Today - Him Or Me

[@kevinleftridge8241]

This was my JAM!!! Would burn a dance floor in half, at the club dancing to this!!! This group was soooo underrated!!!Still listening in 2023❤

[@Tee-kk6tj]

😂 that was me a few years ago! Tearing the dance floor up in 3 inch heels!

[@needyah6783]

2024 still listening!

[@kevinleftridge8241]

@@Tee-kk6tj I hear you! lol clubbing back then was so much fun , you sound like you wouldve been a good dance partner!

[@kevinleftridge8241]

@@needyah6783 I know thats right!!!!

[@wendyrobinson8477]

❤❤

[@RAWSKILLZ1223]

Do you really want HAAAAIIIIR or do you want WEAVE! :) That's always what I hear! :)

[@mznailz69]

lmao

[@WillaThomasthelilyellagal]

Richard West I cannot and will not with you. LMAO

[@RAWSKILLZ1223]

So glad to have ruined the song for yall! Lmao! Jk Hair? Weave? Hair? Weave? Lol

[@Iroc314072]

Richard West lol. I like that one too...

[@sarahsimpkins2021]

Yeah me too lol

[@djbeeluv]

Who's listening in 2024?

[@shauntemoore1538]

November

[@mmcdonald1000]

I was a teenager when these songs came out. This is Classic R and B😀👍

[@SoSoHot23]

Gotta love that New Jack Swing! Everything Teddy Riley touched turned to gold back in the day. This used to be my JAM in high school. Even now, I find myself humming it sometimes. So glad to find it on KZbin. :-)

[@deanward393]

today is way underrated they should do an unsung video on them. I remember them from the late 80's an early 90's they Were really good.

[@allanasmith334]

Gosh! I loved me some Big Bub!!! Man can sing his behind off.

[@sherrillcollins5617]

Yes he did

[@harryheath9928]

How tall is big homie 6'10

[@dukemadman721]

New Jack Swing in full effect.

[@psgary6622]

Sho' you right...oops, wrong era!

[@jeromestithsr.7138]

Dude Guy was just coming out themselves....but yeah your right....I'm sure Teddy's hand was in there somewhere

[@raymondkennedy8513]

FULL effect

[@darrickmiller5281]

SHOUT OUT TO ALL 5150 VIEWERS WHO CAME TO CHECK OUT THE VIDEO!!!

[@lyndaprice3443]

I remember playing this on the jukebox. Good old days.

[@michaelmason8772]

Those days groups like Today, Troop, Bobby Brown , Heavy D and New Edition all had moves and style to the dance and have fun.

[@Iroc314072]

Doggonit, I want to see their story on Unsung...what the hell happened? I loved these guys and the lead singer is killing those slides in this video. That brother is smooth as hell.

[@carltonalexander9319]

Yea Motown Records The Boys. And Another Bad Creation.

[@gwise8095]

They're all still living.Prolly behind the scenes making the real bread.Different paths these guys went after music.Some good some bad ...Period

[@harryheath177]

Tall brother got the moves man yeah!

[@flex5752]

@@gwise8095 nah they got regular 9-5

[@greggsanders685]

Look it up on utube. Might be there

[@crystalpcullen]

A combination of Troop meets New Edition. A throw back for real

[@yolandaclark1142]

For sho

[@bk50in09]

Spot on

[@tonicaughn6529]

That why I like old school ❤❤❤ anything in 2000 is not considered old school 😮 1990s on down to 1960s 70's 80's ect even 50s. 👍💯

[@gwise8095]

Big Bubba and Heavy D held it down for The New Jacc Era💪💪💪💪

[@sharonroseman5918]

Yes they did.

[@Michelles_Daughter]

💯

[@athena2zeus54]

Guy owned it

[@kayangelique6445]

This was my joint back in 8th grade! 1988, the beginning of New Jack Swing

[@ericwillis7480]

I'm doing this song next karaoke night

[@geewalk]

spring/summer 89

[@AmericaUnleashed9327]

Actually 87 was the beginning

[@KellyGirl1268]

"Girl, I got My Eyes On You" fav by them!!

