You don't ask God for a white husband you ask him for a good God-fearing husband who's gonna be a great father to your kids a great provider who's gonna love and respect them and stay by their side through everything.
@traceydumase8 ай бұрын
Wanted to type this too. I don't believe in giving God a list pertaining to the man you end up marrying. God is wise. Simply asking for a husband which He wills for you is more than enough to end up with a loving man.
@phoenixsheikh20798 ай бұрын
Definitely,but she ask a husband not describing what kind of a man she wanted ……
@NN-bq6et8 ай бұрын
@@phoenixsheikh2079она говорила на другом канале, что хотела мзунгу и старше по годам от себя.Она пошла в отель с ним сразу, поехала в Россию не зная его, тпебовала чтоб бросил работу и все продал в России
@bibiayisi41918 ай бұрын
Don't pin this on God, He didn't give you this man
@julietbwalya23448 ай бұрын
Exactly
@bintokiria53388 ай бұрын
When I got disappointed with relationships, I went back to school and added value to myself.
@Nunec8 ай бұрын
Wow. Deep
@theresahamefianu51938 ай бұрын
Exactly, good
@wambuikimani96528 ай бұрын
Exactly she is half baked
@kedibonemonegi80378 ай бұрын
That's true as woman we have to upgrade ourselves before letting someone to help you so that you'll be respected
@vickymoshi60388 ай бұрын
Good move..me also.. Upgrading
@ritaboat28 ай бұрын
Bad marriage can kill you but being single won't kill you 🙏
@lilinee3jeany8658 ай бұрын
Asked God for white husband she’s a wicked woman what’s wrong with black husband 😂😂
@BabalesaConseiller8 ай бұрын
YAH❤❤
@wacerahchege88 ай бұрын
Being single can also kill unless one pray for self-control. 😊
@yvonneoshevwe23348 ай бұрын
Preach!!!!!
@AS-wj1du8 ай бұрын
Not always. My innocent cousin was in her home minding her business and she was single 😢
@Kc-ym3nr3 ай бұрын
Betty is honest. From all she said about him taking care of her when she was sick, travelling to Russia with her, moving back to Kenya because she wanted to, he loved her. Truth is that it was hard for him to live and earn in Kenya which was why he started drinking immediately. Betty, maybe you both could met yourselves half way to live both in Russia and Kenya. Because you both really wanted to be with each other. Your kids are beautiful. May you find so much joy in them. Try developing yourself and appreciating your blessings. Then take one day at a time. You are hugely blessed.
@silveronu3 ай бұрын
exactly . him moving to Kenya was a bad sign. it will be hard for him to work in Kenya amd adjust
@valerycharles4942 ай бұрын
He was an alcoholic well before he moved to Kenya. He may have suppressed his violent tendencies in the beginning, but it’s who he is. Reconciling with him will only prove to him that she will allow him to treat poorly and abuse her, even if he is a provider. How many more strangulation attempts will it take for him to no longer be a good man? We are too delusional at times.
@rosemarykaloki7639Ай бұрын
she could have said she wants to visit her parents because of emergency and leave never to go back again
@Jan-ds1jq8 ай бұрын
i am a white men from the Netherland and my wife is from Afrika we together for 17 years and everyday i treath her like a queen, she is my wife for life, her family is always welcome, sometimes her family stay for 6 month in our hous and thats fine by me. if we go to afrika her whole famlily threat us so good, we can stay as long if we want. i am a bless men
@prestonthompson48487 ай бұрын
Which country because Africa is a large continent…
@rozy_mnk75507 ай бұрын
Gentlemen like you are rare
@skinnydee18867 ай бұрын
@Jan-dis1jq, You and also your wife are very lucky! May God bless you and your family🙏 There are many good men and women in the world and God bless them🙏
@Deematt8717 ай бұрын
Yes as you are from the Netherlands and not Europe. So where in Africa is your queen from?
@AgnessMsangazi7 ай бұрын
Really
@shuntellbradwell49208 ай бұрын
She thought WHITE was better instead of recognizing it isn't the color it is the heart. I hope she learned!
@Loulala7778 ай бұрын
We're in a white supremacist world ... big influence...no??
@cathy8218 ай бұрын
Why do women think getting a white man is the right thing? There’s bad in every race, but when we pray, because we want it so bad we immediately think God answered our prayer when the first person comes along, the red flag was when he offered money for sex, instantly she should have left because that man was not sent by God, my heart goes out to the children that God will not only heal their hearts but the mother as well. We as women must learn to wait on God and be able to identify when and if it’s God🙏🏽
@mariaben75878 ай бұрын
Perfect response. Love your reasoning.
@jesusprinceofpeace13648 ай бұрын
And women today think getting a white is having it all internet has lied to us let’s find a good man God fearing no matter the race but today every woman is looking for a white too bad 😮
@Queen-ze1tm8 ай бұрын
He married his friend, you didn't listen well. The one who offered the money he didn't even know the English so they went apart
@nmcn12108 ай бұрын
It's called self hate
@earlgreat45358 ай бұрын
They were 3 guys... the handsome one who offered money and two others. Her husband was one of the two. At the time, her husband had a girlfriend....so the handsome guy she met at the beach was the one who offered money
@India423.4 ай бұрын
It wasn’t BECAUSE he was white it was because she prayed for a color and not character God is not a shallow God. She definitely answered her own prayer.
@ebychuks97974 ай бұрын
She did ask for character - a good man that will take care of her. God answered a good man as she said just that he was bad tempered, other things she said he was nice to her, even loved to live in Kenya. But she's not living in God's perfect will, so she can't get God's perfect will, only his permissive will as she was living a permissive life as at when she met him.
@Najwa8993 ай бұрын
Satan hears your prayers to God ..He sent that Man for her ..Bad Stuff ftom the Devil
@servantofjesus70503 ай бұрын
Yes. You saying right
@DariusJonesАй бұрын
Preach that truth.
@selloanemabeleng6449Ай бұрын
What happened to Job in the Bible? What did he do to deserve all that happened to him? People should stop thinking they know God and because everything is going well for them that means they pray better
@belovedshername7 ай бұрын
She has a great sense of humor and personality. The greater the storm. The brighter the rainbow!
@gfygfy95127 ай бұрын
But what's up with the titel of this video. What has his skin color to do with anything.. Look at all the baby-mamas in USA where the man is bl ack.. Clearly a bla ck marrige aren't a bed of roses either. It's about love and nothing else, it has nothing to do with color. This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously. Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite! Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders. Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him? Let's see how long this post is up...
@fundimbatha17488 ай бұрын
The devil answered NOT God, God does not add sorrow to his blessings. May God heal you and your children 🙏
@gsabo10008 ай бұрын
" God does not bring sorrow to blessings " Love this.
@Jaydyte8 ай бұрын
True. “The blessing of the LORD, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it” -Proverbs 10:22 Note 👍: from the story, she did not marry the one that appeared after her prayers, she married his friend.
@RamaMohammed-x3v8 ай бұрын
God can give you sorrow. If he wants you to realize your mistakes, and want you to be closer to him.if God test you will sorrow, that doesn't mean God doesn't love you
@fundimbatha17488 ай бұрын
@@RamaMohammed-x3v Proverbs 10:22.
