Hunter Schafer: Polyamory, Cheating & Fame

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Join Alex in the studio for an interview with Hunter Schafer. Hunter reveals why she is loving her current single era and how painful it was being cheated on for the first time. She discusses trying monogamy, why dating musicians is HARD, and what she’s looking for in her next relationship. Hunter also opens up about what it was like growing up as the pastor’s daughter in the South, her complicated relationship with fame, and how she wound up in Euphoria with no prior acting experience. Enjoy!
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[@FishareFriendsNotFood972]

OMG, the pipeline of 'happy poly woman' to 'dating a cis guy who wanted monogamy, just to end up cheating on you' is not discussed enough!

[@Burntjuulpod1]

SERIOUSLY OMFG i will never let it happen again

[@zar8885]

so "funny" how it's ok for u when the woman cheats but cry if a man cheats

[@roundabout468]

@@zar8885 now where exactly did they say that u dumbo

[@scrumptiousborger21]

​@@zar8885 its not okay either way

[@Kiddokazi]

​@@zar8885 Poly isn't cheating. It's agreed beforehand that you can have more than 1 partner. Cheating is making the promise to be faithful to 1 person & then betraying that.

[@FishareFriendsNotFood972]

Hunter is such a sweetheart and she deserves the world! Glad you had her on

[@hairiseverything]

Agree and LOVE your profile pic awww 💐

[@valleyshrew]

Do you support the mass murder of Jews also?

[@wingmaywong924]

@@hairiseverything Agreeeeee!

[@esotericaowl2887]

I love Hunter's energy. She seems like a sweetheart. I'm sorry that she had to deal with cheating. She deserves better.

[@fourtwohundred]

dominic fike man 😔 he’s got great music but he’s a big cheater

[@treeified0987]

@@fourtwohundred it's a shitty way to be. if he's a person who finds fulfillment in multiple relationships he needs to just be honest and learn about polyamory and how to do that in a healthy way.

[@fourtwohundred]

@@treeified0987 i know he needs to go to therapy ngl 😭😭 that boy had a rough childhood and it reflects on how he treats the people around him

[@jonkravis5791]

As a military man who faced cheating from his ex spouse, I can understand the "fundamental change" Hunter refers to. Cheating is pain and definitely a negative choice a partner can knowingly do to break you and their own worth. While I dont care about Fike, it's pretty sad he literally had the most genuine loving partner like Hunter Schafer, having worked with and supporting her preference, all to throw it away for bs. Hope she knows she's better off and holds her strength and love for future relationships that won't squander an amazing time to date and care for her and likewise. And if I had a shot at dating Hunter, I sure as hell would never cheat, she's amazing at everything she does and talks about. # heal and grow 🤙💛🌼

[@ssadidas]

She’s so candid. How refreshing and inspiring and crucial is it to hear a young woman speak so forthrightly and honestly about her experiences in love and sex and navigating a world which may not see her yet… with pride! And with gumption! Rock on, Hunter! We appreciate you!!

[@kittenmiIk]

i love hearing her talk it’s honestly to relieving to see a doll in the public eye and know that we have the same experiences

[@Talia778]

Aww she seems so nervous. I love how open she is about her experiences. She doesn’t deserve all of this slander. I truly will never understand how you can be a grown adult and still be transphobic.

[@hairiseverything]

Okay, Alex has actually evolved into a great interviewer. And LOOOOOVE Hunter, just so adorable and BEAUTIFUL. 🌹

[@xdxegs]

As a Dominic Fike fan I can confirm that she is definitely talking about him

[@heresheliess]

I know 😔

[@AidanTheLoverBoyOhDwyer]

Are you still a fan?

