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[@jayglez1338]

Kevin failed his kids. I honestly hope he doesn't gain parental rights. Stay strong.

[@bobbijohnson6245]

I’m hoping that as well.. I’ve said it over and over again. he had an out and he took it.. he knew what happened behind those 4 walls before connexions even happened.. he failed those babies.. and to hear Ruby blame R for things I don’t even want to repeat makes me sick to my stomach..

[@Kate__143]

I wasn’t sure how much he knew or if Ruby cut him off before the majority of the abuse took place; but if someone involved is saying he could have done more, than I hope for the sake of everyone, he’s not allowed in their lives, at the very least.

[@memeboyer5380]

I’m sorry your family is having to go through this because of the actions of others. Your family is not responsible for their crazy choices.

[@fvnt0miix953]

⁠ I’ve been following Bonnie’s channel for a while and I’ve watched 8 passengers a little bit because it’s her sister, however I didn’t find them as likeable, like something is off. I have a feeling that Ruby is a control freak. Kevin seems like a really nice and soft guy who doesn’t argue (or dare to argue) with his wife. I feel like Ruby was a very tough parent before (like a stereotypical asian parent), but the abuse started after Kevin left. Maybe Kevin felt emotionally abused as well, who knows... Sometimes, the most you can do is to save yourself and that seems like what he did. I guess my 6th sense was right about Ruby and 8 passengers. Again, I’m just saying what I felt, I don’t know the real story behind this, but Kevin seemed like nice guy.

[@user-fw2wf2dk5q]

I am sending prayers for you, your sweet family, and extended family. We know the times we are in and we know that matters in the world and life will most likely become more and more difficult. I pray also for the Franke family...I can't imagine their pain upon the realizations of what has come about. ❤

[@joyceadams6698]

Anyone who watched 8 passengers should Not be surprised that Kevin let his family down. He seemed like a passive detached father and husband. How do you go 13 months without seeing or at least talking to your four children held hostage by a mother that you knew had become unbalanced and in the control by a very sick women. Unfortunately I think it was easy for him. sad!

[@marla07860]

Exactly. I’m not surprised

[@Ms.K6703]

Because that what a lot of men do when they are separated from a wife she wore the pants in the relationship.

[@lsour8546]

There are so many men like this. They check out, immerse themselves in their hobbies like going to the gym or playing video games, because dealing with the difficulty of raising kids and working on your marriage is not something they want to step up to

[@virtualbalboa180]

Let the record show that I'm a practicing member of The Satanic Temple. I've been married to the mother of my children for over 20 years. Both of our kids are smart, responsible people and we live in a loving home. My wife and I share parental and household duties, we're active in our neighborhood and try to help people in need when we are able to. Even as a Satanist I'm living a more proper christian life than any of the self righteous douche bags involved in this mess.

[@KayleiZiler]

If you guys would read more into it Kevin’s lawyer said that ruby made him cut contact with the whole family including ruby. She said “I will contact you. You don’t contact me” I do believe that Kevin should not get any access to them kids but he’s not as bad as ruby and as bad as yall are making him out to be. Just look into it more before you comments something you don’t know anything about.

[@stephanieteran1970]

I can’t even imagine how Ruby’s kids feel. Sending prayers to her kids. They’re who are most affected by all this. This whole situation breaks my heart for them.

[@harper_anne2089]

Sending prayers to all of Ruby's children. They are the focus now and not anyone else. I do hope they find loving homes where they will be nurtured and are shown what true love is.

[@dbullemer]

What really sucks is, because of Ruby's accusations, the 12 year old (who shall remain nameless) can't be in the same "home" as his siblings! 😢🤬😢

[@Maryros12241]

@@dbullemer very sad for the children. If R was doing what she said he was maybe it was his way of seeking love that he never received from his parents. So very sad for the children of Ruby.

[@harper_anne2089]

@@dbullemer Jodi's niece, Jessi, said that Jodi accused her of everything under the sun, horrible things, until she confessed, but the abuse would continue. Jessi said it is most likely that those allegations are false regarding the sexual abuse and porn watching that Ruby made, and that even if the child admits to it, it's because he was brainwashed. Just like he told the 911 caller that is was his fault.

[@harper_anne2089]

@@samg873 Totally agree.

[@Cloudkicker74]

I hope the kids get a fair chance at being themselves after this. I hope they can connect with family members that really love them.

[@Tootietoottoot40]

Kevin failed his kids. I saw an interview with Kevens attorney who stated Kevin didn’t have contact with his kids for over a year because Ruby didn’t want him to. Keven needs a spine. Jodi has a history of destroying families. She lost her therapist license for awhile for doing this. She is a sociopath and needs to serve jail time for many years.

[@veejudd7373]

Kevin didn’t know how severe it was because she wouldn’t allow contact how could have been there to protect them if no contact was allowed?!

[@r4.v3n]

​@@veejudd7373if your wife cuts contact between you and your children, takes them away from you for a year, specialy when there's someone as disguting as Jodi involved, it is your JOB to take legal acion. He is a coward and deserves to be punished as well.

