I Asked My Mom Questions About Her Breast Cancer Before It's Too Late

[@sketchyskies8531]

My mom died of a brain tumor when I was 7 years old. I'm 17 now,wishing I remembered more about her. I'm glad you got to have a discussion with your mom,so that you know she loves you.

[@thechepgirls6974]

I'm sorry for you stay save my nanny has cancer lungs

[@Lindastyle]

Your mom loved you too. I bet you were her whole world. She will always be with you ❤

[@nevets3399]

Huh, u really brave to say that but l don't think it's good to tell ppl ur trauma its not our right to know but like l said ur brave to say that

[@Ambient_dreamer]

Gosh I cannot imagine. From one stranger to another, I’m sorry 😔❤️

[@Normi1963]

When I was 11 my mom was diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer, she went through treatment for about 5 years and passed away in March, I’m 16 now and this is really helpful to see that I’m not the only one

[@tintinlee4883]

I’m 18 and I lost my mum last year September. Stay strong ❤️

[@Neurodivergent_Nat]

My aunt passed of the same thing. Sending you loads of love and healing your way ❤️❤️

[@countspyra9884]

My mom died when I was 1 due to stage 4 skin cancer. Im 14 now and wish I got to knew her. The loss still hurts but these things make you stronger in the end and that's just life.

[@smyoong6227]

@@countspyra9884 love you!

[@fayezayahya9983]

Me and my family lost our mom in January this year due to the same awful disease. Still not able to cope up with the loss. I just pray that everyone who has lost their parent/s is able to remember the love they gave them and remember them in their prayers 🙏

[@nicolenilsen]

As someone who’s mom died from breast cancer when I was almost 2, this was really beautiful.

[@ping_pong_ping]

I can't imagine living without my mom.I am so grateful that my mom is healthy. I want god to take me before my mom. Me and my dad will be incomplete without her. I pray that god takes me before my mom.

[@randikraemer6551]

I pray for your Mom’s sake that never happens 😘

[@ping_pong_ping]

@@randikraemer6551 Thank you. I pray for your Mom too.

[@bottombagfrenchfry7127]

I would want that too but then I put myself in her shoes and losing a child is also not easy especially when they still had a lot of life left to live. I pray that god lets us live as long as we can and when the time comes we can go without regrets. I wish you both a long and happy life.

[@NadiaIman1180]

I understand but no parents should ever bury their children, no mother should ever bury their son. If you put yourself in her shoes, losing her own child after she gives everything in order for her son/daughter to live their long life ahead of them will be very devastating. I pray for the best health for your parents and for yourself, to live a long and happy life.

[@ping_pong_ping]

@@NadiaIman1180 Yes I know. I am her only child. She loves me so much. Allah knows what will happen in the future. Have a good life.

[@aryanegouvea]

this mom does a great job

[@jillianblevins4464]

I really feel like I needed to see this. My father, who hasn’t been in my life, has been diagnosed with stage 4 lung and liver cancer. I have to see him for the first time since I was a child next month. This gave me some inspiration of what I should say to him, and that how i’m feeling is completely okay. Thank you.

[@ChelseaLloyd_LoveIt]

jillian...i appreciate you sharing this. that sounds difficult. I am sending you good luck and good vibes for your visit. there is no right or wrong way to have this convo -- starting any kind of dialogue is amazing. good luck 💕💕

[@syerega]

As a mother (I am sure I am closer to your moms age) I just pray for your mom. You raise your babies hoping to see the good things. Grandkids and weddings and graduations and productive humans. Praying for you and your mom and your sister Hopefully they can find a miracle

[@MayaChavda]

My mom was diagnosed with an unknown cancer when I was 16 and we were told she would recover fine but she passed 5 months later. She was my best friend 💕

[@ChelseaLloyd_LoveIt]

maya thank you for sharing that. i'm very sorry about your momma...i am sending you good vibes and well wishes 💕

[@cherylbreitkreutz5756]

I lost my mom when I was 23. I worked third shift and when I left she was fine when I finally got home she was gone. I’m thankful you get to have those conversations with your mom I wish I could have them.

