They Warned Me Not to Marry My Indian Man, Now I Live with Regret

She thought she had found her soulmate in an Indian man 20 years her senior, despite her family's warnings.
They built a life together, but years later, she realized she had made a terrible mistake.
From tears and stress to finding resilience in her faith, this is her heart-wrenching journey of love, regret, and ultimate redemption.
Join us as we uncover the full story and the lessons learned.
Watch now to hear her powerful story and the crucial advice she has for others.
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[@thabimas161]

Did anyone notice how beautiful she is, we bless the Lord for you mama, more grace and blessings for you🙏❤

[@peterkinyanjui351]

indeed she is very beautiful

[@PriscahOtieno-v7g]

Kwanza hizo dimples make her more beautiful

[@catherinep3458]

I was thinking the same thing unbelievable beauty

[@violetk6284]

Love is blind but marriage is an eye opener.

[@sibusisiweadora7266]

Dated the ideal but sadly married reality😢. God is still seated on the throne Mama Alice

[@sibusisiweadora7266]

God of restoration, my God. We thank you. Only the Will of God will prevail. Your 2nd born daughter is busy collecting her own testimony. God will usher her back to your hands. Pls don't blame yourself without your journey, there would be no lesson learnt. God chose you, hence ordered your steps. This is a wonderful and inspirational story to us(women) who are trying to understand the journey of being called to Ministry. May the grace of God continously be upon you. Adora- South Africa

[@DeeDee29737]

😂

[@user-zv2ng6ov2k]

Thank u

[@Ehlaar]

By then its too late

[@fhenlizhao5406]

The fact that he was your way older teacher 🤦🏾. He’s a predator red flag number ONE

[@user-dg1jz2ey3l]

Exactly

[@doinkikinsanlyngka1197]

Age doesn't matter because my mom married to my father who was 20 times older than her but he loves her alot although he had no money he never let my mom suffer,,, the red flag here since that he denying to follow her custom told by her parents and lie about the dowry too because that time in 80s dowry is a huge play role marriage in India no dowry no marriage

[@hutashani]

​@@doinkikinsanlyngka1197but in India it's different....

[@hotbreakers94569]

Yes , she is too blame too as well as her parents no the mother tried to tell her hard-headed daughter what was up.😅

[@kavitapathak8569]

If he was a predator, he would not stay with her for 28 years, such a long period, he would start his real cruelty ?? earlier!

[@spunstricken9065]

This is a bit of a click bait. The cover photo for the video says she “burnt” her son. What the video actually tells us is that she cremated her deceased son. I understand that for some people cremation isn’t a religious option, but let’s please be honest about the video contents.

[@bronxink149]

Amen!!

[@yukae2878]

Well said 👌🏾

[@marthaangami4035]

Yes exactly 😂

[@faridakhalil6351]

😢

[@portiatauro9682]

I got confused also, it’s probably the ex husbands religion to do cremation. So the tile is misleading

[@ms.chocolatecandy]

I was married to a terrible man before. I understand her pain. I pray that she can continue to heal.

[@FarFromFake2024]

Praying for you sister

[@ms.chocolatecandy]

@@FarFromFake2024 Thank you 🙏 God is great!

[@ruthyedwin18]

So sorry she had to go through this. Men that groom are pedophilic.

[@euricedames8629]

I am praying for you

[@euricedames8629]

I sent a reply. I am praying for you.

[@euricedames8629]

God is good. He is worthy of praise.

[@Abhishek-ps8pj]

Pedophilic ??? This was clearly a non agreement between religion

[@chander3338]

As a Hindu from India I feel sorry for this woman. She needs to contact the Indian embassy for assistance in filing a lawsuit against her ex-husband for alimony and maintenance.

[@gcr1373]

They didn't marry, he didn't pay her dowry as per African culture

[@GospelOutside]

@@gcr1373 does it matter? He is still morally and spiritually obligated. Even if he never supports her, he will pay for his actions by way of God, the creator of our souls.

[@user-rs1rz7hh7w]

I don't think 🤔 indian embassy can help her. There more many more indian citizens suffering within the country but couldn't help them. Not to talk of her as foreigner 😂

[@bettyanim4361]

​@@GospelOutsideexactly

[@Denny_Abraham]

She can not get justice because Corruption in the Indian justice system will not make her get justice.

[@marynduta4460]

I know her very well, the twin girl was once my tenant and the brother that passed used to visit the sister. I met the husband also. The story is true.

[@jess_treats]

I schooled with the twins in the same school, and class...... this is honestly sad......😢😢

[@user-rs1rz7hh7w]

You mean In India or kenya?

[@josclairecarey]

Oooh my God 😢😢😢😢 this is painful

[@maryndichu7802]

Listen to the story

[@AminaCuisine692]

​@@jess_treatswere they born in Kenya or India.

[@joytidaristhabah8818]

So sweet sister Our God is our protector don't worry in every obstacles God will be in your side I am from India i am a Christian like you,do pray for us and we also for you,God will continue to bless you

[@loureenpasanda]

As an Indian Christian i apologise sister on behalf of our people

[@FelicityShagron]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Anneslie20]

Sister is has nothing to do with being Indian simply as Christian you shouldn’t be unequally yoke it could been two Indian or two African who married to each other once they are not equally yoke if God is not midst of that relationship it will not work.

