I am sick of parenting [Hello Counselor / 2016.10.10]

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[@EXOglobe]

This is a GREAT example of why you shouldn't have more kids then you can handle....

[@angelswings8344]

and why abortion should be made available

[@daph1581]

@Sehun Min there’s no such thing as accident

[@zahirahdavis2573]

@Sehun Min they could have put them up for adoption or wear protection i maen there just where not doing the bear minimum

[@zahirahdavis2573]

@Sehun Min yeah they should have thought they could not hadlle all of there kids sooo

[@rostharan]

@@daph1581 I guess you can't accidentally have twins..

[@pockyhan]

if you cant take care of your children then dont have it

[@FreakingWierdxD]

exactly

[@roseakainternationalplaygi4888]

Siti Nurhanisah EXCTLY LMFAO HONESTLY THE MOTHER DIDNT HAVE THE PRIVILEGE TO CRY 😂😂💀 The Dad didn't even show one second of affection throughout the whole damn video. Unresponsible parents.

[@libels00]

I'd rather say "Use condom" or "Infertile yourself" 😂😂😂

[@lavendertease]

Unless you have a time machine, there's nothing they can do about that.

[@bakuman8138]

Brando Libels 😂👌🏻

[@tsubakilee1728]

I feel sad that the father has such mature and wonderful kids but he doesn't know how to treasure them

[@gigabites809]

exactly

[@olivia1769]

love your prof pic

[@duckymomo2101]

Gladys Kanazawa ikr

[@jungkookismybaby]

Tsubaki Lee I think jimin side of his kindness is overflowing you.

[@namenotimportant7021]

yes the reason his children are mature is cause of the carelessness of the father

[@annajohnson3001]

Poor baby girl, she is going through so much stress for such a young age, yet her hard work and dedication to her family is truly inspiring. I love you Soobin x

[@simonyang8609]

You know the fact that she acts much older than she is broke my heart. I want to assume that the reason why she doesn't like idol singers is because she has no time to even know about them. She even said "The older I get, the fewer things I want", that sort of mentality is something beyond her age. This father is making up bad excuses and I hate it. She should enjoy time with her friends. The stress and pressure is stupendously high for this girl.

[@thisisntallowed9560]

Narcissistic personality disorder

[@saanyanchan]

dude i relate to her so much i had to go through the same thing as her so im balling my eyes out like her

[@pinkjeanss]

how does a dad not know their own daughters birthday my lawd

[@7sheryl7]

Di. Nguyen my dad didn't remember mine even though I was born ard a week after his birthday hahaha He only started to get the date right when I was like 14 or sth

[@nurbalqisy]

+7sheryl7 hahaha me too,1 was born on 7 octbr and my dad 16 otcbr,,

[@momiji7789]

+7sheryl7 Same! Even though he was there when my mother was pushing me out her body!

[@wooniepatootie]

I completely understand your comment. I'm so thankful that my dad even reminds me that I'm about to add another year on my age and I'm always the one who almost forgot it all the time..

[@aghniafauziah9195]

my dad didn't know mine. my dad even confused if someone asking about my age :'

[@Isabel-bu3lq]

When her brother took the mic my tears started falling because even someone that young understands that his sisters going through a hard time and needs encouragement and praise for all the good things she's doing even when she doesn't need to do them I understand that with twins comes a lot of work and stress but for them to push it all on her at such a young age isn't right she should be hanging out with her friends doing things that make her happy not cause her the distress a parent would I just hope she stands up for herself and doesn't let her parents push all this work on her because it's not her job and spend time with her and their son

[@AalanaF]

Who wants friends..

[@salmaa2505]

I do. Maybe you just need to find the right ones but friends are irreplaceable people to me and I would do anything for them just like they would do anything for me.

[@AalanaF]

what if they betray you

[@Jiminlypuff]

Isabel 1600 sameeeee lol

[@formystudies]

Family can also betray you. What's worse is you can't cut them out like you can with friends, you're stuck with them forever by blood.

[@pandabear3821]

I wonder how twins will feel when they saw the episode in future

[@AalanaF]

I know right..

[@shannontsl]

Hopefully they'll reciprocate by loving their sister that much more.

[@kimlip6773]

When they see * it hasn’t happened yet

[@deo3613]

I have a twin sister and we do not look alike she is older than me by four minutes

[@krn.cvlogs6053]

they maybe hate

[@kellybelly1004]

The mom keeps blaming the twins...but honestly it seems like you didn't take care of her or talk with her when the twins weren't there either...i feel like the mom keeps having kids to not have to take the next step in taking care of her kids. The dad is just....seriously...too distant. Even after this, it will still be the same if he doesn't get it together.

