I asked out 100 girls on a date to get over my fear of rejection... this is what I learned

[@got_chorro]

UC Sam Date

[@yankeesam11]

COMMENT OF THE YEAR. Please stay part of the community here hahahahahahhaha

[@voted]

Nice pfp bro

[@justorange3808]

@@yankeesam11 ur fucking inspirational

[@zeffery101]

​@@yankeesam11 I thought that campus was UCSD but I wasn't 100% sure until that girl #16 said it Graduated in 2021 and never dated sadly. Transferred in then COVID... good luck w/ life mate

[@mercadorodriguezgerson3549]

@@yankeesam11 bro, can i get the text monologue that you used?, i want to translate this to spanish for my loser cousins xd.

[@AmazingStoryDewd]

Asking 100 people is easy. Asking someone you actually like is far harder.

[@rachitaggarwal1283]

Not "easy"

[@muhamadmiftahurrizqi5909]

Damn!

[@johnprather9424]

Yeah because you want things to work out smoothly and not mess anything up

[@impudentdomain]

no that's wrong, the purpose of a date is to see if you might like them

[@henriklmao]

If you know how, then it isn't that hard. The rejection is just harder.

[@fosfo7363]

At this point am getting convinced that geting a girl's boyfriend to go on a date with you is far easier than geting a date with a girl.

[@pixelzebra8440]

Lmfao

[@ashhadalam8874]

Two of my best friends introduced me to their current girlfriend using these exact words ‘Girlfriend, meet my boyfriend’

[@stud28gr]

You really should date men.

[@johncox2912]

Hahahahaha!!!!

[@B1ENTERTAINMENT30]

when all else fails, the bro code reigns supreme lol

[@mikalastseraph7894]

Can we just appreciate how guys would always say yes? True Bros solidarity

[@whakjob]

I'm 42 now and am glad guys are less toxic these days, I would totally do that for a laugh if I was with my girl.

[@jakubslavik5595]

Yeah, boys are the best. My friend had some troubles (first a girl openly showed him she was interested in him and then later rejected him, because she had too much stuff to do and other shit) and I was a bit worried about him, so to cheer him up I asked a girl on a date just to be also rejected, so we went for a beer with my friend.

[@soccernatic]

@@jakubslavik5595 I need a friend like that... you are a true hero my bro!

[@kundan1630]

@@jakubslavik5595 respect 📈📈📈

[@macmcleod1188]

Nah. Gay guys wouldn't say yes. And most guys in serious relationships wouldn't-- basic pain avoidance. And a at least some guys would suspect a trap, some kind of scam, some kind of ripoff and say no. So.. probably 40-55 would say yes.

[@gevans5446]

In my experience, 19% acceptance rate on a cold approach is like batting 0.500 in the major leagues. This guy is legend.

[@bleensteen9331]

Yeah but he was clearly asking it as a hypothetical stunt so obviously girls are going to be more inclined to say yes to seem nicer.

[@thabulos]

Well said man.

[@rebinu]

@@bleensteen9331 more like they're gonna say no/boyfriend because hes putting a camera in their face and putting them on the spot. Go touch some grass and then talk to some girls. World isnt so bad as you think.

[@medcol-gx8pp]

​@@rebinulol keyboard warrior tryna hurt his feelings, bet you've never touched a girl in your life

[@OneTequilaTwoTequila]

19 girls out of 100 felt pity.

[@milkcrate5735]

This man deserves a nobel prize for his confidence alone

[@coolgamers2794]

This guy in the video needs to relax and enjoy life. If he was born ugly or isn't perfect; his life isn't over! He might not be super attractive; but that is where he can always go to Las Vegas, Nevada to seek adult services if ever necessary. I am an Asian American guy whose look is about *Above Average* and the first time I ever tried to ask a girl out was so nerve racking even as a military veteran whose pretty embolden with tough training. You get to learn about being tough and having a thick neck about girls saying no. I had to go through 20-30 girls of just socializing/dating around before finally finding my current wife. To get his hopes up; My first girlfriend I ever seriously got into a relationship was a white girl that I met through a Church gathering. Woman when it comes to dating all will operate with the same psychology of trying to figure out who you are and are you worth the time. Whatever values, goals, devious thoughts, or ways how they want to use you in a possible relationship is all up to them. That is where you must figure out also if the girl you're talking to worth the time. The hardest part of any relationships is maintaining it. I am now married to an Asian American girl though; but that was after 12-15 years of dating/mingling around many girls before running into my wife. Confidence is great; but also using some wits to figure out which girl best suits your future is what counts the most.

[@scintillam_dei]

@@coolgamers2794 Prostitution is degrading.

[@coolgamers2794]

@@scintillam_dei It's all part of life no different than people doing drugs. 2/3 of people in the world support female hiring for sexual services.

[@scintillam_dei]

@@coolgamers2794 Yes, it's part of LIfE. You did an AD POPVLVM fallacy. Popularity is irrelevant to morality or you're as low as the lowest common denominator.

[@coolgamers2794]

@@scintillam_dei Keep thinking that way kid. You'll never see life as the perfect fantasy you think it was. Once you grown up more; you will learn to accept reality as it was designed. Btw; my wife does not object to me accepting the fact that woman can choose to sell their bodies. She is a conservative woman but still understands that man and woman can choose to partake in actions with societies oldest profession.

[@shawnsmith4692]

As someone with social anxiety, I don't think it's the fear of rejection that's the worst part of this. It's the fear that they will actually say yes and I'll have to spend an entire evening trying to be interesting.

[@KindaOutofHere]

That is so true 😂😂😂

[@minnie21434]

I read somewhere that if you take your first date to play games that increase your adrenalin, they'll have a good time & also always associate you with a happy feeling they had during the adrenalin rush.

[@kookilenakkk8779]

Being boring is one of my biggest fear… that’s why when I have a crush, I always try to see him with a group of friends so I know that I won’t be alone if I ever run out of interesting things to say

[@exudeku]

Basically "damn, I never expected to go this far"

[@rodrigo-tj1gf]

both are scary

[@_Izxk]

If only 1% of the world finds you attractive that’s 78 million people

[@yankeesam11]

That is... true

[@BenjiBHasNoD]

yeah and their all in fucking russia or smthin

[@ConchRepublic2047]

What if it’s like a tenth of that 1% like 7,800,000 people, there’s what, 8 billion people in the world, at that point there’s only 1 girl in every 1,000 girls attracted to you.

[@metalrockstarizer89]

@@BenjiBHasNoD hahaha

[@KiraTheGod666]

@@BenjiBHasNoD Well this is your chance they are all fleeing their shit country they might be your Neighbors soon!

[@ooooggll]

"I'm too emotionally attached to fictional characters right now" 💀

[@LIBqueen]

LMAO!

[@DONTTOUCHTHEGRASSIMALLERGIC]

literally me

[@Bunny-xr7cx]

Gojo fan

[@banerjeehome5913]

@@DONTTOUCHTHEGRASSIMALLERGIC eww

[@xxxarimaxxx]

​@@banerjeehome5913 eww

[@habsfan4ever67]

19/100 agreed dates is WAY better than you’d do on any dating app. People are lucky to get 1/100 matches let alone dates. Good on you for putting yourself out there.

[@SynthhInHD]

Guys* are lucky to get 1/100 matches. Women have zero problem.

[@journeyoflife9159]

@@SynthhInHD true I once opened a girl account just to test how it is and figure the app better. The app was flooding in just a few minutes

[@LechuKawaii]

@@SynthhInHD lgbt guys have an easier time too. I'm bisexual and I get likes all the time, but 95% of them come from men and i am not interested in the majority of them

[@shawnsmith4692]

I saw an interview once where someone was talking about Tinder statistics. It was something like less than 5% of men on the app receive like +90% of the matches. So you have almost no chance of having success unless you're in the top 5% of attractive men. And apparently when a man does well, they will give them a free upgraded membership and try to encourage them to use the app more.

[@ImJugg]

@@journeyoflife9159 damn...