[@ceeceetracey9839]

That was always my favorite too but when I listen to them now "You Stood Me Up" packs a helluva wallop.

[@BlaydeAlabama]

Thanks!

[@muhammedjihad584]

One of the hottest jams was out there Back in the eighties Still sounds good today I love this group today

[@Lashid4u]

..hair ..weave ..hair ..weave ..can't help but think of that song ..lol ..Today - HELLA underrated New Jack Swing group

[@laroygibson7053]

Lol bobby jimmy (hair/weave)

[@deshayblackman7827]

Bobby jimmy and the critters

[@antoinec822]

😂😂😂

[@BDX169]

That video is funny as hell after 30 years 😂😂😂😂

[@gloriabrock7789]

This was my jam! It didn't matter who I was talking to or what I was doing. When that first note dropped...SOMEBODY was dancing with me!!!

[@mrswhite8040]

Gloria Brock me too still to this day 😂😂😂

[@arthursullivan681]

I c y

[@brajaelelioni]

Yes lol

[@FaithandPurpose828]

Yokota AB Japan - 1988 when I first heard this song. Was in the USAF. This song and It Takes Two by Rob Base played constantly through the barracks. 😎

[@cocheselives]

Were you doing the cabbage patch?

[@rexyumul1910]

One of my first tapes I actually bought on my own brand new when this had came out in 89-90

[@jayshelton187]

Takes me back to Going to the over 21 clubs at 16 driving my 80 Monte Carlo with a Ragtop and 17’s. Thought I was Rich not a care in the world but what I was wearing to the club.

[@godmusick24]

This dude and group was soooooo underrated!

[@tonicaughn6529]

For real 😮

[@msred8322]

Who else is still listening to this in 2019

[@ariisiahfaulkner3458]

I am

[@ksleep1026]

*2020

[@amarvinwinansfan]

2020 baby!!!

[@djnitetrain6171]

Check out my New Jack Swing Mix! kzbin.info/www/bejne/f3bIipamo9Vqgdk Subscribe to my channel

[@lastdays3148]

December, 2020 and let's get this Year over with.😷🤦🏾‍♀️

[@robertdozier9481]

This group needs their own episode of "Unsung" on TV 1

[@summerl.walker6898]

I was 10 years old when this song came out. Classic 80s 🔥.

[@ajrvjc]

#5150nation up in this bitchhhhhhhhhh!

[@Junkman2008]

[@rhondabooker7652]

Junkman2000 I had the VCR with all the good stuff!!!

[@DAREALFARMZ]

😄😄😄

[@marquiessimmons4508]

Good music never gets old they did the song on House party too!

[@AddSeymourJr]

Man, I'd be in the club, drunk, going up to ladies saying, "Do you want him or do you want me?" ALWAYS got a big laugh and sometimes some play...

[@dalechisholm2797]

Gotta love the dance steps totally on beat 💯💯

[@lyndaprice3443]

I remember playing this on juke box. Hanging out with my best friend having clean fun.

[@taichi29]

This was the type of music that you got off from the wall and dance. Yes, we actually danced back then.

[@donzellcrockett4386]

Still hitting in 2021!!

[@yolandadarnell7411]

2020 love this song, I remeber Russ Par made a prodigy called hair or weave back in the day.... Big Bub yaaaasss them vocals......

[@sharonroseman5918]

Saw him performing Charlotte North Carolina his vocals are just as strong as they were years ago

[@frankmatthews4967]

So dope! I miss this type of music of yesterday.

[@Darkseid300]

I remember watching this video on BET Friday night countdown

[@TripleRp]

Great song but if you remember this time from the 80's you really have to laugh, Big Bub was gettin it!

