I bought the INFAMOUS Pink Lolita Dress so you don't have to

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Lovely Lor

Lovely Lor

Күн бұрын

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@TheStitchess
@TheStitchess 4 жыл бұрын
Doing the lord’s work with these brands so no one else had to support them, lol...
@TheStitchess
@TheStitchess 4 жыл бұрын
Also for $80-$100 you can literally get secondhand brand off of lacemarket! It’s so not worth it!
@alabamaslammer3921
@alabamaslammer3921 4 жыл бұрын
I love your vids!!
@kellypolek9177
@kellypolek9177 4 жыл бұрын
Aahhhhh it's The Stitchess!! Flipping love seeing supportive community participation. Know you aren't really into Lolita more just kwaii but still, twas a nice lol cameo in the comments...
@mr.turtle6838
@mr.turtle6838 4 жыл бұрын
i liked this comment cause i thought it was funny then realized it was the stichess. i kinda flipped out and got happy for some reason lol?
@donovanberes
@donovanberes 4 жыл бұрын
Ok but when you censor out the actual shop that it was bought from it’s not protecting anyone from shopping with them if we don’t know who to avoid
@MissLovebat
@MissLovebat 4 жыл бұрын
OH DEAR GOD I THOUGHT THAT DRESS DIED IN A FIRE YEARS AGO
@LovelyLor
@LovelyLor 4 жыл бұрын
TikTok resurrected it hahaha
@blueskysandbutterflys
@blueskysandbutterflys 4 жыл бұрын
T^T I DID TO
@mocha4340
@mocha4340 4 жыл бұрын
@@LovelyLor WAIT WE DID?-
@moonygacha8089
@moonygacha8089 4 жыл бұрын
@@lain3701 scemo? Please educate me, but I thought it was just scenes or emo?
@earthboringbeetle
@earthboringbeetle 4 жыл бұрын
@@moonygacha8089 i think scemo is a mix of scene and emo
@PGOuma
@PGOuma 4 жыл бұрын
My 14 year old self was SOOO close to buying that dress back in the day lmaooooo
@wonderlandartwork3579
@wonderlandartwork3579 4 жыл бұрын
Saaaaaaaaame
@moneluve1000
@moneluve1000 4 жыл бұрын
SameXD
@amelie3012
@amelie3012 4 жыл бұрын
I got it in black when I was 14 (2014 or 2015) Honestly yeas the material feels kind of cheap but it was my first time (last time too, although I've probably worn it at least 4-5 times) wearing the style so I was happy regardless. The only thing I obviously now don't like is you know, stolen work, but I never felt ripped off in terms of quality
@senryuzaki9487
@senryuzaki9487 4 жыл бұрын
I gotta say, you have good taste. Saix is one of my favorite characters, second to Axel.
@alessandraalinacarabulea8583
@alessandraalinacarabulea8583 4 жыл бұрын
I was about to....thank god my mom thinks lolita fashon is weird
@opossumstuff3864
@opossumstuff3864 4 жыл бұрын
*KZbin:* hey, are you a lolita? *Me:* eeem noup *KZbin:* wanna see a lolita dress you should not buy? *Me:* Yes, why not
@creqmpufff3069
@creqmpufff3069 3 жыл бұрын
me lmao
@parps6dita290
@parps6dita290 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah right?!
@littlebug6746
@littlebug6746 3 жыл бұрын
samee
@flores1196
@flores1196 3 жыл бұрын
LMAO ME
@CloudyCoraYT
@CloudyCoraYT 3 жыл бұрын
*I am not a lolita but I think the style looks nice/cute*
@ajsbasement9231
@ajsbasement9231 4 жыл бұрын
i literally hate that i can’t choose a style. like oh my god i wish i could dress as a pirate, a princess, a mermaid, a fairy, an elf, and basically everything else all at the same time T^T
@alissaandry1332
@alissaandry1332 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you! One day I'm Prince Darren ruler of the night, the next I'm a punk rock girl skating with her friends. I have no one aesthetic
@atree9284
@atree9284 3 жыл бұрын
I refuse to have a style. Limits my creativity. I just wear whatever feels good.
@nagitokomaeda1780
@nagitokomaeda1780 3 жыл бұрын
I like goth styles for drawing and for irl styles I like lolita
@oWn_234
@oWn_234 3 жыл бұрын
Let’s make a new aesthetic about switching styles everyday
@bibrosko
@bibrosko 3 жыл бұрын
Do it? That sounds like u have a personal style that fits u and ur personality and not a box lol
@GalvanizedArt
@GalvanizedArt 4 жыл бұрын
You should start saying "binged" instead of "googled" just to spite them
@HjonkLike
@HjonkLike 4 жыл бұрын
Weird question: why was she avoiding using “googled” ? Are they on a suing spree or something?
@qwertilicious2574
@qwertilicious2574 4 жыл бұрын
@@HjonkLike I think its to not set off google devices
@fayebae4005
@fayebae4005 4 жыл бұрын
@@HjonkLike Google devices will hear and think you're talking to them. Kinda like the way Alexa works 😂😭 it's both hilarious and awful
@arandomcat9647
@arandomcat9647 4 жыл бұрын
@@HjonkLike the reason was on the screen when she was avoiding saying Google
@vampizou
@vampizou 4 жыл бұрын
@@HjonkLike maybe for copywrite idk
@Talonistrying
@Talonistrying 4 жыл бұрын
I've seen that thing EVERYWHERE, can't wait to see what its actually like. Calling it as trash now
@thevexster2
@thevexster2 4 жыл бұрын
I love your Darth Talon profile pic also yeah I remember seeing it once and thinking "oh cute dress" and just no mention of it ever again, i wasnt into fashion that much back then so thats porb why
@Talonistrying
@Talonistrying 4 жыл бұрын
@@thevexster2 So glad you actually recognize her lol also hey at least you weren't tricked into buying it!
@craftypixel7992
@craftypixel7992 4 жыл бұрын
The fact I drew it some months ago and was about to buy it. Coincidence? I think not
@lemonfall6125
@lemonfall6125 3 жыл бұрын
Four thousandth like! ^^
@Talonistrying
@Talonistrying 3 жыл бұрын
@@lemonfall6125 this comment got me to come check and WOW that's a lot of likes...thank you ^^
@MySweetChxnnel
@MySweetChxnnel 4 жыл бұрын
I remember someone on a fb group wanted a seamstress to make this dress for 25 USD lol
@LovelyLor
@LovelyLor 4 жыл бұрын
the affects fast fashion has had on people is rampant haha
@Nikole_Raven
@Nikole_Raven 4 жыл бұрын
$25 ... my little black heart just gasped.
@fleurarmor
@fleurarmor 4 жыл бұрын
lmao you can't even buy a dress from Forever 21 for $25 any more!
@katerrinah5442
@katerrinah5442 4 жыл бұрын
You wouldn't even be able to buy the materials to make this dress for $25 🙄
@bjrnegillarsen1380
@bjrnegillarsen1380 4 жыл бұрын
I would probably be willing to sell one of my early stage mockups made from worn out bedsheets for $25, not much else
@isiaadiel3468
@isiaadiel3468 3 жыл бұрын
I remember wearing a piece I made and being ignored by everyone but the celebrity guest. The GUEST had to sit with me. I felt special right then but looking back, that was when I dropped it. I'm only coming back with my new confidence from the cosplay community. It's so much more accepting now, and I'm glad it continues.
@CircussCake
@CircussCake Жыл бұрын
Before you even opened the dress, I was thinking "there is no way that much fabric would fit in a that package."
@PikoKagamine
@PikoKagamine 4 жыл бұрын
I purchased this dress in lavender at a Goodwill for $3. I cut out the bows and some lace to make accessories for an Angelic Pretty dress I have.
@tabby5228
@tabby5228 4 жыл бұрын
Some people have goodwill luck. They can go into a goodwill and find good to high quality items that they actually want. Those lucky people.