[@pinduli]

As a girl, I think It's important to note that a lot of the women laughed right as he asked them. THE MAJORITY WERE NOT LAUGHING AT HIM. The laughing is due to nervousness, not thinking he's ridiculous for asking him.

[@humanyoda]

Thanks for noting that!

[@sheppee5608]

Woulda Laffed in his face, pushed him to the ground, kick him and ride the ddd

[@theYoutubeHandle]

hey, speak for urself.😂

[@fos1451]

It depends, you can't just generalized this

[@sheppee5608]

@@fos1451 I would ride his ddd

[@youtubewatcher4955]

When you start looking at rejection as part of the process and not objective failure it gets a lot easier.

[@thendomudau558]

You can get a 1000 girls and still feel hurt getting rejected by one. Rejection is too deep

[@chooonker]

@@thendomudau558 yeah, it really depends on how much connection you have with girl, you can have 1000 hoes which you don't care but that one which you truly love will be hard

[@TimothyGod]

@@thendomudau558 that's not the point of the comment. You gotta understand rejection will and can happen, and gotta move on

[@desert4seat]

@@thendomudau558 um.. but in reality, there is no such thing as "rejection." C'mon people

[@omerkose2218]

@@desert4seat "Um, actually..." 🤓

[@high.level.noob.]

Almost 1/5 acceptance is actually insane

[@Squared_Table]

That’s the power of being over six foot, shoving a camera in people’s face, and “confidence”.

[@EmoneyXC]

@@Squared_Tablefacts. I’m a bit introverted but I’m a 6ft athlete and if I had a camera in my hand I’d be unstoppable 😂

[@dieauferstehung]

cuz hes tall

[@nevergiveupbaby1720]

Losers

[@McP1mpin]

1/5 said yes to going on a date on the spot but he didn't leave with them on the spot. If he got all their numbers and tried to set up the date later, I bet less than 1/5 of those 1/5 would actually follow through.

[@ethan-scott]

One of the most wholesome, supportive, positive “male-mental-health” videos I’ve ever seen. Cheers man. Killin it.

[@BusinessWolf1]

seen*

[@ethan-scott]

I have no idea what you’re talking about! *whistles in perfect grammar*

[@holidaycomplex]

less tate more sam pls youtube

[@abdood6173]

@@holidaycomplex they both help

[@suprecam9880]

Agree with that!

[@andricrypto2852]

As a guy who used to have really bad acne, the stuff can really affect your confidence and get you down. You're a king for not letting it get to you.

[@handlemonium]

I got really bad eczema/dermatitis on the corners of my forehead. One day at a time for sure. I'll definitely ask a friend or a fresh acquaintance out when I'm ready 😉👍

[@asfuji]

@@handlemonium I have skin issues like that as well, mostly on my face and honestly there's days I don't feel like leaving my house at all. It's also eczema/dermatitis and of course, there's days when I'm good and days when it's really bad. And even with that, I have success in dating, because there's girls who can understand it and not look down at you because you have this skin issue. Girls have them too but they hide it with make up and of course, there's many normal girls who don't mind that you have this issue. I don't know how far into treating your skin you are, but what you eat and how you shower and what cosmetics you use. But even with that, sometimes it still gets bad.

[@TheCommandant-wb9tv]

My cystic acne 😢

[@madi8181]

Your comment just made him realize that 😂

[@fx_raj]

How did you treat the acne?

[@shantymanshep]

These people are all so chill. I love how the boyfriends laugh it off and say that they would probably date him if they weren’t in a relationship

[@Michal235]

The most classy approach, to go with the joke. Well done by them

[@Innatefulness]

It’s what San Diego does to you lol

[@shukailu6731]

Most boyfriends are cool and well-calibrated (socially). It's probably why the girls like them

[@GilbbBuilds]

@@shukailu6731 for real bro,

[@calvry4157]

San Diego looking really cool after this video...every conversation with each person was great

[@thebestone11-r9y]

There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

[@blueyoshi4211]

Why is this the second time I’ve seen this exact comment on a video about dating?

[@osamudazai5214]

Horrible plugin

[@kairon5249]

If you need the fucking Casanova Playbook of Magnetism you weren't compatible to begin with

[@cloudsRniceC0M3]

19% is roughly 4000% better than tinder

[@ANM21985]

true.. only Chads get 19% match rates on Tinder.

[@masterexploder9668]

Real life is actually easier than apps. You might think it's easier, because you don't talk with somebody face to face and can swipe while comfortable on your couch, but the results speak for themselves.

[@ANM21985]

@@masterexploder9668 Yes but also no. Not everyone can deal with potentially getting rejected by 100 girls face to face ..whereas on an App you're basically just swiping so its a lot easier. Apps as well allow you to hit on a large amount of girls a lot more efficiently than in real life. However most people will probably get better results with in real life simply because what happens online is that the top 10% of men get more matches/likes than the bottom 90% combined. So if you're an average guy then approaching offline is definately gonna yield better results if you have a thick enough skin for it.

[@BoysinBlue-zn5db]

Real life dating chances of success are like 2%-20% depending on your personality, looks, height, physique etc. Online, only top 1-2% get the dates because the standards there are too high due to exposure to a lot of external influences.

[@BoysinBlue-zn5db]

Dating isn't fair at all for men. I'd rather wait for someone

[@xero8047]

to be honest some of the girls who told him yes seemed really pretty and cool and it made me realize just being down to earth with people and not being afraid of a no can do more for you than you’d think

[@lolong5976]

That is actually true. Social media has brainwashed men into thinking every girl is a gold digger, wants 6 ft, 8/10, etc. And all these bs is mostly said on so called self improvement or pick up artists channels. And it's obvious that mainly men with less confidence, introverted, shy watches those channels. And those creators only show a handful of overreacting or scripted gold digger women into those videos to put up a narrative. And men believe it. Most go projecting cause they need to feel better about themselves too. Since they can't get a woman they whine about them. And it has became a default narrative cause it's overused so people believe it as a truth. There are authentic prank channels too where girls and women are mostly chill and even give numbers to the pranksters. Even tho the pranksters aren't attractive or 6 ft or whatever. They just show confidence and decent approach. And about picking up girls randomly is stoopid too. If a girl gets impressed by a mere pick up line or in the club then it's obvious she isn't for long term relationship. Same with guys who use pick up lines. If it's about asking fisherman how to catch a fish, then it literally means asking how to get only one type of women. Cause the fisherman is himself the "street" who attracts women who belongs to the streets. Any guy riding the village bicycle isn't worth too. And a decent, high value woman won't get picked up by a man who is himself a street. Just like a decent, high value man won't go for the women from streets lol

[@qersy127]

I didn't really find them to be cool but it's whatever

[@plague6174]

@@qersy127 Think about it. Because its easier to get over rejection of someone you don't know rather than someone you've had on your mind long-term, and you would rather the latter not fail

[@fahad8162]

I dont blame them for rejecting a random guy they're seeing for the 1st time

[@SwamiEU]

nah, being afraid of a no and talking to no one leaving you eternally alone is the way to go

[@stevenfriedman2902]

I actually really liked the "I'm too emotionally attached to fictional characters right now" response

[@anthonygallow281]

Fuck a red flag that’s a red blanket

[@xinderx]

Yeah anyone that says that is a thousand percent not worth it

[@stevenfriedman2902]

I feel like that's the exact reason she's telling him. She knows she's a red flag and letting him know what's going on with her so that's her excuse as to why not to date her. I just thought it was funny she's being honest about it

[@sakura7310]

@@stevenfriedman2902 right? And i kinda can relate to rhis response as well lol

[@xquisid]

Both men and women can also have their emotion to be attached to a fictional character, even some can takes into another level.

[@alexandrefreitas9295]

'Im too attached with fictional characters right now" is the best way to turn someone down ever...

[@DaOverman00]

Women will be hearing this a lot in the future 😂😂

[@toffinabof1353]

Lessons: If you ask 100 girls, you are guaranteed a date When a girl says they have a boyfriend, 80% of the time they are too kind to say no Be confident

[@kennarajora6532]

I'm glad I learnt this lesson young.

