Approaching someone going about their business, just walking down the street....it takes a bit of cruelty to bother them, a willingness to annoy them. It's a leap of faith to think they give a shit about you because most people, instinctively, are guarded about strangers.
@cinder-nu3pkАй бұрын
Can you just shut up?!
@datingthorpeАй бұрын
I wouldn't say cruelty, perhaps bravery or boldness. It is a leap of faith for sure and you never know what's going to happen but since 2013 I met all my girlfriends this way and my wife so worked out well overall.
@DanTuberАй бұрын
"i'm married" is a good come back after you get the "i have a boy friend".
@datingthorpeАй бұрын
Suppose it is
@felixkemp2122Ай бұрын
@@datingthorpecontext would have been better that your a dating coach lol , she was a bit like da fuck
@PowerfulRiftАй бұрын
Nice, this was pretty funny! 😂
@datingthorpeАй бұрын
Thank you sir!
@scientistjamАй бұрын
Guys, pls take a note, cold approach never work, especially if its in some open public places like streets, malls, etc. And its coming from a confident good looking well-educated guy. In the last 5 years, I have done over 200 approaches, and my approaches were mostly in malls, parks, shops, etc and very few in streets. I have got like 10-15 numbers and 0 date. Cause I realized out of those 10-15 numbers, I didnt even like any. The best way is to go to events. By events, I mean boat parties, bar nights, special occasions like st patricks, halloween, etc. You can easily meet 20 to 30 people in each of these events and then follow up with them afterwards. Try to get into some job/business that involves people handling like sales, marketing, etc. There is a reason why agents and promoters get all the girls. Cold approach never worked and never will, you will just get more depressed and end up wasting lot more time.
@felixkemp2122Ай бұрын
You didn't develop the necessary skills and growth during your 200 approaches . It can be a steep learning curve . There are many many many people who will attest to cold approach having amazing results . This is the truth
@scientistjamАй бұрын
@@felixkemp2122 lol i definitely have. for the last 40-50 approaches, i talked to each of them for almost 30-40 min, only for them to say they had boyfriends. it might work if you are a jobless workless person, cause it will definitely interfere with your confidence and work mind, and wont let you excel in other areas of life. i am an entrepreneur and i meet amazing girls just by going to these events. i just tried that when I was at a low point in my life, and it took me lower lol. i dont think any guy who is doing well in life, would ever resort to cold approach.
@Louis-mg5jfАй бұрын
What a load of nonsense. Sorry to tell you but if you've approached 200 girls and only got 10-15 numbers and ZERO dates, you are most likely not confident and good looking but rather creepy. Over 5 years, 200 approaches comes out to one every 9 days. So you're averaging less than 1 per week. Stop filling people's head with nonsense just because you don't know what you're doing
@IAlexandreIАй бұрын
You're just not doing it right. Doesn't mean it doesn't work...
@farzadsharifzadeh2929Ай бұрын
+Sorry I have a boyfriend -No problem, I'm married 😅