@catherinetyndale1734
@catherinetyndale1734 4 жыл бұрын
@@tabby5228 I never find any lolita clothes at any Goodwill in my area. Plus the exploitation on disabled workers there makes it not worth it for me.
@twib9330
@twib9330 4 жыл бұрын
OMG I don't dress in a Lolita fashion but I friggin love goodwill XD I usually thrift flip stuff (for cosplay mostly, but sometimes just to wear)
@kathyjohnson2043
@kathyjohnson2043 2 жыл бұрын
@@catherinetyndale1734 I do have some issues with Goodwill but the local store's employees are almost all former students who I knew when they were younger. They are very happy and proud to be working in the store. They get to be successful and make enjoyable social relationships with other employees and customers. I'm sure there are issues at some locations but I would encourage people to get to know the employees at their local store.
@ThunderStruck15
@ThunderStruck15 Жыл бұрын
@@kathyjohnson2043 they pay far under minimum wage.
@crispychris740
@crispychris740 4 жыл бұрын
When I saw someone on tiktok buying a replica described as "lolita costume" I thought i was going to explode :))))))
@bruh-rg7vd
@bruh-rg7vd 4 жыл бұрын
pls i saw it too and i thought i was just being sensitive;;
@castlegarden2999
@castlegarden2999 4 жыл бұрын
Okay hear me out- What if we... Stitch it 👀 With the uh... Right info? Would that be an idea?
@crispychris740
@crispychris740 4 жыл бұрын
@@castlegarden2999 yes of course, educating people about lolita fashion and how to wear it properly is my priority. I was just sad, that they buy dresses just because they are popular and look cute. But if people want a dress just for one party or something and they don't care what is it, then they should go for it. I don't want to sound like an expert or gatekeeper.
@bloodtdupre3114
@bloodtdupre3114 4 жыл бұрын
It’s really hard when I see those types of tiktoka cause if you even try educate a lot of them they get super defensive
@rainbowdashsailormoon6005
@rainbowdashsailormoon6005 4 жыл бұрын
@@castlegarden2999 Part of me wants to and part of me is scared for coming off as an elitist, even though I'm far from that. Aaa
@katedann8377
@katedann8377 4 жыл бұрын
I am super happy that Lor says what she does about the cost of lolita, I used to be extremely active as a lolita when I was 13-16 I would follow brands religiously and memorise print names, I would make mood boards of my dream co-ords and stick them all over my room (which was entirely pastel pink) but I couldn't afford it, the shipping alone was too much for me. So because I knew how to sew I just started making my JSKs my self and only ever splurging on blouses and accessories when I could afford it. I was super proud of my wardrobe because every piece I had was unique to my collection. However, when I was 16 and become more comfortable going to proper meetups as lolita was becoming a pretty large part of my life I went to a tea party and this whole group of girls I'd never seen at smaller meetups were there and one of them was wearing my dream dress at the time (which was Milky Swan JSK if anyone cares) and I went up to her to compliment her dress and just to introduce myself. They scowled at me and kept asking what brand my JSK was from and when I told them I made it they were super weird with me and basically wouldn't talk to me for the rest of the tea party. I kept having experiences similar to this one because of this group of girls that were seemingly obsessed with brand and by the end of that year, I decided I wasn't rich enough to be in the community and I sold all my stuff to my friends. I'm 21 now and really wish I had kept it all, I don't wear lolita anymore I still think it's a beautiful fashion style I think I've just moved away from that world too much to re-enter it again. I do just want to say that if all you can afford is bodyline or to make your own lolita then you wear it! and treasure it! You don't need brand to be a real lolita or to look amazing. Just wear what you can attain and what makes you happy
@KINMANPUMP
@KINMANPUMP 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you had that experience. People can be so mean. I'm also autistic and can't help but talk a lot when I'm telling a story.
@katedann8377
@katedann8377 4 жыл бұрын
@@KINMANPUMP Thank you I'm at peace with it now those girls probably had something going on that made them lash out as they did so it's alright now. Oh, I'm glad another autistic person gets it I know it can annoy people sometimes so I try to remember when I'm doing it now but seeing that other people also have this is comforting :)
@4nnorant
@4nnorant 4 жыл бұрын
that was such a beautiful comment. thank you so much for sharing and you seem like an absolute wonderful person! have a fantastic day
@belle8932
@belle8932 4 жыл бұрын
The community is definitely filled with elitist and gate keepers. It’s a hobby that you unfortunately need to have the money to spend on quality outfits :(
@ocinidolegna
@ocinidolegna 4 жыл бұрын
Comment length is fine :') it was intriguing and sad to read. I wish people would just let others enjoy things
@katharinavonwalde2222
@katharinavonwalde2222 4 жыл бұрын
The sad thing is while we “save up” to get a dress, most are “limited edition” and have a very short sale period. They make me hate my life with my budget
@rottencandy222
@rottencandy222 Жыл бұрын
For real....
@carolerobbins9522
@carolerobbins9522 Жыл бұрын
Lovely Lor: The sewing is so bad! Some random child in a southeast Asian sweatshop: 😭 😭 😭
@yanfei4299
@yanfei4299 Жыл бұрын
😂
@pikachusie
@pikachusie Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 best comment I've seen in a long time actually
@anonview
@anonview Жыл бұрын
As a Southeast Asian, all I can say is that the kids don't particularly care as long as they get enough cash to feed their younger siblings. It's effed up here sometimes.
@staeriix
@staeriix Жыл бұрын
fucked up but true
@ThotPatrolSlayerWarrior
@ThotPatrolSlayerWarrior Жыл бұрын
Then, there's creepy p3d0 western men (Passport Bros) targeting underaged minors and younger women who are being SA by them while gaslighting and blaming on western women.
@evetpd2467
@evetpd2467 4 жыл бұрын
lets not forget about the people who have to make these dresses and under what circumstances
@AmarandeVK
@AmarandeVK 4 жыл бұрын
They have it the worst and probably make 0.30$ a day
@legallyelsie
@legallyelsie 3 жыл бұрын
@@AmarandeVK cents?
@regularjoe5517
@regularjoe5517 3 жыл бұрын
@maipiku yes
@seir323
@seir323 3 жыл бұрын
THIS. I honestly felt pretty uncomfortable when she was talking about the quality... sure, it's not good. But that's because someone is making this quickly in probably very not great conditions. Even if the work seems sub-par, you have to appreciate that it was done by another human, and question the reasons WHY they had to rush it. It's not the seamstress' fault, it's the conditions they have to work under.
@ThyGeep
@ThyGeep 3 жыл бұрын
@@seir323 I agree with you but I think she was holding the company accountable for false advertising more than making fun of the poor underpaid workers.
@cleo962
@cleo962 4 жыл бұрын
For anyone who has had traumatic experiences with non ironic “brand wh*res” and gate keepers, please keep in mind: empty vessels make the most noise. These people are not representative of lolita fashion, they are an individual with a shit personality who also wears lolita fashion, and you will come across them sadly. Always be mindful who you take advice from, lovelylor has a lot of great videos on how to access this fashion so definitely a good resource if you’re starting out. If anyone tells you you can’t be lolita if you don’t wear $400 dresses they belong in the bin with offcuts of fabric.
@Naranylla
@Naranylla 4 жыл бұрын
I actually bought this dress because it was cheap and cute. I still like it tbh. I agree with everything you said, and I learned it's important to research. 💀
@oshynlints4113
@oshynlints4113 4 жыл бұрын
Alright, so I actually bought this dress in blue, as my first "lolita" dress. I bout it some time ago when I was 13-14, and even though I see now after getting a few more dresses that its not a proper lolita dress (and after seeing that it's a replica), I still like it and keep it in my wardrobe for more casual wear. Its something that I don't feel I have to worry about running around in since it was so cheap. If anyone likes a piece of clothing, they shouldn't have to feel bad about wearing it, even if they didn't know everything about said clothes before hand. Most of the time I feel like its how the whole outfit comes together in the end is what is important. But this dress for me was what I used to see if I actually wanted to fully commit to the style. I am in no way saying that anyone should buy it with out research or understanding, I'm just saying I think its ok for any one person to enjoy what they want to. I've actually had another dress of mine that I love be called "trash" and "bad quality" since the brand I bought it from wasn't very reputable. I felt like I wasn't allowed to wear it anymore because it was "wrong". That is never true. I feel happy in it, and so I'm not going to let people tell me how to feel instead. Be you, and wear what makes you feel like yourself.