[@phumlalolo]

​@@Anneslie20thank u

[@meghakhandelwal994]

Thumbail indian fetches views.... Lots

[@BidMin-bg7my]

​@@Anneslie20God bless you sis

[@isseys]

When the light comes darkness has to back off and her story proves that true love is the love of God . God gives his light to whoever he wishes .. Amen

[@vivianchao9421]

Well said

[@teresiahnjambi3507]

😊😊

[@rifatiqbal_]

yes

[@AdaBalili5]

Amen

[@ghanagirl2763]

This lady was groomed by the older man as a child she cannot be blamed it is very unfortunate. Parents need to protect their children from predators

[@HappyLama-fp7pl]

I agree but what could the parents do in this case? She was 19, they can only advise you. It's sad what happened to this woman my heart go's out for her.

[@tahliah6691]

She is to blame she never obeyed her parents as the bible teaches she was blinded by money….

[@carolinecongo1179]

The parents tried, can't you hear how many times the mother warned her and even put it in writing, a letter she retains to date. The girl was blinded by love. Saaaad 😢😢

[@mbiliyaluhanga4038]

Learn what grooming is....think if it was your child if you would say the same....a childs mind cannot fathom ​risks as an adult. Imagine even adults fall victim to love issues what more a developing mind @@tahliah6691

[@abigailsaunyama5060]

This is so teaching

[@telwingarab9708]

If she is beautiful like this at her age, what when she was young

[@ziao.1359]

I can’t imagine… she was so pretty ofcourse

[@Itsqueendivine2007]

She is beautiful 😢 very beautiful

[@LadyP00186]

Swears she was so beautiful❤

[@mercywanjiru540]

True she is beautiful

[@hanawolfgang]

She showed her pic when she was young, yeah she is beautiful

[@user-vu5qy2ub5b]

My Lord ... This Is A Woman Standing On Faith ... God Plze Be With Her .... I Wish I Could Give Her A Hug ❤

[@theresa816]

This is why God in the Bible tells us to be equally yoke don't marry unbelievers

[@llm6010]

Am from India and I am Christian, love this woman. God bless her 🙏

[@zuliattsanni9478]

Ameen

[@codingiscreativity]

Ha tum logo ke propaganda ke story telling

[@user-fx6ys6yd6m]

I saw this program while I am in the hardest time of my life, depression, crying and sadness everyday. My heart is burning 🔥 like a fire. MAY GAD SAVE me from this problem.

[@anchaboye1062]

May The Almighty bless and safe you 🙏

[@user-fx6ys6yd6m]

@@anchaboye1062 Thank you dear🙏

[@cinemaparadiso1991]

In Jesus' name. Amen

[@Elle_official1]

God is faithful He is with you,May Lord Jesus forever be gracious to you.

[@user-fx6ys6yd6m]

@@Elle_official1 thank u

[@lesareid9432]

This lady has a beautiful face and great skin. She must have been so stunning as a young girl; that’s what attracted that evil man. Took her innocence and left her broken. She will overcome one day.

[@victoriamazula5592]

Obsolutetly beautiful stunning

[@lucywangari400]

Boy died due to illness??

[@cynthiasmithAmy]

@@lucywangari400accident by a car

[@ZZealot-y3u]

She already overcame and though tragic her son would have taken her life she was granted grace instead. God is good. We all choose where to spend Eternity. That's the beauty of it.

[@olsl777]

What a beautiful testimony..only Jesus Can save our soul..

[@patiencekarwes2875]

Do not be a unequally yoked with unbelievers 🙌🏽

[@lindc1070]

She refused to honour God or her parents. So let this be a lesson. They werent even properly married.

[@karena3217]

💯

[@veronicaharry7581]

Knows a few that made it well ..great living..

[@1971littlered1]

Truth! ❤

[@Yvanylda]

​@@lindc1070 They weren't properly married? How so?

[@ugonnaokoro9957]

She is really beautiful at her age. She must have been a queen at her younger years.

[@Exquisite11]

Yes that’s true

[@marginalabdul-b9m]

SHE LOOKS OLDER FOR HER AGE,APPEARS TO BE 70 NOT ON HER 50S

[@doriswilliams1291]

Your faith in God saved you. You are an amazing woman. I admire your courage. Im glad your daughter came back to you. May God continue to direct your steps.🙏

[@PamplinClayton]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@bettyanim4361]

She is a strong woman. Heaven is her place

[@cliffahamilton7887]

Oh yes!!!❤❤❤❤❤

[@chosingthelight9283]

Thats is verry true

[@niguseabrha681]

You make mistake you responsible for your mistake congratulations

[@dewam1599]

You are not strong. Stay with your people😂😂😂

[@Rayrae580]

Heaven is her place, but having a happy life on earth too is key.

[@georgiusasaba390]

Alice. That is a very eye opening experience. Praying for our children is a must. May the Lord wipe your tears away 😢

[@ChatswithConnie]

Why do ppl obscure the face of someone who has done something wrong. That man needs to be shamed.

[@Kittycream645]

If he reports there channel it can be blocked

[@gloryajayiIsaiah61]

Besides, clearly you can see the woman seeks peace in her life, opening up his image might open grounds for conflicts, which we both can see is not the aim of this broadcast but rather to preach Christ

[@MrFirebomb969]

I think about this with the news. The victim's faces are everywhere but not the abuser's.

[@user-sz6hm3bo1v]

Is it cremation that offend her?

[@response7296]

B​@@Kittycream645 the lockers are unfair 😢

[@BlackSeedOil20]

There should be a movie on this woman's life.