[@uyaachan_1411]

yeah it is

[@JO-me2hq]

ikr, i don't understand how the mom got time to dye her hair but don't have even single minute to talk to her daughter :( i feel so sad for the kid

[@fatimatuzzahrahbumidin2]

I was thinking the same too. I mean the dyed hair. They made the babies and why didnt bother to take care of them. After I'd finished watching I cant have positive thoughts anymore. Tha father only knows how to lie down. Pffttt

[@jiminbias5082]

Kelly yi o

[@angelsis2222]

@@JO-me2hq yo seriously. Her dyed hair is a key detail. that's bullshit she's taking vaca all year around using her eldest daughter as a slave.

[@10969sb]

Damn.. her little brother understands so well. I can see him growing up to be a good kid just like his sister. (he's cute too wtf)

[@squareup1532]

sweggiejams yea he is very smart I wouldn't be surprised if he became an idol lol

[@ZenitsuKunn]

@@squareup1532 uh idol? lol why do u expect someone to become an idol just because they're cute or smart

[@dandelion_mxyrza1867]

Its obv his gonna grow up to be a handsome man with a kind heart🤭

[@zahidakadwa8018]

When the brother said he would play less and help more. 😢💔

[@tokkijk81]

I really feel like the father doesn't really care much.. He doesn't seem to act like a real loving father towards her

[@brandon_6836]

Lenaxheart Yup, he definitely does not

[@audreywalter6098]

The dad is seriously a piece of work. To not know your child's birthday is the root of the problem. My dad was the youngest of all his siblings but is a seriously hard worker and has never burdened me, or forgotten my birthday. Sure, twins are stressful. It's normal to have siblings help, but it is the PARENT'S job primarily. The dad seems like he doesn't even care much, which is really depressing. To be honest, I don't believe he will change.

[@jenniferrita1027]

Audrey Walter my dad is the youngest one too, and he never forgot our birthday (some times since hems forgetful) but he always treat us fair and as best friends too.. not like this dad

[@stephanieparks9243]

my dad never remembers my birthday but he spoils me (he used to always pick me up after school even when I could've just taken a 15 minute bus home, and I was in high school then) so I think remembering a kid's birthday doesn't really say anything about a parent. But burdening a kid like that is seriously not okay.

[@jenlaw5897]

My dad forgets our birthday all the time, but he’s not that bad 😂😂😂

[@norakirayumi]

LoL forgetting/ not knowing a so called important date (birthdays, anniversary etc) IS NOT the root of the problem. Because relationships aren't built from small things like that. There are other more important things like providing needs and necessities, understanding one another and caring for each other: all those things which many people easily took for granted. As long as one's fulfilling their duty as family, then it's already enough. Remember that not everyone has the luxury to wish let alone celebrate anniversaries and stuff. There are many people who just have enough to live and still grateful for whatever they have regardless whether they even know when they were born or not.

[@formystudies]

I'd probably run away from home if my parents treated me that way.

[@formystudies]

It's just protesting, letting the parents know I was suffering and couldn't take it anymore. I'd tell a close relative, friend, or teacher. Usually young kids don't even think about these options and just suffer in silence because as children, it's their best chance of survival. They're also told not to expose family secrets lest it taints the family name. Given that, the girl clearly must be on the verge of breaking to opt to write to the TV show for help.

[@fatimatuzzahrahbumidin2]

lol

[@anikag7198]

As the older sister, I would want that but I can’t just leave my siblings behind. Through it all, they will see you as an example and understand. Just like how the boy did when he knows that the parents were still not mature enough to understand what to do in their position which he stood in to support his sister. I know what you meant and I agree but more realistically, unless they can find the heart to forgive you for leaving for a bit or making the decision to go, then you must try not to. It already became and natural responsibility but things like that also do become the only way to show them something, but they probably won’t get it because they seem a bit too weak as parents to resolve this on their own. But I’m thankful this has happened so at least one thing might change. I hope they all stay strong and I know they will.