[@shaunellgl9114]

Oh my goodness I forgot about this jam until I heard it on the radio, NOVEMBER 2024. 😂 LoL back in the day, I used to think he was saying help me, help me...

[@rexyumul1910]

🤔Dannnngg i remember when I got this record on a cassette tape 📼

[@ChaLeeGraysJukeJoint]

Man, I almost forgot about Big Bub...loved this tape, yes I said tape.

[@birdhead73]

This used to be my jam! I love the new Jack swing

[@MrHarlandwilson]

after mjb 25 years my life album reuniun I watched all his videos. I forgot how many videos he had.

[@bnice3138]

Maaaan we gotta thank Teddy Riley for bringing us New Jack Swing that man was a Genius he created his own sound that took the world by storm in the 80's and 90's it was Authentic and from the Soul that's why it's still better than 99.9% of the so called music today, because it came from the SOUL

[@greggsanders685]

Brings back my girl was cheatin and I asked her wtf is up. U gotta choose. I eventually left. Fr. Very good song to dance to

[@KephatTabulous87]

I didnt know there was a video to this song😮 i thought i saw every video in the 90s. Haven't heard this song since i was little!!! 🙌❤ on top of that I just heard this song on the radio not too long ago on my way to work. #love90smusic #childhoodmemories

[@AlltheWorldsAStage444]

WoW i haven't heard this gem since childhood, and never seen the vid November born, thanks🔥

[@godschild1174]

Go head BIG BUB!!

[@caliobzvr]

such a sad song for it to be so up beat... 90's rnb for ya...

[@MrCleanMississippi]

Classic !!!!!!! This is real music! none of this auto tune pointless crap that is out now.

[@iluvmyboba]

You know, I'm watching this video for the first time in a long time and I just realized the "him" looks like he's old enough to be that woman's father and Big Bub.

[@ThinkTankIllustration]

The Dance moves is what gets me. love it

[@soblu1914]

Why she gotta choose between the sugar Daddy and Big Bub? LOL

[@soulquarian69]

aw man! i remember when this NewJackSwing sound was so brand new...thank you Teddy Riley!

[@100sapiophile]

I'm doing the running man 🤣 having beautiful memories to this jam

[@Certifine]

*Well dressed , no tats and hip movements.*

[@goldigums]

Love this song my bro used to play this out!!!

[@CNS932]

Man I was young when these songs came out but yet I remember them like crazy..guess thats REAL MUSIC..thanks to my parents!

[@davidsichone7332]

Had this record on repeat for a while!

[@gerrodivey1789]

Big Bub got them moves don't he!

[@maryhines6744]

Me! I will be jamming to this song at my 70th birthday party 😂🎉

[@staciejones6423]

Well Big Bub i chose you

[@BlaydeAlabama]

I chose "him" and I regret it!😆

[@oscarl.ramirez7355]

A blast from The Past

[@ronaldstallworth5925]

That lil field goal kick at the end and how he mobbed off was funny ASF 😅

[@ShesMajickal_]

Omg. Man. Do ya really want himmmmm

[@Stevieknixxx]

This was the jam back in the day🤣🤣🤣

[@LilAlpo1]

Corey Holcomb brought me here Lol

[@MrBoswel1]

great classic. i miss this r&b. 1991 video soul.

[@tonybarber3535]

Big Bub was nice wit them moves

[@gregoryburkhead7813]

Still here 2020

[@carltonalexander9319]

Today Was Cool. New Edition Troop And Ready For the World And Some Other's to.

[@Steve-mp7by]

Do you really want ham do you really want beef?

[@boatswainsm8]

I think they were produced by Teddy Riley of Guy...I think???

[@jessemayfield6240]

This video was shot November 14 and 16, 1988. I was "Him" in the video. Fab Five Freddie, Bubba and the guys were great to work with. Alot of fun !!

