Taking care of home!

[@KhadeenEllisIAm]

Hey fam! So I definitely ugly cried after this was over. So so heavy but I hope you understand that you are not alone. It’s ok to not be okay right now. Thank you Josh for editing and producing this piece. I particularly LOVE the montage at the end. And of course, husbae Devale for coaching me through and being my literal shoulder to cry on. Let’s do better y’all. Let continue to spread the word, educate ourselves, groom our children to be in positions to make actual change and pray for this world. Love & light💕 -Kay✨

[@radiancesmith1782]

THIS WAS EVERYTHING! I so needed to see this in this moment! You put things into perspective for me and gave me a lot to think about!

[@DivineDivaDee]

I'm not okay. I'm having panic attacks at the thought of having to leave the house.

[@valeriequaker168]

Its ok Kay to cry. Crying is cleansing. I am glad you mention the black women are also victim of white police. I am reading a book by Paul Butler a former prosecutor. The name of the book is Chokehold. In his book he tells you black women are the most likely victims of police. Sexually assault is the most common. The things that are happen is so heavy. Keep using your platform.

[@keishaw3825]

This was needed. I thank you for this❤

[@undefinedvisionary-NicoleMChan]

Khadeen Ellis I appreciate you for using your platform to show you’re just like us. You cry, you have fears, and you want a better world for your kids the way we do. It’s ok Kay and we got you✊🏽

[@JoshuaDwain]

Thee toughest episode ever to produce! Black women we got you ✊🏾

[@Cyone1]

Joshua Dwain Photography Much love

[@KhadeenEllisIAm]

Love you brother✊🏾✨👑

[@keishaw3825]

Malcom X and his words at the end ✊🏾❤

[@1kflagg]

✊🏾✨👑

[@mznari2985]

Thank you ❤️ We appreciate and love you King!

[@LenoraTaylor3]

Black women need to feel loved and protected too.

[@leemiller2243]

This is true. Black women need this and we as black men need to do better

[@cupcakepatrice8418]

Yes, I agree 100 percent that’s why things are happening because black women and children do not have a coverings no protection and no provider in the home.

[@theresaamendavisamen1370]

AMEN!!!

[@Gabrielle-xf3ex]

Social media demands too much from influencers they’re humans too ... I saw A lot of persons backlashing Kay Wen she didn’t “say smth” immediately. She’s processing too I’m glad she took the time she needed

[@rissaceehart4076]

YOU GOT that Right,,She needed a WHOOSAH Moment to Process All of these crazy times we're in right Now..its Draining,Hurtful,Depressing,Anger .She had to possibly RE-Group. Thank You Kay Mamas...You Are A Beautiful Momma& Wife &BEAUTIFULLY Human Gurl... These trolls trying to live Vicariously through You & your Family. Y'all Can ONLY Be Yourselves..And your TRUE Fans/Followers wouldn't have it Any other Way!💁🤗💪👌👏👏👏👏👏

[@KhadeenEllisIAm]

Thank you for acknowledging this. Anyone with a platform is expected to immediately react and say anything. My platform is also compared to that of my husband's (understandably) because we create a lot of content together. But ultimately, I'm an individual and I process things differently. My due time, I will decide how I'd like to use my arena. Social activism is also not the only form of activism and not every move needs to be broadcasted. Appreciate you sis! Be well.

[@demikafoster-smith691]

It's ok I had to cry as well you produce at your own time we all process things differently. I'm a mother I feel your pain I worry to about my husband, son, and nephews, uncles. This is very hard I have two girls as well. I worry all the time about my kids when they leave home. Every time I drive I fear getting pulled over if it will be my last time. The future definitely is going to be challenging. Thanks for your transparency God is in control no matter what stay strong fear not.

[@rissaceehart4076]

@@KhadeenEllisIAm (From Rissa) I TOTALLY get It! What's OVERstood does Not need to be Explained!!You're More than Welcome &GOD BLESS YOU Both & those 3 Handsome Baby Boys🤗❣❣❣

[@wendywilliams2290]

The role of Black women has always been the backbone of the black family. It is sometimes if not most times unappreciated and undervalued, but we must continue to press on, because we are needed more than ever. Kay I love how you are loving on your family and your tears are shared tears with every black woman.

