I Can't Make Ends Meet!

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The Ramsey Show Highlights

The Ramsey Show Highlights

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@daisy8284
@daisy8284 5 жыл бұрын
Bless this lady. She sounds so strong and determined. Wish she could get some help from disability. It’s awful that so many people scam the system, but then she can’t get help for legitimate disability.
@ineedhoez
@ineedhoez 5 жыл бұрын
That's not why she cant get help. Fraud is less than 10%. But conservatives use it as a way to create means tests that intentionally limits folks ability to benefit.
@Strongpoeticmind
@Strongpoeticmind 5 жыл бұрын
Daisy where I live there are people that apply for disability benefits when in actuality they are not deemed disabled.
@HeyBuddays
@HeyBuddays 5 жыл бұрын
@@ineedhoez It's easy to say that fraud is less than 10% when you never look for fraud in the first place. Same with voting fraud. Only the most inept mess it up so badly that they're caught.
@hanschitzlinger3676
@hanschitzlinger3676 5 жыл бұрын
ineedhoez why? Because they want people to die? Think boy. Because fraud
@ImVeryBrad
@ImVeryBrad 5 жыл бұрын
ugh I know. so many people milk the system
@johndonne8657
@johndonne8657 5 жыл бұрын
Genuine sympathy for this lady. Blind and MS.
@MsPants1632
@MsPants1632 5 жыл бұрын
John Donne me too. Sounds like she worked hard her life when she could... She sounds so down right now. I wish her the best:)
@Kimun888
@Kimun888 5 жыл бұрын
what is MS???
@paulallison6689
@paulallison6689 5 жыл бұрын
@@Kimun888 Multiple Sclerosis (it's a debilitating disease)
@daisy8284
@daisy8284 5 жыл бұрын
Sen basically what happens with multiple sclerosis is people get lesions (like scar tissue) in their brain and spinal cord. It can affect the ability to walk, talk, think, and many other horrible things. It can be so debilitating that some people become paralyzed by it and have to use wheelchairs or are completely bedbound. Fortunately many people don’t get that severe form of it but many do.
@DisabilityExams
@DisabilityExams 5 жыл бұрын
If she were disabled she would get Social Security Disability Insurance which is paid regardless of a spouse's earnings. If she were blind in both eyes (visual acuity of 20/200 or worse) she would qualify for SSDI.
@Zania16ify
@Zania16ify 5 жыл бұрын
This lady got straight to the point, no playing around. And makes sense. God bless her!
@inthevault9603
@inthevault9603 4 жыл бұрын
One of best calls EVER!!!😍
@magicworld3242
@magicworld3242 11 ай бұрын
This woman is completely lying. She makes absolutely no sense. Her receiving SSI or SSD has nothing to do with her husband's income. He don't even make that much money. She applied for disability. She didn't apply for welfare. Nobody stays completely broke for 31 years. She wants us to believe she's only got 70 bucks to buy food for the entire month ? Yet, they're paying over 300 bucks on a car payment and 200 bucks on gas every month ? She wants to work and clean houses 🏘️🏡 ? But, she said she's blind and has MS. So let me understand her (illogical logic). She can't see and she can't really move around. But, she's gonna go clean somebody's house ? Make that make (a tiny bit) of sense.
@wtk6069
@wtk6069 5 жыл бұрын
She seems perfect for online customer support. Like through Teleworks and similar programs, if her area has broadband. She has the personality for it.
@JohnDoe-gc1kt
@JohnDoe-gc1kt 4 жыл бұрын
She cant see though
@TheWolfXCIX
@TheWolfXCIX 3 жыл бұрын
@@JohnDoe-gc1kt she's legally blind, not completely blind. If she can clean houses she can use a computer screen with large text settings enabled
@missaida44
@missaida44 5 жыл бұрын
It’s sad when a person has worked all his/her life and can’t get disability benefits, yet others who’ve never worked a day can get those benefits😕
@granitemoss1451
@granitemoss1451 5 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking- here is this woman with tangible, serious disabilities and she's itching to work. Meanwhile, we have a country full of BUMS whose only 'work' is keeping up the charade of their 'invisible' disability so they can sit on their rumps and steal from the taxpayers with our government's blessing. (NOTE- I am fully aware there are REAL invisible disabilities, I am not in any way implying they are not real, simply pointing out the large number of folks who put so much energy into bilking the system by pretending to have one instead of supporting themselves in a legit manner)
@evelyndaisy9722
@evelyndaisy9722 5 жыл бұрын
True and It sucks .
@Elizabeth-uj8vn
@Elizabeth-uj8vn 5 жыл бұрын
Ida Dee something wrong with the system. You would think they can figure this out with their six figure salaries and smarts🤔
@KrystalToddCPA
@KrystalToddCPA 5 жыл бұрын
Soon we will reach a point where those who have been getting a free ride will meet a harsh reality because they can’t keep this up forever!
@ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy
@ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy 5 жыл бұрын
Leeches of society just like those women who squatted in an Oakland home, collecting and living off welfare because theyre too lazy (and too ghetto) to find work..
@notworthaquid7611
@notworthaquid7611 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Dave from England. I just lost my job and come across your videos and have help me greatly in the past few days. Thank you very much.