[@thomasowens4844]

Idk if that's true but I also am a man

[@pike9009]

I agree w all of this except it's not kind to say to not say no. Some guys are so persistent and need to hear "No I'm not interested".

[@toffinabof1353]

@@thomasowens4844 This is just my take from the video. I'm not an expert by any means.

[@prettyoriginalnameprettyor7506]

@@toffinabof1353 Lying isn't cool. The truth is

[@kumarshreekanta7552]

This is far better than 90% of the content that I watch in a month..

[@yankeesam11]

Appreciate the kind words man :') hope you subscribe and stay part of the community!

[@personmcpersonperson2893]

i agree with kumar, you made an awesome video!

[@ralfz_3106]

true

[@freesoul666]

Stop wasting you time watching lame content and chasing the dopamine high and I will too! We do in this!? Who's with me hahh

[@sarahstari]

Literally.

[@leafodan3730]

A friend told me this decades ago in high school. He always said “play the numbers. Hit on as many girls as you can and learn from failure. 1 in whatever is bound to go out with you.” He was absolutely right.

[@davide1652]

Yeah, I have heard that from a buddy. He told me he had been with nearly a 100 woman but rejected by double that and like 8 or 10 of them were 10s in looks

[@creatingvideostobreakmyspe6049]

Yeah but where on EARTH do you find these girls? Thats the issue.

[@Feathertail2205]

@@creatingvideostobreakmyspe6049 wherever life takes you. Just be open to opportunities

[@creatingvideostobreakmyspe6049]

@@Feathertail2205 I am an autistic man, essentially trapped. I go to special needs groups, no women, I also simply cannot find any groups that girls attend.

[@alaaye5237]

Aren’t you supposed to ask out women you actually like for their personality? Or does that just not matter to you? 💀

[@Nunyuh_Business]

"I like your personality" and "you're good at taking sarcasm" in the same breath is crazy

[@mcswizz9609]

I love how chill all the boyfriends were 😂😂 def passed the vibe checks 💯

[@truthteller3024]

Beta males are like that. Back in the day before feminisation of men, the only answer to that was a big punch in the face by the bf and silence and frown by the gf. Welcome to the world of snowflakes, hookup culture, abortion, divorce and gender inventions.

[@sr-71667]

all the Boyfriends can tell an ugly dude is no threat.

[@Johnny_Silverhand77]

Yeah cz the dude is below average... If he was hot or cute, dressed nicely majority of boyfriends will get pressed

[@serengeti4027]

@@Johnny_Silverhand77 eh... i think it was more that they were chill and felt secure in their relationships lol

[@RainbowBandana]

Naww weak man check

[@pwerplazlol725]

I feel like the fact that he actually managed to approach 100 random girls and get them to agree to be filmed answering this embarrassing question is the most impressive

[@jennag.5125]

HONESTLY

[@lances6466]

Yes, what happened to the girls that didn't want to be recorded. I assume he didn't ask them out.

[@illustriousinc8608]

He asked out a hundred more girls in 1 day than I did my entire life. What a champ.

[@mikeshafer]

Wow. 19% acceptance on cold approaches where you straight up ask for a date is impressive.

[@yoshi4799]

I think the biggest takeaway from this video is the fact that this guy got 16 girls to say yes, so no matter who you are, you can get at least one, and I think you should, everyone deserves love and respect.

[@davide1652]

Not everyone 😅

[@yoshi4799]

@@davide1652 everyone unless they loose that basic human right by being a menace to society

[@dafeels3085]

You have not demonstrated that it would work for everything person. There probably is someone ugly enough that everyone would say no (or get only pity yes's). Also, it probably helped a lot that he was a content creator.

[@starlightakabane4686]

nobody deserves love or respect

[@gougouga]

you didnt have to do him like that

[@dvictor1350]

"I don't trust guys that approach girls." Please tell me I'm not the only one that caught that cause I'm lost for words after that lol

[@WhiteRanger1298]

So you don't trust guys that want to date women?

[@tradeo8899]

Dodged a bullet

[@Kyrobucks]

Yeah she’s lost.

[@SamC77]

in her mind humans reproduce by mitosis.

[@IamINERT]

"She doesnt trust guys that are not attractive who approaches girl"

[@rithvikyagnamurthy6560]

Dude I don’t think you understand how insanely good a 19% acceptance rate is! Congratulations on having the confidence to ask people out, you definitely made huge improvements in this video! Just make sure whoever you decide to enter a relationship with us high quality and respects you just as you respect them

[@fedes9626]

The guy is 6' plus it is almost all that is needed in the US.

[@ryusnipes6284]

@@fedes9626 if he did some skin care and worked out he would be easily an 8 or a 9

[@nonlmao]

51%!!

[@Leo-gi7bg]

even 1% is good, since that's 1 entire person, and a relationship is with 1 person.

[@alvarogarcia8880]

It means that you have to like some of those 19% of girls, as with the other 81% you dont have chances, so it is quite difficult that you like one of them. And as some of the girls said, a date is just a date and it doesnt mean anything

[@myles432]

So some girls dislike the idea of guys randomly approaching yet others like the confidence.

[@Crybaby-Media]

I work at an appliance store . Half our reviews are “they’re down my throat the second I get in the door , it’s so annoying “ The other half are “they didn’t even ask if I needed help, so I left and didn’t come back” It’s always gonna be like this . We just can’t be scared of taking the chance

[@McP1mpin]

Most like the confidence. There are always exceptions of course because there are all kinds of people, but in general confidence is king. Part of having confidence is being confident enough to get rejected though.

[@pro-xo5hu]

Girl - "I'm engaged" Sam - "is there anything I could do to change your mind?" SAVAGE 😂😂😂

[@yankeesam11]

Glad you caught it haha

[@rafael502]

"If I don't see a ring, then she's still fair game!"

[@forman208]

Savage? That shit is SO fucking played out lol.

[@AnotherSkyTV]

Lolol

[@Kinobambino]

@@forman208 are you the girls fiancé

[@WolfmanMadden]

Sam, you're a legend. The number of times I haven't approached a girl I found attractive due to fear is crazy. You beat that fear 100 times in one day. Incredible.

[@ricosnell4623]

Ikr so many chances

[@frederic6998]

they were not girls he find attractive, he just asked random girls.

[@premsinghrathore9691]

That's called quick iteration technique

[@wobblestone3148]

@@frederic6998 still a good effort

[@gregoirepolet4991]

That guy has some balls

[@MrSulfurMustard]

Someone said to me once "C'mon man, it's just talking and accepting a "no" or a "yes". Stop taking yourself and everything so seriously." Changed my life. Be confident and resilient.

[@GhostStaff27]

I think that's the hard part. If "love" is a matter of raw statistics and numbers, then the chances to be with the one you really like for are low. Also, not many people have figured out coping mechanisms to be that "resilient" in the first place. That's why many don't take the shot in the first place; and I guess it's ok if you don't want to be hurt. However, if you're really looking to for someone, you must swallow the bitter pill. No other option left.

[@anomaly3215]

saying "be confident" is an ignorant take, being yourself is 100x better than being confident, and it's not always possible to do both at once, if you don't feel confident, then pretending to be confident means you're lying to yourself and to everyone you're trying to be confident to, thus making you dishonest and insincere, instead just be as comfortable as you're comfortable being and if the person doesn't accept it then they don't care about you for the person you are

[@imadoge5036]

@@anomaly3215 this approach is also ignorant. There are 2 options: 1. Be comfortable but unsuccesful with people 2. Leave your comfort zone with a minimal risk but you end up becoming better and more confident no matter what. People often go for 1,but option 2 is the harder approach with less guidance

[@MrSulfurMustard]

@@anomaly3215 I can't find where I wrote "be confident", so I'm a bit confused about where did you get that... Anyway, personally, I didn't take it to mean that something along the lines of the following: Focus on being calm and comfortable with yourself, not on what others think or say. Obviously this does not refer to some type of yolo-style bs, you have to remain as respectful and attentive to others as much as focused on yourself. Not easy, as others have said. Cheers.