[@khadijak6065]

100%

[@heresheliess]

@@AidanTheLoverBoyOhDwyerim really conflicted about this I love dom but I also feel for Hunter

[@mal-nx6xs]

I'm not a fan but I know lol

[@TheMsCroft]

Omg I'm so happy you had her on the showww ! I love her personality and positivity, she's beautiful in & out. I'm very excited to see her upcoming creative projects. 💛💛💛💛💛💛

[@MakaylaDavis-d8g]

This is such a hard thing to talk about because you have to be so vulnerable and that’s so difficult sometimes. So proud even if it’s not my cup of tea it takes so much to be where she’s at in life and I’m so happy for her!

[@HunterSch]

Thank you for having hunter Schafer ❤ she's such an amazing and loving person. Idk why anyone would hurt or cheat on her, smh, she's becoming so successful. I'd be a waste for her to invest any feelings into someone who would probably hurt her again 😢

[@RheaSeiros]

This is a great way to be introduced to a new podcast!!! Lovely midweek tonic.

[@AA-qb7ni]

I've always loved Hunter's vibe. She's like that girl you would wanna be friends with ❤

[@alyssadana5011]

Hunters vibe is everything ❤

[@BUNNIGRLY]

she has such a genuine beautiful soul

[@capotegabriel]

do schafer has vagina?

[@spidy1881]

i’m a trans guy and i really love this interview she’s so sweet and understanding

[@Plottoberry]

As a bisexual woman, I've never had sex with a trans person, but I've been attracted to them (being bi and all that). I'm afraid I"ll fuck it up omg.

[@b666rchd5]

Just ask what the person is comfortable with, regardless of gender

[@liynne]

@@b666rchd5 yes! communication is the key to success, in most in life

[@moretiera5543]

She has such a beautiful soul and she is just so genuine and so nice and she’s so gorgeous❤

[@capotegabriel]

do schafer has vagina?

[@westcoastbestcoast393]

wow best interview I have watched in years and it was too short!!!! Need the whole thing

[@capotegabriel]

do schafer has vagina?

[@acemoto6232]

Don’t listen to this podcast but this one definitely got y attention and it was a great listen!

[@allieoco]

Oh hunter, the woman that you are🤍 im so grateful for your voice. Eloquent, poignant, and beyong wise. I love you

[@paloaltoluvr]

she’s seriously so beautiful inside and out. I love her so much

[@morrismalice9094]

Me too ❤

[@elisazouza]

You should interview Charli XCX ❤

[@serenity__now]

omg YES!

[@nudratzaheenchowdhury41]

such a gorgeous human being inside and out. love her. LOVE HER!!!

[@danielleelizaharpz]

I am so in love with Hunter ! I am inspired and completely in awe of her! ❤

[@AnthonyPi1999]

Thank you for the great interview! (Love Hunter) ❤

[@ayahm2098]

awww rooting for you hunter! beautiful soul ❤

[@elizico]

I need her and Emma D'Arcy in a show/movie together asap

[@HekeFula]

Watched the whole episode and oh my fucking god. I HAVE NEVER RELATED SO HARD

[@jonahlevi1]

Love this conversation it's so insightful for some of us who have no idea BUT WE'D LIKE TO LEARN so THANK YOU HUNTER ❤❤❤

[@Moondustsmellsfunny]

Such an eloquent and beautiful conversation.

[@xxxxxxxxx1652]

she's so genuinely effortlessly cool ! loved her since her role as jules :) (although i hated jules' character development)

[@pigeontoedjane]

you did her dirty with that thumbnail - lacks delicacy for what she went through. c'mon y'all....

[@Catlover_98]

Did she change the thumbnail? Im not seeing what youre describing /srs ♡

[@Yella1697]

I haven't watched it yet but she's so fine omg 😭

[@izzykaii]

She has such a beautiful face 🩷

[@AndReaMckay94]

I actually really like Hunter. I enjoy hearing her speak more than the frilly shopping videos with vogue. I mean they’re fun too but there’s more to her.

