HUGE LIFE UPDATE: QUESTION TIME WITH ALL MY KIDS!

So today I wanted to do a special question time with all my kids. So you all asked questions on my instagram account, then I asked them to my kids. One at a time. This was one of the sweetest things I have ever filmed. I hope you enjoy and make it to the end!
Comment below if you made it to the end!
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[@wennaclark9164]

Isla if you read these comments,It was you that made a lot of people watch this channel when it first started, you were mega cute then and still a lovely young girl now.

[@paulineharrison655]

Why did I cry at the interview with Isla? She’s such a beautiful girl. Never change Isla sweetheart 💕💕

[@sandrac2]

I agree she’s so lovely

[@lisavanstone583]

Isla is just the cutest such a beautiful young lady x

[@Bea33333]

It's wrong to call people autistic and assume they have autism. But for future reference, the way that you phrased it with the "there's nothing wrong with Isla" is a bit tactless. There is nothing wrong with autistic people full stop. We're just a little different :) Not hating though EDIT: Also, the problem here isn't really Isla being called autistic, as there would be nothing wrong with that and I'm sure you'd love her just the same if she was. But, there is a problem with the fact that people are calling her autistic as an insult, as a teenage girl at school, I often hear the word "autism" get thrown around as an insult and online and it is so incredibly hurtful. Perhaps with your large platform, you can discourage people from staying stuff like this, not just for Isla (although she's such a sweet girl and you have every right to defend her), but also for the autistic people who do not want to be thought of as these strange aliens. :)

[@dianelinda1000]

Excatly this, we love the inghams and have watched for years me and my daughter watched this vlog and my daughter is 13 and recently diagnosed asd I had to reassure her that autism isn’t a bad thing just see the world differently than others , the word is thrown about so badly by people just let people be who they wanna be x

[@Animallovercb333]

I agree there nothing wrong with having autism I suffer with learning disabilities and just because I have it doesn't mean I am going to be like everyone it just means I am slower at things and need help

[@ourcherishedcherubs]

💯 agree I did not like the way the mum was so offended by the idea that her daughter may be on the autism spectrum and saying no there is definitely nothing wrong with Isla😮 Well Sarah there is nothing wrong with having autism either it’s just a different way of seeing the world in-fact autistic people are the sweetest kindest most honest and trustworthy people you will ever meet so definitely not something to be ashamed of .

[@Animallovercb333]

@@ourcherishedcherubs your so right so what if she did have autism there nothing wrong it just means you see the world differently so what if she had special needs I suffer with a learning disabilities and may need help always be proud of who you as jesus made us in his own way

[@Kekw79028]

I just want to comment, I dont think theres anything wrong with what Isla said about being autistic, she actually worded it very well and I appreciate her sensitivity around the subject however, Sarah, please dont say things like 'there's nothing wrong with Isla' because having autism doesnt mean theres something 'wrong' with you, you are just different and percieve the world differently. I just want to give you the opportunity to understand that it can be damaging to use connotations such as 'wrong' or 'bad' with autism, autism can be a really cool superpower like Jace's eye superpower, it doesn't mean there is something 'wrong' with him and I noticed you reworded that question I suppose because the question was 'is there something still wrong with Jace's eye' and if thats the case, I hope you can see that by you wanting to reword that question for Jace's sake, then it would be nice for you to not use such connotations with autism or learning difficulties. There would be absolutely nothing 'wrong' with Isla behaviour if she did or didn't have autism and you being so defensive over those 'assumptions' can also be taken negatively as if its offensive to be asked if you are autistic. Another way of looking at it is if someone asked Isla if she was homosexual and then you said 'there's nothing wrong with the way Isla behaves, shes not gay! It really irks me when people ask that' If someone asked me if I'm gay when I'm not, I just say no and leave it at that, because its not offensive and its not a bad thing or wrong thing in any way. I hope you understand how this can come across. Btw the specific part I'm referring to is said at 52:57. Just a heads up for when future referring to developmental disabilities.

[@ourcherishedcherubs]

Fantastic comment really well said 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 from a very proud mum of a beautiful brilliant kind hearted sweet and gentle autistic daughter I was quite upset and shocked with Sarah’s response she came across very ignorant and rude I do hope she realises her mistake and apologies but I doubt she will because she thinks she’s perfect.