[@kitcatmeow7513]

honestly as much as a lot of us have wanted to run away i dont really think taht would work as like a 14 yr old where could you go where could you work its honestly surprisingly hard to do anything as underage people, working cuts out time to study and honestly studying is kinda the cnetre of everyything, and you probably would be able to find a job underage or a place to stay

[@fearnes.5272]

her bother sounded wayyyyyyy more sincere than her parents...hope they will grown up well and take care of each other...just ignore/cut-tires with these cold-axx parents...wth

[@debatingaftershock6816]

"As I age, I want less" Good girl. Although the family has problems (as any human does), she has a good mind. Glad her family instilled that in her. Seems the father and daughter have similar emotional strengths and traits, although that isn't being addressed here. ~ "I keep my emotions hidden and deal with it alone" ~ "sir, you don't show emotion that well"

[@dancingdohl]

Rather than her parents taking credit for instilling those traits in her, it could very much be that she developed them on her own out of necessity. Some people are just wired differently from birth. Like kids with abusive or drug addicted parent growing up to be wonderful parents and never touching drugs has nothing to do with what their parents taught them. Some people will follow in their footsteps and others will rise above. Sorry for the rant, she just reminds me of how I grew up, though my situation was a little different.

[@aliyyarosli7232]

debatingaftershock but honestly saying, a child at that age, would want plenty of things, no matter how bad their family condition is. It's just the matter of saying it or not. But her mind matured too fast that she doesn't seem to want anything a girl her age would want

[@malu8710]

They didnt instill shit. They're ruining that child.

[@lleonim4742]

No, they're making her feel less ambitious and hopeful about her life. Children should dream big.

[@angelsis2222]

@@aliyyarosli7232 yea i can relate like my family was financially struggling when i was in middle school and high school so i never wanted anything because of that. N my parents even apologized to me once. They were like she doesn't ask for anything and its because we struggle with money. They felt sad. They told me to ask for money if i needed it but i never did. I only took if they gave me five dollars. But its different from the show here cuz my parents actually apologized (they didnt need to but its nice to hear) and actually care for me when it was needed as a parent should. I had the basic necessities. Once I graduated high school and got a job, then i started wanting to buy things because now i had money to spend. Of course i paid what bills needed to be paid and kept a budget too.

[@lamachinga]

Those parents don't deserve such a good daughter like her. My heart is crying, i wish i'd hug her

[@fatimatuzzahrahbumidin2]

I know what will that girl be capable of later in her life. Shes gonna mature, endure more pain and become stronger but in the end, at 1 point she'll collapse if she continues to endure and keep it to herself. I dont wanna swear at the parents coz I dont know story from their side, but my advice is just dont let your poor small child be burdened by something they shouldnt. Shes a smart girl and even can think wisely. By stating that she does not need any more stuff rewarded to her as she grew up means shes matured enough to think what's wise and what's right and also to have depression. Dont misunderstand stress and depression. That girl has already developed depression symptoms, but fortunately she let it out in this program. Im so sorry to the parents, but I really need to say this to them ; dont be so ignorant ( I think this is the meanest advice I can say by not swearing)

[@fatimatuzzahrahbumidin2]

But maybe also the parents have a lot on their plate to achieve and gain to raise the family well. Financially speaking. Hard-working parents are always like that, and children will only understand , appreciate and feel guilty once they are in their late 20s.

[@vaniesaaboy4420]

If they know they are not financially stable, why add another child?... Also, that cycle of mental development is actually not good. Parents think that its a sacrifice, Its not, its their responsibility. Yes the kid can support and help but not take over. Parents like this manipulate the emotional dependency of kids. The kids most often grew up like the parents due to the lack of emotional fullfillment.

[@angelsis2222]

i mean the fact she doesnt want anything... thats herself that developed that BECAUSE her parents have taught her from young that anything she wants she wont get. She prob got shocked from her ballet ending and her having to take care of the twins right after that she just figured, "well looks like this is my life now, i cant have anything i want". I know thats why she felt that way because when i was in middle and high school my parents struggled with money n i told them i didnt want anything because of it. Once i entered college n got a job, i started wanting things because i knew i had money to buy it

[@chaberwil13]

When Soobin went up next to her mom at the end of the segment, her mom was just sitting there clapping.. didn't even hug her child.. it's really odd

[@stanbtsandyougud7146]

Wil T. Ikr like w t f

[@korazy]

I bet they are happy with the check and in disbelief at how many people thought this was an issue. Tbh, hugging isn't much of thing in asian culture or in my family. It's easier for me to hug my friends and teacher than it is to hug my family.

[@khiaratt]

I wonder what happened when they got home

[@chaberwil13]

@@khiaratt I watched the whole segment again and woah! My thought are still the same with my comment 4 years ago.

