How You Deal With A Lying Narcissistic Husband

[@izawaniek2568]

Rational approach is Absolutely vital. No emotions If possible. There is nothing you can do to change others, you can only change yourself. And the way to deal with narcisists is to have nothing to do with them.

[@fifilafleur5555]

💯💯💯 Yes, just get them out of your life for good.

[@TruthPrevails30]

I’ve done those things. Held him accountable, took over finances, presented evidence of cheating or at LEAST shady behavior. The result was promising to change, he became MUCH MORE sneaky, VEEERRY selective with his words and behaviors, got another phone and started tracking me more to time his shady ways so it all appears that he is accountable and open and changed.

[@Erica-wz8yv]

Wow. Super manipulative. I hope you left him

[@roselynferreira6255]

Wow. They get worse. No accountability on their end.

[@fifilafleur5555]

That is exactly why I left my cheating husband. I knew he would not stop cheating & lying to me. I knew he would only get sneakier. I filed for divorce as soon as I had proof and never looked back.

[@vallarygroda8602]

Yep , I agree .. with mine you have to be more sneaky meaning don’t let him know you’re on to him until you have all the information to use against him & are ready to leave.

[@wazzup3270]

🏃‍♂️ Run Fast

[@Mr60minor]

ABSOLUTELY!!! You're wasting your time, energy and love. All the while living in pure hell. A leopard doesn't change his spots. Everyone deserves truth, fidelity, peace, and reality in a relationship. Once trust is broken that bridge is forever tainted. Ones health, sanity, and existence are a priority. Live in peace.

[@mindsigh4]

🧱🤺 🙄😳

[@wolfpower1111]

Right to the Pap smear doctor.

[@wazzup3270]

@@wolfpower1111 Why! I haven't let no one touch me for more then ten years 🥳 Including the doctors they tried blowing me up, but luckily me I knew the one who made the 💥 🤪😊😁

[@liviaforeign6630]

I remember you from 2013! You saved me but at that time you were speaking on "Letting Go" and alot of relationship stuff like "How to control your emotions" I just came to say 10 years later I'm doing amazing!!! I was on the brink of giving up, BUT you helped me! For that I will always come back and thank you 📿

[@privacy9175]

I don't know you but l'm so happy that your life has meaning now. Thank you for giving me hope still too never give up. Take care ❤ Happy 10yrs.😊

[@marie-francemercier7800]

That is such well intended bad advice!| LOL. Firstly, giving ultimatums and trying to hold a narcissist accountable is pointless. Since they never feel their behaviours are never wrong, there’s no insight, no remorse or shame. 2) they don’t have empathy (or so little). They’re never sorry about anything, they’re just sorry they got caught! Lol. I caught my ex covert narc cheating numerous times. He was registered on numerous dating sites ( caught him red handed and had a stack of proof, screen shots, pictures etc…) in my hand when I confronted him, and yet still he denied everything. He was also regularly getting strange texts on his phone from all these women I never heard of. Again, when I confronted him, he lied. My ex covert narc also has a porn addiction. The fact is; I walked away 8 years ago. They never change. Giving them ultimatums, shaming them, threatening to leave , making them accountable, having rational discussions etc.. will not work and they’re pointless. It’s like trying to put lipstick on a pig: it frustrates US and it annoys them. We have to have enough pride and dignity and walk away and leave them. They do not change EVER!. They just learn to hide it better and get better at lying. RUN and save yourself!

[@barbaraketter7627]

No trust, no relationship

[@marie-francemercier7800]

@@barbaraketter7627 Exactly!!! For a relationship to exist and be viable, there has to be mutual respect, dignity, honest sincere and solutions-oriented communication. None of that can possible exist with a narcissist.

[@fifilafleur5555]

💯💯💯

[@matinaki1644]

Oh dear I wholeheartedly agree but I have seen one too many women justify their cheating because they are afraid to leave them and be alone. This is the real tragedy in this.

[@fifilafleur5555]

Narcissists are never single. Even when they are married. They are always on the prowl. Male or female.

[@ladyvirgo013]

Exactly 💯 I learned this the hard way being married to a covert 12 years

[@Dalal9911]

My narcissistic husband is the biggest liar on the face of the universe, and now that I got rid of him, it’s been nine months. He’s trying to destroy me and our children,he has no mercy.