[@dionysosalters9577]

That worked for me too. After I moved to Thailand.

[@ApexNick]

Cold calling - Without any small talk, that's an incredible acceptance rate. Two takeaways from this that took me a few decades to figure out (I started dating WAY before the Internet when we had to figure stuff out on our own): 1) Dating is a numbers game. Never get your heart set on one person. 2) The pretty girls are at least as likely to say yes as the average ones, often more so as most guys don't have the courage to ask them out. Well done.

[@KevvoLightswift]

Do you think that still holds true in the our dating app world? I would expect attractive women to say no to men in real life because they gets 100s of likes online. I'm open to being proven wrong. Also, to what degree do you think age affects rejection/acceptance rates?

[@gregtheflyingwhale]

Its not the fear of rejection, but the fear of seeming like a creep or a weirdo, because obviously nobody is approaching people on the streets these days, which means that you are either too good to be true or a psychopath... Its an actual thought I face every time I approach someone publicly even though I've done it gazillion times

[@agitatedcarrot1689]

My thoughts exactly man

[@noir1923]

@SelfHelp&TheoriesWithWes so true brother, i dont give a shit if a girl rejects me, what bothers me is public opinion after that.

[@BonzoDrummer]

Wrong. Other way around.

[@Jake-qo8mz]

EXACTLY

[@BluntlyBean]

SAMEEEE specially when you were raised in a different culture such as myself

[@shwift8789]

massive respect for doing this. As someone who is massively scared of rejection, this is like a superhero! Especially that final message that you should never be discouraged! Loved the video Sam!!!

[@guerrill]

hey bro, an advice, you should never think about women like he did at the end. They are NOT special, they are NOT that goddess that our mind create. They want more than they can provide, and it's very difficult to find one that match you and will CONTINUE matching along your life. Be vigilant, take care.

[@willb5278]

@@guerrill "They want more than they can provide" Alright, who hurt you? This sounds specific enough to be damage from an ex. *rereads that* That came out more hostile and less funny than it was in my head.

[@shwift8789]

@@guerrill not all women are the same.

[@larrellmcclain7513]

@@willb5278 it’s true 90% of the time

[@guerrill]

@@willb5278 it's not about hurt, it's all about evidences. Women are constantly looking for better life, if her man can't provide it, she will get it by another way, and you can't prevent it, it's natural. The more she has, the more she wants, and most of women can't hold it back, unfortunately. You think the things are equal? Women offer the body, and the men the rest? If you're okay with that, go for it. Like I said, it was an advice.

[@mswloading3194]

In high school, I started flirting with everyone. It made it much easier to flirt with girls I was interest in. And I didn’t come off as scared or corny. Essentially, these types of things build your confidence

[@iheyyy8115]

How can i improve lol help me out buddy 💀

[@gameseeker6307]

Me and I_Heyyyyy: 🗿🤝🗿

[@jf8188]

@@iheyyy8115 talk to them like a friend

[@BlackRose-rp7kv]

@@iheyyy8115 be a slut. It’s an underrated personality trait that helps especially in todays age of social anxiety

[@flippinnngiraffe808]

@@jf8188 but make sure to not be “too friendly”, ore else they will friendzone you

[@Shanyae9]

"You learn to love yourself" Kinda hard to make a family with just that, y'know

[@demeter966]

Dude, i'm almost 20, never had a girlfriend nor even a date before because of extreme social anxiety, but this video defnitely made a click in my head and will help me for sure to get that confidence boost that I always needed. Thank you for that. Much love

[@Jocelyn-Blzr]

give us updates soon bro

[@habdman]

good luck bro, remember to have fun 👍

[@nurtaytulegenov7431]

Better try it when you're young. I am already 24 with no dating experience and when you start working you don't have neither time or energy to do anything about. I mean, this is in case you prioritize own career

[@demeter966]

Thanks for your kindness guys, I will keep you updated

[@thestruggler7926]

Lol I'm 20 and I've never asked a girl out. The girls I've found interested in college so far are either taken or I'm not their type at all. I just feel anxious about asking a girl out without knowing what they're into or if they're taken.

[@daenerystargaryen4185]

The girl who said she's too emotionally attached to fictional characters is a whole mood

[@k9prtr]

You mean, pathetic?

[@anomaly3215]

but they don't exist, live in reality

[@JonDotExe]

@@anomaly3215 it was sarcasm ;)

[@G_Singh222]

I would cosplay for her 😂

[@raymondleggs5508]

I'm sorry Jon Snow killed your dragon, then killed you.

[@RafaelMunizYT]

I have social anxiety and this video made me realize asking a girl out is easier than it seems. also being straightforward gives you extra points because it makes you look confident and that's a plus with women. anyway I'm still scared of asking girls out

[@emiliocedeno369]

@Robel Habte Read “Conversations with God” I’m not bashing religion but God has some things to say about your religion in this book. Perhaps soon you can listen to the free Audiobooks they have on KZbin. Blessings 🙏🏼

[@andrebaxter4023]

You can do it Rafael. Go out there and try.

[@FirstLast-sw1gx]

Don't walk up to a girl with a camera in her face and say "Would you go on a date with me". This guy isn't even asking them out. He's presenting a hypothetical scenario to someone being put on the spot and recorded.

[@rotgutthebloated4730]

People need to try this and be dissapointed. Get no result. Until they try asking 100 girls out, no way will they belive its not possible. I tryed also 100 times, way before this video was made, and had 0/100 success. I tell others this is bullshit method, but its only good for 1 thing, reassuring people that even if u try 100 times u wont succeed. Its NOT a numbers game. The 80/20 rule is still true. So take my advice, go ahead, try it 100 times. Like i did. See what happens!

[@andrebaxter4023]

@@rotgutthebloated4730 , it's definitely a numbers game. Gotta get through the nos to get to the yesses. So you didn't get success within 100? Maybe try 101. Maybe try 200.

[@neiljohnson7914]

This guy has way way more luck with the ladies than I ever did.

[@EinSofQuester]

I know what you mean, dude. This guy has way more luck with the ladies than I ever did. How does he do it? If I asked 100 women probably none of them would even look at me.

[@adamward3603]

i dont mind a girl telling me no to a date, its the "awkwardness" that comes after a no that i dont like. i can go home an accept the no but when something awkward happens i fixate on that, thats something i need to try and fix

[@H0kram]

From an outside perspective it probably looks cute. Maybe tell yourself afterwards that yea it was awkward but rather cute 😁

[@kri5hie]

Agreed, it most likely completely changes how they see you as a person and will probably make things awkward from there on imo

[@morty6159]

Just run away, always works.

[@Chomanji24]

@@morty6159 what if you can't run?

[@letsgobrandon7310]

On to the next one.

[@a.lopez49411]

This is awesome! You should be super proud of yourself just for putting yourself out there in general to that many people

[@yankeesam11]

Thanks Alex, hope it was somewhat entertaining and useful haha

[@gravewalkers]

If he was super proud of himself, would he call himself Asian? I am thinking about an Asian wedding. What can you tell me about that? Nothing. Asian is not an ethnicity. Where do I go for Asian food? You don't. It not an ethnicity. ASIAN is a person exactly like NON ASIAN is a person. Describe a non Asian to me. You can't. It is not an ethnicity. Since it is 100% NOT an ethnicity? What is Asian? In Western Judaism, Asian is a term like comrade or citizen of Earth. It is a way to ERASE YOURSELF for globalism. If you were proud, you would still be a person. You think I will start INTRODUCING MYSELF as 'not Asian'? Find some self respect.

[@jeanpaul4100]

Congrats brother. You will look back at this as a turning point in your life. I am 57. Rejection is the basis for improvement and success. Ps...only ask a girl you are attracted to. I spent 1 year in the gym and...it totally works.

[@ia3893]

@@gravewalkers im an asian and im disappointed in you

[@gravewalkers]

@@ia3893 Tell me what an Asian looks like. Tell me what an Asian wedding is. Tell me what Asian food is. Tell me anything about Asian. It is an ANTI-ETHNIC term. What purpose does it serve? It just means you are a communist and you hate yourself.

