Husbands surprising response to wife who has lost all feelings for him.

[@lisacarle1686]

I'm praying for my husband & that God will restore our marriage of 22 years. I'm praying for all us who are struggling & feel so alone & empty. May God bless & restore our hearts & our marriages. 🙏🏻❤️

[@bahranghebrekidan1541]

Amen amen Yes amen

[@n.s.c_]

Prayers for you ❤🙏

[@lisacarle1686]

@@n.s.c_ Thank you and prayers for you as well.

[@lisacarle1686]

@@bahranghebrekidan1541 Thank you 🙏🏻❤️

[@marydickey3404]

Amen

[@diannamcclary2523]

I’m praying that God will fully restore my marriage, heal my family and bless our home once more.

[@bjornmaxson344gmail7]

Hello Dianna, how're you doing today??

[@SmoBoo]

This is so true, I stopped complaining to GOD about my husband and started praising him to the lord and to him and the change was astronomical! Gratitude I became grateful and that made a huge difference. I think it's because it's a practice of faith when you speak life. Truly is life and death in the power of the tongue...and we are accountable for every idle word. Speak life daily into your children and loved ones!

[@kimturner1963]

Love requires a servant's heart.

[@VictorAlphaSierra236]

Louder for the people at the back 😂

[@kimturner1963]

@@VictorAlphaSierra236 true, too many people forget this, including myself. We all can be selfish more often than we should be.

[@sarahstone3772]

That was so inspiring. I have so many problems with my spouse now. I am asking God how He sees us and for guidance and wisdom . Thank you for sharing this, God bless. 🙏❤️

[@lavenderbutterfly1433]

I thought this entire video was the most insightful marriage advice I've ever heard for both husband and wife. Very powerful words.

[@suehalli855]

Please pray for my marriage. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@tamarabattice8876]

Holy ABBA, I lift up to you your precious daughter Sue! You see the pain that she is experiencing! I pray that you would heal the wounds, disappointments and the longings and expectations she has! I pray that you will heal her husband also! Heal childhood wounds of rejection, abuse, both physical and emotional, as well as trauma! Let them both be made whole and fall in love with you, make you their priority and rely on Your Holy Spirit to teach them how to be the husband and wife You created them to be, as outlined in Your Holy Word! Be glorified, honored and exalted in their marriage and help them to see and love each other through Your eyes! Give them a powerful testimony and use them to help others, in the mighty name of Yeshua/Jesus our mighty Savior, L-RD and King, Amein! 🙌🏼☝🏼💪🏼🙏🏼👑🗡🩸🕊🔥❤️

[@n.s.c_]

Prayers for you ❤🙏

[@lisacarle1686]

Praying for you and the restoration of your marriage Sue. God bless 🙏🏻❤️

[@donnagibson1703]

🙏❤

[@dimphosalang]

May God restore and heal your marriage

[@mnp870]

True, speaking life to your partner is needed. This couples testimony is spot on. Marriage is always, always, always worth reconciliation. In today’s times, everyone is so busy with schedules and married couples relations are pushed to the back burner. Date night is so needed & Its important to listen, listen, listen to each other. True, do not look to change each other. Women need to support their husbands with their decisions and if they ask your opinion ladies, wait for the right timing to share your thoughts. Marriage is not a one up, my way only rather it’s a team. A woman wants to be loved and a man wants to be respected. Just as the word of God tells us. If there is a break in that connection, it will cause a distance in that relationship. Every relationship takes work. icebergs will cross the patch of life.

[@reneerosie]

Except when there is abuse. Then you must leave and not go back.

[@mnp870]

@@reneerosie your are absolutely correct. I should have added your remark to my comment.

[@reneerosie]

@@mnp870I do agree with everything you said though. You can always edit your initial comment 😊

[@andrefouche8725]

God is good, God is faithful. Praise His Holy Name

[@jaiyaalexandra144]

The hand of the Lord is upon you, you are a mighty warrior.