[@somerflowers]

As a chronically ill momma, this was hard yet so important to watch. My kids are still little. Only 10 and 8. But they see a momma who fight each and every day, not just for myself, but for them! So I can keep getting to hopefully wake up to get to see them grow another beautiful day! What a gift you have and thank you for sharing just 10 minutes of it with us. I tell my kids everyday how much they’re loved and adored and how they fill their momma hearts with nothing but love. Peace, calm, healing and love to all. ❤️

[@raine791]

Somer Flowers hope you get better:)

[@ChelseaLloyd_LoveIt]

TY somer for sharing this... you sound like an incredible person. peace and calm right back at you 💕

[@ARMY_for_10_years]

This was a very smart thing for them to do. They don't know how much longer they have left together, and when her mom is gone, she has videos she can look back on and show her kids one day. I wish you and your family all the best in this difficult time. I lost my stepfather (who was more of a father than my dad ever was) to 2 different types of brain cancer and I wish I had some videos of him to look back on. All I have are memories...

[@pattraw]

Thank you, I just lost my mom at the beginning of the year to pancreatic cancer. She was diagnosed last year with stage 4 and I was there with her through out. This reminded me of the last moments we had together, we did not have this opened conversation but every moment I spent with her matters. Thank you again for this video. I'm so glad you had this conversation with your mom, cherish it spend give your mom big hugs and kisses. I wish both of you the best.

[@shannamcmellon572]

My mom passed away from metastatic breast cancer after 4years of remission. On a Wednesday her oncologist told us she needed radiation for spots on shoulder and on Friday the ER doctor told us her X-rays showed that her shoulder was broken and her pelvis was in pieces from the cancer eating it away. We put her on hospice that night and she passed the next day on New Year's Eve. I'm so glad my mom and I grew so close during her 4 yrs of remission. She passed away knowing without a doubt that I loved her. Never ignore mom's phone call, you're never too busy. Take it from me.

[@biancas.3558]

I always wish I had this conversation with my Mama, she passed away june 12th after a three year long battle against cancer. She was the strongest person I will ever know, she never talked about how she felt, because she wanted to be strong for us. I'm 21, she was 49 and I will miss her forever. But I know she is watching me and proud, that I'm becoming a nurse next year. I wanted to do this for her. No matter what, appreciate your Mamas, because you never know what happens. Stay safe children of the sun! And hug your Mama for me ❤

[@Tanya-qb6ys]

Stay strong 💪🏻 Praying fr u ❤️

[@tricialouise1529]

I’m going through this with my dad right now and you just don’t know what’s going to happen it’s something that is upsetting but you have to accept ❤️Stay Strong❤️

[@sarahtalks2much]

How does anyone get through this? Omg.

[@sarahtalks2much]

Bawling.

[@PlanetJ32]

You really don't.. my mom passed in 2004 from the same thing that lady has,and I'm still not over it. I miss her everyday like it was yesterday.

[@IK-fg4gw]

@@PlanetJ32 ❤

[@hjoy1990]

@@PlanetJ32 this reply terrifies me

[@gccalixte]

You just do, you wake up everyday with a noticeable hole in your heart and then one day it just hurt a little less, but then one day, you'll smell something or see someone and the hole for 10-20 minutes is ripped open again to the point you can barely breathe and then the cycle starts over again 🙄. My mom passed away in 2019 of Stomach and metastatic Brain Cancer

[@ImErinHi]

Wow, this hits so close to home. My mom passed away from breast cancer almost 3 years now. She was diagnosed with stage 3 and passed just a year later. Up until the very end, she told me that she doesn’t feel like she was dying. It was such a shock to me and to my family that we were sort of in denial until she died. I never had the chance to talk to my mom like this before she died and that’s one of the biggest regrets of my life. This totally made me cry and remember and miss her. I urge people to live their lives like every day is their last, and PLEASE, remind your loved ones every day how much they mean to you. You never know how long you have with them! ❤️

[@kaylinsnyder14]

Awwww your momma is so cute! You guys are in my prayers❤️❤️❤️

[@galacticbattles17]

I had a terrible relationship with my mom and didn't think it could ever be fixed. Reason: Teenage Hormones, Anger issues on both sides and impatience. Fat forward to when I left for college, and I'm still there. Now, my relationship with my mom is the most beautiful thing ever. It is more than what I imagined and could have wished for. You can fix it. I did too. Moms love you and you need to tell them you love them too.

