"I Deserve $50,000 In Child Support"

Today we're gonna be taking a look at another episode of support court, this time with the greediest mom we've ever seen
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[@davc6879]

For an attorney, she is building a horrible case for herself

[@roberttaylor9563]

Did this go viral or what.

[@taramay8174]

Shes an alcoholic. She has addiction issues thats why

[@tinageorge8058]

That’s what I said too

[@suecbrn]

No one said she was a good attorney!

[@KamatShivani]

That’s what I was about to comment

[@Anahi1991]

I didn’t know the kid needed his mom to have her hooves sanded and painted at the Nail Salon

[@MatthewOnAMissionFromGod]

Hahahaha hooves 😂

[@nachobusiness2050]

Hooves 🤣🤣🤣🤣 so shes the high-horse

[@Olkv3D]

Getting an old mare reshoed can be pricey!

[@melissaleoncreolenola]

that money is for the child.... I see why her @$$ is no longer married

[@Olkv3D]

it's foal support not child support

[@WarrenPuffet]

He didn’t ask for more, she did… ends up paying him $1k+ a month. Boy did that backfire beautifully!

[@RedAvery1]

She don’t have to pay. Courts wing go after her at any request.

[@IronResistance]

You know its fake right?

[@Fadamor]

@@IronResistance Yeah The disclaimer at the end of each Vonda B. show that gets ignored by all these re-posters states (among other things) that Vonda Bailey is not a judge, she is a licensed attorney in the state of Texas. The people in the video are actors and any resemblance to actual persons living or dead is purely coincidental. The scenarios presented in the show are the product of creative imagination or otherwise fictitious in nature.

[@JoshuaHasbell]

@@IronResistance still would love to see this for the real fathers out there. Forget these gold digging and heartless women

[@Nodrodsky]

"All my money is going to my kids".Thats what a good parent is supposed to do.

[@timbartley5678]

Yes and no money helps and provide and most of all quality time is even more important

[@041882]

Not true. Money needs to be set aside for the future and building on a legacy for the protection of the family overall.

[@amandamsnyder87]

​@@041882if you cant provide what they need give them to the parent who can.

[@SuperKamiGuru20]

Reminds me of my case. I filed a contempt order against my ex for refusing my visitation, to which she responded to by requesting that I have 2 hours of supervised visitation a week. It ended up with me getting full custody and she was ordered the 2 hours of supervised visitation a week. I didn't have a lawyer, she just destroyed herself in every hearing, except the one she missed because she got a DUI on the way to court.

[@TheExplosiveGuy]

Yikes😂. I'm glad you didn't get shafted by the court, it sounds like you both got what you deserved👍.

[@love_wins_2218]

So glad you got full custody. Your children needed you to fight for them, and you did. Congratulations. ❤❤

[@hoopaholicstickum]

Dude! Congratz!!! You’re in such a better place now…. Awesome! LMAO

[@JUSBYMYSELF]

Deezam!

[@whoa6884]

That DUI was right on time.

[@lordjohnwharfin5397]

God help her clients. With her legal skills she could be defending somebody for a speeding ticket and end up with them getting the death penalty.

[@jameslauder3984]

😂

[@billydanger2312]

🤣

[@vinzo0913]

"your honour, my client was speeding, but he was justified, as he wanted to kill his 'bitch of an ex' and wanted to make sure the children didn't slow his car" "Ma'am I don't own a car"

[@lasers33]

This can't be real

[@kirbyellis4337]

your honor my client could not possibly have been speeding. She was too drunk to drive that fast.

[@maclectic]

The real question is how can you split one household into two and then expect to continue the same lifestyle?

[@autigaming1376]

and my problem is that child support is based on income and not what a child reasonably needs. your child does not need privateschool, they do not need extra activities. child support should be a flat number per child with exceptions for disabled and disability c hildren as those cost more and exception for people who make less than what is required. I have seen football players ordered to pay 100k in child support. that is absurd. no child needs that to grow up.

[@ochervelvet9687]

@@autigaming1376Do you have children? Children deserve the best of what their parents can provide, not the least. After you have children, they come first, not you.

[@autigaming1376]

@@ochervelvet9687 no the do not deserve the best. they deserve enough to live on and move foward with education. a child does not need a high end private school a child does not need designer clothing they do not need a high tech laptop or 500 dollar shoes. courts should only look at what the average child needs make child support based on that regardless of income level. then if any special needs exist add those in such as autism or down syndrome handicapped ect. no child on the planet needs private school or the best their parents can offer. a parents job is to make sure the child grows up healthy and educated. nothign more.

[@66katemom]

If a man wants to walk out on his kids, that's fine. But a new life doesn't come cheap.

[@maclectic]

@@66katemom If your partner switches from a high paying job to a low paying job, how is that different than "walking out on their kids?" High paying jobs are often difficult and dangerous, that's why they're high paying. They can be impossible to continue in situations such as high personal stress, due to a family break up. But someone besides your partner should be in final authority over their career decisions, correct?

[@shelleyobrien8180]

Dressing like the “poor broke soul” not only didn’t work, but backfired big time😂😂. Applaud the judge for being fair 👏👏

[@user-er2ys6rj8b]

I wouldn't want HER as my attorney, for any reason whatsoever. Good on you Judge.

[@feraltaco4783]

I don't ever want any lawyer who would represent their self.

[@markbrautigam2502]

Orr mother

[@IronResistance]

Its not real

[@gqg741]

Gentlemen be careful who you decide to have children with. She is vindictive.

[@magnetmannenbannanen]

All can fake being nice for a while.

[@user-fz9en8yi8b]

You can just see those evils wheels turning

[@stevearno100]

Women love being Kunts

[@amandamsnyder87]

The number one rule dont stick your man bits in crazy

[@Ressepuffs]

Be careful who you just fuck. Quit thinking with the wrong head!