[@CharlotteIvy]

I’m so glad you commented on this! As someone with autism and adhd I found it quite alarming the word ‘nothing wrong’ being used in relation to autism! Being autistic doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you! I feel like societies understanding on autism and neurological disabilities is so slim, we’re never going to beat the stigma

[@laylaheneaghan1331]

I agree and I think the fact Isla herself addressed the questions so sensitively with the understanding there isn’t anything wrong with autism and that she didn’t offend those who do have it but she was simply addressing she isn’t shows how kind and emotionally intelligent she is and thoughtful with her words I would say that says a lot in comparison to many other 12 year olds just because she likes Lego and dresses etc doesn’t make her immature she really is lovely

[@Kekw79028]

@@laylaheneaghan1331 I really do agree! I think it probably helps that being a female and autistic is more commonly seen on tiktok and so maybe she's had some exposure to autism that doesn't look stereotypical, and therefore can see that being autistic doesn't make you an alien, also the fact that their friend they go to theme parks with is autistic is very worrying that Sarah can make such statements online regarding that something is 'wrong' with autistic people and therefore, maybe Isla also is sensitive and more educated on the matter having a friend who is on the spectrum makes her less judgemental and hold stereotypes against autistic people. I think Isla is fantastic at conveying her emotions and really appreciate her sensitivity around the topic. She's a very wise young girl.

[@Kekw79028]

@@CharlotteIvyI completely agree with you! However considering Isla is the next generation for our young people and that she handled the topic so maturely and sensitively makes me think our future generations will beat the stigma. Unfortunately, Sarah still seems to have the mindset of the 70's and therefore still sees autism as an insult and offensive. Those generations won't be mainstream for much longer though! Just look at the acceptance for LGBTQ+ communities. Young women like Isla are going to propel the acceptance of everyone and it's amazing to see such a young person be so wise around sensitive topics.

[@lindad1195]

I love how Mila says “hmmmm”. And rolls her eyes whenever you ask her a question!

[@leannescott8822]

What your favourite food cheese lol

[@brookerichard6827]

I applaud Isla for being her own person & doing her own thing. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with still wanting to play with dolls or toys at the age of 12! There is no reason to rush growing up because speaking from experience, it isn't that great. I honestly wish I wouldn't have been in a rush to grow up. I remember getting together with my younger cousin to play with her dolls when I was 12 & I loved it. A plus to homeschooling is not having the pressures to fit in & grow up at a faster pace like I experienced in regular school. Isla, you are perfect the way you are! You are a sweet, kind, all around lovely girl. Don't pay attention to the haters.

[@bubbleyies979]

I love Isla, always have done, but one thing I LOVE about her is she’s not in a rush to grow up. Isla, I’m almost 16 years old and have the same thought. I still dress like I’m an “8 year old” as what other people like to say. I’m also homeschooled and when I was in school I felt the pressure of being like all of the other girls in my class to “fit it” , but since leaving school I’ve seen my true colours. I act how I want, I dress how I want, why? Because I CAN and YOU CAN. It’s so crazy seeing how much peer pressure school has on children, even as young as Isla. Isla, you’re perfect just the way you are. And don’t let ANYONE change that. And I also had an eye patch when I was Jace’s age too. I had a lazy left eye, but never wanted to wear my glasses. But for some reason I just grew out of it and don’t need glasses anymore 12-11 years later. Love you guys so much, been a fan since 2017 ❤

[@aimeepennington3932]

I do understand the defence for Isla and the comments around autism. But I'm going to come at the comments from another angle. So I've got a 13yr old, who in my eyes I've never thought she had any sort of alternative needs, never saw any clues of being on the spectrum etc, but let me tell you now, its such a massive variety of things that can all add to being neurodivergent or on the spectrum. My girl has small things throughout her life that I would of absolutely said we're just normal quirks. Turns out after hormones hit she saw a few struggles (minor things that all added up to become overwhelming things to her) and she's been with a therapist for anxiety, who's put her forward for autism spectrum diagnosis and adhd. So it's very often no way near as big of differences as we once perceived... she's absolutely a normal 13 year old x

[@CarlieMaria28]

I knew someone who asked his parents if he could get tested for autism at similar age. He got diagnosed and so did his dad around the same time.

[@aimeepennington3932]

@CarlieMaria28 I mean she's not asked for the check, as she had no clue about it either. It was more she was struggling with anxieties a little and after in depth talks we found she has many little traits of both. It's honestly no way near as obvious as people once thought, nor as obvious as TV and movies make out

[@user-mz1cr1fc4z]

Sounds a lot like me growing up, I was just seen as a bit different or “quirky” and I ended up struggling a lot once I hit my teens, I left school early and never successfully returned to education. In my late teens autism was mentioned to me but I never pursued a diagnosis until my daughter was going through the process and I decided to after realising how much she was like me as a child. The understanding of autism in women and girls we have now is only very recently discovered about 10/15 years ago it was believed autism was very rare in girls. Now we know it’s just as common for boys and girls it just presents differently. Not to say that Isla is autistic, only a professional could make that decision but there’s definitely still a lack of understanding of what autism looks like in girls

[@sharonselby8763]

Good on isla for not being a sheep, shes bloody cracking, that girl def knows what she wants.

