I birthed a whole baby... in water, AT HOME!😱

[@JoshuaDwain]

So if you ask me, I don’t think they are done having children especially not having a girl at the moment. They are such great parents to their boys. At times I feel like it’s inevitable, they’re gonna slip up lol. I intently don’t ask about more kids cause it’s annoying and I enjoy being surprised. Also, they’re on this career chase so who know 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@Marshay]

Joshua Dwain yesss, all of this!

[@Marshay]

Joshua Dwain yes, agreed

[@mrsb0215]

And look how they are pregnant with baby number 4 now. 🥰

[@erickacole3818]

Ding ding ding!

[@USbyLB]

The way Joshua has filmed these episodes is perfect!

[@JoshuaDwain]

Thank you so much! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@karinbaptiste7799]

@@JoshuaDwain The grand tech/camera wizard. Big up yourself!

[@alchemist2025]

Agreed 💜🙌

[@Gabrielle-xf3ex]

Devale’s involvement is so beautiful

[@nicolejoshua-james3157]

I'm so happy you decided to show your home birth, with my daughter I had natural child birth in a birthing center and in labor for 2 hours. Gave birth the same day and went home 4 hours later. Bravo to you

[@prettygirlpandora]

Oh Khadeen, the camera loves you! You’re so beautiful. I feel so proud of you after seeing your growth & evolution & now watching your channel! You’re the best

[@aieshabenjamin4009]

Last child she said and there comes Dakota lol. I love this family

[@lolamillie6828]

I wanted to do a water birth so bad. I dealt with infertility for 7 years. After my surgery they said I could only have c section births. I round of ivf we had twin boys last year. Happiest day of my life.

[@launchmobs]

This episode was both special and gripping at the same time. The recommendation for women to research having a home birth is so needed, especially now during these quarantine times. Thank you, Khadeen for going into more detail about your home birth experience.

[@riahasays]

This is definitely the millennial talk show we all need! Thanks Kay!

[@LeLeM.]

Awwww!! 💕💕 I remember this from the family vlogs, but I love the behind the scenes footage of what we didn't see in Kaz's home birth. Such a beautiful moment! ❤️

[@netty06]

The raw footage is so refreshing.

[@fanchonkelley702]

I remember listening to your podcast about having midwife. Because of that podcast I am considering have a midwife and doula! It was very informative! Thanks Kay!

[@Hannziies]

Whoever came up with the "yo shut up Devale" at the end is pure jokes.

[@TheKellyWay]

Your process and journey to having a baby at home makes so much sense. I would've done the same thing. I wish I labored more at home cuz the hospital was annoying.

[@d.ashanti22]

I loved the editing of this video and the fact you included the actual woman who helped bring Kaz into this world. I did see the original vlog of the day you gave birth but it was dope seeing it in this perspective. This was so inspiring, educational, and funny lol. I’m making sure to share this video to as many people as I can. Great work. Keep it going. We love you ❤️.

[@briblack1]

Can you please do a makeup tutorial? Im lost

[@cassleighwatts]

I love this. I don't have children yet. My husband and I just celebrated our first wedding anniversary in February. When we do start our family, I want to have my babies at home. Love your story. Thanks for sharing.

[@aniahjnphilip5601]

Notification Gang 💃💃🎊🎉 ‘ When You Like Before You Watch 🤣 Cause You Know The Ellises Never Disappoints 👌‘ Love You KayKay ♥️♥️ #StrengthOfAWoman

[@shenise13]

RIGHT......how can anybody dislike smh

[@jaybritish5828]

Did the same

[@twotwotwo.]