[@AmeChic]

Oh beautiful Khadeen I am crying as I type this comment, as I reflected on a year ago I remember the anxiety that I carried. I try so hard to ensure my husband and son feel valued and cared for by me. Thank you for putting a voice to wifeing while black. Our men deserve to be cared for just as we do.. thanks lovely and much love to you and your family! 💙

[@boobaby8667]

I love you guys ! Haven't really cried with everything going on. But this video definitely pushed it out of me !! Our BLACK MEN AND BLACK BOYS NEED US. I have a 5year old and a 9 year old boys, also a 4 month old baby girl and I pray for them every night. I pray for their father every night. Being Black in America is the most hardest thing ever, especially when you are raising black boys and girls. We gave to teach them young now

[@fayettebrewer8512]

Kay I am so proud to see and witness this generation, transparency is a must. Thank you for this video. I am 72 years old and watch your family faithfully. I marched in the protest back in the 60's and we started the movement, but this generation will be the game changers and I thank God that I am still here to witness it. this movement is different, this is worldwide and there will be change. God allows things to happen and if we listen there is a message that He is sending, Let My People Go is as true today as it was in the time of Moses. A CHANGE IS GONNA COME, Sam Cooke was so right. Love and Prayers for all of our family. Stay strong and stay prayed up

[@briannab2490]

♥️♥️♥️

[@jovianemathieu283]

❤❤❤

[@Godslight1970s]

Ms. Fayette Brewer your words are inspiring and so sincere, thank you and God bless you ❤

[@mrsdeannawilliams9282]

God Bless you Beautiful!!! Thank you to your generation for laying the remarkable groundwork for our worldwide movement for change.

[@wyrdtigrl523]

Crying after 30secs, but at the same time, I giggled at "Spike Free" on the clapper board. 🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭

[@rissaceehart4076]

YESSS ,The 1st time I saw that on the 🎬 I FELL OWWWWT!!!!!!

[@dalvindream8975]

Idk if you guys pray every night but let’s all do that tonight cause this thing worries me but God said DO NOT WORRY so let’s just tell him all that’s on our hearts & let’s keep working on love. Only love can correct evil🗣💯❤️

[@Nikki_alterego]

amen

[@theresaamendavisamen1370]

AMEN!!!

[@knowthyself5044]

When Mr. Floyd, called out for his mother, that broke my heart💔 The sorrow that I felt in that moment was & has been unbearable 😥

[@SheniceSays214]

My thoughts exactly

[@eliciawilson4078]

Devale is such a man! Love the bond you both share!!!! Well done Khadeen and thanks for sharing with us!!

[@1truetaurus]

Surprisingly or maybe not, I haven't shed any tears over what's going on the pandemic or the murders....that is until I watched you cry.... I appreciate you....I hear you...I see you. Love is love...my beautiful sistah❤

[@star4110]

I so feel u Jameen!!

[@Shortsbaby]

This was so beautiful. The rawness and vulnerability was touching. Sending lots of love and strength to you ❤️

[@jessicaford6250]

I loved it black women have to rally together in these time we are being faced with and i loved every minute of it

[@kimberlysimmons6395]

Beautifully presented

[@berrypeterson5786]

Well said and heartfelt. My wife and I have two sons age 20 and 16, our anxiety is always up, when they drive. We stay prayed up

[@meemee5660]

Me too and I have a daughter.

[@lovelyrich54]

My heart beats hard! I tell him please don't go anywhere if it's not important. He will be 17 and I'm scared to death just because he had dark skin.

[@jessicaculver6198]

@@lovelyrich54 just teach them compliance then you know you've done your best

[@keekeetrip]

Thank you for being vulnerable. I'm a single mother of a 17 year old black young man and I'm hurting with holding in so many emotions. This video helped me cry and release the hurt, the pain and the frustration. Thank you.

[@robertfletcher718]

Hello Kay, I stumbled upon your channel and I am compelled to respond to your outpouring of love, support and solidarity towards our community. You keep your arms around the men in your household it will only serve to make them stronger and more resilient. In the meantime we love you mama. It's just one love!!!