[@lawrenceno6877]

boatswainsm8 shut the fuck up

[@rtwo4570]

@@jessemayfield6240 that’s really you? You looked old AF in this video. How old are you now then? 🤔

[@shawn50544]

this song bring back some good memories straight from jersey.

[@rtwo4570]

Anyone else notice that HIM is damn near 65 years old? HIM had a 401k, wife, grown kids and two mortgages.

[@jessemayfield6240]

"HIM" was me and I was actually 34 at the time. Got all grayed up!☺️ That was November 14, 1988.

[@rtwo4570]

@@jessemayfield6240 lol, man that’s awesome. You were part of history. How’s that feel? You show this to your kids?

[@jessemayfield6240]

@@rtwo4570 Yes Brother. My kids still love it. That was alot of fun to do. Teddy Riley was standing just off to the side and he very cool. The guys were nice and down to earth. Seems like a lifetime ago. I actually did another video for director Fab Five Freddie for a Brotish rap group called "The Cookie Crew."

[@rtwo4570]

@@jessemayfield6240 man that’s awesome!!!

[@majapain4423]

@@jessemayfield6240 cool

[@Skipgoeshard]

5150 brought me here

[@cynthia6700]

Lol I guess I'm not the only one that came here from 5150.

[@mykingthoughts2224]

2024 and I'm still rocking this cut

[@ralph328chaunceyst.7]

Bub originated that go kick rocks dance

[@CammedC6]

This song brings back some memories!! I love this song!!!

[@RoseTV-ti6bd]

Greetings ☕🫖 good evening 🌃 I really liked the beats in this song

[@DemonkaiMugen]

grew up on this but 5150 reminded me how funny the vid is lol

[@melostreetvybztv6328]

My shyt when I was little kid ‼️

[@wyzellwashington9124]

Song is still dope. Group is dope. But.... The shoulder pads though?🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤣🤣

[@NWSaint]

Damn... them New Jack style background dancers/singers were dope!.. the poor man's version of Guy!.. LoL.. but still dope af!

[@rtwo4570]

There weren’t background dancers. They were part of the group. Big Bub was just the lead singer.

[@kellyc7169]

So misheard these lyrics.. haha.. Thought it was... "DO YOU WANT TO HELLLPPP MEEEE!?" Ha..

[@Missvet2u]

lol me too

[@supabadforever9532]

lmao

[@shondamiller7742]

lls it does sound like it "singing" do u really help do u really want me

[@ssmi636]

LOL

[@RSTAR2009]

Still listening February 23, 2022

[@docdre1100]

This was the jam back in the day. The lead singer kind of sounds like Fred Hammond.

[@pdspears102767]

The dance floor was hot, jamming, sweating, partying like we didn't have a care in the world. The 80s were awesome.

[@amarvinwinansfan]

OMG I'VE BEEN LOOKING 4 THIS SONG!!

[@calvestermarks900]

Who else still listening to this in 2020.

[@morenaso1]

I met him back in the 90s very very very down to earth dude

[@reeleast]

She should have me.lol.For real this is New Jack Swing in the early stages and it still bumps today over 20 years later.

[@rhondabooker7652]

That dance...kick out and slide on Big Bub!!! Luvs ya!!!

[@solodolo522]

Mann i remember first herd this ibwas in 4th grade..a lil fella and was diggin this jam

[@Mr1laker]

Where the fuck did these days go !!! Music these days has nothing on back in the day !! Brings back memories

[@Poisonhimgrrl81]

Whole time I thought it was, do you really wanna help me. Lol! 81 baby here 🙌🏽

[@LyricalSoundDealer]

Smoking a blunt listening to this feel like an OG

[@eyesley]

@KJDrty If you haven't found it yet, I think I found mine on Amazon or one of the New Jack compilation CD's they have on the site. If all else fails, I agree with going to Ebay.

[@fullblizzy1603]

Big bub looks like treymon green for golden state

[@davidreynolds3302]

Big Bub!