Don’t worry yall, after the vow renewal we getting baby girl😭

[@missfluffydiva2120]

Jem D definitely 😂😂😂 Princess Ellis 2021👍🏾👍🏾

[@willandria6247]

Yes I'm so excited for what you will post on your channel 🎊🎉Love from The Bahamas 🇧🇸🇧🇸

[@moniqueparker3290]

This is def a channel I didn’t know I needed in my life! I love the family vlogs, but I LOVE seeing this side of you ❤️ it’s the same yet different lol idk what it is

[@alchemist2025]

I was emotional when I watched The Eliss's Vlog when you had just had Kaz and you wanted to start out on your own and work... The open discussion that you and Devale had about your finances and the purchases you made always popping up... I felt that... But when you said towards the end of the vlog "just watch me make it" I was inspired and even more so now that you have your own Channel. You're truly something, girl. Thank you for being an inspiration and encouragement. Your strength, passion and energy is catching ✨

[@kibreeze07]

I watched the home birth video whem I first started following y'all at the end of 2017. That had to be one of the most amazing experiences to watch. Made me wanna hold off on babies a lil bit but you took it like a champ.

[@HBSugar1106]

Go Khadeen I love that you put this topic out there because its something some women definitely should consider especially when you want to feel 100 percent comfortable, free, healthy, and in safe hands. I appreciate your midwife's advice yes as black women I keep hearing that statistic and it alarms us but in a good way to do our homework and research with different options. This is something if having multiple children you should definitely do. Your first child there's just something about having your first baby in a hospital where your doctor and you can trust each other too. Especially when they have seen you the entire 3 trimesters you know that your relationship and trust is secure.

[@teresahargrow6750]

I saw your home birth episode. I thought it was amazing and beautiful. I felt the love and support from your family especially from your husband. Thank you for sharing this with us.

[@yss20002000]

Everytime I see this episode I cry . I am a grandmother and I know what I went through having my two wonderful children. Omg I was difficult!! If only I knew of this process I would be all in. 23 hours in labor and 22 hours severe back pain. Deep respect Kay.

[@JoiDior]

I spent the better part of adulthood dreaming of having a natural home birth. Unfortunately, I had to undergo an open myomectomy to remove large fibroids that were preventing me from conceiving. I'm now pregnant, and I'm so grateful that the surgery worked, but that also means I'm no longer a candidate for vaginal birth. All of my focus will now go into having a whole healthy baby 😃

[@kryssiewoo51]

Hi mama, a friend of mine just went through this on January as well. She has been having a hard time conceiving for more than a year plus. She said her tubes are also blocked, so what I wanted to ask, is there anything you can advise me to tell her in conceiving successfully? She already has a child vaginally but if her tubes are blocked as well as the fibroids, can she not conceive now after the myomectomy? Does she really have to do another surgery to unblock her tubes?

[@simplyp5521]

I haven’t had my surgery yet but I did do some research. Doctors suggest c-sections because the risk of the uterus rupturing, you can have a Vbac (vaginal birth after cesarean).

[@JoiDior]

​@@kryssiewoo51 Wow. The treatment depends on the reason for the blockage. I'm not too familiar with that, but I know there are natural treatments depending on the root cause. If the blockage is a result of scarring from the surgery, then she may need to go back in for a procedure to unlock it. If it's just one tube that's blocked, she can still conceive from the other side. I'm wishing her all the best. Women have to go through so much.

[@countessvaughn7800]

CONGRATULATIONS!! 🤰🏽👍🏾💜💜💜💜

[@edeniye]

Love this! I’ve had two home water births after one planned home birth with a last minute transfer to hospital. Watching you labour in that car brought back memories. That was the most difficult part of my first labour.

[@sheistalesha7724]

Kay where did you get the K necklace from??

[@jamikatheplug]

Omg. I just fell in love with yal all over again! So blessed. So real. So necessary!

[@cherylsmith4131]

Young Lady, wonderful information...We must be our own "advocate" for our healthcare ... Thank you, so much

[@aquiettamcnair922]

Kay I love you hun! Thank you for opening up to woman and being an inspiration to us all! God bless you

[@anneb6262]

The quality of this video! I love it! ❤️

[@Shayaboo03]

Omg!! Thank you so much. People think I’m crazy for saying I want to have a home birth when I have my first child. Truly appreciate you sharing your truth

[@jgayle01]

Khadeen, I watch all Ellus videos over and over (huge fan), but HANDS DOWN the video I have watched at least 50 times is the home birth video. The fact that you and Devake shared such an intimate moment with the whole world us one of the bravest, self-less, courageous acts of love and kindness. Thank you for sharing your family, your life and Takiya. I thought about going to midwifery school because it touched me so strongly. But I'm 47 and the way my bank account is setup..... 🤣