[@gabriellehenry526]

that was sooo good. she’s so sweet and amazing

[@RikkeGade]

I love this woman

[@HunterSch]

Just let her know, i love her ❤

[@lovemyhorse21]

the only time ive thought about subscribing to this podcast

[@joaoaires8962]

love her SO MUCH

[@__jadedmuse__]

I love her 💛 she reminds me of my daughter

[@ycayrol6534]

I'm like... you're like... it's like... we're like... you're like... they're like...

[@keatonmask1918]

you don’t put the whole ep here? why?

[@user-hc2gg2rl9e]

she is so inspiring

[@Sandrake7]

I love Hunter 🥰❤

[@YaBoyyJohnNBA]

Euphoria Legend, Hunter Schafer

[@noemifueyo.noenlaluna]

Hunter is such a sweet person💖

[@garyprime6983]

Hunter is amazing ❤️

[@snuzzle]

love her sooo much

[@ericagreene1579]

Love that Hunter has been poly

[@SRichards-de7ri]

She’s very transparent

[@pipperlue]

Is she talking about Dominic Fike?

[@libs5896]

No

[@OriginalSprayGroundPrincess]

Yea she was

[@amberf2110]

Yes

[@conner963]

Yes she is

[@JoseHernandez-gy7qu]

Not surprised..

[@Plottoberry]

Hunter is so beautiful omg

[@FarhanahRoss]

Hunter is such an amazing soul

[@nana-bq6ly]

How can i watch the whole thing?

[@yarelidiaz3]

pls lmk too

[@fruutbowl]

On Spotify

[@elanahooper2609]

I love how she describes it. I never get how my parents don’t see how trans people are the gender they now are but I do

[@reesemaxwell4357]

ehh only 6 min ???

[@laurende2956]

love hunter

[@doragonzalez-m8n]

i love u hunter 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷 x

[@chawboy32]

she should play david bowie in a biopic

[@Sondaze]

I’m screaming dawg wtf 😭

[@chawboy32]

@@Sondaze nah come on, peep the vision she gets a haircut and wears some rock clothes, boom.. bowie

[@Ali-wp4ud]

All their videos are this short?

[@KillaBee716]

Also, what is Sis people?

[@moonbeamredfalls]

People who are not trans

[@paulinatrepto775]

I think you mean Cis People

[@jelly.212]

Sisters

[@SpookeyClown]

Cis-gender (not transgender) people.

[@jconny65]

to be fair: he looks like a mf that would cheat. you gotta know who to commit to.

[@Dink_13]

Please vote, trans rights, women’s rights, human rights are all at stake.

[@Jessegarseeya]

I had no idea hunter was trans , for the longest time , she’s great , and big fan of dom

[@ericanl]

I wonder if she will ever get an operation to remove it

[@adamtauqeer]

SHE'S LTRLY MEEEEE.

[@DeviIInADress]

A check with a deck 😅 best of both worlds?!

[@agcgilmour]

SICK!! FO!

[@dancestothis]

❤❤❤

[@gregri8519]

a sweetheart

[@bungle3912]

I love how Hunter's trans, but doesn't make it her personality. She doesn't bang on about it 247 and it's just part of her life. It's so refreshing.

[@jolieli8432]

Dominic Fike Lisa blackpink ? Cheating

[@ashleyjordanmatthews]

do you care to interview black people in the media or are you just only interested in white/ white passing people? We all expected you to interview the love island winners who are a black couple but I guess they weren't interesting enough to you..

[@elisazouza]

100%

[@jefflinder3146]

I was wondering why she hasn’t talked to them……

[@OriginalSprayGroundPrincess]

Yall make it weird she interviews different races but most times she focus on the more popular people

[@ashleyjordanmatthews]

@@OriginalSprayGroundPrincess so are Jana and Serena not popular from the show too??

[@ashleyjordanmatthews]

@@OriginalSprayGroundPrincess she interviewed rob but not Serena and Jana …

[@ruaa2080]

اللي بالسعوديه ومستغربين مايطلع لهم الفيديو بسبوتفاي ترا شالوا ذي الميزه من عندنا):

[@SD4-H]

am so sad

[@mocha44_4]

المقطع كامل موجود باليوتيوب

[@ashleyjordanmatthews]

I actually love hunter and a lot of your guests but only having seven interviews with black people over the span of an entire year shows me where your focuses are!