@roselynealima36188 ай бұрын
Sure we have to be keen God protect us all from evil people
@ileenehewitt71328 ай бұрын
I don't know why women think been single is a crime not every marriage is from God almighty
@soniachapman63598 ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELY NOT NOT NOT THIS WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?!?!!!!!!!!! THIS WOMAN is ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY EXTREMELY HAPPY BEING SINGLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@MyJOSE20138 ай бұрын
not a crime but we all love a good marriage
@FikileMilando8 ай бұрын
Don't say every woman talks about those you know
@Jamaica6748 ай бұрын
We are supposed to be married to 1 person, so she wasn't doing anything wrong, but he obviously was just their to purchase whores
@NN-bq6et8 ай бұрын
she wore gold in Russia. What was she missing? She wanted to get his money, but she didn’t need a husband. An aggressive woman, her husband has scars on his body that she gave him
@tiffinyanderson44036 ай бұрын
No one deserves to be abused. I hope Betty is doing well she uses humor to help deal with the abuse. She was naive but brave and brutally honest.
@ashleywest70465 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@Пекинка-с9х5 ай бұрын
Betty's Stories from Kenya is her channel
@NightAlice-y1g5 ай бұрын
I agree, absolutely that she was genuine lazima
@Anonyme675 ай бұрын
There is the husband version
@hotties3v3n5 ай бұрын
🙄
@bethshebankandu13958 ай бұрын
Ladies!!! Let's not be in a Rush getting into Marriage instead Pray wholeheartedly, God's a good listener & he answers Prayers.
@bukolaodunayo32698 ай бұрын
Fact 👌
@marshawright40027 ай бұрын
It could happen to anyone
@GWU-VideoSoul7 ай бұрын
@@marshawright4002 DON'T BE A VICTIM.....👌🏾💯💯✌🏾😎
@latifleah83827 ай бұрын
+@@bukolaodunayo3269
@CelideeBudoromyi7 ай бұрын
Amen
@sharrelgrootboom11168 ай бұрын
I had a alcoholic husband as well I moved to America and he started to drink more and I saw that he started drinking more I separated from him and a few years later I divorced him. I worked 2 jobs and raised 4 kids and bought a house which is paid in full and retired now and thank God for everything he had done for me. We African women are very strong some don't realize it. I came from Africa as well. Thank you Lord Jesus 🙏 💓
@tinkerbell16668 ай бұрын
@sharrelgrootboom. All women are strong.
@jacquelinebourque80418 ай бұрын
@@tinkerbell1666: NOT AT ALL. Most women are weak. I know so!
@charlottebryant75518 ай бұрын
0w by@@Intrigankatru
@judykibinge88638 ай бұрын
@@Intrigankatru I just translated this - it seems you know the couple well and this reporter should have asked husbands side of story.
@SetApart7Generation8 ай бұрын
All women are strong. From every country, I'm from Peru, South America but I don't just see just kne race of women being a strong woman.
@ChisomandPiotr8 ай бұрын
I don't know who needs to hear this, what you've passed or passing through can't be compared with the joy that awaits you. Soon your story will change forever for good❤❤❤
@winnielisa66758 ай бұрын
Amen ...I tap into that blessings
@DrUmarJohnson17 ай бұрын
Slaves said that same EXACT statement 400+ years ago. As Africans [Blacks] we MUST practice racial purity!!!!
@annettemaxwell38167 ай бұрын
God gave her a white man. Exactly what she wanted :).
@debraakinyi28027 ай бұрын
Very true
@shadzie30787 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this 🙏🏾 Amen
@ucovibe18065 ай бұрын
Never " need" a man..never want somebody to take care of you..never be afraid to leave. You still refer to him as your husband..that's a red flag and a sign that your open to taking him back..cut the ties
@simplepapai48328 ай бұрын
Never ran to another man after being heart broken take a break to build yourself emotionally check where you went wrong or where the previous guy went wrong build yourself up. Be fine alone then be careful moving into a new relationship
@christineogolla85198 ай бұрын
Good advice i would also be wise to advice her the same,let het settle her mind and weigh out what she want to do in her life
@klarach79988 ай бұрын
Yes,but some people can be jumping from one relation to another
@rhone7938 ай бұрын
I thank God for answered prayers and the unanswered prayers too. If God doesn’t answer a prayer, be glad about that too. He knows what you don’t know.
@rosiebenjamin53518 ай бұрын
Truth
@louisar42278 ай бұрын
💯
@lilianakeya98688 ай бұрын
👍
@filledechance40638 ай бұрын
100% agree with you
@skinnydee18867 ай бұрын
@rhone793, Exactly! You're a wise individual 👍👏👏👏🙏
@ccw120218 ай бұрын
The sad thing about it is that Betty depends on a man to provide but God is your provider. She will fall for the next individual quickly that comes into her life and I pray she considers those 2 little girls,,, you can’t just let any man into your space now!!!
@geethascharlu70988 ай бұрын
Yes. She should stand on her own provide for herself and kids. Set an example for all others not get the next man ..
@dove67318 ай бұрын
I hope & pray you heal life can be very hard unfortunately we help bad situations because we want so bad to be loved sometimes we pick the wrong person 😲
@karensolomon81228 ай бұрын
Amen!!! Now it’s about protecting her two girls!!!
@ampedhallway8 ай бұрын
Say it again for the people in the back!! Jesus Christ is the only one Who was able to save our damned spirits from hell! So, everything else is small potatoes in comparison!
@joyfullnoize22428 ай бұрын
Everyone makes mistakes
@gailsegal68436 ай бұрын
It's not the color of the skin or religion that defines a person, it is their free will to make the best choices in life.
@СамвелПогосян-я1б20 күн бұрын
Религия важна
@zandilenkabinde90588 ай бұрын
My advice to you is to go to school even trade school. Never depend on a man for your survival and that should be the lesson learned.
@BettyStories25088 ай бұрын
Completely right
@akurutteddy69688 ай бұрын
It wasn't God that answered your prayers, you answered your own prayers.
@yvonnemascoll3568 ай бұрын
Exactly
@nightingale29878 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@wilbrodmadzura84568 ай бұрын
Indeed, we are our own worst enemies worshipping white devils at the same time imbued with self loathing. The grass is never greener on the other side.
@ruthlukah29058 ай бұрын
So insentive of you guys, at least empathize with her.
@mariamachee14388 ай бұрын
@@nightingale2987😂😂😂 what are lies!!😂😂😂
@BiofoodTechCoach8 ай бұрын
The best prayer as a woman is to pray for a God fearing man. Not by color, tribe,etc... just a God fearing Man.
@SinazoTame7 ай бұрын
I married a God fearing man it was terrible being married to him, being god fearing and being a good husband are two different things be specific tell god all the qualities you need in a man.
@tumerua7 ай бұрын
If he abuses you, then he is not actually God fearing. No one fears God and behave ungodly. It is absolutely impossible except he or she is battling demons and in that case, they'll need deliverance 🙌🏽
@funmilolaogundiya92187 ай бұрын
Exactly
@paulinekendie80817 ай бұрын
Even the devil fears God😊
@daisylavender52757 ай бұрын
God fearing man?!?!? Good luck with that.
@FilleDesSoucoupesVolantes5 ай бұрын
Don't ever let a man stop you from going to school. Never depend on a man for money. Get your degrees and be independent.