[@anitadoe4785]

Exactly 👍🏼

[@lovelygal5810]

For sure, Especially for us young girls 😢

[@flaviabaruti7602]

I think that would be so nice. We need to be enlighted more through actions coz they speak louder than words

[@fonguemildred3557]

You're absolutely. I'm seeing myself as the Alice character in the movie

[@user-nu1cc3yf6t]

Sad story😢.As women we go through a lot in the name of marriage.

[@raneeranatunga5692]

Indian man too has right to beleive his releigeon. As this girl too has right to be christian. They should settle differences before marriage

[@laurelmascall9132]

What difference are you normal what she doing back with him maybe you should be in her shoe religions what god first he is real wicked please

[@khutsomphasha1602]

Not in Kenya,her father was right

[@Exquisite11]

There’s nothing to settle. He swindled all the properties they built together to himself. He played her! He is an evil man

[@Deep-t-rdx]

The whole story reveals that both of them are firm believers of their own religions. They wanted to follow their religions, which lead to this situation. I have full sympathy with this mother.

[@centerpromise5900]

This is a REAL understanding of being “UNEQUALLY YOKED”…

[@AfricanUSA-th9ov]

She Was Money Hungry.. Alot Of Young Girls In Africa Are Still Doing The Same Thing Now. Money Hungry Girls Sleeping With Foreigners In Africa 🌍 She Is Now Crying Nonsense Crying.

[@junique212]

​@@AfricanUSA-th9ovSorry if we still have the colonized mindset🤷🏽‍♀️ Foreign men good👍😒They always come with good intentions 👍😒

[@maggiekareru9361]

​Especially getting married to an indian who are so deep into culture​ was so daring just because of the presents she received and how the society praised people who are whites@@AfricanUSA-th9ov

[@joycelinetoussaint9746]

Most times when your mother warns you about the person you are involved with you need to listen children obey your parents in Lord for your days will be long praise be to GOD inspite of all that she went through Jesus saved her and her life is better than when she begged her journey

[@annielewa4752]

Religion cannot make me leave my family and marriage. But real salvation and an intimate relationship with God can.

[@trophywilson7211]

hahaha

[@bridgetteesy254]

She was chased away. It's not her fault

[@tyegaffney8560]

@@trophywilson7211 Jesus Christ desires us to have a personal relationship with him so we don’t have sacrifice our children to false gods. He paid the price for us

[@makeupmommy7868]

For you to even write something like this lets me know that’s not only are you inconsiderate but also insensitive. She in a whole other country, you don’t know what this woman has been through. She also thought this was a way out to a better life. People make mistakes, I hope you don’t have a glass house while you’re throwing stones.

[@deepalil1085]

@@makeupmommy7868 She lived in Kenya. She just visited India after wedding and came back.

[@queenregina6013]

I know Alice she was my college mate.Nothing can separate us from the love of Christ. Hang on to Christ and serve God with all your strength our God is a restorer He will bring back your second born for His glory.

[@user-dg1jz2ey3l]

Amen 🙏🏼

[@mecathy2450]

interesting....Meaning Ms Camel was your director.?

[@chawil9914]

Amen. This is true HE will bring him back to you for true ❤❤❤❤

[@AbigailAdu-boateng]

Amen!!!

[@jacklineadhiamboowino964]

Amen

[@roopapremkumar2119]

Please listen to the video properly, she says she was living together with him for 26 yrs. The issue started when she started hearing voices and wanted to follow her religion.

[@alicekumar8956]

Thanks

[@LawrenciaSowah]

Bt he lied to her from beginning, meaning he is not in support of her religion,kept her,made her believe in his religion

[@8sunrise8]

​@@LawrenciaSowah people change over time. 26 yrs is a lot of time. & The older you get, the more you follow your religion & the more serious you get about it. Her husband became more devout later i guess.

[@carilinahkiendi-709]

He waited till you completed ur education ,this shows he loved u Alice. religion was the problem. May good God be with you and others who are on the same situations as urs.

[@irenedontoh9692]

All your children will come back to you. You are a strong beautiful woman. You are blessed, Ma.

[@nisigate]

Yes she should keep her story on social media

[@hereiswisdom]

I feel so sorry for Alice. She was young and vulnerable and he took advantage of her. He started grooming her when she was young. Alice was unequally yoked from the beginning. The man was in Africa and not respecting African customs and traditional culture. What a terrible situation!

[@adamaturay6272]

But the man never married her

[@user-sz6hm3bo1v]

Really go marry kenya woman you will run

[@kman8446]

She had a family she was not taken advantage of the family advices her but failed to listen like most black women and they end up like this after they reach old age.

[@user-sz6hm3bo1v]

@@kman8446 i think you need to hear both side of story in such case ..all i hear iscomplaint....you married a hindu? And your christian,? Cremation is their culture...?

[@NandiThelingwani]

this is an issue of submission, she cld not submit

[@daisyterer3932]

You are a special woman.God will wipe your tears..

[@jagatsimulation]

Which god

[@userSTAR3330]

GOD BLESS THIS LADY IN JESUS NAME. HEAL HER MIND,SOUL,N BODY. 🛑✝️🙏🏽🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈DO NOT BE UNEQUALLY YOKES......JESUS LOVES UMS. ALICE. WOMAN OF GOD 🛑✝️🙏🏽🌠😇👼🏾✝️✝️✝️🌎🌅🌅🌅🌅🌅

[@chawil9914]

​@@jagatsimulationThe GOD that is within her, who wakes her up and sustains her through all her dark valleys of this experience on earth.

