Husband on Wife: ‘I Refuse to Have Sex with Her Until She Gets Under 200 Pounds’

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[@lisakaler4121]

If she divorces him, she'll lose over 200 pounds!

[@FL-CourtReporter]

💯💯💯🤮

[@marshaday4951]

Lol love your comment!

[@kathleendoyle9522]

I LOVE THAT REASONING!!!😂

[@mariahoulihan9483]

and more.

[@kareng6049]

😂😂😂😂 💯

[@catalinababy6068]

Actually staying w him is hurting ur kids emotionally

[@bendover9021]

Having kids with a guy like that is a mistake in the first place.

[@Upallnite12]

Great comment! 😂

[@charmedlilsis1]

But Christian conservatives say having both parents together is always best. Even if the parents hate each other and there is abuse happening.

[@bornonthesun]

​@@charmedlilsis1 Wrong

[@kk-bootsie]

@@charmedlilsis1 I’m a Christian & pretty Conservative, and I’d NEVER say that. Once someone is allowed to abuse their spouse, it will not stop, and kids observing that abuse is eery bit as traumatic as living through a divorce, and readjustment period.

[@ipromisethatserendipityisa9656]

0:42 Calling her fat when he himself looks 9 months pregnant. What a narcissist.

[@annefox6469]

But he is such an undescript man, he's lucky he has a woman. She should walk away from this man he'll always make her miserable.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Sadly many fail to evaluate themselves before talking about others.

[@tamarabradberry9299]

He is nothing to look at. What a joke.

[@boxelder9147]

Really? I find him rather hot

[@Shaqlife]

He is verbally and mentally abusive. He is bigger then her. He is a jerk. I hope she left him.

[@taylorelam8239]

Just terrible

[@alicesck01]

Yes...but.. people who lives in a abusive for a long time get brainwashed so it's very hard they have the strength to leave. Unless they reach their limits

[@cherylmacentee3401]

I would tell him.......wait,my breaths are too important to waste them on you!She's lovely.

[@katybug1964]

He's also physically abused her.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I heard they did divorce.

[@uf9309]

Dude is bigger than her😂

[@sherrita80548]

Right I laughed so hard when Dr Phill said you got a mirror then when he was talking about motivation and fitness and the audience was looking at him like really?

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

Right? Like do you not see yourself my dude?

[@amandalidey329]

Seriously too. Wthhh

[@karyndewit193]

Yup!

[@user-uh6yr4te2i]

That's what I said

[@lindajackson2382]

This husband does NOT love this woman! Get a DIVORCE!

[@Belluser-we1uc5cb2l]

You took the words right out of my mouth.

[@rebeccataylor1432]

He’s not exactly what the ladies want!

[@carolmccullough-kuchar4782]

She's depressed. This is cruelty. Outrageous. Leave him. He's not a good husband for you.

[@carolynbode3652]

It’s not about weight, it’s about abuse, anger and control. If she lost weight he would find another tool to abuse her with. What will happen when children don’t meet his “standards”

[@karyndewit193]

Exactly!

[@erinmccutcheon3751]

That's pretty disturbing.

[@teresawright3279]

So very true

[@deniseborchardt4491]

100% !!!!

[@moaraa2575]

Right? Half of the names he calls her has nothing to do with weight. He has a problem with himself and he takes it out on her.

[@joepollockbass]

Everything he says about her actually applies to him and he knows it.

[@moniqueengleman873]

Yes, I agree 👍

[@pamelawinmill5081]

👍

[@rachelsteenberg6614]

She's way better looking than him tbh

[@user-pn6rd6fv9w]

Right… has he looked at himself

[@user-db9ov3bt8n]

He’s unhappy with himself and he’s projecting it onto her! He figures if he targets her weight he won’t have to fix his Weight!

[@Ninnjette-]

His daughter will let a man treat her like that, and his son will treat women like that. The cycle continues..

[@jenierime889]

This is NOT a marriage

[@boxelder9147]

Unfortunately it is not uncommon

[@donnamason938]

Ditch the husband, he's abusive. If you continue letting him behave this way in front of your kids, you'll make them believe that this is ok.