[@foreignchickk]

I love this channel. Your teaching me how to become a woman, future wife, future mother, better friend etc...thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@angelapatterson9052]

Hi Kadeem I’m a 54 yr old black woman who is a newlywed of 1yr and 2 months to a black man 66 yrs old. The love respect forgiveness and sense of humor that I see in you guys marriage helps me to exemplify the same in my marriage. I love love love the transparency and genuine that you guys bring. God bless you guys marriage and family🙏

[@essji2024]

Dayumm a real geriatric pregnancy 😱

[@coupleofcakes6444]

Malcolm X said this in March of 1963: The most disrespected person in America is the black woman, the most un protected person in America, is the black woman, the most neglected person in America is the black woman, Thank you Devale for respecting, protecting not neglecting and loving your black wife. So many of our black men need to take a page from your book.

[@coniwilliams8705]

This is so real although I am not nor have children all of this is also taking a toll on my spirit and soul. I had to stop watching the news because it was traumatizing to me. I love our men our people we need our men. They don't care about us!!!!

[@kayjewels1488]

I’ve seen people in general say let kids be kids and that kids that aren’t teenagers are too young to be having the talk with... but I’m guessing they haven’t seen that even our little boys are being killed. Kids are very smart. I have a son and you’re totally right that priorities and concerns change once you become a parent. I love y’all together lol. It was like y’all were created for each other. This video was so powerful.

[@meemee5660]

I totally agree. The message may have to watered down a bit, but it has to be told in order to provide protection for our children.

[@cherylelon2024]

This should NOT be our reality, but that quote is everything.

[@foreignchickk]

Making my husband a plate when he comes home period. I love my black brothers and sisters

[@terrdixon6729]

Kay!!! I can't even watch this, as the intro started and D touched your hand I started bawling. Sending you love and warm hugs from Jamaica 🇯🇲🤗. Nuff love!! 💋

[@laland209]

I don't think there is any black person in America (despite the very few) that hasn't been personally affected by this. I grew up with a lot of white people and also have a lot of white friends who are now realizing our struggle. I used to find it hard to express our pain to them because I thought they wouldn't understand which they didn't until now. I feel so connected to my people at this point because we are all hurt and this doesn't surprise us, but it does hurt us in a different way from others. Sending love and blessings to all.

[@angelafranklin2267]

You said it...you said it!

[@theresaamendavisamen1370]

AMEN!!!

[@glois80]

I understand how you feel Queen we all need to take a mental health break during this crazy time

[@HerHighnessofQueens]

Still several months later all of this it’s just all too much to digest! I pray that we all as Black and Brown men and women if color rise above and start to Live one another as you display openly on your platform! I love the live you show to one another! Keep doing an amazing job with your family and your your KINGS! Kahdeen you hit the jackpot with Devalle! He’s an amazing man , husband and father! Good didn’t make any mistakes giving you THREE young Kings to raise! I love you guys! ♥️♥️♥️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 You’re an amazingly strong woman, wife and MOM ! Keep doing what you do beautiful Queen 👑

[@catherinelitzsey4181]

Hi guys! My name is Catherine, and I was born and raised in Bedfordstyvesantant. I was introduced to your channel by my now 31 year old daughter, Toni. Since being introduced, I've been hooked ever since. Okay so I'm 58 and when I tell you that you guys are everything I knew about growing up as a Brooklynite I mean it. Guys y'all have it all. The love, the realness, the sadness, the keeping real, the soul, the compassion, the intelligence, the work ethics, man I can go on and on. Lol, you guys have the so called It Factor. I love my hometown, Brooklyn, therefore I LOVE y'all!! God Bless you two babies and you guy's three babies! Keep doing, keep feeling, and keep speaking the real real bc your speaking and Living the life you lead for MANY of us💞!

[@kendrafields10]

Jackson acts just like Devale! It's so cute "it's summer time, y'all know how it is" and "we're watching Little Giants, the classic" ...I was like dang that sounds like something Devale would say

[@staceyparker3328]

It's only one word I can think of to describe this episode....BRAVO!!!!!

