Husband lets his Brother PROPOSE to his GIRLFRIEND at OUR WEDDING... and now I WANT A DIVORCE

[@AmItheJerk]

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[@londynskidders9402]

HOW 7 DAYS AGO?

[@janetkisner2293]

Don't get divorced just show up at the brother-in-law's wedding and announce that you're pregnant even if you're not and if you're not a few weeks later say oops false positive either way you'll steal his Thunder just like he did to you

[@drakofox1362]

I agree

[@Wotb_maniac]

You are chaotic good. And i like that

[@Dragoman686]

Story 1: I really hate to sound like a jerk, but personally, I feel like it's not just the family that's toxic, Liam needs to develop a stronger backbone. Yes, I understand they were pressuring him, but he shouldn't have given in the way he did. I know to an extent what it's like to be indecisive and the nice guy, but there's a time and a place to stay no and sticking to that no. And if Liam is going to be so easily swayed by them, who's to say he won't do it again? Edit: yes. I overlooked that they weren't married yet. Sorry about that.

[@xl_kdot]

They are not married because she ran out before the kiss so Liam should propose in his brothers wedding to get revenge I'm a narcissistic person when I hear these type of stories!😊

[@DtotheStothe]

​@@xl_kdotYou Must have missed the part where this happened at the Wedding reception, which usually happens AFTER the wedding at which time the people getting married are indeed married.

[@v.crowley]

-_- wow.. you really don’t know wedding work do you?? The kiss has nothing to do with being married… it all depends on when the couple signed the paperwork and in this case it sounds like they did so before the ceremony

[@Dragoman686]

@@DtotheStothe didn't pay attention to that part. Mb. 🤦‍♂️

[@Dragoman686]

@@v.crowley I didn't pay attention to that bit. Apologies.

[@QuickManEXE]

Story 1: Okay, seriously, what is it with people proposing at someone else's wedding?? No wonder the OP is considering divorce here, i would too. There's no excuse for doing this, especially since the OP specifically said no to this. I think the idea of the OP having a special seperate party for Ben and Melody was a much better idea and thing to do...i dont get why they wouldn't do it. Honestly, i wouldn't have allowed Ben to make a speech at the reception, because the likelyhood of him doing this was very high... which he did. Also, i throw a ton of mud at Liam and Ben's parents here. They are probably the worst of all here. They favored Liam a lot at first, then switched to Ben.... but then to put a ton of pressure on Liam to allow Ben to do this.... that is just beyond awful and i do feel a little bad for Liam here. If the OP does stay with Liam... i say cut contact with his side of the family. They suck. Story 2: OP isn't a jerk here, but i think the ex-wife and stepdaugther are the overall jerks here. I get and understand that the stepdaughter views the OP as the dad's new wife and that the OP has argeements with the ex-wife on many things, but that is no excuse to act they way they are. When the stepdaughter is at the OP's house... the dad and OP are the ones in charge, period.. and they need to get over that. As for the husband here, he deserved the treatment that he got from the OP here. I dont know if 'hired help' would be the term i would use here, but he really shouldn't just have made those decisions on his own without talking to the OP here. Story 3: Okay, the OP's mother here is a complete scumbag and i really hope that the father intervenes here. If not, then screw both of them. I can definitely see the OPs frustrations here, this is so uncalled for. Also, whats the deal with all the bad comments from the mom here? She's definitely winning no 'mother-of-the-year' awards here... and i agree that the OP needs some kind of bank account that the parents cant access. Hopefully the OP is able to move out soon and cut contact with that terrible mom. Story 4: It's almost always bad owners or bad management that cause people to leave.... especially in the restaurant industry. If i were the OP, i would call out this manager for all their crap when you leave. Story 5: Yeah this is always awful, rude and inconsiderate. Apart from confrontation, i would get a lacrosse stick with a special 'poop-flinger' and return the dog droppings back at his house. I still remember that story on here a long time ago. If this continues and the police don't intervene, then i say get the garden hose whenever the neighbour and his dog show up again. Atfer all, he and the dog are tresspassing. Story 6: Again, mad managers that have to ruin things for everyone. I know i wouldnt want to work at this place, and i've worked a ton of restaurat jobs over the last 20+ years. Thoses managers are just power-tripping here, nothing else.

[@Keenen10]

Story 1 revenge arc get pregnant and announce it at the in law wedding

[@QuickManEXE]

Sounds fair to me.