[@brianbousquet2136]

Lord Jesus Christ help all of us with hurting relationship with you, no longer intimate in prayer with you Lord, and totally missing our spouses hearts 😔🙏

[@ChrisPBacon-ki9ew]

A lot of the concepts discussed are a core of the appreciative inquiry, concentrating on the positive rather than on the negative. What you concentrate on expands.

[@resianemaculate.]

I agree my precious bro @ Chris P. Bacon

[@adriandlobo]

Many are facing marital problems and your testimony is encouraging

[@Ryanjoned163]

I'm JUST a nobody trying to tell someone about one man king Jesus who saves everybody

[@sonnymustarseed7034]

Recommend reading 'Hope Beyond Hell' by Gerry Beauchemin, helped me sort some things out

[@canadiankewldude]

*_God Bless_*

[@User_Happy35]

It's a great song!

[@tonyabrown7796]

My husband was giving me a rose for every year we were together but it got too expensive. He switched to a special rose for each decade and sticks with the originals for the extra years.

[@yeyamusic]

That’s almost a good problem to have, that you guys were together so long that it was too many roses 😆

[@sharonleis1365]

When I was at seminary in Fresno, California I met a woman who was divorced from her pastor husband. She told me he had a mistress, oh, she said it was his church. This was 1987. It was painful that we learned, God first, church second, family third. Guess where a lot of families are now. 😥

[@paulafox30]

He may have thought that he was home and he saw his family everyday but just cos he was physically home doesn't mean he was actually at home, his heart and his mind was on his work. I'm glad she told him rather than give up and leave because it gave him the opportunity to bring balance back into his life and spend some quality time with his family. But he spent all his time away working and she used to criticize him...... It happens alot. And not everyone knows how to fix it.

[@ivyblessmyflylordjesus.per7008]

God bless my marriage and my family.Bless my sick and seperated husband Lord.Thez no better relationship than that of a husband and wife.

[@User_Happy35]

There are no better "romantic" relationships than a husband and wife.

[@nancybutler2024]

My husband just admitted to me last night that he is not in love with me anymore. We are going on 9 years of marriage. May God help me be the best wife i can be for him. Thank you for this video. I will start speaking life today.

[@oscarmanyomalemus1260]

Please pray for my marriage, we need the help of God, my wife is sweet before of the people but inside uor home is empty

[@2030dak]

Amen glad marriage was saved

[@chrisminblkdiamond]

Love is not just an emotion you "feel". The Way of Love: 1Co 13:1 If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 1Co 13:2 And if I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 1Co 13:3 And if I give all my possessions to feed the poor, and if I deliver my body to be burned, but do not have love, it profits me nothing. 1Co 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, 1Co 13:5 does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, 1Co 13:6 does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 1Co 13:7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 1Co 13:8 Love never fails; but if there are gifts of prophecy, they will be done away; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be done away. 1Co 13:9 For we know in part, and we prophesy in part; 1Co 13:10 but when the perfect comes, the partial will be done away. 1Co 13:11 When I was a child, I used to speak as a child, think as a child, reason as a child; when I became a man, I did away with childish things. 1Co 13:12 For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face; now I know in part, but then I shall know fully just as I also have been fully known. 1Co 13:13 But now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.

[@saintejeannedarc9460]

Great testimony. My spouse has checked out too. He's an approval junkie, and I'm my mother's daughter, in that I can be cool and unapproving, esp. given the problems we have.

[@sarahfaith6531]

This is exactly what most marriages go through - especially when mom is home dedicating her time to the kids. It’s so tough to see the gift we are given as women. I pray we can be treasured and kind to ourselves through these difficult years of child rearing. They are so special. It’s not always easy to see.

[@margaret5089]

Beautiful❣️ Amen❣️

[@bjornmaxson344gmail7]

Hello Margaret, how're you doing today??

[@enosyodermattieyoder4298]

I really really need you guys to find a story about gaslighting in marriage. I have 2 very special friends who are experiencing this in marriage and I have no place to send them for hope and what their part is and how to see through the gaslighting and make sense of what to do

[@deb9784]

There is a website called Inner Integration! She's experienced this type of behavior. She is loving and supportive and wise! It's a great place to get additional information for manipulative marriages! But they should listen prayerfully! They should be so grateful to have aa friend like you! 💜

[@enosyodermattieyoder4298]

@@deb9784 thank you for your information.

