Hysterectomy Experience Part 3 - Surgery Day

In this video I have covered the day of my abdominal hysterectomy.

[@MdMedina35]

Had my hysterectomy in June 2023. Still in recovery mode. I began searching for videos of people who experienced hysterectomies after my I came home from surgery. Thank you for sharing your experiences.

[@nathanandtiffany]

You are so welcome. I hope you feel better soon!

[@jamiedeleon3388]

@@nathanandtiffany Thank you for sharing your experience, I'm going to have hysterectomy in October and I'm so nervous!

[@nathanandtiffany]

@@jamiedeleon3388 You are so welcome. Good luck for a speedy recovery.

[@mckenna9489]

Do you still have sexual desires after hystorectomy?

[@user-lq9ky1lc2o]

​@@nathanandtiffanyI have to do this and im afraid😭☹😞not to die

[@951krod]

Thank you for sharing your experience ❤ I am scheduled for my hysterectomy tomorrow morning. I'm praying for a successful surgery and a speedy recovery for myself and all of the other ladies 🙏

[@nathanandtiffany]

Good luck! I hope you feel better very soon.

[@staceypearson5525]

I have hysterectomy

[@alexandriawilliams7350]

I'll be having my hysterectomy in 2 days and im nervous but excited to see what my life will be like after. Your video is calming me in a way which is great. Yall pray for me

[@nathanandtiffany]

I totally understand that sentiment. Given my symptoms I am so glad I did it. I wish you a speedy recovery!

[@carlaaldape3105]

Thank you so much for sharing!! I have my surgery in less than 2 weeks from now and you are easing my nerves!! Thank you!

[@nathanandtiffany]

I am so glad to hear that the information is helpful. Good luck.

[@bitsofpolish]

I'm scheduled for a complete hysterectomy in early May, my surgeon is a busy lady....I have cysts and an endometrioma that continue to grow, plus most likely active endometriosis, so this is my best choice since I've been miserable...im trying to prepare myself for what's ahead...thanks for sharing

[@nathanandtiffany]

You are so welcome! Good luck!

[@bitsofpolish]

@@nathanandtiffany thank u so much ❤️

[@bitsofpolish]

@@valerinagalvina I'm doing great....glad I went thru with it

[@k89_bamagirlmommywifey90]

I just had a complete hysterectomy Thursday March 14,2024

[@DianaChavez-rq2bj]

Thanks for sharing your experience. I hope my surgery goes as good as yours. You seem to be doing great just a few hours after surgery! Hope I am as lucky as you🙏🏼

[@nathanandtiffany]

I hope you have a speedy recovery! Good luck!

[@karenwilliams3569]

I had a little back pain also they gave me small cc's of D it made me high,took out my my catheter while I was high, didn't mind at all went home and slept all day,with a little stiffness,I was on loratabs as need,. Getting this done was a rode, I'll never forget.Am doing good check up was 100 percent good.

[@annalisajames6558]

AWAKE??? Omg 😳 I cannot even imagine.

[@krystalharwood7842]

twilight sleep most likely

[@jewlkewl1]

I am waiting for my phone call with appointment time for surgery. Thank you for your video.

[@nathanandtiffany]

You are so welcome. Good luck. Sorry I am just seeing your comment.

[@amymasker6875]

Yes! The back pain after my hysterectomy on Friday 7/26 was the worst pain by far and I described it exactly like back labor. I had a laparoscopic hysterectomy this past Friday. Feeling great today!

[@nathanandtiffany]

Thanks for sharing! Glad you are better

[@SamSkiBaby]

Thank you for sharing your journey. I am having mine done in 10 days and I'm so nervous

[@nathanandtiffany]

I wish you a speedy recovery!

[@39Missmel]

This is the number one thing being nervous

[@user-xq1gd8xl8n]

After my di vinci robotic surgery, i felt some pressure in the abdomen but almost no pain, and no bleeding or other effects.I didn’t even have to take any of the pain meds they gave me.

[@nathanandtiffany]

That is wonderful!