[@christinemongina1851]

There is power in blood of Jesus

[@cherylradhay6694]

@@christinemongina1851Amen 🙏

[@nehemiembombo9912]

Watching this made me to appreciate my parents even more .

[@sheenareynolds314]

The title of your video is very misguiding, burning her son - why - the father just followed his religious tradition of cremation, religion choices may be different but here respecting the dead need to be noted

[@thulig.dlamini9941]

What a painful but inspiring testimony. I admire her strength and resilience. She is a very brave woman of God. Indeed God has put the strength of a lion within her. As a Christian in South Africa 🇿🇦 I feel so blessed by her testimony. Iam going through a lot in my life right now and I think God intentionally led me to this testimony and I am so thankful for it🙏 Thank you holy spirit for teaching me something new today, through this testimony I wish I could have this lady's bravery and strength. May.our Lord Jesus Christ be with her, for all the days of her life. LOVE FROM SOUTH AFRICA 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@NnamteChris-ki9fq]

Sister, there is nothing you are going thruogh that is new and that those who trust in him has not gone thru and overcome by His mercy He just cured me from breast cancer last month without any medications just prayers but has this same sickness not kill others but yet others are saved l mean devil projected that upon me and God fought on my behave and l am saved forever Whateve u are facing right now is over in the mighty name of Jesus Christ Amen seek Him and He will come for you Amen

[@user-ui5yl9xy6k]

may holly spirit dwell in u

[@agathamburu8910]

Gor Kumar was once my chemistry teacher and aged.. must be a true story and very sorry indeed

[@user-rs1rz7hh7w]

Who is Gor Kumar

[@katedavies9578]

The Hindu husband

[@njerialice4805]

Was my teacher as well believe we were in the same school.

[@babygoldy1450]

Which part of India, how he remained unmarried till 40

[@cathyjohnson4792]

I would like to advise her children, run away for your life from this abuser father. !!!! You have a wonderful mother!!!!

[@libbylib1819]

My friend and I listened to our parents and lived to regret it. Sadly, parents can sometimes be very wrong.

[@ladyventura7302]

God knows your heart and can still deliver you, free you and still bless you and carry you till the end of time

[@malehlohonolomogasoa4165]

Follow the God of the Bible you can never go wrong

[@pumoneynaidoo6385]

@@libbylib1819 parents things they doing the right thing but sometimes it works an sometimes it doesn't But her mother was always interfering She wanted dowry I think her mother had her hand in her life That's why it went hay way

[@abigailamos9278]

Just pray to God only

[@bettinakatze1]

there was nothing wrong with that marriage before (apart from dowry) If there was no religion, the boy wouln't have died and all would be fine!

[@RamyaBharathi-u2r]

As women she has right to choose the religion she like But u should never say Hinduism as evil god and I felt like it’s a way of discouraging our culture and gods

[@deepa777]

they are spreading hate against Hinduism...very shameful... good or bad people are everywhere

[@madamekanu]

I'm Christian and I agree with you. It's not like she didn't know the culture she was entering and many cultures in Africa forces the foreign partners (be you the husband or be you the wife) to follow the tradition of the country Am sorry for her,but she can't play the "I was naive" card

[@user-ed6lw6gi4c]

My sister Jesus is Lord.His is the way truth and life.,No one can see God unless you see Jesus first

[@divinelumiere8564]

Jesus is the Lord and she finds the true God.

[@sandrakavenandjamo3531]

She didn't say Hindu is devil. She just said her husband is evil

[@morrinerambiri2822]

The statement, "This man was a just a teacher" hits differently and goes along way to show just how little teachers are thought of by society in African countries.......i feel your pain mum,

[@kimb6900]

What she meant by that was he was not a rich man

[@ilovestudying1003]

@@kimb6900lol no she literally said he had money to give her everything she wanted. So I think what she meant was he was just a teacher so she couldn’t think he would be capable of hurting her later in life

[@mymakeda254]

No. She didn't mean it in a disrespectful way, she translated it directly from her native Kikuyu language. Relax

[@patriciarambert9261]

Everywhere, even in america

[@morrinerambiri2822]

@@patriciarambert9261 Really??

[@sherrylawrencelewis2544]

'Do not be unequally yoked...' Unfortunately, I too did not listen to advise. The marriage lasted less then six months. By the time, it ended I was desperate to get away from him. The term 'pearl before swine,' kept popping up. 😢😢😢

[@benicatbenoit2409]

That term popped up to me to when I was in love with someone who did not know God. The lady said, " men only change for what they love and want" that also confirmed and settled so many things. People who don't know God are dangerous for anyone's heart.

[@jgee7338]

She is beautiful and has a very precious soul

[@beryltammybee9136]

But even nowadays young ladies doesn't listen to the advices,if you advise them they say that you're jealous, anyway, sorry for what you went through

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

True

[@omokaroojiire]

She couldn't listen because he bewitched her! He blinded her with Indian love potion to take advantage of her. He ruined her life and got away with it!!!

[@beryltammybee9136]

Nothing like being bewitched,when a young lady falls in love with a rich person,she can't listen to the advice

[@MyJOSE2013]

true. you cannever really advice vvomen in love. they have to learn from themselves!