@shankaron223 ай бұрын
That’s what am planning right now 🥲🥹
@RiaG7773 ай бұрын
Exactly 🙌💪🏼👍🙏
@NyangieNyangie8 ай бұрын
I like the way Afrimax is keenly listening with all the gestures. Sometimes you really just want to be listened to as you pour away all the pain. It's a therapy.
@bettyearle76448 ай бұрын
Strange situation
@triniandahalf8 ай бұрын
Yes, the Interviewer is the BEST❤. So patient and sincerely listening.
@monet33207 ай бұрын
Weird editing choices to play clips of him beaming in her face while she’s talking about very dark parts in her marriage
@MissJackieBrown16 ай бұрын
She is so brave and transparent. Most people are judgemental but she was naive. It happens to so many others. She is so brave to speak up even though people will shame her. I am happy she is strong, a survivor, and great personality. She is very admirable in my book. Sharing her story can help so many young women.
@sebiotimonicholas83766 ай бұрын
Yeah, I agree. You're 💯% correct 👍🏾
@killa464646 ай бұрын
Agrée 😊
@Пекинка-с9х5 ай бұрын
Betty's Stories from Kenya is her channel
@dr.arsenialucy51004 ай бұрын
To be a Mom and raise 2 children is so difficult, much more to have a very irresponsible husband like him. He needs to be cured . He is an alcoholic. The lady is strong and brave
@sandrabarnaby69143 ай бұрын
😢check out the Bull before you buy them could be a fighting Bull.
@sureiamboo7 ай бұрын
She is very brave to tell her story. Everyone has a different story to tell about their lives. Let’s learn to respect one another’s life journey!!! My life is very brutal & dramatic, I cannot dare to tell , I have black out lots of my trauma. I real respect her vulnerability & openness of telling her traumatic story !!! Sending you strength & love sister ❤️
@elo-adassa7 ай бұрын
😢
@Michelle-gw4db7 ай бұрын
What ever you are going through, I'm praying for you ❤️ no one deserves to be messed treated. Prayers sent for you.
@pambeforethestorm97846 ай бұрын
I pray you are healing from whatever trauma you went thru. No one deserves that. Take care and sending you lots of love and virtual hugs! 💖💕💖💕💛✨️✨️✨️
@sureiamboo6 ай бұрын
@@pambeforethestorm9784 Thank you so much ❤️
@pambeforethestorm97846 ай бұрын
@@sureiamboo you are more than welcome ❤️❤️
@halofomsultan15016 ай бұрын
It is all about her. When she was depressed from being alone in Russia, she felt she needed change that the man answered by going back to Kenya with her. Then the exact same thing happened to her man who was resorting to drinking as a coping mechanism. Her answer was different in a wrong way. None of them is to blame in this case. They need to see a therapist to understand their early childhood upbringings that shaped their current behavior. Otherwise blaming this and that is not going to help at all but it will take things from bad to worse.
@ericmungai7086 ай бұрын
Wise comment
@lisetteem5885 ай бұрын
quite right. I think this idea is made by black men because we all know in general, theyre not reliable.
@tumwebazeccynthiamwiiza84735 ай бұрын
I agrée however their responses were different. Whilst she planned to go back to Kenya, he resorted to abuse.
@lisetteem5885 ай бұрын
@@tumwebazeccynthiamwiiza8473 or did he.. I tend to think it is a pack of lies.
@Minime6695 ай бұрын
Right
@RUZHOFFS8 ай бұрын
Very beautiful story telling. Exactly what I tell people on my channel. Interracial marriages are very complex and are not always a bed of roses. To Betty, thanks for sharing your story. I hope it empowers someone out there who is desperate and thinks a white man is the only way forward. God bless you and your little beautiful girls. Love from Germany 🇩🇪
@RUZHOFFS8 ай бұрын
@@OdunZee thank you 🙏
@gailjones70448 ай бұрын
She's poisoned her womb with that devil's seed.
@GesunddurchWissen8 ай бұрын
Most marriages are not a bed of roses. I have a mixed marriage and things started getting bad when we moved to Africa. It didn't affect our relationship but it puts a lot of stress from the outside world unto the relationship and makes it much more complicated as in a developed country where everything is well organised and almost everything works. Here it's the opposite and my wife suffers with me
@Мартика-ь8у8 ай бұрын
В накладе она не осталась .
@Tokewittoots8 ай бұрын
Not all interracial relationships are bad. I have been in mine for about 13 years. He is a kind good man. A gentleman. Don't look at race for love. Let love come naturally no matter the race. God bless you 🙏
@chikochiringa72478 ай бұрын
There are some people in comments who are very Judgemental, I appreciate her for taking the time to tell her story most people wouldn't..Instead of Judging lets learn something
@Arielzis8 ай бұрын
Those judges have no empathy. It make me sick.
@Theforce88888 ай бұрын
It's not judging we should be held accountable for our actions. Most of african women believe marrying a whiteman solves their problems. Family members are the worst at this. God does not breed contempt neither does he bring confusion. The devil equally hears prayers that's why it's important to seek the face of God before anything.
@Whisperwomaneq28 ай бұрын
@@Arielzis You do realize that you just judged them too?
@erickamiller4588 ай бұрын
What did you learn from her story?
@chikochiringa72478 ай бұрын
@@erickamiller458 I learnt that I would never have the guts to tell my life story😅 She's brave trust me
@MargretMcgill8 ай бұрын
All young men and women please ask God for a godly partner that fill with peace, joy, love and understanding. Never ask God for a color partner.
@cinnamonstar8088 ай бұрын
but white Jesus!!!
@LR241348 ай бұрын
User! Exactly💯💯💯👍👍👍
@gracemunyoki8 ай бұрын
💯 true
@khosiethabekhulu34978 ай бұрын
@@cinnamonstar808According to? And what is wrong with being white? Is it a sin? Is it wrong?
@rosealexander90078 ай бұрын
@@khosiethabekhulu3497believe in or not there is a group of people in the United States that have been brainwashed to believe that being born white is a sin. They call themselves the Hebrew Israelites.
@nabbutomajorine286 ай бұрын
She is an honest girl and a good story teller. I love her energy. Im from Uganda. You girl God will see you through oo
@fikileneo18048 ай бұрын
When the person you love wants to leave, please allow them to go and if they are meant for you they will surely come back. Than ending in blood shade.
@joycefuraha64038 ай бұрын
True
@LuxxuryPlush7 ай бұрын
Yes always let them go it get so bad if you force them to stay
@katherinebilly69917 ай бұрын
When God sends you someone to share your life with, He doesn't send you a broken person for you to fix.
@pambeforethestorm97846 ай бұрын
Beautifully said and so true!!! 💖💕💖💕💛✨️✨️✨️
@sandrabentley81116 ай бұрын
But God doesn't always send you what you want but what you NEED! Maybe, finally this experience helped her grow up and be independent.
@star450star5 ай бұрын
AMEN. ABUSIVE N JERKY. OMG. HE WAS A devil🛑✝️ 9:45 . 🛑👺👹👺👹👹👹🛑✝️😇😇😇😇😇✝️🛑🙏🏾
@star450star5 ай бұрын
@@sandrabentley8111THIS IS NOT GOD. ABUSIVE JERK.