@tonyb9185
@tonyb9185 5 жыл бұрын
Hi dave I watch this as well,the same thing works here too,I just change $ to £,some of it is shocking the debts,good advice 🙂👍
@maybeilift4213
@maybeilift4213 5 жыл бұрын
600 a month on groceries?! That’s not beans and rice 😂😂
@pants8029
@pants8029 5 жыл бұрын
600 a month in groceries is about 150 a week. That's not a lot of money. They need to sell their car.
@ceecee8757
@ceecee8757 5 жыл бұрын
@@pants8029 they can cut that in half to $75 a week if they shop smart and meal prep. They must be buying soda for their son and not meal prepping.
@lindenpeters2601
@lindenpeters2601 5 жыл бұрын
For just the 2 of them, groceries should be $400 per month, tops, in their situation.
@maybeilift4213
@maybeilift4213 5 жыл бұрын
Pants Na that’s their stomach calling the shot
@gb8518
@gb8518 5 жыл бұрын
Step Baby #1 Beans & Rice Step Baby #2 Rice & Beans
@ZedGirl
@ZedGirl 4 жыл бұрын
His most calm and compassionate response (in his voice) to a caller I've heard in a while 😂. Way to go Dave!
@tiffanycook5903
@tiffanycook5903 5 жыл бұрын
I'm blind as well, and I used to have disability. I became ineligible when I went back to work and could sustain a job NOT because my husband had a job and earned a salary. Social Security Disability is based on an individual's earned income - i.e. her husband's income would NOT affect this lady's eligibility for disability. If someone is telling her otherwise, she needs to appeal that decision.
@ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy
@ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy 5 жыл бұрын
How were you able to go about on youtube, click on the video and hit the comment section and type if you’re blind?
@stevee8318
@stevee8318 5 жыл бұрын
@@ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy There are plenty of assistive aids that allow blind people to use computers.
@ineedhoez
@ineedhoez 5 жыл бұрын
Good to know bc that is awful.
@QueenStylin
@QueenStylin 5 жыл бұрын
Eddie Wow maybe only partially blind? Or blind in one eye and horrible vision in the next? Might be different levels of blindness.
@blueowl8928
@blueowl8928 5 жыл бұрын
This is what I was thinking. For SSDI, a spouse’s income only affects whether or not the disability benefits will be taxable income. It should not affect the person’s ability to get the benefits in the first place. I really hope she can appeal the decision.
@jphickory522
@jphickory522 3 жыл бұрын
After hearing this call..... I wish there was a way to donate money to the caller. This is exactly the type of person I like to help. Taking responsibility and willing to work in spite of some physical challenges. Miss, if you’re reading this, you have my respect and admiration.
@KrystalToddCPA
@KrystalToddCPA 5 жыл бұрын
The grocery is the biggest bill. Not sure where they are shopping for food but there are tons of ways to cut back. At least they are tracking it because most people have no clue what they spend
@wowso4
@wowso4 5 жыл бұрын
Bless this lovely lady! The cost of living is so high even if your making good money that takes most of it. I wish her and her family all the best.
@matthewwilliams9200
@matthewwilliams9200 5 жыл бұрын
Car payment brings down insurance as well that's almost 500 a month free. That changes everything in their world 500 pays things down and frees up stuff.
@sunshinelawfan7693
@sunshinelawfan7693 5 жыл бұрын
...wait - even a hoopty would have some insurance to pay for - right?
@gtolose
@gtolose 5 жыл бұрын
I don't get it, how can your car insurance be $500 a month, I pay £340 per year for my insurance for an old Ford Mondeo - fully comprehensive insurance?
@RandyFnRhoads
@RandyFnRhoads 5 жыл бұрын
@@gtolose i think hes referring to car payment plus insurance
@matthewwilliams9200
@matthewwilliams9200 5 жыл бұрын
@@gtolose 362 car payment and 190 car insurance that for old people liability should be 50 on a cheap car
@bobmarker6812
@bobmarker6812 5 жыл бұрын
3:38 - Student loan $95,000?! Yikes! I wonder how much of that is accrued interest. Paid off house is a BIG step in the right direction.
@hanschitzlinger3676
@hanschitzlinger3676 5 жыл бұрын
bob marker yea they sure skated over that part
@kcor4
@kcor4 4 жыл бұрын
This is the comment I was looking for. Jesus.
@matthewgardner2144
@matthewgardner2144 4 жыл бұрын
To make $35K per year.
@sharoncontini3284
@sharoncontini3284 9 ай бұрын
Unbelievable. What do people think is beyond me.
@vickijohnson9367
@vickijohnson9367 8 ай бұрын
Well, it’s a done deal, so why hash it over. University bachelors degrees are expensive, even at state universities it’s $60,000 for 4 years now. The proof that the degrees are not really paying off, which I know for a fact they aren’t. I was in backend finance managing communications for a 3rd party vendor for all major U.S. banks credit cards. The education debt is real,most of the jobs being created are the level of dung, like school teacher level that needs a part-time job on top. And the majority of jobs now are part-time 30 hours for businesses to avoid paying benefits. A bachelors in biology gets you a $15-$20 an hour lab tech job, bachelors in computer programming gets you nothing, because all the finance controlled businesses use a 3rd party vendor who ships in H1B workers from India as independent contractors for $10 an hour no benefits. That’s how America rolls through lobbyists.
@Beautifullymade13
@Beautifullymade13 5 жыл бұрын
I think she said also $600 in food get the food budget down with getting rid of the car payment that would definitely help
@samuelbane6743
@samuelbane6743 5 жыл бұрын
$600 a month for 2 older people to spend on groceries? To me that is outrageous!