[@Rubycella]

Indians are natural salespeople personalities very charming and devieving i see right through them

[@user-yt9yw6uf4m]

There are many Indian Christians mostly found in North-East India and South India and there are many African-Indian happy marriages. I hope we can look past nationalities and skin colour❤✝️

[@harrietkamau6710]

That's a master piece. It will teach many esp the unmarried girls. Youth is a risky time in life. Very few girls can resist a man like your former husband. Enticing and advantage taking. First live can be forever blinding. You found your destiny after a lot of pain. Your children will all come back to you because God loves you. Light always overcomes darkness/ evil.

[@wyclefbaros3418]

God bless you Alice. Your second daughter will also come back to you in Jesus' name. Please don't regret. This was all God's plan and you are so priviledged to be able to hear the voice of God. I'm praying with you. No storm lasts forever. May God bless you richly.

[@agriculture_munyendo]

Amen

[@jovibosslady]

I recall a Muslim guy who came to me and was trying to sweet talk to me that he can change to my religion if I accept him, thank God I refused. kudos to this story. I know how majority of men behave esp if they want to get you. God's way of doing things works wonderfully, praying for this mum God can still bring you the right partner even at this moment. God is with you!

[@qatatvip5451]

Don't try dear

[@user-rs1rz7hh7w]

But you can't even compare muslim beliefs to Hindu beliefs. In Islam there is no such thing as burning dead bodies. Being a muslim is just a simple life

[@TifBo]

Most practising Muslims marry other Muslims down to the right sect... (even though the men can marry Jewish or Christian). But if a man is Muslim and says he believes in Allah SWT but wants to marry a Christian, I wouldn't marry him. I'm Muslim but my advise is people should marry for the religion they both share.

[@user-rs1rz7hh7w]

@@TifBo good advice 👌 just to avoid this kind of misunderstanding

[@-Justme123-]

Unfortunately this happened to me 😢 I am a Christian and a Muslim came into my life by saying we worship the same God, and for an entire year he was overly nice, attentive, and proposed marriage in front of my parents. Everything was "picture perfect"... Until it started to be a nightmare. Im left handed so I was Constantly being redirected. I don't pray on my knees all the time, I drink a glass of water getting ready in the bathroom, we have never taken our shoes off at my house growing up, and I have 2 dogs. After my heart was completely vested, and add in a child I have that got attached to him. Now it was a constant battle. My 4 year old would end prayer in Jesus name, and he would flip out and try telling her it was bad words. He kept telling me there was no compulsion in Islam but showered me with hijabs, and gave me an English Quran. There were MANY NIGHTS I fell asleep crying to God because of the confusion. He was belittling me to think my belief process was wrong, and the anxiety got to me. It got really bad, but eventually after he got what he wanted from me (the same thing that he told me to watch out for in other men) something inside him either finally gave him a wake-up call. I never heard from him again. It hurt because I watched my daughter and her heart break, but I know that God intervened. At first I thought that the Love he had for God was dedication, and honestly alot of women are not accustomed or know the tactics of these people or their religous views. My parents warned me from the beginning. I tried to see a human being, but I wished I wouldn't have wasted my time, honor, and dignity. It left me embarrassed, feeling shameful, and I felt like I couldn't find anyone who relates.

[@MyJOSE2013]

I dont think 26 yrs of life was the man just wanting something temporary as he even waited her to finish college. I think it was just disagreements especially to do with culture and her parents kept coming in the way.

[@Anneslie20]

True

[@kahunyokahwai6371]

I apologize for your suffering but A lot of confusion here. Are you an Israelite or a kikuyu? When you go to Rome do like romans You get married to an Indian Then practice Hinduism Your people shall be my people. I am hesitant to attribute your problems to him or Hinduism two Christians marry and divorce in less that 5 years

[@caroljackson5051]

You missed what she said. She said when she started to re-engage with her Christian faith, he changed. This was because she was beginning to break free from his coercive control and regain her confidence. He groomed her and preyed on her and started to control her. When she decided and started to take her life back, the monster in him started to show itself.

[@sweetysweety2832]

U calling a person monster just bcoz he's following his faith and religion 🙏, and I don't support her at all she left her kids for religion , that made him angry out of anger and sadness (usually people do terrible mistakes ) so he beat her I'm not even supporting him for this but the way it all went it's very clear that she wanna go back to her religion which he doesn't like , obviously being a Hindu he can't tolerate , as she can't simple... For me she ruined everything for sake of religion if your in a relationship u have to do some adjustments for the people u love it goes both ways he didn't wanna change as well as she there's nothing to do with only one person..... Tbh I don't see anything wrong with him and that will thing I don't agree it's only one side we're hearing we have to hear the both sides of the coin . She's not interested in his money she got attracted to him bcoz of skin tone whatever it is , and he didn't wants sex just love he all wanted married her had children live happily in the between they didn't had anything not even single sign of him being a bad person . It's all started when this religion thing pop up he got angry that's it .​@@caroljackson5051

[@ginahochstein3716]

This here is an intersting conversation. While she is allowed to worship Jesus, since in Hinduism you can worship several gods as you wish, she never taught her children and husband in a humble way about her faith. In fact she did not practice it at all. She replaced it by something she did not actually believe in, doing the Hindu ceremonies without actually being into it. And suddenly she breaks out: this is all wrong and evil. Only her god is true. That leaves a big chasm between them. I think they were not close even before her return to Christianity. Had they been, she would have shared her experience with him in such a way that he might have listened to her. Both were programmed by their culture and not really adjusting one to another. When he beat her at the crimation of their son, I think it was grief that made him violent. One person cries, another wants to beat somebody up.