[@therealwewin]

Why would you have kids with them tho? You would think you would caught on before it was too late.

[@therealwewin]

Sad world to grow up in without a father.

[@Jess-kn8vl]

​@@therealwewintroll

[@stylist62]

Sorry me also, told him go haven’t seen him 4 months no kids, he has kids with his ex. Tired of supporting him, he was even stealing my things selling them. I am so hurt🙏😭💔

[@lisaaustin4561]

Call the police lie if you have to! He lied to you for how long? Turn about is fair play.

[@HabibeBoyraz-hg2nk]

1. Risk of infectious diseases, money is disappearing from your account too(financial instability), put myself in danger such as risk of possibility of attacking by a psychopath or from a hostile people..

[@deedahl2866]

Everybody keeps telling me "you're not his Mom" but they seem to excuse that spouses still have a say-so or the right to hold their loved one responsible for how it affects the marriage and their own mental/physical health.

[@fifilafleur5555]

Best to just be done. The games will never stop... and the enablers in society are sick themselves.

[@Mandooze]

None of these will work because he doesnt care and will call your bluff if you threaten to leave or gain leverage. You need to DECIDE to leave. These people dont stop. They dont jump through hoops. You have no control over others especially narcs.

[@Alloniya]

He usually advise to leave the relationships

[@thecringeistoostrong]

I absolutely agree but i like the ones with this soft voice

[@gracejoy8854]

I got tired of it and left. Got into a relationship with someone who cared about me. No more drama. Best choice I ever made. It’s been 11 years of happiness now. I say don’t work on it. Leave. Save your time and sanity.

[@carefulcarpenter]

"Truth is context-driven; deceit is agenda-driven; those not interested in accurate evidence are not interested in truth. " cc. 👀 🐠 🌊 Show me where have it wrong, please.

[@johnjohnstone9805]

I shudder at the thought of any confrontation with anyone, particularly toxic people. And I don't feel strong enough to even use undeniable evidence in my defence, I'm conditioned to believe there is no defence but avoidance as best as i can, which isn't very good. But I do like to watch your videos anyway to be seeing what I have missed seeing, and have avoided dealing with, so I can pray to the heavens above for insight into my defects, and strength to begin dealing with them.

[@pamwhitehouse5961]

I know exactly how you feel. You can't even describe or defend yourself against these people. They either rage and make accusations, or stonewall you and cop silent treatments based on their projections on you to further make it out that you are the problem 😢

[@johnjohnstone9805]

@@pamwhitehouse5961 Yeah weakness and confusion marries weakness and confusion, I don't know if there is a way out, who is going to to be the healthier one, the strong one, the found one? Feels like quicksand where every movement only serves to pull you down further, seeing this activity seems pointless , I become couch bum, my world has shrunk so small.

[@louisemcelhill5748]

I just want to say that you are brilliant, Kevin. All the information and advice that you share is what I call, concrete. No fluff. I'm grateful. I think its probably too late for me. But your advice is sound, sensible, and people can put it into action. Well done on giving sufferers of narcissistic abuse a way to get their power back.❤

[@opheliahermosillo8420]

Am sad but he talk every thing about the narc husband

[@TrueImage_Vero]

I have been married for over 20 years. My husband had an affair for two years then when he got caught it took him a whole other year and a half to come clean. It's been 13 yrs since then I decided to forgive and move forward. However the years have not been easy. Now to make it worse it seems like there is distance again and no thought or consideration for my well being. He's all I've known and don't really have any family. I feel stuck, scared but most of all angry. I've done everything from calm discussions, yelling, writing letters, talking to family.... but it seems like there is nothing else i can do. I've been broken and damaged to where I don't think I will ever be the same person. But I will try and have faith that somehow there is nother way.

[@alionamarina7061]

@VeeCheif_Rocka, there is LIFE on the outside of your prison. It may look scary or hard but is where you will get your right on living, your chance for your happiness. You are you. Give yourself a chance. Be bold. It is more simple than you think. For us women, love is when a man respects, cares, listen, communicate, say us words that build us up not tears down. Words that makes our hearts fly. I know it. I have it.

