*Getting back with your ex is like adding water to the little bit that remains in the shampoo bottle.*
@zoey335279 жыл бұрын
runs out eventually.... yep
@KingdorismHD9 жыл бұрын
Dude that's actually genius. I've never thought of that. It all makes sense now.
@aileekirkpatrick54929 жыл бұрын
+Pete Hudo dang, you're right tho
@morrit01179 жыл бұрын
i hope you're not right
@emilythetoaster70409 жыл бұрын
it doesn't help one bit ps my dog ran away right now
@inge769 жыл бұрын
my friend has the complete opposite. she views him as the worst person ever to be alive, just because he dumped her
@henryjefferys31509 жыл бұрын
Goals
@LightningStormLPS9 жыл бұрын
Same tbh, I hate my ex's guts.
@jpn_1199 жыл бұрын
+Inge Stephan yup I think most people view their ex like that so this video is not even close to accurate.....
@kalliste019 жыл бұрын
+Inge Stephan I don't think fondly of my ex either. Not because we broke up but because of the life we lived together and how he basically used me for years and was emotionally abusive. I'd be interested in one of these buzzfeed videos where the person doesn't miss their ex.
@AuzeeTV9 жыл бұрын
+Inge Stephan u sound liek ur 11
@DavidParody9 жыл бұрын
I never think about my ex. We didn't work out for a reason
@ines-cq5of9 жыл бұрын
I never think about my ex, for I needed to date someone first and that never happened, so :/
@qlqn61309 жыл бұрын
exactly boo!
@texychick9 жыл бұрын
/
@qlqn61309 жыл бұрын
Sherlock Holmes no one asked
@trashgoblin61749 жыл бұрын
+ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ, ʕ•́ᴥ•̀ʔっ #rekt
@beatricewaide81089 жыл бұрын
Am I the only person who starts realizing the bad stuff shortly after the break up. All the stuff you overlook even though you probably shouldn't
@marli89079 жыл бұрын
+Bea Waide No you finally get some perspective when you're not in the moment with them all the time. But you also sometimes get those rose colored nostalgia glasses where you look back fondly on things and forget some of the terrible things. I mean when my ex broke up with me years ago I had this split of: Knowing he was controlling and bad for me. And seeing all the little instances of how that was true. WHILE also remembering all those "good times" that maybe even didn't seem so "good" at the time, just because I wasn't experiencing them with anyone. I think it's part of your brain's coping mechanism. Not getting love? Make it up from memories.
@beatricewaide81089 жыл бұрын
+Marlissa Cunningham strange how our brain does that. My last ex, I actually asked my current boyfriend (who I met before the break up) why he claimed that I looked happy. He told me its because you had to realize how yourself that you weren't. I still talk to my ex occasionally, but I don't look to fondly on the relationship. I didn't realize how unhealthy it was and that actually kinda scares me
@mandypandy111ify9 жыл бұрын
+Bea Waide I'm kind of the same way...I mean, I usually notice the bad things after the honeymoon phase, but after the break-up is when I notice the fundamental flaws that ended our relationship.
@beatricewaide81089 жыл бұрын
+Vriska Serket I notice little annoyances after the honeymoon. But they're usually so small I can look over it. But I notice the massive problems after. And that fact scares me
@mandypandy111ify9 жыл бұрын
Bea Waide Yeah...
@Chihirios109 жыл бұрын
Ah yes, my favorite ex-boyfriend moment was when I was sad because my dad was in the hospital needing a triple bypass surgery after he had a heart attack, and the doctors said he probably wont survive the operation My boyfriend said " i'm not your therapist" So sweet~
@downsjmmyjones1019 жыл бұрын
+Sarah Williams Well I would hope he was right because dating your therapist would be weird.
@Chihirios109 жыл бұрын
yes, my dad is still alive!
@Cosmic_Solace9 жыл бұрын
+Sarah Williams My favourite ex boyfriend moment was when I was devastated when my father died, 5 years ago. I was 17 at that time. He told me to "get over it and stop being so emotional". We broke up the day after.
