HSP and Kindness | Highly Sensitive Person

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3 ай бұрын

HSPs often wonder why people aren't kinder and why the world isn't ruled by love. We have a pretty intense relationship with kindness. First, we feel deeply anything that is NOT kindness, but, we also have the PRIVILEGE of feeling anything that IS kind, deeply.
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@ChoosingToEvolve 2 ай бұрын

Kindness has been at the heart of my life - longing for it or seeking it - since I was a child. Life without kindness simply is not life to me.

@anniepaquette 2 ай бұрын

Kindness please!

@chrisbalog 2 ай бұрын

I'd say yeah that's what I've been yearning for all my life. Great message friend! Happy Easter ❤

@anniepaquette 2 ай бұрын

Hello My Dear! Right, kindness. That's it. Happy Easter to you too. I've had a great Easter spirit gift this weekend. A reunion with an estranged member of my close family. How? Because we chose to open our hearts to forgiveness, love...and kindness.

@meloworx221 2 ай бұрын

Growing up I didn’t experience much kindness in my family. I realise now that to cope with the pain I closed my heart in many ways. Though the ‘armor’ kept me physically alive, over time i really started to lose who I was. I was/am a HSP who was playing tough to survive. I’m currently in the long process of reviving my heart and learning to stand as who I am in a world that often makes me want to curl up and hide. Because daring to put myself out there is also the only way I’ll encounter kindness and love, and the only way I can truly be alive. Thanks for sharing 🙏

@anniepaquette 2 ай бұрын

I hear you. I hear every word you say. Playing though is something we do, but in my case, the pain of closing our hearts quickly becomes greater and playing tough is unsustainable. I am planning another video about this because this weekend, I had an extraordinary experience of forgiving because I wanted my heart open. It is so healing and liberating. 💚🙏💚

@meloworx221 2 ай бұрын

@@anniepaquette unsustainable is just right. Kindness for me is not only scary to open my heart up to to but also scary to give out. Which has been its own torment because I’m naturally a kind and gentle person. My breaking point was realizing my spirit was dying from the self abandonment of playing tough. An act of self protection can never justify self destruction. Looking forward to what you have to say on forgiveness.

@anniepaquette 2 ай бұрын

@@meloworx221 The forgiveness story will probably be in a couple weeks. There is a risk to being kind, you're right, but at least, life and love flows through our open heart, which allows for healing.

@sosheseeks 2 ай бұрын

Fellow tribe member saying hello from Mesa Arizona. It wasn't that long ago that I learned about HSPs and empaths. I am still learning and trying to understand my place in this world as someone or no one. Thanks for sharing.

@anniepaquette 2 ай бұрын

Hello fellow tribe member! Truly glad you're here. Learning that I belonged to tribe was such a sweet revelation to me. Not to promote myself, but in my upcoming book, I talk about where and how we can fit in the world with our particular gifts and sensitivities. It's really nice for me to see that you're wondering about that. Since I was wondering too, I figured others had to have the save interrogation. 💚🙏💚

@mjhauserauthor4812 2 ай бұрын

When I was a child, of course, I was thrust into many situations that were beyond my control, school, being one of those. As a highly sensitive person and also a child abuse survivor, I was very vulnerable and often got bullied. I just remember thinking as a kid I couldn’t wait to be an adult because I thought the world would be a kinder place. I sure was wrong about that but for the most part, I am able to control what situations and people I choose to be around. It definitely can be quite painful. I love this post that you just made! And I’m so excited for you that your book is almost done!

@anniepaquette 2 ай бұрын

Hi MJ! School was also a bad experience for me. At 12 years old, a girl created a club, the GCAP (Gang Contre [Against] Annie Paquette), recruited my friends, and made badges for them to wear. I know bullying! Thanks so much for being here with me, always taking the time to share. I'm beginning to see now that my book will be published shortly, it just needs a little more love and dedication and magic of finding the right persons. Yesterday, I was told by my landlord that I have to leave in a few weeks....that was a shock to my system, it was unexpected. He had actually meant for me to stay longer but forgot to tell his manager to block the time for me so someone else booked my place. But, there is so much good happening right now in my life, positive changes, that I will do my very best to simply TRUST Life.