[@NicholasBarth-q3d]

Agreed

[@guardianreviews324]

Factos

[@andreipreda6137]

Is so strange for me listening to the first story and saying who’s fault is because in my country we have a tradition that the bride throws away her bouquet over her shoulder and multiple unmarried girls (usually her friends) try to catch it, if any of them catch it she will be the next to get married. Sometimes the bride just turns around and gives the bouquet to one specific girl and her partner proposes her. BUT this is specific to my country, and it clearly happens when the bride and groom are also ok with it.

[@GiordanDiodato]

It's considered bad taste in western weddings

[@lizziekaptain843]

I see no issue with it as long as EVERYONE is on board with it. If one person isn't sure about it, DON'T do it. This is a hill I will die on.

[@Emmi186]

1st story: Liam is at fault but still OP knew he was a people pleaser and he was neglected emotionally so it’s not fair to Liam to immediately get divorced since Op knew about how his family was.

[@AnimeGamer501st]

Exactly

[@princessmarlena1359]

Story 1: Definitely divorce. Liam is a wuss, and his family is toxic, selfish, and narcissistic. Story 2: If OP has no authority as a parent to the step kids, then OP has no responsibility to them either. Get a divorce. The husband has no right to volunteer out OP’s time in any way. Story 3: File a police report and a small claims suit against your mom, OP. Story 4: Typical idiot employers. Never properly train staff yet badmouth them behind their back despite the circumstances. Especially when the employers are so lazy. Story 5: Security cameras, lawsuit for nuisance and negligence, and a restraining order. Story 6: File a claim with the labor board, file a lawsuit against your employers. Make sure to record all interstate document every interaction, as there will be retribution for doing this.

[@Tubb2581]

And she's a nut job. Threaten divorce over something like this life is gonna crush her. She doesn't need to be married because she's gonna be running away and threaten divorce at least once a yr until he gets sick of it.

[@ElecticalCheetah]

Story one: it’s obvious to go little to no contact with that family but to be petty at their reception op should make a speech and at the end say “ I’m pregnant “ a eye for a eye As i read a few petty revenge stories that did this but in my opinion wouldn’t recommend and just skip the wedding

[@davidalan6701]

Last story: At a certain point, you just have to say “I won’t be here for these 3 days. It’s up to you if you want me to come back after.” It sounds like they have just enough people to cover some days off here and there, not enough that they can afford to just loose you. Either way, start the new job hunt asap.

[@michellecoleman5577]

story 1: I can see where OP and the top comment are coming from, and I'm usually one to scream to break up" at a betrayal of trust. But the way OP describes their relationship, themselves, and Liam, this is one of those rare situations where I feel like OP could work it out if they really try. Do they want to try? Idk, but should they give up on a relationship where there's clearly a lot of love because the family is toxic without at least trying to talk it out with Liam? I hope not.

[@JonPoncho]

Yeah I feel like jumping to divorce is extreme for this situation. Liam absolutely fucked up, but at the end of the day this seems like a one time thing where he was under a lot of pressure on one of the biggest days of his life and made a wrong decision. It happens, but if it's not a habit, I think it's something that you can move past if you work together and set boundaries with the family going forward. People aren't perfect. If you thought they were the love of your life a few days ago, you can stand to let them grow from their mistakes. At the end of the day, yes, it's tacky of the in-laws to take attention away from the bride, but it was a reception, not the wedding. Not saying it's excusable, but jumping to divorce is just too extreme IMO, when remediation is available.

[@synthwolfe8906]

1st story: I've seen people propose while the bride and groom were at the alter. It's a LITTLE more understandable at the reception party, as then the bride and groom are usually not the entire center-of-attention.

[@kiayatwixxer4736]

For the first story, I don't blame Liam. While he did the wrong thing by going behind the OP's back, he's not totally to blame. His life was a sh×t show for his entire life, and because of that, he became a people pleaser and a victim to his emotionally neglectful family. While I don't think you should automatically divorce him, it's best to take the initiative and stand up to your fiance since he's clearly not ready to do it himself yet.