[@anthyavila9726]

@@khiaratt Same old same old, probably. Useless parents don't change just because they were called out. They probably even guilt-tripped their children for shaming them. Istg, those idiots better not expect their children to care for them in their old age, not when they birthed children only to make them raise themselves.

[@ItsBrittanyLajoyce]

It's not the kids responsibility to raise the parents kids they choose to keep having kids so they should raise them just sad

[@lunacwho]

what kind of father doesnt know the birthday of the childs...

[@senafatai5281]

marjo my dad haha he doesn't know any of his 7 kids birthdays lol

[@dprlive6119]

my father still confuses my name with my sisters .__.

[@is2239]

marjo there's three kids in my family, me being the middle one and I still get called by my step sisters name (because I look like her)

[@audiodudeful]

My father tbh.He don't remember my birthday,my brother's birthday or my sis' bday.He don't even remember my mum's bday

[@GGPinkProductions]

Luckily I'm a twin and I only have a mother. So My birthday is always remembered. ... It's also tax day. :/

[@peggyroyster3759]

Most koreans are usually very careful not wanting to be look down on by others. Or letting others know their hidden issues within the family. If this is real I really feel sorry for the young girl having the responsibility of raising her siblings. I am the only girl out of a family of five brothers, I was not the youngest. But my parents made me take care of all my brothers. Growing up I hated this, I never had time to just be a child and play with friends. So my heart goes out to this beautiful young child.

[@FannyFanita]

"she does love them but she doesn't know to express her feelings" i feel this little girl. I am not that close with my mom, unlike my little sister. i don't remember when the last time she hugs me. meanwhile my mom alwags hug and kiss her everyday. but mom only kiss me when it comes to my birthday. My sister always tell everything about her school days with mom but I didnt do it until now. When it hard to handle I'll tell my dad, not her. I do love her but its hard to say that "mom i love you" in front of her. My sister congratulate her during mother's day but I leave it alone to my sist.

[@kissmeontheribs]

Fanny Fanita wow hi, same. but for me it's little bro. things get harder when he died, me and mom have to live in awkward situation for 2years since we only have each other (my parents divorce when I was little). fortunately things get better after 2years, I and mom try to get closer and talk many. I even stop writing blogs and diaries so I can share my stories. wish you and your mom will get closer too :)

[@ainarosli7617]

Fanny Fanita totally me

[@maliii266]

Fanny Fanita for me it's the same but with my older sister..

[@felinewizardnana559]

Same situation... But the only difference is i'm the youngest in our family..

[@faithizzlezz]

Same thing with my parents. I grew up with 0 affection; my older brother was my mom's favorite and my little brother, my dads making me an outcast. They never hugged me or said they loved me or even acknowledged my presence really. I only started to feel affection after I began dating my boyfriend (now husband). It's sad since I was able to feel more loved and accepted when I met my husbands family. I only starting saying "I love you" to my parents after saying it to my in-laws. Even now though it still feels awkward saying it to them. It has affected me so much to where I feel like I'm now too affectionate with my daughter 😂 I tell her I love her multiple times a days and squeeze (hug) her a lot too.

[@raiiniiee95]

Omg can someone do something and adopt this child and care for her? Or better yet, bring her out, enjoy her youth life. Dude I'm seriously disgusted.

[@mizzymsp]

she's the oldest child but he doesn't remember her birthday? surely the first ever child feels like you've just discovered something new and spectacular? don't you remember the date?

[@helloimbella]

how did they expect a small human being to take care of other small human beings :/ also, why do this look fake? the parents are just there knowing they'll be embarrassed? won't people look at them differently now? :/

[@mikefromkollab]

It's not fake, but it's not unplanned either. That's why Korean variety shows have writers, they make sure segments straight to the point and the guests know what to expect. The only the fake about the show are the people who think it's fake. ;)

[@helloimbella]

Pug Lee I understand the writers thing. I've watched a lot of Korean variety shows, too. But if you're the parents there, knowing you'll be judged on your parenting with the whole nation watching... I mean, the community can be quite harsh sometimes. I find it not 100% believable, that's all. Maybe they got paid well, idk.

[@Dengkaidou]

how do you know it is not fake??...do you do a follow up??... do you know them personally??..or just because they said so???...sheeple... this show most likely fake / made up...

[@peterdavid5139]

it is a COUNSELOR SESSION.....NO WHY ITS LOOKS LIKE FAKE...BUT ITS A REAL SHOW....u know,we are asian...we do something weird......like japanese show.....they are doing show like ejaculation show*.....its a reality show....weird show...but poeple accepted it....