@mjhauserauthor4812 2 ай бұрын

@@anniepaquette what a horrific experience for you in school. As an HSP we are often misunderstood as you have talked about it not easy thing and the sensitive bodies. I WAS WONDERING ABOUT YOUR LIVING SITUATION. I WILL DEFINITELY BE SENDING GOOD THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS YOUR WAY AS I HAVE DONE IN THE PAST. ALL THAT I CAN PRAY IS THAT THE UNIVERSE FINALLY BRINGS US PEACE AND COMFORT, FINANCIAL ABUNDANCE, THAT WE SO DESIRE AND DESERVE. I’M SORRY, BUT I DON’T KNOW WHY MY PHONE IS GOING ALL CAPS! I’ve erased part of this post and redid it, and then it just did the same thing.

@anniepaquette 2 ай бұрын

@mjhauserauthor4812 Thanks MJ! 😂😂😂 For the caps!!!😂😂😂 The year that happened is actually the year I began having ulcerative colitis. I had other things going on, as an HSP, but I believe this took it over the top.

@mjhauserauthor4812 2 ай бұрын

@@anniepaquette ouch! I too have chronic illness and that started in early childhood. I have suffered with migraines on a daily basis for 50 years! I have literally spent tens of thousands of dollars trying to figure these out but they still persist. And as I wrote my book about my childhood, I just shook my head and sadness at how the abuse affected my sleep patterns. in early grade school, I was having issues with insomnia, which of course just got worse as I got older. I have to take an immense amount of sleep, meds, and anti-anxiety to get me through the night. As much as that saddens me to put all of those chemicals in my body, I know the alternative because I lived with it for years. my greatest wish is to know what it feels like to feel good without putting toxins in my body. Some days are better than others. I hope you have found things to help minimize the pain of the ulcerative colitis. Some days I just look forward to when my time on this earth is done because it’s just been so painful.

@mjhauserauthor4812 2 ай бұрын

@@anniepaquette if I am being too nosy, please disregard this. I was wondering, do you have a publisher for your book? It looks like you’re further along in some respects than I am with mine. I absolutely love the cover. It’s very uplifting, and I like the words that you describe about what the book is about and I love your title. I have finished my book, but it still needs to be edited. I am on disability for the chronic issues I have so funds are quite limited. Although I did publish a children’s book back in 2020 through a traditional publisher. I have not submitted my new book to my publisher because I don’t want to get lost in the whole operation if you know what I mean. I really want somebody to look at my book and realize the important messages that being a trauma survivor conveys. I am just waiting for the universe to open the door for me, so I can get this book out there.

@cherylheimer7253 2 ай бұрын

Thank you always for sharing Anna..... so many times throughout my life there has been people who have said things like, "Why are you so sensitive" or "Quit being so sensitive" and in my younger days I would think maybe something IS wrong with me. It took me years on many roads of escape and abuse before realizing nothing is wrong with me. To never give up to kindness and love in the world. That who I am is simply a very highly sensitive person and that is a gift. And that i am not alone. So thank you Anna for bringing/sharing your words of wisdom on HSP out into the light and sharing with others. Love you.

@anniepaquette 2 ай бұрын

Hi Cheryl 🤗 Nice to read you :) Thank you so much for taking the time to share. It really warms my heart to know my words have meaning to others. Want to share tea one day soon?

@cherylheimer7253 2 ай бұрын

@@anniepaquette still in Florida, yes to tea, hoping to be back in Sedona soon!

@anniepaquette 2 ай бұрын

@@cherylheimer7253 Sounds good. Reach out when you're in town. :)