[@heikegoodale3882]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I need to have this surgery done as well and im absolutely petrified. how painful was it for the catheter to come out .?

[@nathanandtiffany]

Not painful at all. Painless. Strange feeling but not pain

[@DivaJay]

I have this surgery scheduled in a week.. I too asked to be awake and the surgeon looked at me like I had spoken something other than English!! 😂😂😂

[@nathanandtiffany]

Hahahah. I feel like the answer that I got was reasonable. You and I must be in a very unusual group! Good luck.

[@lynjj7976]

Trust and believe you will want anesthesia ❤❤❤

[@farzananisha3541]

I had my surgery 3weeks ago.cos was sumkind cancer.wil get my results in 6weeks time wat stage it is hopefully it's one or two which can b cured so keep me in your prayers.Thank u🙂

[@nathanandtiffany]

Good luck. I hope you get good news.

[@natashak3387]

Hopefully you are doing well now. I had an ablation last April for my severe anemia and unfortunately my periods just came back. My Doctors said that when that happens I will have to have a partial hysterectomy and I am only thirty seven. I have had to get weekly iron infusions for over a year. I am so ready to feel better. 😩

[@nathanandtiffany]

I really felt so much better after. I hope the same for you as well.

[@lisa-marieshy9673]

I'm having surgery in 2 days. Thanks for sharing your experience. I have a son named Zaine 😍

[@nathanandtiffany]

Good luck. I hope you have quick recovery. I am so glad you found this helpful.

[@lemir3559]

I woke up with horrible back pain, too! I wonder if they just put us in a crazy position for the surgery.

[@nathanandtiffany]

Tha back pain can come from a few things. Cutting the ligaments, the air pumped into your abdomen, not being able to move. Make sure to discuss with your medical team if it persists or is severe.

[@ozarkview928]

I had a total laparoscopic hysterectomy 16 weeks ago .I was in outpatient but had to stay overnight and was released that pm . I still don’t understand how nurse’s work! I was told every shift I’m your nurse then they disappeared and others would come to check IV, draw blood . No one told me what to do or what medication I was on , I had those compression things on my legs to prevent blood clots and was hooked to an IV pole so I had to ask for help to go to the bathroom . I also asked to go on a walk , it seemed like I was supposed to be in charge 🤷🏻 I was ever so glad to be left out of that prison , meals were not good and sometimes late , they said they were short of help in the cafeteria. It was my first hospital experience in my sixty years so maybe I was just to ignorant to know how to communicate. Needless to say I’ll be glad to avoid hospitals if I can help it !

[@nathanandtiffany]

Isn’t it interesting how everyone’s hospital experience can be so wildly different. I hope you’re recovering well now. It’s always a good idea to stay out of the hospital if you can :-)

[@xcalabur18]

Thank you for sharing your experience. I am getting surgery soon too and am terrified of the anesthesia. Can you maybe explain what you remember about that part? Were you still awake in the surgery room up until the moment they administered the anesthesia? Can you describe what it felt like, if you can remember? Thanks so much in advance and all the best to you as you recover!

[@nathanandtiffany]

I can definitely describe it. Because I’ve anesthesia before for a tonsillectomy as an adult as well as an ACL reconstruction of my knee. Sometimes they will give you Versed before in order to relax you. I elected not to have it for this because I wasn’t nervous but if you’ are you may choose to do that. Then I went in the surgical suite where I had Propofol through my IV, You’ll feel a slightly warm sensation through your hand and then it’s like someone draws a curtain over you. You’re out before you even know it. When you wake up you’re kind of groggy and it’s a little strange but it’s not a scary experience. I was very lucky all of the medical staff was amazing as well. So hopefully you have that same experience.