[@TheCT1985]

Sis, thank you for this message. The message that as black moms, sisters, daughters, aunts, cousins are crying out right now. My heart is heavy, my nerves have already been a wreck since the day my son was born. To constantly wonder what life will be like for him as he grows. I look at the innocence that he has as a four year old and to know that there are ppl out there that could see him as a threat. Lord knows how this all plays out and I only pray that He sends his mighty armies of angels to protect our babies through it all. God bless you sis, God bless you all. Love from VA

[@FUNNY5284]

She was showing her heart and her soul in this video cause I worry every day about me husband and father in law and father and brothers and my brother in law’s every time they leave the house or leave to go somewhere I pray for safe travel and return every time...............

[@brittanyhunter7828]

I'm watching this and feeling the exact same feelings as Kay. My husband and I have been wondering how we should explain to 3 year olds and twin 1yr olds, and when. My husband is a delivery carrier and I constantly worry about his safety. We have just decided that not only due to COVID but with everything going on that I should stay home for the rest of the year. Everyday, I look at my children and husband and constantly pray that they come home. Kay, thank you for being transparent in your feelings.

[@taniacarson9479]

This is why I love you guys! 😭😭😭😭

[@jjohnson220]

Way to go Khadeen, you and Devale are great couple for your kids.

[@mabelspeaks8019]

Thank you for sharing how we feel as African American women who love our husbands, sons, nephews, uncles and female relatives. You have articulated the very fears and emotions that weigh heavy on us daily. My mom shared with me the same dread my great grandmother shared in the early 1900’s when her son didn’t come home one evening. He had told her that he was going to attend a barn party. My great-grandma was told that the barn party ended in a horrific fire when doors were locked from the outside because it was discovered that the party was supposed to be integrated. Luckily, he had changed his mind and hadn’t gone. I don’t know that Mississippi recorded the names of the black men that died in that fire.

[@amycolley8750]

Thank you for the discussion Kay, giving a voice to black women & mothers.

[@tashmoore3825]

If you'd turned up like a robot Kay & insisted nothing was happening, I'd be concerned. This was lovely!

[@tashmoore3825]

I have to cut it short at the end. I can't watch their deaths.

[@tashmoore3825]

When Jackson broke down crying during your talk I was outdone. I admittedly carried that grief for a few days because I don't remember either of my parents having that kind of conversation with me or my sister(s) [our youngest sister was raised elsewhere so I'm not sure if she had that convo with her own mom but our dad didn't have that with her either]. I think they thought because we were girls, they could skip some of those talks though given some moments between my mom & dad that involved the police (my dad was a different [already hurt] person afterward), I wish they had. I was absolutely shielded & my wider family declined to discuss certain things until I was much older & then it was in passing, never direct. I don't agree with their decisions though I'm not looking forward to that time when my future sons & daughters are older. I believe in being as honest as we can while making room for their childhoods as much as we can. But pretending that things aren't happening that harm us? No.

[@tashmoore3825]

My him curates music for me, especially jazz as he knows how much I love classic silver age jazz & I took an interest in fitness & now curate black healing opportunities for him. We both fell into the trap of division when we were younger & we're being intentional about soothing now. He checks me when I'm watching things that aren't supporting my mindset/mental health & I check him when he's assuming the worst. This is leaps & bounds beyond how we handled the outside stress of 2016. I once confided that maybe God doesn't need me to understand all men (I don't & I won't), but just the particular man He placed in my life.

[@tashmoore3825]

They can't sleep in my bed at that age, LOL. Baba only thanks.

[@quentejada7431]

This was something that I never knew I needed. I'm so grateful and thankful to you for sharing. I am the only Queen in my household, 3 sons (3,6,10) and a husband that everyday I worry more than ever. Thanks for the cleansing. Tears are good.

[@karentjackson86]

Thank you for sharing Khadeen. I cried with you because I felt everything you said. I' m a mom of a teenage son and daughter and I am scared for them. My son is scared and fears for his life especially living in the city of Chicago. So I will be driving my kids to where they need to go until they get married and have their own families. So enjoy your babies and cherish this stage in their lives.

