Husband Made Fun Of My "Little Business" While I Worked 12 Hours A Day On It & It Finally Worked !!

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@princesskiski1 7 ай бұрын

I don’t think this man ever loved OP. It seems like he was trying to hustle OP since before they were married and OPs parents peeped his game. Her parents are the real MVPs.

@jnicoulakos 7 ай бұрын

I do not think this man knows what love is. What a duh head!

@ImaginationEngine-xq3wg 7 ай бұрын

Women just suck at choosing partners

@bcrouch2626 7 ай бұрын

Thank goodness for op's parents and that pre-nup that they drew up. They protected their daughter like good parents should. Very smart parents

@lazallewillemse3617 7 ай бұрын

The nerve of this man. Calling her selfish. Seems like he forgot who supported him when his father passed away. Thank God for that prenup.

@6folk243 7 ай бұрын

I cant believe he called her selfish when she was the one supporting him thru law school.

@amyyaku5022 7 ай бұрын

Why is it that women are expected to support their men and their dreams, but men can't do the same? Obviously not all men and it can happen in reverse, but more often than not this happens to women. It's crazy how much women sacrifice for their partner and either get little to nothing in return or have their work taken away from them.

@SCP01986 7 ай бұрын

That's the way it's been throughout history, unfortunately. Women were reduced to NPC's and background characters supporting men and enriching their lives, and now that life is easier and women don't have to do that anymore, men can't handle it. They want women to go back to being slaves again.

@anjellaboy2331 7 ай бұрын

What?

@cathybaldry7822 7 ай бұрын

It is not an expectation it is brainwashng we get through out childhood that women are supposed to be devoted to their husband..

@ImaginationEngine-xq3wg 7 ай бұрын

It's because women have a poor judge of character and poor at choosing partners

@cpK054L 6 ай бұрын

I'm guessing you are single

@andreasdesigns 7 ай бұрын

This seems to be a familiar story: a woman falls in love and marries a man still in school. The woman pays for everything while the man finishes school, and the man doesn't support his wife after school. At least this woman had smart parents and she got a prenup.

@rugr82day 7 ай бұрын

It's a story that has happened over and over again. I'm so glad she stopped putting her dreams on hold. If she had left things as is, he would have eventually replaced her with a trophy wife. Either someone from a high society background or someone younger and dumber. Worst thing was him having the nerve to call her selfish after she was there for him when his dad died, and later never complained when he kept spending money on bigger and more expensive stuff.

@stephaniewilson3955 7 ай бұрын

What I particularly like is that the greedy Hubby had to pay back every cent spent on him by OP. OP's parents were wise to get OP that pre-nup and I would have loved to see Hubby's face when he realised it could not be broken.

@JamesBaker-xx2jd 7 ай бұрын

A wise man once told me that “KARMA doesn’t have an expiration date” it sounds like OP’s ex got his in spades

@silvermoon9186 2 ай бұрын

I used to always say Karma's a bitch and that's why we love her. But I also had a friend named Karma by her dad because he believed that being left to raise her alone was his Karma for sleeping around. The saying fit her too when someone got on her bad side.

@tugglemiles2991 7 ай бұрын

As Dad said to Mom, "What's mine is yours,what yours is yours." Long enduring marriage.

@northstarsmith6798 7 ай бұрын

My ex-husband used to say what's mine is mine and what yours is mine but what's mine will never be yours. That's why he's my ex.

@kikyrustam2435 7 ай бұрын

Told my husband the same things. He has no problem with it. I don't even have to work for the last 14 years.

@lithuaniaball 7 ай бұрын

@@northstarsmith6798yikes, guy sounds like a real winner😂

@valeriekhall 7 ай бұрын

Mine said the exact same thing!!!! Even ate the dark chocolate I'd bought for my period pain, after I'd maxed out on painkillers. I ended up dry heaving.

@elisejackson2854 7 ай бұрын

How is this a good thing?

@antoinettebates244 7 ай бұрын

OP...Some men think every dime that comes into the house belongs to him. He's being controlling. Figure it out before he takes you to court and asks the court for your money!!