@nadinecini99279 жыл бұрын
+Sarah Williams so happy to hear this :)
@nervouscupcake53339 жыл бұрын
That is indeed amazing... Your dad is a fighter :D I wish for the best!
@geesuslookatthatalpaca74719 жыл бұрын
I had a boyfriend. Oh, wait no...that was a fridge. I had a fridge.
@hannaweeny9 жыл бұрын
Ooh haha aren't you cool, original and relatable
@thesombrerowearingpanda6059 жыл бұрын
+Sam Wise ...had?
@jrocxzs9 жыл бұрын
What happened to it?
@TheJeleb9 жыл бұрын
r.i.p. fridge
@ApEnNy4YoUrThOuGhTz9 жыл бұрын
+Sam Wise 10/10 would date a fridge again. Coolest boyfriend you'll ever have.
@mahnoortariq47399 жыл бұрын
I have never been in a relationship. Why do I watch these videos?
@Superme9959 жыл бұрын
I watch them to become better at being the friend who says "be glad you broke up with him" ...and to feel good/bad about being single....
@Superme9959 жыл бұрын
I watch them to become better at being the friend who says "be glad you broke up with him" ...and to feel good/bad about being single....
@mahnoortariq47399 жыл бұрын
Superme995 Yea, i understand.
@SimranSingh-di2jy9 жыл бұрын
Same
@TheUrbanEpicure9 жыл бұрын
+Mahnoor Tariq That's probably because you're a 13 year old Arab boy.
@touchdalight9 жыл бұрын
am i the only person that has never had an ex??? aint nobody got time for relationships!
@ellakgoldman9 жыл бұрын
you're always first on every video😂 do you spend your whole life on KZbin?
@elijahlarman35219 жыл бұрын
+EllaBoBellaMoustache true
@_gababaga9 жыл бұрын
Same
@drizdoh9 жыл бұрын
ive seen you on so many youtube comments haha
@Heyysisah29 жыл бұрын
+touchdalight Same here! I want to be in a relationship though, but unlike everyone else I don't date people just because I don't want to be alone. I want to find someone I love, who loves me back.. which is quite the challenge since I am *super* shy when it comes to that stuff. ...fml
@sleepy71059 жыл бұрын
Dude, friendships never last In fact every relationship always ends in failure Expect food. Food would never hurt me. Food would never leave me. Food is always there for me. Food is love, Food is life.
@felicia86609 жыл бұрын
+Sleepy Otaku Sadly true
@gori11afingers9 жыл бұрын
friendships? friendships can last whole lifetimes. I think you mean relationships
@isirlaughsalot26759 жыл бұрын
+Sleepy Otaku Food will definitely always be there for you in the doctor's office being prescribed diabetic medication.
@sleepy71059 жыл бұрын
Aadam Ahmed Both can lead to heart break
@hellopeople54519 жыл бұрын
Unless you develop an eating disorder... Food becomes your enemy. (It's happened to me.)
@kikonyc689 жыл бұрын
Boyfriend is like an air conditioner. You only wish you had one one or two random days out of a year when it gets really unbearable. On other days, you don't think about it.
@starcatfri9 жыл бұрын
+kikonyc68 I guess i'm in a loving relationship for the whole summer then. I don't know were you live, but it was 100 F outside and that's a pretty common number we hit all summer long. I am so grateful for it.
@kikonyc689 жыл бұрын
Yeah I thought about other parts of country/world where having air-conditioner is normal/must. I live in New York City and while it does get hot and humid from time to time during summer, its usually a passing thing and not that hard to live through it without an AC. So this was my analogy.
@starcatfri9 жыл бұрын
kikonyc68 Ahhhhh Yes New York! I visited massachusetts and I was ridiculously not acclimated. I'm from Texas -3-
@nykaudi19 жыл бұрын
+kikonyc68 Hahaa. Well put.