[@myneighborhood3466]

this testimony gives me hope on the power of prayer of parents over their children. God is good. thank you for sharing your testimony

[@user-xq3lq6oj4y]

She is beautiful and strong women she went through a lot May God bless this women

[@anneorina2975]

I have learnt a lot from this story, glory to God

[@laylahagger267]

Your story is exactly my story, the only difference I married a muslin man when I was 16 years old but I didn’t follow his religion . He was wealthy businessman. I left him when Jesus came to my dream telling me 2 words only ( This is the time ). But before that I raised my 3 children with the help of my mother and cousins, I raised them as Christian believers in secret till their father died he didn’t know that they are Christians, and this was with God’s grace and mercy. My 3 children now all married to Christians believers and had children. Every day I wake up thankful to my God Jesus Christ for following Him. By the way when I asked for divorce he gave it to me 3 years after and before that he let me sign that I get nothing from him. When I left him I moved to London ( because I got my British citizenship when my husband moved there and opened a whole sale shop . So we got our British citizenship through the business because it’s a law. But for me it was God’s plan . Yes I suffered a lot but never ever looked back because I trusted my God word ( I will never leave you, nor forsake you. Hebrews 13:5 ) Amen ✝️✝️✝️ I am 67 years old, and am still working as a live in carer and God is my provider and will always be. Thank you Lord Jesus ❤️

[@adebusayoaladegbola7063]

I need your advice

[@laylahagger267]

@@adebusayoaladegbola7063 My only advice is pray all the time because prayers open all doors, but it should be prayers that’s within God’s will. Don’t ever give up never. I prayed for God to baptize my children for 12 years every day because churches in my country refused to baptize them even they were members of the church and one of my daughters was a Sunday church teacher ( but I don’t blame them because my country is 90% Muslim country ) . After 12 years they were baptized by an Ethiopian & Egyptian priest and inside my country. I prayed for 25 years for God to show me the way to leave my husband, and after 25 years God came to me in my dream to say now is the time ( God’s timing not mine ) . Believe me when you believe from your heart and always pray with confidence of God’s words, then God will open the door for all what you asked for. Don’t put a time or a date or anything, just pray and believe.

[@thulig.dlamini9941]

Thank you for your Testimony ❤❤❤

[@oneida9217]

Amen ❤

[@mariamarshall338]

Amen

[@jacquelynjones616]

She is a STRONG woman...May God continue to bless her life...

[@SharonGuite-jq5ov]

As an Indian...I gt goosebumps hearing your horrible pastlife that you've been gone through .... Hope that oneday you'll be free from all the anxiety and sadness that you faced in your life...you're such a strong woman who could stand alone by herself I really appreciate you I could feel what you feel you're such a great person....I'm from Northeast India and I'm a Christian... I'm 18 yrs old.... Love to hear your story.... May The Almighty God protect you from all sadness and heal you from all the pain that you faced till today....and thank you for teaching such a beautiful and helpful lesson to this young generation ....even my elder brother was taking drugs more than 1 and a half yrs we faced alot of prob....and issues in our life and because of him our family can't live a peaceful life....so my dear friends please pray for my brother and family so that we will together gt a chance to praise God together....and you my dear sis...keep everything to God he'll let things take place when the time is right and whoever read this comment by chance have a blessed life ahead including our beautiful sis....Jesus is the King ...Amen❤

[@abdikadiryussuf2195]

Alice you are really strong woman. Never regret. In life everything is written U have a strong faithfulness

[@overgrupo3914]

I have learnt a lot from this story... thank you for sharing....God is good

[@attisombetto1058]

The man seems to have loved her, the challenge was the very different customs

[@AndrewKabala]

I agree with you

[@WAVELENGTH-tp1tm]

I agree. The culture , custom and belief corrided. 1. Its women who pay dowry 2.The dead are burnt- Some Africans have started to practise cremation 3.Hinduism and Christianity are heaven and earth This is the reason why her mother warned her. What are you doing on the shores if you are not interested of fish?

[@ikr2377]

Perhaps that's true

[@lanamikakjam1379]

If he didn't love her he wouldn't marry her but things turn out toxic for them because of all the misunderstanding, the age gap, the customs, the race and everything.

[@ladube_m]

According to the African culture they were not married.

[@angelamukirae2254]

Alice you are truly a strong faith filled woman and my prayer is your second born comes around . Truly life is spiritual!

[@NatureSpeaksTv]

I pray for strength and more grace for this woman. What a lesson! We learn everyday

[@Ngyspringles]

She must have been so beautiful as a young girl! The man took advantage of her naivety. She was used!

[@Theblackglove1992]

We should always listen to our parents very good lesson

[@JudyGikanga]

God had beatified u again.

[@kalaini]

Only the ones giving good advice.

[@Theblackglove1992]

@kalaini yes very true l also learnt the hard way, a few mistakes that l could have avoided only if l had listened to my parents several warning ⚠️

[@johncbny]

For all the people saying “always listen to your parents”, that statement is too broad. Parents are not always right.

[@Theblackglove1992]

@johncbny but 99 percent of them are right choices for their kids

[@nancya.r9734]

My Indian baby daddy paid dowry to my parents but still i could not fit in so i Left. My son is Christian. He has a relationship with them, they love him but I'll never look back. Im so sorry you went through all that.