@MrRymank1979 7 ай бұрын

Probably learnt that mentality from a woman wives are the main ones that think like that

@MrRymank1979 7 ай бұрын

It's only wrong when it's not a woman doing it to a man but when women get treated like men it's a problem

@vanessacallahan3515 7 ай бұрын

I always tell men that if you paid a housewife what they’re worth it’s 6 figures. Hiring all those things they do is expensive.

@SlygothaTheBroodmother 7 ай бұрын

I've already told my kids when they grow up that prenups are going to be a part of any marriage they have, just for both parties to be safe and agree beforehand.

@craftymom3159 7 ай бұрын

It is so sad that that has to even be a thought..

@onepieceisking5493 7 ай бұрын

It's obvious that ex husband is upset that he's no longer the bread winner and was embarrassed about it to the point he didn't want his coworkers to know. That's why he got so upset that his coworkers were at the party. So I'm not surprised that he tried to get involved and take credit for the company plus out of greed as he saw was money. He's just a greedy mysognist ahole that also took op for granted. It's on that he got nothing in the divorce because he forgot about the prenup, has to pay op a HUGE amount of money and top it off getting chewed out by EVERYONE plus a hostile environment of everyone against him because of how he treated op. He's suffering because he's narcissistic, greedy and misogynistic.

@bethsmarr1848 7 ай бұрын

Good for you, OP, for listening to your parents and getting that prenup 😊 .

@AutismTakesOn 7 ай бұрын

OP's husband was the pot calling the kettle black. While it's true that a startup business is tricky to get going, it's not impossible. OP supported her husband's desires, so it's only fair that he returns the favor. After all, had OP not supported her husband, he wouldn't have become a lawyer. I find the husband's remark about wanting 50% of the company ridiculous in more ways than one. Firstly, just because you gave money to buy something for someone, doesn't mean you partially own it. Secondly, the term "investment" doesn't necessarily mean you want the money back. It's easy for OP to have assumed that it was a gift, like her parent's. Third, OP's husband didn't even spend the bulk of the cash to help OP's business, so even if he WAS entitled to what he paid for, the figure would look more like about 20%, not 50. And fourthly, by the husband's logic, OP should be entitled to half of the money her husband made, since she financially helped him through law school. A relationship is a two-way street. You can't expect your partner to give you everything and not give anything to them in return. That's not how life works. Not everything in life is free. In fact, most of it, like 99%, is stuff you have to work for. Now, OP's now ex-husband will need to give back what OP gave him, and I'm sure he'll be reminded that the woman he divorced is the same person who's the reason he even got his job in the first place. Ouch.

@valeriekhall 7 ай бұрын

And that doesn't even include the years of financial abuse, making her still pay 50% of everything despite making dramatically less *AND* having taken a pay cut + lesser advancement to move for *his* job *AND* supporting her parents! How much you wanna bet he was cheating while she was pulling those 12hr days launching her business, too?

@jon61 7 ай бұрын

Surely, everybody knows that if you giving money to someone as anything other than an outright gift, and in some cases even then, you get it in a written form and put in a "jack pot" clause. Without any such paperwork, a reasonable person would assume that if a man gave his spouse money on or about her birthday, then this is a birthday gift. A lawyer, of all people, should know the implications of such a payment, in tax terms if nothing else. For a lawyer to not know this is beyond baffling - plus a lawyer should have read the prenup very carefully before even mentioning divorce. Quite frankly, I wouldn't want a lawyer who can make two such fundamental mistakes representing me in any action!

@AutismTakesOn 7 ай бұрын

@@jon61 I think OP's ex-husband was too focused on his greed to remember that, but that being said, you make an EXCELLENT point, and I wish I would've thought of it myself. Regardless of why OP's ex forgot about the prenup and the "jack pot" clause, it's going to be a blunder that's gonna stick with him for the rest of his career, and, honestly... I wouldn't want a lawyer like him representing me, either. Thanks for making this very good point! I appreciate it!

@diamonddiva3204 7 ай бұрын

husband refused to support op as he knew it would succeed he wanted her trapped in a mundane job so he could control

@sheliawaymon9023 2 ай бұрын

OP be true to yourself and you will never be disappointed .