[@VasiliyOgniov]

Jokes aside, 19/100 is quite a nice stat overall. I mean, they are complete strangers and, as you said most of rejections are coming from girls who are either lesbians or already dating someone. It's interesting how open people to relationships nowadays. Wish you good luck, pal!

[@waltermh111]

This didnt prove a single thing. How open people are? Women in the USA lie a lot. I can guarantee most of us guys can tell you how many times we have been given a fake number or a real one then ghosted. A tall guy (already an advantage over most men) puts a camera in womens faces and asks them out, and some of them say yes. He didnt try to prove that they would follow through. So people are left to assume that the women will. For most of us guys, we know that women are only open to relationships with about 5-15% of men, and sadly, that means not most of us. The data is quite clear on this. Thats why I used to live overseas and why I am going back overseas as soon as I can. Its too hard to find family oriented women in America. Much easier to find them overseas.

[@VasiliyOgniov]

@@waltermh111 sounds misogynistic tbh. Not everyone are like that

[@waltermh111]

@@VasiliyOgniov well I wouldn't call the women misogynistic for lying. They're just trying to avoid what they see as conflict. And it doesn't matter that most women aren't like that. It's simply something that men have to deal with when trying to talk to women.

[@benitomussolini8544]

19/100 checks out. 80% of women like the top 20% of guys so him getting around 20 women asking him out seems right. I'm very happy for him though! If I got 19 yeses I'd be be happy too.

[@rogersmith7525]

Everybody wants to be in a relationship, we sometimes think the other person is a goddess or a God and we're just peasants, lets not do that guy's they are people just like us.

[@peterdegelder5224]

"I'm too emotionally attached to fictional characters right now" She a real one

[@glanced9684]

Being rejected by someone you really like is an entirely different matter compared to being rejected by random strangers which whom you have little to zero interest.

[@Cataclysm999]

A Win is a Win

[@baha3alshamari152]

Which is why you should ask women all the time so you can avoid falling in love with someone not interested in you

[@chriszone50]

@@baha3alshamari152That’s a good strategy, that way you can avoid being in limbo. That’s why we have dating sites, takes all the awkward shit out of everything.

[@simongloutnez589]

I understand what you mean, but this is super hard for a lot of people. I know because it was hard for me before I started to basically try as often as possible. Finally got a yes, the date was a disaster, tried again, up until I had my first relationship, it was a disaster, quit dating, came back in a much more relax and healthy way, and now Id say I'm actually pretty good at it ! Cant say for sure since Im in a 6 years relationship and still going strong, but you get the idea

[@metatrix4251]

Maybe, but breaking through the fear of asking someone random, is very very very close to breaking through the fear of asking someone you like. If you can ask anybody, you can ask someone you like. If this is not the case, then it is not the fear of rejection that you are afraid of, but the fear that she might say yes.

[@ruohonleikkaaja]

I like how lighthearted this is. No hard feelings, all fun.

[@tylerbream1274]

20% is pretty solid. 100 in a day is also impressive. There are literally thousands of reasons a girl will say no that has nothing to do with her not finding you attractive.

[@n.sadequi4381]

I dont understand that tbh. Can u explain why ? Other than her having a bf ofc

[@sp00n29]

​@@n.sadequi4381 Wrong moment: Going through breakup, other things to deal with emotionally, running away from a killer, being underage or dying of old age. Unavailability (similar to wrong time): Currently in a relation ship. Sexual orientation: You could change your gender, but if so only if it fits with who you are as a person. It's not that you are not attractive as a man/woman, it's that he/she wants something else entirely or nothing at all (asexual). Principle: some people reject others because they decided that they would reject everyone and that doesn't depend on you.

[@Nova-xh2rb]

Let's be real tho 80% of the time it's based on looks if the dude looked like brad pitt the acceptance rate would be 50 percent minimum

[@sp00n29]

@@Nova-xh2rb looks can influence those factors, but it's to say that it would be difficult to convince that person anyway. Besides, looks will only help if you expect one thing from your date^^

[@Olegabruh]

But looks still gonna increase the acceptance rate

[@dkursada]

Man that was enjoyable, being outgoing and holding a conversation with a touch of humor really helps. The right mentality is the most important part. That's the part most of us people miss out on

[@thuglifebear5256]

Asking 100 girls to get used to being rejected is actually genius. Rooting for this guy.

[@neilt6480]

Depends on your personality. Back in the day, I once did a similar experiment, and kept a count: for me 100 straight rejections totally shattered any semblance of confidence. Building immunity doesn't work for all of us. For guys like me with low self-esteem to start with, humiliation accumulates. I think now that my biggest problem was I was way too smart for my own good in school, and breezed through without cracking a book. This hurt me for years as I had never learned how to learn, and was thus unable to learn from failure and revise my strategy. So although I was book smart, I was actually a textbook example of idiot: doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. That was back in the day before internet and cell phones. Today some women get tik-tok kudos for how brutally they can shame a creep for having the temerity to try to talk to her. I would be absolutely terrified of approaching any woman in this day and age.

[@monkey.druffy2]

@@neilt6480I hope you don’t mind me asking. But did you get in a relationship after that 100 girls quest?

[@tappajaav]

@@monkey.druffy2 I just want to hear that his story had the good ending

[@Gkdjd558]

@@tappajaavI’m also curious, cause as a lady, a lot of us in real life are seriously not like that, thats one of our stereotypes in fact 😭. I just hope this man knows that there’s a lot of kind women out there that will even bow their life to their partner.

[@tappajaav]

@@Gkdjd558 For sure. 100 is a pretty small sample size in the grand scheme.

[@rizzamaeong]

When my boyfriend asked me out awkwardly in college, i didn't really like him that much. But I was so impressed by his courage to brave up despite looming rejection. Especially after I saw how he's so nervous and awkward about it. Courage will always be hot.

[@jamescanjuggle]

this reminds me asking my current gf out. I was so nervous not to mention sweaty when anxious😂 i literally showered 3 times that day, but said feck it i like this person im asking them out anyways.

[@unscr]

It doesn't matter. Get courageous brother

[@G59forlife.]

@@shawnmclaughlin7418 if they weren't they'd of called him an ex

[@HeathenwoodOfficial]

@@G59forlife. FOCKING SLAYYYERRRGH

[@Poiuuiopl_pol]

Yous attracted to a dog?? 🤨🤨

[@zurgboy07]

The feeling of asking someone you like is way harder than asking people randomly out on the street.

[@hardinsciver5930]

Cant agree with you

[@mosesssandor]

I 100% agree with him. Bc if it was some random on the street I don't think you'd care if it went either way, but If it's someone you REALLY like you want it to go well so badly. The idea of getting rejected by someone you like a lot sucks.

[@redeyexxx1841]

@@mosesssandor But you have to convey your feel someday bc it's way better than keeping that feeling inside you for eternity.

[@P1CKL3_RICK]

@@hardinsciver5930 okay but you’re wrong regardless

[@r00k1e2]

I think the idea of experiment was to get rid of social awkwardness and fear of rejection as a male in love-interest interactions with girls in general. To win against fear of rejection by the person you deeply in love with is a great challenge for most of us. And it's much more complicated than simple low self-esteem or low social skills. So I agree with you. But to me this video teaches us a very important lesson: u need to try and do what you fear to do, what discourages you from loving others and yourself. And you know what? Yoda once said: "Try not. Do." So whoever reads this: Go and do what you need to do! Good luck!

[@LucasAviador]

People saying dating in 2020s is a nightmare, and then this guy goes on and scores 19 dates. GOAT

[@turtle-kl7ur]

Out of 100 and a lot of them felt like they were saying yes just to not be mean. If a guy approaches girls like crazy and gets rejected as often as he did he usually won't have the balls to keep trying until someone actually say yes, that shit crushes your self esteem plus he asked that many girls without setting any standard in terms of looks a lot of the girls he asked were even below average and those still rejected him

[@LucasAviador]

@@turtle-kl7ur I through some of the Yes girls were attractive. And by the way, this kind of approach is how I met my wife. Here in Brazil it is very common to be VERY direct in parties saying something like "do you wanna make out with me?". I did this at my school graduation 7 days trip and scored 4 kisses in 2 days, one of them is my current wife who looked for me and found me. Rejection is harsh, but learning to handle and deal with it is part of the journey, just be straightforward and fast, it saves your mind from creating fantasy and fake connection with a person.