[@zombiepanda5768]

Here's how she could afford her kids loose the personal chef, house keeper, the weekly drinking, getting her hair and nails done, and boom she can afford her kids

[@PrometheusX93]

Or just drop the private school it’s not necessary

[@eddarby469]

Apparently she can afford those things except the nails, and the hair and the massages. She should have a better view of the big picture.

[@christinaf713]

Exactly!!!!

[@abstract1717]

I understand she makes more but if he only sees rhe kids 2 weekends a month and she's rhe primary caregiver, why shouldn't the father have to pay something to contribute to the children's expenses? If she's the only one funding their children, he's just a visiting parent. When you have children both parents should contribute.

[@enterprise0523]

She’s more worried about her own needs than the needs of her children, she doesn’t deserve a extra penny

[@mystic006]

The massages, nails and hair salon argument was bad enough, but she really lost me with the personal chef. And I must say, I love that judge.

[@Chuckf66]

Can we find out which salon is cutting her hair? Just so we can nuke it from space.

[@allieblovesyou]

This show isn’t real

[@marleylove510]

@@allieblovesyou I can believe that. 🎃

[@ionanencov3862]

She is an attorney, she can’t go out there looking rough , the kids are a consequence, both parents consequences

[@franciswise1183]

@@allieblovesyou it show's real cases with actors you fool!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@valeries5722]

Justice is a beautiful thing. I almost cried. Pay up MOM

[@AaaaKrovushka]

You know that this story’s not real, it’s a show not real court

[@hunter.5625]

@@AaaaKrovushka based on real cases tho

[@DevPythonUnity]

this is not justice, this is corrppt buissness model that puts unfair power to judgin system!!

[@LCarrTXn]

Seeing her reaction to the Judge’s decision was satisfying. Thank you for sharing.

[@ianbromley7218]

Children are the responsibility of both parents not just one.

[@tedthesailor172]

She's a great judge with a well-rounded sense of humour and irony...

[@noniousxltruffles7454]

And sarcasm! 😂

[@billcox8870]

Being a parent means you have to put the child's needs ahead of your personal wants.

[@larrylindsey2833]

Unfortunately there’s a lot of women out there like that.

[@matthewnelson1309]

And I get that, but I still think people are overlooking the actual problem here. He didnt object when she said multiple times that all he pays for the childern is the insurance premiums. That's at most 2000 a month for the 4 children. Now I get he makes 100,000 a year less then she does, and if I herd correctly he Makes 80,000-100,000 annually. Now assuming this is all true, if things were fa she would be spending $4,000 a month on the childern because he spends 2,000, but she makes twice the amount he does so in all fairness she should be spending twice what he does on the kids.. From what she said she pays for private schooling for the kids (I'd bet it's a high end school, I'm assuming that baised off her demeanor) so per child that's anywhere between 10,000 to 50,000/year and some are more but let's go with the lower end to stat on the safe side, So 4 children at 10,000/year comes out to $833.33 per month per kid, so 830 times 4 kids we are looking at 3,332 in total just for schooling for the kids. Now she also mentions afterschool sports and clubs, then you have clothing, school supplies, etc. So in the end shes paying way more when it comes down to it.. Also how is it a bad thing shes using her own money for a cook and housekeepers? She has a very demanding job that makes up alot of her time, and insted of coming home and cleaning she would rather come home and gave a glass of wine while being around the childern, I find that commendable. The other options here is have the childern live in a disorderly house and make microwavable dinners for themselves -or- after working a long day come home and have to cook and clean and that would lead to burn out for her. The father in this case is the ass hole who should pay more.

[@larrylindsey2833]

@@matthewnelson1309 You’re off your rocker dude I’m telling you no woman is she makes that kind of money she could pay for her kids. A man is not to be slaving for some goddamn stupid bitch like that no way man if he’s taking care of the kids he gets child support. God I hope you’re not one of those male feminist

[@may_day_jay]

@@matthewnelson1309 the mother is choosing to pay for things that aren’t necessary for the child’s care and wellbeing. she’s asking for more child support money, to care for her, not their children. she’s asking for more money to get her hair and nails done, when she could chose, if she so desperately needs her hair and nails kept up, to remove the children from private school, and all their extracurricular activities.

[@ygrittesnow1701]

@@may_day_jay Like letting go of the personal chef. That alone would cover her hair and nails. Who needs a personal chef? There are 1,000's of cooking videos right here on KZbin. And it sounds like she has the kids half the time so really she is only cooking for herself half the time. The money she saves on the personal chef she could probably get her hair and nails done and go out to dinner.

[@flyingfish7787]

“What kind of lawyer are you? Never mind.” Lol😂

[@TimMorris-ht2mh]

Where was this judge 35 years ago when I needed her.

[@RSMR7.]

Exactly, me too ❤

[@Sugarglidergirl101]

Her kids are under 18 but she literally looks like a grandma 😵‍💫

[@jtz3563]

That's typical of whites. Elderly looking by 30. That's why no one should have kids with them

[@8thst.garage144]

True

[@kathyannpardi9888]

She 🍸 🍹 🍸.

[@dianaritchie8857]

Well she can’t afford to get her hair done lol 😂

[@lisajean228]

Yeah… why was he with her? Not clear from this brief peek why he’d be interested at all

[@RaffineDebauche]

She hit her with the, “What kind of lawyer are you? Never mind.” 😂😂😂

[@Bowl427]

I love her show, but you should know that if I’m correct these are fake, that’s why during judge Judy’s shows it says “REAL PEOPLE REAL CASES” bcc judge shows are normally fake. I mean come on, an attorney not knowing the law?… goofy

[@CrownedOne919]

@@Bowl427 yeah, I was actually told the portrayals represent the real folks in these cases... these are enactments of the real case situations with real verdicts. Honestly, it makes it more fun to watch.

[@jasmineertha8351]

​@ratine6819 i read it depends on what state they are from. Because a lot of states have mediator laws where whoever is the mediator is now lawfully the judge. So if they sign a form saying that the tv judge is their mediator, it doesn't matter if the person is a real judge or not, by law the verdict is real and they have to uphold it.