[@Crsk1821]

@@veejudd7373WHO wouldn’t give him contact? Was it done legally? How about getting a lawyer?? Stop making excuses for this person. Sheesh 🙄

[@Mike-Conza]

@@Orange7blossom please understand millions of fathers/dad are alienated from their child/children and spend millions to have parental contact with them

[@sandybarth1]

​@@veejudd7373If they were not legally separated with a custodial agreement, Kevin could have taken his children anywhere he wanted to, found out how the were doing and made sure they knew they would always have his love and protection. Ruby had no more legal rights than he did. He chose not to. Had he attempted to do that, and Ruby called the cops, they would've told her as much. She then would have had to get the courts involved. We all know that wouldn't have happened. Her refusal to allow him to see the children should've triggered his own trip to family court.... didn't happen.😢 This bull crap about being under Ruby's edict to stay away to SAVE THE MARRIAGE is insane. How do you save a relationship with no contact? Why would you want to save the relationship with someone that treated you with utter and total disrespect? Bonnie is 💯 percent right. ONE PERSON could've and should've done something. He chose not to.

[@samanthaglass7264]

I am also a family member of people who have done horrific crimes. Please know that no one understands what we are going through unless they have been in our shoes. No one knows what we did behind the scenes and the things we can’t share, especially if a trial is happening or we are waiting for them to be arrested. All my love and blessings to you, your kids, the cousins, and the Franke children.

[@kiannaspeas6598]

Exactly. I’m also a family member of these kind of people. It’s so unfair to say it’s all of our faults. They have NO IDEA!

[@angieragan5968]

Sending healing blessings to you and your family. I have been a viewer for several years and you all bless me every day enjoying your beautiful family. Stay strong, you have a lot of love on your side.❤

[@Michelle-by9fp]

I’m in this awful club. It’s lonely and shameful

[@nessad01]

It’s so sickening innocent people suffer when someone else commits crimes. The impact is so powerful and my heart goes out to you and anyone who is effected so profoundly from the wrongful actions of others.

[@heynow01]

​@@nessad01It's kind of a natural knee jerk reaction to blame everyone involved. We all feel guilty when kids are abused. We all regret not knowing and not being there. Seems to be best to just focus on making sure all those kids are cared for and listened to. Those kids might need to be voicing their disgust with everyone that they feel failed them. Don't argue with them, just let them know, you will be fighting to protect them harder than ever. Rebuilding trust relationships with family is vital. Let them ask you anything they want to know. Answer honestly and don't make excuses for anyone. They are probably plagued with self guilt blaming themselves for causing all this. The brainwashing will have lingering effects on their self esteem. Listen to them when they repeat the negative brainwashing labels Jodi and Ruby pounded into their heads. Show them how to let that go and focus on the good they have in their hearts. Keep in mind that this will take time and these kids will need love and positive guidence for a long time to slowly be released from this stigma. Prayers to all those kids and their extended family too. I hope Ruby and Kevin can truly get help too, but never again let them near those kids. And keep a close eye on Jodi, she is a very deeply disturbed sociopath. She will be a repeat offender, I can assure you on that.

[@tjsmith3046]

In the end, Ruby has officially lost the titles of daughter, sister, aunt, grandmother, wife, cousin, and the biggest one of all: mother.

[@1NanB]

very true... and, when she wakes up....from this demon coma she is in, she just might even find herself divorced.

[@tru2deheart]

My Brother SA-ed me as a child That did not make him any less my brother. MY mother physically and emotionally abused me that did not make her any less my mother. When my mother had Alzheimer's and could not remember what she had done I was there for her.

[@tru2deheart]

@@1NanB Once she is convicted I am sure CPS may require this.

[@depressedphilosopherbitch7581]

​@@tru2deheartNo it does. I would never help someone who damaged me like that. Just saying...

[@tru2deheart]

@@depressedphilosopherbitch7581 My heart goes out to you. My mom ended up with Alzheimer's I was out of her life for 5 years. Had I hung on to that kind of hate I would have missed out on an amazing year with my mom who by the time I showed up at the hospital didn't know how I was related to her much less that she abused me. I got more validation and happy memories with my mom in that last year of her life then I did my entire childhood. If I would have hung on to that hate hate I would have robbed myself. I understand not everyone is able to to do that. Had she not had Alzheimer's I don't know if I would have gone back.

[@lidiac.1410]

My heart is broken for these children. I saw that scene when she left her 6-year-old daughter without lunch at school because the child forgot to pack her own lunch 💔 I don't want to accuse the sisters, but in the vlogs there were so many signs of abuse. Therefore, the father is also responsible.

[@ashleyworstell8279]

As a former foster parent, CPS failed those kids also. Praying for your families.

[@nessad01]

I know lots of people CPS failed. It obviously isn’t as trustworthy or effective in helping the child victims as well as everyone needs and expects it to be. I think I heard on the Law and Crime Network say that CPS only left a note on the door. What kind of child protective service is that?!

[@karls432]

Everyone failed them kids!!

[@ashleyworstell8279]

@@karls432 How?? You can only legally do so much!! Where they supposed to go kidnap the kids?? It was the parents and CPS. The sisters did everything they could.

[@karls432]

@@ashleyworstell8279 I’m not really blaming the sisters and I believe when they say that they done everything legally possible, I have been in their exact situation so I know how difficult it is, did I do everything possible? I think I can hand on my heart I could have done more, and I think the family now with hindsight would say the same, luckily my situation didn’t get to where theirs did, but my voice could have been louder, I could have continued making noise, wrote more letters etc etc, I know what a horrid situation they are in and I don’t hold them to that account, but when we know of abuse there is always more we can do. Fear holds us back but we need to realise our fear is nothing compared to that of the children suffering. I’m not trying to attack anyone.

[@ashleyworstell8279]

@@karls432 I agree, but you have to remember CPS goes on there on time; and they don’t care.

[@melissarippe]

As a sibling of a person with notable crimes, I send you so much love and peace. You are NOT your sister and her crimes. Validating you in that. So much love. Take care of yourselves. 💚💚

[@Michelle-by9fp]

Unfortunately in the same boat

[@lsour8546]

Same boat as well. I am bone tired of being my sister's keeper. Luckily she has no kids

[@katebartlett8633]

Wishing each of you healing.

