Husband Secretly Used My Savings to Buy His Spoiled Daughter a Car Without Asking, But....

Husband Secretly Used My Savings to Buy His Spoiled Daughter a Car Without Asking, But She Refuses to Let Me Use It. After a Fight, I Threaten Him With Divorce.
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[@DarkEinherjar]

The nerve of calling OP a gold digger when she was essentially financing Carrie's school and car... if anything, that makes ALL THREE OF THEM the gold diggers. Michael still has a long way to go. He's lucky OP didn't divorce him ON THE SPOT for stealing her money for the car.

[@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami]

Exactly cerri projecting HARD😂😂

[@Maninawig]

I will say that OP's justification doesn't hold water, but she is definitely not a gold digger.

[@mynailfairy]

If it's me i would just leave without any words. The next time he'll hear from me is the divorce papers. I do not want to be with a man who have no backbone and will only do something because something is at stake. Michael sucks.

[@sparkeyjames]

@fairy OP and Michael are both spineless. One was afraid to do anything for fear of angering her husband and Michael was so wrapped up in pleasing his daughter that nothing else mattered including his wife. The only saving grace is that OP finally snapped and it woke everyone up. Well everyone but Carrie of course since she so self centered and toxically hateful toward the new spouses that there was no waking her up. It's to bad it came to OP moving out and threatening a divorce but sometime such harsh things need to happen to wake people up.

[@southernflight5078]

​@@mynailfairy truth. Get away from the spineless fool who will happily spend their spouse's money to keep the toxic child and Ex happy.

[@jotacatalan]

My god the level of toxicity in the step daughter is something else.

[@MegaHarvickFan29]

Agreed. But I blame Carrie's parents more than anything. They originally divorced over 8 years ago and it's crystal clear that that child needed therapy YEARS ago. She's 16 now and behavior like that is hard to correct when it's left unchecked for that long. Hopefully she can become a rational, intelligent adult and have a solid footing to start her life with.

[@murdock94]

God help any child that Carrie's parents have with their new partners.

[@Maninawig]

The fact that she did that to both parents is the interesting part for me, as I normally hear this entitlement towards one parent. Imo, Nina takes the lion's share of the blame as she lived with her daughter (more contact) and hid the fact of her attitude. I do hope they warned the grandparents though.

[@ceded6543]

Seems like her mother played a big part in that by putting thoughts in her daughter's head.

[@murdock94]

@@ceded6543The fact that she was doing it to both the new husband and wife of each parent kind of leads me to believe otherwise. That's the only reason she was went to stay with her dad.

[@diklah07]

And Carrie will later post a reddit about how she was abandoned by her parents after they have new family, and left out her toxic behaviour in the story

[@kaidrazarc8000]

To be fair I'd probably be toxic as F if when my parents tried to discipline me I could just give them the silent treatment until they apologised & bought me a car True she's old enough to know what's she's doing but still young enough to be influenced by terrible parenting

[@cototototorra7106]

tbh she seems to be just traumatized by the awful divorce and how none of her 2 parents did anything about it, at the end they did what they could and carried still has his dad and mom, not together, but something

[@user-fs6fr1un4f]

@kaidrazarc8000. She blackmailed her father. She's a manipulator.

[@user-fs6fr1un4f]

@kaidrazarc8000. You must be a toxic and manipulative person like her, that's why you defend her awful behaviour.

[@brakis18]

So the ex used the daughter as a bomb for the marriage and the man was weak enough to let it happen.

[@murdock94]

Worse. The ex was trying to save her own marriage by passing the daughter off to her ex and didn't care if it destroyed his marriage. Carrie has basically whined herself out of any family, really.

[@Rj-ij6ko]

This story was absolutely INFURIATING to listen too... Carrie is a spoiled, entitled little brat, but...Michael is WAYYYY worse... He doesn't care about Op, he just wants her to be a verbal punching bag and wallet for his entitled brat of a daughter. God Op REALLLY needs to stand up for herself more

[@Phoenix-mh5eo]

Yes! That was my end takeaway too! He literally tried to rug sweep once he knew the details of how horrible Carrie was to OP and tried to get OP to come back and care for Carrie after learning his daughter is a bully and abuser to OP. This "change" isn't going to last and I feel horrible for OP because there is DEFINITELY more toxicity and drama in store for her down the line.