[@sjordan7085]

A long time ago a close relative of mine died under anesthesia. He and his brother were both young and very fit, athletic in fact. But, he died under anesthesa, which was not just sad, but proved devastating to my family. So, you can perhaps, understand, that I too was very leary about the idea of having a General Anesthetic for the first time in my life at the age if 73, for a D&C, hysterscopy and biopsy. To put it mildly I was terrified. My Anesthetist was a very funny guy, aware of my family history and decided to use pediatric medicines for me. My hysterectomy will be in less than two weeks from today. After my first General Anesthetic experience I can safely say, it was nothing to worry about, and now that I know what to expect, I will just relax next time, and imagine a beautiful place. For me, that was daffodils dancing in the breeze among silver birch trees, a bit like Wordsworth's poem, and with that I drifted off, only to wake up in the Recovery Room. I really needed someone to tell me what it would be like, but nobody ever did. So I can very much understand your fear, but you will be fine. I read a couple of books on mindfulness and living in the moment, which were very helpful. I have also read a book called, 'Radical Remission, ' by Kelly Turner, PhD. , because I have Endometrial Cancer, which my mother and her sister both survived fifty years ago, both lived well into their eighties. The book tells about the nine things people did to bring about their remissions. I am incorporating several of those suggestions into my own life. I focus on today, and plan for the future, which I am confident will be bright. I wish you the very best and hope you will take comfort from knowing my experience.

[@krystalharwood7842]

my mom can't do anesthesia! one time she had some teeth removed and threw up all afternoon when she came home

[@bluemoongoddess2370]

@@sjordan7085 how are you now?

[@khaleesisnow1683]

@@sjordan7085 🙏🙏

[@ashleybaird933]

I had laprascopic, i had a basketball size cyst that luckily didn't burst. I also was at risk for cancer because my monthly was so heavy and I was anemic. September 22nd 2023

[@nathanandtiffany]

I bet you are glad that is out of you.

[@mariepierce1517]

My surgery is in exactly a week. Gathering all the information I can

[@nathanandtiffany]

Good luck! I hope you recover quickly.

[@mariepierce1517]

@@nathanandtiffany thank you, I'm nervous of course but SO ready for the pain and extra bleeding to be over

[@ShesMakinDough]

Such a good idea wearing crocs

[@msdiegomartinable]

My surgery is in two days nervous!! But thank you for sharing

[@nathanandtiffany]

@@msdiegomartinable You are so welcome. Good luck.

[@berraggett8907]

Thank you for sharing your story..im 16 days post op after a full hysterectomy..its only now i feel im coming around and eating little portions again..i had terrible problems with gas pain...

[@nathanandtiffany]

That gas pain is terrible. So glad you are starting to feel better. Good luck.

[@keelosera]

I'm having a total hysterectomy in a few weeks. This is very helpful, thanks. I'm supposed to leave about 4 hours after surgery. Do you think the car ride home is going to suck? I'm pretty nervous about that (crappy streets in Boston still have a ton of potholes).

[@nathanandtiffany]

You are not the one driving right ?!?! That wouldn’t even be possible. At that time hopefully you will still feel pretty drugged from the hospital. Certainly ask about that to ensure pain management. But I am sure it will not be a comfortable experience.

[@keelosera]

@@nathanandtiffany No, my husband will be driving, of course! I will ask them about it, and maybe bring a pillow to hold over my abdomen for counter pressure? I remember my friend saying that felt good after her abdominal surgery when she had to cough...

[@ashleybaird933]

Another thing when i had hysterectomy i couldnt sleep in my bed, i had to sleep in my recliner for 10 days. It was difficult. Luckily my mom lives with me so i had help

[@sandrawhitmore8139]

Hi iam geeting ready to have my surgery this month on the 24th this video help alot. Thank you so much

[@nathanandtiffany]

You are so welcome. Good luck. I wish you a speedy recovery.

[@Friday779]

I’m having mine in May 2023. I’m in pain and the fibroids and polyps hurts worse tonight and I’m working. I wonder how long I need to be off? I can’t wait to feel normal I guess! 😊

[@nathanandtiffany]

I’m sorry you’re in pain. Generally speaking the recommendation is off for 6 to 8 weeks. I was off for four weeks. But it’s very individual. You should have that discussion with your surgeon to get a better idea of what is likely best for you given the type of surgery, you’re having, your overall health and wellness, and physical demands of your job.