[@diannevenner-kc6gu]

💯 percent

[@katec8580]

Just FYI you need to be resident in the UK in order to take a UK driving test. You can't take one when you're on holiday there. Izzy would need to take hers in Dubai now, seeing as that's where you're resident.

[@emmabailo]

i feel like a mum saying this i know you shouldnt have favourites but i just love isla so much! she is such a precious girl, she reminds me of myself when i was younger and i felt like i grew up too quickly, i look back down and wish i was still playing with toys at islas age and dolls etc, there is nothing wrong with isla, what she enjoys or her behaviour! she is a happy healthy girl clearly🩷✨

[@leannescott8822]

I don’t have favourite I love my kids the same there are twins there got Autism i still love them

[@tamracasey276]

Isla is such a sweetheart

[@jansheehan302]

Comment for isla ; don't ever rush to grow up , it's OK, but not that amazing . You have a lovely personality , you glow with health and well being .. I say to my girls , I have 3 , " don't race to the end , cause the end is all there is " my last word ... be yourself , its wonderful x😊

[@AwesomePebblez]

Milas section cracked me up. I’ve had literally the worst day and her hmmms and cheese answers really made me laugh. Shes such a cheeky little soul in the best way 💜

[@tomaarashkat]

Can I just say Isla is the sweetest most sincere young lady,she came across so well in this video,showed her true self,so sweet genuine and kind , never change ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@bexclark4769]

Hi Sarah, that thing that esme is describing sounds like OCD (as someone who used to have it) and felt a bit weird when guys said “before anyone says it there’s nothing wrong with her” so there’s something wrong with someone having OCD?

[@Kekw79028]

She did the exact same thing when discussing that Isla didn't have autism. I don't think people realise how damaging these negative connotations are. She wouldn't of said there's something 'wrong' with being gay, its no different...

[@bexclark4769]

@@Kekw79028 u what?

[@cal59281]

Wasn’t there a thing ages ago where they said she did have OCD but was getting help for it??

[@bexclark4769]

@@cal59281 that’s exactly what I thought during Covid right?

[@cal59281]

@@bexclark4769 yep, 3 years ago! They did a whole video about it. If I remember right I think they did some special activities with her brought her some surprises and she was cured and they never mentioned it again. Clearly is something that still affects her and something she has struggled to cope with previously

[@shirleyrobertson1221]

Sarah let Isabelle speak for herself your always interupting her.

[@finleyandfriends8332]

It’s a mom thing… I do it too. My mom also does it.

[@susanlefebour8818]

Isla has a beautiful kind soul. She is delightful and growing into a very pretty young woman. All your children are marvelous and loved listening to them answering their questions ❤

[@Summer_Haf90]

Felt so bad for Isla you could see how upset she felt 😢 why would people even comment about autism or anything like that, let the girl be 12

[@EmmaLop-sn4kc]

They shouldn't used kid for money

[@georgia4391]

Ikr I love Isla I haven’t met her but she seems so sweet ❤

[@leannescott8822]

@@EmmaLop-sn4kcthere don’t grow up

[@nicolajervis6695]

​@@EmmaLop-sn4kchere u are watching them anyway.

[@Summer_Haf90]

@@EmmaLop-sn4kc doesn’t mean people should still comment things like that .. she’s a child

[@annapatterson4288]

I think Isla is the most intelligent out of all of them. It's a real shame she won't reach her full potential because of the lack of a full and varied education

[@lisaemilyfox6848]

So true

[@oliviagriffiths4850]

How do you know what her education is like daily. Are you seeing her school work???

[@annapatterson4288]

@@oliviagriffiths4850 no, but I can fully imagine that it's not full and comprehensive. And that's going by the minimal amount of time they spend on education

[@liisamaarit4607]

😂😂😂😂 that's the dumbest comment I've ever read 😂😂😂

[@annapatterson4288]

@liisamaarit4607 oh, don't you think Isla is intelligent then?

[@lindad1195]

I don’t know why anyone would think Isla is autistic! There’s nothing wrong with being autistic at all but Isla does not exhibit any autistic traits.

[@tonihoward5353]

Was going to say this myself. Ive seen no autistic traits in isla. My girl is autistic, just not diagnosed yet, as still waiting, but pediatric team, play therapy team, school send and a friend( retired pediatric doctor) say 100% she is. When you are with autistic people daily you can usually pick neurospicy people out.

[@lindad1195]

@@tonihoward5353 Absolutely! I have two autistic grandchildren myself so you and I know!