@ineedhoez
@ineedhoez 5 жыл бұрын
That is alot. I used to spend 120 while in college. I ate vegetables and meat. That was it.
@random-nz7dy
@random-nz7dy 5 жыл бұрын
I think the point about them being older was related to the fact that for the most part older people who don't have to worry about feeding kids and whose metabolism is not what it was when they were in their twenties are going to need less per meal. But even for two younger people $600 a month for groceries is way high.
@eileenlester4342
@eileenlester4342 5 жыл бұрын
That is a huge amount to spend on groceries! That's one of the first things people should try to cut down on when they're having money issues.
@Esteban-MK64
@Esteban-MK64 5 жыл бұрын
Jeez I spend about $350 a month on groceries for myself... definitely gonna have to look a better budget
@anitaknight3915
@anitaknight3915 5 жыл бұрын
@@Esteban-MK64 I'm just curious how are you spending that a month? because eating healthy is more expensive especially the meat and produce where I live and even more if you have a special diet or food allergy.
@synthia6428
@synthia6428 5 жыл бұрын
Food can be cut in half - need to meal plan and budget. Also look at pantry items and see what you can cook from there to cut costs. You can cut electricity by keeping lights off when not needed and unplugging appliances besides stove and fridge everytime they aren't in use. Phone bill, if you have a cell phone, homep phone may not be necessary. Car, get rid of it. Doing that will give you the 500/month right there to save or apply to your debt.
@lindenpeters2601
@lindenpeters2601 5 жыл бұрын
@Van Isle Vlogs they live in the middle of nowhere. They can't spend every day going to shop for groceries. But yes, cooking from scratch and from their pantry first would save a lot.
@ciel222
@ciel222 5 жыл бұрын
I wish her all THE BEST
@pratvachan
@pratvachan 5 жыл бұрын
What a strong and brave soul this lady is... She obviously is the good wife that Bible talks about!!! Bless this lady!
@lelabb4110
@lelabb4110 4 жыл бұрын
This lady is blind, yet so organized. Bless this family 🙏🏽
@CaseyMiddlecoff
@CaseyMiddlecoff 4 жыл бұрын
95,000 in student loans for a 50-something year old. Good Lord. You did something horribly wrong.
@gabriellekelly3462
@gabriellekelly3462 5 жыл бұрын
Prayers for this couple. Breaks my heart that she wants to help out and can't. She should get disability if anyone does.
@amylukenash4048
@amylukenash4048 5 жыл бұрын
I hope Dave helps her. She sounds so sweet. Prayers that they succeed xoxoxo
@c1catwoman794
@c1catwoman794 5 жыл бұрын
I do feel bad for them but once she said $600 for food...they can easily cut that to 200-300. I am a family of 3 and we don't spend that much on food. Also maybe cut out cable and lane line. Just live with internet with cheap prepaid cell phones. Sell the car of course and buy used car with cash. Etc... etc...They will be fine. But too bad about the student loans tho. That sucks.
@voidfroze
@voidfroze 7 ай бұрын
Idk much about MS but maybe she has some dietary restrictions due to her health problems? If so, that can make it a LOT more expensive to shop
@kitas.8759
@kitas.8759 5 жыл бұрын
I love that she wants to help out!!
@NSGLiv
@NSGLiv 5 жыл бұрын
God bless these people
@littlebylittle1686
@littlebylittle1686 3 жыл бұрын
"we enable each other" what a heart 💓
@angelaonthego
@angelaonthego 5 жыл бұрын
Love her! She’s got fire-no doubt she could do it
@drn13355
@drn13355 4 жыл бұрын
Except that she is scamming disability if she is capable of working. She is the one who says she is capable of working.
@tandyrichae6194
@tandyrichae6194 5 жыл бұрын
They do in fact deny SSI if your spouse makes too much money. Happens to my mom and stepdad all the time. Whenever she works overtime He loses benefits
@JazChapmanTV
@JazChapmanTV 5 жыл бұрын
$600 for groceries... for 2 people? Cut that in half & you could still eat good! & get some LED lights, your light bill is too high!
@Bestfriend-650
@Bestfriend-650 5 жыл бұрын
Sad to hear her story and here is what I feel. I think the utility and food bill is very high. No need to clean houses when you can find online jobs like customer care, teaching etc. my wife’s best friend teaches English to some Chinese kids online and makes about 15-20 bucks an hour. Much better option will be sell the house and move into a condo in a big town. Much better job opportunities for the husband and condo bills will be much lower than the house. Sell the car of course.
@user-eu2me4bp7j
@user-eu2me4bp7j 5 жыл бұрын
I teach English online to Chinese students. You need a bachelors degree and experience working with children. The hiring process is extensive and requires energy and skill. It’s not an easy gig for her to just jump into and she will not be able to do it without a bachelors degree at a minimum.
@Bestfriend-650
@Bestfriend-650 5 жыл бұрын
C W Nothing is easy, getting a job is hard when unemployed but we have to start searching. The person I know is not even born is US and her English is decent but nowhere fluent as the caller. I was just throwing ideas. Virtual assistant, customer care rep etc jobs are also options.