[@Bennyboy1985]

@@LucasAviador This is what I like about Latin culture- people are more direct with each other. People accept the realities of the sexual interactions and men's/ women's true needs without all the corrosive subversion that's taken place in the west.

[@S_xBobOmb]

19 out of a 100 isn't great dude

[@smtandearthboundsuck8400]

Cute how you think they're not gonna all flake on him.

[@matejzaletelj7260]

Not only was this very inspirational, we gotta give him some credit for the production and storytelling which was insanely good imo, especially for a guy with a little over 20k subscribers. So underrated!

[@VedantMishra55]

Hey man, the last part of your statement sounds patronising, I believe your intent was to give a compliment but it's not coming across that way.

[@Bankmumric]

@@VedantMishra55 i disagree

[@KiwiRussman]

@@VedantMishra55 nah thats a fine comment, you dont expect someone with 20k subs to have a good production, this was a great video

[@genericjoe4082]

20k? That's insultingly low, I thought he had like a million something subscribers.

[@Jordanthecool7]

Nowadays whenever I get rejected, a good way of thinking is this : if they reject you in a nice way then they just aren’t into you and you have to move on , if they reject you in a rude way then they most likely don’t deserve to be treated good in the first place. Edit: if someone keeps being annoying then I understand being rude, but being rude on the very first time they approach is bad for the most part .

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

Another way of looking at it is if they they reject you in a rude way. It usually means they’re insecure and are belitlting you as a way to boost their ego, so while it may hurt, they’re rude rejection has nothing to do with you.

[@pepinillosexy9782]

When they do it nicely its worse because it means youre just not enough and that kinda hurts but we gotta move on boys

[@ZinxTheSlayer]

@@tiahnarodriguez3809 that also could be considered a narcissistic way of looking at it

[@harrietjameson]

or they don't wanna be in a relationship, along with a thousand other reasons

[@caro8164]

Sometimes I rejected guys in a polite way, they didn't get it, I got firmer, they insisted and I ended up being straight up rude so the left me alone. Dating is just not my style. I prefer relationships that just happen after knowing the person for some time

[@connor.chan.jazzman]

4:38 "If I was single I might be tempted, man." This guy is an absolute chad

[@sanjayraju988]

19/100 is actually really good. Bro is good looking.

[@tasha6934]

Who are you lying to?

[@cjsmith8319]

Dude, if you are straight forward and go for it you will be set for life no matter what you decide to do. Don’t lose that mentality.

[@shaif2664]

i dunno about that chief

[@Ze_Chevalier]

Yeah I'm not so sure about that either

[@truffle6082]

Yes he actually would he knows what he wants and goes after it. That's a a man.

[@dajarkman3682]

@@Ze_Chevalier Eventually after 20 rejections we’d know about that haha

[@thequestc]

You've helped more people with this video than you could ever possibly hope to imagine. Absolute power move, cheers king.

[@chuckybeatz-s73]

As a fellow SPAM of 5'11" and three quarters of an inch, with acne and social anxiety to match, I totally relate to you on every level. It's easy to put on a front of confidence, like I've done most of my life, but what you did is truly confident, and inspiring. My guy.

[@sushilmainali3565]

As a fellow guy who struggled with acne problems, idc how it makes me look or whatever but boy those breakouts are hella painful. lads about a month ago i gave up and started washing my face with head and shoulders 2 in 1 anti dandruff samphoo while showering everyday, what would you know my first month without hella painful breakout it might be coincidence but big head and shoulders fan as long as no breakout happens 😂😂

[@Witcher58]

I used to have really bad acne but got rid of it in no time by softly massaging my face with a loofah sponge soaked in warm water 3-4 times each day. No soap or medications of any kind, just loofah and water. Everyone should try this.

[@mochiyeosang1908]

super sorry if this makes you uncomfy cus its not my intention but would you happen to need/want skincare product reccs/advice i can give some! i know a (decent) amount about the topic and also struggled a lot with acne. not so bad that it was cystic but enough to be insecure about it. its gotten a lot better after i think 2 or 3 years of doing it. oh god that is some shit ass grammar omg

[@math3000]

Wait, you get to be 5'11"?

[@MrRyyi]

Don't bother with quarter inches, dude. It's like saying you're 26.75 years old. Just say 6 feet lol

[@michaelmirza1933]

Dude you’re a legend for this one! Massive way to boost your confidence and get over the fear of rejection

[@VladTriesCoding]

This type of comedy is golden.😂👌 Remember that whatever your "acceptance" percentage is, if you find that one person that makes you feel special, nothing else matters. I hope all of you get all the love you deserve. ❤️ Stay positive!

[@ProfessorPunk]

This is actually an awesome video about rejection. Love seeing you go on this journey. Thanks for being vulnerable with us, bro!

[@NInjaTunazier]

Well said and well put bro. My respects to you Ali (and Sam). You seem to know much more than many of us in here. (zero sarcasm here!)

[@ProfessorPunk]

@@NInjaTunazier This response got me laughing and crying. Much love, bro! Let us all continue our individual journeys out from the SPAM! 🥲🤣

[@testsalva2533]

Asking a girl you don't really want is easy but asking the one you're interested with is the hard one. Such peculiarity of human mind.

[@hey.you.in.the.bushes]

Ask them out before you become interested in them 😁

[@oneofthosemoments4564]

@@hey.you.in.the.bushes lower chances of them actually saying yes

[@Uaene]

@@hey.you.in.the.bushes *MIT wants to know your location*

[@alexdgod1106]

Not true, it's about the same difficulty

[@watching7721]

@@alexdgod1106 If you have anxiety about women in general, yes

[@LunarOverdrive]

This is nice. Really shows that "you just have to keep trying" is honestly good advice.

[@GL-GildedLining]

1 in 5 success rate from cold approaching as a shy Asian dude with acne is impressive. 1/5 is a way better shot than most guys get from Tinder. Interesting content, and it was eye-opening! Good on ya!

[@spx730]

it's bs statistic because he has camera and obviously not serious doing some kind of social research... Next time try it with hidden cam, and "for real"

[@fleks6564]

@@spx730 you can really tell that a lot of the girls were virtue signalling heavily probably because of a camera in their face lol

[@buak809]

Yeah that is true, woman don’t want to come off as shallow and later find themselves in a video, but if it was hidden camera, results would be worse for OP

[@Chriss..]

Online dating isn’t worth it unless you know you’re the top 20% of guy if you’re the average guy just cold approach for best result.

[@MylesKillis]

He’s 6”1 soooo

[@ericbishton2779]

If you’re getting 20% success rate, you’re doing great! What he didn’t consider is that many girls will say yes to the date, but ultimately won’t follow through. It’s ok though, it’s all part of the fun and it makes you a better person as long as you maintain respect for yourself and them. Once you get those dates, don’t stay in a mediocre relationship!

[@Bloxeh]

Neither does he though. They way he asked them out (like 3 at once) with a camera no less, it's hard to take it for real. They play along and are nice. Anyway, hope he went on a nice date though :).

[@josefinandersson7646]

and even less girls will have sex with him or find him attractive

[@gevans5446]

Facts. Even getting phone numbers is no guarantee that the date will happen. There are a lot of hurdles to overcome before you can take a girl out on a date.

[@etgha]

Who ARE you Eric Bishton

[@adamruzenec-freerunning9838]

Asking for numbers you can get 50% success rate easily, but the catch is those phone numbers will be useless.

[@Forlorade]

Even though it's only maybe 10% of the video, props for getting through those first 7 rejections, that was definitely the most impressively brave portion of this.

[@dhrutube]

The craziest part is that at least to me, the more attractive girls agreed lol and 19% is insanely good considering you legit walked upto them, also considering so many of them were committed to someone.