@Naranylla
@Naranylla 4 жыл бұрын
@@oshynlints4113 Yes! And thank you for your comment. :) I think a big theme of lolita is wearing what you want, it matters how it comes together in the end and whether you like it.
@teagan4211
@teagan4211 4 жыл бұрын
@@samblackwell8872 Ur missing the point
@maggienolia3079
@maggienolia3079 4 жыл бұрын
@@samblackwell8872 Has a gate keeper? I'm sorry, I don't understand.
@theshylittlefox
@theshylittlefox 4 жыл бұрын
You can make it into a lampshade.
@LovelyLor
@LovelyLor 4 жыл бұрын
I'm thinking maybe headpieces like the ruffly part? Holly was thinking decorative pillow case? We'll see haha it's going to be fun!
@j_fenrir
@j_fenrir 4 жыл бұрын
Or you could skip the glass bulb and just light it on fire lmao
@Hellakiddie
@Hellakiddie 4 жыл бұрын
Omgggg yes
@twib9330
@twib9330 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe a table runner?
@dasty3314
@dasty3314 4 жыл бұрын
me, not into lolita style and also not planning on buying that dress or similar: oh my, i definitely need to watch this video to protect myself from being scammed by people preying on this community !!
@TheDog2137
@TheDog2137 Жыл бұрын
same
@riverhoke5907
@riverhoke5907 Жыл бұрын
While trying to get into lolita currently, I've watched videos, looked on a bunch of websites, etc. One thing that makes me really insecure about purchasing anything is definitely the mass amount of people who criticize others for not having a full Coord or complete outfit that looks good. I love the fashion and respect the rules, I just feel that's it's quite daunting and people shouldn't talk down about others who are still figuring things out.
@erikwest227
@erikwest227 4 жыл бұрын
Milanoo: very bad Lolita fakes Milano: delicious cookies
@fulinelite3163
@fulinelite3163 4 жыл бұрын
hahahaha There's a NOO in MilaNOO.
@ShinyShilla
@ShinyShilla 4 жыл бұрын
Italian city: 🥴?
@alexiaasf
@alexiaasf 4 жыл бұрын
also milano: my dad :D
@ripsnip5336
@ripsnip5336 4 жыл бұрын
nice erasers though
@imaginingdefeat
@imaginingdefeat 4 жыл бұрын
Most underrated cookie ever; change my mind
@NasikaSakura
@NasikaSakura 4 жыл бұрын
Oh... Oh, no... As a lolita from a very low income household, I am so glad I never sunk money into this mess. I was thinking of saving for it for so long since I thought the design was so cute. I would have been devastated. Thank you for this review!
@saragarofano9727
@saragarofano9727 4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you didn't buy it honeybee!
@NasikaSakura
@NasikaSakura 4 жыл бұрын
@@saragarofano9727 Awe, thank you for being so kind! 💖
@NasikaSakura
@NasikaSakura 4 жыл бұрын
@@Cookies_and_Kuma I also never got chores money. XD Almost never birthday or Christmas money either from relatives because they all just bought me dolls and dresses because that's the default for girls you don't know well, while my brother's got cash since they don't know "what boys want." I saved change I sound off the ground. After a handful of years, I saved $100 for a Gamecube in coins and I was so proud! Then of course my parents forced me to share it with my brother, and bought him his own a couple months later to stop the fighting. 😭 Like, I'm a true girly-girl, but I hated how my brothers were always given the autonomy of cash to pick what they want and were gifted videogames while I had to scrimp for them from nothing and take their rejected, often broken, leftovers. Lolita fashion makes me feel worth something that I choose. 💖
@redhoodxdp8568
@redhoodxdp8568 3 жыл бұрын
@@NasikaSakura Im so sorry that you have to go through that hopefully itll get better
@NasikaSakura
@NasikaSakura 3 жыл бұрын
@@redhoodxdp8568 Lol It's just the reality of being a low-income household and gender socialization. In abstract, those things hardly change in a lifetime, if that. There was no "falling on hard times." It's just our lives, and the way some people live. Both my parents are disabled and live on a fixed income. My mom was supposed to be sterile from two rounds of chemotherapy. There is no chance of improving one's economic conditions in that situation. And because you don't know any different, you don't register it as "bad." You have to learn that comparison over time, and how to feel about it. So, please don't feel bad for me for not having an allowance and being able to buy dresses. Having food on the table and a coat in winter was more important. I understood this and did not hold that against my parents. I am an adult who works now. I don't make much money at present, but with money, I have some more choices over my own life. :) I've a very humble lolita collection that's been growing for 8 years. It's comprised of one blouse, one skirt, an accidentally purchased replica I plan to modify, two pairs of shoes, a pair of socks, and three dresses, most of which were purchased within the last year and never at item over $80. Most were $30 or $60. That seems miniscule compared to BTSSB and AP prices, but you must understand the majority of my groceries come from the 99 cent store. None of these clothes are of very noteable brands but it's about how the clothes make me feel, and not the label on my back for me. I guess that is a blessing from my low-income background. Every piece I manage to get is afight towards and worth so much more to me. I do aspire to middle-class some day, and it's up to me to figure out how to get there. If it's not within my capacity, I have to remember it's not a moral failing. I don't have a model to follow, so "common sense" and resources taken for granted by those in other circumstances than mine I simply might not be privileged to. My parents could not work due to their disabilities for instance, so I never witnessed how an adult would balance a schedule and stressors associated with working. I was too scared to get a job for a long time because my parents told me if I did taxes wrong, I could go to jail, and they refused to help me with taxes because they never did them- having not worked. So, I was petrified. At one point the terror of continuing to live like this outweighed the terror of taxes. I am so glad to be working now, and so proud of what I do. 😊 And, every once in awhile when I can afford it, I get a special treat of ruffles and lace which makes me feel hundreds of times more valuable than its price. ♥️
@totallyahuman2332
@totallyahuman2332 4 жыл бұрын
there's been such a huge spike in people that are interested in lolita fashion that don't put in the research and effort. i hope some newlitas come across this video!
@shela732
@shela732 4 жыл бұрын
I want to get into and try lolita fashion when I can afford it and I will definitely not buy bad quality lolita stuff because of these videos! ^^
@airahfuji
@airahfuji 4 жыл бұрын
what really?! what triggered the spike?
@misharyland1104
@misharyland1104 4 жыл бұрын
Tiktok
@kidaria1333
@kidaria1333 4 жыл бұрын
it is a general problem in modern societies that they only use short search on google for everything trusting too much everything what it listed in the interrnet ignorant to the fact that google and others are not neutral and the you buy the listing place.
@totallyahuman2332
@totallyahuman2332 4 жыл бұрын
@@shela732 that’s great to see, i can’t wait for you to buy your first coord, good luck!
@Sensansenkai
@Sensansenkai 2 жыл бұрын
I was super into Lolita in my late teens and I REMEMBER this dress, you could not look up Lolita stuff without seeing it oml. I think there was also a black and white one in a similar style that was also relentlessly copied. I didn't end up pursuing it for myself but still appreciate it for the aesthetic on others!
@sirleopold2378
@sirleopold2378 3 жыл бұрын
As someone who's had a passing interest in lolita fashion for years now, this was very helpful. I think the biggest reasons I'm so intimidated by the idea of joining the community are 1. I'm poor af, 2. I'm a guy. A guy with social anxiety. People make gross assumptions and i am just not equipped to deal with that & 3. I really just have no idea where I would even start. Videos like this are very helpful to me.