@timothyweers8054 7 ай бұрын

OP, your business is not a fluke. Any start-up company is subject to win or fail, sometimes both. Your ex-husband sounds like he came from old world values and was becoming jealous of the fact you were succeeding better than he was. Succession doesn't necessarily come in monetary terms, but the demand of a product. For you the success came from a strategic cost of a product while delivering it where you are not loosing money to put yourself out of business. Once you had the business established, then you could look for ways to cut costs without cutting quality. If you would have listened to your ex, he may have sold you down the river. For him to demand that you give him half the company is ridiculous. Once he did that, you should have written a check to pay his initial contribution into the company. When your parents gave you the money for start-up costs, sounds like he just gave you a half-hearted support knowing your business would fail. Congratulations for cutting out the fat from your business and life.

@GiMarie525 7 ай бұрын

Couldn’t agree more. I’m in engineering and tech startups are “all the rage” and many would choose to invest in that rather than anything cosmetology related. But if you look up percentages of tech start ups that fail or are bought out scarily quick (to mainly avoid failing due to lack of funds) will surprise you. Her business is no fluke and many people in business just for the money act just like her husband. They follow trends instead of true numbers, and get surprised and jealous when their baseless assumptions are contradicted.

@laurie2649 6 ай бұрын

OP...Living a good life and having a successful business is the best KARMA has served. OP, I am so over the moon happy for you. YOU GO GIRL!

@JettSettingBengal 7 ай бұрын

I need a copy of her prenup! Good for Op!

@HorseLady1109 7 ай бұрын

This is such an old story….woman sacrifices while man chases his dream. Man achieves dream. Woman gets exploited and discarded. The twist here is that he got his “just desserts.” Thank God OP had such wise parents!

@Umami-Tsu 7 ай бұрын

Okay but what's the lip balm line, I wanna try it 😮

@tina_suprema7494 7 ай бұрын

I really enjoyed the story but would have liked more details in the “ironclad pre-nup”. Anyhow, I wish there OP well and hope her company continues to do great.

@mothertrucker936 7 ай бұрын

I saw this coming from the beginning. I would even go as far as to claim that dear pos husband has a side piece…that worker who’s daughter wanted lip balm. When he saw op’s numbers, his greed, of which he accused op of, took over. He never stood by op for love but for her parents money, not figuring op to be quite the business woman . Bravo op

@vesla266 7 ай бұрын

I live in Norway and here we have a saying: "many do want more but the devil only wants several". I think that fits for OP's ex

@veldasnyder2144 7 ай бұрын

thank goodness for Pre Nups!

@EvaZhang-l1l 7 ай бұрын

You are so brave,well done

@judiththompson2423 7 ай бұрын

Once he started working after he finished law school he should have been the one paying all the living expenses since she did it for him to finish his degree. HIS TURN

@nimisilverbird1239 7 ай бұрын

So you paid his way through school and he repays you buy making you live beyond your means. Yeah he owes you for college and law school

@ninaross211 7 ай бұрын

PARENTS SHOULD DEFINITELY BEEN 100%. OWNERS ON PAPER ! HUSBAND &. IN LAWS ! WERE DEFINITELY GREEDY ! BUT HAD ABSOLUTELY NO OWNERSHIP WHATSOEVER !

@metalmouth0413 7 ай бұрын

Sounds like he never gave a damn about you, and you had good intentions towards your Ex-husband. Sounds also like he was afraid you were going to outperform him financially.

@eleanorhardy683 7 ай бұрын

I'm so glad Op won in the end. He was a horrible person. I can't even call him a man. Good for you Op, for standing strong. More marriages need prenuptial agreements. You never know someone, until you get to know someone.

@nimisilverbird1239 7 ай бұрын

So when it was a silly little hobby ops husband couldn't be bothered. Now that he sees that it is successful and carries a wanted product, he wants to come in and make changes. Acting like its success is bc of his input. Op you need to get rid of him and get yourself some therapy.

@jojojackson7882 7 ай бұрын

What a jealous jerk he can't take digest the idea that you're successful

@bernieyorke6356 7 ай бұрын

Father died while Hubble was in college, but he was playing golf with his dad later in the story?…?