[@princessses2892]

@@lindad1195I think unless you’ve been psychiatrically evaluated you wouldn’t know. Anybody could be autistic and not display external symptoms. My friend was diagnosed in her 30s and not even her family suspected. A lot is traits that go on internally. Theres so many people in 40s/50s in media who have diagnosed later in life. In my experience unless you’re at the severe end of the spectrum you wouldnt know. Girls are great at masking. People shouldn’t imply others are or aren’t in my opinion 😊

[@minan3372]

I agree i‘m autistic myself and i think it’s sad that when a child nowadays behaves like a child people suspect there must be something going on 😢 i love seeing children behaving like children being playful and stuff

[@TWR1988]

@@tonihoward5353what’s an autistic person look like? I’m AuDHD (a 36 year old female)

[@betsytrog813]

Oh sweet Isla. You are so so precious. You are perfect. I don’t see how anyone sees that there could be anything wrong with you. Stay young as long as you want. There is nothing wrong with it. I’m 45 and I still buy toys for myself sometimes. I’m sorry people are so judgey. 💜💜💜

[@ourcherishedcherubs]

There is nothing wrong with having autism either maybe some people were just curious as my daughter has autism and she is very young at heart and sweet and gentle just like Isla so maybe people were just curious not judging as I said there is nothing bad about being autistic most autistic people are the sweetest kindest honest people ever I find it strange that Sarah was so offended by the idea of her daughter having special needs but that says more about her really doesn’t it?

[@kiahdixon6861]

As someone born/raised in the US, high school here is nothing like the movies. That’s an extremely romanticized version of reality😭

[@aliciamariee93]

Right, I hated it. Wish I had been home schooled

[@hannahwallis1290]

Take a shot every time mila says hhmmmmm 🤣😍 so cute!🤣

[@rebekahcayzer9164]

Or cheese 😂

[@leannescott8822]

@@rebekahcayzer9164that maid me laugh too

[@splendita2021]

Isla, enjoy your childhood. Dont rush growing up. You are a beautiful, smart girl.

[@splendita2021]

Isla is 💯 , Sarah's twin

[@neryshughes6778]

Sarah please let your children speak u always talk over them

[@AmWil-bo5qe]

Just when I didn’t think you could sink any lower with your exploitation of those poor institutionalised children, any decent mother wouldn’t dream of inviting strangers to comment on their children, let alone then telling them the negative things people have said about them. Disgusting

[@CharlotteIvy]

As someone with autism and adhd the wording of ‘there is nothing wrong’ is quite insulting. Having autism is not like having an illness, and there is nothing ‘wrong’ with being autistic. We have a long way to go to beat the stigma clearly.

[@splendita2021]

We love sparkly, frilly, girly outfits! We love Isla's style. When i was 12, i did the same things as isla. I wasnt ready to grow up fast.

[@Vikki-zo1js]

Would deffo love a part 2! Loved watching this your children are incredible each and everyone of them isla your perfect the way u r Isabelle stay at home as long as possible wish i had my time bk again id do things sooo much different Esme well 😂 continue to glow and be you Mila and jace well no words to explain how adorable they both are and aurora such a sweetie love you all ❤😊❤

[@hannahl3277]

Oh i just adore Isla. What a beautiful little soul she is. She is so intelligent, you can see it the way she talks. I hope she never changes

[@johull4000]

Defo need a part two. Loved this vlog. All the children are amazing in their own way. 😊

[@PuckiMucki]

There is nothing wrong living at home after you turn 18. There is no rules that you have to leave home after you turn 18. I was in my late 20s when I left home to move in a flat closer to work, but I was still visiting home every weekend.

[@leannescott8822]

At least Izzy won’t have pay rent until she 25

[@leannescott8822]

@elizabeth-og7rw I did when I got 25

[@kirstendario8134]

I 25 I am.still at home

[@Lucy-yi6pr]

Isla is just the sweetest soul 😍 I’m 29 and on the waiting list for an autism referral. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being autistic, it’s not a problem, but I don’t think Isla shows any signs of it tbh. People just need to mind their own business. I’m sure if Sarah thought there was something there, she’d get her tested. Kids grow up too fast these days, let her enjoy her childhood as it doesn’t last long 😂 sending love to Isla xx

[@CarlieMaria28]

i knew of a teenager who asked his parents if he could get tested for autism. Got diagnosed during covid and dad ended up being diagnosed too.

[@Miseryscharm]

There is NOTHING wrong with Isla. I was homeschooled and played with barbies till I was 15. Everyone is different and Isla is growing at her own pace. Don't be in a hurry to grow up, Isla❤️

[@stripcheese8581]

There is nothing wrong with being autistic either.