[@AA-hx4ou]

She’s the whitest woman ever of course there’s no black people😬😊

[@cocoandpika]

i actually think she brings in a lot of diverse guests when you consider the fact that white people account for the majority of those who are in the public eye. stop making issues where there are none 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@cocoandpika]

13 upvotes on an ignorant comment is craaazy

[@chaoticdazefire1614]

See this the kinda comment people make when they just WANT to look too deep into something to stir the pot a bit

[@ashleyjordanmatthews]

@@cocoandpika how is my comment ignorant? What’s ignorant is the fact that you can’t listen to someone when they say they want to see more diversity. Maybe in your eyes the majority of celebrities/influencers that YOU pay attention are white but there are tons of other black celebrities/ content creators who have interesting stories and would do well on a podcast like this.

[@bieateofan2251]

It sounds like sickness.

[@KillaBee716]

So a trans woman is currently a woman right? Or was it a trans from a woman to man?

[@Lilnugget_96]

A trans woman is a woman (transitioned from male to female)

[@marysophieanderson5775]

Correcttt, a trans woman is a woman (like Hunter), the “trans” bit is just extra information

[@KillaBee716]

@@marysophieanderson5775 thank you! It’s always confused me & I wouldn’t want to get it wrong.

[@bandanabaes7032]

Hunter I love you but your vocabulary is atrocious

[@LEOZLAPPED]

❤

[@jones192]

She is really about to get paid 125 million for his BS podcast??

[@darkspore3127]

That's a man dawg

[@dhunii]

yall got problems w men now?

[@Meliaaahhh]

I have a lot of questions & i am genuinely curious for the answers. 1st Hunter stated that she's hooked up with women who wanted her to have sex with them as a guy would, but that was a no no.. how else are you supposed to have sex with them? As she stated she's pre-op, so she still has the genitalia she was born with... so how else would she have sex with them? I know oral, but like logistically she would still be able to have sex how heterosexual people have sex. Also when she spoke about Dominic being called gay i think this is something we should expand on. There is NOTHING wrong with being with a trans person, but if you are, you no longer fit into the category of "straight" & THAT'S OK! there's nothing wrong with that but it's the truth. Why do people try to hold on so tightly to the label of being "straight" when they're with a trans person? IT'S VERY WEIRD. Sexuality is a spectrum, yet people don't want to be on the spectrum, it's very interesting.

[@seizuregirlllll]

People are really overcomplicating things that shouldn’t be that complicated like this other commenter above. Hunter is a man. That’s it facts, nothing more. There’s no need to live in a fantasy land. As a bio women who has lost women to cervical cancer, see women struggle with endometriosis, I’m done with trans saying they are the gender they really aren’t. It’s delusional. They aren’t a women because they don’t have periods, they don’t run the risk of endometriosis, tumors on their cervix, cervical cancer and more.

[@meiniemoon6246]

I don’t think you’re coming from a bad place, but the rhetoric that you are no longer straight if you’re a man and date trans women is inherently transphobic because it means you don’t actually see trans women as women. trans women ARE women. same argument for cis women dating trans men - you can be a straight cis women who dates a trans man because he IS a man. your argument is based solely on genitalia which is kinda weird tbh. its good that you acknowledge that sexuality is a spectrum, but let people define their own identity instead of trying to enforce it with your own projections of it. also everyone has sex differently, idk why you wanna know the specifics but there’s many ways for people to have sex with and without penetration. sex doesn’t need to mimic heterosexual sex to count

[@Meliaaahhh]

