Husband Beater Caught Red-Handed, Slapping Husband While Baby Is In The Hospital

[@BodycamPOV1]

Update Sentencing: After booking charges were: Simple battery - family violence: nolle prosequi restrict non criminal justice Disorderly conduct: nolle prosequi restrict non criminal justice Special condition Bond: $20 Conditions of bond: Do not have harassing, intimidating, threatening, provoking or violent contact with victim Thoughts? Like if you enjoy these updates

[@nomames6030]

Of course a female wont ever get actual consequences for her crimes......yet they pretend to be "opressed"

[@lorilouwho6804]

Ridiculous

[@markc13579]

$20 ????? Now if this was a male .....

[@Tortilla.Reform]

What are peoples thoughts on Project 2025 and the dangers it can do to this country? Literally *everything* about police accountability is “political”-Watch how a simple question triggers people below me hahaha, so defensive! Trump wants to give police federal immunity, but they want to ignore “politics”

[@markc13579]

@@Tortilla.Reform um you chose this as your first comment on this channel !!!!!! Really. ????

[@Clutching.My.Pearls]

This isn't the first time she's been abusive. She needed a reality check.

[@soothingfrequency4517]

SHES MENTALLY ILL. Likely from TRAUMA.

[@Nicky-s3u]

This is a fact more women are committing abuse on man but man refuse to call the police maybe out of shame or fear.

[@andyleeds202]

@@Nicky-s3ubit of both sometimes it’s even because some men don’t know what love is and believe that it’s normal but those are rare cases of men who have never been loved before and ending up with an abuser which unfortunately was my case it took me a long time to understand life and how it should be shown not for me to show it to others I’ve always been a romantic but for a while I believed it was normal for women to abuse men and that we just had to take it luckily I had a good mate who helped me understand differently and that love should never have any form of abuse in it what so ever

[@Nicky-s3u]

@@andyleeds202 Sorry to hear that bro. Unfortunately it takes someone who care about you to show you the way. When you are in that situation you start to accept it as your reality and can’t possibly think that there is an other way. Glad you learn from it, I always hated when men and women been taken advantage of by horrible people who themselves were taken advantage of!

[@margaretlangridge6767]

@@andyleeds202

[@TheQats]

“Has she done this before” “ Well we’re going through a divorce” I’ll take that as an obvious yes

[@Solitude11-11]

Would have been a straight no if that were true, so yes I agree

[@katiejon17]

That man’s body language clearly indicated this wasn’t his first rodeo.

[@panamarubia1283]

100%!!

[@401Impala]

The officer asked if this was the first time she's done something like that and the Husband literally nodded yes.

[@CarriUSA]

At the same time I feel the cop should have stressed the importance of her never treating anyone this way and may need some kind of help. If she can publicly do this , is not accountable, what will she do to that child!

[@w.mtower4895]

If this was the husband abusing her, he would have been put in cuffs before walking out of the hospital.

[@leeannhoffman3556]

I agree, If a man had done this he had been arrest and possibly his rights taken and most his pay taken for child support and want be able to provide for shelter for himself. While the female gets housing, food stamps, and medical. And anything back child support over $1,000: man goes to jail. And his work history is ruined forever.😢 Father's rights are rare, and SOMETIMES too late.

[@dannybrezelhorner2715]

​@@leeannhoffman3556the craziest thing is there can be so much evidence about a woman being abusive and she will 9 times out of 10 still get the kids in court.

[@leeannhoffman3556]

@@dannybrezelhorner2715 yeah Dads are treated like nothing more than a seed. Like they love less. BS

[@anglophils645]

She's a small woman, and acting calm, I think the officer did the humane thing, to not put her in cuffs until outside, to avoid further embarrassment for her. I've seen police extend the same courtesy for teachers being arrested at school.

[@graws7009]

A slap from a man does not feel the same as one from a woman. If you don't believe me, test it out on your face. Wrong is wrong, but let's not compare

[@ROL2023]

This is what a professional officer looks like. 100% outstanding OFFICER!!

[@MilesRoads-pd4dw]

It doesn't matter.. The Courts/Judges don't Punish Females... They just Punish Men..

[@moviehubusa82]

I absolutely disagree. He was constantly apologizing for the law. Why is he apologizing? He’s there to enforce the law. To protect and serve based on these laws. He’s there to make an arrest or whatever’s necessary and take them to jail if that’s needed, that’s it. He kept apologizing for the law and they have these laws for a reason; it’s not to make peoples lives miserable. It’s to protect people and protect children. I think the officer followed the rules in every other way, but he kept apologizing for the law that he was there to enforce and don’t think that’s professional at all.

[@sandymartin642]

I'm usually the first to have a cops back. I love our LEOs but this cop really saddened me. He pretty much kept telling her over and over that what she did was no big deal and that's not true. If it wouldve been the same video but the other way around with the man hitting her and the cop kept telling the man it was no big deal....would you still feel he was 100% outstanding?

[@trevor4175]

"I really don't want to embarrassing her infront of everyone" "I'm sorry about this" if the roles were reversed things would've went wayyy different

[@ROL2023]

@@moviehubusa82absolutely if you are that type of officer. This one was not.

[@TR-507]

If you’re divorcing, who cares if girls call him. Grow up and parent.

[@markc13579]

Because he's moved on and she has no one.

[@hanaayr]

Cuz he's been doing that, and that is why they are getting the divorce. She's wrong for hitting him, but betrayal is very traumatic.

[@mythicalscrub356]

@@hanaayr how do u know thats why they are getting one?

[@elypowell6797]

He caught her cheating and is divorcing her.

[@runninrebel1520]

@@hanaayrlol he’s gotta new girl cause she beats him up.

[@chasingmoonlight7342]

As a woman, how do other women think this is ok? I was raised to keep my hands to myself.

[@amandadavis2981]

I don’t think it’s ok either. I have always thought that if I lay hands on a person no matter what gender, I should be ready for them to lay hands back on me. It’s not right unless you are truly in fear do your life.

[@Caine187]

Because they basically get away with it. If they don't goto jail, they have the leverage of being a female and mother for sympathy (not trying to be sexist lol)

[@sammyb1651]

These w0men are wild out here. Thankfully the internet has exposed just how prevalent female DV actually is. The mainstream media had peddled the: "all women are victims" narrative since forever. It's been completely turned on its head the last few years. Including these female teachers going wild in the classrooms. Truly insane.

[@victorchairez7356]

​@@Caine187😅😅😅😅

[@fyoutube9410]

Easy, society approves this. How many tv shows and movies display women slapping men, throwing drinks on men etc but would never condone the reverse.

[@Frivillig]

I'm so proud of the hospital staff for calling the police! ❤️👏🏾

[@beachgirl468]

They are obligated to by law, as medical professionals.

[@vodkawarr7335]

​@@Spoiled_horsegirl RIGHT

[@lisao7600]

Healthcare workers are mandated reporters. They could get in trouble if it was found out that they knew and didn't report it.

[@nancywillaert5129]

@@Spoiled_horsegirlyou can call it that but when the hospital staff doesn’t report and it’s obligated by law, they can get in trouble and at the other hand if they didn’t report and something bad happens than it’s why didn’t they report. No matter what they do it’s never good isn’t it? So you would shut up when a spouse is being hit, maybe the next target is the kid. And be sure I’m a survivor of familial abuse and on me, diagnosed age 40 with ptsd due the fact everyone new but kept silent and those that did report was scolded for melding a d we got beaten again. We are four of us and only two got a relative normal live. And it’s not due to people that stuck their heads in the sand. I wished doctors would have reported it when I was in hospital but no, the only one that did was grandma and a teacher. They fought an uphill battle against a narcissist and adicts

[@raymondkymsuttle]

Legally they’re obliged to, same as teachers.

[@DonnaHawker-zl8mf]

lmao i love that the security office was like "I cant, but also i will"

[@avogelpohl]

The evidence would have been thrown out in court. Officer is smart

[@turtleman03]

Imagine a man saying "we're going thru a divorce and I saw stuff on her phone" as an excuse to abuse.

[@Dove.Love.]

That wasn't her excuse...that was her reason.

[@dorothypage7410]

Right and that police officer wouldn’t have been that good to you!

[@julieclayton-west624]

The women on here defending her is revolting.

[@Mermare]

​@@julieclayton-west624Where do you see that?

[@billydiaz7280]

Um , they do. Men do. More often than women they do and they get away with it all the time. Where have you been?

[@dasse6637]

Domestic violence infront of a child is considered child abuse and she can lose custody.

[@chromeshellking]

Can but courts have given abusive mother's kids back. All to sadly common.

[@jameshenchy8219]

@@chromeshellkingive seen it

[@louielou6294]

This is very true I’ve seen cases like this in New York.

[@cripppledplmbr]

pure lies. family court sides with the woman even if she doesn't lie and claim emotional abuse if he told her "no" one time. pure delusion. if you can't handle the truth stay out of the light. stop deleting comments that report the reality of the world

[@HappyBoxer-nb1mb]

Sad thing is, court will just give dad temporary custody, no child support and will give the baby right back to the mother once she’s cleaned her act up

[@apocalypto2011]

Women must know that they can't hit men either, no matter the reason. Good for the officer and the medical personnel.

[@coll4455]

This!!!!!!

[@genericamerican7574]

Medical professionals are mandated reporters. They’re required to report abuse.

[@strawman9410]

And security

[@garycastronova7939]

Probably most men will not report abuse on them. I remember a cop telling our class that he actually witnessed a girl beating on her boyfriend and went up to them to make an arrest and the guy said he didn't want to press charges. It's part of the traditional role of men supposed to act the macho man and take it like a man. My ex girlfriend smacked me a couple of times and gaslighted me saying I was the toxic one. She told me she had a machete and would use it on me if I pissed her off. Even her kids told me she was crazy. I only stayed because of the kids but she eventually cheated. Poor kids. Her oldest daughter was already taking after her.