[@NellyHamweemba-tn1cv]

Me too my indian baby dad also paid dowry but I don't. Think we can be together so his very much involved in the childs life

[@nancya.r9734]

@@NellyHamweemba-tn1cv it's not easy, but what I like about them is that they are hardly deadbeat fathers. They take care of their kids.

[@NellyHamweemba-tn1cv]

Exactly they do take full responsibility

[@lindc1070]

Asian men are more dedicated fathers than African men from what I hear. She just picked a bad one.

[@deekshabisht3279]

Women please don't marry with in love or religion. But one think Indian know their responsibility.

[@lisanoel707]

What a testimony. To God be the Glory. Thank you for sharing your story and blessing with us

[@sn.m]

The level of intolerance that this sad story has generated in the comments section is amazing. Let us be happy with our respective faiths and not find it necessary to disrespect others in the name of religion.

[@LeyftOrRayt]

I dont read any intolerance in the comments

[@sn.m]

​@@LeyftOrRaytreally!!!??

[@ds3578]

He did not ask you to live with him but asked your father for your hand in marriage

[@kidsuniversity2458]

Sorry Alice.This world is not our home.

[@cristalclear2499]

Light and darkness do not meet. The choise is only one. THE LIGHT.

[@nigelivenkharlukhi8924]

We also are Indian .not every Indian is a Hindu .we are from north east India most of the people here are christian.we have our own language.we don't know Hindi

[@user-dr6cy9kg9p]

Correct

[@raymondjohn3798]

Faith things its not by forcing someone to believe,so the Hindu Man was forcing his wife to change into his faith religion which is wrong!!!,he should have just love her and care but faith things must not be involved.and also that style of burial burning I don't like it ,is not cool,we know that u have to go back in the soil.

[@qatatvip5451]

I have a friend who is a Indian bt Christian

[@evernicekapita7786]

​@@raymondjohn3798satan and God don't dine together

[@sunshine-wb7gr]

I live in the Caribbean My husband from Amritsar/Sikh terrible lying people 🙄

[@janislessey636]

God will NEVER ask someone to abandon their kids! Your husband was angry. He felt that if you didn’t leave your son will be alive…

[@rajkishorebehera7489]

👍 lady destroyed her own family

[@sheenaiyer4434]

If religion makes you blind....better not to follow any...In this case I hold both husband and wife responsible for whatever situation they are in....

[@charmainemoodley2414]

Best comment ever. ❤️

[@medcomm541]

Correct

[@maseraykanu2413]

This is I'm afraid to married out of my County so sad this happened to Her

[@olicymatongonzala5303]

Sorry for being taken advantage to that Indian man. But praise God because He has worked for good in you.

[@godhg9694]

it sounds like a normal relationship. she was an adult when she married.

[@Alice-Not-In-Chains]

@@godhg9694 18 is an adult but not for 40 yr old teacher

[@Alice-Not-In-Chains]

@@godhg9694 18 is an adult but not for 40 yr old teacher

[@zikondenyirenda]

​@@godhg9694 normal? He is 20 years older than her and started sending her love letters when she was between 13 and 15 years. He told her he loved her when she was still in highschool and they got married when she was 18. Please tell me where you come from and if thats "normal" over there.

[@zikondenyirenda]

​@@godhg9694were you watching the same video?

[@tinocaroline1061]

The issue here was cultural differences

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

True

[@cinemaparadiso1991]

There's more problems than cultural differences. She was innocent, did not listen to her parents, did not understand what she thought was love was someone exploiting a situation, he did not respect her customs and his religious beliefs involve many gods - not the one God of the Christian faith. Once God called her name she could not turn away, ignore or disobey Him hollering (lol) her name. Be strong and courageous Miss Alice. God is with us.❤🙏✝️

[@GsShorts.master.]

This woman just leave her children because of her religion. Actually she don't know best religion is humanity. I don't think there is Full mistake of man .

[@maryadongo9427]

we are living in a liberal world where religion is not forced......religion is a choice

[@GsShorts.master.]

@@maryadongo9427 do you know religion of humanity? Do U know what is mean of mother?

[@Isla_Dawa]

There is no such thing religion of humanity . Who decide the rules of humanity ?

[@inadouglas7959]

This all about religious conflict not domestic abuse.

[@ruthyedwin18]

Kudos to the team thst put this documentary up. God bless you all. This was so informative.

[@maryokafor7238]

1 Esdras 9 vs 7,... Matthew 25 vs 32 to 33... Deuteronomy 23 vs 3..

[@cissycissie6030]

Tim and Erica please bring this lady to your channel @ life is spiritual

[@user-ij4nd5eg4o]

This days even life choices you call them spiritual?! In all channels people are blaming rejection and spirituality.. Style up!

[@winnieakunyo1790]

True coz life is indeed spiritual.Speaks alot on religion and being unequally yoked with nonbelievers

[@cissycissie6030]

@@user-ij4nd5eg4o May the blood of Jesus set you free

[@sandraatkins2539]

Beautiful lady we are so sorry for you. May God guide, protect, and love you always. Always think very, very seriously when dealing wuth other cultures

[@GracefullyKaren]

Alice, so sorry to hear what you went through. You were young and didn’t know any better like you said. Such a beautiful woman you are. This is a great lesson for women. Listen to the advice from those who know you. Honor your parents. Also take the time to seek the Lord. It takes a lot of courage for someone to share their story. I’m grateful to hear Alice story. Ladies, know yourself. Know your worth. Know your identity in Christ. Alice kept addressing young girls in this video. So heartbreaking, all that Alice went through. So many lessons in this video. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏿

[@AR_on01]

If the two respected each other's boundaries. There's nothing wrong with visiting holy places. It seems she's suffering from some mental disorder. The only disheartening thing is that her children and husband didn't understand her mental situation. Her husband beat him that day most probably cuz he was angry that she couldn't take care of the child. Pity on the men who thought it was her responsibility only. Moreover they didn't take care of women

[@Mdalasini]

She lived in fear of what her mother told her. It was just in her mind.