[@TrueImage_Vero]

@alionamarina7061 You are so right. And I know I need to be more brave and ready for a change in my situation. A prison is definitely what it feels like at times. Thank you for taking time to comment and for the advice. I am glad you have a good sound relationship. That is definitely rare these days, but not impossible to find. 🙏

[@alionamarina7061]

Honestly, i lived with a narcissist just 1year.It was first time in my life I ever encountered such type of person. At the very beginning I thought hmm there is something strange about him, because in just 2 weeks he changed to “another “ person. Totally shocked me. But I didn’t know this people existed! I have learned my lesson. After a year when in a rage of anger he jumped on me and started choking me with both hands, I managed to escape and called for help. That was it. He was on a trial afterwards. I was free. And it took me another 2 years! To just recover psychologically from that. And I don’t dare ever imagine in what nightmare you could live right now. And the recovery you would need. But this is deteriorating in every aspect of life and your being. Fear and uncertainty and psychological damage. Please reach out to Kevin. He is the one who can help. Lots of love I wish to you. And a bright journey to healing!🌺

[@gracejoy8854]

@@TrueImage_Verochoose you. Leave. It may seem impossible because he has lied and manipulated you but the best thing you can do is get away from it. I left. I had no job, kids, no family to go to. Once you make the choice to leave, doors and opportunities open. There are people who can help and who will help. You have been gaslighted. That is a form of mental abuse and it makes you feel like you are unworthy and cannot take care of yourself. You got this. You deserve better.

[@aprilchow-chee5281]

Yeah there is. When you leave!

[@michignamymichigan]

If you are stuck in this, falling for their lies and excuses look at your mutual acquaintances. They are covertly lying for them. They may even believe the excuses or get a different story. Though it is difficult, facing the truth is good. Don't wait, years go by fast and it gets more difficult to see the truth. Use your decernment, it is a gift. You are worth it. ❤️

[@alionamarina7061]

I think what Kevin means is about not to “surprise” them by having and showing the evidence of cheating , they don’t feel anything! It is for us. So that is a “baseline “ when we can stay on and become stronger psychologically. Practical evidence and actions will help US not them. Here is the catch though what we need to understand, it may help us get out of the relationship easier! No emotions involved, no “love” no dependency! Pure wisdom- Out.

[@DawnaFlowers]

I just wanted to jump on here and thank you for your help. I feel so much better after our session. Thank you for your insights and kind words of encouragement. You are the best, Kevin!! Thanks SO much. If anyone is considering a session, just do it!

[@freeandfabulous4310]

Well done! I am actually in the process of doing All of this. Husband isn’t cheating but acts like a child, no accountability, untrustworthy. I set all these limits With therapy and AA. Good accountability.

[@mynameis1975]

Beware they are going to tell you whatever you want to hear just to fool you longer and better. Narcissistic people never stop deceiving. Yeah build that case WITHOUT HE KNOWS and file separation, kick him out of the door. Especially if you share children. That's the legal authority you have and it's great. Tell him you will withdraw separation only if he respects your conditions. Set your conditions high. Steal everything from him. And after that find excuses to keep the separation and drive him mad. That's it

[@shanar.7198]

Just leave and don’t not look back, they won’t change, if they do it is only temporary!

[@Rosetea405]

Best to cut your losses and leave, they will get angry when you find out and call them out. They will call you crazy for it even if there is a mountain of evidence and they will smear you

[@roselynferreira6255]

Just run. And run fast. I've tried this exact same thing with my husband who has cheated many, many times. I spoke with his mother who I got along with really well. She said, " oh, its just those women who want to get in between the relationship between you and your husband." 🤦‍♀️

[@deedahl2866]

Well. New hubby wasn't narc when we married almost a year ago, but about 6 months later he fell into drinking alcohol. Did not even know this had been a problem with him 8 years ago. PLUS I caught him looking at pornhub, he admitted doing this for YEARS and even when we had been working together in Alabama, where he had been almost for a year! He seems surprised when I said "If I had known these things about you, I would not have even considered you dating material, MUCH LESS MARRIED YOU, J E R K!!!!" He's become a compulsive liar now, even catching him at it does no good. I have motion detecting cameras where he parks and he KNOWS they are there, and still consumes alcohol on the premises (which is against the lease, Landlord can kick him out at any time). Thankfully, we have rented separate rooms; Landlord is not going to kick ***ME*** out! How ironic. I feel . . . betrayed . . . cheated on . . . misled . . . used . . . and abused through passive aggressive behavior (which he doesn't claim to understand because that would be admitting wrong). The fact that he will hide it, says he knows it's wrong. And violating his own conscience!

