTFapollomarine7409 thanks bro🙏💪

[@Pursuit4happiness]

Idk what he saying has to do with title yep click bait

[@user-jw1bl4hq9j]

DO A FORENSIC ON THE MAN’ s COMPUTER AND IT IS ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW …HIS CHARACTER IS THERE ON THE WEBSITES HE IS 👀……

[@Harmony.faith1177]

I agree with Tom. Unfortunately, the environmental toxins and food is so inflammatory now that it affects the microbiome in the gut and is not only causing obesity but diabetes and chronic illnesses. I feel sorry for people who don’t understand this and deal with weight issues.

[@chrishamilton4999]

then, why are people living longer lives than ever before?

[@eeezdee5251]

We all have choices, although the circumstances in which we have to make those choices may not be of our choosing.

[@porcupinethree]

Many times is world u grew up in,,not all people can handle cities as some small towns not all resist digeneracy

[@Kwm-519]

Sadia has a terrible habit of not listening to other person and consistently interrupting them

[@timothywilson3253]

I know, if she was my girlfriend , we'd get into a lot of arguments because of her constant interrupting, the first time she'd cut me off before I finished what I was trying to say , Id have to tell her to stop that in an very salty way, Dont interrupt me !

[@pscnaxm]

THEY all do😂

[@axpulsion1944]

She is a narcissist

[@grumblydoore8551]

It’s cause she really thinks she’s right.

[@xuchilbara21392]

She is the typical "I know better because I am a unique woman with the ability to see behind a human" podcast girl. What has she achieved professionally? Is she a licensed psychologist / sociologist or any other kind of human science? Or is she the type of woman, who thinks she is an expert at relationships, because a lot of men wanted to get laid with her when she was young? Being desired sexually doesn't turn you into an expert. What are her credentials? P. S "my credentials are my life experiences" - don't count

[@VladislavBabbitt]

Why is it always the man's fault?

[@vishalwarraich9031]

Terrible No real insight

[@oldenoughtoknowbetter5824]

misleading title but some good points brought up in here I think Porn can destroy because you go home to hundreds of videos of asian and latin women vids instead of going out in the world and finding one for yourself

[@edb7742]

Virtually no fat people 100 years ago? This dude has never bothered to look at photos from the 1920s.

[@polishpimp4233]

the average man and is woman is definitely fatter today.

[@EnigmaticMindLLC]

1:39 they most likely have. The general public isn't given knowledge of most helpful technology/products until much later.

[@linaj63]

Great interview. just an observation. if you suddenly pile on weight and you aren't really sure what's going on, please get a blood test. Certain foodstuffs, if you are intolerant or worse, can lead to weight gain..

[@Raritytuber]

Interesting therory about the male selection process. But what then about female hypergamy? Haven't males always been attracted to something beautiful to look at before porn though, and females on the other hand someone strong to protect and support them and their children?

[@Pursuit4happiness]

Ppl with money can solve problems more a lot of ppl without it can’t even with knowledge

[@Diego.Talks.]

Very intelligent woman and well spoken

[@JohnSmithEx]

It doesn't matter how intelligent she is, when the title of the video is a clickbait. I clicked because I wanted to know how women spot men who watch adult content, and learned nothing about it. Isn't it great when persons with shady business morals lecture you about your ethics? Btw I love adult content, I am pretty sure that no woman can spot it, and in case she can, I don't care. I empower myself, without harming anyone else.

[@genovasquez8361]

What Does her face Look like with Zero make up???? i wonder how much confidence and self esteem she would have total clean face all the way natural

[@peterbaini8752]

So true! Make up should be banned! The only thing worse is filters

[@Anna-yw8yg]

Why do you care so much when all the women you are lusting over all wear makeup 😂

[@genovasquez8361]

@@Anna-yw8yg because I get tired of hearing sub par XX try to tell me. What we should think of how we should think. When they are not a spring chicken..

[@peterbaini8752]

@@Anna-yw8yg that's what you think but nothing beats el natural. Women think blowfish lips look good but in reality the jokes on them 😆 🤣

[@Dan1ell]

The title is a lie.

[@GoldKingsMan]

She over thinking the physical attraction stuff. Reduced to a vaj..

[@scarletlady3727]

I don’t think he thinks she is smart…he keeps correcting her.

[@ClutchGene]

He likes to hear himself speak

[@lapisletar369]

So does she lol. All these relationship podcasters are grifters and differentiate by a small margin. Sell their BS to naive listeners. This one isn't much different from Pearl, aside of having better looks

[@dr.akhilmuraleedharan]

People like when they're listened to.😊

[@Imagineunicorns_zm]

​​@@lapisletar369 You full of sh*t yourself. How do you say "naive listeners" when you constantly follow their content as well 😂 You can't always agree with everyone, it's impossible. But you can't always disregard everyone's views, because at some point they might say something meaningful. Hell even the craziest people say meaningful stuff sometimes 😅

[@mikep11218]

Most men watch that.