@jayh40515
@jayh40515 5 жыл бұрын
How can she clean when she is legally blind? I mean she can try, but honestly, how good can you clean if you can't see what you are doing? That's great that she wants to clean to make some money, but you have to be realistic also....
@KatieBellino
@KatieBellino 4 жыл бұрын
They own their house and owed minimal taxes, so getting a condo with HOA fees would not necessarily help them at all.
@elpincheflores3154
@elpincheflores3154 5 жыл бұрын
Get rid of that $600 grocery list to a $400. So $200 times 12 would be $2,400 for the year instead of $13 left per month.
@maryboyer1782
@maryboyer1782 5 жыл бұрын
MS symptoms can be mitigated by using the Wahls protocol. Maybe she could follow that diet as close as her budget would allow. I was able to listen to the Wahl’s protocol book free through my Library and the Hoopla app.
@tanpham7411
@tanpham7411 4 жыл бұрын
Shop smart when going to grocery. Avoid local groceries. Try going to Sam’s and Costco to buy in large quantity and meal prep. A case of 40 pounds of white meat chicken at Sam’s club is around $60-70. Pork shoulders is $1.78 per pounds and buy around 40 pounds. Jasmine rice bag is $25 per 50 pounds. Add your veggies and fruits. A family of 4 can spend like $300 per month to feed the whole family.
@fnafandbnhaqueen9741
@fnafandbnhaqueen9741 5 жыл бұрын
MR Ramsey : you say to people once they off there debit there are weird people, then I must be really weird because I listened to my dad because I have never been in debt and plan to stay that way. George from NJ
@victoriagarcia5533
@victoriagarcia5533 5 жыл бұрын
$600 is a lot on food. I think. For 2 ppl?
@SherryEllesson
@SherryEllesson 5 жыл бұрын
$95K in student debt for a degree he didn't finish? "He has vision but no endurance"? Really?
@justmydeals
@justmydeals 4 жыл бұрын
Sherry Ellesson Agreed. Having your wagon hitched to someone with no financial acumen sounds terrifying.
@thephiliplug
@thephiliplug 5 жыл бұрын
I gotta say this current education system has rick-rolled so many people financially..
@missy3505
@missy3505 4 жыл бұрын
People have gotten degrees that don't make money, like this guy...he didn't even finish, gone to schools they couldn't afford, not taken advantage of scholarships, haven't worked instead of getting loans🤦🏽‍♀️
@LisaVanGemert
@LisaVanGemert 5 жыл бұрын
I'm kind of surprised he didn't tell them to sell the house and move closer to where he works. That gas payment and tolls were pretty high for the income.
@kitsontuli2713
@kitsontuli2713 4 жыл бұрын
God bless her. She's the most responsible person I've heard calling in.
@1redrubberball
@1redrubberball 5 жыл бұрын
Several monthly expenditures here could stand closer scrutiny. $300 mo for electricity is a lot of electricity. Two cellphones at $90 mo could possibly be pared down to $40-$70. Auto & home insurance of $192 & $174 sounds way high. Food at $600 sounds like a candidate to cut too. Not enough information to get down to the real nitty gritty, but I'd work at paring down each category and squeezing out every possible savings.
@gtolose
@gtolose 5 жыл бұрын
Why are mobile so expensive in the US. In the UK I pay £6 per month for unlimited minutes unlimited texts, of course I buy my own phone and data is only 500Mb but even so, your cars and comms cost loads.
@1redrubberball
@1redrubberball 5 жыл бұрын
@@gtolose I can't offer more than generalities. Every marketplace is priced at all the traffic will bear. Prices are higher in more prosperous countries and lower in less prosperous. We have cellphone plans that are similar to yours and are currently in the $15-$25 range. I'm not conscious of the US car market, but I assume there are at least a few new cars still available under $20K.
@stevee8318
@stevee8318 5 жыл бұрын
When she discusses their phone payment, they probably have an unlimited data plan and are financing both phones. They could easily halve their phone bill. And yes, the cheapest new cars in the US, at least in my region, are in the 15k range. What caller is paying/month is in the range of an average mid-size sedan.
@KatieBellino
@KatieBellino 4 жыл бұрын
@@gtolose Contract mobiles phones tend to be high in the U.S., especially when people get talked into buying an expensive phone that they finance as well. Personally, I have a prepaid phone (Tracfone) and only spend about $10 a month on it. The phone itself was around $100 and I've had it several years already. If she's doing $90 for 2 phones (unclear if that was per line or both), then she may have a prepaid as well. There are $45 unlimited prepaid phone plans. Those aren't too bad by U.S. standards.
@fhuber7507
@fhuber7507 4 жыл бұрын
They need to not be overdrawing at the end of each month... that can cost a LOT. Just curing the overdrafts will make a difference. $35 free from your bank and another $30 from the store where you wrote the bad check... $65 a check that you write after you are out of money. If you have overdraft protection you still pay the bank overdraft fee. And people who do overdrafts try to do it small, hoping the bank will let it slide which means they write a few overdrafts. Maybe $350 in fees a month. Its as bad as or worse than a payday loan, which is a hole you never can dig your way out of. > I know a couple of people who live on overdrafts... and I can't convince them that they are shooting themselves in the foot.
@wolfofdubai
@wolfofdubai 5 жыл бұрын
Best advise to financial success: *Income (Passive & Active) > Spendings*
@eileenlester4342
@eileenlester4342 5 жыл бұрын
They need to cut down the grocery bill, which is exorbitant for 2 people, and get a different vehicle. If that doesn't help them enough they need to move. Been there, done that. I think that Dave missed the boat on this one! Prayers for them to get out of this bind.