@karolinedemon
@karolinedemon 2 ай бұрын
I hope you didnt give up or that you will find safe space to wear things that interest you
@toastchan
@toastchan 4 жыл бұрын
I have the sailor AndRomeo dress. Their stuff is cute and affordable💖
@AinaraPardo0808
@AinaraPardo0808 4 жыл бұрын
I have Infanta dresses and I LOVE them.
@AshHeaven
@AshHeaven 4 жыл бұрын
Is Ann Romeo a Taobao brand?
@toastchan
@toastchan 4 жыл бұрын
@@AshHeaven its a Rakuten brand www.rakuten.ne.jp/gold/auc-andromeo/index_sp.html
@dunceclown5576
@dunceclown5576 4 жыл бұрын
Lor do you remember the story that someone bought a dress on milanoo and recieved a sink in the mail instead of a dress?
@PGOuma
@PGOuma 4 жыл бұрын
I trusted milanoo!! :'(
@PGOuma
@PGOuma 4 жыл бұрын
When I was 12-15 lol but that's messed up
@courtneycherry113
@courtneycherry113 4 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@dandanP
@dandanP 4 жыл бұрын
Hey at least they got a new sink 💀
@bethm5852
@bethm5852 4 жыл бұрын
Pardon?
@jenniferlee9577
@jenniferlee9577 4 жыл бұрын
Me, a dark academic, watching this: hey this is like bernadette banner but for lolitas!
@sephikong8323
@sephikong8323 4 жыл бұрын
This is pretty much why I clicked on this video lol
@Amsayy
@Amsayy 4 жыл бұрын
Dark academic is so gorgeous but I am an old 28 year old mom and I’d look so silly lmao but damn is it a stunning aesthetic.
@kuchenflockedesverderbeeen4555
@kuchenflockedesverderbeeen4555 4 жыл бұрын
Omg it is! Bernadette is such a queen and so she is!
@RPCs4everXP
@RPCs4everXP 4 жыл бұрын
@@Amsayy life is short, wear what you like. + dark academia is a mature fashion style anyway imo :)
@lilliesinthegard32
@lilliesinthegard32 4 жыл бұрын
@@Amsayy you'll be a fashionista mom
@Skyteify
@Skyteify 4 жыл бұрын
I'm not into lolita fashion but there a few things I don't understand that I'm curious about. I used to have a friend that was into lolita but the community itself made her cry regularly. She was only a kid and people would harass her for wearing cheap but still legitimate dresses. They would regularly bully her for her coords and how cheap the brand was. She was also on forums that, from what I've seen, have mostly been bullying and judging people's outfits. I know that there are people who aren't like this, but for those who are; why? I understand the research, effort, years of saving and commitment that goes into being a lolita, and the sheer amount of work and talent that goes into making those dresses, so obviously I understand why buying replicas is a no go. But there are people that hate on others for wearing costumes or hand made lolita outfits. Why? When it's costumes, why not just leave them alone. Maybe they're trying it out for fun to see if they enjoy the alt style without the full commitment to something so expensive. Maybe someone's buying a costume as a gag, or for a party, or for their own form of escapism, or just to feel like a princess. I feel like policing what people wear (when it's not plagiarised work) is extremely ignorant, rude, and classist. It genuinely feels like a "let them eat cake" scenario, ironically. "oh they're not wearing authentic lolita dresses? Well they should get some". I just don't understand why you would ever be insulted by someone who expresses interest in your fashion. And when they don't take your advice on how to indulge better in the community then so what? Maybe that's too much commitment for them and they love the style but just want to have fun without making this a chore. Why do they have to be hardcore into it or not enjoy it at all? It's like saying you're not allowed to enjoy Harry Potter/enjoy the mercg if you haven't researched the full history of the universe and know what dumbledore's left testicle looks like. Maybe you just enjoy it cuz it's magic and makes you feel good. Let people enjoy themselves, and give them advice if you want, but take a step back and relax because not everyone thinks like you, and they don't deserve to be shamed, harassed and bullied for that, just because they wanted to have some innocent fun. I know this comment won't change anything but I just had to get it off my chest. I wish the community would just relax and not be so aggressive. In the end it literally is just a piece of fabric. You wouldn't bully someone for a cheap coat that they bought if they really liked it, saying that if it's not made by gucci then you're not allowed to dress in that style
@lilakibler2762
@lilakibler2762 4 жыл бұрын
I 100% agree with this comment, the end of that second paragraph was hilarious lol
@Skyteify
@Skyteify 4 жыл бұрын
@@lilakibler2762 eyy thank you lmao
@chibiarts9029
@chibiarts9029 3 жыл бұрын
I agree I don't know why people have to be so judgemental I know its not the same thing at all really but if your looking for a community for dressing really cute frilly style have you maybe thought of joining the cosplay community instead? there's a lot of people who do kawaii looks and I think its a lot more about creativity personal expression and the overall look rather than people being snobby about brand names
@jennifergil2026
@jennifergil2026 2 жыл бұрын
I love this comment. So true. uwu
@ayeshxd
@ayeshxd Жыл бұрын
why do all the comments write in essays in this vide 😭😭😭
@owen.o.z._5283
@owen.o.z._5283 4 жыл бұрын
me, a 14 year old boy who just loves the fashion and thinks about maybe wearing a Lolita dress at some point for fun: 👁👄👁👍🏼
@lilakibler2762
@lilakibler2762 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you 😌👍
@kuni7071
@kuni7071 3 жыл бұрын
Go do it please
@ren8907
@ren8907 3 жыл бұрын
you can wear a lolita dress if u want! but u can also where lolita boy outfits i forgot what theyre called but im a lolita boy myself anybody can wear lolita no matter what gender or how u look as long as u enjoy it 😊
@mollyrodriguez1000
@mollyrodriguez1000 3 жыл бұрын
@@ren8907 hey is that wu chang
@ren8907
@ren8907 3 жыл бұрын
@@mollyrodriguez1000 yes!
@KitsuQuinGamingTTV
@KitsuQuinGamingTTV 4 жыл бұрын
Back when I was 17 a guy I dated bought me this dress as a gift because he didnt know any better about replicas, and while he definitely lucked out on getting one that was decent quality so I never got rid of it, but nowadays if I wear it I usually just style it as lolita inspired/ generic kawaii outfits cuz I feel kinda bad for owning it but obviously cant sell it.
@CatCheshire
@CatCheshire Жыл бұрын
😂
@bdwarrior_1
@bdwarrior_1 Жыл бұрын
That’s actually pretty sweet aww
@alwaystakemarktwainsadvice4269
@alwaystakemarktwainsadvice4269 Жыл бұрын
Why couldn’t you sell it, people sell used clothes all the time.
@hinaa6203
@hinaa6203 Жыл бұрын
@@alwaystakemarktwainsadvice4269 because it’s a replica. She doesn’t wanna sell fake clothes to people 👍
@Meimoons
@Meimoons Ай бұрын
@@alwaystakemarktwainsadvice4269 I think a better comparison would be closer to people wanting luxury bags/purses. Even if the bag is pre-owned, it’s going to matter to a lot of people who do care about owning the authentic item from a luxury brand. Obviously people who don’t care if they own knock-offs aren’t going to care about owning a non-authentic item from said brand.
@ViDu7
@ViDu7 4 жыл бұрын
I actually know someone who has the yellow version of this dress and it actually isnt that bad, but It definitely wasn't as cheap as all the others
@LovelyLor
@LovelyLor 4 жыл бұрын
It's like gambling haha
@j_fenrir
@j_fenrir 4 жыл бұрын
@@LovelyLor Lucky draw: kawaii edition
@kidaria1333
@kidaria1333 4 жыл бұрын
In my opinion for 30$ this isn't bad. I mean of course it is bad compared to proper lolita dresses and a scam considering the stock photo but if you compare it to other costume for that price it is okay.