[@clairebearcough]

Longtime viewer here of you, Ellie, Julie, and your mom - I can’t imagine the shock and heartache you all are feeling. I am praying for you all, for your husbands, your parents, and your children, that God may guide you through this terrible storm with grace and comfort, and that you come out the other side stronger and more united in love than ever before. Take all the time you need, we will be here to support whenever you’re ready. ❤

[@heynow01]

Do you know if the kids are safe with family members? I hope they are not in the CPS nightmare or back with their Dad.

[@soph3933]

can’t even imagine how angry the family feels and the hope they feel that the kids will hopefully be okay finally free from their mother

[@Srenitystreezx]

im tottaly new, i was originally here on youtube looking for how to make a recipe and saw the title to this. what happened? like what is she talking about?

[@VivKittie32]

@@adayinthelifeatnumber2514 Why are you even in here mouthing off?

[@Brc731BRC]

This woman doesn’t seem angry for the child victims, only for her own selfish reasons.

[@hasibah5102]

​@@adayinthelifeatnumber2514I agree with you.

[@jesslynberg2242]

So so proud of you for speaking up and holding Kevin accountable as well. You delivered this very well, sending lots of love and light to your siblings, all of the children, cousins, the parents. Hugs🫂🫶🏼

[@renalarson1704]

This breaks my heart. You , Ellie and Julie are amazing mothers. It breaks my heart to see your family be put thru this. Your mom and dad are the most sweetest people. I can't even imagine the pain they are going thru. Please know there are many people behind your family praying for yall ❤

[@SunnyMelodyx3]

Oh yeah, this ❤

[@esta8651]

Amazing mothers don’t monetize their children. Family bloggers should be banned.

[@jenniferhorn8137]

​@@esta8651bingo

[@ttaayylloorrmmtt]

I mean… we all saw this going on for years. It shouldn’t be a shock.

[@Maziktei18]

I wonder how Ruby was like when she was a child. Her family/siblings look so innocent. What went wrong and where did Ruby learn all these behaviour??

[@michellewhinn4873]

People do not know what you and your family did to help your nieces and nephews over the last couple of years. Even the CPS and police made no headway. You are not to blame for any of the actions your sister did, you are not her and I for one support you Ellie, Julie your bother and your parents.

[@kristinmarieleone4495]

That why I hate social media. I remember the days when we did not have them. No matter what we do..if we jumped too high, or we flew a kite the wrong way..we are being ripped a part. If we said the sky is brown we get ripped a part and called names. If people like Bonnie who shared her feelings of emotional trauma that her family is facing..she still gonna get ripped apart. Online people are cruel and heartless. They sit behind computers screens and lash out any vile words and have no sympathy for it. I am, was always and still is disappointed and disgusted by social media and the vile people

[@GoldenTranquillity]

I'm so sorry that this is happening to all of you. We're having your back, Bonnie. ❤

[@amylouise208]

As someone who's family members have commited crimes, I know first hand what you are going through. I've felt that hurt, that pain, anger, and confusion. I remember my cousin's being all over the news, their faces in the newspapers. I felt like I was in a constant state of grieving, shock, and shame for months on end. It was bad enough knowing what my cousin's did but when it feels like the whole world know too and are judging you for their actions, it was extremely difficult and something you will never understand unless you go through it yourself. My elderly grandmother was verbally abused on a bus and threatened because someone recognised her and knew my cousin's were her grandsons. We lived in fear for months on end and felt like we were constantly looking over our shoulders. Despite this, we have pulled through as a family and things are better now. Like Bonnie, I refuse to be held accountable for my cousin's crimes and I moved on with my life because I deserve to and their actions are not a reflection on me. Things will get better Bonnie, I promise. I know you and your family have a good heart and you are good people. I've seen that over the years watching your vlogs and family, and many others see this too ❤ Sending prayers and love to you and all of your family affected by this. And love and prayers to the children 🙏

[@justelleslife507]

My closest friend's oldest son was in their home when the police came to arrest him and was later charged and convicted of rape and 1st degree murder of a woman, I know all the feelings she had as I was by her side through everything, it changed her, but the worst were the reporters nastiness towards her, so we devised a different route to leave the courtroom, I know exactly what you're saying.

[@dominiquesiwulich4746]

She is so mad at her son for making her get caught . She already hates him but now even more so pretending she did what she did because he was touching other kids inappropriately?? Really ruby. She is punishing him still from jail and now he will have to be alone. Without other kids or siblings. So disgusting.

[@sherronclavier1705]

Bonnie please know, that those of us who have followed you for years, know your heart. We know who you are! Not for one second do we associate you, or Ellie, Julie or your parents,with Ruby, Kevin or Jodi. Hold on, stay strong and this to will pass . Many prayers are being sent up for those children and for your entire family. We love you!

[@LindseyShields1]

Absolutely agree with this! Silent viewer here for years and hope all of the healing can begin soon for all of you, especially those kids. And YOUR kids who miss their cousins.

[@shelbygonevlogs]

agree!!

[@amypletcher4411]

❤ AGREE 😢!!!

[@Stretchthemindstretchthebody]

Beau beau too!!

[@lisamarkovich5586]

I totally agree!

[@Tricia1087]

Bonnie... you don't owe us anything. My heart has been hurting for you, Beau, Ellie and Julie, and your parents. I hope that you know that the love for your family far outweighs any of the hate that you are receiving. I have been thinking of you all and sending prayers up for you and your entire family. We are here for you, you are a great mom, wife and aunt to those sweet babies.