@angelahoward41473 ай бұрын
@@katherinebilly6991 Hallelujah
@tetaduncan76258 ай бұрын
It was not GOD that answered your prayers my dear, The blessing of GOD add no sorrow. Every good and perfect gift comes from GOD.
@juliennesoniamalabomakong90218 ай бұрын
I disagree! He's her husband but she is the cause of him to fall apart.
@julietbwalya23448 ай бұрын
@@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021yes yes
@Silvija5518 ай бұрын
@@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021алкоголь стал причиной развала семьи.
@roselandebazelais82368 ай бұрын
@@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021How you know??? GOD told you that???
@jerryp4478 ай бұрын
The lesson is be careful what you ask God for. Remember the story of Jonah in the bible what he asked for then regretted it? This lady seem to have issue with her own race and maybe God allowed her to find a whiteman to teach her a lesson saying good is in every race. Nothing is wrong in marrying another race but our motives must be correct. Some folks marry the white man and is not happy with the relationship but they believe they look cool to the outside world so they live a lie. An Inferiority complex.
@inneswiaty5835 ай бұрын
I really like the interviewer, it's the second interview I see of him and he seems so interested and full off compassion.
@Tin_wanjala6 күн бұрын
True. I love that about him.
@monalisatselane50937 ай бұрын
Been with my white man for 25 years and we are still in love. We had some hurdles along the way, but we always worked them out. There is something deeper going on here, please be strong
@madamchoco37967 ай бұрын
Exactly ! People focusing on the fact that the husband was white …this can happen with anyone 🥹
@soumailaouedraogo60906 ай бұрын
YOU don't know yet, he wants YOU to be old and he's going to divorce you
@angelasealey61456 ай бұрын
🎉 by my
@alabra33505 ай бұрын
Advice her please. Most people in the comments are enemies of marriage. Sasha is a good man. Three years with her in Russia isn't a short time.
@orlandoromero225 ай бұрын
@@alabra3350I believe in marriage, I am interacial marriage, but that young lady betty SHOULD never be beaten by Anyone. Sasha probally WAS a good man but he needs therapy b4 a wife.
@motivationstartsnow8 ай бұрын
Empathy and self-awareness is something we should all pray for 😑
@LiLisLounge7 ай бұрын
I am a "mzungu," and I have no idea why some people think that it's better to marry a mzungu. We are definitely not all rich, and wazungu have problems too! We are all human beings!
@zandibuckland16527 ай бұрын
Your forefathers have polluted us into hating ourselves and believing that your race is superior than others. Nowadays the media is controlled and owned by your people and paint as low so we’ve been programmed to believe that white is right and black is wrong. But we are slowly waking up to the truth.
@SkyeMeester6 ай бұрын
its a persons choice to date a certain race. character has nothing to do with colour
@SicilianMa6 ай бұрын
That's exactly what she's saying @@SkyeMeester
@graacie26 ай бұрын
@user-jr8ou8ui8m u didn't understand comment
@kermundupatricia56106 ай бұрын
Not all want white men for their wealth, maybe want cappuccino babies
@akinjoadeola11826 ай бұрын
The problem started when she insisted that they relocate back to Kenya, forgetting that Russia is the man's place of comfort too. He is good man affected by change of environment
@cynthiaweir56976 ай бұрын
He was an alcoholic long before he was with her. That was his downfall.
@sallyvalley31796 ай бұрын
This lady is an example of stupidity
@colemand4025 ай бұрын
I think that's what happened too, that's why he wanted to kill himself
@Пекинка-с9х5 ай бұрын
@@colemand402 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@nishamcclain54375 ай бұрын
There's no excuse for him. Kenya is her place of comfort. So maybe they move to an unbiased, neutral place
@gloriasaah51188 ай бұрын
He really loved you, to leave everything behind and start fresh in Kenya. I think he became depressed when he came to Kenya, just the way you got depressed in Moscow. I pray God strengthens you both.
@Salome-xk9ov8 ай бұрын
True
@joyceidornigie46318 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@stellachingozho89938 ай бұрын
Very true. She needed to listen to him when he suggested to move from her village. He is also missing his job. Drinking started as a way of coping, then ended up escalating. Yes, he now needs medical help and help to go back to his country.
@rhodahluvayo77698 ай бұрын
True
@carolkami.6718 ай бұрын
Sure, they both need healing.. this is a story with so many lessons to learn..and the good thing is there is hope for Betty, Sasha and the 2 lovely kids..
@lottatroublemaker61308 ай бұрын
In Norway, we have a saying that translates to something like «If you move, the goblins come with you!» («goblins» are beings that represent all your problems, your problematic husband or wife etc. etc.). So when you have a lot of problems, just moving somewhere else won’t help you. You have to deal with your problems, face them right on, or nothing will be better. Wishing her the very best!!! ❤❤❤✝️⚓️💟❤❤❤
@Sofia-dl9vw8 ай бұрын
love this saying. I will use this in future. So true. Great story by the way and a very beautiful woman too! Greetings from a Kenyan hustling in Toronto!
@LucieVital8 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing! You are kind and wise. ✨♥️
@Meikles8888 ай бұрын
You have self esteem issues and you got what you deserved
@bodhisattva23488 ай бұрын
Exactly
@chilekwak.chilekwaii49608 ай бұрын
I am from Northern Zambia (Bemba by ethnicity) and we have a similar saying "Leprechaun, like our shadows, can never leave us alone. They will forever follow us where ever we go" This means pretty much like your saying in Norway and can also mean a lot other things such as "You can never escape problems or death as we are all susceptible to personal problems (Finances, personal bills, relationship problems, ill-health and even death). And as relates death, it said that death is the only destination we all share, rich or poor, white or black, Asian, Yellow, brown, male, female, gay, straight, religious or not, educated or not, foreigner or local" It also assumes that merely being born in country A and migrating to country B, will not stop you from being sick or dying. You will certainly get sick or die wherever you will go. So what are you to do? Live and let live! Face your problems head-on and deal with them...never rely on others to SORT out your problems.
@TheFacelessTraveller7 ай бұрын
I wish people would show compassion and grace with their comments. She admits she made mistakes and at that point she wanted her marriage to work, but it wasn’t with the right person. Betty, you’re a strong woman and I pray you find the peace you seek. May God be with you and give you wisdom to make better choices for yourself and your daughters. We are all allowed to make mistakes in life because there’s always a lesson in it. The interviewer was so graceful to allow her to share her story without interruption. Your next chance is coming up and I pray it’ll be one of peace and joy! All is well Betty!
@NN-bq6et7 ай бұрын
This woman is a swindler, with hysterics she forced her husband to sell everything in Russia and leave for Kenya. And in Kenya she took everything away from her husband, and now she asks people, viewers for money for her maintenance, but she herself doesn’t want to go to work.
@lindacouncil13537 ай бұрын
Yeah...I married a " white" man instead of I married the wrong man. Attention ho
@SuperApril707 ай бұрын
excellent comment
@lindacouncil13537 ай бұрын
Well I wish I never married my "black" husband...maybe that's what people have a problem with. you think ???
@TheFacelessTraveller7 ай бұрын
@@lindacouncil1353 i didn’t elude to race, I focused on the person. So context please?