[@lisajohnson4744]

Shaneen Megji has some excellent videos in which she talks about gaslighting, and how to pray for the perpetrators.

[@ivyblessmyflylordjesus.per7008]

God bless my marriage and my family.Bless my sick and seperated husband Lord

[@jasonayres]

(4:35) He knelt to pray *in* a Honda Accord..! That's committed! 😁👍

[@lisajohnson4744]

That’s what I thought too! 😆❤️

[@CoachCallofDuty]

I'm glad they were both in one Accord

[@g-manprayerwarrior4146]

Wow,that was great…

[@canadiankewldude]

Far to many people today, both parties, are being raised in the Me, Me Generation does not help anyone. People need to pray to God and reflect on themselves, with humility. *_God Bless_*

[@angelinamarina8992]

Powerful Enough,, The Awakened has Begun ,, The AWAKENING is Unfolding Strongest 🙌

[@biancahotca3244]

We go to their church sometimes. I was surprised to see them on here. It's a big church with several services. I just wish they would preach repentance at their church, against homosexuality, fornication, abortion, modesty, sin. That's what I don't like about these megachurches. Somebody actually confronted them about that and they said that's how they do church. Just do what's right and Godly, telling people what sin is and that it's not ok to live in it. Not only the feel good message. Good message on here otherwise.

[@roseg2938]

People in all kinds of sin, know they are sinning. God has put a knower in us to know when we are doing wrong. The word says “ it’s the goodness of God that leads us to repentance “.What people need is to know the goodness of God and that they are not condemned. Jesus came to save sinners and not condemn them. Nobody resists love. Let them know they are loved…All those that you have named are precious in his eyes. He died for them.

[@biancahotca3244]

@@roseg2938 Of course they are precious in God's eyes, but that does not mean you don't have to teach repentance and on sin. It's not about condemning people to hell, heavens no! But you have to tell people as well what sin is. Preach on it as well. Another mega church pastor I saw was not preaching that from what I know and he totally fell through eventually, fornication, living in sin.

[@sirmrdresqmd9200]

Thank you for this.

[@Mag913]

Doing for God is easier than being with God.

[@bjornmaxson344gmail7]

Hello maggie, how're you doing today??

[@bc8648]

Imagine being forced to live in Babylon so your wife can live in the promised land…just to get blamed for not being Christ himself. So done with women.

[@xiomseg]

Such a beautiful story

[@Mag913]

Intimacy with God=intimacy with spouse

[@LionsSB-2024]

Wow are you twisted

[@lisajohnson4744]

If spouse is willing. Some spouses truly aren’t.

[@tanyaschannel7703]

This is awesome!

[@michaelhalbert3843]

I'm praying that God gets my narcissistic wife out of my house and life forever.

[@Mag913]

Doing vs. Being. Peter Scezzaro's book "Emotionally Healthy Discipleship."

[@carriesmith7460]

This is so true, but not just with marital relationships. I see this same thing happening between parents and their children. Parents have these perfect ideals of what their children should be, and if they do not live up to their expectations, then they always end up hating their children and the children hating them.

[@joyfultrails]

A Christian does not “lose feelings” for her spouse. Love is not a feeling, it’s a decision. It’s a covenant commitment.

[@yetsomgize83]

Guys never know and women never say, until it's too late or pilled up so much.

[@janetcampbell9286]

I don't understand why Ann was silent for all of this time & she never even said that they needed marriage counseling to restore & heal their marriage. Dave needed to understand this too!

[@elisabeth73]

Allways remember about the chapter what love is said by Jesus. If you apply that irl it will be so much better.

[@Texan_Gal]

Why do men get angry when CLEARLY we are voicing an important concern. As the years go by, I have become more and more frustrated with our differences; men/women. Still at my age, I haven’t a clue how to get along. Does anyone else relate?

[@a.p3123]

Please pray for my marriage :*(

[@AndrewSchwankl]

" I was living for God, and leaving God in the dust." That's the church today. It's the book of Galatians: beginning in grace, and turning to works.

