How Your Ex Falls In Love With You Again

Clay Andrews answers the controversial question, "How To Make Your Ex Fall In Love With You Again?"
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Are you still in love with your ex boyfriend? Do you want your ex girlfriend back? Are you wondering on how to make an ex fall in love with you again?
In this video, Clay Andrews talk about exactly how your ex could potentially fall back in love with you and how to make that happen. Basically, what they are thinking and what you can do to deal with them!
If you want to genuinely attract your ex back, you should take this seriously and not play mind games on your ex, no reverse psychology or any old tricks you've heard from other "love coaches" out there. You would want to make sure that you're bettering yourself and creating a better emotional connection with your ex as well! We have different courses that can help you with that!
Watch the full video on how to make your ex fall in love with you again!
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This is an internet video, and it should be obvious, but this video and other videos on this channel should not be taken as a substitute for the evaluation of a psychologist, therapist, counselor, etc. This video and other videos on this channel are intended for informational uses only, and only reflect the personal opinions of the creator. The creator of this video is not responsible for your actions or choices or the consequences of your actions or choices.

[@senzayyy]

GIVE THE MAN HIS LIKES!!! Don't forget!

[@bryanfuchs1512]

My ex and I were texting all throughout the day yesterday. She brought up what an amazing day it was meeting my parents, and even commented on how nice it was when we kissed. I’d say that’s definitely a good sign. Nevertheless, I am just focusing on having good interactions and letting the chips fall where they may. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t want her back, but I also want to be okay with whatever happens.

[@flemmingchristensen8722]

How long have you been reconnecting? That sounds wonderful! Congrats 😁 @Bryan Fuchs

[@bryanfuchs1512]

@@flemmingchristensen8722 Well, we have been in contact since just shortly after the new year, sometime early January. We had been messaging here and there, basically only to just say hello and not much else, since about a year ago. But, weeks and months would go by, and the responses from her would be more or less the same, until the beginning of this year. Then all of a sudden, one day she just kept the conversation going. And right now, we are “just friends” not officially back together. But, I can tell the connection is growing, little by little, and that’s the most important thing. As the weeks go by here, she seems to be growing more and more comfortable with us having this connection (“friendship” lol)

[@Jakuboooooooooo]

How did you initially reconnect?

[@aabbuu3151]

Thank you Clay...

[@Han-zf5yv]

good video!! keep almost 60k

[@therealyou5824]

I'm officially over my ex. I deserve better :) 6 months out of it! Still nice to watch these videos. Thanks Clay.

[@georgepanagiotou8673]

Was he the dumper? I wish I could say the same it’s been three months for me. It’s been really hard I’m not gonna lie I wish I would just stop hoping for a second chance.

[@senzayyy]

Eyyyy same! It's been a little over 5 months but I'm over her now. She deserved better too. I was trying to be that "better" but It wasn't enough. Stopped beating myself up over it, now I'm just working on myself now to be better for the next girl

[@tonyyayoo9139]

I’m with you on that one sis

[@therealyou5824]

@@georgepanagiotou8673 yes, he was. But I was also wanting out for a while, i just didnt realise it. I put him on a pedestal for so long, now he's off! Another great KZbin channel that helped me was Love Advice TV.

[@georgepanagiotou8673]

@@therealyou5824 you’re a beautiful girl you’ll have no problem finding anyone . Yeah I’ve seen a few videos great channel.

[@gemmahoang1162]

Thank you so much Clay. its going good now with my ex boyfriend. But I need to meet up with him. And right now I cant go anywhere right lol.

[@chloeliv3700]

After watching your video, i finally get over my ex. Its 4 months plus now. You strenghten me to move on instead it makes me love myself more. Gbu Clay... You healed with your motivation

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[@cynthiab8377]

@clay what if my ex bf refused to connect & be connected emotionally by growing more distant & avoiding responding to flirty texts that he used to enjoy before break up? How to make him want to connect again? My ex bf & I were in long distance but it wasn’t an issue before we broke up. We got back together after 5 months apart and only had the chance to hang out 4 times before he went back to neighboring country for work. Since it is pandemic situation, ldr is an “issue” now as I can’t travel there. At first after we got back he was acting hot & cold and now it is mainly cold... at first he still texts good morning and still answered my calls but now he stopped initiating texts and stopped calling me pet names. Even phone calls I need to get his approval to call to talk...😔 I don’t know what to do...

[@lisat5666]

From the comments it looks like no one ever gets their ex back

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@@kanika9995 what?