@EpicureanGemini6 ай бұрын
I don't get this story for one second. You lived well in Russia and he provided for you. How did you expect him to provide for the family when that's not his village or language? You could have tried your best to adjust to life in Russia or plan more vacations for your home sickness. Just as you were depressed, he was depressed
@jumnehbaby7144 ай бұрын
This is exactly what I'm seeing here. I see a depressed man.
@yttelbruinsma95033 ай бұрын
@@jumnehbaby714that doesn’t give him the right to hit her!
@bindujoseph83553 ай бұрын
I agree with you. The only thing I disagree with, is the abuse.
@theresa8058 ай бұрын
Life abroad can be very lonely. Even in English speaking countries like UK, you can still feel alone as people keep to themselves
@nancysahi17498 ай бұрын
I agree
@Lilassi8 ай бұрын
Very true
@chefjaji42258 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@Esleen8 ай бұрын
Which country are you
@luismartins8548 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯 correct I can testify to that into your courts room loneliness is a last name in UK
@outcognito8 ай бұрын
You weren't specific about your prayer. You just prayed for a white man. You got a white man. You didn't ask for a kind, thoughtful, loving person, someone who would treat you with respect. Your prayer was granted as you requested.
@carmennicholson28678 ай бұрын
21:11 21:20 21:20 21:35 21:35
@carmennicholson28678 ай бұрын
21:11 21:20 21:20 21:35 21:35
@carmennicholson28678 ай бұрын
21:11 21:20 21:20 21:35 21:35
@tahliah66918 ай бұрын
Exactly 👌🏾 God knows that people are strong headed and don’t listen so He will leave you to your fate after giving you clear red flags 🚩
@joanojeigbe83898 ай бұрын
He was kind and thoughtful until when she frustrated him and made him leave his good job in Russia, to move back with her to Kenya; how can she say she was lonely just because her husband went to work weekdays just to earn a good living for them; if it were possible, I believe he would have tried working from home just to please her and make her stay with him, but due to the nature of his job. She herself confirmed that he never hit all through the time they lived together in Russia and she described his temper AND HER temper as minor issues back then, even saying he treated her as a queen; so why didn't she just stay and focus on the benefits in her home in Russia. Now everything is shattered, the innocent children are suffering, and the man is now a shadow of his once upon a time successful self. Her insisting on leaving him in Russia to go back to Kenya with his child, resulted to a worse situation for them all. She should reconcile with him, and HUMBLY HELP him overcome the problems her decision has caused them all. Also the family was not God-centred, nor prayerful, nor involving God in their decisions. They need to repent too
@everythingbeautifulalways61188 ай бұрын
Alcohol always destroys family always.
@EvalynLyimo8 ай бұрын
imagine saudu arabia is now actually allowing alcohol to be sold and drunk there,they shall all become zombies in the future.
@lillyjohnson90238 ай бұрын
Vodka is their food because of the weather
@Passion4078 ай бұрын
And Russian men are extremely heavy drinkers.
@maviskaseni8 ай бұрын
True
@jolantavvheeler58278 ай бұрын
She drinks too
@jn89226 ай бұрын
That Russian man married an uneducated village girl who was very naive... She said he was a doctor? This was not a marriage from God... This was a marriage from hell. She was very ambitious looking for a white man to give her everything and she keeps saying she wants a husband to take care of her over and over again. Your husband is not your father and you can't be so naive to believe life is a fairytale and you'll be treated like a queen because life has struggles. He should have rather left her instead of drinking. Him abusing her is unforgiveable but she is not innocent either. She's not a victim because even after he beat her, she didn't leave and she got pregnant again. They were both toxic people. I wish I could hear his side of the story. I do feel sorry for him and I don't think he was a bad man. I think he went mad in Kenya and it was because of this woman. So it's a lesson for all of us to stay away from toxic people and leave toxic relationships. Never marry anyone who sees you as an opportunity and never stay with an abuser.
@carcher32796 ай бұрын
Yes sir. I agree! all of this could have been prevented.
@valvihk36493 ай бұрын
I don't think you should be blaming her for his behavior. Other than that I agree with you.
@KeziahWahura3 ай бұрын
I agree with you 💯
@orlandoromero223 ай бұрын
I agree with some of what you said. He was already a troubled man in addiction.She was young & wanted a family. But I don't think she wanted him to take care of her I think she wanted to build with a husband. She was sad in his country,him in hers, the whole situation was bad. She deserves a beautiful outcome.
@blossomwhyte47873 ай бұрын
She married an alcoholic. Unfortunately this is the case in Russia, too many drunks regardless of profession. Two beautiful children.
@ranigovender32528 ай бұрын
Life is not a bed of roses. You take the thorns with the flowers. Perfection does not exist. Beware what you pray for
@LR241348 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯💯💯👍👍👍
@Keenytravels7 ай бұрын
She is a very strong and patient woman.She deserves nothing but the best.
@firdows...6 ай бұрын
She was desperate asf and unfortunately many black girls think the same
@DianaRose-yn8ux7 ай бұрын
That lady didn't know what she wanted in a man. She has seen international relationships and created a scenario in her head. So when she asked for a white man as her husband, the devil sent exactly what she wanted. He was once the angel of light after all
@aminasesayaminata13226 ай бұрын
Trust,she rush everything
@peggymarak77355 ай бұрын
Her hair also a wig i think
@lesegogaebeeyn40054 ай бұрын
Whites partners make beautiful babies period
@Jesuhra4 ай бұрын
This was not God but the devil …and evil spirits from her bloodline and she was not grounded enough in the word of God to know the difference. I pray that she overcome and put shame to the devil. You are a beautiful girl you can make it Jesus loves you. You’re a strong woman . God bless you.
No, my sister. God will never give you an abusive husband. It was not God. I pray you heal from whatever happened to you, but don't blame God, its not His fault.
@WanjuguNdii2 ай бұрын
Abused husband are given by Satan???
@Millie-q6x8 ай бұрын
The owner of the shoes knows where it hurts. Do not judge this lady. Life happens but God is truly faithful ❤
@maureengolding29807 ай бұрын
People are not praying for an answer from God. Ok.
@Newport19308 ай бұрын
Just ask God to send you a good partner doesn’t matter what colour they are.
@saidatabby47978 ай бұрын
No... actually, you have to be specific in your prayers
@Teestar5198 ай бұрын
@@saidatabby4797wrong!!! Humans are all human and breath same way an bleed same way!! We are ALL the same other than some have more melanin than others but other than skin colour we are ALL the same!! HUMANS!!! We ALL bleed n breath the same regardless of colour of skin ❤❤
@ogi1978 ай бұрын
@@Teestar519Educate them sista...folks are ignorant in these comments. They do not think logically.
@faythmodiey43108 ай бұрын
@@saidatabby4797really😢😢basi cjui kuomba.O.MG😭😭😭
@DrUmarJohnson17 ай бұрын
@@Teestar519 Europeans don't think that whatsoever! They ONLY appear to be happy when Africans [Blacks] are suffering. Our skin tone tells a story, and for centuries Europeans have deemed those with darker skin ugly, ungodly, untrustworthy, and unworthy
@elsiemuyeshi95418 ай бұрын
From her stories, you can tell that her Russian husband started suffering from depression in Kenya. People handle depression differently.
