I can't sleep so I made tea | making friends in college is hard

[@marguie222]

heyy!! tell me if you liked this one and if I should post on spotify ihihihi love you!! ⭐️⭐️

[@MaeveMalyon]

Hi, I love your videos so much and I can relate to a lot of your struggles with sleep and anxiety. I find your videos very comforting and you should definitely realise this on Spotify! ❤

[@margaridavelhinho1478]

unfortunately it's past my screentime curfew alr but i'm sure i'll love it when i watch it tmr after school

[@margaridavelhinho1478]

also, i noticed now it's SO LONG WOWWW (pos) thank you for editing it for us, truly!!

[@ernandotorres2170]

definitivamente. eu achei que todos os sentimentos e ideias que você quis expor foram muito bem traduzidas pelas palavras, tudo transmitido com a clareza de uma descoberta.

[@teresaalgaraguilar1959]

YES

[@amainstreamdeath7545]

“I love talking, but not to other people” so relatable

[@Julia.Nickel]

That’s why prayer is so good, it’s just a conversation with you and god and he’ll never judge you

[@myrtila]

It’s crazy how I was reflecting back on my experience with making friends in uni (I’m finishing it now), and I get recommended this video. My experience is pretty similar to yours as well. I made many superficial friendships in uni. They were all of them great people, but the connection didn’t ever go that deep. With most of them I didn’t even hang out outside of university. And at first it bothered me, it made me doubt myself, but then I came to the realisation you mentioned that “not every friend needs to be your best friend”. Still tho, I gotta admit that I missed a deep connection. It didn’t help either that my closest friends from school and family were many miles away.

[@abrilcorominajavier9150]

The algorithm is starting to freak me out 😵 the way I needed to feel Im not the only one struggling with this

[@Anjani.Mahajan]

Same

[@ajahawa3060]

no the title is so real idk why it’s so hard for me during highschool it was easier

[@cxnela]

My high school class was so close during senior year, I miss it :(

[@joelharris4399]

Making friends in college (university) is hard because people adopt fictive but 'relatable' personas to embody in highly competitive, fast paced and impersonal spaces to the point their real personhood, objectives and intentions are left obscured. By the time you find out what's under their sleeves, it's already too late for you to do anything about it. Choose them wisely! That's why first year orientation and campus residency are important. The students you socialize with the most as a freshmen usually end up becoming part of your inner circle later on. For the most part these bonds with few exceptions don't break. It helps to make friends with students outside your concentrations so you won't feel you're head butting the other person for the same prestigious grade.

[@moths.for.valentine]

i feel like in my case this was the complete opposite. not in the sense that making friends was easy, but in the sense that people wore their hearts on their sleeves. it's probably due to my maior (i do art) and it's not as competitive as, say, an ivy league school (extreme example)

[@joelharris4399]

@@moths.for.valentine Thanks for sharing. Arts is a different vibe, I know. There's more camaraderie, the environment more laid back. Being a foreigner like me in a prestigious institution, different story with all this anti-immigrant sentiment and backlash simmering to the top in the West

[@moths.for.valentine]

@@joelharris4399 i totally get that!! i'm so sorry you have to experience that :( college should be a wonderful time

[@joelharris4399]

@@moths.for.valentine It wasn't totally bad. Happy to say I'll be continuing my studies🙏

[@Nannimoo27]

YESSSS PLZ BECOME AN OFFICIAL PODCASTOR IT'LL BE FUNNNN !

[@vikycorrea]

you're like really inspiring but you're also constantly keeping it real, which not many youtubers/influencers do, and i absolutely love that!! PLEASE START POSTING ON SPOTIFY OMG I'VE BEEN CRAVING FOR A NEW PODCAST 🫀🫀

[@marguie222]

AAAA LOVE YOU!! ⭐️⭐️

[@turkey8638]

when you started talking about comparing friendships it resonated with me so much, I’m in my second year of college and I’ve been with the same friend group I met in freshmen year. like you I don’t mind them and I enjoy their friendship but we both know that the relationship I have with the group is superficial. I want to make more friends so bad but the thought of even being slightly uncomfortable scares me. seeing this video really made me see things in a different perspective and also made me feel like I wasn’t the only one feeling this. THANK YOU really from the bottom of my heart