[@MsJackson1330]

I know what you are trying to say but your explanation doesn't help.

[@ellelee4079]

Poor little girl.. I remember my old friend told me her mom always asked her to take care of her little siblings.. She have a lot of siblings..and one day, she is sick of it so she shouted to her mom "Nobody asked u to makes to many kids!" Poor her..She only want to enjoy her childhood playing with her friends.

[@ovellajohnson4680]

The parents should've never had the kids if they couldn't take care of them that's too much on her she's too young to be stressed

[@milallets9032]

Ovella johnson ikr. he does all the f---ing and his kids have to suffer -.-

[@bkzl]

The father doesn't deserve having any of the kids tbh. If you were so happy getting it off you should've thought about how to care for your kids. An adult shouldn't cry alone and have people talk to them yet more a growing young girl at 12years.

[@FreakingWierdxD]

Honestly a girl at her age, should not be dealing so much and receive less. I honestly don't teared up in my eyes when watching this series bcs I don't really watch but this episode and this girl's story. I did. I really hate all this kind pressure they put onto the kids

[@FreakingWierdxD]

"I lack when it come to looking after them" wtf then stop reproducing??? this dude ahhhhhh fucking annoyed the shit out of me. and her little brother, oml boy may you be blessed with heaven's blessings

[@jnc-rs6fk]

I just want to go over there and hug this little girl. She is so beautiful 😍 😭😭😭

[@Jen-et2wr]

Poor baby shouldn't waste her youth and experience new things instead of being a parent to her younger siblings.

[@tycenukunuku9041]

The little girl and her brother are like models. I hope they find a successful career when they're older.

[@g0ldenkook]

Geesh even the younger brother has more sense than the father

[@laduchess]

The son is going to grow up into a handsome boy with a handsome heart. I love that both of the siblings are matured enough. The boy and girl could be very close as siblings if they rely on each other more. The parents are blessed to have them

[@buttercuptodoshi4324]

I cry when i watch this because i can totally relate to this especially when the parents said 'i love you' to their daughter and the daughter felt awkward when the parents said it. Tears just fall down when i saw that because it exactly how i felt . And its good she telling them because she still young while i'm already 16 and i cant open up to my parents . I dont tell whats happen at school or my problems or my insecurity , i tell nothing . She did a brave thing and good job. I hope she can be more closer to her family .

[@hellofriend2777]

soobin is probably going to grow up not wanting kids herself if her parents continue to treat her like a baby sitter. This will also make the relationship between her twin siblings awkward. All her memories of her siblings will be raising them and not actually just being their older sister.

[@oreotia13]

What an asshole of a father. I know he has responsibilities as the main income earner but he decided to have children. They need love. She obviously wants to help out her parents but they fail to show appreciation for her efforts. I want to hug her and her little brother.

[@holy6704]

I feel like their kids will get scouted by company like SMent, JYPent or Pledis XD, cause literally, visual...

[@chasebarber10]

Gwen Nakagawa my thoughts they're so unique and aesthetic

[@hwasasfootprint5477]

I love how I was scrolling down the comment section to see people’s opinions and this one comment I see is about becoming a kpop idol😂😭

[@user-ir5jd4cx1t]

i thought i’m the only one who thinks the kids should be idols when they’re growing up

[@akihaamber728]

That might come true tho, considering both the siblings are pretty much good looking, plus the fact that soobin herself likes ballet. It's not uncommon for idols to have ballet background, so it might just be possible. I wouldn't be surprised if it did happen. But I'm happy if she's happy. They deserve better things in life

[@russia6805]

Not just good looking, Soobin is quite talented like Mina (ballet) and she can took care of herself

[@yeshin5866]

Poor kid. Hope things will get better. She actually looks like Winwin from NCT 127...

[@oraangeish]

Omf she does a bit :o

[@LoveGetChu]

How pathetic. How can a father and mother be so irresponsible. Father not only one to blame, but mother too. Jesus. Don't have kids if you are just going to have more kids to shift the responsibilities on to them.

[@babumbumble]

I wish I can adopt her ahhh... T_T

[@hi-cd9qh]

babumbumble I wish that too that is so sad.....