@Cloud444kitty
@Cloud444kitty 4 жыл бұрын
@@kidaria1333 it would be better if they weren't using a high quality stock photo though. Comparing the stock photo to the actual dress it would be really disappointing to receive
@aislingm8036
@aislingm8036 4 жыл бұрын
@@kidaria1333 i mean it’s still a scam nevertheless
@retrovialx1625
@retrovialx1625 4 жыл бұрын
this demon haunts me every time i scroll on pinterest
@Gyaradosage
@Gyaradosage 4 жыл бұрын
Yup. I’m not even in the Lolita sphere at all (post-apoc/ dark fantasy is my jam) and I have seen this dress all over Pinterest.
@crescentmoon6250
@crescentmoon6250 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@marsgannon4891
@marsgannon4891 3 жыл бұрын
I was unaware of fabric recycling facilities until you mentioned it. Thank you so much! I always keep around old clothes and fabrics that are too worn to donate because I feel horrible just throwing them away, and I'm so glad to know there's another option! Thank you!
@gal1888
@gal1888 Жыл бұрын
Im not a lolita, and i bought this on Amazon for 40 dollars to wear on my birthday! I honestly found it fine. I bought a petticoat and other accessories to go with so it looked nicer. It was as comfortable as any other poofy dress. I believe it only came with one bow though so i guess it was a bit different than the photo. It was a fine dress, better then the one in this video.
@wildmarjoramdieselpunk6396
@wildmarjoramdieselpunk6396 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, except these gatekeepers say it isn’t. :) I say, do what you like.
@Sputterbug
@Sputterbug Жыл бұрын
it isn't about gatekeeping it's about not supporting sweat shop clothing that steals designs
@wildmarjoramdieselpunk6396
@wildmarjoramdieselpunk6396 Жыл бұрын
I get that. But putting someone down because they don’t have the money to “correctly” dress the right way isn’t the same as buying slow fashion. :) I know people who do historical dressing or SCA which is picky about details, but in them there still are ways to make clothes or do the styles cheaper. In Lolita, it seems like you have to buy a $150-200 dress plus shipping from Japan and cross your fingers that their one size (which is a 9 with stretch? How does this fit everyone?) fits or if they have a plus size (size 12? 14?) that only ships to the US and may or may not fit my bust. See, I couldn’t be in this subculture because of this. Lolita used to be a subculture when I lived in Southern California, with the Lolitas dressing up, doing picnics, teas, cons, anime events and/or hanging out in Balboa Park. Maybe it’s all just the internet now? Anyway, I couldn’t take a $200 plus chance that any one size dress would fit me. I had one custom made once for about $80 but I would have probably got laughed out of any Lolita group. I guess my problem is laughing at people who honestly try and not including them.
@1fuitgumy
@1fuitgumy Жыл бұрын
​@@wildmarjoramdieselpunk6396she never put anyone down for their budget tho, she literally said even if your budget is low there are still better dresses to be buying..... this isn't gatekeeping, she doesn't want us wasting our money
@wildmarjoramdieselpunk6396
@wildmarjoramdieselpunk6396 Жыл бұрын
@@1fuitgumy Yeah, but she also made Lolita out of Hot Topic dresses, so that’s a plus in my book! :)
@bexthewitch87
@bexthewitch87 4 жыл бұрын
My paralysis demon is going to show up dressed in that thing tonight.....
@saragarofano9727
@saragarofano9727 4 жыл бұрын
How did it go
@user-ly2nx7ss2x
@user-ly2nx7ss2x 4 жыл бұрын
Cute
@madeline9188
@madeline9188 4 жыл бұрын
Luckyyyyy my demon shows up dressed like that vegan teacher!!!! That demon teacher 😳
@Mostly_Ranting
@Mostly_Ranting 4 жыл бұрын
That Kaneko blouse is serving both clown looks and queen looks simultaneously and I really love that for you.
@magidolc
@magidolc Жыл бұрын
good news! ANDROMEO finally released a new version of this dress just this month!
@TheOriginalRedBowl
@TheOriginalRedBowl Жыл бұрын
Omg.... I bought this dress a few years ago just for an Alice in wonderland costume as a rabbit and I didn't know much about the community at all at the time I was just looking for a frilly dress. But it was soooo horrible because even for the size I picked, it was really difficult to find a way to fit in comfortably because of my bust. I did my best to try and keep using it since then so it'd at least have use. It lasted fine. The headband bow wasn't included I think that was just from your store. The other bow had a safety pin sewn to it and that was the only thing that has come off so far. I definitely want to find a way to support better stores and recycle this dress when I have the chance. But this video brought back so many silly memories lollll. Thank you for taking the time to inform.
@bunnycafe1427
@bunnycafe1427 4 жыл бұрын
Everytime I here that people throw away clothes im shocked. I grew being told you have to throw them in donation bins. People really throw it in the trash???? Why???
@meia.a
@meia.a 4 жыл бұрын
Donation bins ain't really a thing in some country I think?? It's my first time knowing it today since I usually just throw away clothes that are too old to garbage bins.
@TheSlipperyNUwUdle
@TheSlipperyNUwUdle 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve literally never heard of clothing donation bins. As an American in Kentucky.
@miku39chan
@miku39chan 4 жыл бұрын
Ah Yea. It’s a third world country thing to throw things away, so lucky to not live in murica, we are a Little Advanced over here in Europe. But sadly we encounter more racism.
@fuvkthatbs7628
@fuvkthatbs7628 4 жыл бұрын
@@miku39chan I'm from a third world country (Brazil) and we dont throw clothes away at all, we always donate or go to the tailor, just things like underwear that has no way to fix we have to throw away with the bathroom trash or other, as we don't have a system that split the types of trash. Usually people that work on managing (I think that's the right way to say?) the garbage pick up things to take with them, some kids that live near or the parents work there get toys that sometimes it's in good condition and sometimes not. I don't know if Murica it's a real country or u just kidding, but I think I should say that not every third world countries do that, actually it's more an American thing, I watched sooo much videos of people getting things with the price tag on, almost unused stuff etc on NYC for example. As it's hard to have money to buy things, it's hard to throw away even when it's almost not wearable. Sorry for English mistakes, I'm still learning!
@kittenmimi5326
@kittenmimi5326 4 жыл бұрын
Well there you go.... many places there arent such things as donation bins k. And if the clothing is just normal ol clothing n not rlly high quality or anything, they are not very enviromentally concious and are not in financial hardship (so they got money to throw away) then they'd just... yea
@koikat6638
@koikat6638 4 жыл бұрын
I'd love to get the original and romeo print of this. It's an honestly cute dress that strikes everything I love in a lolita dress. But you know even if you got the original everyone would just assume it's a replica anyway.
@LovelyLor
@LovelyLor 4 жыл бұрын
RIGHT ?! I also have no idea where you could safely and truly get the AndRomeo version even secondhand because I don't know how to prove it's authenticity and there are so many replicas floating around.
@koikat6638
@koikat6638 4 жыл бұрын
@@LovelyLor I've seen many people prove authenticity by photographing the tag on it, but with how old the print is and the added popularity in the replica scene not even that is safe haha.
@kidaria1333
@kidaria1333 4 жыл бұрын
The very first original design is not even from And Romeo but Angelic pretty princess JSK from 2007 and Fantastic Princess JSK from 2010. lolibrary.org/items/ap-chiffon-angelic-princess-jsk lolibrary.org/items/ap-fantastic-princess-jsk
@koikat6638
@koikat6638 4 жыл бұрын
@@kidaria1333 while that AP dress is very similar to the and romeo dress, they aren't the same print. The bows, trimming, and fit are all different. That is a super cute AP dress though so I'll definitely bookmark that!
@ladieb35
@ladieb35 4 жыл бұрын
I don't wear lolita, don't plan to start literally ever, but I enjoy learning about the fashion and I support yall in your endeavors. Make the world a frillier place
@jonquilgemstone
@jonquilgemstone Жыл бұрын
I love how you put links to the stores in the description! You are a godsend to anyone interested in Lolita fashions.