@nicklaus85368 ай бұрын
i think there was stress from a very different lifestyle than what he was used to. And then drinking to avoid it. Vicious cycle
@Нажия-у7у8 ай бұрын
@@nicklaus8536Вы оба ошибаетесь. Саша и в России был и плохим человеком и алкоголиком. От него ушла первая русская жена. И Саша обманул своего сына. Он абьюзер и расист. Приехал в Кению быть белым господином, надеялся,что рабство еще не кончилось
@tatjanavasiljeva38318 ай бұрын
@@Нажия-у7у ,чернильница ты.
@julietbwalya23448 ай бұрын
True
@RoselinePius-z3w8 ай бұрын
I swear to God depression can turn you to another version of yourself I don't blame him.
@tobikeeney1766 ай бұрын
Been with a white man for 18 yrs with 3 kids. We moved back to my country but we had a big plan before doing it and he is thriving and successful here. I asked God for a God fearing , good husband and father and He sent him in a lighter skinned 😊
@peacehappyb2376 ай бұрын
Ahhhh sweet.
@akdhamial52605 ай бұрын
But why marry a white man anyhow? When you don't have anything else in common? Why?
@susanandfamilycookingtv8 ай бұрын
This is very big lessons for women not to be desperate for men,but wait on GOD TIME,and our destined husband will come,not a devil in human,some women call husbands.I really think for the little kids🙏🏽for them to find themselves in such situation.I hope many desperate women will learn from her story,thank GOD for his guidance 🙏🏽
@Мартика-ь8у8 ай бұрын
Да в какой она ситуации оказалась ?) Актриса прогорелого театра. Аферистка
@KenyanWarrior8 ай бұрын
@@Мартика-ь8уhow is she a swindler? Do you know her?
@pastorannneema8 ай бұрын
There's no way we can demonize this man. I would say he was a good loving man who surrendered everything in Russian that he owned and followed the woman in a third world country to start from nothing. The man seems to have been going through some mental or psychological problems that needed some therapy. I wish they sought that kind of help right from the beginning; their marriage would have survived. The woman seemed also not to understand that then. Good that she understands the man needs some help. Someone please reach out to him for help. I don't think naturally he was a bad person. May God help him out.
@NovemberReigne8 ай бұрын
No,May God help her and their two children out
@delteenanewman53038 ай бұрын
I think so too they both need help
@monicanwatu13668 ай бұрын
You are quite right. The man made lots of sacrifices. They both loved each other but here we see love is not nearly enough to withstand it the hash realities of interracial union. You can't completely detach from your root without conflict that may lead to having psychological trauma as you try so hard to make compromise. It's a sad story.
@pastorannneema8 ай бұрын
@@monicanwatu1366 You said it right. Absolutely.
@ej25078 ай бұрын
Yeah. As I continued watching the program, I can tell he may have missed his family
@sianrapei6918 ай бұрын
He was actually a good man. You can see that he was very determined to keep his family together. He was just frustrated. The village is no place for foreigners, especially men. They need a place where they can work and meet people who relates to them. She was equally miserable in Russia but she had a baby and a house to keep her busy. She still almost went crazy. That situation could have been managed with better understanding.
@stellachingozho89938 ай бұрын
Yes, she was not understanding. The situation was not managed well. The guy really loved her.
@Accuface20008 ай бұрын
She was poor and uneducated. These types are not good for relationships because they think money comes from trees, and often they don't appreciate. It's not about the village. Men can survive alone, while women are dependents putting pressure on the husband.
@sarahwexs37888 ай бұрын
My thinking too
@houseofesimu8 ай бұрын
I think so too
@SouthernAfrican_in_Ghana8 ай бұрын
@sianrapei691 this is the comment i was looking for, the man loved this woman but a lot of misunderstanding took place. its sad because most of relationships break like this. the story of the passport says it all. he went to the point of thiniking she hit his passport which she ddnt. i hope she finds peace she is a good woman. wish her well and the kids.
@edithjin10365 ай бұрын
What a tragedy. It's so sad that two people who loved each other fell apart in such away. Its not a matter of colour, it's communication. Im sorry for your loss. You are an amazing person Betty.
@Пекинка-с9х5 ай бұрын
Betty's story from Kenya is her channel
@patiencemtetwa8 ай бұрын
From this story I have learned a lesson. Pray for a God fearing man 🙏🏽
@cinnamonstar8088 ай бұрын
She dishonored her ancestors. Anytime you do that things go bad
@jadathompson55808 ай бұрын
Amen for me too
@RuthOsas-ot7hw8 ай бұрын
Am telling u,dats wat my mum always say pray for a God fearing man
@cassandrastanton79558 ай бұрын
And don’t marry outside your race!!!!
@pointa2b3888 ай бұрын
Those are worse
@ln25428 ай бұрын
dear sister. that man loved you ...he left everything he had in Russia because of you and had to start from scratch in kenya - this was not easy. just as it was not easy for you in Russia. May the Lord heal both of you. Love and prayers.
@Valentina639-348 ай бұрын
этот человек любил алкоголь больше чем жену . Он променял семью и детей на алкоголь . Он пропил квартиру , которая досталась ему от матери , а из России он уехал тоже изза проблем с алкоголем , его выгоняли с работы и новую найти было все тяжелее . Захотел стать белым господином в Кении .
@karma-pt2tt8 ай бұрын
@@user-x34ghj89fg ч не против , иметь много денег это отлично , главное не жадничать , а помогать тем у кого их нет . Вот я и помогаю кенийской семье российского алкоголика . А ты помогаешь этому алкоголику на ежедневную выпивку . Я детям алкоголика намеду и жизнь , ты алкоголику на виски , сигареты и проституток .
@queenexellent98548 ай бұрын
May be he had another family in Russia 😮😮😊😊
@queenexellent98548 ай бұрын
@@karma-pt2ttthat makes sense
@NovemberReigne8 ай бұрын
@@queenexellent9854he probably did
@addiewilliams46448 ай бұрын
In her journey I strongly believe the women in her family, gave her advice yet she refused to listen to instructions. GOD always give you a warning before destruction.
@monicahasumani89138 ай бұрын
Whether it's a strong belief, I also strongly belief opinions aren't actually the truth, you can't have a strong belief of someone's chaotic life from just listening to a one hour clip...
@SerahMuinde-g5tАй бұрын
I can relate, living in our unfinished house, starting up a chicken farm, neighbours Stealing from us, our expectations differing, continous disagreements, confusion, drug abuse,and desperation at some point. My foreign husband wanted so bad to live in kenya but i faced him and told him how hard it was for a business to survive there. We relocated to his country, i would say, the only bad thing there ,was the boredom, being new, but as time passes by you get used and get into the system, work hard and make your own money( which is the best solution)
@brendadaniel99178 ай бұрын
God's answers never back fire....when you pray ask for confirmation from God❤
@micorazon52168 ай бұрын
Atimes God give us what he want especially when we insist the prayer should be in accordance to his will.
@kediboneshushu28917 ай бұрын
Beautiful vlog oh Gugu your topic touched me. Turned 45 and married still no kids , but will never give up on having kids. Thanks Gugu❤❤❤❤
@everythingbeautifulalways61188 ай бұрын
Most of us experience,heart break... pick up the pieces and move on.