[@javaskull88]

I’m glad some places are taking this seriously. Some guys are living in hell right now feeling trapped by a violent woman.

[@CharlotteWhiteside-q4d]

This gentleman with his soft voice is so very respectful and clam thank God for men like him

[@user-vb6bj1vw6c]

God?

[@lexy4983]

​@@user-vb6bj1vw6c Jesus crist. Factual evidence founded by athiest

[@lisabeaver2919]

Calm

[@randomcommenter5574]

​@user-vb6bjYes, that's what the comment says.1vw6c

[@user-vb6bj1vw6c]

Why do americans think everything is due to god?

[@love_wins_2218]

Hitting spouses around children makes children feel unsafe. And children learn what they live. They either learn how to be the abuser, or learn how to be abused. 💔

[@beencouraged1284]

Best observation, well said!

[@debrahelmlinger6256]

I know 1st hand, happening right now in my family

[@NeptuneLady1957]

Hitting spouse is not ok PERIOD!!!

[@jenniwilliams3295]

The action in itself is abuse

[@splitzyprime419]

I'm a guy, got beat growing up. Ex gf abused me. Single now because it's that, get cheated on, or i could be single

[@mrs.dinahsaur7195]

Just for you young people to know: an assault charge is grounds for you to lose custody. Keep your hands to yourself

[@beeswax6315]

What about keeping your penis to yourself?

[@queen_oftheNIGHT]

No it’s not, the system isn’t that just

[@AleisaEtheridge]

It can be but the courts do not protect children ,it's always the rights of the parents they consider ,rarely the precious child ,it's disgusting for sure and everyday another child is out right back in the home with abusive parents ,if they ever even take the child at all. I'm aware this woman was not abusing her child ,I'm just starting the judges ,CPS ,r consistent with one thing ,It's not protecting children ,I've lost of how many children have been abused to death r went missing ,which We all know means they r dead ,CPS ,judges did not protect those babies ,they protected the evil parents .Thank God this woman was not abusing her child but if she lets her temper get her like that ,it's not a stretch to think she could do the same with her children.

[@owenprice4300]

I've had 9 assault charges only 2 convictions. I have 8 kids with my step kids and all ,never lost any fo then

[@Eze-ndi-ara]

​@@owenprice4300You said that like you want a cookie and a path on the back

[@mistannybell5127]

Going through a divorce is not a ticket to go hitting people. ESPECIALLY in front of your child. It's traumatizing!

[@JayMich29]

Thank you!

[@dittohead7044]

Agree. But one should get divorced first before fooling around. Hes no prize

[@JaylaStarr]

I shoved my husband during an argument and my then 6 now 8 year old daughter still brings it up and always runs in between us if we are disagreeing because she wants to protect him. I’m devastated and really learned a hard lesson.

[@OhReallyBish]

@@dittohead7044 oh well, she's a horrible mother she is more concerned about who he's seeing than her sick child. they don't even live together.you don't OWN a person especially going through a divorce they're not just on a break they're divorcing. are you kidding me?

[@annegreenwood3624]

there is never any excuse to slap someone even if angry makes you a bad human doing it in front of your child just shameful

[@SherylWestmark-mw1le]

I was adopted to a couple. She was the physical abuser to her husband and myself. At 15 or 16 I had enough and I fought back. I remember the fear in her eyes. She never touched me again. Sooner or later it catches up with them.

[@SoloWryder]

Not often enough. Although the Favoritism for females is very gradually evening out... ...some Males are put through Hell unless they can Prove what happened to them. *_-•- P e a c e -•-_*

[@chrissymissing]

aw sorry that happened to you pooks 😔 i hope you’re living a better life now !

[@shelleykienel2454]

More women need to be held accountable for their actions. Not all men are aggressive!

[@JCloud710]

Thank you Shelley! In today’s world women get away with abuse of all forms by playing victim and manipulating situations. Nobody wants to listen to the guy. This causes a lot of mental health problems for men that we see today…..

[@totorolover5750]

So do men, men are not held accountable for what they do to their wives or girlfriends

[@AdverbsAndNouns]

Yesssss!!!!!! This is how my mother is!

[@zbeater4656]

domestic disputes are about 50 50. Men and women cause problems equally.(men just dont report it because we will be seen as weak and looked down on by our friends and family. When others think that way of you its over as a guy.)when we learn as a species that we have no right to hurt others we can start to help eachother. But highly doubt that will happen.

[@Dan-xx5jq]

I agree!! My mother was the abuser in our home. But all I hear is fathers that are abusers. I was too ashamed to talk about it growing up. My poor dad suffered under a toxic narcissistic B. Everything had to be about her. The older she got the worse it got as she was losing her looks and not getting the attention. Thank God for my dad sticking around and loving us. I can't imagine what it must for kids living with a single toxic narcissistic 'mother'.. Most are dead, od'es, or in prison...sadly. The issue must be brought to the forefront.

[@fromcali2tn]

A rough year doesn't give you the right to hit someone.

[@JacquelineCorcoran-b6m]

It doesn’t. That said, people are only human, they make mistakes, people have their breaking points. Judge them at their absolute worst if it makes you feel better about yourself.

[@brianalbano9005]

It was a slap. I'm not saying she should've done it, but cmon...

[@bdlimea7018]

​@brianalbano9005 So if he " slapped " her 5 times would you say, it was only a slap, come on?

[@ThatJew305]

Yes it does 🤦🏼‍♂️

[@marladaniel1789]

When your husband is cheating on u it makes u crazy. This was unfair in my opinion. Her husband knows it was his fault

[@Kenneth-p6j]

Lots of women out there ABUSE their husbands verbally AND physically. Husbands are victims as well.

[@sunrazor2622]

And in too many cases the courts still favor the woman or dismiss the case as a "breakdown in communication".

[@hghyfyfiugou4448]

​@@sunrazor2622Sadly it's mostly just the idea that women can't do any wrong and are only the victims and men are everything wrong with the world and the perpetrators of all evil

[@zoyadulzura7490]

Yup. Another dark side of toxic masculinity--the myth that if a guy "complains" about abuse, then he isn't "manly" enough.

[@mintsmith3894]

​@@zoyadulzura7490 what IDIOT said that. ABUSE IS ABUSE REGARDLESS OF GENDER

[@TheDuke78]

​@zoyadulzura7490 if masculinity can be called toxic, then feminism can as well. There is nothing toxic about masculinity.

[@EmilyPetersenHomemaking]

That cop did a wonderful job keeping the situation calm. Praying that woman gets the help she needs and for that precious child.

[@chriscorrea1194]

Are you trying to rage bait?

[@no-oneinparticular7264]

Unfortunately they always seem to repeat the process

[@hanscrushonauntielina]

@@chriscorrea1194 Maybe the commenter meant they hope the mother gets anger management and therapy so that they can still be there for their child, who would have a very different life if unable to be in their mother's life without abuse.

[@KarkusWWIIOL]

@@chriscorrea1194 How in the world would you think this was rage bait?

[@LukeMalousek]

@@chriscorrea1194are you an idiot? the cop kept the situation as calm as possible, and yes it would be great for the woman to seek therapy for her anger so she can be there for her child. growing up in a split/ 1 parent household isn’t exactly positive.

[@ameliawilkinson9439]

Kudos to the cop for respecting the security guard saying he can't show him

[@sharongaddy5423]

I think you need to rewatch the video dear. The security guard was overly anxious to show the police officer the video. The police officer is the one that said no...he needed a court order to be able to view it..

[@DNOPLAYSGAMES]

@@sharongaddy5423that’s literally what he said dude. I think you need to re-read the comment, dear.

[@fordfreeman2248]

What is a kudo?

[@ameliawilkinson9439]

@@fordfreeman2248 it's like a cheers

[@scruffygaming627]

TBH, I think the cop probably did NOT respect the guard for that. The cop was aware that the incident was likely going to court, and that viewing the video without a warrant could jeopardise the case. And the cop did not want to do anything that would jeopardise the case. Though the guards intentions might have been good, he should not have even offered to do that. But the guard isn't law enforcement, he probably isn't aware of the dangers of chain of evidence. Hopefuly after this, he now is aware and won't do it again. :)

[@madmaxofspokane1691]

She's been slapping him around for awhile... I think he should file for full custody. I'm afraid for the child. 🚓🚓🚓🚓😡

[@amyh7554]

Exactly! She’s been doing this for awhile! I’m scared for the baby too.

[@sandigrace2271]

If the child is "too much" like Dad, or starts having an opinion in time ... she may very well lay hands on the child. 😢

[@athanksgivingbaby570]

The early stages of a breakup, especially when there has been cheating, are incredibly tense and dangerous. Emotions can be high. Nothing excuses physical violence however, Dad may not be willing or able to have full custody - especially of an infant. And, to be honest, if he is seeing other women it could be that he isn't willing to give up his new freedom to have full custody of a baby, and that could also be dangerous for the baby.

[@depletable]

That's a bit of a stretch for me. Not enough information to assume she'd abuse the child. Plenty of information showing she's willing to abuse her spouse.

[@happicheshirecat]

@@amyh7554Womp Womp

[@SanaKhan-bc2vo]

The way she talked to him for a brief moment tells a lot, she is a habitual abuser.

[@daniel5865]

She was definitely in no position to demand anything from him

[@hi-ic2nb]

She looks like a man with long hair lol

[@bobbyb7127]

Yes I noticed that too. She def has not learned anything and will keep doing it.

[@gardiloo]

“Call my mama, NOW!”

[@jenniferdiffley294]

Right. She’s mad at him because she slapped him & got caught. Somehow it’s all his fault

[@MysticStreets]

So first off, good on nurse and security. Secondly, woman, how dare you! You would freak out and throw a fit if he hit you. He doesn't deserve that. Sir, I'm sorry you had to deal with that. You and that baby deserve better.