@cielthefangirl2876
@cielthefangirl2876 Жыл бұрын
Fashion is actually one of the worlds most leading contributor to waste, always recycle fabric or it’s gonna end up in the ocean.
@calictii
@calictii 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Lor! Thanks so much for mentioning about repurposing/recycling fabric. I make plushies (and other crafts) out of my old clothes. Also I love AndRomeo I was so happy the day I found the actual dress.
@Up10tionslay
@Up10tionslay 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, making plushies out of old clothes! I also cut up the fabric I can't use for crafts, and use it as stuffing for the plushies!
@Zulf85
@Zulf85 4 жыл бұрын
At the thrift store I work at, as long as it's not underwear ALL fabric that isn't in saleable condition gets recycled - it's good
@bananache4793
@bananache4793 4 жыл бұрын
“always keep your expectations low, that way you cant be disappointed”
@eszterbertok602
@eszterbertok602 3 жыл бұрын
"i wasn't expecting anything from you, but you still managed to disappoint me"
@NovelSuara12
@NovelSuara12 3 жыл бұрын
@@eszterbertok602 lmao 😂 good one
@allyrat
@allyrat 4 жыл бұрын
i feel like if i stood at a distance, squinted my eyes and turned all the lights of it might just be mistaken for not garbage
@LovelyLor
@LovelyLor 4 жыл бұрын
It's the angles hahah curse my smol apartment
@mf-ws3cj
@mf-ws3cj Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy this video was suggested to me today, i can't wait to bingewatch some lovely lor!! New fan fs
@Todomo
@Todomo 4 жыл бұрын
bless your soul for the time stamps in the description
@rx500android
@rx500android 4 жыл бұрын
As someone who likes sewing, the construction of this dress offends me
@marionhills8031
@marionhills8031 4 жыл бұрын
that kaneko blouse is so gorgeous
@Ryojiin
@Ryojiin 4 жыл бұрын
You're so sweet. And I like how you almost spent more time in this video encouraging people and providing good resources than you did on that tragic dress. It felt more "this is why good quality matters" rather than "lol, this is garbage!" It's so refreshing to see support and love in an alternative fashion culture (points to my goth self) instead of just gatekeeping and shaming and negativity. Thanks for always being so kind and, well, lovely, Lor. ❤️
@ieat.brainzzz
@ieat.brainzzz Жыл бұрын
I’m sure there’s a few other comments saying the same thing but this reminds me of the “pink strawberry cottagecore” dress wave. Basically the same thing but with different aesthetic clothing.
@AidenzeroV
@AidenzeroV Жыл бұрын
I don’t know how KZbin suggested this to me, but at least you’re a honest person who knows their stuff about dresses. It’s refreshing to see
@rjbrouggy2382
@rjbrouggy2382 4 жыл бұрын
I make my stuff as i have awkward dinensions. The community that i used to live near stop me for wanting to get into the fashion as apparently "sewing it myself isnt lolita". After a few years im getting back in the fashion... pretty much an up yours at the original community. I havent tried the community in my new state yet
@MolecularMachine
@MolecularMachine 3 жыл бұрын
How in the hell-- I can't even begin to imagine the thought process that leads someone to think that a dress you made yourself isn't lolita. Screw all of them.
@fulinelite3163
@fulinelite3163 2 жыл бұрын
lmfaooooooo That is actually extremely funny. The Western pre-2009 LiveJournal EGL community was 99% handmade. Just realize that they were just a horrible community towards you. Being handmade isn't bad, that's literally the roots of EGL in the West.
@FattyChan
@FattyChan 4 жыл бұрын
god i remember almost falling victim to that dress in the early days kjdhgkjsgh its so interesting to see how it actually looks in detail
@sophisticatedPJs
@sophisticatedPJs 4 жыл бұрын
oh no when you showed all the other stuff on And Romeo's site I saw the gothic version of "the dress" that shows up whenever you search gothic lolita dfDSFGDFG
@courtneycherry113
@courtneycherry113 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao I have that dress still from my ita phase. 😆
@pillowbull
@pillowbull Жыл бұрын
I'm here to say that, just wear it if you just like it for the looks. My experience with the lolita community was they were a bunch of entitled middle-aged woman treating it like a huge part of their lifestyle. If you're not going to commit I advise you to go solo and just do whatever you want. the dress is already made and ready to sell if you're planning to wear it alot get it who cares. If you want quality get a legit one but as someone that would be happy because the item is cheap i'd just get it. Alternatively you can buy second hand obviously. the lolita community will act like you just committed the biggest crime ever (you did(in the community at least)) I've bought original and faked and the quality is FINE. so just think for yourself what you want.
@suitdoggy4707
@suitdoggy4707 Жыл бұрын
Also if you’re not going to wearing these outfits daily cheap ones that look pretty really aren’t bad and if you know how to sew it’s honestly a big wallet saver.
@ashura4627
@ashura4627 Жыл бұрын
I used to be really into lolita, I even managed to buy 2 dresses from a local physical lolita and alt fashion store. Even back then I was using the biggest sizes, and they were really tight and uncomfortable. Eventually, I had to drop lolita fashion entirely because there aren't many brands that carry big plus sizes. Which is a shame, in all honesty. I love this community and I wish I could be part of it again.
@nightlyoko626
@nightlyoko626 4 жыл бұрын
I CANT BELIEVE THIS DRESS HAS COME BACK IN THE YEAR OF 2020
@Me-mb1ex
@Me-mb1ex 4 жыл бұрын
It reminds me of a lot of the baby lolitas first dresses that I’d see after their first viewing of Kamikaze Girls in 2006.
@lovelyorsummeridc.3153
@lovelyorsummeridc.3153 3 жыл бұрын
2021-!
@lilypond3096
@lilypond3096 4 жыл бұрын
Yass save those Baby Lolita’s on Tik Tok
@followthenightlight3402
@followthenightlight3402 4 жыл бұрын
They are not baby Lolitas,the are the people who used to bully the alt people and now using alternative as a trend,I’m trying to understand at this “alt” people to not buy them,but they always says that they are poor.I can understand that you are poor but better not buy it also there are some non expensive Lolita dresses
@clownbaby8347
@clownbaby8347 4 жыл бұрын
@@followthenightlight3402 ok gatekeeper
@gabby284
@gabby284 4 жыл бұрын
@momo fr! i only started becoming emo or grunge or (whatever the hell my style is) about 6/7 months ago and ive always appreciated alternative style. its just started getting more respect and i wanted to show my true self, and i have never bullied an alternative person
@worstkiterchan9207
@worstkiterchan9207 4 жыл бұрын
@@followthenightlight3402 I was a closetted alt. And also a bisexual but thats another story. I loved alt styles since I was small, I grew up in boy-ish stuff and a lot of comfortable and more cool stuff. I fell in love w grunge and emo and experimented but as I got diagnosed w depression and got my meds, I decided to go preppy to fit in my new school. Thats when I found my very good friend who 1) Got me outta the alt closet and 2) Got me outta the bi closet and made me love grunge again. Am back but that doesn't mean am fake. I shifted towards a platform life w a bunch of grunge clothes and cute decorations. Gummybear chainss ftw that thing is so adorable.
@grace9071
@grace9071 4 жыл бұрын
@@followthenightlight3402 I've never bullied anyone ;-; I look up to then actually
@Space_kiki0
@Space_kiki0 4 жыл бұрын
Why are they called replicas and not knock offs ir counterfeit? In the mainstream fashion industry it’s just called either if those I mostly hear replicas when people are trying to reproduce historical or film garments
@LovelyLor
@LovelyLor 4 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure. That's the terminology lolitas have picked up. It may have something to do with Japanese translation? Since the fashion originated there terms like coordinate and stuff have become associated with the fashion but you're absolutely right and I think I should start to use these terms in my vocabulary instead because this is a great point!