[@EvaCFricke]

Community doesn't come first but family in Western countries like USA. In Eastern countries community and family go hand in hand. That's why eastern marriages have less divorces.

[@givy450]

One of the best advice I ever hear : 174 A young fellow come to me, not long ago. He was a Pentecostal. He had seen too many of these meetings. And he goes in, his wife was a staunch Lutheran, she said, “Well, I guess you all went down and shouted last night.” Said, “I guess you was all speaking in tongues and doing all this last night.” He got on the floor, said, “God, cast…I cast the devil out of her! I cast the devil out of her!” Almost a divorce case. 175 Man, a fine man; he come to me, and he said, “Brother Branham, we’re going to have a divorce, I guess.” Said, “I just can’t get that devil to move out of her.” 176 I said, “Brother, you’re going at it the wrong way.” I said, “When she starts like that, say, ‘All right, dear. Bless your heart, honey,’ and be real kind to her. Just see how much you can do for her.” Said, “Brother Branham, well, how will I ever get the devil out?” I said, “You do as I say, and just keep praying in your heart, see.” I said, “God will take care of the rest of it.” He called me up, about two or three weeks later, he said, “My home is revolutionized.” He said, “My wife is a different person.” 177 I said, “Which is the most powerful? screaming and kicking and stomping? or putting your arms around her, in love?” God is love. That God so loved the world! Ever since by faith I saw the stream Thy flowing wounds supply, Redeeming love has been my theme, And shall be till I die. (That’s right.) 56-0101 - Why Are People So Tossed About? Rev. William Marrion Branham

[@crystalorquids7199]

But when there's no respect, and feeling like in jail, no More hope.

[@edlicsathiamurthy4520]

That is what happens when life is too good and based on feelings...... she needs to adapt

[@LionsSB-2024]

Lol he tried to cover up.....the truth..... "she knows, she knows....."

[@PistolPete1980]

what?!

[@aleksanderb.1026]

👍🏻

[@agapephilerostorge]

"5 Love Languages" - the best

[@KellyP_]

What happened to Kensington? 🤔

[@JonahGhost]

He thought it was a 9.8, and he went over to kiss her and she turned away... That is the stuff of nightmares.... Goodness lol

[@javlynblue2024]

He told him to shut up. He told me to leave. I wish I had.

[@reneerosie]

I am astonished their marriage survived years of "critiquing". Only God! If you don't know about the 5 love languages I suggest you learn yours and your significant others.

[@k6maz]

There’s no such thing as a love language. Love is servitude period. Love God and love your spouse.

[@reneerosie]

@@k6maz Check out the book The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman.

[@k6maz]

@@reneerosie the Bible is my go to book. There’s no such thing as a love language. LOVE is being able to serve others. Not how others can serve you based on your ego and desires. That’s why most marriages fail. Because the man goes in expecting his wife to serve him and the wife goes in expecting her husband to serve her. All for selfish reasons. TO LOVE IS TO SERVE. Not, “oh I love gifts, I love quality time, I love touching, I love words of affirmation”. All that is selfish, and for the ego and pride, i, i, i. Serve others, not yourself. That’s true love.

[@reneerosie]

@@k6maz If you haven't read the book then you're completely missing my point. Knowing these love langues are extremely helpful for every relationship.

[@indian8926]

Do God really listen our prayers as i has been praying God since very long but not a single prayer of mine has been answered

[@marifeubeda377]

You need maybe trust his plan for you..ask him show you his wish for ur life

[@indian8926]

@@marifeubeda377 @ Can God change the destiny

[@Stopover78]

God always answers our prayers but not the way we want it.

[@indian8926]

@@Stopover78 @ If God really listens our prayer and most importantly reply too then why don't we feel anything positive

[@Stopover78]

@@indian8926 We have to live with Christ and remain In Him to know Him. 100% He answers prayers.

[@boldforchrist9000]

It's either 1st Impressions or 2nd Opinions in the Worldly Bible Translation (WBT) where the Apostle Tristen says in Chapter 6 of verse 66 women should have feelings for their husbands and if they don't it's the husband's fault 67 for not filling her love tank adequately with words of affirmation or whatever her love language is.