@camil9450 7 ай бұрын

How did he take up golfing with his father if his father was dead?

@Nutamu 7 ай бұрын

lol good point, i never noticed. Maybe it was expensive hobbies like his father had done not with? That or someone goofed.

@julietesatchell103 7 ай бұрын

OP, be grateful for your parents insisting on the prenuptial. I did one, and it saved a lot.There were red flags starting with him, not wanting to support your dream after you did his. Thank God no children were involved. Good luck. You never said name of your company or is this story a fake

@CareyBilley 7 ай бұрын

Money makes people behave strangely and deplorably at the same time especially when the male ego is involved. OP be all that you can be and if he's not on board with that drop him like a hot potato.

@joellaogilvie2744 7 ай бұрын

Give your husband back his money and tell him it was a birthday gift and not an investment. Tell him that he has his job and the business is yours.

@Cindy-kv8ur 6 ай бұрын

It probably helped that she was paying 50% of living expenses all the way along. Along with that she supported him financially while he went to school. Only when his colleagues started getting interested in her business did he take an interest, and that was when he realized how financially lucrative it was and how he could claim 1/2 (or more) to say it was a family business. He was obviously a status chaser so this was going to be a major upgrade to his status, but fortunately his in-laws saw him for who he was and made sure their daughter was protected early in the relationship, even though they did not have a full understanding of the financial abuse because she protected her ex and didn't want to complain and make her parents feel bad. When she took a pay cut to support his career he didn't insist on paying her back. Now she is divorced and the business is doing well and he has taken a blow to his ego because the co-workers all know how he tried to extort his wife when he never contributed. Karma

@StephanieGuthrie-xu7qd 2 ай бұрын

OP should have divorced him when he made it clear that he did not support you. He only wanted OP around unless he could belittle her or she could support him.

@angelaverbowski995 7 ай бұрын

Listening to the second update.. 😮 He's going to take it from you! Get to a lawyer now!

@MizzShortai 6 ай бұрын

If she did submit to him he would have ruined her business.

@fazzurri 6 ай бұрын

If you have a relationship with an Asian woman who has an entrepreneurial mind, do not let her go and support her business.

@jonathonvillella1614 6 ай бұрын

We gotta stop with this "privileged" bullshit. Op worked hard and earned everything she has and deserves respect for her hard work and sacrifice, not condescending remarks from lazy people who refuse to work hard or take risks

@netwrkops 7 ай бұрын

Happy for her!

@nimisilverbird1239 7 ай бұрын

What or how much did he supposedly invest? Also wasn't it a birthday present for you? Wow he is selfish

@BeingMe-t6m 3 ай бұрын

A successful husband that doesn’t help you pay anything? What was the point of getting married for?

@andrealowe9684 7 ай бұрын

Now everyone knows he is not a self made man. His wife made him who he is through her sacrifice of moving for his career and putting her dreams on hold by taking a job paying less to financially support him. He lost this case because he as a lawyer forgot about the small details of a prenup and having to pay his ex wife back. He got paid back royally.

@pagee7452 7 ай бұрын

You need to divorce your husband because a life partner who doesn't support your goal but you're supporting his that's not right and eventually he's going to screw you over cuz he's an attorney make sure you make a legal document with him saying that if anything goes bust he can't have your business and anything you make it's your money not his that way he can't get half of your profit

@yahainHotPink 7 ай бұрын

Thank you again

@jaswinderbhogal2035 7 ай бұрын

He was a jerk good you cleared him out

@pagee7452 7 ай бұрын

You need to make an ironclad will that if your business grows he can't take any part of it that's the income and you can't claim your company

@tyffanypoudrier6610 7 ай бұрын

i’m glad she won and he was a greedy, selfish jerk.

@angelabohot7435 7 ай бұрын

A. Get rid of that man. He owes you from the past.

@janetbatchelor3245 7 ай бұрын

❤

@evelynberrios8164 7 ай бұрын

OP congratulations on your divorce 🎉🎉🎉🎉. Your husband forgot what you did for him. Most importantly, he forgot the prenup. For his selfishness and entitlement, he now owes you lots and lots of money. 😂😂😂😂

@joyceheadlam1909 7 ай бұрын

Your husband is a selfish user. He only thinks about himself, but you were the one who made him what he is.