@Gabrielle-j9z8 ай бұрын
I've experienced heartbreak and I'm still healing
@gloryruth6158 ай бұрын
Yes! me moving on with 5 kids God on our side
@everythingbeautifulalways61188 ай бұрын
@@gloryruth615 My mom moved on with four,most of us women still hurting...we can't sit around...we have to do it especially for our children.
@Ragnheiour_Olafurdottier1116 ай бұрын
When she said even the chickens were stealing that took me out lol. I love her personality in the face of adversity
@LindaTinahTV8 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for what she went through. Sometimes you are better off a lone than in an abusive relationship.
@78SR7 ай бұрын
Not sometimes. ALWAYS!!!!!
@LindaTinahTV7 ай бұрын
@@78SR yes. Better alone than in an abusive relationship.
@DrUmarJohnson17 ай бұрын
@@LindaTinahTV Our sister allowed her self-hate blind her to the realities of Europeans.
@josephjames83638 ай бұрын
Be careful for what you wish for
@benbo70428 ай бұрын
True
@mekajones72738 ай бұрын
Right
@maryokafor72388 ай бұрын
Kan
@miss.pinkpanther8 ай бұрын
Ikr...
@LR241348 ай бұрын
Exactly👍👍👍💯💯💯
@Nonhlanhla-f1f8 ай бұрын
You meet someone one day and move in for 3days with a stranger, its not good just to throw yourself on a man.
@NovemberReigne8 ай бұрын
She was so glad to have Sasha, it didn't matter whether he was a good provider or not
@Nonhlanhla-f1f8 ай бұрын
@@NovemberReigne At the end the results were so bad and it ruines one's future.
@kimone53218 ай бұрын
That’s not smart
@juagbejohnson29318 ай бұрын
Stop judging her
@juagbejohnson29318 ай бұрын
All the villagers charming against her because of jealousy
@thabsilechamane37743 ай бұрын
I love her sense of humor, she’s beautiful and she has a testimony
@RachealHabura8 ай бұрын
God answered your prayer to give other women this awareness...God has his own way of things.... your a strong lady
@carolkami.6718 ай бұрын
Dear Betty, my lovely sister from Embu..there is hope for you..from today, please re-trace your steps and start afresh coz you can do it. Forgive yourself and Sasha as well... start going for therapy too..I'm praying for you and i look forward to hear the new wonderful story that is being birthed from now.. I too I'm on an intentional healing journey and i pray we succeed in this new chapter of our lives..our tomorrow will be greater than today 🙏
@goergetobias72068 ай бұрын
Well central Kenya women are golddiggers. You know what your doing don't blame the man he play game your playing..Now you got kids with him you will have to be rich for another man to accept you
@Heloo1818 ай бұрын
Amen
@tashleyskalsson24728 ай бұрын
Níati my namesake
@Beautifullynah8 ай бұрын
Never dare God... the moment u said if u dont give me am gonna end my life it was not God who answered ur prayer ..the devil took control...am sorry dear..for all u have gone through..God will see u through
@wakumarobert25426 ай бұрын
I am from Uganda, my sister thank you so much for a story, however nothing else, but only God is your maker "Jeremiah 1:4" says he new you before you're formed in your mother's womb, therefore get saved God will do more than man can for you. Thank u
@olamao7868 ай бұрын
I I like her humour despite all odds she kept the spirit going. Accept it as destiny that how God has designed your part
@gfygfy95127 ай бұрын
What's up with the titel of this video. What has his skin color to do with anything.. Look at all the baby-mamas in USA where the man is bl ack.. Clearly a bla ck marrige aren't a bed of roses either. It's about love and nothing else, it has nothing to do with color. This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously. Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite! Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders. Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him? Let's see how long this post is up...
@Theblessedlifewithlala8 ай бұрын
You can’t find love with someone else if your don’t love yourself enough first and have a relationship with the Most High. My God bless her and children and keep them. Heal there hearts from the trauma that they all have suffered.
@gfygfy95127 ай бұрын
This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously. Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite! Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders. Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him? Let's see how long this post is up...
@theresaelizabethelijah1177 ай бұрын
That stomachache was a sign that she met a devil/narcissist but she didn't listen to her intuition your body reacts when you meet a bad person 😢
@nancyv66617 ай бұрын
He did everything for her at first He loved her a lot.He left everything behind for her when russia wasn't good enough for her. She just wasn't ready for that type of life but she thought she was.
@analisten88027 ай бұрын
You're very naive my dear, that man gave all his life took loan after selling everything he worked for and she moved him to a village because of her selfishness to be with her family what about him he's not an animal for God sake what's wrong with ur brain he was frustrated and depress and wanted to live noooo she hide his pasport she needed the house finish for her family well u gonna believe the nonsense she didn't take it
@ketiajoseph59397 ай бұрын
You are blaming her? He was heavily drinking, tried to strangle her and still you are blaming her? I swear women are our own worst enemies @@nancyv6661
@Datz-Donna7 ай бұрын
@@nancyv6661The man was sick when she met him. All the emotional spending paying for her hospital bills exhausting all of his vacation money tells me that he was already unstable. To her he was a guardian angel but she was severely ill, incapable of seeing his flaws. He's much older so much more is expected.
@gfygfy95127 ай бұрын
Yeah what's up with the titel of this video. What has his skin color to do with anything.. This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously. Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite! Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders. Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him? Let's see how long this post is up...
@ngomelaura82826 ай бұрын
She's quite eloquent for a secondary school drop out.
@faiezaebrahim77728 ай бұрын
I had a similar life as yours. Yet my husband was never a drinker. He copied the life of his parents and replayed their role for 25yrs. But being a strong woman and strong in my faith. GOD turned him into a new humble man. We now together 34yrs
@Shiro-WanderlustGPS8 ай бұрын
Amen
@Laëtitia-g5s8 ай бұрын
Out of 34 years, you burdened yourself with his abuse for 25 years. Man, that wasn't worth it
@solomonoupamakola8 ай бұрын
Amen. What matters is that, in the end everything was good 😊.. you did well to pray for him.
@tuche32197 ай бұрын
Wow, Glory to God 👏👏
@ChildofGod987658 ай бұрын
God's light never goes out. He is ever present and awake to our needs!" There are so many different obstacles that I face as a single mom. I’m struggling to make ends meet. Both of my sons are special needs and require much from me. I keep faith because I know that God will provide. So as I struggle to buy groceries for my children, and as I struggle to pay rent every month. I turn to God! He is our provider. He is our God. He will strengthen us.