@Elizabeth-yg2mg
@Elizabeth-yg2mg 5 жыл бұрын
He's rich so a bit blind about our level.
@voidfroze
@voidfroze 7 ай бұрын
“My husband has the vision but not the endurance, and I have the endurance but not the vision” 😂 I love her
@NeoAndersonReloaded
@NeoAndersonReloaded 5 жыл бұрын
Sell the house and get a nice apt. in the town. Get jobs there like you said.
@CGU123-k9r
@CGU123-k9r 5 жыл бұрын
They already have the house free and clear. Just taxes, water. Electric, etc. What they need to do is get rid of the car and lower their groceries spending or use coupons if she wants to learn something. But if they do move than yeah consider selling the house if they aren't able to rent it out while living closer to their son.
@larrybud
@larrybud 5 жыл бұрын
@@CGU123-k9r Her utilities are sky high. Probably way too much house for them.
@KatieBellino
@KatieBellino 4 жыл бұрын
Terrible idea when they own the home outright and have low taxes on it. Owing rent again would be an additional burden in the budget. Sell the car, not the house.
@KatieBellino
@KatieBellino 4 жыл бұрын
@@larrybud It may just be that their heat runs off of the electricity, which means that bill looks high.
@notworthaquid7611
@notworthaquid7611 5 жыл бұрын
Dave is so right start pay with cash. When you pay with cash it makes you more responsible
@AtlasZero13
@AtlasZero13 5 жыл бұрын
600$ for groceries a month is a little much , anyone else think so?
@jochyperez3826
@jochyperez3826 5 жыл бұрын
For 2 people, a month, I don't think so. It's about $10 per day per person. Can you eat under $10 a day?
@KEP1983
@KEP1983 5 жыл бұрын
No. That's $138 per week. 600 per month x 12 months= 7,200 per year. Divide that by 52 weeks per year and you get $138.46 per week. That's pretty reasonable.
@QueenStylin
@QueenStylin 5 жыл бұрын
For two people? They might be including eating out or something or getting all those ready made meals rather than making things from scratch and making large batches and freezing them. A family of 5-6 yes but not two people.
@brycepowell6639
@brycepowell6639 5 жыл бұрын
@@KEP1983 you must eat well, I eat on about 15$ a week
@marieabner
@marieabner 5 жыл бұрын
Food is expensive in some places. They do live in the middle of nowhere.
@ronharmsen8466
@ronharmsen8466 5 жыл бұрын
$300 for monthly electric bill, for just 2 people?!?! Is that right? That sounds insanely high!!!!
@tonyb9185
@tonyb9185 5 жыл бұрын
You are right and she is blind and does not need lights lol
@Ghost-jy9hk
@Ghost-jy9hk 5 жыл бұрын
Tony B this made me laugh harder than it should have
@bookmagicroe9553
@bookmagicroe9553 4 жыл бұрын
In some areas all appliances are electric as well as heat. It's expensive.
@DisabilityExams
@DisabilityExams 5 жыл бұрын
She doesn't need life insurance - she has no income.
@KatieBellino
@KatieBellino 4 жыл бұрын
It's probably a small policy. It will help him pay funeral expenses when she goes.
@twinny555
@twinny555 5 жыл бұрын
I’m just gobsmacked at $500 a month for energy. My gas & electric in the uk is £80 - £100 combined. I can’t believe how much you guys pay.
@lindenpeters2601
@lindenpeters2601 5 жыл бұрын
I thought she said $300, but that is still way too high, even by US standards.
@opsecclassified6469
@opsecclassified6469 5 жыл бұрын
How about we cut down on the 150 dollar a week grocery bill. My guess is they are fast food junkies.
@anastasiabeaverhaus9
@anastasiabeaverhaus9 5 жыл бұрын
cellphones- go to prepaid minutes instead of the plan you have utilities- minimize use as much as possible car- probably needs to go but may not be a quick or easy to get rid of
@elizagold2186
@elizagold2186 5 жыл бұрын
I'm just in shock! Her Doctor's can assist her with disability paperwork.
@ceecee8757
@ceecee8757 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, because she's blind.
@BassPlayer60134
@BassPlayer60134 5 жыл бұрын
600 sounds a little high for groceries. For just me I spend about $200.
@noamchomsky3077
@noamchomsky3077 5 жыл бұрын
I pray that god can ease this lady’s situation.
@jeffg3895
@jeffg3895 5 жыл бұрын
$600 in food! $200 car insurance! $200 gas! $364 car payment. Need a cheaper car with better fuel mileage and cut down on the food budget. I see $700 in savings right there.
@ladyjane8855
@ladyjane8855 5 жыл бұрын
He must commute a long way. Think she said she's too far out of town to qualify for a driver :(
@joshmiller3673
@joshmiller3673 5 жыл бұрын
I don't see how they got to $200/month for insurance on one car. Maybe they have no deductible? That will raise the premium quick.
@rare2find0918
@rare2find0918 Жыл бұрын
No one mentioned the $600/month in GROCERIES for two people! Trimming that grocery bill and selling the car would definitely help. I certainly wish them the best!