[@SaystheTruth3]

All men love Porn Hub....

[@quisquelladiaz991]

He just leaves to lie and hide things better 😮

[@hapennysparrow]

You divorce him, and walk away. Take the kids and move 1500 miles away. Never contact him again. He won't pay child support, so going after him is futile, because he'll work under the 1:14 table and lie about being employed. He'll convince his mother that he's the poor victim and she will buy him a house but keep it in her name so the courts can't touch him..Been there, done that. By the way, I found love poems in the pocket of the sport coat I bought him for Christmas. He never so.much as bought me a Valentine for Valentine's Day, and once bought me a cheese slicer for Mother's Day, because he did not like thickness of the cheese I cut when making him a sandwich. Yeah. Romantic love poems in his jacket pocket.

[@HelgaBebout-y4v]

I hope you don't cut me off....I listen to all of your videos....I think you are the best 99% in all areas....I trust and understand your heart. Thank you HE 👍❤

[@Js-wd6dr]

I know a girl that had a locator to see where he was but never disclosed to his mother or daughter this truth. Long story

[@BeverlyMullen]

I love the word objectification~~~ I saw the SOCIPATHIC NARC~~ that I was married to, as using women the same way he would a car~~~ New one, would be kept clean, showed off,cared for greatly! Then... not really wanting anyone else to have "his classic vehicle" so.... just parks it...hoping to DRIVE IT AGAIN someday ~~~~~ He even had a "TROPHY WIFE BOX" that I found😮~~~ Spot on, Kevin!!!!!!!!!!!! Marriage is NOT A GAME~~~ Men and Women are NOT TOYS~~~~~ It really is better to be ALONE, and peaceful. I did talk with a family member "one of his daughters" she confirmed all of what I was SEEING~~ She actually herself has gone NO CONTACT, and moved about five states away to protect her sons from his toxicity!🎉😊

[@nicholecornes1915]

Emotional cheating is the dam worst! When they flurt in front of you when they treat you like trash let them the hell GO!

[@Mandooze]

“Functional”😂 “not getting sick and not going broke” 😅

[@AA-lq5pu]

This was incredibly helpful! Thank you!

[@eunikewindycarolina7988]

Thank you for delivering God's message to me, i really needed it. God bless you🙏💖👍

[@sheilayagodzinski5747]

They don't want to wnd up with half the financial assets.

[@druchampion-payne1489]

Oh if I found condoms in our car then he'd be gone so fast ...no need for a conversation.

[@Bea-wb9uk]

If you make the attempt to ask for change and get nothing but rebellion against being accountable, it wont work. You can try, but if you fail, find a soft place to land.

[@jeanette5301]

Thank you! Your videos are very inspiring. The whole game of how dare you be angry with me because I hit you.... attitude is no bueno!

[@4freethinking]

I saw and heard the recently passed Pat Robertson who founded the Christian Broadcasting Network 700 Club, answer a woman who had sent a letter to him, asking him what she could do about her philandering husband. Pat Robertson, through national television, told her, "You might as well get used to it. This is just the way men are." Appalling!

[@flashlitestriker4028]

SOUL TIES -- aka "spiritual infection"! (getting the "soul ties" from whoever he's been out screwing around with, is a fourth reason!

[@fifilafleur5555]

I lived this. I hired a PI for proof because he denied when I confronted him and then told me I was paranoid. Once I had proof, I immediately confronted him, then called my divorce attorney. I told him to leave our home & we were divorced 3 months later. No one can live with a lying, cheating, manipulative spouse. The trust has been destroyed and, for me, I could no longer live in deception.

[@onlymekeels7217]

The worst is when children are involved, I was on anti depressants but was feeling good stronger, and because felt better the week before all this I stopped taking them,so by following week could feel self going down within myself my youngest at time @my parents. I had enough and told him on the Thursday night I’m done I was told I had no heart he has nobody and I’m gonna take away his son. I felt bad that I wanted to leave and he had no one.over the next few days was crying in my room.was collecting son from parents next day. It was sunny out and had a rotten table I was gonna try fix. Was sitting on ground and using a bread knife was easier to cut.he ask me to go on a walk I said I don’t want to just leave me be. I went in after washed up.again was asked to go on a walk by now I was mentally exhausted and someone I knew walked passed who was a trigger as well as him, he knew how to get in my head. Cut long story short he knew full well I wouldn’t I’m not that kind of person especially after like 7 yrs with our sonI said I feel like hurting someone I went bk to garden something was said under the arch I was still holding knife he bent little finger back I was screaming the pain. He then grabbed the knife of me by the blade, so had like a scratch. I fell into the trap he had me . He then pushed me to the floor and said going to police. I thought was joking