[@alexrose7070]

as someone who was a child in a dcf situation, i know it is so hard and my heart is with the kids and your family❤️ ps to anyone criticizing her and her sister for not bringing up the kids, they are not LEGALLY allowed to talk about them while this is ongoing, please remember that!

[@daisymoreno25]

❤❤❤❤

[@Prairie_Gypsy]

Agreed. People don’t realize that they did this because those kids would have probably been abused so much worse if they would have spoke out.

[@ruthfields5413]

They are not allowed to discuss the case, they are most definitely allowed to express feelings about the situation for the kids.

[@debbierother8368]

I have watched you and your sweet Mom for a couple of years now and I so enjoy you. Thank you for posting this, my heart truly goes out to you and your whole family. Please know that we as your watchers love, you and believe in you and support you. God bless you and keep you in this time of trial. You will make it through this. ❤❤❤

[@shawna6195]

I can’t believe any of this. I am so sorry this is happening to your family, you are an incredible, INCREDIBLE mother to your children. You keep your family close, and keep doing exactly what you’re doing. 🫶🏻 you Bonnie. This was a very respectful video, and I 100% do NOT relate you and your siblings to HER individual actions… whatsoever. Again… I’m so sorry this is happening. 😔

[@junaynahb]

We’re proud of you for speaking up! Please don’t delete this! Don’t let the bad egg of the family ruin what you all have built! Your family specifically you and Joel and the kids are the highlight of my days some days and I would hate to see this end badly for y’all because Ruby wanted to be a weirdo and neglect her kids. My heart breaks for your parents! They raised you all with so much love I can’t imagine what they’re going through! Sending love and healing ❤️‍🩹

[@verenaspeers]

Love your comment on this. My heart is breaking for this family right now.

[@HeidiForsyth]

⁠@@verenaspeers I agree, I just don’t know how to express myself when it comes writing comments.

[@jennarance6094]

Sending so much love to your family Bonnie and Joel ❤

[@Crazy4carebear]

​@@verenaspeersmy is still heartbroken I cried ans keep fam in prayers sorry about the spelling

[@April442255]

People like you guys have enabled these kids abuse. Y’all are disgusting

[@kamberhamilton]

I’m so sorry you and your family is going through this. I was shocked when I heard what happened. Sending love and prayers to you and your family ❤

[@KarinaRoberts]

I’m so sorry Bonnie you and your family are going through this. I know you sister can be strong and y’all’s spouses are supportive as well! Love you and prayers for all

[@denisecross4586]

I am proud of you Bonnie for making this video and standing up for yourself. You are not your sister, you have to live your life you can't control your siblings and what they chose to do, you shouldn't be blamed for their actions. Stay strong

[@kristinmarieleone4495]

It’s sad that Ruby doesn’t see what she has done and is doing to her family.

[@luannefoster403]

Bonnie….. We love you, Joel and the kids and are so proud of you. You ARE NOT ANYONE ELSE’S MISTAKE. We truly miss you and when you feel you are ready to post again, we will look forward to it.

[@Crazy4carebear]

I agree

[@glb009]

I miss Bonnie like a friend.

[@kristinmarieleone4495]

Amen!

[@luannefoster403]

@@glb009 Me too! I’ve been following the Hoellien family for years along with Ellie and Julie’s families. We will all welcome them back to vlogging when they are ready.

[@juliebrandt4425]

Thank you Bonnie for having the courage to continue on. This is devastating on so many levels. Your family has given me comfort and hope to carry on in my life. I was going to post about your Mom's physical breakdown. I knew it was because of a "family situation". I knew it was probably Ruby. I cannot fathom how terrible your Mom and Dad are feeling. Please give them both a long loving hug from me. I wish I could embrace you and your sisters and Beau. It's truly hard to believe how Ruby could treat her children so viciously. From little Eve being sick in her bed and then Ruby saying she made the little one sleep on the cold bathroom floor. How when they went hammock camping and Ruby saying it was too cold outside so she and Keving went to sleep in the car leaving the children to suffer outside. Ruby's selfishness knew no bounds. Kevin went right along with it all. Then he disappeared with no contact with his children shows how little he too cared about them. I'm glad you pointed Kevin out. He needs to be arrested as well. The three of them need to be locked up for a very, very long time. I hope that the Law makes this happen. I hope you and your sisters and brother, and your parents continue to post. I know you all will be embracing the children, they have a long road ahead to heal. They will be scarred for life because of their parents. I have watched your videos for years. They gave me comfort. I wrote your Mom that watching her family was so comforting to me as I don't have family of my own. It was lovely. My heart breaks for all of you. You will get through this. Thank you for all that you are doing.

[@justlindalol]

I hope the children will have a nice life with ppl who truly love them

[@annbell8672]

Bonnie and Joel and family, I am so sorry for what has happened to your entire family. Please continue to go forward doing what you have always done bringing Joy to all of us! Hold your heads high and don’t feel ashamed for anything. NO ONE has walked in your shoes and knows what you have gone through as a family. To all the people casting stones, remember there was only one person ever born who was worthy to cast a stone, and he chose not to. This too shall pass! Till then, all our Love to your entire family! We all need his Grace!

