After Nearly a Decade Together, My Wife Threw Our Marriage Away by Having Affairs With Two Older...

After Nearly a Decade Together, My Wife Threw Our Marriage Away by Having Affairs With Two Older, Married Coworkers
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0:00 - Story 1
14:55 - Story 2

[@premiumfruits3528]

It always cracks me up when the wife is cheating on the person she's cheating on her husband with, and the original AP gets upset like he has some kind of real claim to her. Like dude, you're eating ass and you're surprised when there's doo doo on your lips?

[@dannysilva3210]

😂😂😂

[@SilveryBlue1010]

Dude, gross... Also lmao 😂😂

[@notting2640]

Both APs are probably senior employees/management, and since it happened both times, OP has enough grounds to sue the company for spousal alienation. He’d either win the money in court or in private settlement, since it’s really bad PR for a company to have a reputation for employing wife-stealing bosses 😂

[@Maninawig]

One might be, but the other older one seemed on the same level. That said, I never thought of suing the company.

[@grt8guy03]

I wish all states have "spousal alienation", states like california promote singlehood

[@shanittathompson2039]

Op, your wife has been cheating longer than you think!!!!

[@aarya-fn7ys]

I think the same dude

[@GodlyWodahs]

Bro listed 17 huge red flags but then follows it up with "I was under the impression we had a solid marriage". No, you definitely did not lmao

[@avaphynx]

I couldn't imagine being with someone who I've been in a relationship for 10 years. And not know they didn't like kids, didn't want them, etc. Or the fact he was upset he had to do everyday basic chores . Not saying the wife had any right to do what she did. She should have left him if he was a terrible partner. Cheating is abhorrent.

[@thematrix2661]

cheaters are always liars and will use any excuse to blame for their cheating

[@nziro]

⁠​⁠@@kimberlyrichardson5943he wants to raise his own kids, very simple. His wife put his own goals on hold by lying about wanting to wait to have kids

[@MunchDurrys]

@@kimberlyrichardson5943 "Just so he can pass on Genes" Procreation is what we were created to do along with every other creature on this planet. In my opinion not wanting to pass on your genes (Not including people with hereditary diseases or reasons not to procreate) is kind of inhuman. I view them as just a worker drone existing to pay taxes and waste resources.

[@lalvarez5151]

​@kimberlyrichardson5943 he is acting betrayed because she LIED. If she didn't want kids he would not have married her. She led him on and NEVER told him.

[@smallpseudonym2844]

@@kimberlyrichardson5943 You didn't just miss the point. You straight up did everything you could to avoid it.

[@imnotyourvillain]

Story #2: What happened to OP is unfortunate, but the way he talks abt his ex-partner (at least at the beginning) has me gagging.

[@user-fw7fj3df5r]

OP she was never your wife or yours. IT WAS JUST YOUR TURN that's why there was 2 AP so far, but we all know there's much more.

[@mayuuchan7874]

You should start putting the original posts into the comments. It would be nice to see comments on original posts to better understand updates for example.

[@MrArielK]

Why 90% of stories in this channel are about the woman being the villain? Makes you think...

[@tombrady5587]

​@@MrArielK The poster clearly is adhering to a certain audience. There's a few other KZbinrs who only post videos of women being the villains. But equally there are also some that only/mostly post where men are the villains. You should watch vids of KZbinrs who fit what you want to see really

[@aelix56]

@@MrArielK That reddit is filled with women.

[@tombrady5587]

@@MrArielK If true, then that's just strange. I've not gone out of my way to search for the reddit threads so I can't say. But many of these Reddit KZbinrs I've seen take it from Reddit. Not sure about this one though. The issue is, some of these KZbinrs don't post the name of the Reddit thread so it's difficult to find.

[@Nathan_Bookwurm]

There's no comments. A lot of these are either made up or AI generated.

[@user-du5qg1pr5r]

Story 2: I wish the writers of the story would at least make up a good ending. Instead, they just leave the story hanging no info about what happened to his supposed wife. Depending on how many writers did this story, i give it 3/10, piss poor

[@sugarbeef]

Don't forget the unbelievable fantasy that part of the "problem" was she stopped cooking his meals and doing his laundry after she got home from work, but he found a younger woman that wanted to be his mommy and take care of him.

[@ohbewa]

@@sugarbeef that part weirded me out i had to pause and really process what the dude said… like can he not just make his own meals or do his own laundry

[@Nathan_Bookwurm]

Yikes, the OP grosses me out so much. Oh look, lucky him, all worked out cuz now he's with a "younger woman" who gave him the kid, cooking abd cleaning for him. No matter if it's a made up story or based on reality, this kind of writing is gross and disrespectful.

[@user-yk6qr2rp6u]

​@@Nathan_Bookwurm his wife was sleeping outside , most prob cheating so stfu

[@matthenry3569]

He should have seen the flags sooner, and made sure she was on the same page as him before marriage. She was a cheater prior to marriage, and just used him as a safe option wallet.

[@gabrielsfilms2086]

love that in the 'Hmm' comment chain no one acknowledged the creator joining in, no comments, no likes, just more hmmm

[@Exodai-Academy]

Watching stories like these always remind me how happy im im single.