@sonyascreationsalifestylec1739
@sonyascreationsalifestylec1739 5 жыл бұрын
$600 a month for groceries seems kind of high. We budget $400 ($200 every 2 weeks) we have plenty and able to buy extras that are on sale
@DrogoBaggins987
@DrogoBaggins987 5 жыл бұрын
That is one heck of an electric bill.
@vickijohnson9367
@vickijohnson9367 8 ай бұрын
You can totally get that bill down with $30 electric space heaters from Walmart used in rooms you are in, wearing layers of wool clothing (ditch using the whole house furnace and AC), in the summer pretend you are in 1950, do all activities early morning, super light clothes, a fan, a cold bath, lazy afternoons in a cheap backyard kids pool in the shade & some Koolaid. Also, live by the sun (like our bodies are meant to, sleep when the sun goes down, get up with the sun. Bye Bye lights! We need to retrain our brains to be less entertained. Healthier all the way around!
@MomsMoneyMindset
@MomsMoneyMindset 5 жыл бұрын
Great topic. I posted a video on my channel about all the 11 expenses I cut to save over $1700 in Monthly expenses so I could keep my house when I went through a divorce. Prayers for this family🙏🏾💓
@MomsMoneyMindset
@MomsMoneyMindset 5 жыл бұрын
@@Reidbit thanks for your comment. My goal is to help people. Feel free to watch some of my videos. You will see that I'm always trying to help people make better decisions in their finances and their health and also within their thoughts and emotions. Thanks again and have a very blessed Sunday.🙏🏾💓
@GardenerEarthGuy
@GardenerEarthGuy 5 жыл бұрын
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@MomsMoneyMindset
@MomsMoneyMindset 5 жыл бұрын
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@xJayhawkFANx
@xJayhawkFANx 3 жыл бұрын
His gross income is probably around 60-65k a year. All those deductions kill your income. My gross pay is just shy of 70k which I wouldn't call "low" and my paycheck for two weeks is only $1636 after taxes and deductions. But my gross income is $2632 every two weeks. Thats $1000 going to taxes and benefits. It's crazy..
@kataisa3
@kataisa3 5 жыл бұрын
I’m listening to this lady’s sad story right after listening to the “I make $12k a month and just won the lottery” lady, and I am very angry at the unfairness of it all.
@NoRegertsHere
@NoRegertsHere 2 жыл бұрын
What was it that gave you the understanding that life is fair?
@denisea5951
@denisea5951 5 жыл бұрын
Reduce homeowners and car insurance and cable. Every single line item needs to be reduced. Do some small online stuff like swagbucks sign up for MS surveys.
@SF-eo6xf
@SF-eo6xf 5 жыл бұрын
Two problems with the states. No support for those who needs. $90k for a student loan is way to much. If she would live in Europe her financial problems would have been solved.
@denvercatwoman6561
@denvercatwoman6561 5 жыл бұрын
The average American has it so much tougher than the average European.
@KatieBellino
@KatieBellino 4 жыл бұрын
$364 car (That has to go.), $300 electric (Is their heat run off of electricity?), $600 grocery (This seems very high for 3 people.).
@mosesyang4222
@mosesyang4222 5 жыл бұрын
$600/month in groceries? You're over eating and spending on Brand name items
@Beeceeeee444
@Beeceeeee444 5 жыл бұрын
A blind woman with MS to clean houses because she can get no assistance. Bless her heart. Makes me so so sad. 😞
@RangerRickTV
@RangerRickTV 5 жыл бұрын
Cleaning houses but blind 🤔????
@Ghost-jy9hk
@Ghost-jy9hk 5 жыл бұрын
I’m guessing those houses won’t look clean by the time she’s done cleaning them
@larrybud
@larrybud 5 жыл бұрын
"legally blind".
@brooklynzoo81
@brooklynzoo81 4 жыл бұрын
Hope they make it. Sounds like good people that just want to get ahead and breathe
@melanieovalles5254
@melanieovalles5254 5 жыл бұрын
Did she say $600 a month for food??? That's insane for 2 people... Like, does she eat filet mignon every night hahahaaha
@KatieBellino
@KatieBellino 4 жыл бұрын
Probably a lot of convenience food. It could be cut down, I think. Of course, we don't know how disabled she is, which may make meal preparation a lot harder. It sounds like the husband has to drive a bit to get to his job ... $70 in tolls.
@NB-ky5ol
@NB-ky5ol 5 жыл бұрын
$100,000 in student loan debt at 55 with nothing to show for it!? I’d slap him so hard his dead great grandma would feel it. How absolutely irresponsible!
@triad6425
@triad6425 5 жыл бұрын
Ubi and universal Healthcare would be life changing
@trailrunnah8886
@trailrunnah8886 5 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who thinks 600/month for food is excessive? I'm single, and my budget is less that 25% of that.
@KatieBellino
@KatieBellino 4 жыл бұрын
Same thought.
@PointB1ank
@PointB1ank 4 жыл бұрын
Your budget for food is less than 150 a month...? I'm single and I spend anywhere from 260-350 on food. I buy actual vegetables and such to cook every day though. 150 a month is 37.50 a week... or 5 dollars a day, that seems low to me.
@BrandonPrive1432
@BrandonPrive1432 5 жыл бұрын
i listen to daves podcast, and at 28 am trying to get my life in order for financial freedom, i won't be following the babysteps anytime soon, but i just sold my beautiful harley davidson that was costing me 540 bucks a month, now i can pay off my other few grand in debt and i'll be debt free, then its onto saving and investing!! looking forward to being free of debt.