[@agata9464]

honestly if you were to have a podcast on spotify, i'd listen to it religiously !! these bring me sm comfort🫶🫶

[@marguie222]

💗💗💗💗

[@bsmalamaray7491]

I was hungry and i couldn't sleep so i went to the kitchen to make some pasta so i needed smth to watch while cookin and came across ur video and really this is the most relatable thing ive ever watched that thing about comparing ur friends with the old ones and looking for the perfect group of friends this is literally me with my life in college for towo years now 😢

[@emma_grrd]

omg i relate so much to what you’re saying. i didn’t struggle to « make » friends but the friends i made are just people i hang out with while im at college. i don’t feel the connection i have with my other friends (that i made prior to college). i was really disappointed when i realised that not every friend i make is going to be my best friend :/ sending you love and support for your 3rd year 🫶

[@marguie222]

so so true, i feel the exact same way 😭😭 love you, and thank you!!

[@kajeh_]

The topic “the fear of missing out” is really good to talk about because many people are suffering from it, including me. Looking forward for this kind of video❕

[@anabelen365]

It hard to make friends in college. Freshman year was hard for me but after that it gets way better!!!

[@marguie222]

it really does get a bit better, but the nerves always creep in when i’m starting a new year :,))

[@theresjaison]

I love that you keep your personality and don’t change it to fit others narratives like so many people do when they first join college. And FOMO is like my best friend so I totally get you when you said that lol. Don’t worry, everything works out in its own way

[@marguie222]

love you so much, i’m so excited to talk about fomo 😭😭 I HAVE SO MUCH SHIT TO SAY

[@cami_triz83]

Im guilty of that and i been talking about it in therapy. I been dealing with intense shame and anxiety due to it. As soon as im in a social setting, i instantly unlearn how to be myself. It's so uncomfortable and makes me feel so impotent. I hope i can be myself again like i used to when I was little :(

[@meghanapatnala]

i read "i cant sleep so i made tea" and instantly subscribed cause I cant sleep and I'm sipping on my tea rn!!!

[@marguie222]

slayyyyy!!

[@iampurple14]

having a bad day at school and then getting on the bus to see u posted another video makes me so happy rn ❤ps- i would LOVE it if u posted on spotify, no pressure tho, just do what u want!

[@iampurple14]

also I feel like the song “brooklyn bridge to chorus” by the strokes really represents this feeling. I’m not sure what music u listen to, but I really love this song and hope u do 2

[@marguie222]

sorry to hear about your bad day :(( hope everything works out ⭐️ i’ll def listen to it !!!!

[@iampurple14]

@@marguie222 thank u

[@aayushijadhav5289]

your just soo soo RELATABLE since 2 yrs I just have 2 friends in my coaching of more than 20 people and I use to try alot to fit in but they just don't match the vibe and usually i use to compare them with my older friends and the fact that I regret joining this coaching so bad cuz even the teachers just don't..uk😭😭😭😭😭but yess it totally fine to not just have alot friends and i loveee youuu so much🤍🤍🤍🫶🏻🫶🏻podcast was great

[@TlalengRatlhogo]

Im in my second year now everyone around me has friend groups or atleast solid friendships and as for me i have made the friendships but they fell off i feel like it's kinda default for all my friendships i end up drifting away from them mainly because im the problm shem i dont like it yoh.

[@Athena-nn7rp]

Same, meeting friends is easy- but keeping them is much more difficult for me. I distance myself from them when they don’t meet my expectations, and tbh most people keep anybody as their friend in college because they’ve little/no standards. It’s like you either have to choose to be authentic and alone, or ‘put on’ a likeable persona and just be friends with anyone regardless if you truly like them or not.