[@belmordok3661]

This woman needs to be reality checked by Myron.

[@crispycritter143]

Why? They'd probably agree a lot...

[@belmordok3661]

@@crispycritter143 Even so.

[@hardToSignUpHere]

I always thought *mansplaining* was a myth until I heard this guy... 😅😂

[@KtotheG]

She's womansplaining, though... so they're even.

[@hardToSignUpHere]

​@@KtotheG nope, it's her area of expertise

[@KtotheG]

@@hardToSignUpHere How is it not his?

[@hardToSignUpHere]

@@KtotheG dude, do your own homework!

[@KtotheG]

@@hardToSignUpHere Why are you mad? I'm curious.

[@RollingThunder808]

It's the growth hormones in our food that is making us fat. I assume it affect the embryo creating GMO humans. Also the puberty age drops.

[@thetruther954]

Not your typical lady’s man, you got here Sadia. I liked his note taking technique. “Ok, go on, I just made a bid. Let me write this all down so I can draw out the picture.” Level headed. I hope he does long-term just as well. Not mostly a one night stander. Seems like a very nice guy.

[@markosimionovic9802]

He is Tom Bilyeu, google him 😂

[@thetruther954]

@@markosimionovic9802 Tom Bilyeu you say? Did I get something wrong? How is that going to help me?

[@LaciRae]

he’s my type.

[@youngdylan5083]

@@LaciRaeCreep

[@LaciRae]

@@youngdylan5083 how so?

[@phalynwilliams4119]

Consuming p0rn is a sin. Stop watching it. Develop a stronger relationship with Jesus Christ ✝️ Please develop habits and relationships with people that are more spiritually, physically, emotionally and mentally fulfilling.

[@corydaughtery]

Mind your business pal...

[@danouchgarden1675]

I was thinking the same thing today funy isn t it ? Easy life makes weak men

[@wildbill562]

I've heard Sadia before on this topic, shaming older men for selecting younger women. This smells an awful lot like sour grapes. She is beautiful, but post-wall. She has a valid point about porn shaping our desires, but so does TV, movies, videos and social media. They always promote the most gorgeous people - male or female. Same could be said about women who read romance novels. That becomes their "dream man." Only problem is he doesn't exist. It's pure fiction. Men are smart enough to separate fantasy from reality. Many women are not.

[@danieldefonce]

Clickbait title that was not even addressed. I agree with her, but that’s some bullsh*t marketing. Plz do better

[@justinsutherland3606]

Don't be too hard on her, she's got some worthwhile insights. Big Pharma, food and Feminism have got a lot to answer for, interesting people seem to be realising it at the same time, awareness of the BS is massively rising atm and that's v positive

[@polishpimp4233]

I am tired of people just blaming porno for men's problems. I just with that women would admit that social media and dating apps are warping their minds too.

[@Mmmmkaaay]

Feminism is the reason why your mom isn't pregnant again with her 8th kid, living in a trailer. Enough with the anti- women sh*t. It's so boring.

[@basedpatriotLT]

Fake title of the video. Thumbs down

[@polishpimp4233]

Sadia is so comically solipsistic in this video. Notice the 3:30 point onward where she laments the lack of tribes and what not. Sure it's a good point but no where is there much of any mention about how women have been spoiled by the ease of life also. I just want women for just ONCE to admit that yes porn is a problem but so is social media and dating apps. The unchecked ego of women is a HUGE problem in the west.

[@edwinmoya8042]

All men watch that content or they should because it is great entertainment.

[@johnsmith1034]

Coomer gooner

[@1tavell]

when a queen speaks listen

[@facelessandnameless]

Stop calling women queens 😒 It’s pathetic.

[@_munkykok_]

Who even watches?

[@SuperEman500]

Everyone

[@johnsmith1034]

@@SuperEman500no

[@daisyflower8362]

Alcohol DOES NOT give self esteem 😂 dafuq.

[@Imagineunicorns_zm]

It does! The only difference is its temporary

[@emmal1138]

What about women who watch adult content? 😂😂

[@EnigmaticMindLLC]

666 likes

[@deandreorumorum14]

You are so gorgeous sadia 😍😍😍😍😍

[@Pursuit4happiness]

Ppl with money can solve problems more a lot of ppl without it can’t even with knowledge

[@markrobertson1224]

clickbait