@THEroxalicious8 жыл бұрын
Why did I read this as hair conditioner lmao
@crystalallen108 жыл бұрын
When your ex tells you he's tired of you and you should leave him alone and stay gone .... awwww how romantic 😍😘😘
@JoshBricee9 жыл бұрын
How to Have a Perfect Life: Get in a relationship with Netflix and Pizza. THE END
@JoshBricee9 жыл бұрын
Hahahahha
@qlqn61309 жыл бұрын
what if i don't have netflix and i haven't ever eaten a pizza in my whole life
@qlqn61309 жыл бұрын
Leominos there always has to be that one annoying human who can't take a joke. in that case, you're that human.
@slgkdflfkldgdngrjkndjkg345459 жыл бұрын
Leominos People are different. To me perfect life has always been being in my own peace with no people to deal with. No regrets, I would not want a different life than this.
@JordanLink19 жыл бұрын
+Josh Brice or travel and books. whatever
@rachaelsfilms60059 жыл бұрын
bestfri *end* boyfri *end* girlfri *end* *food* Do you see my point?
@nadeenmohiar61935 жыл бұрын
Looooool
@anonymousgirl47625 жыл бұрын
Foodend
@lisepham43114 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@cindysobtafo92914 жыл бұрын
💀💀
@dolmiosaucer28254 жыл бұрын
Mass Genocide
@am-coffeepm-wineoranyalcohol8 жыл бұрын
shout out to the best friends who patiently remind us why we arent with the tool bags anymore when we forget 👏👏👏
@BipolarB9 жыл бұрын
ex's are so over rated in your head..you broke up for a reasonnnnnn
@allyhardesty8 жыл бұрын
Lol this is a great video idea && accurate... "No, he said love ya" hahaha :)
@vanloanh17768 жыл бұрын
I'm too busy being in love with fictional characters to have a boyfriend.
@hotbarbie5 жыл бұрын
vanloanh big mood.
@garyjaycat9 жыл бұрын
I've never had a SO. I've never had to deal with heartbreak. I'm awesome, and so is my cat.
@gerardovenegas21799 жыл бұрын
You will have to deal with a heartbreak and it won't be about relationships, it'll be the passing away of your cat.
@EnbyFish9 жыл бұрын
poor karen
@henryjefferys31509 жыл бұрын
She's Muslim
@toramsheher64079 жыл бұрын
+Spuffy Gotta Why do you want to kill her with fire?
@karenctran9 жыл бұрын
I didn't do anything I promise!
@poppykaren36479 жыл бұрын
here I am
@unpredictablegirl33749 жыл бұрын
+Henry Jefferys who is?
@chynna30509 жыл бұрын
I don't like people who say "love you"..
@alligrace3959 жыл бұрын
+Henry Jefferys stfu
@AliyaTheNugget9 жыл бұрын
I do that :') but I do love the people I say it to, just not in a romantic way
@viyusavery2489 жыл бұрын
+Henry Jefferys your my hero :'D i really love these extreme replies
@sahakit61889 жыл бұрын
+Chynna N. that has become pretty cliché huh? if so, i feel you.
@viyusavery2489 жыл бұрын
Wolfblaze60 its not what is said, its more so what its responding to lol
@TheOnlyMitchDizzle9 жыл бұрын
Really you remember relationships how you wish they were, not how they actually happened.
@ob1vi0n179 жыл бұрын
The way I think about my ex is that she doesn't exist, reality: she doesn't exist.
@ines-cq5of9 жыл бұрын
same also nice profile pic! adventure time is awesome!!
@karanmehta60289 жыл бұрын
This comes at a time when I really needed something like this . Thank you, Buzzfeed. Thank you so much ! 3 years apparently meant nothing to her
@internetgirl1009 жыл бұрын
If I ever see a picture of my ex, I think "wow, what was I thinking when I dated him?"
@STFU123Fuck9 жыл бұрын
It's funny how people never stop to think that, maybe they're the problem and not their ex.
@terranovalt69769 жыл бұрын
+Soulsyphon Yeah, i thoght that specially at the "He didn't brush his teath/ didn't change underwear" one. But we dont know the Details, so i try to not judge.
@onbon12408 жыл бұрын
I'm the kind of person who's never been in a relationship of any kind and I still watch Buzzfeed videos about getting over your ex, falling in love, etc...while eating ice cream.