[@39Missmel]

1/24 is my surgery date very nervous

[@nathanandtiffany]

Good luck. I hope you recover fast.

[@39Missmel]

@@nathanandtiffany TY

[@39Missmel]

@@doloresramirez3988 Gm it went well, Dr started on time I have 6 insisions on my belly, in recovery was in lots of pain my bladder was so full it was hurting, took a while to urine, dizzy, nausea etc, they pumps lots of meds in me for the pain, discharged the same day, still in pain yesterday really bad, con’t taking meds, hopefully a BM, I’m up this 5 am, I feel a lil relief… but still-taking my meds and continue to rest f/u 2/7 with Dr… Good luck on your surgery.

[@gcavecampbell]

My surgery is next week and I'm so nervous. Been waiting for 3 months for this surgery so now I'm getting worried.

[@nathanandtiffany]

I hope these videos help you a bit. Good luck!

[@user-nc3kz6sq1l]

Thanks I have my surgery next week. I'm terribly scared!!!!!! But God!!!!

[@nathanandtiffany]

I wish you minimal pain and a quick recovery!

[@brendajones9467]

I just had my surgery last week and the back pain was the worst.

[@nathanandtiffany]

Right!!!!

[@aliciaq70]

Hi sorry for this question, but why did they blow up your stomach with air? Was that part of the sedation? I'm having surgery soon and I'm so nervous 😓

[@nathanandtiffany]

They do that so that they can see inside you better. It creates separation of the organs. It can make the maneuvering easier for the surgeon. Yes you are sedated when they do it. Good luck.

[@lynjj7976]

Yes so they can see your organs better to do what they have to do to help you feel better ❤❤❤❤❤

[@rachelcoleman4693]

How are you doing? Have you experienced any body changes or weight gain after your hysterectomy?

[@nathanandtiffany]

I am well. A little weight gain. But no other symptoms really.

[@preetgill6690]

Oh thank you for this video. Omg I am nervous. I amgoing for my hysterectomy surgery on dec21/23 🥹. I already have 2 C-section… god know but this time I am nervous having nightmares 🥹

[@nathanandtiffany]

I am so glad you found this helpful. If you’ve already had two C-sections, you pretty much know what to expect if this is an abdominal hysterectomy. Good luck and I wish you a very speedy recovery.

[@larhondanutt6616]

I'm having mine next month Jun 22 I'm so nervous

[@nathanandtiffany]

Good luck. Think positively. Take care of your body so you can heal.

[@szee2222]

Thanks alot to share your experience 🤗 well my question is that catheter removal is painful?? And when they remove it i have surgery in 2 weeks i was so nervous but your videos are so helpful 🤗

[@nathanandtiffany]

The catheter removal for me was not painful at all! It was a slightly odd sensation, but there was not even one bit of pain. In case you’re unfamiliar with how that works is they insert the tube which is about the size of your urethra and they inflate a balloon inside your bladder to keep it inside. When they remove it they deflate the balloon and just slide it right out.

[@szee2222]

Thank you so much for your kind reply 🙂 so sweet of you well im 42 from Europe i have 8cm fibroid and one 2cm and I'm scared if I'll have open myomectomy once fibroids can regrow and i dont want to go through that trauma or surgery again and again my dr suggested me to have hysterectomy but still i have question it will be abdominal hysterectomy viginal hysterectomy or laparoscopic I'm so scared and confuse first i decided i will not have epidural only general anesthesia now i have to choose between myomectomy or hysterectomy if hysterectomy which one open viginal hysterectomy or laparoscopic 🥺 please suggest me if something you can 🙂regards

[@nathanandtiffany]

@@szee2222 the best thing for me was I asked my doctor what she would do if it was her body. Maybe you could ask your doctor the same question. Because both procedures have their pluses and minuses. The laparoscopic doesn’t have such a large abdominal incision but if you have concerning pathology and you can’t get the uterus out in one piece, that might be a factor. That’s why I chose an abdominal and open procedure.