[@it1119]

the griffith family needs to just go offline and stay there

[@CHANDLERMATTHEWTEA]

Just leave them alone they can do whatever they want this has nothing to do with them

[@summerfun20111]

Anyone who has followed you and Ellie and Julie, and Beau, and your mom and dad, know you have done everything possible, for you to do. Your families are so loving , and real, and honest. I am glad to see you posting. Do not let this dim your light. ❤️

[@aymsleexo]

I've been watching for 10+ years. You are good people and I am so sorry your entire family is going through this.❤️

[@vzmkitty]

I am so sorry for all that you and your families are going through, and that you have to do it in the public eye. Take good care of yourself and your family. I hope this crisis is behind you as soon as possible and that her children can heal with the support of their aunts and uncle, and cousins and grandparents who love them.

[@jessbairstow2267]

Love you Bonnie. You don’t have to justify yourself. We know you did everything you could to help your nieces and nephews.

[@chayabrody722]

​@@samg873it's beyond horrifying what a person can do

[@lindseymccullough]

I have watched your whole family since I was in middle school. Now I’m in college. I know without a doubt, y’all did everything y’all could. I can’t imagine the pain you are going through. We love you.

[@Sunnybabygirlbells]

Oh Bonnie! This is so heartbreaking! I’m praying for you and your family and that justice is served fully! Hang in there! Sending lots of love and hugs!

[@brendahoskin3098]

So please tell me that those poor kids are getting all the help they deserve… they’ve been deprived of so much… they need to be the main focus of all this.

[@ELoouise323]

I’m glad you spoke up on this, especially mentioning Kevin’s role in this. It broke my heart to see you and your other sisters facing so much backlash online, but Kevin seemingly got a pass when he has much more culpability than any of you. I’m sending your whole family my best wishes for healing and I hope you are able to reconnect with all of your nieces and nephews, because they need the support system your family can provide them. ❤

[@lisaschaaf]

As a viewer for 7 or so years I feel deep down all this time you were fighting for those kids in the legal system you could. There’s so many things I’m sure the viewers and outsides don’t know. The thing we do know is your heart. Your energy. Your love for all of your nieces and nephews. You are Bonnie Griffiths.

[@NoahSchnackybiggestfan]

I’m confused about this video

[@kai-leewells6645]

@@cheddarcheesez3746 and what about it? Kevin is rubys husband and those kids FATHER. How in the hell is Bonnie and the rest of the family being shitted on when the damn parent of these kids sat idly by and did NOTHING. They actually tried. They did what they could. It is what it is.

[@brandidrummond6925]

I second this, as a long time watcher I truly believe a lot of this information is misleading and is now creating false narratives of these innocent families….. especially the siblings. People need to tone it down.

[@lousiefoges6885]

​@noahschnackybiggestfan7675 She can't bring up certain topics, the judge said so there's alot stuff missing but 😭yeah

[@lousiefoges6885]

​@@cheddarcheesez3746no she didn't you clearly didn't watch the video

[@nickip1nkfr1day]

Kevin failed as a father. They are his kids he was supposed to protect them and he didn’t. I’ve been watching you , Ellie & Jared for years and I truly believe everything you’re saying. Stay strong

[@holmesla0319]

I know first hand how toxic family members can take over and completely break apart a family but I can't imagine having to deal with all of this so publicly. You don't owe any of us on the outside an explanation but anything you want to share we are all listening. You and Ellie never struck me as those toxic family vloggers who just want to exploit their kids or lives. Ellie has helped me so much with my struggles with my thyroid after my second child was born and you have always been so funny and relatable. You both are real, raw, gracious and never judgemental. Your whole family will make it through this dark time because you love each other. Take it one day at a time. ❤❤❤

[@dianahenris2101]

Bonnie, I’m so glad you came out and posted this. We all were in the dark. We all were thinking of those poor kids, nothing else. Thank you for explaining things. We still worry what the outcome of the children are going to be. Thank God you have the strength to see you through this terrible nightmare. I pray for those poor, poor children. Their life’s are never going to be the same!

[@greenviewpuppiesPA]

I can not even imagine the turmoil your whole family is in and has been for so long. I wish I could come through the screen and hug you. Your love for your children and family is so evident. Praying for you all. ❤

[@KayleesKingdom_]

It must be so hard to see your sister turn into that kind of person, and to see your nieces and nephews be treated so poorly and then ripped away from your family. I am so sorry. You and your family have been and will continue to be in my thoughts. I’ve been watching the whole family for years. All of the channels. I am here to support you. ❤ I can’t even imagine how this feels.

[@user-qn4rv9ml2d]

This vid broke my heart ❤️ stay strong hoellien family! You all have my 100 percent support ❤️❤️❤️i love you all so much

[@bellak46]

It’s so hard when your hardest times are put out into the world on display. Stay strong Bonnie. You have a kind soul and I know you will do whatever you can to protect your nieces and nephews.

[@joannakrisza7203]

The entire family expoits their kids online for a living so ya, its out there

[@lousiefoges6885]

​@joannakrisza7203 💀bonnie doesn't post her kids puberty and personal stuff of her kids not like ruby did she had a made a video before explaining that she wants to keep kids life's personal just bc you see few minute video don't mean you know anything

[@v.l.k]

I agree! You can not control what your sister does. You can only control you and your immediate family meaning you your husband and your kids!! Don’t worry about the criticism it’s not your fault. You and your family are great!!!!! I hope for the best for you!!!

[@lynetteeaster2918]

I'm so glad you and the rest of your family were there for Shari and included her in your family things ! The way Julie and her family were there was really nice!! I know she was closer by where Sharia was and that made sense for them to be close to her. ❤️🙏 for the children Chad and Sharia , your Mom and Dad!!! Also the rest of your family!!! I feel so bad for your mom and dad being so far away with none of you with them!😞

[@aliciarlinares]

@nedradonnpickens She pulled back awhile ago from that and made a video specifically addressing it. People learn and change as they grow.