[@haz1222]

being autistic doesnt mean theres something wrong. :)

[@hey5032]

@@haz1222it does though, if it didn’t mean anything was wrong then there would be no need for ppl to be diagnosed with it nor would it be considered a disorder

[@Hdydundnsjdjnr]

@@hey5032people seek a diagnosis to understand why they feel or act the way they do or to be able to access extra help in school/work/life and many more reasons. It doesn’t mean anything is ‘wrong’ with them. Don’t be cruel in the comments just for the sake of it!

[@ourcherishedcherubs]

@@hey5032 it’s just different not wrong and it’s definitely NOT a disorder please educate yourself before making silly comments the correct terminology is neurodivergent not ASD .

[@SassySuze]

Let Isabelle answer! You talk over her so much.

[@traceykillam1658]

I absolutely loved the vlog. It is great hearing from the 4 oldest. Mila is cute but just wants her cheese right now. LOL. I hated school bigtime and would have loved to be homeschooled. It wasnt an option back then. I love how the kids have all got their own individual likes and dislikes for their age groups. Dont change just because other people think you should you should be doing something differently.❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@shawnipaigeadair5399]

Isla, you are an amazing and beautiful young girl 🩷. You may enjoy dolls etc (normal for a 12 year old) but you are still far more gracious and mature than any of the ignorant people criticising a child behind a screen in their spare time. Keep being yourself sweetie 🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@_the.lionesses.fanpage_]

I agree with you Sarah, I have autism and still play with dolls even tho I'm a teenager there's nothing wrong playing with dolls or isla matching with her sisters. All your kids are perfect they way they are, as I can tell non of them are neglected. I love how you let them be themselves and don't have to hide their personalities. Love you guys so much ❤

[@leannescott8822]

My kids are 15 there still play with dolls and toys there favourite is there iPad there Autism

[@_the.lionesses.fanpage_]

@leannescott8822 same, I don't have an I pad but I still play with dolls and I'm 13, I don't get peoples problems with them tbf

[@leoraann1140]

I love when 12 year old girls still play with dolls and act like 12 year old like I was when I was 12 and now 50. I tell my 11 year old granddaughter to please don't let your friends make you act older than u are, enjoy being kid ❤ love your family been watching from the start 😊❤

[@annadrew2672]

Mila is such a character. Her saying hmmm before all her answers 🥹

[@Musiccompletesmex3]

I really loved this life update!! It truly shows how amazingly different and independent children can be. I have 3 myself, 2 boys and one little girl and I’m just in awe at their own little personalities. I really appreciate you sharing your children’s learning, how you teach them, just the little things and tips that you give because it gives me some great ideas in parenthood with my partner. All of your children are so smart !! I also have a 2 year old and Mila reminds me so much of him both little firecrackers! lol. Thank you for sharing your family with us as always 🥰

[@hfamilytravels]

Wow would never had thought for a minute Isla is autistic (have family members on the spectrum so very familiar with the traits). You do you Isla! My 18 year old daughter has been to one party in her life (wasn't a fan), and also sits home at weekends with her boyfriend (he's almost 19) and plays board games, also build lego, and have even sewn matching pj pants and made teddy bears. Nothing wrong with being who you want to be. I'd rather my kids be themselves than a sheep.

[@joannewall5499]

Good grief, I feel for Isla, how can people be so cruel, Isla you are amazing, be yourself and never change xxxx

[@emilyevans4603]

I just wanted to leave a comment to say you have beautiful children…and that eye superpower of Jace’s is so cool and I bet no other superhero has that power! 🦸🏻‍♂️

[@Th3Hamst3rSist3rs]

I love that Isla is Isla, not trying to be someone else. We can all see that she is getting a little bit more into the same things like ESMÉ. On their birthdays to, them two is always showing each other the gifts like "OMG ESMĖ" "ISLA...ISLA" :P so funny.. One question to you Isla, will you do Isla Cam again?:)

[@trenawhite]

Sarah you are so lucky to have your gorgeous big family. Loved seeing you like this. It’s so interesting that children can be so different from each other even with the same parents in the same environment. What an absolute credit they all are to you. Your deep love for them is so apparent. They gave such thoughtful, genuine answers to the questions. For some reason, Isla, you really stood out to me in this video. What a beautiful soul you are! 💜

[@courtneysisters660]

I just want to say that we were homeschooled as well, and it makes me feel happy hereing you and Isla talking about growing up at your own pace. I Kayla also like playing with toys until I was 14 and I used to think that I was weird cause a lot of girls my age was dating and dressing slutty so thank you Sarah seriously you just brought me to tears but in a good way. sending you all love you guys are amazing.

