I Didn't Get Closure | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers

[@msaverielle]

Sometimes we looking for closure but God ended that.

[@chanel.cc14]

I see you being intentional .. I’m so proud of you

[@msaverielle]

@ Thank you.

[@estherouedraogo1449]

Keep being Intetional guys, I love you❤❤❤, keep trying

[@chrisparker6249]

My spirit needed this. Never letting go of my past reminds God that I'm never ready for my present and future.

[@Samonereneee]

I see you being intentional I’m so so proud

[@chrisparker6249]

@@Samonereneee Thank you, this message hit home💞💗

[@hellothere8347]

@@Samonereneee I see you being intentional I’m so proud of you

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Im So proud of you for being intentional ❤

[@nikkyshamz2696]

​@@Samonereneee Im So proud of you for being intentional ❤

[@nakazybamusiimenta]

1. Desired closure prolongs grief. 2. Needing closure causes us to think with conditions. 3. Some closures are casued by God. 4. Your destiny is never tied to what's left 5. Waiting for an apology that is never going to arrive will keep you in a place you will never depart; emotionally, physically, spiritually. 6. God needs us to heal without the wounds rewording it. 7. God just doesn't order our steps but also orders our stops. 8. Our revenge is healing vengeance is the LORD's

[@nakazybamusiimenta]

9. Knowing where you are called is going to be revealed by reciprocity. 10. Everyone is not your assignment. 11. Staying in a place your not received is wasting time. 12. Closure comes internally & vertically.

[@estherouedraogo1449]

I’m proud of u, respect the closures and stay with God, ❤❤love u

[@Vivi-ex4jb]

Heavy on “they said they’ll never do you like that, but they do you like that with a remix “ 😤🤣

[@briannacollie2742]

I’m proud of us for seeking help❤

[@loridavis9690]

I see u being intentional, I’m so proud of you!

[@nikkyshamz2696]

​@Lori Davis Im So proud of you for being intentional ❤

[@MsNieshaBean]

I see you being intentional! I'm so proud of you 🫂

[@oniyastudios9911]

I'M PROUD OF YOU BEING INTENTIONAL

[@Jamsway]

I’m so proud of you for being intentional!! God has only grate things for you

[@Danishaa777]

i feel so late . im 26 and it took repeated trauma for me to get to this point where i realize im apart of the problem . i need to heal . once i heal i know im going to be a force to be reckoned with . i dont care for revenge believe it or not i still love them ; but i admit we are no longer good for each other . the heal version of me will not tolerate the things i have in the pass . i forgive myself and i forgive them . Nothing happens to us without God giving approval . Amen to this message !

[@estherouedraogo1449]

Amen, keep going, Heal, heal you deserve it, even if you don’t think like so

[@AS-vk4kf]

It is better, She left, but I have never been closer to God than I am right now. Thank you for leaving and letting me know my Jesus. Stay blessed.

[@johndunkentell3388]

When I told my therapist I don’t need the “why?” She looked confused but after I told her I have 2 options, Go upstairs and cry hope I get the why or I can move forward with my life and allow GOD to heal my heart without ever knowing why. She seemed even more confused until I asked her “how do you get the why?” Pastor Flower sermons and therapy Thursday are helping through a very difficult time. But I have developed the deepest connection with GOD during this time. Anybody going through something turn to GOD allow him to heal you properly.

[@veronicat.3422]

Amennn. Proud of you! I pray God continues to heal you and that your relationship with God continues to grow stronger in Jesus name!

[@msaprilj]

"God orders my steps and my severing." Wow! This makes me so grateful for the relationships that ended but left me wondering why. Now I know. 🙌

[@yahkar]

🙏🏾💯 This is a good lesson because when you don't get closure God is allowing a clean break. We as God's Children are made to have a heart of understanding and care. Because of this God has this method of Non Closure so there is no pathway back to your heart when He wants you to heal. Always a Blessing @REDEFINED TV 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@jennahope4353]

I see you being intentional. I am proud of you 🙏🏼

[@Beredefined]

Thank you for the constant support brother

[@brownettataylor1053]

Thank you for this message,because my friend died suddenly and I never got closure I've been in a depression hopefully listening to your message will help me heal

[@zeke9073]

​@@brownettataylor1053 I'm so sorry 😢 I'll be in prayer 🙏

[@nikkyshamz2696]

​@@brownettataylor1053 ♥️🙏🏾

[@songofsolomon03]

I reaped what I sowed. I was not loyal to the Lord when I joined myself with the devil. ( an unbeliever). Lesson learned!! I mean what's to be expected?? You play with fire, you get burned. Thankful and so grateful for the experience though it has strengthened me in many ways. It was necessary for me. God knows exactly what we need and when we need it. He knows I bet it never happens again! Now me and the Lord can laugh about it!! Even though He was dead serious on it all. So blessed for the correction out of God's love for me.❤❤Thank you Father God.

[@jpage1331]

I’ve never had closure my entire life.. only thing I know is suck it up buttercup.. no one cares about your tears.. or your feelings.. one thing I know is ain’t noone coming back to care to give closure.. if they didn’t care to keep you from needing closure.. they dang sure ain’t thinking about you needing closure.. that’s 💯‼️ God has always been my closure throughout life.. only thing ever proved 💯 in my life ‼️

[@NeNe4738]

When I say this is a LIFE CHANGING WORD! I honestly can’t articulate how freeing this message is! My Lord! Wow! Wow! Wow!