@anewloveofficial91376 жыл бұрын
There's really a difference when you broke up with someone versus someone broke up with you because all I remembered about him was the bad memories that he made me experienced during our relationship.
@sharlinegibbons92719 жыл бұрын
I think my Ex was amazing He said "I love you" once. I asked him why and he said "You feed me, you kiss me". I laughed sooo hard..... But he was bloody gorgeous and adventurous.
@brookelynkiehl76509 жыл бұрын
This video has made me feel so much better. Breaking up with someone is the worst because you (or at least I do) always doubt wither it was the right decision or not, but this is true. Memories are better than reality.
@WhySoSeriousHmmm8 жыл бұрын
Does anyone else think she looks like Lady Gaga a little bit?
@JustinDBKidrauhl9 жыл бұрын
I think she has alzheimer...
@trashgoblin61749 жыл бұрын
Xd
@yadidimeanmaine9 жыл бұрын
The dude version: "Man, she sure was great in bed." friend: "She wasn't THAT good." - Awkward silent stare...
@Moonberry948 жыл бұрын
Damn thats so about me for these days - cant get ex out of my head though I had forgotten about him for 3 years but a month ago he started stalking me and asking my friend about my private life. See the opportunity to reunite again but I have really long and steady relationship which ruins brick by brick without any intervention, just because of impulsive nature of my boyfriend. Hard to save this one and hard to tempt believing that you can fix what was broken 3 years ago. Sorry for making you read this heart cry
@DesignedByElle8 жыл бұрын
What sucks is when you see them, and they look so peaceful and beautiful... And you just miss the attention they gave you or the way they looked at you, that sucks!
@madebyluv8 жыл бұрын
except for Karen
@butterkeksgangster66857 жыл бұрын
You can be totally heartbroken, even if you broke up...
@djqvo8 жыл бұрын
And what did we all realize from this video? Girls best friend will ALWAYS know everything. And when I say everything, I freaking mean it.
@oliviacaraa9 жыл бұрын
HAHAH, SO ACCURATE.
@katiegarcia42536 жыл бұрын
Omg a queen
@sophiasuerth19648 жыл бұрын
Wow I think I have something excellent to say and then I see all these amazing comments and start thinking why do I try?!😒
@bethschuck49998 жыл бұрын
At the end 😂 "Friendships last forever" "Yeah they do ❤️ " ("Except for Karen")
@Jade.covers9 жыл бұрын
There's good and bad just gotta move on,relationships take two..
@cloutboybrandon91658 жыл бұрын
"love ya" sounds like a shy way of saying u love u if it turned into saying "I love u" then there's nothing bad tf
@memetime52165 жыл бұрын
Well I dated my best friend and she was the ideal version in this video, not the reality one so sometimes your first love is that Perfect, I don't want to call her ex as we both still love each other and we're friends but we realized we're not mature enough to handle a relationship right now.
@ASDFGHJKLGETOUT9 жыл бұрын
This is so relevant to me. My last relationship was my first and the guy was awful, but I didn't want to be alone and thought I was in love, so I refused to acknowledge his bad traits. Now, I can't believe I ever gave him a third chance, let alone a second one. I always told myself I wouldn't be the spiteful ex, but now that I know his flaws, I can't stand him.
@downsjmmyjones1019 жыл бұрын
+ASDFGHJKLGETOUT How did you finally realize that he wasn't as good as you thought he was?
@ASDFGHJKLGETOUT9 жыл бұрын
+James Downs by getting him out of my life. The whole time I dated him, friends and family told me that he was no good, and once I got away from him, I saw exactly what they meant.
@relv78585 жыл бұрын
I met my ex yesterday and I just walk past him and all those memories comes back and i feel.... thanks god he's my ex now
@ephemeraennui31549 жыл бұрын
The reason I can't get over an ex is because I refuse to remember the actual horrible parts of the relationship that ended it in the first place.