[@coilycutie436]

I can sense a South African from anywhere

[@potterina_]

omg this is just the video I needed 😭😭😭😭😭and YES on the podcast please!!!! I would love it

[@marguie222]

YEYYY

[@margaridavelhinho1478]

omg i could feel this video was coming!! (your aura is just that strong) as much as i hate to see you anxious, i find these vids to be comforting, and every time i see them i go... anxie*teas* instead lolll thank you for what you do though, we love you

[@margaridavelhinho1478]

i've watched the video now, and it helped so much (i'm a highschool senior)

[@marguie222]

ihihi i’m glad!! loved the anxieteas⭐️⭐️

[@Dat1person_]

omg girl i have period cramps too and this video is sooooo comforting!!

[@marguie222]

hope you’re feeling better !! period cramps are the worst 💗

[@miffyz.]

yess omg please start a podcast!! I love listening to people talk while I'm doing something

[@marguie222]

I THINK I WILL !!!!

[@berlinbohn]

Please post a podcast i would listen the shit out of it!! Everything you talk about is so relatable

[@marguie222]

YEYYY im seriously considering it

[@theisaiah_james]

I would for sure listen to your podcast! This video is so perfect and amazing! I love late nights! I usually watch KZbin and write! College has been fun recently, made some friends! I found my chill spot where I sit at a bench and just reflect! I’m starting slow with my new friendships but I do admit I do over share at times! This summer I did grieve some old friendships after graduating high school! Thanks for this video and it’s giving me ideas! Sending so much 💕

[@marguie222]

love you!! i’m glad you’re having fun ihihi, over sharing is fine as long as people reciprocate and don’t judge you IM ALWAYS OVERSHARING wishing you the best in college ⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@JasperEdwards-b7g]

ur just talking videos always help me relax and this one was especially relatable, I think it would be a great idea for u to make a podcast 100%. Keep it up love ur vids as always !!!

[@marguie222]

love you!! 💗

[@ellvirangmai]

I love how honest and casual you are

[@marguie222]

💗💗

[@Herminutz]

I think it would be great to post it on spotify but u should definetly post it on youtube too i really wanna listen it here.Also i loveeddddd this video as always Marguie always is so relateble and slays

[@marguie222]

yes of course !!!!! i’ll continue to post once a month here (the podcast) just more on spotify :))) love uuu ⭐️⭐️

[@Herminutz]

@@marguie222 yayyyyyyyy honestly this podcast is the only one i can actually follow and not get bored or whatever u really are a magician

[@siya0233]

Thankyou for choosing and sharing your views on this topic as I really needed this!!..❤

[@marguie222]

love you so much

[@tatumbraaf]

I'm reaching the end of my university career and I thought I made some genuine friends, but things turned sour towards the end and unfortunately, I no longer have any close friendships in university. I deeply regret it, but at the same time it is quite peaceful. It's extremely difficult making friends in university or college, but it can be even more difficult to hold onto a broken friendship. I'm grateful to know that I'm not the only one who has experienced this. Sending love to everyone who has or is experiencing this. The right people will find you eventually💕

[@christinanovelle]

Im my third year of college and I’ve lost my best friend (we don’t talk anymore) and i haven’t made any new friendships. I have one friend i talk and hang out with. Being lonely and feeling alone at this age is detrimental.

[@marguie222]

i’m so sorry to hear that :((( i get how lonely it feels, sending lots of love 💗

[@garlik999]

the same thing happened with my bestfriend. i attempted to reconnect with her but she ended up ghosting me. now im a 3rd yr transfer student & i literally talk to no one. it’s so difficult. sometimes i find myself wishing to be friends with her again but that’s probably only because it’s familiar

[@oumaima2221]

YES i would like to listen ur podcast💗

[@sophielove2908]

everything you say is so relatable, such a comforting video 🥰

[@marguie222]

love you 💗

[@maryy9939]

God the way I relate to your experiences is actually crazy from like moving to a public school and having only the best best friends for eight years or smth and THE COLLEGE thing I just discovered you and your channel and I feel so seen already thank you😭

[@fernandajimenez6383]

I can belive that I feel the same as you, I totally understand what you felt cause i´m in the same situation.