[@nicknitro86]

"Better keep your mouth shut or" sounds like an ass whooping to me

[@artemislove2941]

the fact she got caught and still kept in contact

[@coconutforlife]

Hmm

[@S-ik4ip]

Hmm

[@silverplays7062]

Hmmm​

[@IEatRawOnions]

hmm

[@ghazasuit]

Hmmmm

[@Chieftainkristian]

mmH

[@reshawshid]

I want children and would consider a woman not being willing to have children after marriage betrayal. If she's infertile, I'd stick with her, but being unwilling to do what is very important to me and lying about it to get married is something I'll immediately divorce for.

[@Nathan_Bookwurm]

As you should. Not being on the same path about wanting kids and lying about big things are both deal breakers.

[@monsterkingadversity6662]

You know. These stories have given me an uncanny vision in my minds eye of me portal gunning in like Rick, deconstructing everyone involved down psychologically, creating an unending existential spiral where they see visions of strange creatures, then leaving and getting an In N Out burger…

[@haarstad88]

wtf story two. why do someone get married after just one year

[@Tuco_Salamanca3]

Desperation and immaturity

[@sosamma090]

If your high paying wife cheated on you, you divorce her asap and get alimony.

[@markmessina7895]

Divorce papers only take a couple of days.

[@ushnishchakraborty]

Cheatception

[@dokuganryu1565]

Damn. Not once but twice?

[@diyamajumder9982]

I fking dont understand why the f people cheat?

[@adambenes3728]

Why would even consider ifnyou are insecure. Male friends are red flag and always need clear boundries. Once the flirting starts you are not insecure, ypu are secure enough to say ,,I dont like this,,. Women use ,,you are insecure,, every time man has a boundries

[@chessieray1465]

The second one reminds me of a song, I can't remember it now though.

[@Maya-lover2]

Is guy never take break from raddit

[@Maya-lover2]

@@MrArielK is it on raddit

[@user-ef7wd6yu7x]

@@MrArielK HE's messing with u lol

[@MrArielK]

@@user-ef7wd6yu7x well I’m also lightly implying these stories are all fake

[@Maya-lover2]

@@user-ef7wd6yu7x im not i see yt say is in raddit

[@Maya-lover2]

@@MrArielK I not have reddit but i see it in reddit vid on yt about talk same thing as is vid The have some credit on vid about op posts on raddit vid

[@mursukkiii]

"I had to make my meals and care for the house somedays" See that is the issue. This is the second time he has mentioned her not making him food and cleaning after him. She also has a job. Maybe she doesnt want a child since she already has one, that being you, an adult toddler. It really does suck that she didnt tell you that she doesnt want children but did you ask her? What I am getting is no, you didnt ask her before marriage. Anyway I understand that it is dissapointingbut I really dont think bringing this up is just her job to do. Edit: Cheating isnt cool also in any case or the stealing. Sorry about that. Sill, when you attempt to have future relationships please think how you are acting.

[@darkknight3037]

if she has the audacity to cheat and even tell in marriage councelling that she HATES babies, then she couldnt have pointed out the OP being lazy and stuff? This isnt the problem here

[@sierraalice8072]

@@darkknight3037op is telling the story, he could intentionally not be mentioning his shortcomings

[@sierraalice8072]

My thoughts exactly he gives me the ick

[@NagoBust]

​@@sierraalice8072classic white knight commenter

[@NagoBust]

The problem is most likely she makes food for herself but doesn't think of op.

[@MrArielK]

This story is AI generated

[@Tuco_Salamanca3]

Yeah? We know 😂

[@user-if9mj5cv7j]

J

[@broykboy6810]

мать твою

[@jayblack854]

dudes suck didnt even sue the company and aps. just b1tching not planning to get even. does his lawyer is dum dum or what??? wtf wrong with this guy didnt even blow 1ap up??? like u have him by the balls u can get money or blow his life but no. this is why feminist love emotional guys no though just emotions

[@MattJDave]

You seem like the epitome of thoughtful, definitely not letting emotions get the better of you over someone else's story (if it's real, of course)

[@gabrielsfilms2086]

..? dude what? I'm pretty sure theres no way you could sue the company, MAYBE the aps but I doubt that

[@markmessina7895]

Broke down ??? Why are there so many weak guys on here ? Women take advantage on weak guys.

[@hennigadient4265]

can we pls not say soneone has an personalety disorder ? Bc they are cheating?! -.- with no real knowledge of this illness. THANKS 😑 Story 2 : 16:28 your wife is not your mom and doesn't have to do your clothing washing or to cook for you THX

[@Waluigi7891]

Why are so many women narrsacistic nowadays?

[@PinkMarshmallows]

Feminism.

[@MaryAX]

Narcissism has always been considered a "male" problem however I believe it's always existed & this preconception has to do with several factors: 1) Women's narcissism plays out differently. They may be more covert or upheave / exploit existing systems to suit their interests. 2) Gender roles / conceptions - men don't realize it but they've been fed a historical narrative that women ought to necessarily be dainty, goody-goody, and poised. The reality is women are humans like men and can be equally evil as men. It's not a unique evil because it was already latent in the entire species. 3) All of the above affects psychiatric diagnoses. There has been some debate over the years if borderline personality disorder is actually just being used as a "female version of NPD" or if it's an actual disorder. Either way, narcissism is always underdiagnosed regardless of gender, it's extremely unrepresented in women. TL;DR it's always existed, it's just been lying beneath the surface. Anyone who has met covert narcs in either gender can attest to this, the explanation isn't that they aren't there, it's that you don't see them coming. Narcissism will exist as long as trauma, neglect and spoiling (teaching entitlement) do; we know these experiences are as old as human history itself.