[@dementesf]

I can see the Reddit comments: "OP, you don't have a stepdaughter problem, you have a husband problem"

[@l-l-l-l-l-l-l]

Now hear me out here guys... Never and I really mean NEVER ever marry a single/ divorced parent whose child you cannot get along with or an ex who cannot stay civil no matter how big his stick is or how tight her tunnel is. No amount of personal satisfaction can shield you from that incoming toxicity.

[@l-l-l-l-l-l-l]

@@MrArielK The advice is human generated

[@arleneclark6369]

​@@MrArielK That doesn't matter, the fact is there are people like this in the world, this story may have been AI generated but that doesn't change the fact that this crap happens in real life.

[@solomia5037]

@@MrArielKim so glad you haven't personally witnessed that level of disfunction and audacity but it exists. i hope you keep your rose colored glasses because theres some truly fucked up people and situations

[@VynDimentional]

"No matter how big his stick is or how tight her tunnel is" had me silently laughing in class. Luckily for me, I'm invisible because no one talks to me

[@margie2092]

It’s sad that OP didn’t have the backbone to stand up for herself earlier. Carrie should’ve been 1) in therapy and 2) told she was a child not the adult in charge. Seriously she’s gearing up to be a master manipulator. No child truly likes being in that much power because it’s just chaotic and they’re still learning to navigate life and others won’t roll over as easily as stepmom and dad. And of course bio mom is getting her shits and giggles knowing what a nightmare Carrie is

[@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami]

You definitely know what you're doing at 16 lmfao she's almost an adult, you don't just suddenly get an epiphany at 18😂😂😂

[@wednesdayschildfullofwoe]

​@@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami You're right, you don't have an epiphany at 18! Which is why it's weird af to say she's "almost an adult at 16"? Just because the law says you are an "adult" at 18 doesn't mean that mentally....you are an adult. You really think there is much of a difference between a 17 and a 18 year old? A pervert might🙄

[@aarya-fn7ys]

Op's tolerance level is impressive

[@joaop4585]

Weakness*

[@Walhor]

Yeah, tolerance of a doormat.

[@heelrunner]

Definitely weak af. The moment she talked back the first time was the moment OP should've put her foot down. Lol

[@chessieray1465]

Interesting how the mother is being a hypocrite knowing damn well that Carrie is acting the same way with her and her new husband. Then the audacity to demand a car for proof of forgiveness is astounding. Girl, you've been giving OP hell for God knows how long and your trifling behind said she was overreacting? Girl bye. Michael on the other hand needs to be alone for a while til he and his ex can get Carrie in check.

[@benrussell-gough1201]

No woman iikes being supplanted; obviously she was using her traumatised daughter as a weapon to ruin her husband's second marriage.

[@Balgees24]

No, I would have filed for divorce a long time and wouldn't talk to him at all.

[@roabarton7962]

Shouldn't have had a shared account or a college fund for the brat to begin with.

[@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami]

Bruh she's getting grounded 1000% for throwing away food in a sane household😂😂😂

[@haliapathfinder3832]

when she said she did it three times begore op gave up, I nearly lost it... I feel bad EVERY time food goes bad here! HATE wasting stuff.

[@cheryljones8875]

You have a husband problem. Leave them. Get your money back from that car as well.

[@Mariah9_]

His daughter is so ungrateful, selfish and inconsiderate! I would never stay with a man that has a disrespectful daughter and how he keeps choosing her side.

[@uroosakhan2514]

OP’s patience and tolerance level is giving me anxiety attack 😒😒😒

[@onlittlecatfeet]

I don't understand why nina said michael cheated with op if she couldn't stand her daughter behavior, maybe she can't accept the fact she was failed as parent, and michael is too blind and spineless with his daughter behavior

[@shawnbrooks5293]

Never reward bad behavior in any relationship.