@stevee8318
@stevee8318 5 жыл бұрын
Crazy payment on just a motorcycle. Congratulations on getting a head start. In 5 or 10 years you'll be able to buy one with cash and feel good about it.
@jojo-ir9um
@jojo-ir9um 5 жыл бұрын
She needs to move ...she could cut down on groceries
@tahajidedes5567
@tahajidedes5567 5 жыл бұрын
I don't understand how they are paying 600 for groceries for 2 people
@vdoubleu-o4u
@vdoubleu-o4u 5 жыл бұрын
@@tahajidedes5567 that may include household supplies as well. Soap, paper products, etc. Not just food?
@stevee8318
@stevee8318 5 жыл бұрын
@@tahajidedes5567 The only way it makes sense to me is if they both, say, smoke and drink a lot and cigarettes and alcohol are included in the "grocery" budget
@juliaweeks1729
@juliaweeks1729 5 жыл бұрын
jo jo 600 a month is a ton
@NotQuiteEpic
@NotQuiteEpic 5 жыл бұрын
Smoking soda and drinking cigarettes.
@christopherpaige406
@christopherpaige406 3 жыл бұрын
That's a MASSIVE grocery bill !
@larrybud
@larrybud 5 жыл бұрын
the car would take care of a bunch since her car insurance is high. $2300 a year for a single car? I'd also move. Her gas and electric are sky high for 2 people. Sounds like too big of a house, and too much car. Agree $600 is a lot for groceries.
@theguy12322
@theguy12322 5 жыл бұрын
Well you don’t need internet and cable. And utilities are way to hi? I live in a big house with my family .my electric runs around 170 mo and water 75 mo .total about 240 to 250 mo. listed to her 500 to 600 ranges, I drive a 20 year all car paid for .
@blackworldtraveler3711
@blackworldtraveler3711 5 жыл бұрын
theguy12322 Internet is becoming more of a necessity nowadays in the home. For me anyway. Heck you don’t really need a car if you have internet access in some cases especially when retired.
@notworthaquid7611
@notworthaquid7611 5 жыл бұрын
At least living here in the UK there no medical fees everything is free from local doctor to hospital operations.
@jayh40515
@jayh40515 5 жыл бұрын
It's not "free", doctors and hospitals don't run on free. It's called taxes!
@notworthaquid7611
@notworthaquid7611 5 жыл бұрын
@@jayh40515 you pay taxes in other countries and still pay for medical care so it is Free!!!
@ebonylo.
@ebonylo. 5 жыл бұрын
I love this woman
@Ryan_DeWitt
@Ryan_DeWitt 5 жыл бұрын
I'm impressed. Most people I see that call Dave on disability seem to have little to no desire to work with conditions less than this woman has.
@heatherboggio2180
@heatherboggio2180 4 жыл бұрын
That budget is NOT "rice and beans" the internet and phone costs...600 for GROCERIES...a 300 dollar ELECTRIC bill good night it sounds like maybe they could sell the house and downsize and be perfectly comfortable!
@ThinkMoneyBenny
@ThinkMoneyBenny 5 жыл бұрын
There’s always a way to make ends meet.. You just have to think
@marieabner
@marieabner 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, like crime?
@ThinkMoneyBenny
@ThinkMoneyBenny 5 жыл бұрын
@@marieabner lol I'd never suggest that!
@ceecee8757
@ceecee8757 5 жыл бұрын
@@marieabner lol!! 😂
@laurah6381
@laurah6381 5 жыл бұрын
How is she gonna clean houses though? I thought she said she was blind? And has MS?
@tahajidedes5567
@tahajidedes5567 5 жыл бұрын
She said legally blind which usually means can see but very poorly. I've known 2 legally blind people. Neither could drive but one ride a bicycle and both could read but only with the paper very close to their faces. One worked an outside job. One saw people and items as grey shadows. MS varies. Some are worse off than others so it just depends on how bad her symptoms are.
@QueenStylin
@QueenStylin 5 жыл бұрын
On Master Chef a lady named Christine was legally blind but was able to compete in cooking, win, and open up her own restaurant. I don't doubt what blind people are capable of.
@chrissefiffipix6509
@chrissefiffipix6509 5 жыл бұрын
How Can she clean houses if she is legally blind and has MS? I Think thats a little unrealistic- maybe she could do some kind of “on the phone” job?
@KatieBellino
@KatieBellino 4 жыл бұрын
She is likely in an early stage of MS and though legally blind, probably has reasonable vision for cleaning.
@notworthaquid7611
@notworthaquid7611 5 жыл бұрын
First caller legally blind, she then goes on to say she clean houses so without being unkind to this lady how would you clean properties you don't know your way round. I am not say people who are blind don't clean because they do but it's their home they have a sence of where everything is
@ABSG7
@ABSG7 5 жыл бұрын
BEACH BASS yea I didn’t get that either
@michelesimko7541
@michelesimko7541 5 жыл бұрын
Pay cash no credit. With card and grocery change gets you about $200.00
@Je.rone_
@Je.rone_ 5 жыл бұрын
*If they got a divorce she'd qualify, that seems dumb* 💪🎭
@ukrd94
@ukrd94 5 жыл бұрын
That's a joke. 😔 They shouldn't have to do that. Up
@Je.rone_
@Je.rone_ 5 жыл бұрын
@@ukrd94 i agree
@PNWresistance
@PNWresistance 5 жыл бұрын
Breaking apart the family to gain on the system is not the way to go about things. But I get it generations of broken families living off welfare has instilled this mentality into many generations. Obviously some blame to our government for incentivizing this type of mindset.