[@onlymekeels7217]

Next thing I knew 4-5 police cars police with bullet proof vests. I thought I was dreaming. This was real alright they took me to police station 11 hours later I was interviewed had mental health team assess me a little while after being there. I could of been put away for Abh or GBH once I told the officers about how he lied to his wife and me both become mentally ill god bless her soul May his wife RIP I believe this was my punishment yet I was 21 when met him he was 35.lied to both of us but I loved and stayed with him. Back to what happened with knife incident. Police released me no further action I had a fine and restricted from going home for few weeks. Still no depressants and crying went bk he took me to see mental crises team by now just didn’t want to be here any more. When I was their and he was asking questions he said it says on these records that u attacked partner with a knife and because a child lived with us,social service was now involved. After 2nd visit while she was there my son fell over and come running in straight to me and hugging me, she could see my son felt safe around me and said she won’t be bk she was satisfied I wasn’t a risk to my son. But I know for a fact if I would of walked away with our son,he would of taken it to court and got custody has was on mental health report about knife etc and because of mental health blah blah etc. So I wasn’t gonna leave my son! So I stayed and by staying I had been manipulated lied told I’m mad paranoid questioning my worth and myself. Everyone at his work thought him a great man. When kids out room would make snide faces and remarks I would react and would turn into a row and kids would hear me shouting and looked like I was starting on him, he played that game so well. I’m a shell of person I once was this is just 1 thing out of many so too all around and family I was one on meds and it’s all me. I isolated self from family old friends etc it’s done me emotionally and physically to point just not well etc, I’ve been thinking positively and it’s nice to know my son saw and noticed things to point wants me and him to move.I’ve never and wouldn’t make him not see his dad.I ain’t got that fear in me of him keeping our son,he can make up his own mind

[@onlymekeels7217]

And again things I hear all in my head. Now if in my head could you tell me. I’ve been told many times when I confront him I’m paranoid hearing things etc. Ok I get 3-7 times can be a coincidence but too many to count is taking the piss. To point our youngest can hear him whispering or if there is a noise and can’t hear see him mouthing words if talking but can’t hear. And also has noticed these coincidences. At end of day this thing could of had a family etc as his now 61 this year. Because my youngest don’t want to be here where his school is any more I’m trying to see if can get exchange near my parents and brother and family and finally be free from him. Ppl seem to think it’s all about money. They haven’t a clue. But yeah they can think what they want. I had no choice why stayed and if who ever wants him good luck😂 I would say I’d run but having inflammation illness and it affecting me to walk.as soon as I can I will var var voooooooom as far away from here as I can . But be warned u will need medication by the end of it

[@Godsends1978]

I don’t have time for that out of no one ☝🏼

[@susankaye3468]

I disagree. Ultimatums can create more danger because ultimatums appear threatening to a narcissist. My feeling is that there is no getting back to a trust situation.. one cannot change a narcissist. If the person wants to change they have to seek therapy. But the Individual who is in this toxic relationship must get out. As horrible as it may appear initially, get out. Things will get better in time and the person who's is at the end of the dysfunction will eventually be at peace. One has to get out and move on. Ultimatums do not work. Not with a chronic liar.

[@SteveJones379]

Yes, I agree. Ultimatums are threatening and will not resolve an issue with a narcissist.

[@trumpeterswan4177]

This was my experience. The act of giving an ultimatum just caused my ex to pretend and gaslight me even more and act as if nothing had happened which caused more confusion and kept me longer in his control. Only by action, by leaving the situation, did I find peace and safety, except then he took over the money and left me high and dry but at least I could see him for what he was, a cruel, mean, nasty person, which he did actually called himself, joking of course..