[@kalijasin]

That’s absolutely the worst argument one could make for needing child support.

[@user-kq4hf8se5b]

I know a guy that met a single mom. They got married he adopted the kid when it was a baby. They were married a few years. Now divorced, the guy is paying child support until the kid turns 21.

[@rl3293]

He should since legally that is his child.

[@streetsofgold100]

i love it when justice is FINALLY served and the man does not get robbed

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

So glad Judge Vonda saw right through this lady!!! I loved it when she told mom that SHE has to pay HIM support!!! Well THAT WORKED, didn't it???😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@greenhornet8557]

Never seen a vid from this channel before....but what a find! Great vid. Even better ending 💯🏆 This women is a vile money grabbing creature

[@adambaumeister2376]

Now if only this were real court

[@marcuselvard5922]

@@adambaumeister2376 For real ? So they are all actors?

[@cwolf3767]

you guys really cant think past whats being said. let me make this a little easier for you. say we are friends and we decide to go see a show where tickets are $150 each so to make it easier I buy the two tickets. I go to you a week later and want to go on a date with my husband so i say "hey Ive got no money for my date tonight do you have that $150." you say "I dont have to pay for your date!" Thats kind of how this is going. its not about what she wants to buy its the fact hes not paying anything. also shes making 170,000 a year and she should be able to do all those extras, i bet hes paying for BS that she couldnt

[@tommylarson7219]

Being an attorney you would think she would be smart enough not to ask for massage or hair money.

[@Singlebingle928]

You’d think 🤣🤣🤣 but she’s up here SHAMELESS 🤣😮‍💨😩🤢

[@izzyortiz503]

Apparently, she doesn't practice family law 🤣

[@tigresmom5654]

My thoughts exactly

[@starlightequestrian6729]

That's what I thought too

[@rushfan9thcmd]

Yep. Having an "education" isnt the same as intelligence or common sense.

[@bakerteacher2905]

She's the most embarrassing example of a mother I've ever heard.

[@rayelee1301]

She's not chasing child support money...she told you what she wants money for and didnt mention the kids once

[@nickmontoya3001]

Shes an attorney and yet she's not even thinking "Maybe I shouldn't put MY NEEDS as my main case in child support case"

[@michaelplunkett8059]

Child support is for child, NOT delusional, nacissist pampering.

[@user-kl5df7jo4w]

That's why she thinks like that

[@leeoshea2290]

have you ever met a lawyer/attorney who isn't totally focused on themselves? greed knows no limits

[@MrsJohnson2009]

She had a drink or two before court. 😂😂😂She looks like she wants to cry at the end😂😂😂

[@benrussell-gough1201]

Entitlement is an ugly thing and it messes with your thinking and sense of priorities.

[@bionicmaleficent]

I never saw a penny of the child support my dad sent... it all went to my egg donors habits of drinking, weed & going out partying every weekend. 🤷🏽‍♀️ The best part is I no longer have any communication with egg donor & only talk to my dad!! ETA to clear a few things up for the comment section: 1. Thanks for the support & hugs to those who have dealt with the same. 2. My egg donor worked AND received child support while my grandparents raised me WITHOUT her giving them a dime. 3. At the point I did finally go to live with the bitch, she not only had a "daddy of the weekend" around, but intentionally kept me away from my dad. 3. I was brainwashed by her to believe my dad abused me, didn't love me or want to be around me. 🤷🏽‍♀️ 4. She married a pedo when I was 9, but still made me believe that my dad & step mom were worse than my home life. 5. I started working at 12 & buying most of what I "needed". Clothing, girl essentials (including deodorant, shampoo, soap, etc). 6. By the time I was 16, I rarely stayed at the "house" some of you seem to say that is what the CHILD support goes towards. WRONG!! She is to provide that regardless of CHILD support... as well as food, although I paid for my own & most nights had to bring home food that was taken off MY paycheck. Read that again. 7. I was 21 when I FINALLY reunited with my dad & found out the truth, not only from him but her family members as well. 8. He DID try to get custody of me when I was 3 months shy of turning 12. She was suing him for MORE CHILD support, however the judge wouldn't let me into the courtroom bc I wasn't 12 yet. So she got more money & he got nothing. I would have told the judge what I was dealing with, but he never spoke to me. 13. I'm grown & have a grown child. I divorced his dad when our son was 5, but we ALWAYS made sure he was provided for physically, emotionally & financially. I NEVER asked for child support or spousal support & we had 50/50 custody & worked together as a team for all holidays, including spending some together with our S.O.'s. I learned there is NO amount of money worth my child's wellbeing. I made my own money & did well, as did his dad. And last, but not least... for those who have never had to experience this level of selfishness or greed, you'll never fully understand. The child support goes for the child's expenses. Period, end of discussion. Housing & food is NOT factored in, as that is the parent's responsibility. For those that think this statement is wrong... maybe don't have kids. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ kids are NOT your money makers, that's what a job is for. If you're not ready to make this level of commitment, don't have kids. YOU need housing & food, what's the difference of adding a child? That support is for THEM... NOT for you to live in a bigger house bc you can't afford it on your salary. NOT for you to eat out every night bc you don't feel like cooking or bc your salary can't afford going out. It's for the fucking CHILD!!! For clothes, shoes, school lunches, all supplies, glasses, medical, dental & any extra expenses the CHILD needs...NOT what YOU need!! Hope this helps clear a few things up.

[@TheDeviIDogg]

Technically child support is to support the child so in the eyes of the law if you had a roof, food, and clothes then the child support was used for support. But my mom was similar, used the child support for herself and things she wanted instead of things we needed

[@allieblovesyou]

Okay this show isn’t real

[@lilpenguin092]

Ha! Egg donor xD

[@TheDeviIDogg]

@Julio Aragão I guarantee 99% of child support doesn't 100% get used on the child and I'm including house payments and bills as well

[@confusednezuko-chan]

Lmao love the nickname for the witch "egg donor."