[@ElanaVital83]

That baby looks so calm in her daddy's arms. She feels safe with him, and he gets the whole quiet night with her just to himself ❤

[@Barny-26]

Well, the baby is sick and probably doesn’t feel good.

[@senoritacarissa8864]

@@Barny-26sick babies are very irritable. She feels safe ☺️

[@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax]

​@@senoritacarissa8864 You don't know how she feels.

[@MP-in4or]

father's lives matter. thank you for your kind words.

[@Kokolamar]

@@senoritacarissa8864very sick babies are scarily quiet more often than not actually. But keep spiting ignorance.

[@DonyaPaul]

This happens more frequently than reported. She’s crying because she didn’t think that she would get caught.

[@ReadyPlayerDog]

Luckily they changed the law in many states. They no longer need the victim to press charges or even make a statement. Also, the police are duty bound to arrest the perpetrator. And since these law changes, the stats now show that women far outnumber men as the aggressors in DV.

[@MilesRoads-pd4dw]

It doesn't matter.. The Courts/Judges don't Punish Females... They just Punish Men..

[@bayleitorres807]

Fr I can not stand women like this.

[@moviehubusa82]

No, she’s done it in front of people a million times because she most likely thinks that it’s OK for women to hit men and because he doesn’t say anything back or try to stop her. She’s now got it in her head that it’s completely and absolutely OK for her to hit her husband. Unfortunately, for her, she hit him in the wrong place at the wrong time and they weren’t gonna baby her and she went to jail and I think it’s righteous as hell.

[@BG1965sylva]

@@moviehubusa82 🤔possibly🤔 but it’s also possible that this was a one off incident caused by stress and anxiety due to the child’s illness and the ongoing issues of their separation and divorce. It doesn’t mean she’s a monster. It doesn’t mean she’s done it before. It doesn’t mean she’ll do it again. Her tears may well be because she realises she went too far and she scared and mortified by her actions. Hopefully this is the truth and it will be a short sharp lesson for her and she will never behave that way again. Why do people always seem to enjoy jumping on the worst about other people when they don’t really know the facts ?

[@clarice525]

Why is she whining about how it is her baby's birthday tomorrow? A good birthday present for the child would be to NOT see Mommy being mean and shoving Daddy around!

[@user-ex9dx7gt4o]

@@clarice525 wow just wow. This mom is struggling with a sick baby and a cheating husband not legally divorced. You really are a compassionate person. Not

[@israelcruz4946]

Get over it, they are divorcing and he admits to triggering her, causing the warranted smacks. America has become Karen capital of the world.

[@johnandersen1732]

@@user-ex9dx7gt4omake Makes no difference what this lady has going on. If the situation was reversed and the man was slapping his soon to be x-wife you would be up in arms saying about this pos wife beater should be arrested and thrown in jail for hitting his wife in front of his daughter. What is wrong with you? Equal rights. No one should hit another person. If it’s in self defense that is one thing but hitting your estranged spouse is unacceptable. No double standards. Man or woman. You hit your ex spouse you go to jail.

[@katbar6066]

@@user-ex9dx7gt4o It doesn't matter that she has a sick baby or that she is getting divorced she should NOT be laying her hands on anyone for any reason. If we saw him beating her I bet you wouldn't be standing up for him would you?

[@piercikun]

​@@user-ex9dx7gt4owomp womp sexist double standard spotted

[@Maziemaze16]

This is a really good cop who actually takes the steps in the right order and didn’t rush any of them. He Took time and compassion for the situation. Nice to see

[@karleenjohnson2174]

She deserves being arrested. This behavior is not acceptable especially in front of a child.

[@nataliawilliams8551]

I agree, doesn’t matter the gender, wrong is wrong, abuse is abuse, any questions???

[@gingerfuller4775]

Not Acceptable PERIOD 🤬

[@exentr]

unacceptable and illegal under all circumstances

[@lolitabonita08]

wait karleen when u find yourself with a cheater in your relationship i will like to be present when u find out just to see your reaction...lolol

[@FrankStixx-x1x]

She's probably going to take anger MGMT classes so she won't end up beating the crap out of her husband.

[@AdoredProdigal]

Men go through abuse too. Just because you are a woman does not mean you get away with putting your hands on a man. Domestic violence goes both ways. I was raised to never hit a man unless it’s SELF defense. This is scary.

[@Channel24377]

I think we know that obviously there is evil women they don’t care and won’t care cuz they evil this has nothing to do with double standards cuz men and women have always had there bad apples

[@TCampbell36]

Exactly!

[@PazuzuM666]

Most if us were raised never to hit anyone, that's why it's shocking.

[@juliahengstermann193]

There was a really bad case of DV in my neighborhood, where a woman (she was a butcher) beat her husband so bad, that he ended in the ER more than once. Gladly he got help and divorced her. My dad always told me how scary that woman was.

[@OsirisIxchel]

It's abusive af to be cheat on your wife when she has born your baby. I think it's worse than a few slaps on his face but here we are. Yikes.

[@jeanniecatton9168]

If she thinks it's okay to hit someone just because she's mad at them, imagine how many times the daughter is destined to be hit while growing up.

[@pennypink3759]

Rubbish you can't predict that she would hit her child.

[@markieffmorris9263]

She needs to focus on losing 50 lbs. Also, not assaulting people.

[@pennypink3759]

@@markieffmorris9263 wow how rude and unkind you are she's had a baby . If she's happy with her body what business is it of yours.

[@PBNJ95]

@@pennypink3759If this was the other way around and the man was hitting on the women you would not be saying the same thing

[@pennypink3759]

@@PBNJ95 women are so much more emotional then men. So most men don't hit women. He was in her face with girls calling him when he's not even divorced. She was at the hospital stressed over her baby being unwell she didn't need him hurting her more with stupid girls calling a married man. I understand why she was pissed off with the immature idiot.

[@T91matt]

I was unaware that the hospital can watch you in your private room while being seen. No one else thinking this?

[@cheriecaldwell3021]

That was my first thought when I heard him say he has a video, but can’t show it without a court order. So that means security officers are watching people get undressed amongst other possible procedures. I’m thinking that is a violation of privacy? When you go to a doctor discretion and privacy should be automatic. It’s a HIPAA violation to discuss procedures without permission from the patient, I would think this is a huge violation. I don’t think any of us would willingly allow a non trained professional to look at our bodies in a very vulnerable moment in time.

[@moraMora-rq9pg]

Yes that a hippa violation they are not to have cameras in the rooms why do they have cameras in the room

[@moraMora-rq9pg]

@@cheriecaldwell3021yes it is and this needs to be addressed asap ! People go in there thinking there safe and not being watch imagine the children being undressed and the security is watching and how do we know they are not posting this on internet omg

[@mariella2884]

You’re getting divorced for a reason. Your child is sick and yet you couldn’t control your emotions enough to be there for them. The focus was still her emotions and the other women. Which again they are going through a divorce. She needs to get emotional regulation help before she begins to hurt that child.

[@austinparmer3259]

Wouldn't be surprised if she starts hurting the child once the child got old enough to show signs of the fathers features. 🤕 I hope not but it seems possible if she doesn't get help controlling that anger of hers.

[@EavyMuturuh]

Exactly she needs help.

[@EavyMuturuh]

@@austinparmer3259exactly what I’m saying.

[@notme2day]

She needs parenting classes and therapy. There are things just as damaging to children that have nothing to do with violence. Hope she doesn't try using the poor tyke as a bargaining prop.

[@jessw9794]

Excellent points! Imagine how she would take it out on the children if they told her how much they love their father, like being with him, or, God forbid, would prefer living with him? Or what if they cared for a new woman in his life?! She would lose it!

[@francynelane9253]

A man wouldn't have been treated so nice . She deserves to go to jail.

[@abalone_soup]

That's what I was thinking. That man is a victim, cop had no business downplaying the abuse.

[@MrsVoss]

My thoughts exactly! It pisses me off how nice he was to her. If the roles were reversed he wouldn’t have been so nice to the husband. It’s absolute BS

[@cmmtorres]

In most cases like this, a man would have only been held overnight also and then be released. Penalties need to be tougher on aggressors.

[@marcellacrier7283]

Isn’t she going to jail? Do you want them to beat her up prior to arresting her? This cop seems like he’d respect any gender.

[@richebronsonify]

So the cop should have screamed at her and/or slapped her around? Roughed her up and try to escalate it into a good loud traumatizing scene for everyone around to witness? She was cooperating. She wasn’t screaming or kicking or arguing. People mess up. Good cops don’t take it personally when they do. Good cops also know their role (job description) is to stop the problem in the moment, prevent it from becoming worse, and then, if necessary get the person through the proper channels to be punished. His role as a police officer is not one of being the disciplinarian. He isn’t the judge. The judge is who we, as a civilized and organized society, entrust to mete out punishment. Don’t advocate for cops to step outside of their roles. There’s a hierarchy for a reason and some cops already don’t comprehend their job descriptions. They cost all of us money, and don’t keep any of us more safe by not knowing what their roles are. This cop handled this scene perfectly. Nice to see a cop who doesn’t have an ego so tiny he takes every situation as a personal affront.

[@BlakeRyanCooper]

Am I the only one who didn’t know there were cameras inside exam rooms?? Are there really security guards watching me cough???? 😂

[@mrsjefferson33]

Cough….? How about Undress….

[@lmitchell4412]

​@@mrsjefferson33 Yeah, that's what I'd like to know. I had no idea...😮

[@BlakeRyanCooper]

@@mrsjefferson33 yes exactly 😳!!!

[@ashleea.8566]

I was about to say the same thing! I have health issues and I don't want some creepy security guard watching me in the hospital room! They need to let people know that they have cameras watching!

[@sarahwhite8135]

I wonder if it's just in the children's department in case of these incidents?

[@adajohnson0410]

His ex wife should be shamed of herself!