[@ypayne9871]

I don't know y'all... but I admire ur marriage and support for each other. God Bless

[@terrynorman1222]

Mrs Ellis words well spoken and the tears understood!!! My heart had been very heavy with all the unnessary tragic deaths also. I’m a mother of young black 23 yr old male, and not a day goes by that I’m not worried from the time he’s out to work u til he’s home again into The safe haven of home, so I feel n understand all your anxieties !!! We 🙏🏾🙏🏾and look to GOD for resolve , cause these are crazy dangerous times, and we as Black Women have to be Careful too!!!! Sending ❤️to you n your Family for Peace n Blessings🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@yvonneandrews703]

I feel your pain Khadeen .im a mother of three black boys husband brothers Nephews . you right God know what he doing he didn’t make any mistakes ..you got this my beautiful friend in my head ...💙💙💙💙 bless you and the family !!!! .....❤️👸🏽🤴🏽🌺👍🏽👍🏽💯

[@lisamcinnis6430]

Thank you for your voice sister . TRUE Facts I feel the same I'm one of the first Blacks that were bussed into White school district in the 70s from Bedsty to Bay Ridge where they chased us to Fort Halmilton Pkwy trains almost every afternoon My mother fought for Equal Rights Movement , Welfare Rights ,March on Washington in DC My mother was an Activists with the Black Panthers who started the first food program in schools History Plus I'm now a Grandma of 6 Blacks grandsons whom I fear n pray for everyday 💕💕 I fight for change still TODAY

[@jrhudd1417]

Khadeen am so proud of you guys; you are intelligent, positive and real. Keep these vidoes coming. FYI I am from St. Vincent and my hubby is from Jamaica so I feel like we family🇻🇨🇯🇲

[@janelleriggers3276]

It's important for us to be there to support our black men. I will remember the importance of having a hot plate ready when my future husband gets home from work. Thanks you for your transparency and for sharing. We love you and your beautiful family. ❤❤❤ We got y'all back!! ✊🏾DEAD ASS!!!

[@d.m.5017]

Omg Rowie did not just tell Jackson to get his facts straight, lmao😂. I remember he had his own little language, learning to talk. The kids are adorable. I feel your pain Kay, with my son, Jay & my daughter, Laila. It's heartbreaking what we're facing out here in these NYC Streets! We have to continue to be strong & support our Beautiful Black Men.Brooklyn LOVE❤

[@polkmeans]

We appreciate your thoughts and point of view. It's hard and truly scary. We have to be here for one another.

[@d.m.5017]

😪So heartbreaking! I just watched a beautiful 5 year old girl with her South African mother on nightly news here in NYC. She had the courage to go out there to protest against this senseless killings. Her mother brought to tears, cause she fought apartheid, never thought her biracial child would be going through this. I was balling cause she said when she grows up, she hopes the cops don't kill her. As a mother of a son & daughter, it's heart wrenching to deal with this. Stay strong for your lovely husband & boys. 🗽Brooklyn Love🖤💙❤

[@thespencerfamily8486]

3:19 my same feelings Kay Kay, married to a black man , raising our black daughter.

[@dkbeard3810]

Your heartfelt sentiment and concern is greatly appreciated! Thanks Sis - Love from a Black Man & Husband in Chicago.

[@aclark035]

This was so well said . You put into words how every black women feel with or without kids . The fear you have as a black American and having the fear for our nephews brothers and even as black women. It’s so hard thinking you have to have grown up topic conversation with your child earlier and earlier now in this day in age . As a human if you don’t see what’s wrong in the world you are part of the problem . Racism is alive and well in the world . #BLM period. Sending love and prayers your way .

[@nobullshtmimi]

Made it through the video with no tears until the gotdamn end. Man to see all those beautiful faces... That shit lights a different kind of fire in you. I am a Malcolm X. Ain't shit peaceful about nothing they ever did to us. I'm down for whatever whenever. Period.

[@Cyone1]

When I tell this hit my entire spirit. I love you so for this. The fear and the sadness. The energy of the world is off. Thank you for this.

[@launchmobs]

I cried with you. You expressed what I couldn't convey but have been feeling and thinking in my heart and mind. Thank you, Kay.

[@boxingandbbq3596]

Devale you have a great woman and a beautiful family. Thank you Khadeen. Salute🖤💪🏾

[@sadelynn2235]

This made me cry my Eye balls out before you even started. As a black mom of two little brown boys aLL THIS breaks my heart. I worry about my bf my boys my nephews cousins and uncles and friends. Heck I worry about my daughter as well she’s four and has no clue of the racism not of my kids for that matter. We have to speak up and keep being strong and fight for what right. I love your family and you guys make my day. Keep em coming.