[@makylapagliarlo]

I love that she is speaking up and Kevin truly failed his kids

[@farmhousefor6family60]

​@@mdaze9753 Although I agree with you, a little grace is in order. There is a lot going.on, that is a factor that will take time people to sort out because Cognitive dissonance is difficult. Questioning lifelong commitment to a church will not happen over night.

[@haleyphillips916]

@@mdaze9753I do agree with you there, the amount of connections, no pun intended, that Jodi had within the church is frightening. I hope there’s an investigation into that at some point. The stories from ppl coming forward about Jodi’s destruction in their life is sad. It’s hard to believe this is the first time she’s been seen for who she is.

[@carlosisactiv]

You and your family are so strong❤️ Been following you and Ellie since the beginning and I can honestly say I just know you're genuine people. Just know you're admired, and know you are helping and doing everything you can.

[@rittergal7]

I'm so sorry for all you're going through. I'll keep you and all your family in my prayers

[@estherthorp4732]

Love you, Bonnie. What a powerful video. Your bravery, courage, and love for your kids and Joel is so evident. Please know that we see you, just you, not your sister or anything else. I've been a follower of yours for 6 years and will continue to be. Your videos bring me joy and light in a dark world ❤

[@leah.preppy.xo888]

Bonnie, you are not your sister. Or her crimes. This is not your fault and you had no control over it. You should not be blamed for any of this. We are on your side and support you through this difficult time. Please do not let them control you. We love you

[@yesie8375]

It’s not her fault not people keep blaming her and her sisters. Specially strangers that don’t even follow them

[@purple0774]

I remember from the vlogs when Ruby moved her family into a new home & area away from everyone. You could tell how isolated the kids became. They collaborated with a few Utah families & featured in each others vlogs, also the kids became friends. You could feel the immediate shift. Ruby’s kids expressed not having friends & at one point homeschooled. I don’t know how your own parent can be so cruel. 🖤

[@EmxCherryxLouise]

You have all the rights to talk about your new home and how hard you are working for yourself your husband and your children but also everyone in your family. Your still my inspiration. Im glad you are controling your world and what you and your family want to do no one should stop you. I have followed and watched your families for years over 10 years. All my love to you all. ❤❤❤

[@sarahmcdonough138]

Girl, I love you and you are all you need to be. You aren’t perfect. Nobody is! Please, DO NOT feel like you have to be anyone else’s mistakes. You are a great mom, wife and person. I wish I could hug you. You are strong enough for this!

[@Harperkay2]

imagine what cody is going through. losing his best friend bc of his parents. then finding out that his best friend was being abused. and olivia. her cousins . julie and abby. every single time they were together was magic to them. she must be going through a lot . lincoln and boston are the same way. my heart goes out to you guys and your whole family. ruby , kevin , jody are monsters and we will not let them take down more then they have. i’m praying for y’all ❤

[@avakachmar8562]

Bonnie, so proud of you. It’s crazy how over the years I’ve laughed and cried with you and you don’t even know me. You’ve taught me a lot and I know God is going to continue working through you.

[@samanthaa3677]

As a long time viewer We all know your heart Bonnie. ❤️ Stay strong.

[@mckenna9489]

Not one mention of her nieces and nephews, just herself and her husband and her kids.

[@patienceforjamhands6270]

The judge literally asked her to not speak about her niblings. She said it at the beginning

[@dangerislander]

If your dumbass listened she said the judge gave the advice of not to talk about them. The legal matters are ongoing.

[@mckenna9489]

@@patienceforjamhands6270 I didn't expect her to speak about her niblins, a gag order doesn't mean she cannot speak about her Nephews and Nieces, I don't think you understand how the law works.

[@patienceforjamhands6270]

@@mckenna9489 A gag order literally means she cannot speak about certain aspects of a case. It is well known there is a gag order on them to not speak about the minor children involved. Do YOU know the law?

[@emilyweeks7483]

You don’t owe us any explanation but I’m so proud that you chose to stand up. Please know that many people are supporting you, your parents, Ellie, Beau, Julie, and your families. My heart goes out to all of you and Ruby’s kids. You have a right to not be held down by the sick actions of Ruby, Jodi and Kevin. Nobody else deserves to suffer at the hands of them. Many people failed these children, you are not one of them. This is unimaginable pain and I can’t begin to fathom being in your shoes. There is a community that trusts your good faith and the truth that you would have protected those children and kept them safe if you could have. Stay strong, Bonnie and family. ❤️

[@trentnemily]

Over 200 hundred of us agree with this person! I hope Bonnie is able to read your words and know just how many people love and support them.

[@katiealbers438]

I’m praying the kids will be able to reconnect with all of you and get the help that they need. All that matters at this point is that the kids are safe. You are doing a great job Bonnie ❤ stay strong

[@druewalter873]

I'm so very sorry for you and the rest of your family. I cannot imagine what yall had to deal with and couldn't deal with. My heart goes out to you and yours as well as your nieces and nephews. I wish you and yours the strength and courage to get through this awful time. I also wish you and yours peace and resilience and so much love to get through this and in the aftermath. Sending nothing but love.