@pagee7452 7 ай бұрын

He's a lawyer he's cunning in his house to make things go his way don't be naive to think that he won't take you for everything you got

@stacysherman6758 7 ай бұрын

Why does living a good life you worked so hard for and spent your own money to build up make you privileged?? Privileges would be someone who put nothing into it living off of it.

@valeriew4833 7 ай бұрын

It's a privilege she earned, and it is still a privilege considering those that work as hard and harder without a comparable outcome/lifestyle

@playetful 7 ай бұрын

Op's husband sounds jealous. She definitely needs a prenup so her husband can not take her to court over her business.

@ricksimundza7125 7 ай бұрын

Divorce the piece of cheese

@lajoycestewart7528 7 ай бұрын

💰🐎💰🐎💰🐎💰🐎💰🐎💰🐎💰🐎

@philomenaquinn1158 6 ай бұрын

He got greedy he lost a good wife and income

@nimisilverbird1239 7 ай бұрын

Nta. Your husband is a petty little man. Good for that prenup

@dollyweaver1563 7 ай бұрын

WTG OP!

@markmurphy8658 7 ай бұрын

hubby should not get one cent.

@valeriew4833 7 ай бұрын

Not a single red cent

@Sunshine-wc2jp 7 ай бұрын

What was the prenup? What did it state? I don’t understand why the business was only hers not common property as would be his legal business if he wasn’t just an employee.

@LB-ou8py 7 ай бұрын

A lot of prenups are a what's mine is mine and what's yours is yours kind of thing. Plus it had language dictating she would be reimbursed for supporting and helping pay for his law degree while they were dating and later married. Plus the fact that she constantly paid half of bills as their lifestyle increased but her pay didn't shows they kept their finances separate and their was no joint account. Look up Bobby Brown and Whitney Houston. I believe Bobby said they had a prenup when they married that was a mine is mine and yours is yours type. She continued to earn during the marriage while his ability fried up and when they divorced he was sleeping on a friend's couch cause he was broke.

@kevinkevin9166 7 ай бұрын

cool

@vanessacallahan3515 7 ай бұрын

You supported him but he won’t support you. Hmmmm…

@daishawilliams8301 7 ай бұрын

I don't know why some men expect women to support them only to drag their feet to the finish line glad op kicked her greedy husband to the curb.😊

@valeriew4833 7 ай бұрын

Because we've been taught that women exist solely to please men

@valeriew4833 7 ай бұрын

Think about it, 2 billion people + are Christian and they believe woman was created because man was "lonely " aka nowhere to put his... into lol. So a woman's humanity is derivative of man, her entire being is formed from just one of his ribs lol 😆 which is hilarious in so many ways

@rebeccajohnson8579 7 ай бұрын

WOMEN, CAN YOU IMAGINE BEING THE DOORMAT OP IS?

@valeriew4833 7 ай бұрын

Lol not at this point in life but years ago, it would be very possible

@richiranas7247 7 ай бұрын

Lmfao what it starts off with his dad dying and him moving in with her then he finally makes good money and starts going out to play golf with his dad😂 i swear these stories are a test to see how naive and gullible u ppl are😅

@caseydemmings6666 7 ай бұрын

Another fictional story

@hamsahoney777 7 ай бұрын

Is this eclaire lip care?😮

@MCBRUCE76 7 ай бұрын

Another creative writing. Trust me not a single person would have made a negative comment about this story when it was first posted. But still the writer thought adding a reply to those negative comments would make this story legit. This is pure BS. Most of the creative writing authors come from delusional world, where everything magically appears out of nowhere in stories when you least expected it.

@patpaiz5693 7 ай бұрын

OP, you are not to blame for a neglectful mother that dropped kids off at your house with no warning and not even knowing if you are home. You did nothing wrong, but your sister is apparently a terrible mom and possibly a criminal if she spent two days dealing with police.

@Danarchy3 7 ай бұрын

I think perhaps you connected this on the wrong video