[@andreamasonthequeenscourt9141]

You are an Amazing young Black Woman. I absolutely love the way you love your husband and sons. So beautiful. TSMFS your life. You are an encouragement to so many women. Blessings to you and your family and please be safe. 💖👸🏾🙏🏽🌹😘

[@indiradeja4218]

very heartfelt, beautiful.... REAL talk. Thank you for sharing your truth, family, realities of this world, honoring now ancestors, love, strength & vulerabilities. THIS IS REAL TALK FOR THE WORLD, Global peace and peace in every home..... The human birthright. Your men are blessed to have an amazing, solid, strong & mature wife/mom/sis/ daughter as many women of the past have had to be. Our men must be the same about where they come from & go to for all things in life, more now than ever. If the women of our community are not protected, honored, loved, respected, cared for, nurtured, defended, calmed, heard, built, safe how can she continue to support them..... i know your guys do, but many dont. All are somebodys baby, loved by someone, and needed, cant want them to hold you up and watch or help tear her down. Shes destroyed so is he, GOD-DESS should always be brothes & Kings priority starting with ensuring her peace of home, mind & health. You all are a beautiful addition to our lives and recording ourstory and future generations, todays young to elders will benefit. THANKS SO MUCH, ohio

[@ChariseJohnsonTCJ]

As a mother to one whole black young man and knowing the way things are going concerning them, I've watched this video and had to stop to cry numerous times, look at my now 17yr old son and pray over him as well as his dad (my husband) and ask God for guidance on how to move forward to make a change and create a better world for my son when the time comes for him to have children of his own. Love you K, you are a big inspiration

[@ChariseJohnsonTCJ]

Side note: now show your love for that black man and give him his baby girl 😁😁😁

[@jth026]

Khadeen I love you. I have two boys with one on the way and tell my husband all the time I am giving him three whole boys. It is sooo hard. I look at my boys and get tearful and try to fight it. I even look at little white boys who play with my 4 yo and just wonder how they are raised at home and hope they are raised to see everyone as equal human beings. It sucks to wonder about these things.

[@ameliaking9225]

Took me two weeks to actually finish. As the mother of an 8 year old black boy who is 4 foot 10 I feel all of this. God protect all of us.

[@kamalasmith5300]

Khadeem bwoy mi cah stop bawllllll!!!!! I love your strength! You are amazing❤❤❤❤❤

[@LIVEwTAI]

5:14 this is my exact feelings every single day my fiancé leaves the house. I just want to protect in the best way I can...

[@shanaeebodrick9845]

LIVE w TAI definitely!!

[@crystalramon1920]

I totally agree I always want to be more around my husband especially when he’s at work. It’s a scary time right now

[@loisthompson6930]

Thank you for your transparency with us, Kay. I cried watching this because I felt your fears, anger, and the love you have for Devale and your boys. These are trying times we are living in and I think black folks are living with PTSD, so take the time you need, turn off the tv, get off social media; and love on your men extra hard. I laughed when you talked about fixing Devale's plate because I grew up in a Jamaican household watching my mom and aunties do that for their husbands. I hated it then but I grew to understand that is one way to honor your man. The world may not value him, love him, or show him respect, but when he walks in that door we need to do all we can show love. Your grandma taught you well. Keep your head up and know that you are a queen and you are loved!!!

[@haitianbeauti2010]

Thank you for your transparency, your openness and your vulnerability ❤ your heart, thoughts, fears echos all of us Black women. Thanks for using your platform for advocacy❤ We feel you and we get it!!! Thank you for sharing😍

[@moorer2906]

From a mother of 2 boys thank you so much for this video. It is sooooo needed and thank you for showing the essence of black love.

[@shonbond8074]

This needed to be said. You summed up the emotions of a lot of black women. I have nieces and nephews. Explaining these killings but saying you can't hate cops. It's heart breaking. We can't forget Korryn Gaines as well.