@Space_kiki0
@Space_kiki0 4 жыл бұрын
@@LovelyLor thats valid lol I just always associated the terms replica with people privately recreating historical couture gowns based on museum images and not with stolen designs or anything negative but the most likely reason does sound like it being translation terms
4 жыл бұрын
The short explaination is that the fashion industry has different rules and regulations when it comes to copyright infringement. Rarely can a piece of clothing be copyrighted unless exceptionally characteristic to the brand, instead instructions on how to make the piece (sewing patterns, knitting patterns etc.) can be copyrighted. Don't worry if it doesn't make sense, I don't think its supposed to xD
@TheUchihaRin
@TheUchihaRin 4 жыл бұрын
A proper replica would aim to use the same fabric and everything so it looks identical to the thing it's replicating. I agree they should be called knock offs
@Space_kiki0
@Space_kiki0 4 жыл бұрын
@ the industry is a lawless place, any one can take anything and call it theirs as long as it’s been changed at least 10% from the original the only real copy rights are probably textile fabrication techniques, embroidery and prints but no one person can own dress design which is garbage but at the same time nothing is really new it’s a mess or recycled ideas but prints can absolutely be copy righted and owned i believe certain elements can be trademarked as well or people can keep their technique secret and take it to the grave like Fortuny did with the pleats no one has ever been able to relocate successfully. The world of counterfeiting is so vast and out of control it’s sadly something that will never be eradicated from any fashion world
@Xxsp00ky_TeddyxX
@Xxsp00ky_TeddyxX 3 жыл бұрын
Thank god I saw this before purchasing it on Amazon oml tysm
@AlexisTwoLastNames
@AlexisTwoLastNames 3 жыл бұрын
this was pretty interesting to watch. the phenomenon of subcultures having their own iconic pieces or moments is such a cool part of humanity
@anne5182
@anne5182 4 жыл бұрын
I do DRAG and this dress is recommended to me on a bunch of sites like Ali XPress and I have no idea why - I’m finally glad to see what it is
@kellythom7295
@kellythom7295 4 жыл бұрын
So, when I was younger and first found lolita fashion (thank you, early 2010 alt tumblr) I was completely enamored. I fell in love with the fashion, however, lived in a household where this kind of loud self expression wasnt exactly acceptable. So, being young and dumb and having little income, as I was working at a stadium, I went to the website that I thought had everything: amazon. I, as a young idiot, just typed "lolita" into the search bar. Not only did I see listings for this dress, but everything seemed... off. I was confused as I didn't really grasp that a whole coord isnt just sold as a full coord. Eventually, however, I settled on a dress that was very sweet lolita, reminded me of candyland (the stock photo was stunning, I wish I knew the original brand that made it). When it arrived I was... disappointed. It was costume fabric, you know, that poly fabric that you cant iron, and goes stiff in places if you sit too long. It was hideous. The skirt was 2 layers, however, the second layer was practically tissue paper. I was so upset and humiliated by this experience that it turned me away from the community for YEARS. Please, if you're someone looking to wear lolita, do some more research than I did. It is much easier today to get good lolita fashions, which is wonderful, you just need to look for it. Leave the fast fashion sites alone, they're unreliable for alternative fashions and are not made to be durable.
@fadedspectre8718
@fadedspectre8718 4 жыл бұрын
My mother bought me this dress on a different site and it looks different from this one :0 The lace and fabric used on mine is totally different!
@sianmilne4879
@sianmilne4879 4 жыл бұрын
A bunch of different factories copy eachother to try and make and sell the same product. So if you bought from a different listing or on a different site, then it was probably made by a different factory.
@fadedspectre8718
@fadedspectre8718 4 жыл бұрын
@@sianmilne4879 Oh yes! I totally understand :) Mine looks closer to advertise picture, but still don't recommend. Definitely problem like Lor said xD
@kittenmimi5326
@kittenmimi5326 4 жыл бұрын
It's like gambling isn't it 😂
@rosedarling507
@rosedarling507 Жыл бұрын
i have never had the chance to get a lolita dress but the fashion has interested in me much over the year, ive always wanted to buy a dress but i always thought they are to expensive, knowing there are dresses that even i could afford is rlly helpful and knowing how easy it can be to get scammed off the beautiful dresses is something i didnt realize till now.
@LOVE-iv2pw
@LOVE-iv2pw 3 жыл бұрын
Reminder: these same replica companies are often also pumping out counterfeit make up, counterfeit over-the-counter medicine, etc.
@Zeroe-6583
@Zeroe-6583 4 жыл бұрын
“ I dont want to put this on my boddyyyyy” I’m crying ok
@iHylia
@iHylia 4 жыл бұрын
NOT THE THE SIMS 1 BURGLAR SOUND that made me feel anxious immediately HAHAH
@iMonikah
@iMonikah 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying what that sound was from!! It awakened fear buried deep in my psyche but I couldn't rememeber where it was from.
@jackdrawsgames2
@jackdrawsgames2 4 жыл бұрын
as someone who is making a lolita dress for my sister for christmas this dress offends me greatly
@Aaa32244
@Aaa32244 3 жыл бұрын
Oo i qant one ;)
@arriannaniv
@arriannaniv 2 жыл бұрын
As a newbie I’m glad I found this because there was a store I wanted to buy from that had this dress. I’m really looking for lavender ones, and it was the first store I came across with a really cute lavender dress
@uapteh2002
@uapteh2002 4 жыл бұрын
thank you for your effort to do research and plans on what to do with the clothes before buying it and reminding the viewers to not waste on fabrics. :)
@MusyVideos
@MusyVideos 4 жыл бұрын
I don't wear lolita clothes personally, but I absolutely do appreciate your stance on buying quality clothing from reputable brands. Fast fashion really screws over the clothing workers at the bottom, paying that extra money means not only do you get get better quality, the people making your clothes get better pay and better working conditions.
@bobswolfie2001
@bobswolfie2001 4 жыл бұрын
I'm not into Lolita or dresses, but I love it when people give shopping tips
@phoenixgirl70
@phoenixgirl70 4 жыл бұрын
This video was on my recommended (and I can’t figure out why, but it looked interesting so...here I am) and I just want to say I just love your message about not being ashamed about wearing less expensive or not having “brand name” clothing and also about always donating clothes. To see such a positive message aimed at other girls is so refreshing when so much content is about bashing other women for any reason. Proud to see you’re from S.Ontario too! Keep being you!
@Sugar-bz5np
@Sugar-bz5np Жыл бұрын
"When you wear something that doesn't reflect the community well you're gona be open to criticism because youre basically insulting the work and efforts other people have put in" This shit is why I left the lolita community. You should be able to wear any dress you want without judgement of its quality or price tag. Comming from cosplay into lolita I thought it would be OK to just wear nice ones on aliexpress. God was I wrong... I got instantly judged and degraded by fellow lolitas. The whole thing made me leave the community because I couldnt stand the girls. I still wear my shitty 25 dollar dresses and I love them and if that's in some way an embarrassment to other lolitas I say good. You should be embarrassed that you're acting like a complete idiot over a dress
@stupidsquid4951
@stupidsquid4951 Жыл бұрын
I've met alot of lolitas and trust me, MOST of them were TOXIC as hell. I soon left the community because it was shitty.
@nekochadechu
@nekochadechu Жыл бұрын
I have issues with fast fashion and designs being stolen too so I get that she means supporting stolen designs hurts the original brands, but most people who buy replicas are just starting out and aren't well informed so they don't even know it's a replica. It's when they know about it and still choose to support the thief that it's an issue since a lot of lolita brands are small businesses that will suffer more if their designs get stolen for cheaper
@qweble
@qweble 11 ай бұрын
i also thought that bit was strange
@xerrias
@xerrias 10 ай бұрын
I have always thought the lolita community was terrible. I can wear pretty dresses because I think they're pretty. *you* can do it to support specific designers or brands. Thats fine. But people can also just like pretty thingd they like. Cheap. Handmade. No individual "reflects the community" get outta here with that groupthink nonsense. We aren't a collective. can't people just be people who like a certain fashion style?