[@ange1mom438]

I am a single mom, I’ve raised my children by myself since my third child was 2 months old and she is now 28. I never got a penny from my ex husband, I worked 2 jobs for years and had to get subsidies from income support unfortunately, however necessary. As a parent you do what you have to do and sacrifice what you have to sacrifice. My children always had food and clean clothes and a home to live in. They did extra curricular activities and all three graduated and went on to university and all are working good jobs, actually careers. I am gobsmacked at the audacity of some of the greediness of some of the women demanding unbelievable amounts for basically themselves! Every penny of child support should be spent on the children and I firmly believe that the courts should require proof that the child support payments are being spent on the children. Whether the custodial parent is mom or dad, prove the money is being spent on the child. This judge is very grounded and fair and doesn’t stand for the BS and I applaud her.

[@Paul-uv6mb]

Congratulations to raised them well but the point here is why father was leave the home,you cheat or him;

[@xfx09]

Well done judge, I bet the people at her law firm are having a laugh at this one.

[@ZING-oj6zi]

After seeing this, if they have, is she still employed at that firm? Makes you wonder. 🤔

[@mortanicus5871]

If she's an attorney she must be a crappy one because she sure as hell can't argue a case. In a weird way, it does make sense that she's broke because I can't imagine that she's successful in that line of work.

[@OofWillis]

She’s NOT an attorney. She’s an actress. Head over to Judge Vonda B’s page description. These are all staged and everyone is acting.

[@OnlyVelvetRose]

These are actors and not real cases. The story is real but are just reenacted.

[@mortanicus5871]

@@OnlyVelvetRose Oh snap! Thanks.

[@OofWillis]

@@OnlyVelvetRose they may not even be real stories according to the youtube page.

[@NoWayOut55]

INDEED!

[@MsKeebe]

My condolences to the children. Let’s hope they don’t turn out like her. There’s little or no chance she isn’t poisoning them against their fathers.

[@Marko-or1vl]

Oh they will. Who the hell are they supposed to look up to

[@paulae9579]

So you think that she should have to pay for everything for Their children while he does nothing?

[@Marko-or1vl]

@@paulae9579you are making up shit. She doesn't want to work but request even more money which just tells you that she is lazy and that she wants money for herself.

[@kain7759]

@@paulae9579 With a 100k salary difference on her favour? Yes, exaclty as i expect the guy to pay if he is the one making 100k more. It's only right that the one making more money contribute more to the childrens, in this case the difference is such that most of the costs are on her even on split custody.

[@94jerryr]

​@@paulae9579 the dad pays health insurance while making 100k less.... Way more than would be expected of a woman but sure stand up for the alcoholic to have more money for booze.

[@puckinhell622]

She has a personal chef…….where from, McDonalds!

[@sig1761]

I feel like documentation on where child support money goes should be required for everyone recieving it.

[@kevwhit7058]

She isn't a smart lawyer at all! She brought somebody to court and had to begin paying child support! I wish we saw more cases like this!💯

[@vastravax7670]

Its a fake show

[@tennesseedogpack]

@@vastravax7670like judge Judy they sign a bunch of stuff saying they will accept the ruling

[@russelldavis6405]

Being vindictive can backfire, so beware!! So glad the judge favored the father in this instance.

[@henrydaley1255]

The judge wasn’t favouring anybody! She considered the facts and delivered justice!!!

[@gingernotturno5365]

poor poor mom now she really cant afford to take care of herself

[@UK-UA22]

No way that's an attorney. God have mercy on any poor soul who puts faith into this thing.

[@midwestcharm]

She probably made him feel like he wasn't enough for years. Glad this hostage got away

[@gambitbullet]

It really is hostage, we are all here cos we have prob been in this situation! You know what it's like,mentally berated and made to feel sub parr! Fucking feel shit each and every day cos you can't have an opinion! Thank god this guy got what he deserves! Piece of mind! I don't care about money, but feeling vindicated would help me so much

[@solomonstello]

Ait.

[@Bowl427]

I love her show, but you should know that if I’m correct these are fake, that’s why during judge Judy’s shows it says “REAL PEOPLE REAL CASES” bcc judge shows are normally fake. I mean come on, an attorney not knowing the law?… goofy

[@rondadoolin7084]

I sacrificed all of my WANTS being a widow too. I cut my own hair, colored it from a box, did my own nails, & nooo massages

[@tapercandles3838]

I did the same then.. and still do. Then, I couldn't afford. Now, I just don't feel like it. I'd rather save it. ❤️

[@albino5995]

‘Your honour, I am living on the bread line, I am almost so poor that soon I will have to cook my own meals! I need helpppp!’ 🤣🤣 you certainly do need help 🙈

[@juliethomas66]

I love judge Vonda. She is so fair minded and is my new favorite judge.

[@rebeccahowman9871]

She didn't see that coming! Went to court wanting more "child support" and wound up paying her ex-husband instead! I love it!

[@johnub4]

WAIT!!!!! She’s an attorney?!! How can she not pay for her lifestyle if she is an attorney.

[@caitlinmyriah7657]

She most certainly can afford it. My husband makes only 50 some thousand a year and I still can get my hair and nails done and other things. Our kids want for nothing. So she’s definitely just trying to be greedy af!! I don’t have a maid once a week cause I’m not a lazy person and can clean my own place. Lol!!

[@starwarsovercome2798]

@@aureliana2001 it was stated that she makes $170,000 a year….