@logicvs.everything72308 жыл бұрын
That didn't happen to me until a year after I broke up with him... and he asked me to give him another chance and if I would go to a dance with him. I let him down nicely, and we're trying to be friends, but after I was all confused. Now I know why. Thanks BuzzFeed!
@galadriellothlorien93129 жыл бұрын
This video came at the right time for me. Thanks, Buzzfeed.
@gabbycampbell90237 жыл бұрын
"Having someone to complain to" my ex literally ignored me when I was going through a hard medical problem.
@adrenalinejunnkie9 жыл бұрын
Thank you buzzfeed I needed this today.
@42634846 жыл бұрын
True af, I need to remember this when I start feeling lonely and miss my ex
@elsa.8299 жыл бұрын
that moment when your best friend knows your relationship better than you do
@yuhmxxa62618 жыл бұрын
Oh my god this is so true. I've done this more times than I can count.
@jaxv32599 жыл бұрын
friendships don't last forever ive been stabbed in the back so many times that its numb now.
@lolsmilenowlolsmilenow14149 жыл бұрын
No matter if you have a boyfriend or not we all have that one friend that always support us. Food.
@frozenstaz9 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Buzzfeed! I am going through this exactly right now!
@lisannepol33648 жыл бұрын
I related to this very strongly, since I was the one who broke up in my last relationship, and felt guilty for it.
@piale17045 жыл бұрын
Accurate. But still I'll be meeting my ex tonight and ask him to get back together, because I'm what? Masochist!
@an_impasse4 жыл бұрын
Pía Thunder You are pathetic, lol.
@lovelyardie9 жыл бұрын
I needed this so badly right now.
@nadiaelsa56886 жыл бұрын
this is totally accurate 😂 you need dat friend to remind you hey it wasnt as good as you think
@myasero87728 жыл бұрын
I've never been in a relationship, I just watch these videos to get an idea of what possibly might happen
@MrsPinkmuffinify9 жыл бұрын
It's either that or the complete opposite.. A lot of people make see their ex worse than they really are and make everything they had together even the good parts.. I think that's a lot worse since no one should forget the good things one had together even if it ended badly.
@icefrout9 жыл бұрын
1:04, that's really as good as it gets.
@laquilamarie80329 жыл бұрын
Lol I'm so happy I don't like my ex anymore. I used to only want him back because I thought he made me happy but I found happiness within myself and my own life and now I could never be happier that he's not in my life
@kittygrimm73018 жыл бұрын
I remember seeing my ex through rose-coloured glasses when we were together, but after he dumped me I started to see what a toxic person he really was.
@Alina-nt1kz5 жыл бұрын
My mind kinda flips back and forth between seeing the good and bad about my ex. Like he did have some good qualities, like he never ignored my texts and always came over when he had the chance. Took me out every week and stuff. We never fought . But he had plenty of flaws and that's what I'm trying to keep seeing. He hated my family, always criticized how I dressed and would try to change it, would complain about having to pick me up from my house, made me pay for many of the dinners and gas, I rarely got to see my friend and if I did choose to see her, he'd complain (yet I always let him see friends, even friends that were girls), and if I asked for us to do something fun he would come up with an excuse saying how sleepy he was or something. I'm trying to keep positive and keep myself thinking that the one who is best for me will come along soon.
@skyelarhuang79328 жыл бұрын
that brunette is soooo pretty 😍😍😍
@LolaThePerson8 жыл бұрын
I honestly thought this video would be the opposite cause you end up remembering so many bad things just because it ended badly. Just because the ending was sad doesn't mean the experience wasn't worth it.
@Red-yj4sj9 жыл бұрын
Friendships do not last forever. I have lost 99% of my friends within the past couple years. I'm just saying. And as far as that goes. My ex and my friends were not that good of people and I was cheated by both. By that, my ex cheated on me with these so called friends. I'm not saying all people are this way and you know who your true friends really are.
@jessw_184 жыл бұрын
Do any of you feel guilty after a breakup even though you weren’t the one to initiate the breakup and you weren’t in the wrong?