[@Sodiumax]

1st story: womp womp all he did is want to announce his proposal and that is nice and makes the day better imo I wouldn't care, like its a big event why not make it bigger, malding goes crazy, L family though

[@nevduv9990]

Story 1: op is mad at the wrong person…. Her husband is autistic and his family took full advantage of that and basically forced him to say yes….. wtf imagine how this poor man feels when he thought he was doing something he was under the impression was okay, just to realize his family just pressured into ruining your marriage over some selfish crap….. ntm after the situation the whole family was talking about the proposal not the wedding

[@dogofwar6769]

Story 1: if the OPs fiance will let himself be pushed over once by his dominating family there's a solid chance he'll do it again. It's a harsh reality, but I've seen it too many times to think that it's not gonna happen that way.

[@AlauraPhillips-w4w]

1st story the parents are the jerks they messed up there kids 2nd story the husband is the jerk he need to get his priorities straight 3rd story the mom is the jerk like how can you steal your daughters money, THEN say ur gonna pray that she fails 4th story that's a really toxic environment 5th that's just weird like why ur yard out of anyplace ur yar 6th story they are just on a power trip (ps the 1st and 2nd story were put together

[@nromk]

Hot take: family members proposing to each other at other events isn't bad if all parties agree to it, including the wife in the case of a wedding. Second hot take it's not the end of the world. Going forward, you just need to be clear about your boundaries.

[@michaelterrell]

I would buy a couple of hose Freon powered sports horns. I would use it every time that dog entered my yard to scare it off.

[@brandondiaz9755]

I would get an annulment because that’s a big decision to make and why would I want to celebrate yearly a day that was ruined. If you still love him then maybe just date again and if you do get re married then just court house and you two . I wouldn’t go back but you say you love him. That’s what I would do

[@TheRealMrBibbs]

Story 1 Kick Liam to the curb. He values his family over you. You will always be last. Annulment.

[@AnimeGamer501st]

To be honest you really should only be valuing people who respect and care for you and have been there for you during hard times and don't bring in toxicity regardless of their family member or not.

[@Suou13]

1st story either annull the wedding or he has to cut ties... This will go on otherwise indefinitely

[@Angel_Niemersens]

1 story if she stays please announce something random like your pregnant to get pay back and pls for Liam low contact with his family

[@loganthomas3575]

First Story: Honey run op and don’t look back!

[@FiksuEemeli]

These stories and backround are fire

[@booknamebasis]

“You can’t talk to me like that in front of family!” No, MF, YOU can’t talk to me like that, EVER.

[@Draugh39]

Story 1. Tell Liam that he has to choose between you and his family. He either cut his family off completely or you walk.

[@here4funyadig]

Story 2 : how would Dad know if daughter was at in laws during the day if he's working all day long during the week ? I would just let family help out as much as they could, and in my spare time get divorced papers ready to be filed.

[@xl_kdot]

They're not married because she ran out before the kiss and what they shall arrange for is when they're at Liam's brothers wedding Liam should propose at his brother's wedding im a NARCISSISTIC person after i hear these storys!!!!!!!!😊😊😈☠️😡😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈 Go to coments to see what i said!😊

[@ASmK9412]

S1 OP parents or who paid for wedding should take his family to small claims court as they used a event to celebrate his egagement. OP friends and family should spam their Facebook announcement with messages complaining that they attended for the wedding not that and demand reimbursement. Also tell them hope this was worth thier other sons losing their marriage

[@radiohead18832]

7:02

[@Fangs-jo4bq]

First story the op should just leave her husband and sue for emotional damage. And the wedding cost that you paid for.

[@Awedasthma]

Story 1: It's awful how the in laws used how Liam is easily swayed to do what they say, They pressured him to do what they say and make their golden child Ben take over the spotlight, I bet this wasn't the first time this happened

[@joshwinsor5054]

Story 2: yes the op is the jerk she married a man that has a kid and he has responsibilities to that kid even when it's to help out his ex no matter what the situation is the kids come first no matter what

[@darkwarriormaster9644]

Story 1: Liam is a pathetic doormat who needs to grow some balls and cut contact with his exploitive family. Surely he must have known that his fiancé/wife would be upset at this. Whether wants to get an annulment or not is up to her, although to me does seem like the logical choice. Plus, if Liam is always sacrificing everything for his brother and parents, then he is never going to be happy and will eventually grow to resent them.

[@jrytacct]

Does anyone know what the game in the background is?