[@michaelesgro9506]

@@aureliana2001 Also, 170k a year is not exactly an exorbitant income if you have 3 kids all in private school plus another that sounds like maybe out of school? (would hate to think that child does not get the private school and other perks). It seems to me, while some of that would be deductible perhaps (with the new tax laws probably not though, simple filing with flat standard deductions) that alone could be 30 to 40 percent of her take home income (which is prob like 10-12k a month depending on who gets to claim those kids, I would imagine her (but splitting it would be fair if they are 50/50 shared time in supporting). Then throw in all of their activities. It does depend on where you live and its cost of living, but where I am in the NYC metro area, even 100k a year with a family of 5 is practically subsistence level living. That means no or FEW extras, definitely no private school, chefs, maids, vacations, and salons!!!!! Rent/mortgage alone for a family that size is anywhere from 2.5k (the very lowest end) to 4.5k a month! I don't know about you, but food alone for that many people is easily 1k a month, way more probably. Now bring in utilities, clothing, shoes, phones, internet, car payments, car insurance, etc etc uh it's a nightmare, you know. This guy cannot be living too well on 70k unless he's in the middle of Iowa or something. I spent about 5 days on a car vacation last year (did'nt fly, my own car) and have a wife and child. That vacation about 300 miles away (Wash DC area) cost well over 2k and it was not exactly luxurious. Shit is just expensive and the money pisses away.

[@shalynping]

@@caitlinmyriah7657 man when I was a teen I was making 300 a month and STILL found a way to look presentable. I always had my nails done too. This ladie a lie.

[@favidcooljay4862]

@@aureliana2001 she makes a 6 figure salary ....you women need to stop making excuses

[@debbienelson9043]

Personal needs = Alimony. Child needs = child support. You'd think an attorney would know that.

[@alb2387]

She should trade that personal chef for some healthy choice meals to save some money.

[@robertpickering5271]

You know it's strange , he shares custody makes 100k less but still manages to maintain his appearance clean and neat . She on the other hand wants someone else to do everything for her that he does for himself and his children .

[@harthart7529]

She doesn’t appear to want to do anything. #modernwoman

[@jdthegreatone2757]

And still somehow looks like a seadonkey

[@tommyhunter5558]

I think she came on the show just show her appearance and prove her case which is even more ridiculous

[@markcliffe7]

Karen fail😂

[@NourKLI]

@@harthart7529that’s not a modern woman , that’s a lazy ass woman😅.

[@JonDolmseth]

She literally thought, because she was an attorney and play off the bias of child court, she’d be able to bully her ex into paying more

[@diamondjim7560]

The judge was another woman. She saw through that and wasn’t buying it. Women are harder on other women when they see bull shit when the man is being reasonable. During jury selection on some cases, sometimes women are excluded by one side or the other depending on the sex of the parties.

[@Theintrovertednow]

I mean a lot of attorneys aren't good at what they do

[@michellewhiteman4116]

For her it's only about what she wants and ABSOLUTELY NOT about the kids

[@rustydumper]

Sacrificing? Its called being a PARENT

[@foggy460]

At last a judge with common sense. Thank you judge.

[@OofWillis]

Common sense in her fake courtroom with actors.

[@judgejenny2251]

Please! The show is fake!

[@colors6692]

"Common sense"? Applying the law!

[@iTzMrRager23]

@@judgejenny2251 its not

[@judgejenny2251]

@@iTzMrRager23 Ohhh OK! LOL!

[@jamesgennaro9679]

My ex-wife tried to get alimony while I was going to college after I worked and payed all the bills while she went to college. The judge just looked at her and said no.

[@RozettaVyper]

Don't get married or have children. Wise words from an only child raised by a single mother.

[@SonicTheDarkHedgehog]

Why would you even be married if your still in college? No offense but that sounds like a dumb thing to do.

[@lisaperry5999]

@@SonicTheDarkHedgehog been married 35 yrs..was a sophomore in college hubby went back to school we both worked together at a restaurant while in school Its not for everyone for sure but it worked for us

[@morriskurland1091]

P pass denied

[@skyblue5220]

@Zionist Jew WTF are you talking about? All families are products of a broken system, just some of them are capable of sticking together, majority are not. I'm also not going to marry anyone and have children in the future.

[@thebipolarpsychonaut4984]

The overwhelming majority of people who have kids understand a little sacrifice must be made for the benefit of the kids.

[@Chris_Ford]

One of her clients must have won a case like this and now she believes that she can do it now.

[@beverlyproudfoot583]

As a single Mom I had the cheap hair cut, worn out shoes, painted my own nails. Worked 55 hrs a week in factory, so that my hours worked with school. I was my own personal 👩‍🍳 chef. My child support put a roof over my children. This witch 🧙‍♀️ is clueless

[@fd9987]

You have lucky children. You’re an example of unconditional love. You may not be rich financially, but you are rich in so many other ways.

[@beverlyproudfoot583]

@@fd9987 Thank you! My children are exceptional men, I used to tell them when they came to my crying about their dad, you will grow up he never will🤗

[@dannii2323]

I didn't have a haircut for 3 years and dyed it myself...and nails? What are they?? haha. Women like this need a huge reality check, hopefully the extra money she now has to fork out each month will assist in that reality check in this case.... probably not though!

[@hillaryclinton2415]

You said it right, the support put a roof over THEIR heads and you are there as a caretaker....

[@nubiandoll7]

Makes sense

[@trutrek913]

The fact that the mother, who is a lawyer, showed up expecting things to go her way just proves that she knows some judges would've given her what she wanted, but she hadn't counted on Judge Vonda being fair.

[@danshotguns4226]

and her argument involves hair, nails and massages..lol. that'll work 👍

[@theuzumakis2624]

Somebody in another comment said they are all actors..

[@Bowl427]

I love her show, but you should know that if I’m correct these are fake, that’s why during judge Judy’s shows it says “REAL PEOPLE REAL CASES” bcc judge shows are normally fake. I mean come on, an attorney not knowing the law?… goofy

[@pamelaguerrero1641]

Child support is for exactly what it says, assisting in supporting the child, not massages. My hubby's ex sent us the kids with crappy clothes, worn shoes, and an intimate knowledge of every fast food restaurant's menu. Damn.

[@u.a.8700]

A lawyer should know that what she is asking for is not part of child support

[@pegitamg9716]

The sad thing is that 3 innocent children are learning that this behavior is acceptable. They will believe that they are entitled to whatever they want whenever they want it. They belong with the dad or his family. She is only a negative influence on them.

[@brooklyn_716]

I agree, they should live with their dad. Mom is a terrible influence.