[@forsaken7161]

ngl most of the girls who said no or had a boyfriend were mid.

[@RGC_animation]

Actually, this is a good way to ask girls out, you don't feel bad for getting rejected because you're choosing random people and don't know each other, but if you do get accepted, it's a win!

[@empower1201]

girl number 9 said it best, all it takes is confidence my friend!

[@yankeesam11]

She was all too kind to me :,)

[@LyleStevik.]

Cope

[@malikgordon5230]

@@LyleStevik. confidence is key 🔐

[@josephsalah647]

@@malikgordon5230 Looks are key.

[@jeremys3951]

@@LyleStevik. lol more than half of the girls that said yes wouldn’t actually go on a date with him

[@DuccioArmenise]

Every young man should watch this.

[@pedromota7569]

Actually 19% acceptance is an insane result, really good, even more considering its actually 51%, even more considering ur shy.. have no idea how u would think its not good

[@oswaldjameslangston6008]

Camera would of swayed girls massively

[@NA1c158]

i mean, in basball a .200 which is out of 10 bats you hit it 2 times is considered an low average but they can still get hired if their other stats are high enough. 2 out of 10 isn't that bad in all honestly. heck, some legendary players retired with .187 and still had legendary careers. Its really about keeping on working and don't stop trying to succeed. Theres always another chance down the road.

[@crosselsmith776]

@@oswaldjameslangston6008 This is why you need hidden camera. Then after that ask for the girls permission to upload.

[@MylesKillis]

He’s 6”1

[@loverofhumanity]

It's not 19 %. The amount of girls who would actually date this guy seriously is much much lower.

[@lamsam1164]

Yo, this video is very inspiring. Plus, the self-talk you had with yourself at the end is sooo amazing in many ways: it shows your great sense of humor; i love the perspective change that you had where you change from 19% to 51%; and the self-love is beautiful too! Keep it up man! I hope you had fun making this video just like how I had fun watching it!

[@yankeesam11]

Thank you for the kind words, they inspire me! Hope you stick around the community brudda

[@Shane8]

The incredible high you feel when you find out how easy it is to get a girl to agree to go on a date vs the absolute low you feel when you find out how easy it is for her to cancel it

[@bleensteen9331]

Yep you quickly realise that quite a lot of girls see men as easy come easy go. From their perspective dates just drop into their lap along with free meals, taxi rides and sex if they're so inclined. They can choose at their leisure. If it happens to you don't worry, do not chase, and learn to move on.

[@longhenaa]

bro for real, i asked this girl out on a date that I was crushing on and she said yes, then a day later she said "now is not the right time for me". died inside.

[@adamruzenec-freerunning9838]

Yeah people who are impressed by the amount of arranged dates shows they dont try it themselfs.

[@saulbadman5705]

This is definitely one of the best videos on youtube. Funny, relatable, and just so uplifiting

[@Bagman-k]

As a person who gets rejected a lot. This is comforting.

[@alexschmidt443]

Honestly, these girl smiling and actually talking to me would give me confidence, regardless of how many time i'm getting rejected.

[@TubeDeviant]

Just remember guys: you don't find every woman you see as being attractive, and it's the same for women.. It's as simple as that. Don't take rejection personally. Shoot your shot and see what happens instead of regretting not taking that shot at all.. There are also numerous variables which you cannot begin to know from just looking at someone's appearance. Their wants, needs, preferences, personality, characteristic traits..

[@TheTiredhermit]

Yes someone out think Henry cavil is ugly 🤓 bullshit

[@dylanpreciado4110]

This guy just spoke the truth

[@vegetossgss1114]

According to some serious studies, the average woman only finds the top 20% of guy attractive while the average dude finds 50% of women attractive :)

[@josepmariasebastian8886]

@@vegetossgss1114 We will bang a hole in the ground.

[@kcchiefsproductions8687]

@@josepmariasebastian8886 you mean "I"

[@letsbrickthis6731]

lowkey 19% is insane like one in 5 girls will go out with you. that's one in every friend group. respect.

[@bloemkoolendestreetgang450]

Mans pulled out the friend group calculation

[@letsbrickthis6731]

@@bloemkoolendestreetgang450 well you can't go for multiple within the friend group so you gotta take your pickings and dip

[@sullyg9342]

I feel like we can learn some tips from this video : 1 - If we ask people when they are available to talk to like laying of the grass on a sunny day with students it is good idea 2 - It's good to not make them stress by asking right now to go and scaring them, the "would you" is more in theory so they are more likely to say yes sure and it's a good start to maybe making it real after ! 3 - the way he approaches them makes all the difference, if you are pushy, akward, scary it's 100% a No, but he seems friendly and open so they are more likely to listen really the question and answer honestly ! (Also I'm from France and in france it won't work as well because french girls are really scared of strangers because they are harassed in the street a lot so they would be super defensive at first, especially with a camera ! So might be important to talk for a bit before asking !)

[@sarahjoswig1446]

And also remember, girls are normal people just like you

[@aaa-yr2ok]

My friend, I have social anxiety, would you have any advice on how I would deal with this in regards to approaching?

[@thomasdall16]

@@aaa-yr2ok bro i Can relate, had it once before as Well. When you have social anxiety it is really tuff to go and talk to strangers, specially women. But just start out the converstation with a question or a fun fact or something like an icebreaker. Afterwards then just calmly ask if you Can sit at their table or join Them with their activity. Works really easy at work or in School. Just maybe not ask someone out as the first step, to breaking this anxiety, But start very neutral and curious towards someone. Then i bet you it will go smooth.😁

[@sullyg9342]

@@aaa-yr2ok Hum, I would honestly say to have extravert friends bringing you to parties and gathering like that you would have a safety net and it would be better to meet people and maybe after that getting theirs instagram and talking there in private, because if you have anxiety forget street dating haha

[@ayushdwivedi2655]

As a person, who never asked out anyone, this is inspiring......Well done lad! Here's a new sub as well

[@LeeEverett1]

As a guy who's struggled almost his entire life with approaching women due to insecurities and thinking I'm not attractive enough, this video was uplifting and gives me hope. You're not a "Chad" in the looks department yet you still got more than 10 yes's. I feel motivated to put myself out there now.

[@eugengolubic2186]

I feel you bro. I wish I could give you a pill that solves this, but there is no easy way. It used to scare me, but as I practiced and exposed myself it got better. Go out and try. However I might not try asking directly "would you go on a date". If you worry about what people might think of you, when you visit a foreign city or country, you say pretty much everything you want because who gives a shit. That will make you more confident. I suggest you work on yourself (exercise, diet, money, hobbies) so you have something to offer, but go out more and talk with all kinds of people. Just talk to random stangers. Ask what time is it, comment on peoples clothes, haircut or whatever you like about them. That will give you confidence with girls. If you don't have anything to say or don't find an excuse to talk to a pretty girl you saw, just say that you thought she was pretty and you wanted to say hi. You will face a lot of rejection, but as long as you continue going forward, nothing will stop you. If you want more advice or anything just say it. Good luck!

[@giideonk1494]

@@eugengolubic2186 everyone is beautiful in their own way be happy who you are! face your fear

[@mrj4082]

Yea, same

[@eugengolubic2186]

@@giideonk1494 thanks for the support. Ofc there is fear, but it's better to face your fears

[@supersaiyangoku9492]

6’1

[@LongIslandAF95]

This video is what's going to make me go to the club tonight with my friend who always goes, and ask a bunch out of girls out on dates. It's not about getting the dates its about realizing its better to be rejected then regret I didn't try at all.

[@AC-mp7cx]

this video shows how down bad men are though. Men have to try so hard, and women don't at all. It's privilege

[@joheb]

@@AC-mp7cx as if we haven't been knowing this?

[@Duran762]

Dont do that bro. Girls get approached all the time

[@lilyluhtwizzy]

@@AC-mp7cx it really isn't that hard

[@Blox117]

clubs are not the place to ask for dates

[@hawkeditz6210]

"Beggars can't be choosers" damn that hits me with the truth ☠️

[@rosa9005]

I think its interesting how comfortable these women look. Often times when someone has a camera in their face it makes them nervous but you were able to make them feel okay.