[@jenniferbates2811]

My mom has Lynch Syndrome. She just got over cancer #7, its a hereditary disease. I don't have it but my niece does. Please anyone who knows of any family member who has had at least 2 cancers please get tested. Genetic testing does wonders. This is an amazing video. Love yourself enough to know and understand your medical history. More women need to put themselves first with mind, body and soul. 💜❤🖤

[@aimeem9867]

I can't even take both their strength. God bless mom's soul. 💜💜💜

[@Neurodivergent_Nat]

My aunt passed away from the same thing. Wishing peace and healing towards all of you who have lost someone to cancer

[@luvmy2pugs1]

Thank you for sharing this. Hopefully people will realize that parents will not be around forever. I had a very open and frank talk with my dad when he was diagnosed with his terminal illness. It was a rare thing to do back then, but I wanted to hear how my dad felt about things and wanted him to hear how much I loved him. My dad has been gone for over 20 years. Having that talk with my dad helped prepare me for when it was time to talk with my mom before she died. Thank you and your mom for being honest and open. Jill

[@ChelseaLloyd_LoveIt]

TY jill, thats incredible you spoke with your dad so candidly. i appreciate your comment 💕

[@hjoy1990]

Thank you for this. Good timing for me. My mom has had an on and off journey with cancers, and just starting her path to recovery for the scariest one yet. It's so hard to face the music and have conversations like these! I need to try. Please pray for us🙏 I dont have any drive to start a family of my own, without her around.

[@victoriawagner3211]

When I was 13/14 my mom was diagnosed with kidney cancer in March and passed away that October. I was too young to fully process what was happening. I wish I could have talked to her like this. I always wish she could have been physically around for important things, but I know she was and is there sometimes. I feel for your mom saying she doesn’t want people to feel sad for her but just know her. I’m so glad this popped up on my feed today. Thank you for sharing this with the world. Stay strong 🖤

[@AFromFrance]

One of my friends is living this right now. And another lived it with her father that sadly has now passed away. And it’s just heartbreaking. It’s really difficult for them to deal with their emotions regarding that situation. And also keep being the child of their parents and allow themselves to be their own person. I try my best to help them. Give them a safe place to share their feelings. But also somewhere we can just be young and carefree. Because not every parent deals with the disease the same way. Or sometimes they look very sick physically which is a constant reminder. If anyone has any idea on how I could be a better support for my friends. I’d love to hear them.

[@emilybrown1.]

so refreshing the relationship you guys have with this challenge. really thankful that you’re making a conversation and a comforting space to talk about this. praying for the best of you ❤️

[@atalmeowlaurent1847]

I'm so happy you made this video, for yourself in the future and for your mother and future kids. My mom went through the same type of journey, but she didn't tell me she was sick, she just kept talking to me and listening to me, I was living in the other side of the world, I only knew she was very sick 5 days before she died. I didn't have the opportunity to ask her so many things. Thanks for sharing with us this treasure video, hugs to your mom & long life

[@gabbyaston3154]

This almost made me cry 😢

[@09alyssat]

My mom was diagnosed in 2018 right before I graduated highschool. She just got another diagnosis and I’m really struggling. Thank you for this video

[@sophielyne1642]

We are all praying for your mom and I really, really hope she gets better. I’m sure she will. Good things are coming soon for everyone, just be patient. ❤️❤️ stay safe everyone

[@helenb9909]

You don't get better from metastatic breast cancer. It can be treatable but it is never curable. It's a terminal diagnosis.