[@crh251]

Exactly, and sadly their daughter might marry someone just like him. She needs to leave him now.

[@jenniferculipher4058]

Yep it’s very toxic to them

[@crh251]

@@jenniferculipher4058, supposedly they got divorced in 2010. This show was from 2008. Thank goodness she and the kids left him.

[@jenniferculipher4058]

@@crh251 I’m glad she did 👍🏻

[@catherinewardwell2117]

Yrs exactly. She’s setting them up For failure. That’s bad parenting

[@LA-wv7gf]

Dr Phil educating this jerk on his own BMI was the greatest gift to the wife.

[@MAYtherebekindness]

Go dr phill, he looks worse then her. Total narcissistic behaviour.

[@serahloeffelroberts9901]

Stress causes the body to increase fat retension. This guy doesn't deserve ANY woman. His wife needs to take the kids far far away.

[@Dizzy1980]

"I'm not arrogant, I'm just always right." Oh, for the love of God.

[@edenouellette3833]

"I'm not arrogant, I'm just always right." Well, he definitely puts the moron in oxymoron.

[@julielucia3930]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@charityscreams5366]

Agreed, he is an idiot wrapped in a moron

[@RobinBryant-vv9rp]

😂

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I hate people that have such a big ego! They are extremely arrogant and annoying!

[@soniarican6275]

Dude is so insecure with his own body that he feels the Need to body shame his wife constantly 😒🙄

[@hundreds2696]

She’s huge

[@KD1ME]

And him?? ​@@hundreds2696

[@LinDa-vx3ly]

No, he’s not. He doesn’t care he’s fat. He only cares when women are.

[@idotgotitme3280]

@@hundreds2696 So is he 😒

[@jasmineroberts6034]

Facts

[@Msbugz2u]

Reclaim your life. Leave him. Someone who speaks this way doesn't love or respect you. You'll find someone who makes you feel beautiful!!

[@terrywade3696]

He’s a narcissist! YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM NOW!

[@catalinababy6068]

Malignant narcissistic man

[@James-Johnson313]

💯

[@marooka]

For sure

[@LolaClo]

Absolutely! I would like to see his modelling contract

[@user-uh6yr4te2i]

And fat himself

[@stk6755]

He belong to MEGAN 😂🤡

[@monikaw1369]

What an angry man. No matter what she does, she will never please him.

[@shayshaaay6938]

Exactly

[@Network126]

I'm only attracted to thin women too... But this guy is being so mean... He could've gotten with a skinnier woman with skinny genetics... I mean, did he seriously not think she was going to get bigger? I can already tell from the old wedding photo that she wasn't built to be skinny... The whole situation is just so sad.

[@morganwhite2176]

The respect level is gone. Time for a divorce because once respect is lost, it can’t come back. Its gone.

[@MaxineShaw-de7bh]

Sad part is he has a son and daughter. The son will treat women like he does and the daughter will look for men like him.

[@honourthymother958]

He’s the worst husband. Those poor children

[@catalinababy6068]

Divorce him

[@katelaloba8243]

Immediately. He's an abuser.

[@sandytalley402]

Agree! She is beautiful and will find a good man.

[@reginalerma3140]

He's the fat one. He's not much to look at. She looks way better than him.

[@emilypappalardi6817]

stay off his show he is not a Dr he went to Vaseline college he slipped in and he slipped out

[@SachelleCambria]

She obviously has low self esteem to put up with that jerk.

[@michellepelkey51]

He’s a bad person. That’s not love.

[@cbeautifulworld11]

Don't stay in a bad marriage for the children. All it does is harm them and teach them that it's okay to be mistreated. It is never okay.

[@brooke86]

Who is he to shame??? He’s nothing special and has the personality of a rock

[@DolphinsPlayingInAquaMoonlight]

That's offensive to rocks!

[@brooke86]

@@DolphinsPlayingInAquaMoonlight 😂 sorry to the rocks.

[@lindakovar436]

He’s not exactly slim either.