[@ashbootalks2991]

She said, "Yes Davale, this being my LAST child!!" 😂😂😂 Yoooooo, I'm dying over here! Kay, ain't having it! Even though I have no kids, I'm split down the middle for you both, but nevertheless, you guys have a beautiful family. Davale, is such an excellent father and husband and you are definitely HIS RIB! Btw, I'm so happy you made a CHANNEL! MUCH LOVE !🇧🇸🇯🇲

[@autumnthubbard2883]

Kay, I would watch your talk show!! You are born for this. Beautiful video ❤️

[@BloomWithBri]

Love your story!! Woii yuh suh strongggg. Is it weird that I’ve always said when that time comes I want a natural at home birth too?? It just feels right and this def proves it!

[@meganleclair6177]

"Yes, Devale, my last child." 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@godsownelite]

so emotional right now what a blessing to be a mom Kay Kay you are really a strong woman how i wish i was honored with such a blessing, doctor said it won't be possible but it brings me joy to see people having a baby

[@chaneilthomas7752]

We need longer video's ok Kay Kay 😘💯🙏 #LovAllYourVids

[@Gabrielle-xf3ex]

Chaneil Thomas frl frl

[@meganadderley6215]

Just pure greatness Ms. Ellis🍷 . Awesome job thank you for sharing you story, for keeping it real and being open. You are the bomb.com.🤩

[@Snuggles69247]

Yall are definitely the desire of my heart. I just told my bestfriend that my next will be a home birth. I had to have my son in Cali being from NYC, on my own 2 months early. No real memories only my stories. My Daughter same and she was born in Japan.. Thank you for this K❤

[@breharris8328]

"I be bonding with brownies...and stuff like that 👀🤣😂 The very first video I saw with you guys was the home birth vlog. I was researching because I know I don't want my future children delivered in a hospital. I only child is 13 and I honestly don't remember a lot about her birth but I've been watching labor and delivery videos with my fiancé as were planning to have a baby within the next 2 years and I'm seeing all the horror stories for women of color in particular and I realized, women have been giving birth for millions of years prior to epidurals and medical "advances". Seeing you do it at home though, surrounded by all that love and tranquility made me certain I wanted to do a homebirth with a midwife! So, THANK YOU for documenting that! 💕

[@Snicklez89]

In the second video can you talk more about the water birthing experience and the techniques you used to combat labor pain. Does the water soothe you more as you're delivering etc? Loved this video and you are truly inspirational

[@jasminharrison9479]

Amazing & insightful episode! I'm probably farr off from having kids but I always love to hear you talk about your home birth and midwife experience, Khadeen! It's important to open up the conversation!

[@mrs.burgess8642]

This is crazy because that video was the first video that introduce me to you and your husband. You both are amazing and I pray God will continue to bless y’all with much love and strength. Thank you for sharing such an amazing part of your life.

[@daniellelyons3294]

Kay, keep doing ya thang girl. Love it

[@HBoyzFan]

Thank you for sharing your story. I think it's imperative that us woman are able to know all of the options available to them so that they can make the best informed decision for themselves.

[@andreanabrinson7460]

Thank you for sharing your experience about childbirth and birthing at home it really does show women they have options when they decide to have children.

[@bdlyte3761]

18 yrs ago I chose a Mid-Wife (Sally Urang). Best experience of my life. Mid-Wives are so nurturing. She massaged me through the pain.. Ok Kay Kay..

[@insertcoolname1O1]

That intro is FIRE!!!

[@kryssiewoo51]

Am loving this new chanel Kay. It's like a lil space for us ladies to get down to some business and get personal. The info u provided as well on the home birth is awesome. Loving the content!

[@iamashleyyvette]

I love this! I’m 31 and don’t have kids yet but I’m planning on having at least one if not all at home birth. I’ve listened to your podcast with Sakina and this is even more helpful. Thank you!