[@neyfaerie7346]

What kind of father doesn't remember his child's birthday? Dad and I weren't close for a long time, but he always made sure to pick me up from school on my birthday and do something together, even when he had like thousand things to take care of. We got closer during the last two years and just then I realised how much a child needs their dad

[@craziezzgirlzz]

my father used to not remember my birthday(now he remember tho) but its bcs he's busy with work. and compared to my mom, im more close with him. i think its sometimes normal for dads to forget their own children's birthday but in this situation, they're just ridiculous

[@danic5962]

Aw poor girl her parents are so indifferent :( but the lil boy is so sweet

[@blackvelvet1656]

I'm glad she won. It's really a concern. Her dad should change. He's the worst father that I've seen. He didn't even know his childrens' birthdays. I'm sad hearing that Soobin don't receive any compliments after what she have done. Well, I'm sad when I heard her story from the start. I hope Soobin will get more sleep, eat more healthy foods and enjoy her life.

[@withhui2721]

Here is the reason why you should pull out

[@caryn2064]

i legit cried when i watched this. i feel like her brother is more mature than her dad and its so sad to see someone as young as her go through all this alone. i cant imagine go through something like this when i was her age

[@Atiny_NZ]

Poor girl... It's not fair, taking away her youth and freedom. It's like she's been forced to grow up quickly because her parents are too ignorant and too dependant on her. She's a good and devoted daughter, her parents need to realise that and let her enjoy her adolescent life.

[@TaelyLee]

Ugh, my heart breaks for this little girl. She is so young and is expected to take care of her even younger siblings. 💔

[@Qwertymayne]

what awful parents...

[@psycheeepath]

I cried when the little brother said thank you to his sister. 😭

[@mikasaackerman5711]

I can't help but notice how pretty she looks. GOOD LUCK And that's a cool brother to have.

[@aori1209]

the difference between soobin's story and my story is i have a very caring mother despite she was a bit busy(my mother gave her job to my uncle anyway). I have been taking care of my older brother since i'm 14, right after my dad passed away because my mom need to go out a lot to find a job. he is my older brother but i'm the one who's taking care of him because he have physical and mental disabilities. i love my brother a lot and i'm willingly to take care of him 24/7.

[@Ris-vulpis]

How is this father so emotionally detached? His daughter is crying and upset yet he is just sitting there? This is emotional abuse to his child, he has no right to be a parent.

[@jeonggukoomon5408]

That's how I am I take care of my brothers everyday, and I've been playing basketball every year but now I can't because of it, I don't get anything in return but get yelled at to do bettter. I try....but sometimes it's not enough right?

[@ZELL284]

oml...I can relate.Im the oldest child and not only must I take care of siblings but also my grandmother and sometimes even cousins. My case isn't as serious but just remember,you're doing fine and don't let the yelling get to you. You worked hard enough and you deserve a lot more than you get.

[@nursaminah2702]

Xxtae taexx I am youngest in my family but I am do the household and all they know to eat but I have to wash for them...

[@nursaminah2702]

***** saya tak cakap macam utk cari simpati.maksud saya bukan anak 1 je yg buat kerja rumah kat setiap keluarga kadang2 anak terakhir pun buat juga kerja rumah.harap awak faham ape saya cakap

[@nursaminah2702]

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[@nursaminah2702]

***** tak penat....kerja rumah setiap orang dlm family kena buat tapi nak bagi seorang je buat kadang2 sakit hati je...awak ade adik beradik berapa orang...

[@ashley_1898]

well, its hard to say but.. this is the first time that i met a dad was so terrible and doesn't even know his daughter's birthday..every dad should know their children's birthday... i am really proud of the daughter that she takes good care of her own family, i am really sure she will be a really kind, good, caring and responsible person. I cried so hard watching this.. even his little brother is more caring than his dad, such ashamed..if i am the daughter i would have a hard time living.. really proud of the the daughter.

[@bangtae8264]

I seriously cried when her brother took the mic. I hope he takes care of his sister in the future. He understands her pain more than the father will ever. To be honest, I don't think the father will help or change anything. His son is more understanding. The father is just stubborn. He ain't going to change!!

[@mayryu5254]

저정도면 아동 방관을 넘어 학대 수준이군...저 어린애가 못이길 상처를 계속 받고있잖나.가슴이 너무 아프다.

[@kz0311]

why would you have more kids just to make your other kids look after them... thats not fair and its selfish of the parents. they even made her stop ballet because they didn't have the money to let her do it and raise the twins... you probably should not of had more kids if you cant afford to give the ones you already have nice things.