[@AnimeGamer501st]

Gta5

[@jrytacct]

@@AnimeGamer501st Thank you! 🙂

[@michellecoleman5577]

Well, Op, at least you didn't slip and fall and hurt yourself because of the dog poop that the neighbor refused to clean up and then when you confront them they threaten your cat who then disappears shortly after. Unfortunately, we can't prove a damn thing. I still miss my kitty.

[@codm22712]

First yes I’m still doing this to annoy the no life ppl who get mad/ annoyed. / offended by someone that didn’t effect them and that they clam no one cares about even tho they r blatantly wrong but well can help crazy I guess

[@PajamaCatWithRamen]

You’re still at it?

[@IsThatHitoYT]

What do you even gain from saying first even

[@PajamaCatWithRamen]

@@IsThatHitoYT that’s what I’m saying

[@codm22712]

@@IsThatHitoYT nothing but annoying ppl who get annoyed over pointless stuff that’s enjoyable to other ppl people will do stuff u think is annoying and u just gotta live with it

[@AnimeGamer501st]

Do y'all have nothing better to do

[@akiralyrics9590]

6:22 What?

[@ed.cuevas1010]

Last story is a repeat from a couple of videos ago

[@scottwilson3117]

My mom pulled that crap 😊

[@Yoriichi_psycho_bs]

OP IS OP

[@samuelwilson7677]

10 min gang 👇

[@Tubb2581]

Story 1: OMFG people need to get over this "This is my day" BS. U will divorce over something like this? U NEVER should of gotten married if something like this would break u up. If u ask for chicken tacos and he gets u beef are u gonna threaten divorce. I bet she's that girl that runs to her parents every time they fight and threaten to break up. Definitely shouldn't of done it at the speeches but after dinner/cake definitely. But if this made her run I WOULD file

[@Boberson8]

Weddings are their day that’s the whole point of a wedding where the bride and groom are in the spotlight not someone’s proposal

[@RedditFamilyTales]

Obviously, Liam is really a miserable and selfish person, including his family. Even though he was influenced by his family, he was still able to be more assertive and reject the family's side.

[@SLADEEEEEEEEEE]

Jezz

[@Shelby_arts]

Existence

[@MrHinishiokami]

Is it that serious though.... Like really cause I don't get it from the 1st story...

[@OrangeInternetFish]

I am here before 100 comments.

[@AugustaSleepy]

Hi

[@Justmyyt.]

Hi

[@EnerJon90]

1st story get back with ur man and screw his family..u cant hold how liam is against him its the families fault..you new how ur man was u should have been there with him so it wouldn't have happened..he is not the bad guy the family is for uses his disability against him most ppl have that and its hard for thin to say no ..u didnt have his back 100 so he might of did what he did but u made it worse by acting how ur acting

[@AnimeGamer501st]

Nah weak men don't deserve love.

[@mrfistextra3853]

hi guys im second to the stream how are you 🙂

[@PajamaCatWithRamen]

You’re second

[@mrfistextra3853]

you didn’t need to say that

[@PajamaCatWithRamen]

@@mrfistextra3853 but I did need to

[@v.crowley]

Story 1: narrator needs to back off on the parents... OP's husband is the one at fault.. he listened to them, he gave in, he didn't talk to OP.... It's only on him

[@AnimeGamer501st]

Yeah but the original posters husband parents are kind of a holes

[@v.crowley]

@@AnimeGamer501stso? That doesn’t mean the husband had to listen to them or go behind his wife’s back..

[@ascap2854]

willing to get divorced over something so silly just proves you shouldnt be getting married in the first place, you have way more serious obstacles ahead of you.

[@Meowstic_1]

Fr

[@AnimeGamer501st]

Ever heard of the phrase the "straw that broke the camel's back"?

[@DtotheStothe]

I feel like a lot of the ppl commenting missed the part where she said her husband was high functioning autistic. He probably lacks social cues and thus doesn't know how to react in certain situations. His family probably realized he'd be easy to manipulate because of this.

[@robinrobin02]

It's still NO excuse to ignore your brides wishes, especially when they both said "no!". Then went around her to get what they wanted. This will never change.

[@epic-lj9tr]

first

[@Blockman__go]

First and First Like

[@Purplegaming12-99]

*Story1:you mean like screech from roblox doors only 10x annoying

[@netto6681]

If you’re considering an annulment over such a trivial issue, then do it now and save everyone the heartache, because you’re obviously already one foot out of the door.

[@AnimeGamer501st]

"The straw that broke the camel's back"