[@daniellelyons3294]

Kay, you had me crying. I understand you because being a black wife and mother to a black husband and kids is so crucial right now. I hope and pray we can meet one day.❤

[@quacinasteward5105]

It’s hurtful to see deaths due to racism and I pray for my children 🙏🏾

[@biglunch9258]

When I say that I have a newfound respect for you guys that I appreciate you so much for understanding and caring about your kids about yourselves you guys are my family even though I have never met you before you guys understand the feelings and the things that are going on in this world today you decided to have that difficult talk with your children thank you so much for sharing this video Devale and khadeen you guys are my family

[@dutty66]

you did great........we're not here to judge you, we're here to support you. Big up yaself nuh worry bout a ting! yuh good bless up Kay Kay!

[@mecca6264]

Even though this is a very heavy video, I appreciate the beauty of Black Love!!! It’s such a beautiful thing!!!! Much respects to you and your family!!!!

[@vleemorris]

I totally felt the same. I moved to the states and it's been very difficult for me to watch all this happening and to go to work like it's not affecting me but it was ...

[@kimberlybutler645]

Your voice is necessary! Your tears allow us who are mothers of Black boys and Black girls and wives of Black men, to release our tears and open the floodgates of fears, anxieties and angst. But most of all know that you are not alone. Sending a glimmer of Hope and a Big Hug.

[@JBDG4L]

One thing that stands out is when you mentioned that nothing our ranked you being a mother ,wife and husband and father .... That spoke volumes to me and I'm not a mother or a wife but I believe that is the reason why God will sustain you in this time in you all life. This is beautiful that you have all figured out a balance to let your kids be kids and you guys remaining a family unit. You guys are most definitely #familygoals but it's because you guys are a gorgeous group of people (which you are😁) but because you guys are transparent and honest and that is what makes you guys a goal. I'm done before I start to cry 🥺🥺

[@teganfoster5028]

Baby this was so raw real and this is why people relate to your family..... I don't have children but I am in the same age range as you. All and the Bility to have an example that black love can be real....THANK YOU AND YOUR WHOLE FAMILY

[@roxanfoster-richards]

I pray you have a family one day sweetie, blessings to you ♥

[@javoneb]

Beautiful I dont have words right now just crying for our black men married 28yrs its sooo hard 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@jaelee3826]

I just love Khadeen and her entire family!!! I am a die hard follower of them and always feel her and his heart in everything!!! I pray nothing but continued blessings and love upon this UNION!!!

[@deborahawthorne8231]

Excellent exploratory segment Kadeem. What I can relate to and attest to is, your Natural reaction to worry. From experience and after single handedly (with help from God and Family) raising two sons in L.A. in the 90's during the height of Gangs, drugs and Police brutality, I am BLESSED! My sons survived. Now Parents themselves of sons and daughters they now understand my hoovering and worrying. This with always acknowledging first God and truly understanding that though I was the chosen vessel to navigate them into this life, the fact that I was solely responsible for the nurturing and every aspect of their lives, they never belonged to me. They are gifts LOANED to me for just a while. Both are 45 & 40 years old and after 9 Grands I am GRATEFUL! for LIFE. God's Amazing Grace. Keep the love, continuity and honesty flowing. You are so blessed to have your husband, their Father and your family. We had family, and that unit was that founding and added blessing that helped shape them to be two of the strongest galant men that I know. We need STRONG MOTHERS like yourself to forge ahead. God Bless you and your beautiful family always. OUR LIVES MATTER!!

[@godslyricalvessel6838]

😥My heart is so very full at this moment. This was tough to watch, but so necessary. Although I have not been fortunate enough to have a family of my own yet, I have strong black brothers, nephews, cousins, a god-son, friends, former and current students that I call my sons that I feel exactly the same way about. What a painful time we are existing in. Only God can help us, because for me, it is Him alone where I obtain the strength, and wisdom to maneuver through this life, and do my very best to impart that very same space of safety, hope, comfort, peace, and TLC, where they know without a doubt that they are APPRECIATED, VALUED AND MORE THAN ANYTHING LOVED UNCONDITIONALLY BEYOND MEASURE. So I just truly want to say, thank you Khadeen and Devale for honestly sharing your heart and your story with us. May God cover you and your precious family always, and shield you all from every snare, trick and trap of the enemy. LOVE IS LOVE 🙏😔❤

[@lancelotchin7921]

Thank you so much, you are a true Queen to all of us Black Men. Wish you and Husband all the best of success.