@anekamiller57988 ай бұрын
Amen
@soniachapman63598 ай бұрын
May God Continue to Bless Keep, & Strengthen you sis., Continue staying encouraged by relying On Him. Prayers.🙏🏽
@NN-bq6et8 ай бұрын
А она ничего не делает, только просит деньги у других
@cutecate54078 ай бұрын
@@NN-bq6etis she asking for your money 😂
@Masitsa18 ай бұрын
Amen
@annejoyce74947 ай бұрын
Uprooting her husband and kids from Russia because she was bored, complaining she rarely saw her husband when he is actually working to feed them, how did she think they ate, paid bills etc and then going to live in Ishiara where this man would have become depressed and hopeless and becoming alcoholic...then all the businesses being robbed by her employees, money he worked all his life. And when he tried to leave to go to mtwapa, she was stopping him....because it was always what she wanted, always me, myself and I, family think together....your husband left work in Russia for you and the kids because he wanted his family in one place....it is your turn to work and pay your way, you are young
@LDOH-BUSINESS6 ай бұрын
She was so selfish and worse of it bringing fam/friends to the relationship....Dummy
@nanayaadanko14526 ай бұрын
Exactly she brought a man down … she needed to be a follower since she wasn’t providing so she decided she needed to make he own money at any cost…. She couldn’t play the role of supporting… Russians drink but they function… being married to an alcoholic myself will take him anyday
@sandraraini61955 ай бұрын
This made him an alcoholic, it’s was all about her
@moreenkangethe6 ай бұрын
May God bless her and her children. Thats so brave of her to share her story. I pray she may find peace and happiness in life. We've learnt alot
@2346217948 ай бұрын
Betty, you were not thinking about his mental well-being, just as you were suffering mentally in Russia. May God help you all
@khosiethabekhulu34978 ай бұрын
Yah! I think he suffered mentally. I don't understand why she left Russia... They had a better life there. There was nothing in Kenya for him.
@gathonimargaret8388 ай бұрын
She's mean
@mollyokun86538 ай бұрын
It wasn't both of u it was circumstances. He was a good husband just depressed as u were also depressed in his country. He had enough of it mentally. Wish u a better end
@NatashaSophia138 ай бұрын
I don’t need to be mean and I don’t want to sugarcoat things. Betty lack love and empathy and she’s selfish.
@Lighterinma7 ай бұрын
@NatashaSophia13 that's just the truth. People supporting her, should listen to the story well.
@claudiaorgill47858 ай бұрын
Betty has a heart of Gold,she just need some help to push along and break the cycle of dependence, she and her girls will make it, May God provide her with what she needs
@komugishabrenda22408 ай бұрын
Just like it was uneasy for you living in Moscow, he was depressed living in kenya too. He dealt with it all alone. You just needed to be closer to him.
@YOUROLDFRIEND6668 ай бұрын
I'm thinking the same thing. She abandoned his emotions. He got worst and that' was the end. She only cared for what she cared for.
@komugishabrenda22408 ай бұрын
@@YOUROLDFRIEND666 that’s right. The Russian was living a different kind of life deep in the village he needed her fully yet she was focused on something else. Being dependent on the man is also nagging
@Only-p2r8 ай бұрын
It’s True she did abandoned him
@joyfullnoize22428 ай бұрын
What??!! Why are you all excusing their abusive behavior??!!!😢 This is the problem
@omowhanre8 ай бұрын
@@joyfullnoize2242if the accused has a penis- African make a million excuses. Thats the African way.
@edithphillips52516 ай бұрын
God bless you sir for your ears and eyes! 🙏😁 You did a wonderful job with this interview. She has a very strong telling story
@soniachapman63598 ай бұрын
Took this woman an AWFULLY LONG time to FINALLY put distance between she & that monster of a husband. The ONLY good that came out of that relationship are those two beautiful kiddos. Wish her & her babies ALL the very best moving forward. Prayers.🙏🏽
@Piloting-gamer568 ай бұрын
True
@Evelynokwa8 ай бұрын
That's the main disadvantage of getting married young to someone older than you if it happens to be bad it's hard to realize for many that they are being consumed in a relationship that would have ended
@Crymiariva8 ай бұрын
It's not her fault love makes u stay
@najmamuse86218 ай бұрын
P
@raissa75868 ай бұрын
Monster husband who treats you like a queen?! Sale his property in Russian to follow you in Africa where you have no home?! Common!
@perisjelagat18958 ай бұрын
I'm a woman my advice to other ladies who are married far away from Kenya please just bare and be patient be understanding if your man loves you if he privide for you and kids than telling you wanna go back to Kenya and you don't have job. Bora mtu akupigi. This lady did a very big mistake by allowing her husband to sell everything in Moscow knowing he cannot get job in Kenya to rise his family. Sometimes ladies just see the consequences too it was better to stay in Moscow getting everything despite the boring you can watch tv or something keeping you busy since every time you go to your country for vacation with your husband and kids
@preciouskelvin74957 ай бұрын
The comment I m looking for, she also contributed to wat happened
@joannjeri43817 ай бұрын
The man got into depression by coming to a country he knows nothing about.
@perisjelagat18957 ай бұрын
@@joannjeri4381 he got depressed because he has nothing juu aliuza everything in his country thinking he will be better in Kenya and that was a very big mistake.
@perisjelagat18957 ай бұрын
@@preciouskelvin7495 namuurumia huyo mzungu sana penye ako atajuta kupenda tena
@ifeoluwaolaogun23647 ай бұрын
The day you said you are going back to Kenya is d day d marriage packed up..u cause this calamity
@wachekegathogo2648 ай бұрын
That's why every woman should learn to get an income.
@nampolaelizabeth61976 ай бұрын
I agree
@KraziiAdventuresTravel5 ай бұрын
I believe in God and I'm celibate until marriage. I will wait until God sends my husband to me.
@opamnancy2578 ай бұрын
Listening to this story really made me sad, for a man to leave his country for a woman, he must have loved her so much. He was an alcoholic but in his country he works so no much time for drinking. Leaving to a new country permanently made him depressed and gave him a chance to become a real alcoholic. Assuming when he came everything works I’m sure he wouldn’t have drunk so much and the relationship would have worked. They were both frustrated, may both find peace in their hearts.
@upliftinggod-eh8ur8 ай бұрын
I am 4 years single...was in an abusive relationship for years. My prayer now is God...please send me a God Fearing man who is going to love me for who I am, not what he wants me to be in Jesus' name!!!
@angelahoward41473 ай бұрын
@upliftinggod-eh8ur Glory to God. A man that loves God, then he'll know how to love you. Hallelujah
@vavabody8 ай бұрын
Praying to Have a "White" Husband is not a PRAYER. God doesn't look people color. You should have prayed to have a God fearing man, period. Regardless of the color of His skin. Hope you learned Your lesson. There is good and bad everywhere. The color of the person doesn' t garantee You Happiness.
@allthingdranabeauty8 ай бұрын
Becouse she love them mean hate black or racism
@mercywanjiru78728 ай бұрын
Well said 💯
@almalewis47668 ай бұрын
2 different culture
@fbn80588 ай бұрын
Well, she was just specific about her physical tastes and preferences...
@truthtelling11958 ай бұрын
Why don’t you say the same thing to BM who prefer I want to be with WW.
@yolandamercedwhite38374 ай бұрын
Yes sister I agree let's listen and learn from her bravery to even share her story. I was a guest of the masai tribe when I was in Kenya. I was truly moved by them and their confidence and resilience.
@FebineAwuor8 ай бұрын
Some people are just so evil regardless of their race. Everything will fall in place and your family will find peace.
@bonifacenyaberi61828 ай бұрын
Giving my life to Christ was the best decision i ever made that i can’t regret
@Belkys.6 ай бұрын
You will regret associating partners with The Creator. Worship Allah alone like Jesus called you to do, if you love him.
@bonifacenyaberi61826 ай бұрын
Jesus is the way,truth & life.He is the only way to God
@queenkamanga2133 ай бұрын
That is the best decision
@josephyeo69668 ай бұрын
Never ask for a relationship based on race or expectations of wealth. Sad, but reality always comes with a crushing blow.