[@buckfitches8845]

I just feel bad for the OP, the worst is yet to come for her. She is not aware of the saying "you must lose a fly to catch a trout" and she doesn't realize the car, the accounts, everything is the fly and she is the trout. That guy will use her, deplete her mental health with all his and his daughter's shenanigans soon enough. On top of that, she will lose a lot of money.

[@teelyn1609]

I don’t feel bad for her at all. She’s choosing to stick around and take the abuse from her stepdaughter! Not to mention the BS from her husband and bio-mom! And she continued to choose paying for everything?! You’re nicer than me, having sympathy. I will never understand her allowing these people to abuse/use her. As far as I concerned she’s a ridiculous doormat.

[@kit4616]

@@teelyn1609Victim blaming doesn’t help anyone. When you’re being emotionally and mentally abused by people who are supposed to love you, it can be hard to recognize. Unfortunately it is up to the individual to find support that won’t allow them to make the same mistake again. Abusers often front a ‘mask’ that slowly peels away the more confident they become that you won’t leave. Fear and anxiety is turned into a tool for the abuser. You clearly lack life experience and would be of little help if someone in your family was in a similar situation. Maybe re-evaluate this part of your worldview, honey.

[@axepagode4321]

The Silent Treatment: This gets to a lot of people. However, it has never had an effect on me. It's like there is one less annoying voice with expectations, desires, demands, and wants that I have to hear. Don't Threaten Me with a Good Time!

[@anakhanair_]

Same ,i can go on for months and my brain subconsciously blocks people's presence that I don't even have to actively try or remind myself.

[@rebeccamcguire2798]

i would have devroiced him and sued him for the coast of the car his lack of being a responsible father is gross

[@maxportellichadwick261]

Its rare that you hear one of these stories and the husband is just clueless, like absolutely clueless.

[@tallyp.7643]

What drives me nuts is when these types of parents keep saying "I'll talk to them." When shenanigans happen after dozens of talks, it's time to realize that talk is cheap and it's time to do something. Carrie doesn't care about how her behavior affects people because all she gets is some well-meaning talking to, no consequences. And got a CAR as a forgiveness present? Yeah, when you get what you want even at your worst, what the hell incentive is there for you to be better?

[@AAAz475]

Common signs of narcissism

[@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami]

Rule of thumb always do a background check before marrying a single parent lol

[@mynailfairy]

Make sure to know why the marriage didn't work and look-out for crazies.

[@Nicolas888]

Love ur story’s when I’m at work instead of listening to music I listen to this bro 😂

[@brianarnold8666]

That's literally theft. Press charges

[@jbcroos918]

I would also gift him a sweater with the word WELCOME fot him to wear at her return to the house and lay down at the entrance door at her arrival because he has been a complete doormat

[@jayplays9976]

As a step son to my mother this girls behaviour is appalling

[@Roro99999]

When the husband did not defend OP and told her to take an Uber, I swear to God I was fucking Gobsmacked I’m not gonna get respected by a little six-year-old girl. Not him using my money and then you disrespecting me.

[@mksmike]

Op's a saint. There's no way I wouldn't have put my foot down way sooner.

[@starfire4539]

This lady really just put up with all of that. Fucking hell. The lack of backbone in this story infuriates me

[@sincerelyv8264]

She decided what she wanted and what she's willing to consider if he could make the change. I'm glad for her. The daughter was entitled as all hell and the biological mom knew what she was like. She basically dumped her own daughter on her ex because she didn't care enough to parent, but has the gall to criticize.