[@candysmith8724]

I'm so sick of cancer.....I lost my father from colon cancer in 2012, battled for 2 years. Your Mom's spirit and attitude is inspirational. God bless you all.

[@saraymartinez7070]

"I just want them to know who I am" Wow,that is powerful in just one sentence💜

[@eskki0911]

I lost my mom to cancer this February. I feel for this family so, sooo hard. I’m bawling. 😭

[@itsmeyourfriend]

March for me and I'm losing it too 😭

[@leah8269]

My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer when I was 3, my sister 2 and she went through chimio, radiotgerapy, and hormones for ten years... Now she is okay thank God, and I am so grateful that nothing worse happened to her. A few years later, my grandmother and my aunt got breast cancer and that was difficult for me, knowing that it might even be genetic because a lot of people in my family got it. Anyway I hope everything is going to be fine and I wish you, seeing this , health and happiness 💕😇

[@sheisveryfamous]

Bless this wonderful family. So brave to talk about these things ❤️❤️

[@PikachuuNinja]

I wish I talked with my mom like this when she was around. My father is still here, so I guess I have some questions for him. 🙃💕

[@libby7148]

my mom passed away from stage 4 metastatic pancreatic cancer back in february. after 14 months of doing really well after diagnosis, her liver suddenly shut down and life flashed before our eyes in 5 days... this very much brought me comfort. i see us in this. thank you ❤️

[@lisalang5838]

Libby I'm so sorry for your loss. My mum has stage 4 pancreatic cancer and is currently in hospital from a series of strokes. It's an awful disease and a living nightmare 😔

[@allimckoy6815]

My mother and I are not close at all but I pray with every bit of my heart that you find peace and that your mother finds peace. She is a strong woman.

[@jackshipley1838]

Ngl, i cant watch this video because i will be very sad, but i just want to send peace and love to you, your mom, and your family. ❤️

[@taliasclafani9509]

This was such a beautiful and heartfelt video, thank you to you and your mom for sharing this. Much love and prayers to you guys

[@serenitypearl4081]

i sobbed watching this. my sister has what we think/basically know is a very serious dangerous cancer and she refuses to get more tests and more treatment she keeps putting it off, i just want my big sister to live and her baby to have a mom for the rest of her life.

[@alexissabijon6324]

I really wish no one will experience the pain of losing someone you love.

[@marshamohammed5178]

I lost both breasts to BC 4 yrs ago , God Bless you both!

[@teamstreck123]

I absolutely loved this loving, honest video about life and it’s struggles. Love you! ❤️🙏 ❤️ your daughter has amazing strength just like her beautiful mother.

[@huskyloverszekely5629]

Your mother should be protected at all cost

[@brissiasanchez104]

I hope u guys the best. I hope u guys hav fun and live life good. Wish u love and hope💕

[@beccah4886]

I hope your mum and your family stay strong and happy ❤❤❤

[@sophieeggers3793]

That's a really great video! Talking about the important things is something people should value more.

[@jenniferbates2811]

So true! Also asking your parents what they want for a funeral or a party or letting them feel that you are gonna fulfill their wishes. We are atheists so for my dad we had good food, Spanish music and soooo many stories! 💜

[@sophieeggers3793]

@@jenniferbates2811 honestly that sounds so fun! My mother is going to become a tree instead XD

[@jenniferbates2811]

@@sophieeggers3793 that's awesome. My husband is gonna do the same. He wants to be planted in Maine

[@sophieeggers3793]

@@jenniferbates2811 Sounds like a great idea^^ I think the whole treething is a great option honestly. I'm glad it exists^^

[@jenniferbates2811]

@@sophieeggers3793 me too, I'm not sure what I want yet. I know that I want creamation. No idea where I want my ashes. 🤔

[@AwkwardlyIntroverted]

This is so sad and sobering. The mom is so sweet. I want to hug her.