[@sibusisiweadora7266]

Jesus Christ 😢😢. This testimony talks to me. Thank you Servant of God. The hand of God is upon you. Watching from South Africa-Durban

[@confidencediaries21]

❤❤❤

[@Bee-Malika]

❤❤❤

[@thulig.dlamini9941]

Wow! Same here 😊❤

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

❤❤❤

[@teresiawairimu4063]

Pole Alice, God will also send the other girl into your life, keep praying 🙏

[@diasporaconnecttanzania3521]

This made me cry. So glad that she escaped with her life and that at least 2 of her children came back to her!

[@joskyshams4758]

Hello, my Christian brothers and sisters let's pray for her children to see the light.

[@mistareagle2398]

Im African but yet i struggled to believe all this woman says and would love to hear the man side of story too....Do ur research, thats his culture or religion ...thats what he believes in, burn when you die, even when he die he will wish to be burnt too, you call it evil but to him its not. U r not a victim, u didn't do research n u didn't listen to ur parents. How can a man follow a wife ways when he supposed to be the head of the house? accountability !

[@samirah3178]

Well said listen to both side of story, if he was not a good Indian he would not have kept her for 26 years her problem is the letters from her mother.

[@pooja-vw4np]

She is pure why her children wish to stay with father not to him

[@memorykasanga8780]

I feel so encouraged mama with your story..may God heal you completely

[@mercykanini9972]

I have learned alot from your story,don't marry someone you don't know their culture,Though the man took advantage of her because she was a small girl, in short listen and honour your parents.

[@likhaserbi8062]

Our living God jesus is great... Hallelujah... Be firm in our Lord jesus... One day your daughter will turn bck to you... Love from North East India.. Jesus is king of king

[@MomozWorld-ec8ir]

Amen

[@agriculture_munyendo]

Amen ❤

[@Yuceekids]

Amen

[@user-hd4gd1wv5l]

Amen

[@joskyshams4758]

Whatever this Mama is sharing should be included in school curriculum here in Kenya. This is wisdom upon wisdom.

[@SandraOdogwu-hh4uh]

Exactly. OMG 😮 From the age of ten, ALL african girls should be shown this video every 6 months until they reach 25 years.

[@ktwiri4443]

Surely...she got married by an Indian, embraced his faith. The man wasn't evil. If you decide to abandon your fauth, embrace what you move to. Let's not demonise Kumar. Neither is this lady evil. They'd do with support.

[@user-yt9yw6uf4m]

There are many Indian Christians mostly found in North-East India and South India and there are many African-Indian happy marriages. I hope we can look past nationalities and skin colour❤✝️

[@rgbphotomediaprod.2384]

When I listened to her bitter story, I shed tears. Thanks to God Almighty who revive her.

[@prudencemganga4793]

Very powerful Story....young girls it's important to listen to advice of parents...Soo much to learn from this..thanks Afrimax.

[@nakazibuuascovin3159]

Your children carry your spirit and can get born again, keep on crying to God

[@aa-ng4ot]

Absolutely untrue. Please stop spreading false superstitious information with no evidence.

[@shriyaprost4624]

I am a Hindu married to a Christian. We respect each other’s culture. We go to The church and to Temples. In India, it is a criminal offence to demand for Dowry. You can promote Christianity, there is no problem. But, you shouldn’t Demonise Hindu culture.

[@cathy_annjones9071]

I know what it feels like to pay the price for disobedience ❤

[@joycenjiri9456]

So true @cathy I am also suffering the same, disobedience to my parent warned several times but I couldn't listen now I have to drink it to the last drop but God's Grace is all sufficient

[@gofaonembojane3050]

God bless you Alice . May God continue giving prosperity and peace forever

[@jawan055]

She said: "As an Israelite girl." Her mother knew that she was not to marry a man from another nation. And that would surely bring trouble within her life and home.😢

[@nyonairene8797]

Indeed 😢

[@kangana_0]

marry from any nation man but don't marry and trust on muslim

[@mwituamweene9850]

what is israelite girl?

[@sijisiji8100]

@@jawan055 another nation in Israel contest means somebody of a different beliefs not particularly about tribes or colours. When we have relationships with an uncircumcised man or woman, likely there will be problems. *Uncircumcised means yet to give their lives to Christ.

[@andreatulloch-dukes5825]

she is a descendant of JACOB

[@studyfanatic8762]

Till 28 years there was no problem but as she is talking its clear her husband felt himself disrespected and even kids felt misplaced because of her ...they suffered terribly...... Its good you found that reunion with your actual religion but you made that decision by your choice and this decision is also your choice...... Both decisions have consequences which should be looked into before making decision.....

[@kyator41]

We can see through this. Religious extremism.She is playing victim yet she played some role in bringing down the marriage. Half of your problems will be solved the day you take responsibility for your actions.

[@kofoblue3172]

She is so pretty.