[@courtneyboudreau4284]

He's pretty large in the face himself

[@JuniperRose85]

Whyyyyyy is she with him. This jerk deserves to be alone forever.

[@user-mx3vf6sm1d]

I hope she has left him by now and living her best life.

[@opaltownsend8440]

He doesn't deserve her. He's an abuser all the way. Despicable and disgusting person.

[@ColorsofHopeCraftsASMR]

Abusing their mother is hurting the kids emotional and social development.

[@nichole9943]

You don't stay with a guy like that for your kids... there is no reason to be with him. Kids know your being abused and it affects them

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Exactly and my late mom stayed for us but I wished she divorced my evil late father as the abuse affected us too.

[@sophiej2022]

Men like this abuse their children, too.

[@davisholman8149]

Too late - the kids will end up marrying abusers just like him. They are doomed growing up with parents that dysfunctional.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@sophiej2022 Yup and my evil late father abused my mom and us his kids. We were unfortunate to have a father like that and my mom was even less fortunate to have a bad husband like that.

[@sophiej2022]

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Can I ask you a question? Did your mum protect you from your father? Sorry if that's too personal. I only ask because my mum always protected my narc father, never us kids. She enabled his abuse and covered it up until he finally cheated and left her in their mid 70s.

[@blckcatz-sh5pk]

Leave him! Your kids don’t need to hear that coming from their father towards their mother! What a jerk!

[@jeffreymartin6369]

This man is abusive and those kids should be removed from the situation he’s causing her to eat more. He’s also a hypocrite

[@kyakelly9230]

Leave him and find a man who appreciates the way you are

[@DaisyChain3339.]

Way to keep women single !!!

[@mikivanduyn9630]

she doesn't need a man in her life... she is strong enough to take care of herself.

[@byefelicia8632]

No one appreciates anyone the way they are. If not body then it has to be something else. People are never happy.

[@lisabadger603]

Amen!!!

[@brianal7143]

She needs to divorce him for her own sake and that of her kids. Finding another man is irrelevant

[@nampamom]

This show will help her get full custody. Show it to the judge.

[@katystrawberry8654]

This is probably 15 years old.

[@nadinefay1560]

Divorce, divorce, divorce. Get every cent out of him. Save yourself young lady.

[@lisab.1595]

The dude was way overweight in his wedding photo, but still thinks he's Gods gift to the world . He could also consult a menswear store, because his clothing choices leave a lot to be desired. So many people stay together because of the children, and lead such unhappy lives. The kids grow up, leave the house ,and there are the two of you, hating each other. I will never understand that mindset at all. You don't think the kids don't know what's going on? She probably stays at 200 lbs so he keeps away from her. Pretty hard to get intimate with somebody constantly calling you derogatory names. I hope she doesn't look back years later and wish she had just left him and moved on with her life. You only have one life, so to live that life so unhappy is a total waste. He said he could lose his weight in a minute, but notice he doesn't. He could have just nicely said to her, let's both cut back, we'll do it together, but no, easier for him to stay fat and put his wife down every chance he gets. Dr Phil was right, "Have you looked into a mirror?"

[@user-tq3tj9iy7f]

He complains about HER weight?!? HE’S no “gym rat” as everyone can see!

[@dennysmith7862]

"Have you got a mirror in your house?" Dr Phil you are wonderful...

[@renees4278]

He doesn’t love her one little bit, that’s not how you treat someone who you give a damn about.

[@Matthew-cz3gk]

One word. Narcissist!!

[@Herbie-Went-Bananas-Then-Split]

Too right and she can lose that in an instant by removing all that excess weight she married.

[@StellasScrappyCrafts]

lol, love it

[@nadiabrstak5646]

😂

[@pjae92]

I see a gut on that man he needs to stop

[@NailasDarlingDesigns]

Right! As if he's a 10 himself 😂

[@sherrita80548]

And a double chin

[@amandalidey329]

​@@sherrita80548Yes. He is bigger than her.

[@amandalidey329]

​@@NailasDarlingDesignsAbsolutely not. This man does not look as good as he thinks he does.

[@karyndewit193]

A BIG gut!!