[@carefulcarpenter]

@@trumpeterswan4177 I told my wife that she is a dictator. 😁 I know what I married. I look back on the great things in my life, and do not try to change her--- she cannot change. What did she add to my life? Adventure. Two wonderful children. I have no regrets. A dictator is mush like a boss. She is a boss, and I have my independent ways that she will never be a part of--- like writing to you here on YT. I'm listening. 😎

[@Jessica-iq6kj]

​@@carefulcarpenterlol I like your perspective!! I feel the same!! Cheers

[@carefulcarpenter]

@@Jessica-iq6kj Before I met my wife, I had been engaged to a debutant from the Elite Society. They feared my honesty, integrity, work ethics, etc. It was a glimpse into the Ruling Class ways of controlling the People. My fiancé broke off the wedding--- I think she was pressuring me to fit into a league where her family had great influence. This also released me from any guilt. I appreciate my ex-finace for granting me the choice--- change my ways or stand for my principles and move on. I never envy the rich. ☺ My wife's family was totally different--- they loved a man like me. I was allowed to live my dream as a husband, father, craftsman, and move to California with their daughter--- no financial or social strings attached. The mother of my ex-fiance would have made our lives Hell, had we moved away from her controlling dictator ways. ☺

[@nicholecornes1915]

Thank her and run

[@speciallife2900]

Very very mind opening video thankyu kevin to explain in that manner .they play with fire but for sake of your children and your health plz make a escape plan🙏

[@rebecca8880]

Married and stuck in this because of children and financial reasons.

[@debscornercanada]

These 3 main issues are consistently in our minds are a "given".. and only grow worse and more intense ...with more time around them , but at least we can use them to build some sort of livable "defense". Telling the toxic family is almost never an option, i recommend telling THEIR support system ` ( choose long term monkeys).. and NEVER say narcissist or YOU will be called one and get nowhere fast .. (also be careful and choose a STABLE NON enabling monkey or all you'll get is them fluffing over it and making light of it (even with proof attached:(....(making it a million times worse) . Excellent as usual! #debscornercanada

[@stylist62]

Haven’t seen him Or heard of him 4 months, told him go I told him stay with your hoe, don’t come back I’m not going to be poor, infected or in danger is right. He came to a different Country I wish he would be caught and deported, can’t take it anymore 💔🥵😭🙏he’s play victim with toxic people saying he’s the victim Nothing works with him, I went to Pastors It hurts he got away with stealing, found out after dumping he had cleaned me out of storage garage filled it with junk

[@krisb.5327]

This is helpful for all types of relationships.

[@allakossareva8135]

You have spoken to me😂 in this video!

[@thomasdonau5140]

The point you have made Kevin, perhaps in other videos, that one should keep to one's own sort or tribe 'so to speak' is definitely true. This is not to victim blame as the victim is one of deceit or of the mask or act. However, with hindsight there were clues (cocaine taking/ asking to borrow money/ talking about cheating on their wife and getting away with it through lying) which were definitely warnings to pick up on, and then run away from such people. The problem is one of giving some the benefit of the doubt through misplaced trust. Any warning should be taken seriously. I now know better, though too late.

[@nataliadmitrieva7481]

Why would you waste your life trying to track someone down at all hours of the day... and night lol ? Even if it feels like you can't live without this person, at the moment, someone like that is simply not worth your time at ALL.

[@tressaloar-rankin3875]

My narcissist husband gave me a venereal disease and til this day he still says that he never cheated on me Ever. Plus My family caught him,my son told on him and on and on. He did control me sexually and I was real sick ended up with Stage 4 Endometriosis without health insurance. Long story but He is just not for me and we were together for 30 years of off and on Hell,trying to raise a son. Like I said long story but yes I rationalized and got the heck out! I tried everything to make my first time marriage work in spite of and Nothing. A numb nut. A meat head. Dead from the neck up. Lol. With No affection or sex and he only did it every once in a while to lure me back in and so I stopped it all together and moved on. Thank You for being here for everyone who wants to listen and get their life back. I lost me and I am still trying to figure out about myself. I personally have gone a long way and still doing it even now. I never thought in a million years that I would end up with a narcissist husband. This was a lesson that I will never forget. Take Care❤

[@Kimifer15]

My husband won’t let me in his phone 📱 apparently i don’t trust him according to him I’m from U.K. and could do with help please

[@Bea-wb9uk]

9:00 Good point on authority. But if they think you are just there to play the role of wife, not move forward in a loving manner, then it does not work. They thwart workable solutions and hate "psyco babble" AKA psychology. They block out or get triggered by any mention of psychology or going to therapy. It would mean they are seen as weak or flawed by some imagined authority if they went to counseling. They think they are perfect.