@@meiniemoon6246 I am not coming from a malicious place at all, just natural curiosity. I am a naturally curious person & when people broadcast their lives to the public, naturally, questions are going to arise. I am not transphobic in any way, BUT i do differentiate the difference between trans women & women & trans men & men because there is inherently a difference between the two.. hence why trans people have the term "trans" before the gender they are choosing to conform to. It's just a characteristic of them, like race. I am a woman, but I am also a Black woman. My race is just a characteristic of me. My comment is the same for women who date trans men hence why I never explicitly said "straight men" I just said if you date a TRANS PERSON in general why do you care to be labeled as straight. Like what is the need to keep the "straight" label? Thirdly I was curious about it because she spoke about women who she would hook up with who wanted her to "fuck them like a guy" & it being an uncomfortable topic, so I was curious as to how else she would have sex with them because she can't scissor them because she does not have a vagina. Some lesbians use dildos & whatnot, but she would not need a dildo because she actually has a penis. It's all natural curiosity.

[@Razputain20]

​@@meiniemoon6246 fully agree. Trans people fall within the LGBTQ community because we are ostracized from society at large because of our gender or sexual identity. But at the end of the day if a cis straight man dates a trans woman, it is still a straight relationship. It's still a man attracted to a woman because she is a woman. It cannot be more simplified than that. And fully agree as well. Every person is different and sex can look different even between cis/het couples. Some trans lesbians don't to be treated differently than cis lesbians even if they still have the anatomy to do so. It's all about just doing what makes people feel comfortable in their own bodies.

[@assyrianprincess3]

You said what everyone else is thinking.

[@ladev91]

What a bunch of mindless drivel

[@hivisboys]

What a world of confusion

[@nataliedavidson4389]

wtf is a "lens"?

[@bingbong3643]

It means they ignored biological reality.

[@maia6038]

here it means perspective, pov, ability to see

[@x._3347]

POV

[@wombat1309]

who doesn't have a complex with men lol

[@SunniDae333]

Dom smhhhhh

[@fourtwohundred]

he’s such a dumbass 😭 i love him but he’s such a flawed human being it’s kind of hard to

[@b.k8051]

She seems very, very immature

[@IFYCKKNGHATEWALMART]

You commenting this makes you immature hope this helps

[@b.k8051]

@@IFYCKKNGHATEWALMART no, it doesn't. It makes me a person who made an observation.

[@felixthecatboy]

@@b.k8051 how is she immature? :o

[@b.k8051]

@@felixthecatboy I listened to most of the podcast. The way she speaks, her vocabulary, the way she talks about money, her perspective on so many things. I like her but I could only take so much of the podcast before I checked out. Nothing she said was well thought out or was of any particular value. A lot of rambling and exuberance

[@dhunii]

@@b.k8051 i mean isnt she still in her early 20s

[@AA-hx4ou]

I love her but it’s so hard to listen to her

[@jojosiwa4522]

Yes like I understand her, but like it feels like she’s using too many words? LMAOOO idk 😭😭

[@soilgrasswaterair]

Lol, what is anyone suppose to do with that comment? Nothing added to the things she mentioned, just a complaint from a stranger. What did you wish people do with this shallow comment? Wow, so rude to say someone is a hard listen when they open up about things they struggled with and their experiences. Edit: Spelling errors😌

[@AA-hx4ou]

@@soilgrasswaterair bla bla bla bla☺️

[@nanakomatsu22]

i feel like this is her first time talking unprofessionally on camera and so she trying to be more lenient with her words but is having trouble with it. it’s understandable haha 😂

[@oiku4408]

I feel like you have zero attention span

[@catkeech]

She's so flighty and anxiety inducing

[@wodorify]

I am disgusted, sorry but I claim the right to be disgusted after listening this. Thanks

[@TheCelticTiger32]

So hunter is biologically a man but transitioned into a women?

[@Chubbyguitarist01]

Hahahahahah wtf is thisssssss

[@24collin24Collin]

Sounds like she is uncomfortable with labeling her male partners gay, seems to be a little convoluted and judgemental.

[@a_wise_person]

Is this dude crazy.

[@somberzombie]

Meow

[@aplace5791]

That’s a man