[@karanmayo2441]

I love this comment 🩷🩷

[@laurachapple905]

I honestly love you all so much. Isla's little question time made me smile so much. She's such a special gorgeous little girl and Sarah you are an amazing mum! Loved watching this❤️

[@Laura-bl2wi]

Loved all the chats with all the kids. Would love for part 2. Loved that it was an hour and half Sarah love longer videos xx

[@nicolajervis6695]

Aurora can't wait to see you grow Mila your a wild cheesy girl who keeps you busy. Jace your a cool dude it doesn't matter if your hairs long or short your still the same. Isla don't grow up to quick just be u. Trust me growing older isn't as much fun. Just continue playing with lego or water till u want to stop. Esme you seem to have grown up so quick but it's great ur a great role model for isla and she can talk to you. Izzy the oldest the more sensible one but every day is different. Follow your dreams. I loved this long sit down vlog. Haters will always hate but Continue to watch you anyway. Strange bunch ❤❤

[@deb2520]

Isla, you are perfect! Don’t listen to anyone that says you are autistic or anything else. I can’t believe someone would say that! Are they insane!!???

[@_the.lionesses.fanpage_]

Even as an autistic person it's rude to assume something that isn't true, if she wanted to open up about it she could. Isla should never have gotten that question in the 1st place

[@jennapaterson5942]

what's so offensive about autism

[@_the.lionesses.fanpage_]

@@jennapaterson5942 people were misjudging her and calling her autistic that's why

[@oliviagriffiths4850]

My son is autistic and perfect and defo has a higher iq than most adults in this chat. Stop talking like autism is a bad thing.

[@_the.lionesses.fanpage_]

@oliviagriffiths4850 exactly, autism is a superpower and not a bad thing, I'm 13 and I was doing work for 16/17year olds

[@kathrynlee2487]

Why do I feel Esme prepped Mila for her Q&A 😂😂 she is just hilarious and becoming more like Esme every day. Definitely a born entertainer xxx

[@kathy9771]

Isla you are awesome! I have triplet 2 year old granddaughters. If they are half as awesome as you, I would be very proud! Please never change, be YOU, because you are enough and real! Your friend Kathy from Montgomery NY

[@crocheting-around-the-planet]

Loved every minute Sarah 🤎 . Young Isla is a sweetie, caring soul & deserves nothing less than 💛. Stay just as u are sweet girl, thats the way I love you 💛 . Jace, what a special Rolo big Ted to the two littler Teds 💛. He melts my heart with everything about him…💛

[@jayneforster5677]

I love all your children ! They’re amazing in their own way !

[@finleyandfriends8332]

Omg Esme! Sing longer ❤ that was good. I love seeing the kids grow and change thier minds. I also love how u handled the Autism question ❤ ty for this amazing video ❤

[@lorifoster6777]

Isla is a very sweet and well adjusted 12 year-old. I was very similar in that I played with Barbies at that age. My daughter also was similar. We both grew up to be well-adjusted adults and Isla will too. She’s so sweet. I’m glad you speak out about those who think there is something wrong with Isla, she’s perfectly Isla. As for Esme, my son really didn’t like school but he loves to learn and has found lots of ways to learn that suit him and I believe Esme will also find alternative ways to learn. All of your kids are amazing!

[@Voxpopper51300]

Hi! Just wanted to say if Isla wants to do acting, she defo should do some acting lessons, it’s sort of a hard thing to just jump into when you’re older, since at auditions there’s lots of people who’ve been doing it for ages. If she starts lessons or private lessons she could learn monologues and have a good chance at getting auditions in her future if it’s something she’s interested in! Also it’s fun and good learning experience and confidence building anyway! Best of luck to her though, you can tell she’s a really sweet person!

[@SallyFern-eg6sk]

Just when you think this mum couldn't go any lower than a snakes belly here she is telling a 12 year old people comment about her . Omg I literally have no words 😢

[@Vikki-zo1js]

Of you watched the video properly you would have heard Sarah state it was a comment island had seen and not what she'd told her re watch then come bk 🙄

[@Bridget-br5vr]

Nothing this woman does surprises me

[@Bridget-br5vr]

@@Vikki-zo1js How do you think I s l a came across the comment in the first place.

[@Vikki-zo1js]

Yes but you very clearly stated that Sarah had sat there and told ISLA the comment that was made my point was that was an untrue comment you made because what was said was isla had seen the msg and wanted to reply so fact check yourself before making pointless comments

[@Bridget-br5vr]

@@Vikki-zo1js I've a headache after reading that comment Vikki it makes no sense at all

[@BethanyTaylor-ne9ir]

I can’t stop laughing about mila she’s so funny 😂😂

[@lindad1195]

I live in America and I wouldn’t send my own child to high school here! Now my two kids went to high school here but this was in the 90s but I wouldn’t send them now not with what goes on there!

[@loridill4683]

I agree with everything you said Sarah, about Isabell. She seems so caring, and ready to help with all kids. She is so beautiful.