[@sparkles8344]

The absolute best thing I did for my kids was get a divorce. My ex was just a cheater. This man is a delusional arrogant creep! Does she think hearing all that is good for her kids?

[@Cindy-gn8ry]

I finally left my abusive husband of 15 years after I finally woke up and realized I wasn’t a big screwup, he just hated me….sometimes it takes a while . He didn’t want to leave me I was a good slave and he always had a side chick for his good times.

[@andsoitbegins464]

So glad you got out of that toxic relationship, Cindy! Move forward with your life, you deserve so much better than that!

[@elnee8987]

“You got a mirror at the house?” Mahabahhhahah

[@grammyjan]

He's not thin himself!!! He's no prize and he is causing emotional harm to his wife and children. She needs to leave him far behind.

[@elainecoyle2704]

He needs to lose weight and she needs to divorce him. He is abusive, she must get away from him

[@suzannegriffin5121]

People tend to hate in others what they hate about themselves. Her husband hates himself, and this is his coping mechanism for handling it, he blames her.

[@annahill5921]

He is extremely insecure. And straight up doesn't love you. He can only feel good if he degrades you.

[@anneflynn9614]

She needs to divorce him without a doubt.

[@katerinakanavos8561]

He needs to stop abusing her! And he needs to lose weight himself!

[@KCalamity24]

He has sapped every bit of confidence from her that is not love just cruelty.

[@aletiacheney5911]

This man is so sick. He is hurting everyone around him. She needs to find some confidence and leave him and show the courts this video to prove spousal abuse. I feel bad for those kids because he is seeding abuse and low self esteem in them. Do not walk, RUN away from this situation. So toxic and unhealthy, it pains my heart to watch.

[@shanebracken8358]

Hate this guy, what a disgrace of a human he is

[@WendyBarnes-Gott]

Leave him, he's not all that, why would you stay with him,

[@theresaheyer537]

the wife is crazy for putting up with verbal abuse and the husband is just an idiot without an actual mirror.

[@catapillargirl2021]

Is this guy serious?! He’s no prize, not only in body but in mind & character!

[@lynnhohoabu5960]

This man does not like you. He said under 200 sir, you're 300 pounds yourself.😅

[@anishavlog8153]

God may help this man . He thinks he look handsome 😂

[@joem1102]

I bet she loses weight for the next guy. And there will be a next guy because if she stays with this abusive punk, then she's mentally ill as well as overweight.

[@paulakarwowski]

😂

[@amandalidey329]

He definitely is not.

[@hollaybee]

right he's clearly clinically obese

[@dumirose9174]

😂😂😂

[@sarahrussell3219]

He is a full blown narcissist and worse. He will never change. Run girl, run.

[@MAK_9833]

This woman and her children deserve better.

[@karyndewit193]

I hope she left him. He’s awful.

[@lisaskulina6195]

My guess is she stays with him because she can’t support herself or the kids by herself. She is so beaten down, emotionally and figuratively.

[@Platinum907]

Yep

[@jsmum196]

Time for a resurection. The only way up is out. Put her ducks in order and move out.

[@bdavis4099]

She knows that if he is this awful while married to her, divorce and custody will be a nightmare.

[@reesarush]

Wow. He needs to look in the mirror. She's never going to be cherished unless she leaves him.

[@anabeljhonston648]

If he can’t love you for the way you are leave him

[@kennethrohloff7535]

Why is she with him? He treats her horribly!

[@pumpkinslice1811]

I hope she's reading these comments. You need to run! He is going to start treating your daughters the same way when they get to be teenagers and ruin their lives! And he's going to teach your sons to treat women like that too! If you won'y do it for yourself, do it for your kids and run now! Show this to the judge and get full custody!

[@lindadallas1258]

This is absolutely true... speaking from personal experience. It's all about power and control, and him feeling so bad, he wants to destroy his wife 😢

[@lms8474]

Classic narcissism. He's revolting. I hope she left him.