[@thequeenofdemons666]

I wonder if his change of heart was not an epiphany, but, rather, instead a change in tactics because self-preservation for at least one or both reasons... 1. Mike really, really, really does not want to be BBs (butt-buddies) with an inmate who sees him as "the one," at least for, you know, now.... men can be more fickle than a woman... 2. Mike knew that the divorce would actually be the equivalent to the apocalypse making him lose his personal ATM and would definitively cause the completely abrubt and with this act it will be the permanent cessation of his account with the Bank of OP... (you know... his cash 🐮🐮cow🐮🐮) Also the parents, Michael and Nina, FAILED THEIR CHILD. 1. If Nina was not trying so hard to plant seeds of discord with OP and Michael's relation, by weaponizing and exploiting her own child to do so, then perhaps Carrie could have eventually thawed out a bit by lessening the intensity of the attacks. The bitterness, resentment, hatred, antagonistic, churlish, obnoxious, cruel, mercenary, and disturbing behaviors, actions could have had the potential of creating a bond or an understanding, cordiality. If Carrie and her parents had all began too put Carrid into therapy including individual and as a family counciling through individual employed healthier coping mechanisms as opposed to , beliefs, and causing abandonment issues, insecurities,

[@djmike9272]

For heaven's sake, just divorce your simp of a husband and get a way from his toxic family.

[@dianasmith8248]

Wow both Michael and Nina really failed Carrie.

[@artemislove2941]

the fact the OP went ahead and married him in the first place says a lot. like why are you wasting your time with someone who has a kid who hates you. and why would you even PROPOSE to someone your kid hates

[@kossettereaditte7552]

Honestly, if the daughter dont wanna be there. Then send her to mom

[@artemislove2941]

divorce? no. sue him for theft

[@slayerwytch2032]

That little brat literally but the band that fed her… she has to learn consequences…

[@solomia5037]

once you fuck with a persons money they have every right to leave you alone

[@srsh12345]

Never marry someone who can't stop their child or children from disrespecting you. Huge mistake for her to stick with him. Contributing to her college fund, funding all these activities for a step-daughter that hates her. Huge mistakes.

[@austinflores2139]

Damn couldn’t handle the monster they created. Sucks. But that girl is old enough to know how to act.

[@LadyZubat]

How is Op the gold digger when the vast majority of the money used to buy that car was hers?

[@Photon_Collector]

This girl is 16 and she doesn't wash her own clothes or do her own dishes?

[@kyliestaraway2492]

Why she even with Micheal? He doesnt have her back at all

[@TOMMY716]

Like in all honestly just leave the father because if he's not doing anything with his child acting like this is the problem too

[@unitcharles8278]

Imagine using step mom money everyday for everything from meal to a car but call her gold digger

[@Mop222]

The dad sounds like the gold digger. The only time he disciplined his daughter was when his wife threatened to stop paying for his daughter. Why does this woman even have joint finances with a guy who has lesser money and misuses it. What the hell is she doing with this man.

[@diamondly6250]

not even the kids fault its the bad parents

[@allamrushdi5957]

Michael and Nina are the worst here.

[@Sethasss]

thats one spoiled brat

[@user-fw7fj3df5r]

So Carrie ur pos step daughter told you SHE WISHED YOU WERE UNALIVE... that would have been a red flag for me to leave aka divorce him

[@Jivi_Galaxy]

I think Her soon to be ex husband is as toxic as his ex wife and step daughter.

[@sierrastanley3109]

So, the mother didnt want to deal with the daughter because Carrie was treating her husband the same way she was treating OP. Mother was saying all thst because she didnt want her daughter coming back home.

[@friziramfr]

This has the same exact words used to describe her attempts at making a cone ion with the step daughter as a story where the fiancé and stepson steal 120k from her account to found the fiancés ex’s lifestyle…

[@biggdawg0211]

OP fucked up by trying to be nice and not minding her business. She should've let him just kick the girl out instead of thinking she's going to save the day and earn some browning points. That only happens in the movies in situations like this lol

[@benrussell-gough1201]

I do feel a little for Carrie as she was the hot coal. Due to her (likely divorce-triggered) mental health issues, she was tossed like a hot coal to her father and, when he was burned too, she was tossed to her grandparents. I suspect that therapy has not come a moment too soon (and may actually be too late).