[@rachelkirk120]

It is upsetting to hear the cop apologizing and downplaying the situation. She needs to address her anger issues and have consequences for her unacceptable behavior.

[@i-6820]

That’s exactly what I thought. Not that he needed to be mean but what if that was the reason they split up and it shamed him further

[@MotherofDragons937]

I was just about to comment this. Imagine if it was the other way around and they were downplaying a man hitting a woman. She should have at least been sentenced to anger management classes, probation and parenting classes. They should have involved child protective services as well since she was willing to hit him in a public place, what is she doing in private. It is completely ridiculous!

[@notyourbusiness4387]

I am surprised this wasn't one of the first, top comments under this video. I thought for sure that other people would be saying the same thing in the comments.. that's what I was thinking too. It didn't seem right at all.

[@tbell7935]

@@notyourbusiness4387 same thoughts here. It was like she got the golden pass for her abusive behavior and this is only 1 that we know of. You could see she is the aggressor by the way she talked to her almost divorced husband when the cop allowed her back in the room to get her belongings.🙄🤨

[@ytzpilot]

He (the cop) was adjusting his demeanour to explain the situation to the dad because he clearly did not want to press charges, was not aware of how the law works

[@164hozey]

Shout out to the hospital staff for calling the cops, unfortunately she will probably use that kid against him his whole life

[@DianaStuckert]

No, he can easily get custody now.

[@Khvg-e4l]

@@DianaStuckertguaranteed. She will forever have to be under supervision with her child if she does get any rights. I’m sure the dad didn’t file for full sadly

[@chccooperider1377]

He already has another daughter… probably more to come. I doubt he will want full custody. Hopefully the judge will order anger management training for her. This is so sad for all parties.

[@hollymarie6764]

If the husband did this exact same thing the officers attitude would have been a whole lot different. Women need to be held just as accountable as men do and these cops need to stop downplaying their actions,

[@BSAHMchronicles]

Exactly

[@doc-holliday-]

Yea i get the descalation part of it but he was being a little too "oh thus is nothing" to her. Like imagine if the dude slapped the hell out of her a minimum of 5 times infront of the kid and on camera. They would have went in the room a d dragged him out and tried to throw the book at him. Notice how when he let her go back in her attitude was the same toward the man. "CALL NOW!" Hope the judge atleast gave her more of a less gentle reality check.

[@annar8232]

I agree, I also feel like he should have made sure the husband KNEW that it was not okay. It’s not a small thing. She hit him in public. We can only imagine what she did and said to him in private. Hopefully he used this to get full custody

[@TheChibimuffin]

That officer was a class act through and through

[@DC1800-n7x]

I found out my son’s girlfriend was hitting him. He was too ashamed to admit it. I got involved! No man nor woman should be physically harmed or assaulted. My son refused to press charges after the police were called. Though he was able to acknowledge the depravity of it all and left her. She will do it to the next young man, this I am positive of.

[@abbieliz396]

Dang, how did you find out if he didn’t tell you?

[@montamiddleton9318]

​@@abbieliz396A mom knows her son well enough to see things like that. Plus a woman knows how some women act and it's hard to hide a temper especially towards your own son and grandchild. There are tells in violent women that men don't see or put it up to my least favorite thing men say. "All women are crazy ". No, we all aren't crazy. Very few for that matter.

[@mollyannmurphy4104]

Our mom always said " any woman that hits a man is no lady and should be hit back" I am 65 this year and I have never hit a man no matter how angry I was

[@ianmangham4570]

Best ❤MOM 🇬🇧 xxx

[@BrianButterworth-s4z]

Happened to my son too. He was reluctant to talk about it. I saw he seemed depressed. Then I asked him about things with her and that's when he showed me the bruises and scratches she put on him.

[@GigiMichelina]

She needs to be arrested. Women cannot hit men. We can't have double standards. On a side note, I didn't know they had cameras in emergency rooms.

[@Tawana_X]

It’s spooky to think about cameras being on us as we show them our most vulnerable parts!!

[@GigiMichelina]

@@Tawana_X I agree with you. Think about when we're undressing

[@mysticrose6253]

It's not spooky or concerning to be on camera in a place like an ER! It can be a matter of life or death in some cases, like when someone is seriously injured or sick. The better physical watch they can keep on those in their care, the less chance of things going tragically bad.

[@Tawana_X]

@@mysticrose6253 obviously you didn’t watch the same video I did bc the only person that was watching those cameras was the security guard in a closed off room so try again!!

[@GigiMichelina]

@@Tawana_X you're absolutely correct. It's not like a doctor is watching the cameras. It is a security guard watching us undress.

[@buggiesmama11]

The way she was talking to him, shows everything.

[@MagicClouds-wb5uv]

I thought same

[@ooterjohnson]

once she went from "what" to "WHAT" i already knew

[@insideurbantrendz190]

She might be playing with his booty

[@ChelleStamps]

100%

[@MsJ1970s]

Yup, right in front of the police , she did not care

[@Mikesgirl79]

So there’s cameras in the examining room? That creepy, and wouldn’t that be against HEPA laws?

[@jadamcdonald4002]

That’s what I’m thinking

[@gurkagurkadurka6688]

A lot of women seem to think, "You made me mad" is a valid excuse for hitting people.

[@peabody3000]

that's a lotta people in general, but yeah

[@ShadowsandCityLights]

fr fr!!!

[@montamiddleton9318]

More like daddies little princess didn't get her way and throws a temper tantrum with her fist. Way too many princesses getting away with shit these days.

[@spkn2u]

Not only women men as well, but everybody mad or not should keep their hands to themselves, you can't raise grown folks but you can stop messing with them and gone on about your business

[@williamlitsch5506]

Most of our society agrees that it's ok, unfortunately. Men are not loved or appreciated here.

[@rossigrace5031]

"We're going through a divorce and I saw stuff on his phone." Ma'am, if you're divorcing whatever is on his phone is none of your f*cking business anymore and there is NEVER an excuse for spousal abuse. If she will beat on him in public she will beat on that child too. Daddy needs to pursue custody immediately.

[@emilinebelle7811]

If they’re not divorced then it is her business. Sorry you don’t understand that

[@lr8607]

@@emilinebelle7811 She has the right to make it "her business" all day long and for the rest of her miserable life. What she doesn't have is the right to use her feelings toward this man as an excuse for violence. Abusers always, always have an excuse. It makes one want to hurl.

[@mexicanhound5149]

​@@emilinebelle7811 do you know what divorce is

[@that.ll_do_pig]

​@@mexicanhound5149yes, and it also means that they are _still_ legally married. People have filed divorce but reconciled before it's complete. Her actions are wrong. They are still married. Both things are true.

[@NonBathingApe6969]

It happens way more then men let people or the police know. But when a woman is pushed or slapped or restrained from hitting their boyfriend or ex or husband, the police always believe the woman. If it wasn't on camera, she probably would've said he hit her. It happens so much, I'm glad cameras are everywhere, cause alot of that bull crap is seen now. Same with corrupt police. Back in the day the cops would beat the hell outta you if you didn't follow a order, now they are getting held accountable.

[@jackiemarini3203]

She can't even control herself at the hospital with a sick child WOW.YAAFSDA

[@sammyb1651]

These women are wild. Great to see the internet exposing how prevalent female domestic violence is. Mainstream media only ever allowed an: "all women are victims" narrative since forever. It's been completely turned on its head the last few years. Along with female teachers running wild in classrooms. Just insane.

[@lr8607]

Or when going through a divorce ... might want to restrain those violent impulses if she wants the opportunity to co-parent her child without court-ordered supervision.

[@AI_MEME_CORP]

Divorce, sick kid, realization her free ride is almost over and her ex is moving on; she got the opportunity to show her true colors and she did.

[@changeintheair9648]

Child being sick was an extra stressor on her. However, no excuse. I wonder how many times this has happened in the past.

[@sammyb1651]

@@changeintheair9648 Equivalent to saying "life is a stressor". "Parenthood is a stressor". Usual exculpatory nonsense. Just an abusive woman. Simple as that.

[@ElaineAllen-w3e]

It’s such a shame that she couldn’t control her emotions and behavior. Why she ever thought what she done was ok we’ll never know. Hopefully she will grow up and learn how to verbally communicate.

[@RheverendJ]

Men, PLEASE don’t accept abuse as normal or okay, especially if you have kids. It’s never ok. Women keep getting away with it because it’s either not taken seriously or because it’s not reported at all. The double standard is disgusting.

[@katiebarber407]

and women, PLEASE dont accept abuse either. its not normal or okay. women are murdered by abusive husbands at an astounding rate. the double standard is disgusting in fact the problem is / was so bad, that's why the law mentioned in this video exists in the first place

[@lamar310]

Violence is relationship should NEVER be accepted...man or woman. Violent relationships never have a happy ending. Notice these 2 are getting a divorce

[@jordannietos]

I finally separated from the partner that stabbed me. Thankfully I documented everything so i was able to have something to keep her away. But damn if I didn't record I think she would have turned it against me even though she stabbed me.

[@RheverendJ]

@@katiebarber407 of course of course. Ppl like you can never stand the thought of someone pointing out how men suffer without saying “But but WHAT ABOUT WOMEN?!” If you read my comment better, you’d see my point was that when it comes to abuse men often suffer in silence because it’s socially acceptable for a woman to hit a man. You cannot say the same is true for men hitting women (unless you’re in the Middle East I guess). A woman may stay silent as well, but for different reasons. Just because I made a comment about men not accepting abuse does NOT mean that I then think women SHOULD accept it. The two are not mutually exclusive. But ppl like you can’t think of things like that. Stop being insufferable. You’re probably the same kind of person who says we should celebrate single moms on Father’s Day 🙄

[@RheverendJ]

@@jordannietos I’m glad you got away! You’re lucky she wasn’t able to turn it on you. My husband went thru hell with his ex. She burned him, kicked his face which broke his jaw, and so much more. He just accepted it because that’s what men are supposed to do.