[@angelajenner4301]

Oh sarah, i cant get Isla out of my head, she is beautiful inside and out and those trolls are vile x

[@PeterDugmore]

Vile is a parent putting their child through this, it’s terribly sad.

[@angelajenner4301]

Peter its not the parents its wicked trolls

[@PeterDugmore]

@@angelajenner4301 why would any parent ask strangers to ask questions about their kids and then when they get unpleasant ones tell the kid? It’s insane.

[@rachelholt2358]

Isabelle was constantly interrupted.

[@amandaway9236]

Isla, you are just the way a 12 year old should be. You always make me smile. Don't change who you are for anyone, just be you beautiful girl x

[@lily_the_tzuadventures5359]

Esme sweetie, the movie doesn't show what American high school really is here, Imean when I was in high school a hundred years ago was so different than now, I graduated in 1982 I loved my senior yearwas absolutely amazing but sweet darling things have changed here, I wish fir you the best experiences life can bring, you are simply beautiful and deserve the very best. You keep moving forward and just live life!

[@rebekahcayzer9164]

Mila is hilarious 😆 Isla is amazing such a kind and caring young girl ❤

[@halliwellatticcreations4180]

I am 41 and I still love rainbows unicorns glitter sparkles dresses and ribbons so always be you do not change Isla you are amazing. Love the new hair Esme, it suits you. Love your book recommendations Isabelle, thank you all for sharing parts of yourselves that we wouldn't normally see, yes please do a part 2

[@marcuslamb789]

Isla did so amazing in this you should be proud of her Sarah ❤❤

[@Here4ucantbe]

Jace has captured my heart. He has got to be the sweetest little boy ever. The way he interacts with Mila and Aurora is amazing. He is never rough with either of them and seems to always want to help them (anyone really) if he can. He is such a quiet child that allows everyone else to be in the spotlight while he remains blissfully happy to blend into the background. Soon after Jace was born, I lost my only child. I was mindnumbingly devastated and wanted little or nothing to do with anyone. I have followed you for quite a few years but one morning, your vlog was about Jace, and that vlog literally pulled me from the depths of hell. I look for him each and every day because he brings peace to my heart. Much love from across the pond. XOXOXO Ellen Beautiful, sweet Isla, there are so many people in the world who are so unhappy with their lives. Some of them unfortunately choose to talk about others in a negative way to make themselves feel better. YOU ISLA, are a breath of fresh air. You are always yourself and you seem to be a happy, intelligent girl. Forget those people, just continue to be YOU!!

[@lucycrook5768]

i love all of you but i can say that isla is amazing and she is a great young girl and i love her personallity and i have watched you since you were young and loved watching you grow up to who you are now and i love how you are not growing up to quickly like all the pre teens including me but i like being a bit more grown up but i love how you are now keep being your confident loving cute adorable self i love you.🥰

[@Mais_ee]

One whats wrong with being autistic and what is wrong with acting like your age, but isla acts like half her age. Let the child speak for herself sarah you dont have to speak over isla and no one has ever said you’ve made you isla autistic cause that not how it works. You dont get autism from neglect. You can still be presured when your homeschooled, you put your kids all over the internet wheres there billions of trolls and preverts and people who will pressure your children more than school ever would. Maybe school is good as it teaches childen how to grow up and how your meant to act in society which these kids will not understand What esme says about having to say good night to isla is literally like the definition of ocd Also isla doesnt have social media then how is she seeing the comments

[@clairesteel9491]

Isla please don’t change you are perfect just the way you are , I love how you are growing up without pressure, stay a child as long as you can your an adult a very long time x

[@natalielaw7334]

My 21 and 18 year old still live at home x

[@that.weird.girl.9281]

isla i was the same as you at 12 all the way through to i was like 17 or 18, dolls, pink, hair, glitter, everything! heck i still love dolls. theres nothing wrong with it at all, im 21 now so!! youre a wonderful and creative beautiful young girl, keep being the exact way you want to be

[@chelouxxx]

i know you said isla doesn’t have OCD but i am diagnosed with it and the night time routine really hit me 😂 i cannot sleep / relax until everyone says night love you see you in the morning how weird i’ve never seen someone else have this!! x

[@jayneforster5677]

Auruoa is so cute ! Mila is just a mini Esme, an amazing little girl ,love her!I love whenever Jace answers a question , he goes hmmmmmm! So cute!🤔 Isla, you are a beautiful girl inside and out! You have always been so sweet ! You grow at your own pace ! There are 12 yr old girls getting pregnant etc here in Australia! It’s appalling to see ! Don’t change sweetheart! ❤ Esme is so lovely ! Love her hair too!