[@Purrsephone19]

I can't watch this whole thing. I just came here to like the video. In 1 month the first anniversary of my Dad's death from pancreatic cancer will be here. I wish we had more time with him, and just remember that these are really important times. In 2 months, he went from fine, to his grave. We never expected it to be so fast, and there is a lot of stock put in hope, well deservedly. Just don't let that hope stop you from saying what you need to say, and doing what you need to do.

[@paigepeach9882]

OW, MY HEART.

[@grillagrip101]

They have my support and prayers...ive gone thru this with my Grandmother but dont remember it too well

[@PikachuuNinja]

A simple "thank you" goes a long way. 💕

[@HelloMyNameIsKaylin1]

When I heard her say her dad had ALS and her mom has stage 4 metastic breast cancer I knew I was meant to click on this video. My grandparents who raised me both passed away in the past year. My Papa had ALS and my Grammy had metastatic breast cancer. Thank you for this video. ❤️ Praying for you and your family.

[@ChelseaLloyd_LoveIt]

wow no way! very sorry to hear about your losses.... that definitely sounds difficult to lose them both in a year; sending good vibes to you & TY for this comment my friend 💕💕

[@jnjshkhndrkpm942]

Mom died 8 years ago from lungs cancer. Those last 10 months of her life was the hardest we had to go through amidst of all then poverty we were already suffering from. We literally watch her slip away little by little from us knowing there was nothing we could do. It was so dark and grim comparing to these two in the video.

[@mayam5353]

I loss my mom 7 years ago from lung cancer as well

[@R.81298]

This made me so emotional ♥️

[@jordanbrower4086]

I couldn’t not possibly have handled this. Wow.

[@Nada_gh.]

I can't imagine someone I love dying but the thing is I'm just too weak to process that it is gonna happen anyways it's just "a matter of time"

[@mariposaorofusionfoodchann7573]

Wow.. I'm not alone... There are people out there with a sick parent who are dealing with their parents illness as much as the parent is. My mother has heart failure and other illnesses, although not fatal(Thankfully), is difficult to manage and has to take many medications. She has had the counselling given to cancer patients, as well as being tested at the oncology department when her white blood cells were high.. It's tough for everyone! I hope Chelsea's mom somehow exceeds the doctors expectations and continues to enjoy life. It's people like her that make me not complain about life-There are many dealing with worse!

[@jayotic2018]

My mom had breast cancer too...

[@user-tn6kt9hf6c]

Wish her well, take care :)

[@evoezepeda]

You are awesome

[@ChelseaLloyd_LoveIt]

I am super touched by these comments...if you have a story to share about your mom or what you have experienced in regards to cancer, illness, or grief, id love to hear it. i'm on ig at @_chelswhoelse_ or @dyingoflaughter_podcast 💕TY for watching this 💕💕

[@drewmkelly]

Much love to you all. I wish I could do something. Savor your time together.

[@Grace-oi1nj]

praying for u

[@georgethecactus7499]

❤️ just ❤️

[@julialaj1324]

God bless

[@Okstatechick]

Tear jerker!!! 😭

[@mayam5353]

I loss my mom at 16 to cancer :( I’m 23 now

[@KatTheLavaGirl]

My grandma named Virginia died of breast cancer. When I was born my parents made my middle name Virginia! :)

[@rimazriazo6647]

Who disliked this video????? HOW DARE THEY!!

[@kimkaye2219]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@UkrainianCat]

My mom died from cancer 2 years ago.

[@auksefghjvvnk4316]

I'm sorry 😞

[@killy9614]

Who disliked this video. Im mad.

[@marcforchrist]

Hey! Is she saved?

[@imtheaussiestrawberry5160]

💜

[@AnyaGarg]

Aww man

[@jadyn5062]

is this video going to make me cry btw the answer is yes

[@siddhipatel97]

Hi

[@zaisha4984]

*I am an Army :D My bias is Park Jimin.* I always noticed how kind you guys are. I wanted to share this. So, My bestfriend went through a devastating breakup which lead to an eating disorder. She battled it and started uploading on youtube after 4 years. She is literally the kindest person I've met. She never deserved this. *Her video* : kzbin.info/www/bejne/n5i6oXd3brdgZ5o She always dreamt of being a youtuber. She doesn't know I'm commenting here. Let's secretly support her together guys. I'd be forever grateful to each and every one of you. p.s : My heart goes out to all of you who went through difficult situations in life.Remember you are not alone

[@jennibunny]

The ads are ruining everything for me!!!