@TinyCanadian8 жыл бұрын
The "except for Karen" at the end got me 😂
@audreybenton88568 жыл бұрын
Okay Ali's ex is exactly my ex boyfriend. God. It feels so great to move on and find someone better.
@CathaTheWierdOne9 жыл бұрын
You know it'll be a dope video when this music starts playing. (referring to "When You're Single AF")
@kanekiken23769 жыл бұрын
Its hilarious how some friends act like they know about your partner more than you do. Its annoying and they give garbage advice this is why I keep everything personal.
@iamokay75019 жыл бұрын
my ex as of last night was my first boyfriend, he is kind and funny and attractive and gave great hugs, but he wasn't ready for a relationship and also didn't feel like we had enough in common and so ended it he also smoked (sometimes weed) didn't text me back sometimes hated talking on the phone got drunk quite a lot there were goods and bads and he is no better or worse than me, just different and although i am ridiculously sad about it, i know it was for the best and i will get over him
@MrLo0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0L9 жыл бұрын
so, what is this " bouii frend " you're talking about?!
@H4rd5tyl3r9 жыл бұрын
I miss my ex boyfriend so much and I cant remember why I broke up with him.. I remember feeling uncomfortable but now he is literally what I want and idk how i gave that away
@iluvhopndballet9 жыл бұрын
I actually had a very good ex. I view it positively because it was so. We broke up mainly, because she was still discovering her sexuality. Now we're both in relationships however not friends due to her partner not wanting us to communicate. At least it was a positive experience, for the both of us.
@Babyhiuu9 жыл бұрын
so accurate. perfect time to watch this tbh
@coolkjstephens9 жыл бұрын
I love Justin's rap! I died when he got on the mic lmao
@Angelcake3659 жыл бұрын
Question, how did her friend know all of this and remembered it so clearly?
@marli89079 жыл бұрын
+♥αngεℓcαкε♥ Because when you're the friend that gets cried to every time your bestie's bf does something stupid, you remember WAY better than they do. When someone leaves a relationship they end up with nostalgia glasses a lot. Because the bestie only got YOUR side of the story, and not all the touchy feely moments and emotional dopamine from the relationship...they have a very clear view of what ACTUALLY happened. Or at least, what you ACTUALLY told them.
@julietteld59616 жыл бұрын
omg thank u so much for this !
@krysalis9 жыл бұрын
"I'm sorry, Bachelor in Paradise starts in like 4 minutes." Lol, that's me whenever my friends randomly try to make late night plans on Sundays.
@mirrorocean6 жыл бұрын
'Except for Karen' really got me lshidmtamsfo
@fortytwo62579 жыл бұрын
On the flipside, there's people who had a good thing but remember their exes as terrible
@zoedarc7838 жыл бұрын
THIS VIDEO IS SO RELEVANT
@ainekelly52529 жыл бұрын
I remember all my exes negatively and wonder was a brainwashed the entire time I was with them.
@ourgloomdoom9 жыл бұрын
Honestly Buzzfeed is always there when your things conflict are happening in life.
@ellakgoldman9 жыл бұрын
how I remember my ex is: just kidding I'm a loner and never had a boyfriend !
@mindyyfreshh9 жыл бұрын
lmao amen! I really neeeeed to show this video to most of my best friends who are going through a breakup
@elliefreezy4897 жыл бұрын
My ex and me had a beautiful time till the end. Sad we're apart and I have no choice.
@aurorarheav9 жыл бұрын
buzzfeed you make the whole world make sense
@kelligraham58349 жыл бұрын
Didn't buzzfeed already make a version of this video?
@jaymariex959 жыл бұрын
Friendship goals
@MyNinjaPickles4 жыл бұрын
Omg the part where she’s venting to her literal wall of a boyfriend hit too close to home 😭😭
@phoebecowan98628 жыл бұрын
what's the name of that song that played in the beginning???
@ryanthompson91568 жыл бұрын
House of Memories
@mystikspiral61609 жыл бұрын
I remember the reasons my ex is not worth my thoughts.
@NikkiHarrisFilms9 жыл бұрын
I would think about my ex more often, if I had an ex to start with.