[@poetrybyciera7600]

I remember first watching your home birth on the family channel & it was so beautiful.❤️ The whole experience seems so intimate & peaceful. I’m definitely thinking about having a home birth for my next child.

[@BlueRose0616]

I'm new here and already loving your channel!!!! May God continue to bless your sweet family

[@brandonlee201417]

I’m just here to say Devale needs a daughter 3-1 three boys 👦🏾👦🏾👦🏾 and one girl 👧🏾 only fair

[@yasminalapommeray]

Brandon Lee I completely agree. Devale needs that girl

[@brandonlee201417]

Yasmina Lapommeray agreed I need a niece and we all need her now Khadeem that’s selfish 🤦🏾‍♂️😂

[@brandonlee201417]

Kay Rose it’s only fair we deserve a niece and a princess to the Ellis family

[@deelouielouie3878]

Brandon Lee Yas ma’am we want our daughter...please and tonks...his whole daughter with your whole face

[@brandonlee201417]

Deelouie Louie right our princess should be exactly like Kay Kay and it would be somewhat even 3-1 for Devale

[@joannaajoi8539]

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 I love love love this video ! S/O to your Midwife for pulling out of retirement for these women who may want to have home water births during this madness in the world !! She's the best for that !!! I also appreciate the both of youu educating Us women on Our Bodiess !!! I'm a Young Mommy of 3 & I've always wanted to have natural births w no meds but didn't get to experience that. My first one , I tore internally as well. They said I tore a muscle . With my second & third child I was induced. Buttt w my second child being induced wasn't that bad for me , my dr was awesome & I had my baby w an ease. But w my third child , it was terrible !!! I kept saying they must change the meds every yr because w my second child it wasn't that bad. Soo yesss , I truly believe & understand what your Midwife was explaining how in the hospital they look at pain as a negative which is crazy they would even do so. But all they care about is money which make sense 🤦🏾‍♀️ Sooo againnnn Sis thankss for sharing w Us !!! Even though w Jax, it was a bad experience for youu ... Youu still did a beautiful job w all three of your boys ! 😊🤗😘👑🖤💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@tj7855]

Two young women died in Jamaica 🇯🇲 over the past few weeks due to childbirth complications. Thank you for sharing that there are other options for us Kay Kay!

[@TheJatnnaacosta]

So dope! Gave me Queen Bey documentary vibes ❤️

[@Angeloflove4eva]

Loved this and can’t wait to see the second half. I’m pregnant with number 4 now (first girl) and decided to do a homebirth ☺️. My first 2 were hospital one being induced and both epidural. My 3rd was at a birth center and now I just want to be at home.

[@gloriaenyondo9289]

Kay thank you so much for sharing this intimate part of you life because you don’t have too. May God bless you and your family 🙏🏾❤️

[@fatemarobinson149]

I wish I could find a man to love me the way he loves her😌 that love only comes once in a million .

[@afuadankwaahowusu699]

my exact thoughts!!!

[@AngelaElikya]

You will find a man that will love you for you as hard as you love him ! Pray for it

[@margiedaniels489]

I watched all of your videos yesterday ! I appreciate you and your family! A true gift.

[@CetteJolieFille]

I love this channel! Thanks Khadeen!

[@Marshay]

3 boys is so amazing!

[@SGXOXO]

The home birth vlog was the first video that I watched from your family channel. Subscribed ever since! ❤️

[@aprilanntalley-patterson9091]

Wooooo girl! Strong woman right there!

[@justmo6896]

I saw the birth video and must commend you Mrs Ellises 👍❤👏 Kaz is all grown up now!👍didn't know the whole experience though wauw esp Kairo's and Jax! Sheesh

[@aysia11babiiee]

Thank you for this! I just gave birth to my second baby (a boy 💙) last month. My experience in the hospital was so different than with my daughter. The biggest difference was the epidural didn’t work. I didn’t tear for either baby...my son was born 7lbs 3oz. It took a long time to get feeling back in my legs to the point where the nurses were talking about physical therapy. Thank God I didn’t need it. When we came home I told my boyfriend that if we ever have another baby I would like to have a home birth. I just felt that the epidural was pointless since it didn’t work and because of Coronavirus I couldn’t have some of my family with me (my daughter met her baby brother in the car on the way home from the hospital) I figured it would be best to just have a baby at home. So thank you for sharing your experience with us ❤️

[@lisapryor9676]

So great to share information and help others with your platform!