[@amandaforeman7441]

Cops need to STOP downplaying domestic violence. "I know it seems miniscule..." No bro. No. It's very serious. Being a woman doesn't license you to hit!

[@kaylahall1219]

Yeah he kept it up like the man should be ashamed; the officer should be ashamed

[@ThePurpleRose78]

He was like that because they were in a hospital full of sick of hurt people, and they need all parties involved to be as calm as possible, so things didn't escalate. They didn't want anyone making a scene. That's why it sounds like he's downplaying things. If this has been in their home or something, the officer probably would've been a little more stern about the situation. On another note, she could have bipolar, or some kind of other mental factor that's being left untreated, for all any of us knows. And they are both going through emotional rollercoasters over the pending divorce and stuff. I can understand that things can get emotional, and she may not be a bad person overall, but I do hope she learned her lesson, and won't resort to her emotional impulses anymore, and if she does suffer from some mental factor, that she gets help for it.

[@Kennon-f9o]

He really is downplaying it ...

[@lindaannweist4895]

​@ThePurpleRose78 Thank you. My sentiments exactly. In a public setting, where there are a lot of other people, it is important to keep things as calm, peaceful and quiet, as possible. If he had gone in there and aggravated the husband, there is no telling what might have next occurred and as well, he had the baby on his lap. The officer did an excellent job of keeping everything quiet and professional. It is also not his job to express his feelings, or beliefs on domestic violence. His job is to obtain the facts and to follow through with whatever is deemed appropriate. He did an excellent job and acted very professional.

[@Pemmont107]

He literally said it's a very serious thing in his next sentence.

[@seedsandsanity5525]

I really appreciate that the security man took action and called this in. Too often abuse against men by women is overlooked…and it shouldn’t be. Don’t put your hands on people…ESPECIALLY in front of your kid!! If she did this there you know she does WORSE at home and maybe even to the kids.

[@TimTutile]

Am i the only one thinking it's a little ODD there's camera in an Exam room??..I mean in this case great she got busted i'm just wondering if this Normal in all Hospitals ??

[@chrissyTisme]

EXACTLY what I was most freaked about. That cannot be right??

[@susanstefanovich6804]

Do you want the police to turn off their body cams? If you’ve never worked in a hospital, you don’t know how much violence actually goes on in an er

[@Grxce923]

@@susanstefanovich6804they’re talking about the cctv in the room babe x

[@cheyannegagnon7912]

Came to the comments for this it’s crazyyyy

[@soughtafter25]

I definitely was trippin too.. whyyyyy is there a camera in a room that I may get naked in😮

[@annabethsmith-kingsley2079]

The way she barks orders at him, even after getting arrested for *hitting him* says it all

[@clarissa8477]

Yeah that was rough. I wonder if he even sees it, or if he’s just used to it.

[@seriousorganizer]

Bark? You would say call my dad, call my mom.too...it's normal....she's going to JAIL....

[@Vurt.451]

@@seriousorganizer You also beat your husband?

[@clarissa8477]

@@seriousorganizer the way she said it is what was bad…plus they’re getting a divorce, it’s not his responsibility to figure out her situation for her when she gets herself arrested for hitting him.

[@pauljohnston3332]

Thays probably why he left her for another women because she is abusive.

[@bac26c]

Just to be clear, I feel like this police officer handled the situation almost perfectly. Respectful, clear, and direct.

[@angellayaright9009]

Hell no he didn't. He minimized the incident like it was not a big deal. Kept talking like the only issue is that she did it in public. LIke this would have been acceptable if it were done privately. Did a crap job of getting history to see if there is repeated abuse. And treated her with kid gloves. If this was a man hitting a woman I bet he would have acted different. Abuse is abuse.

[@MusicLover0430]

The cop is very kind and sweet for sure! However, the one thing I wish he didn’t do was downplay the situation with the victim. For example, I don’t think he should have said “especially since it’s in a public setting and in front of your child” because no matter if it’s in public or private, it is never ok to put your hands on someone. It’s just unfortunate because the victim himself was desensitized and thought it wasn’t a big deal- but that’s not true… domestic violence is a very serious matter.

[@hasicazulatv2078]

​@angellayaright9009 you dont know this officer to make that claim against him.

[@Metqa]

@@angellayaright9009 I think the office mentioned public setting to indicate that the state has a case and evidence against her, regardless of if the husband wanted to press charges. In other words, the incident is not longer Hearsay, nor he said/she said, and that plus the child being present is the basis of this arrest. I don't think he was minimizing the issue based on it being public vs private. He did mention that even if he chose to not press charges that the situation may worsen once they return home and thus the way they process her is related to that.

[@cliffm8112]

​@@MusicLover0430ever heard make you job easier not harder. He did just right to calmly get her to cooperate into getting her to do what he wanted.

[@cathrynmartin4395]

I don't get it that women think it's okay to hit a man, but if that man were to turn around and hit her, she'd be the first one calling the police. The basic thing to remember is, KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF!!!

[@simplyshirene8833]

Absolutely, as a woman I agree with you. It's not ok for a woman to put her hands on a man and honestly, they shouldn't be surprised if they get it right back. I've seen alot more videos of women getting in trouble for abuse. Thank God.

[@paulx7620]

There was a night that my EX-wife was punching and kicking me I'd block it which means basically she hurt herself on my body making her more angry. I got up to leave the room and she stood in front of me trying to block my exiting the room because I can only control myself for so long. I pulled her by the wrist behind me hard enough that she landed on the bed (which was exactly my intention and I could get out of the situation). She said "I can't believe you abused me like that" 🤦‍♂️. So so many woman belive they can hit men because he's a man. It's frustrating, the expectations of women is almost nothing now. I'm a damn good man, great father there was no cheating drugs alcohol nothing she just feels like she doesn't see men as human. Luckily we got divorced and I'm getting my kids!!!! 🤗 Of course she won't pay child support but expecting a women to do anything that society would expect a man to do 😂.

[@SB8-8]

I'm a woman, I don't think it's ok to hit a man OR another woman for that matter. There are just as many female abuser's as there are male abusers out there. The men don't typically call the police because well.... their men?🤷🏽‍♀ We have ridiculous stereotypes in this world about how men and women should behave. ABUSE of any kind done to another by anyone it intolerable. The abuser SHOULD be punished for their actions. **Clearly self defense is a whole other issue.**

[@loan-shark]

20 years ago I would not hit back but today with 20nyears of experience im all for equality

[@deborahbarksdale826]

Remember what you were taught in kindergarten! It still applies.

[@kseniyapomaznyuk2714]

Since when do we have cameras in the rooms though? She is 100% her fault but the fact that all the rooms are on display in the screen is concerning

[@tornadoman1054]

Это же госпиталь, они часто имеют дело с полицией и судами, поэтому камеры необходимы, и эти камеры не скрытые, их видно и об этом известно из правил посещения.

[@marvittacanada5699]

I wish this cop hadn't downplayed this & apologized so much for HER actions!

[@boperez2841]

HONESTLY

[@katiebarber407]

cops dont really care about domestic abuse. 40% of cops admit to domestic abuse. google 40% cops

[@mercy6305]

Absolutely she also should have been in handcuffs if she was black they would have

[@Lilli-hp2kk]

​@@mercy6305girl 😒

[@FrankBenlin]

She acts like a child and then gets treated like a child. It is a big deal. She is in big trouble.

[@andrewcrenshaw2459]

"my baby's birthday's tomorrow" WELL MAYBE YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE SLAPPED YOUR HUSBAND 5x in front of his daughter

[@omanicc9854]

Maybe he shouldn't be talking to other women already whilst his daughter is still young. Imagine if you divorce your wife whilst your baby is a toddler and she already starts talking to other men. You really not going to be understanding his rage??

[@cmbsr4851]

​@@omanicc9854 just stfu 😂 excusing this bs behavior

[@cristym.boynton9711]

​@omanicc9854 That woman needs to grow up, they are no longer living in the same home. He is free to talk to who he chooses, she can do the same instead of being violent in front of her own child.

[@pummy44]

@@omanicc9854 Why is her other daughter living with grandma? Then she pops out another one? She is unfit. There is way more to her story here and I can see why they are divorcing.

[@jflores1]

@@omanicc9854No excuse to hit someone regardless if you can’t control yourself stay single either way they are getting divorced so that shouldn’t matter to her if he’s messaging other women.

[@Willdreynolds870621]

I think women are finally being held accountable and fair is fair. I watched my mother beat on my dad for years police would get called and she turned on the tears and my dad got taken to jail. She thought it was funny and that was her go to on so many things. To this day I can hear her voice “I’ll just have your ass thrown in jail” men can be, and often are the victims of domestic abuse. Just saying.

[@scheaepling1341]

That’s disgusting, I’m so sorry.

[@Willdreynolds870621]

@@scheaepling1341 no apology needed. It was just an abuse of power. Similar to the “you’ll never see you kids again if you leave me.” It’s insane the things that the system allowed to be abused. My father, a soldier. 4 tour vet now 27 or 28 years of service. He bought the house. Lost it to her. Then bought one for him. Had everything set up. Better school district. Better opportunity for me and my brother etc etc. stable. Financially good. The complete list of a normal, life. Filed for custody. My mother. The meth he’d who left me 4 at the time to raise my 2 year old brother for 6-9 days at a time with barely scratch in the house. I remember standing on a chair at the stove in the phone with my grandma being talked through how to make scrambled eggs for my starving brother and myself. But. The custody thing. They gave my mother FULL custody after she failed a drug test for meth. Meanwhile the stable loving home with 3 meals a day made by an ADULT wasn’t better than that. The courts basically said he needs to pay child support and things will be better. Unfortunately she just spent that money on more meth… 🙄🙄🙄 I’m successful now. 3 kids. Great job. All that stuff. But just sharing this to show how crazy of things women get away with simply because they women. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ I’m alive. I’m happy today. So I’m good. Overhearing over now lol

[@kristinebailey6554]

Agree!