@ScrubLordKyle
@ScrubLordKyle Жыл бұрын
Is it just me or is the Lolita scene really snobby…. Like how bad are the people if you wouldn’t feel confident wearing this to a convention??
@noodlynoodle
@noodlynoodle Жыл бұрын
Oh it's BAD bad. I used to be into it when I was younger, and the elitism is horrific. there's like weekly brawls over which angelic pretty piece is garbage or not
@victorianmelodrama
@victorianmelodrama 4 жыл бұрын
Lor having to put on the dress reminds me of that short story, "Eleven," where the girl is forced to wear an old smelly sweater that had been lying in her school's closet for months.
@FeministCatwoman
@FeministCatwoman 4 жыл бұрын
You just pulled a memory from 20 years ago I totally forgot about lol, what a sad story. Poor Lor too
@MindfreakMCR
@MindfreakMCR 4 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU, I've been trying to remember the name of that short story for -literally- 10 years
@mx.sinistxr
@mx.sinistxr 3 жыл бұрын
OMG I READ THAT FOR ENGLISH I WAIT-
@ChershiASMR
@ChershiASMR 4 жыл бұрын
This was my DREAM dress when I was first getting into Lolita. I bought it off a sketchy site I can't even remember the name of and it was awful 😭 If the original dress was available I would have grabbed it instantly nowadays
@afterlight7632
@afterlight7632 4 жыл бұрын
I bought this dress several years ago on ebay before I knew any better. The stock images were the same, but the dress looked quite different than the one you received, though still pretty bad. It was obviously terrible for lolita, but I did end up using it for two different Halloween costumes, which worked out great. The first costume I wore was for a tv head outfit where I turned an old monitor into a head I could wear and spray painted it to match the dress. The second time I wore it, I covered it in dirt and threw on some fake blood to use for a broken doll costume. I was pretty mad that I had wasted my money on this dress initially, but I'm glad I was able to get some use out of it as least. I believe my sister still has the dress and occasionally uses it for different costumes and make up looks, though after washing it a few times, it did turn an odd shade of purple???? for some reason.
@shu6414
@shu6414 4 жыл бұрын
Purple?!
@afterlight7632
@afterlight7632 4 жыл бұрын
@@shu6414 So my best guess is that it got washed with something blue and the blue dye bled into the pink making it purple. The pink parts of the dress are pastel purple while the white parts turned a blueish purple.
@theewildrose
@theewildrose Жыл бұрын
that pink shirt with the ruffled high collar is to die for. I need it
@MsTinkerbelle87
@MsTinkerbelle87 Жыл бұрын
🤡
@Katesaprincess
@Katesaprincess Жыл бұрын
I only wear Lolita sometimes but I’m a himekaji lover! I see this dress SO much at anime conventions it’s crazy! Half of the people don’t even wear it with a blouse.😅
@wildmarjoramdieselpunk6396
@wildmarjoramdieselpunk6396 Жыл бұрын
So why does that effect you personally? Maybe a person likes it and just wants to wear it their own way?
@Katesaprincess
@Katesaprincess Жыл бұрын
@@wildmarjoramdieselpunk6396 it doesn’t I literally just said I see it a lot without a blouse which according to the western community is a no go.
@Katesaprincess
@Katesaprincess Жыл бұрын
@@wildmarjoramdieselpunk6396 if people want to support slave labor and chemicals in clothing that’s their issue not mine.
@Donde_Lieta
@Donde_Lieta 4 жыл бұрын
I HAVE THIS DRESS, and I don’t even wear Lolita! Lol. I was playing a doll in an opera and I needed a costume pretty fast. This was the only option on Amazon that was with Prime, that would be at my apartment in 2 days. I think I paid $40 for it. Is it bad that I actually liked it? 😂 I had a petticoat and the dress I have looks like it was made differently than this one specific one. It actually got me looking into Lolita (reason why this video showed up in my reconditions haha). It ran a lot bigger than I thought it would, I’m really glad I had the petticoat cause it would have not looked cute at all.
@Donde_Lieta
@Donde_Lieta 4 жыл бұрын
Mine had the ruffled detail on the skirt go all the way around. There was an elastic panel in the back, but it was smaller and had a corset-esq ribbon lace-up the back, so when I fastened it up, you wouldn’t really see the elastic panel. It had a zipper in the armpit if you wanted to keep it “snatched” lol. The white fabric details were also of a much lighter sheer fabric and I think the torso was a bit longer
@xerrias
@xerrias 10 ай бұрын
you can like anything you like. its silly to think its bad to like a piece of clothing you own
@Bina.Adamina
@Bina.Adamina 4 жыл бұрын
As a non lolita I just wanted to say, that I find your videos very rellaxing. And I always looking forward to see your outfits as I love the way you coordinate them. They can be inspirering for other styles as well. Thanks you for great content 😄
@awesomesauce8424
@awesomesauce8424 4 жыл бұрын
I think the saddest part is that it was probably made by some overworked child somewhere :'c they just want those 4 pennies to pay for the food that day.
@burgerpowder8
@burgerpowder8 4 жыл бұрын
im pretty goth and know almost nothing about Lolita fashion, glad youtube recommends me these videos so i can learn about more cool styles! keep up the good work (:
@butterbun7033
@butterbun7033 3 жыл бұрын
The fact these awful dresses can be $80-$100 took me out...who has that kind of money to spend on lolita but doesn't even know about lace market or taobao or even bodyline! Like I can probably get TWO dresses on taobao for that price, maybe even three
@devinbaggs7542
@devinbaggs7542 4 жыл бұрын
Oh wow, thanks for taking one for the team Lor, that was very informative!
@strawberryboymyg2503
@strawberryboymyg2503 4 жыл бұрын
“Until it arrives” /slides over to pink clown/ Me: _Immediately falls in love_
@samusai
@samusai 4 жыл бұрын
As somebody who regularly wears costume pieces-I have to say just HEARING how that fabric sounds has me going "I wouldn't even buy that"
@apneaz
@apneaz 4 жыл бұрын
I am actually a beginner at this fashion and I REALLY wanna have a better understanding of lolita fashion. I have issues with my self esteem and sometimes I catch myself wanting to become something more magical and pretty. I was intimidated at first with this fashion but after watching this video I am more comfortable going deeper into lolita fashion.
@digimaui
@digimaui 4 жыл бұрын
It's so awesome that you're gonna be making more content about repurposing/recycling clothes and fabric! Such an important topic that people should be more aware of.
@sybilq2509
@sybilq2509 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy that people who don't wear lolita got a shout-out! I've been following the fashion on and off for years. I love the aesthetic and community :)
@hattiethehatter2221
@hattiethehatter2221 4 жыл бұрын
The panels are all wonky. Thank you for making this video. Five years ago I nearly fell victim to these, glad I waited and learned more before entering the fashion
@RanchPotter
@RanchPotter 4 жыл бұрын
Awww! Thanks for thanking us viewers who don’t wear Lolita but still Stan the fashion. 💗
@nouje
@nouje 4 жыл бұрын
I’m not into the Lolita style but came here bc of my random KZbin rec. regardless, I’m really glad that you thought about the effects u would have on the environment had you thrown the dress. I’m happy you found an alternative and will be repurposing it! So many KZbinrs (most likely) do not do this and just leave it in their closet or toss it away. Thank you :))
@Jackkara
@Jackkara Жыл бұрын
When you brushed the fabric the sound gave me an image of a coarse table cloth, something I'd totally wear as a shirt.
@tachthechatgoblin
@tachthechatgoblin 4 жыл бұрын
I bought that dress at a comic con in Germany 😂
@toastchan
@toastchan 4 жыл бұрын
🤣😭
@LovelyLor
@LovelyLor 4 жыл бұрын
The AndRomeo one or a replica? Do you still have it? What did you do with it!?
@tachthechatgoblin
@tachthechatgoblin 4 жыл бұрын
@@LovelyLor I believe it was a replica as it had no lining and wasn’t structurally sound. I actually ended up recycling it into accessories.
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