[@manaalshaikh7968]

first time i came across your videos! it was very comforting and would love a podcast from you :) i wanted to say that it was hard to make genuine friends in uni and it was only in my last year that i made two genuine friends when i moved to different city for a semester long internship. now, i have stayed in touch with them and a couple of highschool friends - but the point is i feel you! it's hard making friends especially post covid - and i think it is nice doing things by yourself - you learn and you grow, but there's also a chance to connect with new friends over smthn you like (ex. arts and crafts)

[@salmaalaa938]

You’re story is literally the sameee as mine ohh my god couldn’t relate more !!

[@marguie222]

this comment section makes me think we are all the same person fr

[@majcie_9174]

absolutely pls do start posting this on spotify as well, i’d love this as a full fledged podcast 🫶

[@maggie2101]

thank u so much for this video!! im going to my first year of college and i feel like in portugal there is so much pressure when it comes to friendships and all the college traditions and btw u should definitely post on spotify

[@marguie222]

omg i know, all the praxes and stuff just wasn’t for me, I much rather go on my own timing and talk to the people I vibe with, not forcing anything ⭐️ wishing you the best !!

[@marksbetterthanu6364]

Why are these type of content so underrated:(

[@hhah23]

Nothing, i just came to say that i love the title of this video, and it's the first one of yours i ever watched, i loved it. Also, lately i've been having very bad anxiety especially before bed and in the morning and this whole episode calmed me down. Thank you so much. And please if you could, and if you would like to, make these videos longer, and about going on spotify, i think it's a good idea but i love them here too. Once again thank you for this video, and for what you talked about and the whole space you made. ❤❤

[@marguie222]

hi!! thank you and welcome to my channel ihihi i’m really happy you resonated with this and i’m glad i could help 💗

[@Myersnoyome]

Podcast,please! I would totally love it! I study English with your videos,and your voice is very comfy🥹

[@marguie222]

thank you ! 💗

[@МарияЖолобова-л1к]

Podcast, please!! I feel like it would be soooo cozy and interesting )

[@marguie222]

ihihihu will do!!

[@kayikciebrar2809]

girl i'm coming for you if you don't upload these on spotify

[@accidentalcver]

wow u really couldnt have made this video at a better time for me :,) and im not even going back to school this year hahah i've been thinking a lot about friendships recently and it's sooo comforting to hear somebody else's thoughts on this topic

[@accidentalcver]

also!! what u said about comparing ur new friends to ur really good friends - wow, that hits sooo hard i feel like its sometimes so difficult to get used to the idea that not all of ur friends have to be ur best friends and simply can be a good company from time to time 🙏

[@marguie222]

⭐️⭐️⭐️ so glad i’m not alone !!

[@carolapastrana3126]

I really needed to hear this coming from someone else. I feel embarrased to talk about this to other people. I am as well on my second year of collegue and i have not made a good friend. I talk to people I get along with them, but it doesn´t move from that. I see groups of friends hanging around, staying after classes and I really wish I had that. And yes, It makes me miss my highschool group of friends. And I think that it has to do with the fact that my old girl bestfriend isn´t with me all the time, we don´t talk everyday like we used to when we were kids and teenagers. Sometimes I just want to talk to the same person everyday but I have not found them. I made a friend or two but it feels superficial. Idk I will try my best to meet new people. Sorry for my english, it´s not my first language and Ihave not spoken it for a year. nice video

[@majas2749]

I´d totally love it if you had a podcast!

[@cemre_44]

definetely want to see this on spotify!!!

[@eclipse027]

It's definitely is hard, and what's harder is taking yet another walk towards the library from your department, and seeing all the friends and couples along your way, hearing their laughter and chatter, continously asking what have you done wrong or what could have been different... Until you make it to the library and your mind slips back to your studies again, cuz you need to academically survive somehow. I was hopeful things would get better as time passes on... It's my senior year damn it. But at least for you, I really wish the best on your path. 😉

[@cintiamarisan]

dude ive never related this much to a person, this is exactly how my uni works too and these are also the struggles i have been living with

[@djovelsjourney]

you’re my comfort channel, like this is the type of video I would watch after a long day of uni! ^_^

[@marguie222]

ihihi i’m glad!! ⭐️

[@najajabeen6006]

Yeah 😻 please make it to the Spotify 🫰

[@sxllamv]

This is so me, so relatable

[@polareta01]

❤️🫂 yayy another video !