[@chelseytyson374]

Milas situation with the cheese made me laugh so much🤣🤣

[@jenrye3286]

Isla you are amazing. I remember being just like you when I was 12. I wish my 12 year old daughter was more like you but since going to secondary school she completely changed through fear of being bullied if she didn't fit in. Keep being you 💖

[@staceyhanson5278]

I love this video I would love a part 2, loved seeing them all grown up xxx

[@hayleygrimwood5119]

Isla has empathy she’s an old soul you do you darling

[@alicia1850]

Isla is such an amazing, sweet girl! She has grown up so much and is so smart! Stay the way you are Isla, you're perfect the way you are!

[@Animallovercb333]

Not saying isla is autistic but beig autistic is nothing to be ashamed about

[@annapatterson4288]

Jace didn't answer a few questions the way Sarah wanted.

[@simplybrandiasmr9964]

I freaking love Isla!!! People say that my 6 year old is immature despite being extremely intelligent because he doesn't talk like an adult. I'm like DUH cuz I let him be a child. Like we have our whole lives to be adults. Let her enjoy her effing childhood. Wth. That got me HEATED. People are such assholes. Came back to say - Sarah anyone with a brain can see that you are such a good mom and that you genuinely love being a mom. A cult made me laugh. People are NUTS. 😂

[@Vikki-zo1js]

Deffo agree with this great mom great kids great family just all round GREAT 😊❤

[@grainnebellenie4449]

I have always enjoyed watching your videos and actually felt bad that you have felt so judged for your life choices, which I genuinely thought were inspirational . However today my opinion changed, when I watched this video. You don’t like being judged yet you thought it was ok to air a video using the word ‘normal’ to describe neurotypical! My 13 year old was diagnosed with autism at the end of last year, there is nothing ‘wrong’ with her, she sees the world differently to a neurotypical person but that doesn’t make it ‘wrong’. She is a very intelligent child who will go along way. What is wrong is that people use language to make her feel excluded or not accepted in the neurotypical world. You didn’t like when you thought someone was being critical of your child, I don’t like the language you used to make my child feel like she’s ’not normal’! You have a platform to promote a positive change in the world yet you’ve used it to make autistic children feel like they are abnormal. Think about the language you use, you wouldn’t like it if it was directed to one of your children!

[@Megan-kw5hn]

Isla, it’s so refreshing to see a 12 year old actually behaving like a 12 year old as you do! Please don’t let any of those awful comments affect you. You’re perfect the way you are!🤍

[@Ami-gd9zc]

So was Esme. Now look at her.......

[@clodaghodonovan1071]

This was my absolute favorite vlog ever , love the girls and their different personalities and my God Sarah you are such an amazing mum to those girls and Jace,honestly we all need a parent like you and I’m 52 mum of two 😂. I have a huge soft spot for Isla she is an absolute pet and is just so pretty and natural and so glad she is not in a rush to act too grown up . Mila is nuts and so funny ,Esme is tapped 😂 and I love how she has grown into herself . Isabelle is an absolute rock and such a caring sister . Jace is a boy version of Isla and he is clever and such a funny little caring character and he’ll make a great Spider-Man grown up . Look forward to those vlogs 😂

[@joagate3259]

I do think people have decided how your children should act, but isn't it lovely they can be as they want and be them. Don't need to grow up fast enjoy how fun you all are.

[@niamhunaoleary5667]

Well done to Isla for answering that question but how grown up for a 12year old she should be so proud of herself amazing young lady to all you’re children are amazing do not mind the people who are trying to be rude you are amazing parents to ur kids if anyone has anything negative that’s on them not on you.

[@JamesFleeman]

Sarah let Mila know I’m having Cheese🧀🧀🧀🧀 with my dinner later lol that was so funny

[@phantomvideowatcher]

I finally got around to watching this vid. It flew by!! I love your family so much. All of your children while different are so precious and sweet. I loved spending time with them through you.

[@rebeccadexter-smith7884]

Isla is sweet and has such a big heart how dare people say anything mean to her. She is smart and happy

[@elaineadamson8561]

Isla is such a lovely girl. Don’t ever change. Xxx💞💞💞

[@sarahturner1116]

Omg isla reminds me so much of my daughter who is now 28 bloody fantastic parents you both are

[@crystalharrington8990]

You should be so proud of yourselves as parents. Your children are bright, funny and KIND. Jace's sweet little face while answering your questions just melted my heart. And Isla is growing so fast & she is just so beautiful!

[@em-kc7iq]

Isla looks so gorgeous in those colours and with that hairstyle!!

[@Jasminlouise1]

Really really enjoyed this video! So nice to see each of the children individually! I must say all of the children are so lovely and polite. I do have such a soft spot for Mila 🥺😍

[@angelaclark2295]

How amazing are you, letting your children answer the questions, think that great. Xx

[@user-vu1py8ms3x]

Mila facial expressions are great love her ❤️