[@Carnibee]

Definitely AI story but I enjoyed it. Wish it was real so we could get an update. The ending definitely would not have been so smooth in reality 😂

[@chrisj.1608]

It's another shame you have a kid who was raised by terrible parents and I mean terrible parents to the point that no one wants this kid anymore and now it's a shame that she's just being shuffled away again instead of actually getting help

[@oriolephan]

After all that they still want to get her a car?

[@gregoryk.9815]

I would have divorced with terms of repayment for the car plus interest.

[@kevinspacey5325]

Op is a super doormat.

[@deinyoutoubechannel4542]

BRO NO! SHE HAS NO MANNERS!!!

[@lyra6695]

Stop with this serious convo, he will always prioritize his daughter Leaveeeee

[@darkness5019]

7:20 dad:“you’re welcome to go back to dad” I’m sorry what that doesn’t make sense did it mean to say mom lmao

[@megurineziam5900]

In the end Carrie was still a spoiled brat enabled by her dad who cannot be cracked by a chiropractor even if he tried

[@chbwinters]

Op has let it get to this point.

[@bungkai580]

op's husband has the spine of a jellyfish

[@storyteller5557]

Carrie is such a horrible human being

[@jstenberg100]

i hope they sold the car

[@heyyitsjanea]

i actually feel bad for carrie that girls needs therapy bad both of her parents just decided that she’s too much to deal with and wants to pawn her off on others. bro DISCIPLINE HER?? don’t just give up on her and i feel bad for the new partners brought into this mess. nina and dad suck

[@user-fe8gx3ie5v]

You're an adult at 16. Acting like that at your age is a sign of poor upbringing.

[@user-lp5ph1hn4p]

They should have just made her go live with her mom.

[@EmilyHoot]

I feel so bad for Carrie. She was failed by her parents in so many ways

[@kmosterbergLolbit]

we should talk about the 9 year age gap

[@Lazyspaceout]

How much do you give to the joint and do you not have individual account? Should be careful

[@heyyitsjanea]

i’m sorry, yall bought a car for a child while still sharing one??

[@Owl_bee]

Doormat 🙄

[@TonysStabindadark]

My god!!

[@aquitaineq]

omg so spoiled

[@egyphon]

The mistake was to invest in the kid's life in the first place, not her responsibility, should have never happened.

[@anq4274]

The first red flag HE'S 10 YEARS OLDER THAN HER¡

[@olly2027]

Why did you have a joint account?

[@artemislove2941]

i’m sorry but it’s OPs fault for letting it go on this long. she let herself be a doormat for too long that he was fine with it and had no issues doing this

[@travelblazer07]

Smh

[@Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681]

Ya im not buying teh fake as s title story but it was a good laugh at utter nonsense XD

[@theartalli]

This story was so annoying ngl, maybe I’m selfish but op needs to just get out of that. Stop spending money and time on people that don’t deserve it.

[@that_pan_chick8650]

Just went through this when getting a car. My dad is a mechanic so I always take him when I look at cars. My husband doesn’t care for it but likes to look around at the cars while he waits. I’m always the one that doesn’t get a handshake or even an introduction if I don’t initiate it myself. Then when they ask what we are looking for, and they say “she’s paying” I’m suddenly important enough to look in the eye.

[@TheStoicNinja]

Bruh I usually listen to get everyones side of the story to make a unbiased comment, but... Husband, implies marriage, but the Savings are yours, daughter is his, car is hers, threatening with divorce? Why are these people married?

[@codyjones8153]

*7!*

[@milkqt666]

Op you are weak

[@TonysStabindadark]

You deserve what you tolerate!! GROW AN EFFING BACKBONE!!!!!!

[@evakuater]

a 36 year old has a 16 year old daughter?

[@aarya-fn7ys]

9th

[@twink_le_9792]

this is such an obviously fake story

[@pepsidragon1]

these fake ass AI stories...

[@MicahPlays_YT]

Then don't watch them

[@Amenimun]

Thank you for doing an in-depth investigation to discover that this story is, indeed, without a doubt 100% AI generated.

[@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami]

​@@Amenimun😂😂😂