[@lisaaustin4561]

Divorce him! Or stay and make excuses for him because you don’t have the courage or are 2 LAZY to leave!

[@Onafarmlovinit]

Thanks Kevin❤

[@nanam9179]

My ex met his new wife in a Thai massage place, after 3 months with her he asked me for the divorce. We were married 22 years. When I started to search if he had another woman I found out that when he was in her house he watched 5 to 6 hours of porn videos. He signed up for several dating apps and was teasing women in their 20's to their 60's. He was passive aggressive but after asked me for the divorce He became a monstet. His biggest complaint was that I was no good enough in the bed and that I didn't make him feel a man.

[@addyrule1520]

Oh no mo more chances. They ne etc change they get worse as they get older. They can have him on agold platter. Good luck.

[@katinabotten]

Cheating and lying makes for a good paying youtube video to line your pocket, but cheating, lying, not liking someone, being conceded because you are better looking than the average do not make you a narcissist but makes u a normal person. A real narcissist is a predator that seeks u out to hurt u for their own entertainment purposes. It’s very normal to just not like someone or just grow apart and not be compatible anymore.

[@moonglow1158]

Nice . The narc female who wants the married male narc .. that goes on for years . No wonder I have no one 😢

[@HelgaBebout-y4v]

Hi Kevin...I disagree on some of your advise. To go to the in-laws...no they will always favor their child. To take over the bank account has to be done very slowly or else the spouse may not put any money into the account or only a certain amount; if he knows the marriage is slowly being dissolved....the spouse may slowly steal all of the money. I know from experience if the spouse steals money or anything of value prior to filing for divorce...it is good bye money. Telling the spouse about leaving 🙄🤔could back fire; perhaps he hopes you will so he does not have to pay alimony.

[@DakotaRising2020]

You can do all those things if you want, but he's still narcissistic at the core, so why would you want to stay with him even if he stopped cheating sexually? Also, there are other ways a husband like this cheats on his wife - i.e. emotionally divorcing her by being emotionally intimate with 1 or more other women. At some point, it's probably a good thing to hire an investigator to look into the private, secret, "other life" of your narcissistic husband, though, because knowledge is power and makes you better equipped in knowing how to deal with him.

[@lorenherrera6988]

God Almighty will vindicate. 💯🙌🙏

[@ChelseaMaxwell-o7i]

Can you do a video on advice on how to emotional heal when your ex husband already gave you a disease?

[@Bebedollie]

You leave him

[@moonglow1158]

Hmm well they pay and do home improvements for narc women .. so .

[@heatherpllana5546]

Thanks

[@tanujajadhav2988]

True they cheat

[@teetharewe847]

Are all cheaters narcissistic?

[@Magnoliablossom-uk9ve]

hello Kevin :)

[@libelleafremov4410]

Change husband to partner. Also female can do exactly the same.

[@emilytaylor1001]

🙏🌸☀️

[@salvatorelicata8768]

ASTALAVISTA BABY!

[@salvatorelicata8768]

Jodi Watly

[@rajwinderkaur7786]

Mr/ kavin what is your country name.

[@Bea-wb9uk]

What about the loyal narcissist who just wants you to play the role of trophy wife and memory holder? They don't cheat, they don't have intimacy or sex. Just a stone wall.

[@fifilafleur5555]

Often they don’t want to lose the wife because of an expensive divorce. Splitting assets & retirement account... along with child support and alimony. It’s not necessarily that they want to keep the wife. If he has a girlfriend he may wish the wife didn’t exist. Think Chris Watts...

[@damianlopez7630]

It's virtually impossible for me to cheat on my partner...since women want nothing to do with me. My companion is not doing good mentally. She has mental illness...I care for her. Frankly Now...women inspire a deep rage and a form of internal hatred in me towards them. Imagine Loving Peanut butter but it runs away from you??? but you are also severely allergic to it???

[@TouchdownJesusMB]

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[@Alloniya]

Wow I really like your T-shirt in this vid suit you so well 👍

[@grammamellow1219]

Vaknin #vaknin. V.

[@grammamellow1219]

I don't need tweekers showing up at my door..or stealing my kayak..seems pretty basic really..I should not have to call you to tell you it's raining if you live 3 miles up the road and around a few corners.