[@marguie222]

❤️❤️❤️

[@superseoks]

this was on my recommendation right when i needed it

[@amna3377]

omg everything you said here was so relatable

[@franbelardinelli]

I just discovered your yt channel, and your videos are so comforting!

[@marguie222]

welcome !! hope you like the others ones too ihihi 💗💗

[@emyiyly]

my favourite podcast type thing🫀🫀thank you

[@marguie222]

ihihii love u 💗

[@roxannedeney-bhagat6864]

A podcast would be amazing!!

[@marguie222]

💗!!

[@sarahantunes1712]

omg i swear this video was recommend to me at the RIGHT time!! i really needed to hear this, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and experiences so genuinely :)

[@marguie222]

i’m glad !!

[@lunns6188]

the most related video in my life… thank u, I really needed this❤ u r great!

[@marguie222]

love you! 💗💗

[@iris_pallida]

You're incredible! I really like your videos!❤

[@marguie222]

love you!! 💗

[@user-jl4yy9jc8f]

i start search your podcast on spotify. and i was really shocked that i didn`t found it hahah

[@mar_0]

I felt this in my soulllll.

[@martacerejoramos7467]

I’m starting college next week and I’m terrified:,) it’s like far away from home and not like in the big city like all my friends.I’m extremely shy like if I need to ask where is something or to solve academic stuff and I also have a lot of social anxiety! I also have the friend groups problem and I’m struggling to decide what to wear in the first day. Like do I want to look smart, cool, cute like idk bc I want to meet people but idk I’m so scared :( also a lot of my friends are saying that their classes are extremely awkward and that no one talks to anyone so I’m scared about that too! ;-;

[@marguie222]

good luck on starting college !! it’s a lot less scarier than it looks and sounds like, i’m sure you’re going to do great 💗 just be yourself and people will come to you! and don’t be afraid to ask for help, there are so many people in your exact situation:)) YOU GOT THIS !!

[@martacerejoramos7467]

@@marguie222 Aww thank you so much for the kind words and advice!! 🧡

[@sfmmmo7599]

Awww tnx for this video! Love ur vibe ✨️

[@asmaali5126]

Omg im also drinking raspberry leaf tea cuz im on my period lol its tough in here

[@marguie222]

so real, i’m also on my period twinning!!

[@gooffff7753]

bruhhhhh this is sooooooo meee.....i'm living the exact same scenerio ....i hate my college people sm.

[@azzaazad]

She is soooo adorable

[@marguie222]

⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@Ok-li6mg]

I WOULD SO LISTEN TO UR PODCAST

[@marguie222]

AAAAAAAAAA

[@hhhhhhh-rr6nf]

Youre my vibe why can’t I find people like you in real life

[@vlogsbyshytan]

watching this video while making tea at 4 AM because i can’t sleep lol

[@micchae1a]

I relate to this so much

[@lalaavida]

MEU DEUS MARGUIE POR FAVOR EU SUPER APOIO SE VC ABRIR UM PODCAST NO SPOTIFY 😭

[@marguie222]

AI ACHO QUE VOU MESMO

[@y007-3]

Im crying rn bc i feel soo empty and lonely and i open this app and finding ur vid😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@fathimaameen]

i relate to this soo much omg. i'm literally in my second year of uni and i have no close friends here. i hardly have any friends at all here actually.. it's partially because my uni's events are almost all drinking focussed or at a pub (and i don't drink), but also really mainly because i'm a really anxious person and whenever i'm about to talk to someone (that i'm not close friends with, or just not friends with) i can feel the temp rising and i start panicking and almost want to cry lmaooo. i sit next to these girls in my class and have since last nov (so like 11 months atp 💀) and they all seem like good friends except from w me, i don't even have their instagrams cause i keep forgetting and i feel like it's too late to ask them now without it feeling overwhelmingly awkward and embarrassing and the words just don't come out of my mouth 😭 and most societies that i'm in only do events like once every 1-2 months and half of them are alcohol focussed so idek what to do or how to go about making friends let alone close ones