[@stkyfngrszmooth]

@@brooklyn_716 And an admitted drunk.

[@allieblovesyou]

The show isn’t real. This is a dramatization

[@NICKI814]

CHILD SUPPORT IS A VOLUNTARILY SERVICE, IT'S NOT REQUIRED BY THE CONSTITION OF THE UNITED STATES OR GOVERNMENT! EVERY STATES CHILD SUPPORT SITE, READ IT IS A PUBLIC "SERVICE" CONTRACTED WITH A 3RD PARTY, MEANING, THE GOVERNMENT/STATE CHILD SUPPORT AGENCY AND WHOEVER IS DUMB TO SIGN THEIR FREEDOM AND FUTURE AWAY WHICH THEY MANIPULATE AND THREATEN YOU , TO SIGN THE GOVERNMENT PROMISES TO GIVE AIDE TO THOSE WHO APPLY. IT'S A SCAM AND A PIECE OF THE PIE FOR THE GOVERNMENT TO GET IT. THAT'S WHY THEY GET INTEREST. IT'S A LOAN AND THE NONCUSTODIAL PARENT HAS TO PAY BACK. CHILD SUPPORT IS SEXIST AS WELL. MEANING, THEY SAY THE PERSON "IS A DEAD BEAT" YET, THERE ARE BOTH GENDERS THAT CAN'T AFFORD TO PAY, DUE TO SO MANY LEGIT CIRCUMSTANCES. I AM 42 MALE AND OWE $25K ON MY DAUGHTER WHO IS 19 AND ONLY BORN BECAUSE HER MOM TOOK THE CON DOM OUT OF TRASH AND PUT IT UP IN HER AND GOT PREGNANT.WHEN SHE WAS BORN, HER MOM, GRANDMOTHER AND TWO UNCLES ARE A HERD AND MOVED ALL OVER HERE IN KANSAS, MISSOURI AND ARKANSAS JUST TO MAKE SURE THEY DON'T LET ME HAVE CUSTODY AND GET PAID YEARLY TAX REFUNDS. I AM HEREIN KANSAS, AND THE JUDGE ASKED HER ABOUT IT, AND SHE FREELY ADMITTED IT, AND I MADE IT CLEAR I DID MY PART TO KEEP FROM HAVING A CHILD. YET, I OWE $25! UNTIL TODAY. UNTIL THAT'S PAID, I HAVE NOT EVER HAD A PASSPORT, CAR, HOUSE, BANK ACCOUNT, TAX REFUNDS, ANY LICENSES OF ANY SORT, FISHING, DRIVING, HUNTING, RECREATIONAL! CHILD SUPPORT IS A SCAM! PLAIN AND SIMPLE! I WAS 20 WHEN THE COURTS THREATENED ME IF I DON'T SIGN THE 3RD PARTY CONTRACT, I'LL GO TO JAIL ETC. I HAD NO LAWYER, I HAD NO REPRESENATION, I DIDN'T KNOW MY RIGHTS.

[@judgejenny2251]

The show is FAKE! Look it up.

[@tarahoyt7152]

She should be required to show receipts how she spends the child support

[@bissetttom1738]

aggreed, that should be the rule.

[@jessicajimenez986]

She doesn't get any child support money from him because she makes more money than he does, hence there are no receipts to show. He contributes by paying for the kids health insurance. She actually went to court to ask for child support money from him, but it backfired: the judge said that she has to pay child support to him because they have the kids 50/50, and he also has another child (not with her) that he has to support.

[@HawksDiesel]

Shouldn't that be the rule anyways?!

[@stephenblack3647]

What makes matters worse is the lady is an attorney.

[@stevengrutzmacher]

My ex-wife accused me of incest with our daughter. I tearfully asked her why she would ever say such a vile and sinful lie like that. She said she signed whatever papers her lawyer gave her, she NEVER read them.

[@awesomeness7117]

I would be scared if I had her as a attorney

[@starwarsovercome2798]

This judge is so great i’ve seen her in a lot of other cases and she’s very real and will never hold back, and completely unbiased

[@halleyb9359]

Lol they're all acting though. If you look on the page you can see.

[@starwarsovercome2798]

@@halleyb9359 yeah you’re right i never looked at the about page

[@marvolom787]

Except she is not a real judge, she even advertise her business as attorney at the end of episodes

[@starwarsovercome2798]

@@marvolom787 if you read the replies you could see i already addressed this.

[@jeffersonott4357]

Finally! It’s been so frustrating to scroll the comments on these videos, and NO one ever seems to understand they are actors. 1 minute of research.

[@oscarcorrea4018]

Split custody. Sounds like he's really losing more of the lifestyle he was accustomed to than she is lol.

[@masterofdiamonds63]

She should have made the argument, "well, yeah, I make 100k more for now, but as you can tell by my ability as a lawyer, I'm in danger of losing my job at any moment."

[@Advic77]

A teaching moment for all she said "I don't have money like I used to when we were living together" its called being married. And it provides financial freedom to some sort.

[@davidsantacarla]

I’m single and calling my attorney now for a fuggin’ prenup!

[@kyote1089]

🤣☠️🤣

[@Jane-yg3vz]

Where I'm from, common law marriage, by living with eachother for two years, is as legally binding as a legal marriage. A prenup is meaningless in that situation. No matter what someone has in their will, the spouse automatically gets everything when the other dies.

[@davidsantacarla]

@@Jane-yg3vz You must live in a pretty stupid place, Jane. Is it Canada?

[@dannutefall5150]

Prenuptials are useless. Because she can just say that she signed it under duress even though if you video taped it and everything else. Then it's null and void and you still get fucked.

[@mushmouf1400]

That would work for alimony. Can't dodge child support if it comes at ya

[@gregorystumpf2593]

Whoever gets the child support money should be required to show where every dollar goes

[@noniousxltruffles7454]

EVERY judge - wherever their family court - should be made to watch this judge and LEARN from her 👍😁

[@johnsmith-ik8il]

20 seconds into the video and SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS!!!