[@smalls_]

Let the haters hate! Your true fans and friends know you and we will love and support all of you through this storm. Stay strong, take time to heal, we will always be here! ♥️

[@priscillacourville793]

Bonnie no one can control what others do even family. And clearly they have not been thru anything like this because they would not say hurtful things. You are so limited in the legal aspect of the situation. Makes u feel frustrated and helpless. I could see they cut everyone off. Big red flag. No matter what people say u should keep going with your life and taking care of your family. Keeps u sane in an almost unbearable situation. Prayers for your whole family✝️✝️✝️

[@ashleyziegler4776]

Bonnie, please know there are many of us who don’t blame you or your other siblings or your parents. There are many of us who love you guys and support you and know deep within our hearts that you guys are doing all you can. We know you care about those children. Sending you guys a big hug. ❤

[@brimaree]

❤❤❤

[@fvnt0miix953]

I initially thought “why didn’t Ruby’s family help her, they just cut her out of the family”. But then I thought about my mom’s family. Her brother’s mentality is so twisted and cruel that we have cut him out too. Trying to talk to him was a waste of time and they end up arguing. Her brother has now stopped answering her and seeing her. Sometimes the family cannot help as much as they’d like

[@amypletcher4411]

​@@fvnt0miix953I hate saying this but we have a situation like yours too. 😢 So sorry for your pain.

[@AJB42]

@@fvnt0miix953 Ruby was the one to cut them off all of them! She isolated herself and her kids from everyone who loved them. Such a cruel thing to do.

[@colettemccabe6648]

Dear Bonnie ,I'm so proud of you today I've watched you and your lovely husband Joel and your lovely children who are a joy to you both as it should be. You have a gentle and loving mother and father who must be terribly sad your Sister Ellie and Julie and their families I've had so much joy watching you all over the yrs and I say thank for this, to see you all go through so much pain is so sad .Please tell your family for me that I do care about you all. Wishing you all peace and mended hearts in time . Bonnie so glad we will see you back vlogging again thinking of you all . Love from Ireland 💚💚💚💚💚💚🐶

[@chickytendy]

After seeing so many of Ellie and Jared’s huge family function videos and never seeing Ruby in them, I knew there HAD to be something going on. Those kids deserved SO much better than the cards they were dealt. I’m over the moon they are finally out of Ruby’s “care”

[@my7babies]

❤big hugs for you and your entire family. Those of us that know and love you guys know whose fault it is. It’s not anyone but theirs.

[@sugerlover1]

You did NOTHING WRONG!! You had only the information you were allowed. Kevin & Ruby did everything wrong. You are precious. You are an amazing mom, aunt, cousin, wife & friend. We’re here for you & the rest of the family. We’re standing behind YOU!!❤

[@lillier5895]

It’s beyond me that people blame you and your siblings/parents. People don’t understand that it isn’t like you could just walk into their home and take all of the kids. I can’t imagine how hard it’s been for all of you to deal with this behind the scenes for the last year and now in the spotlight. I pray that justice is served and that you all can heal mentally and emotionally.

[@heidiclarke2333]

Yes they would be up on kidnapping charges and make things worse in the long run.

[@anandita54321]

You can check up on the kids though - you can use tact. Instead of staying away and denying what was going on.

[@carlyj8980]

Oh, Bonnie…just know that my heart is hurting alongside yours and your entire family. You are absolutely right…you are most certainly not your sister or her crimes. You are a loving and nurturing mother, wife, daughter, sister, aunt, and friend. You are a pillar of strength and boldness, a true force to be reckoned with. Sending extra love to you and your family as you continue forward ❤

[@madeleinesharpe2799]

So much respect and love for all of you ❤️ I’ve followed you all for so many years and you, Ellie, Julie, Beau and fams, Mum and Dad are all such beautiful humans. Ruby’s actions in no way have any reflection on any of you and it’s horrible anyone thinks otherwise! They don’t know you. Sending you my love and prayers all the way from Canberra xxx

[@boloniannamria]

The love you are putting into your family,close and extended, is something no one can deny. You will push through this with everyone else who share this love and come out even more incredible. The heartbreak has happened, but fortunately you all have got your lives to mend it and turn it around for the better. Good won thanks to that little boy, who dared escaping and speaking, a lesson for everyone!

[@dakotadianewatson9831]

The people who have watched you, like actually watched you, know you are a great mom! Stay strong

[@Toastdoggy]

Amen

[@brittanyduncan8236]

Agree

[@lollipopppp]

For those of you who are wondering, she is not discussing the children here for a reason. That has always been her boundary.

[@yesie8375]

@@theoriginalr7310why her KZbin channel for your sake ?

[@babyanie4673]

@@judedimatteo8942So you must have wanted her to just break in and take the kids knowing full and well she was cut off by Ruby and Kevin? It’s very telling that the oldest sought refuge in her aunts. That in itself says how much of a difference there is between Ruby and her sisters.

[@oliviaferrone879]

Thank you for posting this raw and honest content. It was hard with the family staying quiet wondering if you all could have done more but now we know. Ties were severed and this truly lies on the shoulders of the person who legally could have fought for his children. Bonnie you have always been so genuine with us and I truly hope you continue to post. Same with your other family members not involved. Prayers and heeling for you all and especially your parents. I’m truly sorry for you all and the Franke Children.

[@mimi_1704]

i cannot begin to imagine what your family is going through rn. i pray that each & every one of you can find the strength & courage to face every day head on. i pray that your parents, being away from you all, are doing okay. i pray for your mother’s health. i pray for those children who didn’t have it easy. i PRAY that you all will stick together & overcome this. we see you. we hear you. we love you.

[@karencarr3120]

I’ve followed you and your family forever I know the problems your discussing and your true followers know there is nothing you can do to change what others around you have done or will do; this is not your fault and all you can do is be there for the children when they need you xx

[@allisonfischer3253]

You are such a light, Bonnie. My heart breaks for your family. This is a nightmare scenario, even without the entire world inserting themselves into the details of your families life. I cannot imagine the strength it has taken to get to where you are now, and I know that you will get through this. Looking forward to happier days ahead!