[@lisajohnson4744]

Witty but not helpful. I’m glad I’m not in a counseling office with you.

[@boldforchrist9000]

@@lisajohnson4744 American women are so entitled.

[@Vikingshop]

ALL WOMEN TRY TO BETTER THEIR MEN. God has programmed women to do so. And IF the man is a humble and wise man of God ..... he will listen and grow.

[@uke7084]

She seems unrealistic and hypocritical. His sin, as she puts it, was he was always gone and not engaged with the family. Yet he planned a spectacular night full of conversation about good memories of EACH YEAR. How can you have happy memories with your wife to talk about for every year of your marriage if you are never there? It is impossible. She needed to talk with him the moment she was bitter. She is the one who disengaged. "So long, whatever." Is how she responded to him. Instead of speaking up like an adult she hardened her heart towards him without any warning. No head's up. Nothing. And on a night that should have been celebratory she blindsided him with her dissatisfaction. He is an incredible man to respond the way he did. She needs to mature. I hope her story includes repentance as well. She seems to be more self aware at the end of this, and I am glad to see she was part of the problem. Which is good.

[@ungmd21]

Agree. If she was unhappy, she needed to be honest and open about her feelings and sort them out with her husband. Kudos to him for being humble enough no to get mad and start a fight

[@zxxxrain8070]

Apply that in your own life, no one has a manual, guess you don’t make mistakes and react perfectly in all situations. WE ALWAYS HAVE ADVICE AND OPINIONS FOR OTHERS BUT NEVER SEEM TO BE PERFECT HUH?

[@uke7084]

@@zxxxrain8070 😆 🤣 😂

[@steveburtonomaha]

No. I’m not buying it. She needed to change her attitude toward the work he was doing outside of the house. There are a lot of women who would be desperate to have a man who was a hard worker. Even if it meant for him to be out of the house for significant periods of time. I would also suspect that she was cheating on him. She was very self-centered. It was all about her and her happiness. The biblical marriage is win both sides serve each other. I feel sorry that this man got married to this woman in the first place. He must have a very difficult life.

[@lornaagrantlifecoach3784]

Wow , So a man think so is he .

[@polynesianusa5437]

Typical woman, wants a husband who's successful but then detaches emotionally from him when she feels he doesn't pay enough attention to her.

[@curiousintellect6874]

THANK YOU!!!

[@mhba9047]

Even narcissistic men can change when they didn't work on their sex addiction?

[@mimo1351]

Women are thirsty for attention......

[@bonnielucas153]

Ok, so she is a pastor's wife and dresses that way? Or the ' co- pastor?' I am so sick of women's clothing fads in the usa. It is not difficult to dress modestly and in a dignified style, and still look stylish. I just think the exposed shoulder fad looks terrible, and I absolutely do not get how a woman who is supposed to know the scriptures well thinks it is ok to have such an appearance. I could never accept these two people as a congregation' s pastor and wife. Neither of them

[@annemurphy9339]

So if she was in a sleeveless tunic or dress, that’d be ok? Just what about an arm is so shocking? In the hot state of Texas, men and women here are in sleeveless tees, and the women in sleeveless dresses, all the looong hot summer. I don’t care for the cold shoulder look personally but just because it looks like for $1 more, they could have had a whole sleeve. Her neckline is high, her hem is long - and she and her husband unabashedly declare their love of God and are dedicated to His service.

[@isiahwashington2999]

What in the world are you talking about? We are saved by Grace, not clothes.

[@resianemaculate.]

You are right @ Bonnie Lucas, I should send you a photo of how servants of GOD should dress for the glory of GOD

[@resianemaculate.]

@@isiahwashington2999 We must dress in the fear of GOD, How then are we going to preach the gospel of Jesus to the Muslim Ladies, when they dress better than the 'children of light? ' it's time we be TRUE or modernize everything and perish!

[@isiahwashington2999]

To all the women whose husbands have left them, send me a picture…😂

[@ivyblessmyflylordjesus.per7008]

God bless my marriage and my family.Bless my sick and seperated husband Lord