[@emilycheek3077]

watch her leave and he never finds love again

[@manpreetsandhu9329]

This lady is a lovely person Please leave him You deserve to be happy We have one life

[@melancholyandtheinfinite]

She looks better then him 😆

[@sian8260]

She's beautiful! He thinks he's an oil painting 😂

[@MommaRapper]

Girl - stay over 200 - why would you want him touching you anyways - he looks goofy and hairy and sweaty -

[@Dialogueisimportant7813]

Right after my husband and I got engaged our pastor was talking with us and he spoke directly to my husband and said, if I were to become unhappy that he better look at his actions. He said he can tell how happy a couple is by how happy the wife is able to be. He is 85, and has married many people, and I think he has quite a bit of experience in that. My husband is wonderful and he treats me so well. I am blessed.

[@bevanbuckwheatshea5520]

Please leave him for the sake of your children and for you. He is an absolute nightmare.

[@RainbowCherries]

I'm sorry but if the pot was calling me black than i would have left years ago, kids or no kids no one deserves to be treated that way and the kids don't need to be witness to that, they will grow up thinking that's normal or ok.

[@nataliamoniz4804]

He doesn’t love her anymore.Thats a fact. He’s bigger than her and is cruel and abusive.

[@denisesmith3544]

I know that being called nasty names is a sure fire way to get me motivated

[@_aurora_931]

His neck? Non-existence.

[@DjVillanueva8791]

💀👌🏼

[@FL-CourtReporter]

She needs to lose weight: Whatever he weighs is the weight that needs to go. She's pretty and other men will treat her right❗❗❗🎯

[@sds6303]

This man is highly narcissistic. He will never change. Dr. Phil missed the mark here. Nothing she or anyone does will be good enough for him bc he has a deep void inside he doesn’t know how to fill. He’s projecting his own insecurities out on to her & not taking accountability for his behavior. He’s abusive, controlling, possessive, superficial & has a double standard. He lacks empathy & can’t regulate his emotions.

[@YaYaPaBla]

Nooo don’t waste time being with that fool. He doesn’t deserve you or the kids! He’s gross!

[@yvonneleonard7665]

He makes me feel physically sick. And keeping her children in that vile situation is going to be seriously damaging for them!!!

[@DolphinsPlayingInAquaMoonlight]

"I'm not arrogant. I'm just always right!"

[@ronniecarson8756]

It's his problem and not hers. He hates himself for being the over weight in this relationship.

[@thecalmingspace7242]

Peoples greatest accusations are CLEARLY their biggest confessions

[@AmyZembery]

Uhhhhh.....he's no prize winner??? He has no room to talk!!!

[@bowlofpuffs523]

💯

[@lorirogers9304]

Men think they’re hot stuff

[@ChristinaCollett-cz8lp]

Well that’s not how you motivate someone by calling them names,like what are you 12? Grow the heck up!

[@kristenkaz3080]

That guy looks more pregnant than she ever will.

[@theoblongbox4909]

People have to understand that staying with an abuser is hurting your kids. You have a responsibility to protect them from abuse. This man is abusive. She has to leave him.

[@melissashaw3583]

What a "Shallow Hal". Leave him sweetheart.

[@mariahoulihan9483]

she is being abused in this highly abusive relationship. Get out. He is worthless of course and doing that in front of the daughter..horrible. harming her no end. he is no oil painting and if we are on the subject. he looks overweight and his personality is dirt. Just get out.

[@emilycheek3077]

yo dr phil a savage here with the comments and faces i love it

[@political_orphan]

it's one thing to be concerned with your partners weight for the sake of their health, but it's an entirely different story when it's purely for aesthetics

[@awesomemom533]

Maybe the reason he doesn’t want to “engage” is his lack of stamina due to his girth

[@Thewatcher10000]

He tries to put her down to decrease her confidence as no other women would put up with that. The first time, he would have said anything to me. I would have walked out of that door. Bye-bye.

[@sarahstewart1531]

Same - I want this woman to feel her self worth and get out. This kind of man needs to be alone.

[@marilynnoseworthy1162]

Look at him, he’s not exactly in good shape. How dare he body shame her.

[@faithoye-akinpelu127]

Leave him. It's not going to change. This is abuse and you don't need this. The kids will be fine trust me.