[@waltermh111]

Hes tall, I have seen it myself. New people start the job and the women start orbiting around the tall guys. Its sad how easy tall guys have it. But yeah, he has a camera in their face and is tall and putting them on the spot. They acted as I expected. Theres really nothing special he did.

[@rosa9005]

@@waltermh111 you have a bunch of asian girl music videos on your channel...I don't think your height is the problem...no offense...

[@waltermh111]

@@rosa9005 Of course, because I make sure the girls see my youtube channel as soon as I talk to them so they know I like Asia. Are you really that ridiculous all the time? I used to live in Asia. Had 2 great relationships there. Dont go insulting Asian women now just because they actually find me worthy. I would love to date an American woman. but for that, I would have to be given a chance, and no, they dont know that I like anything Asian because I dont wear Asian clothes, I dont listen to Asian music in my normal playlist (the youtube playlists themselves are years old) and I dont talk about Asian stuff. You thought you had a low blow but it only made you look pathetic.

[@rosa9005]

@@waltermh111 😭😭😭 so un self aware

[@waltermh111]

@@rosa9005 you are right, you are. Oh well...

[@StephanRogers-y7t]

Much props. You asked out some really pretty girls. Good job!!

[@phen-themoogle7651]

I haven't even asked out 1 person on a date in the past 8 years, it's amazing that you can do this much in one day lmao such a boss! xD

[@rbanerjee605]

Yeah, it’s kind of difficult when you’re married…

[@kiradotee]

@@rbanerjee605 but not impossible! So keep your chin up 😂

[@dorothytran2926]

Wow your courage is off the charts! I got rejected after working up all my courage for a whole year to ask out a guy and decided to never try again lol 😂So major respect to anyone who can go through that multiple times.

[@yankeesam11]

Keep your head up! Rejection sucks, but it's not the end of the world :')

[@MrGreenixx]

Respect to you, I met a cute girl recently but couldnt muster the courage to even try and now I have no way of ever meeting her again. Rejcetion is still better than Regret.

[@Kinobambino]

Aww Dorothy 🥺 you'll find a nice hombre

[@jonathanpagan4465]

Same 😔

[@boruuchiha9560]

@@MrGreenixx that’s a nice way to put it

[@jblen]

Im interested how these conversations started. Presumably you asked for permission to film them, and they all seem to think you're quite friendly while I imagine someone running up to girls and filming them would get much more animosity. First impressions really matter, even if that impression is being asked if you can be filmed.

[@-Teague-]

Idk what he actually did, but if I were him i would've said something like "Hey can I interview you?" Or something like that. So the dating question still has shock value but i know they're okay with being filmed.

[@MattII33]

Same here, I’m actually more curious about how he broke the ice and started the conversations with all 100 girls than how he asked them out lmao

[@teabow.]

@@MattII33It's so real. The hardest part for me is breaking the ice. It's not knowing anything that's terrifying. Once it's broken though, I find talking so much easier.

[@marklikesit4523]

He should probably sort out his acne problem, that is one first impression which is negative.

[@rlhugh]

@@marklikesit4523but then this video would be less interesting. Who wants to see some hot guy get a zillion 'yes's? It's not relatable...

[@Jason-ut8iu]

Knowing that so many girls are not in a life stage where dating is an option helps. Seeing you reach out and ask, put yourself out there, and boldly ask the question was awesome. Thanks for doing this experiment.

[@vomitingpoems]

As a 30-year-old woman who was never asked out but was always rejected... I don't think rejection ever SCARED me, the problem is that men are always ghosting me completely after I do tell them I'm interested that way. It's particularly tiring seeing how people you've had nice platonic relationships with for years will disappear off the face of Earth just because you wanted to be honest and tell them without even expecting them to like you back (I dislike the idea of having to hide and I think it's respectful to just tell other people after a bit that you're open to having a romantic relationship with them and have actually given it lots of thought and are not just acting on mere, new feelings you've only JUST developed). It is okay for me not to be liked back that way but- I'd like to receive the same degree of respect and be treated as human even without being reciprocated.

[@derekjeter9083]

Try this as a guy. Women aren't above telling everyone you're a creep.

[@vomitingpoems]

As I said, I don't ask guys out randomly like the guy above did. I know people for years, which means I ACTUALLY like them as individuals and don't just go asking out of the blue because they're "good looking" or whatever, and the result is not SPOTTING even by mistake those same individuals ever again in my entire life. As per being considered a creep- why would one say yes to somebody she hasn't even had the chance to know FOR REAL? It has never happened to me but- I wouldn't consider being asked out randomly or just because they think I am "good-looking" enough as a SERIOUS possibility, as the fact a guy just asks without even knowing anything about you because he just wants somebody random to say yes or merely because he saw you and thought you were any degree of "pretty" by his standards is a telltale sign that he is not serious about YOU in the specific (and even if he were - which he cannot be considering he does not actually, deeply know you... IF AT ALL - YOU the girl CANNOT be serious obviously as you do not even know him or have barely met him!). I obviously don't know your personal experience so I cannot say anything about it. I wasn't criticising in that first comment of mine but, simply, I was saying that rejection doesn't scare me and there is this incomprehensible ghosting phenomenon taking place when I express my interest in somebody albeit I don't even insist nor expect anything in return to begin with. I wish all the good in the world to everyone.

[@mohamedmimouni5874]

Reading this made me feel bad for you 💔 im here to help if you wanna talk or smth

[@vomitingpoems]

​​​​​​@@mohamedmimouni5874 I had typed in the whole reply to your kind message... and KZbin thought it'd be funny for some odd glitch or something take over and delete everything, so I'll try and type a shorter answer below. 😂 I am fine to be honest, I don't depressingly dwell on it all day every day as if that were some ominous thing about to come at me from all sides... I need a specific guy to like me back anyways, I don't have the generic urge for a boyfriend just for the sake of it, which makes this bearable but- of course, it is the ghosting to hurt and not the rejection per se and THAT in the specific has been starting to eat at me inside I think. Again, it's fine not to be reciprocated and not to have a boyfriend though, so as a whole I am doing fine... until I get ghosted once more. 😂 Either way... thank you so much for your kindness and for making yourself close to someone else's pain. ❤

[@AnimeFreakish78]

@@vomitingpoemsI feel kind of bad for you but the truth is men value looks a lot and women are asked out as a chance to get to know them further. Saying “I don’t know you I won’t go on a date and try to get to know you” as the sole excuse for avoidance is simply anti social.

[@NievesTheWitch]

"I'm to emotionally attached to fictional characters right now" And I felt that and respect her for that

[@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395]

“Furries”

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

This being posted by a fictional character makes the joke even funnier 😂.

[@NievesTheWitch]

@Tiahna Rodriguez my friend what do you mean fictional I was the leader of the Spanish Inquisition and a holy knight of the crusade what do you mean fictional?

[@Master0fHyrule]

This is only mild rejection. It hurts more when you actually like someone.

[@leonardomantovani3850]

for someone who doesn't talk to girls, don't you think it is quite impressive?

[@icekweebec512]

would you have the balls to do what he did though?

[@asdfghjkl2261]

@@leonardomantovani3850 I mean yeah, it is. But it's cold comfort to guys who had the balls in the first place to talk to women and ask one out and got rejected by one they had rapport with and were really hoping would say yes. Women aren't interchangeable, more fish in the sea isn't applicable if you were super into a chick you've been crushing on for a while and she says no.

[@GhostManPRO]

One of the most insight lines I've ever read from literature is this "Don't wonder if they like you, wonder what they are like". If you can't understand what that means, it means stop obsessing over rejection and "hoping" a person likes you, if they don't that's life and that's ok, rejection is a tool for growth. Your priority should focus more on actually getting to know a person to find out if YOU LIKE THEM.

[@thetiredcynic]

Louder for the people at the back

[@mandarue5104]

I love your sense of humor! The majority of the girls were all smiles and giggles which is a good sign in itself. I hope you gain more confidence and become the man God called you to be!