[@starwriter]

yeah like the fact women are moor doored225,000 a uear by dxxxx

[@AlmightyFenix141]

Held accountable? 😂 she got a $20 bond and minimal charges that will probably be dismissed.

[@adrianbrennan3791]

The Security Guard lived for this moment 😂😂😂

[@spikesgirl9371]

He works in an ER. This is mild to what he sees on a Friday and Saturday night.

[@cheeling794]

I'll let you see it anyway oooohhh😂😂

[@Infamouscujo]

​@@cheeling794lmaoooo , ready to break the law and compromise a case

[@ashleyreeseliving]

😂😂😂

[@RainMcBran]

He kinda creeped me out just for the fact he watches people in rooms while waiting for the doctor.

[@riceracm]

A male suspect would _NEVER_ be treated so apologetically or kindly…. 🙎‍♀️🤨

[@shannonbailey7580]

I've been to the hospital twice in the past, both times with black eyes, hair ripped out receiving stitches. They never called the cops for me. I'm now single, it's the only way to be.

[@allenmontalvo8355]

​@@shannonbailey7580 I feel bad for your pain both physical and mental. Heal sweetheart anyway you can! God bless 🙏 and protect you always! 😊

[@riceracm]

@@shannonbailey7580 I am sorry that happened to you. I will certainly pray for your health and healing 🫂✝️

[@ChampagneKatie]

Exactly this!

[@sandpiperlane9309]

She’s going to use that baby as a tool going forward.

[@damelos4039]

That goes without saying.

[@AnitaMartinez-l3m]

Not after a judge sees this video.

[@SapphireLady28]

Being married to a man who was previously married, I can say from my experience it USUALLY has nothing to do with the children - it has to do with their own hurt feelings and wanting to make the ex-husband suffer. The former wife isn't trying to do better for the kids, she's trying to leave a lasting, painful impression on that man. Her feelings come first - not that 1 yo baby girl. Don't kid yourself. And kudos to the officer 🫡 He has been one of the most compassionate and empathetic ones I've seen. He should do a training to other PDs or sheriffs ofcs on how to handle these types of situations. 💕💕

[@mattier.9095]

Yep 👍🏽

[@garciagarcia4390]

He now has iron clad proof that she's abusive AND in front of the child. So he has a great chance at getting primary custody. Which I hope he pursues. Right now it seems like he has traumatic bonding. Poor guy.

[@MGKsGirlXX]

Maybe she will learn she has no rights to hit or slap another person. Doesn’t matter if he’s talking to other women or not. They are separate going through a divorce. She was in the wrong.

[@ez8308]

The way she talks to him in front of the cop makes me think this isn't the first time she has been abusive.

[@leannemo7382]

She slapped him while around a nurse too. That takes abusive gumption.

[@nanook8721]

The husband seems very submissive and perhaps that's because he doesn't want to escalate. Who knows what's going on in the past maybe that's why they are divorcing.

[@QUEENDIONNE23]

RIGHT!!!

[@connieinthesun7881]

Without a doubt

[@codycopithorne6294]

Did anyone notice how the child wasn't reaching for the mother as most kids do? This has gone on before.

[@Jebbie1976]

The cop treated her w/ more respect than I would have. Sorry, not sorry.🤷‍♀️

[@sherij7330]

It's not the cops place to be judge and jury. She cooperated, he treated her accordingly.

[@Shabenn]

No, it's not the cops job to be judge and jury but this one could care more about what she did to the father in front of the child. I'm betting he'd have been more interested if the man had been doing the slapping.

[@DoomSlayer971]

Why say sorry if you aren't sorry?

[@tladnier4324]

The officer conveyed an appropriate amount of consideration and respect. That's his job. He isn't the judge and neither are you or I.

[@jennyrealight1860]

@@DoomSlayer971 They're sorry that they're not sorry 😂

[@Raquel_824]

I guess I better stop stealing gloves out of the ER rooms 🤦🏾‍♀️😅😅😅

[@maryrodgers7898]

Lol, I always walk out with a hossy blanket, best blankets in summer they are. Well the ones in Australia are

[@AngelBrown-q3h]

I BET YOU'RE A BEAUTICIAN. LOL.

[@regeniawilliams2965]

🤣,band aides here.

[@DianaFlores-cj7jx]

😂😂😂😂

[@tabathamullins9451]

Hella shocked, same

[@deborahotanjah]

Why are there cameras in an exam room? The mother is abusive and the hospital is crossing the line by having cameras in the examination room.

[@potterpotter8953]

I would bet a thousand dollars that she blames him for her actions. She should be in jail.

[@byt5522]

Yup. A man would have done time or had substantial parole.

[@reynalindstrom2496]

A sociopath narcissist always blames the victim för their violence and disgusting actions. when I was a little girl I saw my mother hit my father many times, he was big, almost 2 meters long and she was a little woman...but he just taket it, he die of a heart attack att 55, he was an intellectual pacifist💔 Love from Sweden💝 (I have beautiful child memories but horribles too)

[@4321grp]

She did go to jail!

[@user-pt1cz4ot1e]

@@reynalindstrom2496as someone diagnosed ASPD, near sociopathic, I wish people wouldn’t throw around terms like that so casually. We don’t know anything about her, nor the situation, other than she needs anger management classes and is extremely emotionally immature. People like me can usually spot ASPD a mile away, and I think you’re way off here. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@CrowsAreMurder]

​​@@user-pt1cz4ot1eyou don't need to be a Johns Hopkins educated Psychiatrist to recognize ASPD and Narcissism.

[@noteworthyinsignificance]

The nurse gasping when the security guy said he technically couldn't show the cop the video without a court order cracked me up. 😂

[@JillGriffin-c1l]

😆me too, she’s thinkin oh crap, is it ok that we’ve already showed Everybody that works here, like a wife slappin’ watch party😳😆😆

[@prissylovejoy702]

Shut up!😂

[@petgranny194]

It was disappointing to see the RN response. She should know the law like security did. And good on security for calling correctly - get a warrant. Best way to prosecute a case successfully.

[@courtneyraposa8395]

The security guard :so heres the thing, were in a pickle here and I technically can't show u th video . . . . Also security guard : But I'll still show u the video because I kno u need it WTH 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@Oreo-r2m]

The nurse really was pushing for the mom to get arrested!

[@Neenie1976]

Who gives a shit if he’s messaging girls! They’re going through a divorce they’re not together anymore.

[@markc13579]

Cause he's got someone and she doesn't have anyone and is sitting at home taking care of the baby each night.

[@Neenie1976]

@@markc13579 that’s life

[@celinedesmarais426]

@@markc13579 Yes, she shows jealousy.

[@MineChanclas]

And why is she even looking at his phone? None of her damn business at this point

[@badsporttrolln5658]

@@markc13579I’m pretty sure he takes care of the baby too. He seems like a guy who does care for his child. I don’t think he’s abusive if he was she would be too scared to put her hands on him because she would know he would fight back and would be a brutal punishment waiting for her when she gets home. People who are abused say yes dear and obey their commands they would never step up to them in fear of the repercussions of doing so. She should be treated as an abusive man would. No respect no favors just read them their rights tell them to shut up and take them to jail. She’s no victim here she’s a violent narcissist and deserves to be treated as such. She’s crying because things didn’t go her way not because she regrets her life decisions.

[@melonioilar8569]

This officer 👮‍♂️ is so professional and caring in the way he is treating the defendant! Thank you officer for being one of the good guys!! Much RESPECT officer!!

[@punawelewele]

They way they both say "we are going through a divorce" like it is normal for divorcing people to smack eachother in the face.

[@YelenaBlanka]

I think they meant that’s why they’re fighting and fixing to get a divorce

[@clarissa8477]

Right? I got a divorce, there was no physical violence ever involved

[@Undomaranel]

In certain areas, it IS normal. I'm assuming you are from a different area, different social class, etc. from them. With low intellectual, low income, low emotional intelligence types, lashing out physically is normal. Edit: I get it, I worded it poorly. There are MULTIPLE FACTORS that go into such behavior being seen as normal. I gave one example of an entire culture suffering from many things at once which suddenly turns violence into a way to cope, to vent, "it just happens", whatever excuse they use to justify it. My parents were such, and I've lived among groups in multiple states just like it. (Ever been greeted with a nude neighbor having stolen a pig, dragged it via chain behind a truck to both transport and slaughter it, then make innuendo at you over it's corpse? That was Oregon, 2018, as I served with AmeriCorps.) At the same time, there are peoples of all social status that use exucse after excuse to defend anything. All I said was people tend to turn a blind eye to social violence when they've made it a common occurrence, meanwhile wife and husband and children beaters of higher economic status tend to KNOW they will get visited by CPS if anyone finds out... which, again, is why child me didn't have to wear long sleeves in one area, then we moved and I had to cover it all up (BECAUSE IT WASN'T ACCEPTABLE IN THE AREA WE MOVED TO, AND THEY WERE ALL MIDDLE CLASS). So, to paraphrase: When people care about violence and social interactions, they will hide their own and it will not be acceptable. But when people don't care about violence, maybe because everyone's doing it as a coping mechanism, then it's normal and no one cares. People with means care and will mask and hide behind closed doors, while people without means won't bother hiding and everyone will use bruises as talking points. Been there, done that, as a child and as an adult. (Edit: Fiction is based on reality, right? So think GoT. Everyone was violent and sexual and you name it in the books and on the show. But who hid it and tried to act holier than thou? Who tried to retain honor? Who didn't care and acted that way regardless of who saw or what rumors spread? Same thing irl, the people who value their reputation do not normalize animalistic behaviors, and such acts become scandals. Those who live with it out in the open, aka normal, have nothing to lose and choose to not reach for something better.) Will y'all stop thinking I'm shaming people? The whole point was who is this behavior normal among... as in not hidden/ accepted by...