[@Password9141]

Raise kids is not oldest's duty. The duty is helping the parents for sure, surely the parents took Soobin's skill Soobin's help all this time for granted. And the mom didn't have much time to talk with her? Don't be kidding me when you have time to dyed your hair. Used that 30mnt to dyed your hair for talking like mom and daughter with Soobin. She carried so much things that she shouldn't carried. The dad? NO COMMENT, even the lil bro is way much better than him.. Ugh im frustrated!

[@icha101292]

Although you have four kids, you always have time to talk one by one with them. Just like my mom do. I was the oldest. My mom was a working mom. I take care my sisters all day to help my mom (my father is on duty in another island in Indonesia). But every night, I get to talk with her after my sisters sleep, just to know what I have done for the day, until I sleep on her lap. Old times.. Just a little attention, it means everything.

[@starzcharmed]

How do you not know your children's birthday omg

[@a_lost_staysider]

mhmm actually quite a lot of dads dont know.....like mine but i have a friend and her birthday is on the same day as her dad but her parents only remember her dads and not hers

[@hellofriend2777]

starzcharmed that's insane! you had time to make the baby, freaking remember their birthday!!

[@maniachik92]

starzcharmed idk. My dad always remembers my due date, but never seems to remember my actual birthday. I sometimes wonder if he actually does know and is just messing with me

[@mahooi]

starzcharmed my dad doesn't remember our birthdays not just because he doesn't he is just bad at remembering things ~ my mom sometimes reminds him though hhh

[@Menjadibijak1213]

She's so beautiful I met this kind of condition in every family they should learn parenting before become parent. She never told others about her problem I'm afraid it'll be bad effect in the future if parent can't raise their child well and can't give love the kids shouls accept

[@Lovelylily87]

What a blessing kids they've got. They are the luckiest parents ever. Some kids nowadays don't even want to do vacumming, but their kids are so beautiful. I cannot imagine how more and better they must be if they have raise them properly. Those kind of parents are the worst for young people mental health.

[@laisoriano]

I understand her pain and responsibility, I am the 3rd child (2 older brothers before me)/first daughter and had to be the woman of the house since i was 10. I have little sympathy for the way her father expressed himself, it sounded like one excuse after the other. I hope that the experience opened up the parents' eyes and they feel humbled to understand the depth of the heaviness that their daughter feels. And they are right, she needs to experience feeling love so she can grow up healthy and function well as an adult. my heart goes out to you, Soobin Dongsang!

[@Kepsleoooo]

Why tf at the end, when she's sitting beside her mum, the mum looks awkward?

[@angelsis2222]

i saw that too

[@_Maya_Andrea]

Tbh, my dad doesn't know my birthday either. But yeah her dad is way too cold.

[@aniv354]

Maya Andrea mine doesnt know my age 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@monicorn]

the sweet memory of my dad getting confused when he didn't know my age or what grade i was in. quality family time indeed

[@TheKings-knight]

this made me cry, its so sad

[@cyp_-pc8qu]

I took care of my sister a lot because my parents thought that I was supposed to be responsible and stuff I also watched her for compliments but when the compliments stopped I told my parents that I couldn't watch her anymore because it's their job. But this kid is so kind, I cant believe that she never complained and shes like about two years younger than me. (I'm Korean, so I understand the pressures tho T^T)

[@user-bo3mb7zr1s]

저런 아빠라는 사람 밑에서 착하고 의젓한 자녀가 있다는게 놀라움

[@user-qf8fg5ht3y]

당장 아동학대로 체포해야 할듯

[@dxngerlous4352]

he is not a father. the fact that he keeps telling his daughter, "i will help you raise the kids" while he's the one who should be raising the kids clearly shows how he completely drops his responsibility as a parent.

[@theadrenalizedartist6843]

Being the “good girl” all the time costs you your life: I know. I hope that they have been able to work this out as a family and that they are in a better place than this. This poor child.

[@RoyalPT]

For a child this to have such a hard Problem with saying "I love you mom and dad" the problem is real big. By all the things she has to do In Germany they would have removed the children for "incapacy of raising a child" maybe even took all of them to let them be taken care of in foster homes or wait till the parents are financially better and all to take the children back.

[@lovetaehyung1888]

When she said, I deal with it alone, and keeps it all bottled up inside. I almost cried and wanted to hug her❤️I know how she feels:(

[@viviphio760]

im coming back here again after several months, and still crying watching this. it reminds me of my mother's life, my mother was born in1950. she had to take care her younger siblings too at that time just like soobin. what make me sad is, it was happened 66 years ago... and still happens todays to younger generation like soobin

[@monicamaymartinez4564]

I swear heechul needs to be in this show so he can real talk these kind of people

[@kiwakiwarin]

the father was soooooooo fake, i had to pause the video and scream into my pillow for 3 minutes.