[@fredware1324]

This is why we need a debit card system for child support. The mother or father can use the debit card to specifically buy things for the child, Clothing, school supplies, sports, toys, food, etc. If the mother or father has an accounting on a debit card of what is being bought with child support money, a record exists to determine if more child support is needed. Keep this in mind, the custodial parent is still supposed to supply a “bedroom” for the child. The other parent paying child support is not supposed to have their money used to support the child’s custodial parent.

[@wilmingtonsown9934]

Delaware has it for the last 3 years you can’t use it for certain things such as alcohol , etc

[@beffis1980]

This lady is insane! Smart enough to pass law school, but not smart enough to fool this judge!

[@mikec6678]

That was AWESOME!!! It's about time a judge sided with the father in family court especially when the mother is just being greedy and the money she's seeking is for her NOT her kids

[@williepearl278]

After I heard that they share the kids 50/50 and that she made more I knew she wasn’t about to give that woman any child support. A lot of women think it should be given to them regardless of custody and income.

[@dmo848]

Lol I love it

[@toriladybird511]

@@williepearl278 absolutely FAIR children deserve parity..

[@williepearl278]

@@toriladybird511 I absolutely agree. That’s why I think it’s silly for a women to expect money just because society has made it a normality for single moms to get child support. There’s so much more that goes into it than just being a single mom.

[@Bowl427]

I love her show, but you should know that if I’m correct these are fake, that’s why during judge Judy’s shows it says “REAL PEOPLE REAL CASES” bcc judge shows are normally fake. I mean come on, an attorney not knowing the law?… goofy

[@Quackycat]

I was a single parent and successfully raised 3 beautiful children to become great adults. I worked as a caretaker to a wonderful woman and I had to supplement my income by cleaning 3 houses because I only received 125 per week in child support, and that was after I took him to court to fight to get him to actually pay. I’d like to see her try to get along with that amount of income. We made it and my children are grown and happy, responsible adults.

[@lovelife7343]

Yep been in the same situation . I currently receive a whopping $42 a week for 2 children. Well I should say when I receive it. I've learned to provide for my kids on my income and when I do receive the child support I give it to my kids to go out to the movies or eat out on.

[@cameron3991]

It's your JOB to take care of your kids. It's YOUR responsibility the parent that wants soul custody should bare the financial burden of taking care of the kids people always cry about how much they get monthly give custody to the other parent I'd rather have my kids then receive child support. You are both responsible for taking care of the kids people are just greedy and you waste money on lawyers and going though a court battle and the 5000-10000 you both spend could be used on the child instead of acting like adults and coming to a mutual agreement that is best for the children. 1 child is a minimum og 3600$ on taxes usually parents get 6-8k for 1 kid I have friends with 2 that get 10k 3 kids that get 12k-14k. That's a five hundred to a thousand dollars a month. Nobody takes the children into consideration it's me me me, I had to work this hard to support me and my kids yeah your an adult that decided to break up or get a divorce then spent money on a lawyer to full custody then you whine about how hard it is or that you work 3 jobs. What do you expect. I'm a single dad with 2 kids I didn't ask for a dime of child support we didn't have to waste money and go to court it's not hard to come to a mutual agreement that benefits the children and not yourselfs

[@cameron3991]

​@@lovelife7343It's your JOB to take care of your kids. It's YOUR responsibility the parent that wants soul custody should bare the financial burden of taking care of the kids people always cry about how much they get monthly give custody to the other parent I'd rather have my kids then receive child support. You are both responsible for taking care of the kids people are just greedy and you waste money on lawyers and going though a court battle and the 5000-10000 you both spend could be used on the child instead of acting like adults and coming to a mutual agreement that is best for the children. 1 child is a minimum og 3600$ on taxes usually parents get 6-8k for 1 kid I have friends with 2 that get 10k 3 kids that get 12k-14k. That's a five hundred to a thousand dollars a month. Nobody takes the children into consideration it's me me me, I had to work this hard to support me and my kids yeah your an adult that decided to break up or get a divorce then spent money on a lawyer to full custody then you whine about how hard it is or that you work 3 jobs. What do you expect. I'm a single dad with 2 kids I didn't ask for a dime of child support we didn't have to waste money and go to court it's not hard to come to a mutual agreement that benefits the children and not yourselfs

[@lovelife7343]

@@cameron3991 wow a little angry I'd say. You know nothing of other people's circumstances . I have a special needs child . While raising him I had a $6750 medical deductible before one penny was paid each year along with $200 a month in therapy and special dietary needs . No help from the government. All I asked for in court was for their father to see them and work more than 14 hours a week. He gave up his job as a plant manager so he wouldn't have to pay child support or medical insurance and the state allowed it. Everyone needs to take accountability for the children that are brought into this world .

[@StanWatt.]

Lawyers normally make a shit ton of money, but the father should be paying something too.

[@marksweet4077]

I know a greedy mom who used her child support to throw extravagant parties and go on expensive trips. She went after her ex for an increase and ended losing primary custody. She was so greedy that she gave the kids up 100% so she wouldn’t have to pay her ex any child support. Now she wonders why her grown, adult children want nothing to do with her

[@nachobusiness2050]

Thats how the old saying goes "dont make a bad situation worse" woman was trying to be greedy and ended up gettin the bad end of this situation 😂😂 all she had to do was shut up and take the child support she was getting

[@mergrew0110]

This wasn’t about money, it was a failed power play. She was trying to exert dominance, and happily the judge saw through her. On the side, she should ask for a refund from the beauty salon, they ripped her off.

[@Meanoldwoman2013]

There isn't much they could do with the raw materials. Good Lord.

[@LynneVarvell-mz4xq]

🤣

[@joesmith1574]

There goes her personal chef, and her drinking. That money is going to him. The way she uses the kids to get more money from him is disgusting.