[@jriley6197]

Took 3 attempts to watch but I got thru it. I cried with you. Taking time away from the footage and making sure we don't rage all the time at home is hard but neccesary.

[@contessanowacki5754]

This was so hard to watch but K I've shared your same feelings for 2 years in regards to our black men, women, and children. I also have three sons and I pray for them everyday and have the same concerns as a mother and as a woman. Stay strong Queen we're needed....🙏🏾✊🏽❤

[@feliciakennedy5311]

I'm crying all over again I 😭 😢 these death was super tragic the world we live in as black Americans is such a repeated tragedy. Its so draining but a needed topic to talk about. Im fearful for my son so I pray 🙏 😌 🙌 each day every min. Thank you for being a open book love blessings ❤ 🙏

[@Snuggles69247]

today I sat in my car in my uniform (military) and I opened a video of a police officer pointing a gun at a group of like 5 or 6 between 13-16 teens that didn't do anything but and I broke down for another time. This is the hardest thing that is on my mental, on top of everything else that could go wrong. im exhausted

[@MRMSW-we2bk]

As a black man, father, and husband I appreciate this video and you all being so transparent. May God continue to bless your home and your beautiful family! 💓

[@feliciacrosby9657]

From a Mom of 3 black sons Kay-Kay, thank you so very much. I shared my tears 😭 with you because I truly understand everything you said. I would give my life for my sons. Everyday, & all day I find myself constantly praying for our sons and it gets very emotional and some times overwhelming for me to handle all that which is taking place right now; but as you’ve stated, my husband and I are here for our sons even with them being young black adults, we got you all and all I want, is for them to be safe. Well done job my sister Kay-Kay. 💕💕💕✊🏽✌🏽✊🏽

[@peggyb4033]

The purity of it ALL. The 1st time I saw U both. Devale was crying. I love both of your rawness. Bond Blessings!!🙏🏾💙

[@patriciadavis5939]

Amazing. My son was was stopped by police a number of times and put on the ground and treated disrespectfully. He’s a musician and has had a chance to travel the world. He was called back to Japan numerous times and ended up living there. I have at times thanked God he’s there because while gigging here at home violence erupted in clubs he performed. My point in saying these things is that his father and I was relieved when he left the states. No where is there a guarantee for his safety but we felt relief when he left the states.

[@Moonbeam77]

Beautifully spoken! I have been struggling with finding the words to express the pain, fear, and anger that has been bubbling within me. As Black Women we are called to be strong comforters for the family. My husband and I have 2 been blessed with 2 young men and a lady that we have to guide through this repetition of history. Thank you for this. 🥰💪🏽😘

[@meemee5660]

Such a necessary, heartfelt, sad, yet beautiful conversation. Thank you for being so transparent.

[@brandywalker3270]

Don't cry Kay...everything will be Oh Kay Kay Kay. 🙏🏽❤ We got this & God has us! Much love & respect to you and your entire family. Peace Be Still.

[@nikki5360]

And these videos is the hardest things to watch it's the absolute worst thing...I get so angry..but thank you so much for this,being vulnerable and letting everyone see this hurt. This will help us get through together.

[@aprilallen2601]

I get it. Take care of you and yours. We love all of you. Yep I cried. My son is 20, my daughter is 22, I have a husband, cousins, friends. You wish you could keep them safe. You pray, but you're so hurt for the other mothers, daughters, sisters, aunts, friends. It has to get better. Keep loving those sweet boys and your husband.

[@jenniferrivera8627]

Love this video...I was very worried many times when I dated my ex...but he didn't like how I would worry about his safety because he felt it was adding more stress on him since he already felt it from the world...when he said those words I couldn't believe how much Black men deal with on a daily bases..so yes if making their day just a lil better helps with a simple dinner plate do what u can.. Black men u are loved, appreciated, treasured and are ur our future...

[@jeremyjackson5566]

She is a wonderful wife and Queen. Respect and love to you and your King.✊

[@candywynne8248]

I just discovered your channel. What a beautiful family

[@MsIcollins]

That is sweet khadeem going with your husband to the store he takes such good care of you all as a family he’s worth it . I think this time in life at least for your family is going to bring you all closer