@Je.rone_
@Je.rone_ 5 жыл бұрын
@@PNWresistance who stud that'd be a good idea? I think politics got a lot of people ready to vehemently defend/assert their closely held beliefs at every little chance they get... I think it's social media that's got people vigorously preaching their gospel unnecessarily 💪😁😂😂😂😂
@ineedhoez
@ineedhoez 5 жыл бұрын
That is sad, but if that is the way the cookie crumbles, then so be it. I have friends who divorced because their student loan payments are too high. They were on the income-based repayment plan and the payments went from 300 to $1,000 each because they got married. They count your partner's income but it doesn't take into consideration their student loan payment.
@CrustyNightSock
@CrustyNightSock 3 жыл бұрын
Phone/internet - $119. Getting scammed there. You have cell phones, so reduce to internet only. I pay $53 per month for internet but probably varies a lot from place to place. Should still be able to save ~$50 per month anyways. Food - $600 month. Scamming yourself there. Reduce by $300. Beans and rice, baby, beans and rice. But seriously, decent food isn't that expensive. Stop overpaying for stuff you don't really like anyways. Bam, just saved you $350 per month. You are very welcome, Daphne.
@Gus_Chiggins
@Gus_Chiggins 5 жыл бұрын
I wish them the best
@vickijohnson9367
@vickijohnson9367 8 ай бұрын
Perfect advice, except the car may be upside down, take it to Carmax. If it’s close sell it. Can’t beat a well taken care of old Toyota Corolla or Camry. The choice of car for college students. They need to find a way not to finance cars, it’s a death knell in this crappy economy. Also, get that electric bill down, $30 electric space heaters from Walmart, just in rooms used, will lower your bill, unplug everything you can, wear heavy wool in the house, in the summer, sweat it out or take a cold bath. Your goal is to cut electric bill to $150 a month. Go camping “at home” for your meals when you are able to save on electricity. No cook meals saves a lot. Turn down water heater. Just the $150 savings in electricity and maybe $10 savings in water use could free up $1,800 a year, that’s your breathing room, in case the car situation is not workable. But remember, no new cars, stick to super reliable Toyota really old early 2000’s Corolla or Camry . If you can fit in to a Toyota Prius C (a fitness routine and diet will save money and your health), a Used Prius C, say 2015-2018, gets 50 miles to the gallon, that feels great, too. Never buy a a used car without a clean 1-2 owner Carfax no wrecks, and pristine maintenance history, not passed around through dealers, make sure no water damage and Toyota’s can be over 100,000 miles, if they had the big 100,000 mile maintenance flushes, hoses, belts, brakes, new tires done. Best of luck!
@cazpk6840
@cazpk6840 4 жыл бұрын
If she starts a go fund me page i am sure many will step up to help her and her husband ....
@marshhen
@marshhen 4 жыл бұрын
Wait do not move from a paid for house. The husband needs to sell the car and bring in more money. She could do transcription online but the idea that she would have to clean houses while blind and having ms to pay off his student loan and car is ridiculous. That husband should go to financial peace university with her. He seems to be the variable.
@kw-vy5jd
@kw-vy5jd 5 жыл бұрын
When she start reads the list out that's when I realize she is in a real mess
@gr8macaw1
@gr8macaw1 5 жыл бұрын
This lady may qualify for SSDI provided her husband has worked long enough to qualify for benefits. SDI is based on income levels. I would certainly advise her to contact the social security department. She may also qualify for Medi-cal if she lived in California
@Knowonecares100
@Knowonecares100 4 жыл бұрын
U can do it!
@lights80088
@lights80088 5 жыл бұрын
This is a lady you can really feel sorry for. Not like the callers who want to say how much money they have or are stupid with money.
@titan3063
@titan3063 5 жыл бұрын
Is a Tesla Model 3 a good car to buy? But I would also like to wait for the Tesla Cybertruck.
@nasserken4794
@nasserken4794 5 жыл бұрын
No, go with Honda Accord
@jd9957
@jd9957 5 жыл бұрын
yes
@bethanyroberts4744
@bethanyroberts4744 5 жыл бұрын
🤨
@YouTubeUzername
@YouTubeUzername 5 жыл бұрын
You should never consider the purchase of a car an investment considering almost all of them depreciate. With that being said buy a Toyota.
@HomeGrownPyro1
@HomeGrownPyro1 5 жыл бұрын
A vehicle is never an investment unless it has collector value like the cars rolling through Mecum car auction lol
@NotQuiteEpic
@NotQuiteEpic 5 жыл бұрын
Why did he call that a 'very low income'? I make $2,600/month and pay a monthly rent. I'm doing just fine.
@KatieBellino
@KatieBellino 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like because some areas have such inflated incomes, it makes it sound like those of us in lower cost of living areas sound poor because our salaries match the less expensive lifestyle. I'm a teacher and make about what you do once you add in stipends and a summer job. It's not luxurious, but I wouldn't call it "very low income" either. To me, that's people surviving below $2k a month.
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