[@sabrinaho4869]

i cried, it hurts!!

[@KR-xx7cf]

And I thought I was stressed going through school. This girl is so sweet and she has been working hard to take care of the twins. When her brother took the mic I knew it was going to be better than what the dad said. It was upsetting when he didn't know her birthday 😔

[@taehyungsleftfoot2414]

someone hug this poor child TT

[@syaurahbatrisyia5905]

I legit cried. honestly, the pressure is too much for her omg, she's like only 13 and yet her life is tough:-(( hwaiting!!

[@우정아우정해]

진짜 쟤 너무 착하다.... 나라면 진짜 못참고 집에 안들어갔을것 같은데

[@bravennn]

The son speaking better and being more sincere than the father

[@Mrskwonable]

wheein looked so pissed when the fathrr spoke lol. man. i cant. the son spoke so much better than him

[@hooman6758]

This girl is so mature, and adorable. She's a small angel, her parents should treasure her instead of forgetting her birthday and not giving a damn about her efforts and feelings.

[@gy65hude]

발레 같은건 어릴때 끊어버리고 나중에 커서 다시 한다는건 말도 안되지. 부모가 너무 자녀교육에 무지하다.. 쌍둥이 핑계로 자꾸 저러는데 나중에 큰딸이 쌍둥이 엄청 미워하게된다.

[@kyeonghyeonnam8855]

Minyoung Hong 그냥 저런식이면 나중에 가족 안봄

[@kpopangel]

The younger brother's so considerate and mature for his age. I'm so touched that he appreciated what his sis has done for him =) Anyway I notice that towards the end of the vid, where this girl (Soobin) went up to her seat, her Mom's not even sparing a glance. Look at her, looking at her mom. Hmm, hopefully I was just thinking too much..

[@mon5867]

stop blaming the twins that doesn't mean you can't take care of ur children i mean we have three siblings and our parents still take care of us

[@honeybhabe5822]

i am like her too.i have 7 siblings and i am the one who takes care of my younger siblings since i was 4 years old,my mother just let me sit on the wall and put a pillow on my legs and let me hold the baby,it's like every 2 year my mother give birth,it's so tiring but i am happy to take care of them since i love them but when my mother gave birth to my youngest brother that's the time i told her to stop giving birth because she's not the only one sacrificing in taking care of the kids. i remember,when i was 13 years old,my parents went to my mothers hometown for a week and left my 1 year old brother to me,at that time,our neighbors said that the one taking care of a baby was also a baby.i feel like crying but i cannot say no to my mother coz she will beat me up..i told myself that i will not give birth to a lot of kids so until now i am 12 years married but only have 1 child.

[@tcruise77]

I wish I could have this kind of daughter in the future. I would loved her so much as a father... So mature thinking and only 13yo. *sigh...

[@kathyramirez3204]

When she said the the older she gets the fewer things wants really breaks my heart...because she’s learned to not want things in order to not face the disappointment of not getting them. Poor child.

[@kekw5153]

I swear to god if i have a kid one day, Ill let her follow her dreams, but not too make her spoiled by giving her everything she wants

[@arielmohammed3984]

That mother doesn't deserve the privilege to cry. If you can't take care of one child, don't keep making more. Having children doesn't make you a parent. Supporting them, loving them, praising them and taking care of them is what makes you a real parent.

[@duckitarian]

I NEED TO GIVE HER A HUG

[@JulY-mf3ys]

I teared up from this.I can feel her feelings....Like I totally relate to it.She bottled her feeling up so much

[@bongshikkim8271]

Am I the only one who sees a resemblance between her father and YG in terms of voice? It's like they are in the same voice register but different tone level 😂

[@Amir.feedajan222]

soobin is so frikin beautiful

[@fatimatuzzahrahbumidin2]

the mother didnt even hug her at d end . WTF.

[@maris_j]

she is so pretty and if she continue doing ballet, she will be one of the best visual ballerina for sure. i hope she didnt forget her dream and her mother let she do what she wants. and his brother was so nice and cute i love their voices. so gentle and soothing lol

[@chanbaek7687]

his dad looks like!!! he doesn't care about the emotions of her daughter!

[@user-mg7gd6cu1v]

watching this made me cry. i can totally relate to her as i am the oldest and i have 8 little siblings. everyone keeps expect me to do everything. i keep bottling up my emotions that i always cry myself to sleep almost every night.