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[@welovee1680]

Awesome video Clay!!! Thank you for all your great advice!

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[@ninha8297]

But how to do, if he never sees me ( just short at the street far away) since 9 months...?😥

[@chilloften]

Always enjoy the comfort of listening and your face is gorgeous to watch, esp the brows. TFS and helping human beings to connect and just be.

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[@Letsdoit365K]

👏👏👏Thank you Clay! Can you make a video on how to deal with positive pullback during crisis point?

[@ClayAndrews]

Hi Ever123, you can check this short podcast from us >>> www.lovetalkfm.com/lt030-why-your-ex-pulls-back-after-positive-interactions/

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[@lisat5666]

why would no contact look like a game when he's the one that didn't want me in his life I'm just abiding - in his mind I shouldn't have a speck of hope - I have no obligation to contact him -

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[@DL-vibes]

Wish it just didn’t have to be an ex. Why can’t it just work sometimes. Ugh

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[@williamdolan7189]

So clay when me and ex met I had been sober and then relapsed and i became a different person made some bad choices like I cheated now sober in recovery and regret what happened my ex says she has no romantic feelings for me and doesn’t trust me do I have a chance???

[@williamdolan7189]

I love all the advice givers in comments lol I Will listen to the expert

[@QuinnLIFTS]

My ex still is healing 2+ months later. She has been staying in the same town, which she isn't from around here, but it's technically a "break" and she contacts me and wants me to hangout few times a week. She still needs healing and has animosity and is not putting effort towards resolving any issues between us when we have a issue arise. I told her if she intends for us to continue to see each other she needs to work on puttin energy into understanding me cuz it doesn't work with only 1 of us putting effort into resolving any conflict. I also told her we shouldn't focus on the relationship yet but first we must learn to cooperate and communicate better first and I think that took some stress off of her cuz she still has her guard up. We operate better when she allows me to be a leader in a sense and she has to put that guard down if we wanna start fixing the little things along the path of reviving our emotions connection.

[@cynthiab8377]

Good for you! Unfortunately my ex & I were in long distance, but it wasn’t an issue before we broke up. We got back together after 5 months apart and only had the chance to hang out 4 times before he went back to neighboring country for work. Since it is pandemic situation, ldr is an issue now as I can’t travel there. At first he was acting hot & cold and now it is mainly cold... at first he still texts good morning and still answered my call but now he stopped initiating texts and stopped calling me pet names. He avoided responding to those flirty texts 😔 I don’t know what to do... any suggestion?

[@QuinnLIFTS]

@@cynthiab8377 it sucks but u should cease communication efforts, maybe reach out to tell him that u are giving them the space. Let them know u care and don't wanna to but it's what is best for both of you. And then tell him that if he changes his mind to reach out and see if u are still willing to work on it. But don't put it in a way that makes it sound like u are just waiting around. Make it known you care but are going to move forward. If he isn't responding it's just hurting u more to reach out without a response. If they really care then when they realize u have the strength to let go, they may start to miss you. But trying to get a response is tough. Its hard either way but that gives u the best odds. Good luck!

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[@stopmotionerstudios483]

Hey clay, quick question. My text text me saying she missed me and I responded askin her what she meant last night but now she ghosted me... what does this mean?

[@bravobravo673]

How do you mean by ghosted

[@reginawoess4928]

I went back to see my ex who I broke up with for cheating on me. First night we had good visit he didnt mention having a gf. Second night a girl called and he said shes trying to keep us from being intimate. What was he doing? Was he trying to make me jealous or her? Or was he showing me he hasnt changed?

[@reginawoess4928]

Ty but it's over dont want him back

[@clairefoxall2313]

My ex has come kind of full circle ...started txting me morning & good nite. Has asked me to a concert in December + if allowed re Virus/up & running) but I feel like I've moved on a bit so not sure there's a future? Thanks for all your great advice Clay 👍👍.

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[@danielsjodin504]

This Sunday I moved my stuff from her apartment. 5 year relationship and we have been broken up and haven't seen each other for over 2 months. Before I left she snuck in a real tight and long hug. The day after she texted me and said that it was nice seeing me, and that I looked good (I have been working on myself) . She also apologized if the hug was inappropriate. Could this be a good sign that I'm making progress or am I reading into it too much?

[@dannysgamingchannel463]

Great sign it means that she is being reatracted to you

[@danielsjodin504]

@@dannysgamingchannel463 Sure hope so :) But I still dont want to get my hopes up too much

[@dannysgamingchannel463]

@@danielsjodin504 yeah just keep working on yourself she will fall back in love all over again

[@MonotoniTV]

@@danielsjodin504 been 6 months. How's it going?