[@jennifervieira99]

I'm so sorry for everything you guys are going through. Hugs and prayers for God's healing for the rest of your family members 🙏 ❤

[@ans0817]

I am sending you and your family so much love right now.

[@thestephaniechristine]

Bonnie, I can't even start to imagine the pain the past three years and few weeks have caused. We are proud of you for speaking up. Take that control back!!! 🙏

[@loveinyou26]

As a child brought up in an abusive household, I used to hate everyone in my family and my life for not standing up for me. As an adult I understand completely you not being able to step in legally. Things could have gotten much worse if you had "broke down doors". You did all that you can. Be the strong person and hug your family and hold them close. These types of cases are the hardest you'll face as a family, but I know you're a good person who will do everything in your power to help, even if it seems minimal to outsiders, as someone who was abused as a child, just know that you are doing enough.

[@tamsynleighz4575]

Exactly! Also she has her own kids to think about! They did everything they could People are so mean and horrible It’s the parents fault ! And noone elses. Ruby and Kevins fault- they took care of shari the moment she came back- with open arms and supported them

[@madiarabella2589]

Kevin failed those kids just as much as she did

[@annabaker3911]

Are you or your sisters going to try and take the children to raise? The children need loving people at this time, not strangers. It breaks my heart to know these children were abused by their mother. I can remember them eating cinnamon rolls at grandma then knowing that they were deprived. I could not sleep all night thinking about these precious children.

[@belajibben]

Your respect for Sherri on its own shows how much you are an incredible person, someone with love in your heart.

[@soraya377]

Her name is spelled Shari, not Sherri. I agree with your statement. ❤

[@madie3199]

She really is an amazing person. I really hope that those kids can get the help they need and deserve.

[@lovelyylyndsee22]

Bonnie this is why we love you. This response was the strongest you could have given, I got chills.

[@stacyhardin3209]

Those of us that have followed you, Ellie, and Julie know you guys have good hearts. I pray the ones that haven't followed you don't speak negatively about you, Ellie, and Julie. We know you 3 and Sherri did everything you can do behind the scenes!!!

[@Kelle001]

Bless you Bonnie, I'm so sorry that you and all of your family, your parents are having to deal with Ruby's distorted view on life. She use to be a very different person, but sadly she changed into someone unrecognizable. Stay safe. 💞💞

[@haleyg711]

Oh bonnie we’ve all missed you! We have all watched, supported and loved your family for years. We all still do. Nothing has changed. Please don’t delete this. We know your family has done everything you can do. We love you. We support you! Take the time you and your family need. ❤ my heart hurts for you, Ellie, Julie, Beau, Grandpa and Grandpa Giff, your nieces and nephews and children. You will heal, and you will overcome this.

[@Grahamt978]

That’s the problem, staying silent. It’s a behavior that’s taught

[@julswed]

By staying silent she means they didn’t talk about it in their videos, not that they didn’t tell authorities, because they did, as did multiple neighbors, but nothing was done by cops and cps.

[@Grahamt978]

@@julswed like I said staying silent is the problem

[@Barkerfam6]

At the very LEAST, Kevin should be charged with neglect for so passively “giving up” on his young children 😔

[@skyechapman1430]

Been thinking of you and your family during this time, sending prayers for healing!

[@lanaetaylor6317]

Bonnie, as a follower of yours for years, and have met you in person, I've always felt like an extra family and we have your back! We know your heart. One person's mistakes and choices doesn't mean the whole family is like them. Every family has a bad egg who has made ill choices. Please do not delete your channel. You have so many that love you and support you. ❤ And Heavenly Father is the ultimate final judge.

[@kylacarlson245]

We’re here to support you guys! It’s truly sad she has to defend herself in this situation. They’re heartbroken just as the world is finding out what has been going on.

[@heathermckenzie2384]

Anyone complaining about her not mentioning the kids or certain things didn’t listen very well. She literally said she can’t speak about most of the case! When families are in court you can’t go on social media with any information. I applaud her for saying anything. She could have just kept quiet all together but then someone would complain about that to I’m sure. If you don’t like it leave. If you have nothing better to do with your life then come here to bash a beautiful and kind family you need to evaluate you own life. Bonnie you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope this gets resolved so you can live your lives in peace. ❤

[@miamagistro]

People that say they would have done more, have never been in your situation. Thank you for your courage and bravery. These kids are blessed to have extended family like you. Bless your heart. Truly

[@mrs.c3523]

Someone in my close family abused their children, and they're in prison now. 15 years to life. The news of the arrest and what followed was a complete shock as we live out of state and had no idea. Because of that, I have a small glimpse of what you are going through, and I am so sorry. I wish I could hug you all. Stay strong ❤

[@allyhark]

Bonnie! I'm going to continue to support you the rest of your family. We have a similar situation in our family and I couldn't imagine it being in the public eye not just for our sake as adults, but more importantly the CHILDREN involved who are the true victims! To the rest of the world I am no one, but please know I am Ally, a LONG time viewer of ALL your family for years and years now. To the point that I feel like I truly know your family and your hearts! I'm from a tiny rural town in the middle of nowhere in Arkansas! I love you guys and will continue to support you in everyday! ❤

[@hollygreen9333]

I am so sorry for your loss. I have been very worried about your sweet mama. As a parent I can only imagine the pain, the hurt your parents must be feeling. God bless you all. You will get through this.