[@5ive8ight]

To the amazing People Seeing This: I Hope Your All Doing Well And Staying positive and following Your Dreams😊 My Dream Is 60k. I’m struggling it’s hard but never give up!😁

[@underwaterseas]

Oh, y’all want us to cry today? 😭

[@Noah_Plays21]

Fūń fāćt: AS/IS will not pin this

[@teal3af49]

You’re correct. They won’t (hopefully since we know damn well this is just so you can get pinned and not once acknowledged a woman talking to her dying mother)

[@themanthemoththelegend8685]

How would getting pinned for this even be satisfying? It's cheap and sad.

[@Noah_Plays21]

ALL HAIL łëävé më äłońé

[@bug5460]

okay, that’s really sad. but is it really a heart-to-heart if you’re posting it on youtube? no hate but what is the point of filming this???

[@bug5460]

@Naledi Mazibuko alright that makes sense thanks xx

[@recoil53]

@@bug5460 Also there are other people in similar situations. It helps them.

[@dixienormous420]

I’m sorry but buzzfeed totally stole this from the midnight gospel on Netflix. Buzzfeed really lost its originality.

[@someonenoone1636]

She got it because of exposure to fiminism

[@pedrodperete]

So you think the best thing to do is put it on KZbin that’s not called a heart to heart that’s called attention seeking

[@artverse188]

It's called helping people who have parents who are also dying and making sure to let people know they should talk to their parents. It's sharing the hard times so people know they're are not alone

[@pedrodperete]

Artverse that’s not being original or you’re self don’t be a sheep it will come from the hart not a KZbin video

[@alicecain2830]

@@pedrodperete It can do both. There is no reason it can't help people who are going through something similar. If you had read any of the comments you'd see that it has touched many. No reason to hate.

[@pedrodperete]

Alice Cain just sheep if you have to follow an instruction video on how to have a hart to hart then maybe you don’t care for that person

[@alicecain2830]

@@artverse188 Thanks for your response. It was well thought out and articulate. So many people wait too long to have these kinds of discussions with people in their lives and it could help so much for each person. No matter what the reason for this video, I think that it could be very timely for viewers.

[@shannonbrophy3687]

I wonder how the daughter doesn't cry once during this video, even after seeing her mom cry? A lack of empathy = narcissist or sociopath, or if born that way, psychopath.

[@nursetobee.]

Its so disrespectful to make such assumptions about somebody because of one Video you saw.

[@mty5645]

Oh man. You win the award for the biggest jump to a conclusion.

[@recoil53]

Not everybody just cries. The daughter also has been going through this most her life. She's had a lot of reactions. Nobody has to cry to prove anything to you.

[@artverse188]

I mean she already had to struggle seeing her father slowly die and her mom already going through once. After a while you get through and decide to enjoy the good times and to not focus on the future but every present moment you have with them. And some people close to someone who is terminally sick go through grief before the person dies and by the time the person does they have let most of their emotions out. There's also monks and groups of enlightened people who don't experience grief because they have meditated long enough on the fact that nothing is forever. They don't expect people to be around forever, so when they go it's not so hard. A monk who's son died said he experienced no sadness because he didn't expect his son to be around forever and he was grateful for every moment he had with him, and his son was healthy and died in an accident. People are complicated beings with powerful hearts and minds.

[@michtsiify]

What is wrong with you? This comment is so cruel. I really hope you sit with yourself and why you felt the need to write this.

[@wheneveryousmile1]

Why on EARTH would you put this on YT. As someone who watched both her father and her grandmother turn into zombies and die of cancer at age 15... this content is repulsive.