[@szee2222]

Thank you so much stay blessed

[@szee2222]

Hi well today i met my dr and asked the same as you told dr if I'm yours family member what you will recomend to me as he is a male dr surgeon he said i will suggest you to have hysterectomy because u are 42 and you can have more fibroids in 8 to 9 years and open hysterectomy is best option so now im ok with it ...but please tell me after surgery do you feel any changes in body ? Or weight gain as I'm reading alot about it many women telling different things please let me know regards

[@MariaRamirez-nx2kc]

I just had my hysterectomy 3 days ago and I went home the same day .

[@nathanandtiffany]

I hope you are recovering very well and fast.

[@calennaau1861]

Your a beast!!!. I couldnt have gone home 3 days i stayed.

[@calennaau1861]

I had mines 7/24/24

[@Yo-yo-dt5ze]

I’m terrified I have a total hysterectomy laparoscopic on Feb 20th and I live alone I’ve had my gallbladder removed yrs ago and the pain was unbearable not sure if I’m gonna experience the same thing again with a hysterectomy pain is my biggest fear I keep hearing the worst is the gas pain I’ve been very depressed lately wondering how iam gonna maintain and do things on my own without hurting myself I don’t have any help family and friends live too far this is gonna be a long recovery for me any advice would be appreciated

[@nathanandtiffany]

Hi Yolanda, that does sound like a really hard situation. I do have a couple of thoughts. Have you expressed this concern to your surgeon? I would mention it again at the hospital nurse/case manager. Because sometimes you can get someone from home health to come and assist you at least for a little while. It may only be an hour a day but could be helpful. You can also look into a service when you hire someone to come to your house for a couple of hours to make sure that everything is going well. These services are available outside of you insurance as well. If you have a faith, consider reaching out to your church to see if anyone would be willing to assist you. Things you could do personally. Trying to pre-make some simple meals that would be very easy to reheat. Things like soups, mashed potatoes, Jell-O, pudding, or what ever you enjoy etc. I would also consider making up a bed that you don’t have to go up or down stairs. Maybe you have your groceries delivered rather than going to get them in the beginning. In other words before you have your surgery, try and figure out the things that might be difficult and see if you can create a situation that would make them easier or done before surgery date. For me the gas pain resolved in the hospital so I did not have that at home. As far as the pain is concerned, take the medication that was prescribed to you. My prescription was only an over-the-counter, but it seemed to help a lot. However, if you wait until the pain is really bad and don’t take it as prescribed sometimes it is very hard to get ahead of. Also things that help are things like meditation, mindfulness, breathing exercises. Getting up and doing normal things really helpful too. And very small doses. Like taking a shower, walking around your house. In the beginning, nothing strenuous, but it does help to move your body just a little bit.

[@Chef_cameraman]

Can I ask if you needed to take blood thinners after surgery? And for how long afterwards ❤

[@nathanandtiffany]

I did not need them.

[@LivvyMoonn]

Has anyone had a hysterectomy for adenomyosis? Any negative side effects ?

[@nathanandtiffany]

That was not my experience. Hopefully someone watching can share their experience.

[@carduff]

What did you say was optional in the beginning? That you opted out of? Do they give you a shot in the back ?

[@nathanandtiffany]

Versed - sedation medication. Often given prior to your medication that puts you to sleep. Mine was Propofol. No shot in the back. Just sedation via the IV once in OR.

[@katg5746]

The back labor pain is the gas, did they not tell her??

[@bunglejoy3645]

That was my worst pain after catheter out I went to toilet dhould have waited gor nurse but I difnt my fault I woke up flat on my bed people shaking me screens round my relative went in aseptic room with me they kept him posted during surgery I was under 4 hours it was very severe endermetoris then he waited on ward for me as I'm very men tally ill

[@nathanandtiffany]

Oh that sounds terrible. I hope you are doing better now.