[@rainvv]

literally me !! i started my second yr in august and i’ve literally only made acquaintances so far i’m way too shy to initiate anything i’m in the trenches 💀 though something i’ve been telling myself to comfort myself is remembering how the friendships i’ve made in highschool all happened in pretty random ways,, so i’m rlly hoping we both find lifetime friends in uni w/o stressing too much about it !! good luck to the both of us (*´꒳`*)

[@morganlahm9381]

I totally get this. I have made like 3 friends in uni and this is my 2nd year. We aren't that close, though I have had deep connections with them all. We are just so busy, it is hard to find the time to hang. So I hang out with all my friends I made in high school (cuz I grew up in a unique way and so did they and no one in uni understands ughh). I made a bunch of acquaintances last year in uni, but we only say hi in passing (which is still nice). But I have this one class where I'd love to make friends, but I just feel afraid and I'm usually not that way. Perhaps I'll just go for it. I also don't drink, and the friends I have at uni do, soooo when they want to go out, I never go with them. But kudos to you for also not drinking because so many people connect that way, and I just don't do it. Good luck to you though! I hope you are able to find some people who you can click with and love!

[@z_0._c]

I will definitely be listening to your podcast, it sounds very interesting💓

[@marguie222]

ihihihi

[@cxnela]

This is exactly my experience so far as a freshman in college. I went to a private school and got so so close with my classmates, and it’s just so weird moving from that to a college where I feel distant from everyone else. I’m part time and I commute too so I don’t have the opportunity to befriend my roommate or anything. Honestly I don’t mind too much but it’d be nice to have at least a couple of friends 3:

[@bexasmr]

This was so lovely, please do more 🫶🏼

[@marguie222]

💗💗💗

[@imnawafalshehri]

i love ur podcast and ur personaility

[@marguie222]

and i love you

[@hn8sz_]

making friend in uni and also being in exchange semester it's hard, and actually i'm not alone in the country, one of my classmates is with me but we both have it really hard talking to people so yeah. we don't have friends in here, yet.

[@aanas_vibey_corner]

Sisssss, sammeeee

[@christinanovelle]

You have my podcast vote!

[@marguie222]

AAAA

[@march8794]

101% relatable

[@lalaavida]

TAVA PENSANDO EM VOCÊ SEGUNDOS ANTES DE VOCÊ POSTAR ESSE VIDEO MARGUIE :c

[@marguie222]

AIII QUE SOULMATES

[@user50572]

Now it is so much harder that I have graduated. It feels like no one knows I exist

[@lunabee1]

the first thing i made when i click on this video was search your name on spotify so please i need a podcast

[@Sydonie-po8iq]

especially at 22 I feel so lonely

[@Maryam20063]

حماسس

[@playboiroza9718]

same im first year and i hate it

[@ll97n]

me senti muy entendida jsjakjsa

[@winnnerm-mk9tj]

I was thinking about this and this video appeared

[@marguie222]

it was meant to be

[@scarlett9750]

Im in my first year of college right now and still haven’t made any actualy friendships.

[@marguie222]

my first year i also didn’t made friends, so don’t worry!! i’m sure you will find your people, wishing you the best

[@angletourdevil]

wow is this telepathy??? because i freaking feel the same way, and i want someone over to talk about this, but i feel like im the only one going through this and now you're here!!!

[@yasminfurlan]

Você é brasileira? Seu sotaque não parece o sotaque de quem nasceu nos eua, amei o vídeo e amei o seu canaaaal :)

[@marguie222]

portuguesa ! e obrigada ihihi

[@graciedahlias]

How do you connect your phone mic to sync with the camera recording you?

[@marguie222]

it’s a separate audio, i just synchronize it later !

[@ronyskandi]

This is so needed ❤ I’m struggling with the friendship with a guy, since he confessed that he liked me, but I’m dating another person and don’t want to break neither friendship nor relationship ofc

[@marguie222]

omg that is complicated, sending you love 💗 hope everything turns out okay!!

[@manouka]

play i cant sleep by the las

[@lifeath47]

what college and what course and what year you doin? is it masters/ or bachelors?

[@eleanorglennon1385]

If you think making friends in college is hard, I hate to tell you but it gets significantly harder from here on out