[@nepps6766]

Wait why is Kaz the last child!? We (yes I said we lol) need a GiRL!

[@Mowizzy1]

We do right...and a babygirl 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@perryerick3039]

N Epps yassss we do ~ a girl leah

[@BloomWithBlossom]

I cried so much from those home birth video’s.... thank you so much for sharing those special moments with us 😌🙏🏾

[@kaylawayla032898]

Great video Kay ! VERY informative . I think I might just look into a water birth the second time around .

[@SimoneUmba]

"Last Child" In all caps for Devale😂😂😂

[@chanelturner524]

Side bar- I know you’re a makeup artist. I would love a makeup tutorial! 💄

[@radinanichols7678]

Excited for part 2😁😁😁😁

[@PeaceLove77]

Happy for your new segment!!

[@milanomakayla]

Kay. You say your done having whole babies. I feel you BUT you know devale has other plans 😂😂😂

[@reginaharris3933]

Lol guess this not the LAST LOL CONGRATULATIONS BOO

[@leandahlynn]

I waited so patiently for another video kay❤️❤️❤️❤️ and thank you for hearing my cry(at least it’s a start) 17 minutes long video 💃💃

[@joannebriscoe8443]

I am loving this channel. Love the confidence and inspiration. Keep the videos coming!

[@donnajoyner9781]

So proud of you my sister! Blessings to you and your family!

[@ceairamonik7033]

Lol who else here 1 year later watching and she having another baby now

[@KimberlyDurrMusic]

🌓Listen, listen listennnnn I thought you were about to say you’re pregnant. Lol🤣, dang I was ready to say congratulations 🤣🤣my bad. But this was still a very vital video, because a lot of moms to be are having to do this because of the virus even the more. This video is perfect timing for those that need it.Much love sweetie 🦋

[@ladyqqt]

Why was I literally breathing for you in the car though...😩🤦🏾‍♀️. Waiting with bated breath for part two. 🙌🏾

[@lifewithdeedee3392]

@khadeen you and Devale are real deal my sister and brand don't even know it! I love yall

[@cheyennetheblogger]

I am tuneeeddd in boooooo!!!!! I love you!

[@rekedagriggs9845]

This was a great episode

[@Undercovertheory]

This video was EXCELLENT!

[@Hernameis994]

Thoroughly enjoyed this

[@testerhemphill7701]

Thank you for sharing your journey with home birthing I will definitely do my research on it. I think that’s what I want to do with my next baby. P.S I miss you don’t the makeup tutorials🙏🏽🌺🤎

[@afrank1416]

Great vlog! Luv your honesty on home birth. So many people think you ALWAYS have to go to the hospital. I work in healthcare and know it's not true. A doula, midwife, etc. can guide you accordingly. Women have been having children before hospitals. P.S. A lot of women don't know hospitals will charge you for skin-to-skin contact with your own baby.

[@geriyoung7196]

I’m currently watching your birthday celebrations when I notice this notification . (Other video on pause on laptop)

[@rekedagriggs9845]

Love the intro music so fly!!!

[@tkloveshair]

Thanks for sharing your 3 birth experiences

[@shereesemurphy]

I was just watching the vlog of when you had Kairo 😂❤. I love this!!

[@jameemcdoe5988]

Although I’ve already seen the birthing vlog this is making wanna watch & cry all over again. (Currently going to the vlog)

[@jjaykay3jawes143]

Where is it?

[@jameemcdoe5988]

jjaykay3 Jawes hi! look up Ellis vlog number 30 is the start of the birthing process and it’s vlogs 30-32 i believe.

[@jjaykay3jawes143]

@@jameemcdoe5988 thank you so much.

[@hollylove368]

Aww baby Kaz💙😍 I cried when I first ever watched your home birth 💜

[@meliraj134]

I remember when y'all posted Kaz's birth. It was extremely beautiful and zen