[@punawelewele]

@@Undomaranel Idk. I have friends from low social classes who have relationship problems often. Nobody hits anybody.

[@name5293]

She smacked him, get it right. Even when men are right, yall still blame them. It's mind blowing.

[@popsfereal]

First of all if this was a guy slapping his soon to be ex-wife in the hospital it would not have gone like this at all. There's a double standard in this country when it comes to domestic violence.

[@Filterfinder]

How so?

[@KingLilSammyTV]

@@Filterfinderwomen get off easy when they r the aggressor

[@FrankBenlin]

When it come to everything.

[@nobodymatters3294]

Do you ever notice how a 120 pound dog is treated very differently from a 25 pound dog in a bite incident? That's because the size of the dog will determine the injury. Men are going to hit and injury in a different way then women. All in all people need to control themselves and probably their pets also

[@deborahbarksdale826]

I hope this changes. Not all women are delicate flowers.

[@K9-Crazy]

Im now 61 when i was 21 I was a battered husband for a few years. Back in 1982-84 My ex-wife would get violent in a split second for no reason at all. One time walking in the mall a couple of girls whistled at me and at that moment she hauled off and slapped me. I was in and out of the E.R. many times getting stitches and i would say "i tripped on something". I worked 2 full time jobs and a part-time just to be sure we wanted for nothing. I felt like i wasn't a man. Wearing a bandana to hid the scars and any stitches. 1 day i was working and a friend said to me "your bleeding through your T-shirt", i was lost for words and just said "oh my cat jumped on my back and scratched my back". Im sure people knew i was being battered. I took the beatings and never raised my hand. The last was her hitting me with a coffee mug and almost lost my right eye, it took 13 stitches to close the gash on my forehead above my eye. I stayed to protect my infant son but he passed away from S.I.D.S, I packed my saddle bags and left on my Harley 20 minutes later never looked back.

[@MsLambchop]

I'm sorry, first for the loss of your baby, but also for everything you endured. My heart truly goes out to you. I admire you for enduring what you did without hitting back. That took amazing self-control, patience and courage. If i were your momma or your sister, i would have be@t the butter out of her. You see, i have no patience for abusive a-holes, and i lack self control. Not proud of it - it just is what it is. It pisses me off when women take advantage of men who are too gentle and composed to hit back. I hope your life has been better, despite your tremendous loss.

[@obezzyjohnson9680]

Sorry u lost ur son bro n glad u pack up n got TF out of there bcuz I was in one n mofo was chratn n all at the end n I ended up get shot n paralyzed now from waist down. Been in wheelchair for 11 yr now all bcuz of dat bisshh. Should had left 10 yrs ago n never looked back. Should have stayed wit my girl Nakia I had back then but fckd dat up for da bissh day turned crazy hitting me n all kinda shyt. Crazy bissh Amanda n her baby daddy found dat shyt out quick after she got him wit the baby n I'm so glad I didnt give da crazy mofo not no baby at all

[@K9-Crazy]

@MsLambchop thank you for your words. This means so much to me. I hit the road for about 4 or 5 years. Even after going back to Long Island, she stalked me! Its crazy i knew her since 1st grade, the crazy didn't come out until the very day i married her! Your reply will always be with me.

[@JenniferKitchens123]

I am so very sorry about the loss of your baby. My prayers are with you 🙏🏼 I am glad, though, that you left the abusive situation. I hope you know that you are not at fault for her battery. If she causes any more trouble, please record it if you can, definitely keep a written record of dates and times and exactly what happened. It will be evidence for a restraining order.

[@donnac2851]

I hope you find someone with a gentle and loving heart. I'm truly sorry about your baby😢 that's the worst pain imaginable. You're a stronger person than me. If someone hits me I can guarantee I wouldn't have the self control you showed her. I have never hit someone first for any reason and I only hit my ex once because he went after my daughter when he was drunk. I only hit him to snap him out of it. (That was an eye opening experience but a story for another time.) I hope she has stopped her nonsense and has gotten the help she clearly needs.

[@karenwillette3614]

This officer handled his job very nicely.he was very respectful.

[@melziporlin4559]

People have no shame anymore, hitting your partner in front of a child no less, just plain ignorant and stupid.

[@chucknowakowski6676]

You think this is a new thing?

[@lisabuca76]

You're right people don't have shame anymore they just go in sleep with whoever they want then commit adultery all the time.

[@AmonAnon-vw3hr]

@user-ts1dk8eb7h considering victory after a bloody battle is now considering an "atrocity" simply because the soliders who won were White, looking at the past and comparing it to these days, through the lens forced upon it by wacky academics, is a fools errant.

[@RespectfullyImNotReadingThat]

You said anymore like this is new lmao

[@RespectfullyImNotReadingThat]

@@Tonytheknife I am, but I grew up around older folks who got me hip

[@bethanysworld6789]

She’s still bullying him even while walking out the door.

[@jerrys.1910]

Yes, barking orders like a drill sergeant as though he's a simp not worth his salt.

[@brianm4178]

And then kissed him and said she loved him... the fuck

[@rockman49er]

I think that was the baby but i could be wrong ​@brianm4178

[@janicester]

She wasn't bullying him. She was getting arrested and from the video I watched she was staying very calm. Of course, she's going to ask him to call her dad or whoever to let them know she's being arrested.

[@taelee73]

@@janicestershe was aggressive with him, he knew what to do and she still barked at him. Then trying the sympathy vote by kissing the baby, saying it’s been rough, it’s the babies birthday. He’s getting divorced, he can see who he likes and it’s none of her business.

[@dancinditedforyears6736]

Having been hit and having a child , I never hit back because I didn't want to lose my daughter. Somebody has to be an adult and not an abuser.

[@michellel4499]

🎉🎉🎉

[@miriamschiro8585]

I was in an abusive relationship and I did fight back because I had to defend myself

[@miriamschiro8585]

There is gender difference though. If a man hits back it can be more forceful to where he will be in trouble and so for that a lot of man tolerates their abusive gf.

[@Cjwt58]

I didn’t know cameras are in the rooms.

[@michellel4499]

@@Cjwt58 of course, it's public and they pay huge insurance premiums & are sued often, why wouldn't they?

[@GigglezZxox]

There’s cameras in ER rooms? What 😮

[@LatitudeSky]

What a double standard. If he has hit her, he would have gotten a no contact order. Zero contact. She beats on him and she's fine having contact as long as she doesn't be mean. How is this balanced?

[@porshataylor-ee5ri]

​@@countryboundgirl7424 A judge is the only one who can give a no contact order

[@tammycornejo9155]

I don't know

[@Esther-lm6pm]

He refused to press charges. The state did. She will no doubt file SA on him, and the court will take his child from him and screw him over in the divorce. 🤷

[@KeithSergent]

Female privilege

[@rebeccarowlen4615]

​@@KeithSergentseriously dude? This specific incident they made a judgement call, big deal. Now, I can agree that a lot of the male victims of domestic abuse are ignored or not believed. That is due more to how men view it. It is hard for them to understand how a man can be abused by a woman. It not "female" privilege it is man's machismo.

[@HankDeLafavrieaxous]

Still a double standard… They let the abusive woman back into the same room, where she assaulted her husband, uncuffed, in order to retrieve her belongings and speak to her soon to be ex-husband/victim. If it were the other way around, he would’ve been on the floor, in cuffs and kept as far away from victim.

[@AnttWillaThaThrilla]

Facts.. and what pisses me off is majority of the people in the comment section is downplaying what happened… I’m saying for a while and August 18, 2024 is dangerous for heterosexual men in America.. everyone who is u can lie on u and ruin your life

[@jerrys.1910]

INdeed; and her lawyer would utilize this occurence to keep the dad from his kid or go through the humiliating supervised visitation bullshite.

[@Jdjustsaying]

Just not true. A smaller person slapped with an open hand and was calm throughout. The victim didn’t want to press charges, it was not a usual happening. Even the nurse said that the baby didn’t technically see it. Just another poor me victim white male comment. Seriously. How many women are killed by their partners? How many mean are killed by their partners? But you still sook. Seriously lame.

[@JonMacintosh-eh3rt]

I think it's because society doesn't think physical abuse of a husband is as bad as abuse against a wife but hopefully it will catch up.

[@Jdjustsaying]

@@AnttWillaThaThrillasouk. How many women are killed by their male partners and you’re souking.

[@tghost739]

I'm a woman and my husband and I are separated, and he is already dating and I would Never put my hands on him no matter what my feelings are about it. There is No Excuse what so ever to put hands on her spouse, divorcing or not, and her sick child is witnessing it!!! Give him custody and put her in jail for DV already!

[@Andrew_Warden]

Because you're a mature woman who is being an adult about it, even though it's not easy for you. All the best to you.

[@derp8575]

Was it your husbands decision to get separated?

[@user-ex9dx7gt4o]

@@tghost739 her child is sick. Who knows he wasn’t seeing other women while married. He seems nice but maybe very immature and wants to play around. He has a child who he should put before his desires. He’s still legally married

[@allifulk6563]

Would you ever put your hands on his new girl? My husband ex wife did to me she was technically my girlfriend at the time of punching me we were in a 3way relationship him, his wife and i and shesocked me in the eye because I said something she didn't like that was the truth about the situation.

[@tonybrownox]

Hypocrisy

[@savageperspectivellc.6711]

BRAVO to the Hospital for calling this in

[@crystalgardner7277]

Am I the only one who didn’t know cameras are in hospital rooms? Not to mention the man at all the monitor screens willing to play the footage even though by law a court order is required! What the heck!