[@KennySmith_AKA_JerseyKid]

I’m so very grateful for several reasons why the court awarded me sole custody of our one child. The mother was abusive towards our child since birth. Various medications over the years either failed or made me woman worse. Second time and last time in court after I was given custody we were asked if we had anything else to say. The child’s mother then asked if I could pay her support. A good thing for her was she gets SSI income from the government. By the way she only got 8 hours supervised visit lol per YEAR

[@marypevitt174]

I'm a mother and I'm so glad the father had it go his way , hope that greedy woman learns to put her children 1st

[@stripedtigress]

Sounds like the mother is the only one putting the children first. SHE is the one who is putting all her money into the support of her children while her ex husband is paying only for health insurance. She deserves to be able to do her hair and nails and her children's father deserves to pay support for HIS kids regardless of the difference in income. So now, not only is she solely responsible for supporting her children she is to pay HIM child support? BS. I like this show and this judge but this time she got it wrong.

[@Burtlocker]

@@stripedtigress Did you notice the income question? Judge was right, if you earn that much and still can't afford to raise your kid, you're a bad parent.

[@stripedtigress]

@@Burtlocker It has nothing to do with her earnings vs his. He is the father and his child support should be based on his income not hers. His inability to gain employment on her level is not get fault and shouldn't be used against her.

[@Burtlocker]

@@stripedtigress Greed should be held against her, which is what happened. His position has nothing to do with her actions. Being entitled does not make it a fact.

[@stripedtigress]

@@Burtlocker So, the mom has split custody and pays for EVERYTHING for her kid: clothing, food, school, after school activities, housing, water, electricity, toys etc. Everything but healthcare, which is ALL the dad pays for. But you think she's greedy because she wants to have some money left over for herself? The dad pays for health insurance. That's it. And the moms the greedy one?

[@tonymckenzie8460]

I wish there was more judges like her around

[@gavinlamp5426]

"I'm used to a certain lifestyle" Well so was I, then reality hit me in the face, and I had to grow up and deal with it.

[@OttoErotic69]

One of my champagne dreams was always to have a private chef. This woman is in la la land

[@daveblackman816]

Tell me this isn’t real. It can’t be. They have to be actors

[@halleyb9359]

Yep lol they are

[@joannjones1458]

They are actors but I believe it's based on real cases.

[@TeddGCM]

She's looking for Alimony, which is a thing, but isn't for a child support judge to decide.

[@tylergray7122]

Even if she was in front of an actual judge to decide alimony, I'm pretty sure she'd still have a hard time getting it given the fact she makes 100k more than he does tho

[@rayelee1301]

its all a scam

[@thundershadow]

No matter how smart (you think) you are... everyone has a blind spot.

[@RegDaProdigy]

$6500+ paychecks. Cut that drinking out and private chef/maid services and get it together.

[@MasterKenfucius]

She sounds like one of those mothers driving BMWs and getting together with other mothers to drink wine and talk about how difficult their lives are. The entitlement on this nincompoop is off the charts. She has NO CLUE.

[@drewisours]

I always chuckle when I hear the word nincompoop 😊

[@MasterKenfucius]

@@drewisours I have to use that. KZbin has become so asinine that you don't know what you can and cannot say! I get notices about comments being removed for not adhering with their rules, but they don't say which comment or how you broke that rule, so it's useless, and yet, they don't get it. So I have to use silly words like that instead because I don't know if that particular channel cranked up their comment censorship. It has become an absolute nightmare to comment on this platform.

[@shellchenonceau6987]

She is probably merely taking him court out of revenge, not out of true need.

[@mushmouf1400]

Said same. She don't like the new girlfriend the kids prolly love

[@dougamundson6836]

I was/am a single father. Anoka County of Minnesota was incredibly fair to me. I received full custody and my (alcoholic) ex-wife was ordered to pay child support (she didn't). I couldn't have been more pleased with the court or the judge.

[@bikerkat01]

OMG! what a narcissist. I got child support, but I was working a full time job and coaching soccer (as a volunteer). I did not get my nails "done" nor did I get my hair cut at a salon with regularity. I worked to pay the bills, the child support was for my daughter's After school care and anything she needed for school.

[@ebonymarieblack1530]

Shit like this pisses me off...this woman wanting tons of money for HER needs. Being a parent means sacrificing your wants/needs over the good of the child. My ex literally pays me a whopping $50 a month (court ordered) and even working full time I still need help through the government. Some men get screwed over financially by woman like this who just want the money for greedy reasons while mothers or fathers who genuinely need the help of child support get smacked in the face by a judge who thinks $50 a month is enough. Our system is so ass backwards sometimes that it's infuriating.

[@ashtonyukio8761]

Hoping things get better for you and your family ❤

[@darkpisces8125]

The show ia fake.

[@beverlyjohnson6648]

I agree “Life is like a box ( nuts 🌰 ) when you are chocolate, you Never 👎🏽 know what you are gonna get!!! I’m grown now and I see what lies, prejudice, mental illness and mis education 👀 looks like. Shout out to Xeno dude THANK YOU 🙏🏽 and Yes I am keeping it SEXY 🫶🏽 big ups 👊🏾 Hang in there Sis, your time will come !

[@beverlyjohnson6648]

Or what’s done in the Dark will come to the light 💡

[@ebonymarieblack1530]

@@darkpisces8125 This show might be fake but cases like this do actually exist. Real people are effected by the way our court system is broken and it needs to change.

[@joelgasparich64]

All I knew was that I wouldn't want her to be my attorney if that's how ignorant she is

[@stevenhancock301]

That backfired so good. She wanted money from him and now she has to pay him. lol. Karma.

[@therealcoachryan]

6:43 “What kinda lawyer are you, never mind!” lmao

[@kcindc5539]

So Mom went in expecting to come out with MORE money from her ex husband, and instead she ends up having to PAY HIM $1533 per month. I love it.

[@Bowl427]

I love her show, but you should know that if I’m correct these are fake, that’s why during judge Judy’s shows it says “REAL PEOPLE REAL CASES” bcc judge shows are normally fake. I mean come on, an attorney not knowing the law?… goofy