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[@amyjohnson5044]

Me and my ex have been texting back and forth for a week now. I know he’s not super open so it’s hard to read what he means when he texts. I’m curious what he means when I told him I pray a lot about him and that I care about him... he said he appreciated that and he does the same. He said it’ll work out ok for both of us one day and if it’s only one of us I hope it’s you. What’s that mean??

[@bravobravo673]

Be slow,ask for a date

[@Jakuboooooooooo]

Update?

[@itsnancyy21]

After a year of toxic relationship of less than a year and we got engaged, miscarriage and a abortion.... I finally over it and ready to move on. I stop breaking out, stop walking on eggshells and finally bettering myself:) getting my hair, nails and lashes done. For MYSELF!

[@alicealice3267]

yesss! You go girl!

[@IndiansAuto]

What made it toxic?

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[@Wouterlambregts]

What if my ex still loves me, and really knows I'm the one for her, but she wants to travel and do other things before settling, so she is just not ready right now... I've tried everything the last year, we got back together but keep coming back to this issue, she tells me she feels really scared to make mistake leaving me and she's mad at herself that she can't ignore the feeling that right now is not the right moment to settle or be in a relationship with me, because when she is with me she wants it to be forever, and she does not think this is fair to me when she knows she really isn't ready for it yet

[@piacastillo1579]

I think we have the same situation with my ex. He said he wants to travel and deal with his shit by himself but he said that he loves me and want to try it again in the future. He said that he is not ready right now and now is not the right time 😔 when he texted me he still calls me by our pet name.

[@Wouterlambregts]

@@piacastillo1579 yes same here, when we see each other we still acted like a couple and this made us both very emotional tired, so now we decide to not see each other anymore in a close way for now

[@piacastillo1579]

@@Wouterlambregts mine was a long distance relationship it felt like we have an unfinished business because we still love each other so much. We were each other's first love. I only asked him for his time to communicate and call to feel not distant since we're already long distance. But we're not just on the same page he doesn't want to talk and become avoidant so I let go. I'm still hurt and really helping myself to heal. We are strong and we will get through this 😄

[@Wouterlambregts]

@@piacastillo1579 haha yeah.. I saw my ex just 10 minutes ago when she asked me if I wanted some of our favorite food that she made, she was still kissing me and saying that she loves me, afterwards even texted me that she is sleeping with my clothes because she misses me, she was also flirting and just fascinating about the future if she would be ready..... It all don't help me now but who knows... I'm her first real love as well as first real relationship.. I just hope that if she goes and decides to date someone else after all, that my ego will be able to overcome that if she comes back when she's ready. Long distance is hard, it's not something I could do I think, but I wish you the best too, we will be okay whatever happens with our exes of course, but this time it still feels like I really lost the "one" I could see myself with forever, even whilst I didn't even really believe in the whole the one thing

[@piacastillo1579]

@@Wouterlambregts oh that's so nice you guys were able to see each other and hope you both had a great time 🙂 I'm sure that in the end of this healing process I will feel so much better and maybe it is a blessing in disguise. Now I just have to spend more time with myself. Take care always

[@cicichambers3887]

Clay, move the mic away a little. Turn down the volume a tiny bit. Paint wall to your rt white , or use a three fold science project board to help bounce light on your right. A circle of crumbled gold foil on the right panel will add some warmth. The board will also warm the sound.

[@ClayAndrews]

Thanks for the tip ;-)

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He’s 2 months into a rebound so it’s not looking good

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What if she goes ghost too many times because she’s in a new relationship and “doesn’t think it’s the right time for us to date” So she basically wants nothing to do with me....

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[@reginawoess4928]

What if your ex cheated should you want them back?

[@ClayAndrews]

Hi Regina, if you are to check your personal values, is it something that is aligned with you?

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Does this work if she rebounded

[@ClayAndrews]

it's something that we cannot have full control of if our ex gets into a rebound. But what we can do is to focus on what we have full control of. what we teach are life skills that would help you become a better person and how you would bring yourself as a better individual in dealing with different situations. :-)

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I don't want her lol

[@DL-vibes]

When your recent ex watches all your stories and is among the first to watch, does that mean they still care or want to know what I’m up to? Any advice or thoughts? :)

[@mashryan3111]

Hell yeah they do, tryna see if youve moved on

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