[@seachelb7245]

omg I looked for this comment!!! I was thinking the same thing... Out of the million times I took my chd child to the ER... digging in my nose, saying weird shit to my husband or grandma while we're there. Man, I did not know 😂 I knew they have cameras on the IV thing. They have to have cameras there. Maybe this is what that is. a camera coming from the IV drip monitor... but thst is crazy if there are real cameras on the ceiling were unaware of.

[@monicasmith214]

Thats what I said!!!

[@WhatIsLife711]

@@seachelb7245 😂

[@sharonmartin4036]

The cameras are there to protect the patients and the nursing staff. Many malpractice issues have been avoided simply by having these cameras. Quite frankly, as long as I am getting good medical treatment I don't care if somebody is monitoring the interactions for my safety.

[@stevemcqueen9539]

Sounds like a Fox News Talking point on this one. First off, you can’t expect to not be on camera 100% of your life other than in your home these days. Right? Wrong? Dunno, but you’re a dumbass if you don’t approach life this way. 2nd. Don’t beat on people…period. He might be an asshole, (nothing here suggests that he is) but she’s a physically abusive twat. Ain’t no way she wouldn’t be overly aggressive with that child also considering how she has no problem hitting the child’s father. Look, if it was role-reversed I’d put him under the jail, no excuses. Nobody should make any excuses for her at all. I feel sad for that child.

[@stormykaiser6954]

What makes people think it's ok to put hands on other people 🤦‍♀️

[@tammycornejo9155]

I don't know?

[@Noneofyourbusiness2000]

Consenting adults think it's ok because it is.

[@Milan26202]

Women think they can put hands on men when they are upset. They love to slap a man and think it's ok just because they are upset. Words are one thing but women take it to another level and think it's ok (͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ) 💕 😛 💋 ❥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪♫ ღ ☆* ♡ ℒℴѵℯ 💕 (͡° ͜ʖ ͡° )

[@sandigrace2271]

​@@Noneofyourbusiness2000 Was the husband consenting to be slapped around?

[@candynickel]

​@Noneofyourbusiness2000 which adult was consenting to what? Are you referring to BDSM? Because no one is consenting to getting randomly slapped. She's not going, "hey can I smack you?" Then he says, "sure, babe" and then she does. No matter what - It's ALWAYS an issue when a child is around. And hospitals are mandated reporters, regardless

[@stephaniebermudez8948]

Heal your childhood trauma before having children. !!! Seek therapy

[@ellentravers7889]

Heal your trauma before you marry someone and abuse them--man or woman.

[@your_yaksha]

Not everyone with childhood trauma is abusive though. I promised myself to be nothing like my abusive mother.

[@EliadoraLazaro97]

I didn’t know they had cameras in the room😳

[@danielburris3932]

I remember when my girls were little. I was with their mother for six years. She would get mad and swing with both hands hitting me in the face on both sides. I remember one day I just closed my eyes and counted how many times she hit me. It was 18. I am a big guy. 6 ft 235 lbs. At the time that was going on I was age 21 until I was 27 when we separated for good. She would shove me into the walls, throw things at me, once she threw a plate at me and it went right past my head and broke a kitchen window. It was 6 years of an abusive relationship and her cheating on me. The last time she hit me, I hit her back. 1 slap to the face. After that I decided that was enough, or rather that was too much. My dad always told me never to hit a girl, I told her that I could not be with her any more after that. I think about her often, she passed away from cancer in 2019 at age 42. I tell people all the time, she was the nicest person in the world, except when it came to me. I’m sure I wasn’t perfect. We were both young. She was 17 and pregnant in high school, so I can understand. But hitting people that you’re supposed to love and care about is not acceptable. We were able to talk it out and she asked me to forgive her, and I her, before she passed away. It still hurts sometimes. Our girls are 28 and 26 years old today and they know all about the violence in their and our past. What’s my point? It might not seem like a big deal and people don’t want to press charges but domestic violence has long lasting consequences. Don’t hurt one another.

[@arigatoSev7en]

I thought ur story will end like a hero's journey but it shows you didn't learn much and are a simp until today, although a bit lesser than before. Glad you don't have sons or they'd be getting slapped left and right by their women too

[@TaraNicole724]

I'm so sorry for your loss I'm dealing with this right now and I'm tired of being punched for no reason than told he didn't do it. I'm trying to get out it's not okay gets worse 😢❤

[@kahnekenhawigarrow4828]

Damn, you sound so sweet. NOONE deserves that! Cancer feeds off evil & hate, I hope she finds peace in the afterlife. And you carrying on, I sincerely mean that sir. Take care & stay safe🫶🏽❤️‼️

[@noodlebanana7512]

Sending you love for your healing journey. This story helped me ❤

[@Angelique-sp8ji]

🙏🏾

[@LovingAtlanta]

‼️😡We all learned in preschool...no hitting....hitting is not allowed. 😡No hitting, no hitting, no hitting allowed! 😡

[@miker.9266]

Lol so true but this is hilarious 😂

[@Danny5401]

@@miker.9266it sounds like they’re making a statement about something they learned in preschool today lol

[@LovingAtlanta]

🤔Why? Why is it funny? What’s hilarious? 😂

[@miker.9266]

@@Danny5401 yes sounds like a pre school kid indeed. Just thought it was funny

[@Irishgui83]

Have you seen how Republicans in Congress behave? The general public takes their lead from their leaders and their disgraceful display has bled into the public.

[@taliawtf6944]

Man if they thought the smacks he got that night were bad just imagine how utterly pissed she was once she got out of jail.

[@zoyadulzura7490]

Hopefully that time away from her, and the validation he must have felt by the police showing her that her actions weren't acceptable, gave him the space and energy he needed to assess the situation and protect himself. When you're in an abusive situation, it's easy to think that all you can do is take the abuse, but hopefully he saw things differently after that.

[@Dela-Sin]

“Did you watch the video already?” “Uhhh” mutes audio 😂😂😂

[@johnwilson8693]

This man deserves full custody.

[@LadyDivaD1AnOnly]

It seems that everyone saw the husband being abused but no one saw the nightmare of the abuse he put her through or even how long he put her through it. However no one but the wife was subjected to his mental and emotional abuse to her and no one knows for how long that's been going on either. I look at the whole pic not just what I saw in the end. Not judging either . However 2 wrongs do not make a right. This woman may have simply snapped from being abused with the emotional damage her soon to be ex husband has been doing to her. He may have felt guilty bc he didn't attempt to restrain her or make a scene as well as not wanting her to go to jail. Some cheaters do feel guilty when things get serious due to their own actions and behaviors.

[@johnwilson8693]

@@LadyDivaD1AnOnly You sound like a product of a single mother household.

[@AOFfiend]

@@LadyDivaD1AnOnlyno.

[@captainkeller7087]

​@@LadyDivaD1AnOnlywhere did you get all of this info?

[@StratospheralNurse]

That would be unfair to the child, she shouldn't have to lose her mother (on these grounds alone) and clearly by the wah the dad was reacting, he wouldn't want that either. Don't be so extreme.

[@trinitieharrisonlong9258]

The fact that he was being abused and stayed to be there woth his baby speaks volumes. Hopefully this helps him in court. Its very obvious she would make it hard to have a good relationship with his baby.

[@mcnoneya]

Idk he was really wanting her to be released, I wonder if it was because he didn’t want to have the responsibility of the kid full time

[@winniesinisinis]

You’d run away without your child if your partner slapped you? I sort of think that’s what any of us would do, otherwise you’re leaving your child with the person who’s abusing you.

[@anglophils645]

It's good that the hospital called the police. It may seem minor, but their situation could escalate. Best to prove a point about no violence, and no friction in front in front of their child, now.

[@PrettyLittleNoShame]

So wait a minute, they have cameras in the rooms now in the hospitals? So now when someone is getting undressed or having a pelvic exam, some random security guys are watching it happen without us knowing. How is this even legal? The officer was very respectful

[@R.K.777]

Yeah I'm bothered by this.

[@PrettyLittleNoShame]

@R.K.777 talk about violations being broken when it comes to privacy. Now I'm going to be paranoid if I ever have to change in the emergency room that some random security guy is sitting there watching with his phone camera out taking videos. 😢

[@ctrl_alt_delete4729]

Security guards watching patients changing and getting undressed is extremely creepy.

[@MsLambchop]

.... 😮😳 .... I hadn't thought about that. 😑

[@ToneyaD]

I definitely agree

[@JustRhonda3919]

Good point. I wonder if all hospitals have cameras in the room.

[@mysassybear]

It is normal but there are strict policies. I don't like it. But it helps in cases where staff are abused and assaulted.

[@Ks-hw9cn]

I don’t like it one bit..I was dying from covid two years ago and after I got off the ventilator I was paralyzed from neck down..I had to be treated like an infant bc I couldn’t do anything for myself..it was embarrassing enough being changed and wiped and cleaned and everything in front of the women and male nurses..now I have to think about the fact that some security guard was seeing me naked each day too😢😢😢😢

[@missnelly9942]

The way she said ‘Now’ says everything you could still hear the hatred in her voice.

[@jayvonwebb4864]

I know it was crazy, it's like how a parent talks to a child who's misbehaving, not a partner

[@chandracox6814]

Yeah that was wild!! She doesn't feel bad or anything for what she did and she has complete control over him. Well, she did and she's losing it cause she's losing control so the violence is escalating. Yikes. Dad needs to get custody and get far away from mom.

[@mz.peachykang9593]

If your going threw a divorce then why in the world would you be worried about what's in your EX's phone???🤔

[@marplemartin8122]

I believe it is called hope...a painful thing

[@davidaugustine399]

​@@marplemartin8122 hope makes people abuse their former partners?

[@DrePowell]

Going through a phone is grounds for abuse? If that’s what you think you’re part of the problem

[@scalywing]

They didn't say or imply that, chill. ​@davidaugustine399

[@scalywing]

​@DrePowell No one said that.

[@betsyjohnson9777]

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