[@ashleybaird933]

For the 1st 4 days i could eat jello and other light foods

[@ashleychandler17]

No

[@kristinan.614]

Did you choose to have an open hysterectomy? I'm having a laparascopic hysterectomy in two weeks and im afraid is gonna end up being an open abdominal hysterectomy.

[@nathanandtiffany]

I did choose to do that with consultation with my surgeon. I discuss the details of that in one of the other videos.

[@sharondal]

Good luck I'm having one on the 19Th

[@mariamunoz2525]

That gas was hurting me bad very bad pain my back yess like a la bor back pain because of gas i had it for 3 days n i started getting better in2 weeks slowly first 4 days are pain to me

[@nathanandtiffany]

Ohhh that is a long time. Glad you are feeling better

[@FluttershyBabb]

Is it 2-hour surgery

[@nathanandtiffany]

You know, I don’t actually know how long it was. Because I was alone in the hospital and I was all drugged up. I didn’t really have anyone to tell me how long it took. So sorry I don’t have a good answer for that.

[@nicolecc79]

My gyn said total procedure will be about 45. But for me to tell my husband it will be all over after about 2 hrs. That includes prep time etc. so he will know how long he will have to wait for me to come out of surgery.

[@Itsmyopinionboo]

May I ask why you didn’t want the Versed before surgery?

[@nathanandtiffany]

I just didn’t feel that I needed it. I was not nervous and it is used to calm you and make you comfortable. I also had it before my tonsillectomy as an adult and it made my heart rate go very low.

[@Itsmyopinionboo]

@@nathanandtiffany thank you for clarifying. Did you get nauseous or sick at all after the surgery?

[@nathanandtiffany]

I didn’t have any of that fortunately.

[@Jaimatadiho]

Hi can anyone tell what are the side effects of hysterectomy or advantage. Bcz i have large fibroid and operated 3times but it again regrew now by god grace i have one baby and my age is 34.so pls suggest is there any side effect or I should wait more.

[@nathanandtiffany]

In this series of videos I made should help to understand that for you. I hope you find it helpful.

[@NightPonyLauraTheCarrot]

Can women do it when they're awake

[@nathanandtiffany]

It is possible but uncommon. I do discuss that conversation in one of my videos.

[@nathanandtiffany]

It is possible but not common. I do discuss that in one of my videos.

[@jelisavetaobradovic2420]

In which anesthesia?

[@nathanandtiffany]

I don’t understand your question.

[@NightPonyLauraTheCarrot]

How long did it last

[@nathanandtiffany]

The actual surgery itself? I’m actually not sure. Because I was alone at the hospital and I was all drugged up. I didn’t have anyone to tell me how long it took. So I’m not really sure.

[@NightPonyLauraTheCarrot]

How many kids do you have

[@nathanandtiffany]

1 biological

[@abigailhungwa629]

Had mine on the 11 of Nov its nw 17 days and experiencing hypertension pliz help mi

[@nathanandtiffany]

For sure contact your surgeon related to hypertension or any medical concerns.

[@jacquelyngluntz3928]

Wow girl

[@chocqueen]

Had mine 2 weeks ago

[@nathanandtiffany]

How are you doing?

[@GK-yz6bc]

Is ir total?

[@nathanandtiffany]

I am sorry I don’t know what “ir” is. Can you rephrase your question please?

[@GK-yz6bc]

@dr.tiffanylamonde Is it a total hysterectomy? I had a total hysterectomy and so worried about the vaginal cuff.

[@nathanandtiffany]

@@GK-yz6bc mine was an open abdominal uterine. I still have my ovaries.

[@GK-yz6bc]

@dr.tiffanylamonde yes I have my ovaries. But the while uterus with cervix is gone. Do you have cervix? How do I keep the vaginal cuff safe?

[@nathanandtiffany]

@@GK-yz6bc no, I don’t have a cervix. I would actually direct you to working with a pelvic health therapist. That’s not my particular area of specialty. I do however have two people on staff. If that’s some thing that you wanted to talk about you could reach out to my clinic or any clinic near you that has a pelvic health specialist.