[@kingdomtalk3264]

2023 Is a year of healing for me🙏🏽

[@amore.s]

Father give me the faith to not only trust your stops, but to also trust your severing. Such a timely word. Praise God.

[@kaithesinger6978]

I’m so proud of you for being intentional ❤️❤️

[@nikkyshamz2696]

​@@kaithesinger6978 I'm proud of you for being intentional ❤

[@latoyasmith8022]

Im proud of you being intentional

[@thatstashiee2013]

I see you being intentional I’m proud of you 💕💕

[@ohthatsH3R]

i’m proud of you for being intentional

[@ladygrace1111]

It might not make sense on Friday, but 3 days later, it’ll all make sense!!! And THAT is a shouting word! My God, My God! This blessed my heart! 🙏

[@UnraveledwithJoy]

I'm so proud of you for being intentional

[@newenglandtoffee9190]

RECIPROCITY HAPPENS IN CALLED PLACES🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@rochellej278]

I'm so proud of you for being intentional!!!

[@nicoleboyce]

AMEN 🙌❤🎉

[@kelaroberson]

Bitterness just contaminates the container 🎯🗣

[@aleciawilliams1304]

Heal my heart Lord, I am tied to details. Perfectionism takes over at times. Give me the fortitude to let go of my thoughts for I will surrender my all, my worries, my struggle, this circumstance to you. Lord fill this void in my heart and replace it with your love , your grace and your compassion. Cover my children from demonic spirits that lingers from past experiences. Your will your way, In Jesus Name Amen

[@briannashelton4606]

I see you being intentional! Im so proud of you🥳🤗

[@gwynethhobson9740]

Lack of closure will cause us to stand in the rubble of what was unsaid. So powerful

[@latoniahall6421]

AMEN, GIVE ME THE FAITH TO FORGIVE, & ALLOW YOU TO DO THE MENDING, & MOLDING! I BELIEVE, & RECEIVE THIS MESSAGE IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@rochelle903]

Pastor Flowers this word was right on time 🥺 my heart hurts so bad but this is a reminder to get out of God's way and be obedient.

[@MyaChantelle]

I’m so proud of you for being intentional.

[@shaunh1939]

May God guide your path… because His plan for you is better than anything you can plan for yourself!

[@kalelahardin9569]

I see you being intentional!!! I Am So Proud Of You

[@hislilsister]

All of the wisdom that I have now, is better than who left 💨

[@68cookie86]

I didnt ger closure, now I feel as if I dont know my worth. Ive come so far, and now I'm having a moment.

[@ebonymarie8614]

“If it was good for your destiny, if you needed it, it would still be here” ooooh wee that hit my soul.

[@kekemarie8841]

FATHER, GIVE ME THE FAITH TO NOT ONLY TRUST YOUR STOPS, BUT TO TRUST YOUR SEVERING. IN JESUS NAME, AMEN.

[@latunyahall7706]

This had me crying all the way to work this morning 🙏🏾🙏🏾Lord thank You for confirmation

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Im So proud of you for being intentional ❤

[@ladennayoung2939]

I pray your strength in the Lord in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ of NAZARETH. The name above ALL names. AMEN.

[@Iamlonndanicole]

This Word has convicted. I will give closure to those I have hurt. I don’t want others to hurt.

[@Beredefined]

I’m proud of you, that’s maturity

[@MimiRose26111]

Amazing closure Pastor Jerry!!!!!! May God, continue to bless you on your ministry to save souls in the name of Jesus! I pray that you will never change as your church gets bigger and I hope that you remain humble on what God has done for you in the past. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

[@TenaciousB20]

I needed to hear this bc I struggle with not having closure in all forms of relationships not just romantically God bless you Pastor flowers.

[@RM-qk8ku]

FATHER GIVE ME THE FAITH TO NOT ONLY TRSUT YOUR STOPS BUT TO TRUST YOUR SEVERING

[@balloonsbyflorallyyours3998]

The WISDOM IN THIS EPISODE!!! Whew😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

[@Ljc316]

Bless you brother Jerry! “Sometimes the wrong people teach you the right lessons” that is insightful. You are full of insight and the Creator God is using you in a mighty way. FATHER GIVE ME THE FAITH TO TRUST YOUR SEVERING, AMEN and AMEN

[@elisalittle8223]

“Untreated wounds lead to infections and infections spread” Whew, I felt this 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@jope1040]

I’m so proud of you for being intentional

[@Godprovides369]

Father give me the faith to not only trust your stops but to trust your severances to

[@tina6069]

FATHER, GIVE ME THE FAITH TO NOT ONLY TRUST YOUR STOPS, BUT TO TRUST YOUR SEVERING!!

[@SydnificantMe]

I see you being intentional, I'm proud of you!

[@danielleashley4844]

Such a life-changing word. Very much needed for me to hear today. Thank you so much 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😩😩😩🥲🥲🥲

[@chloelageaux769]

I just endured this season! I'm still dealing with the ramifications, but God has shown me soooo much grace! I no longer want an apology because I'm not sure that it would be sincere anyway. Also, God's word says that we have to forgive them anyway. Honestly, I need God more than anger and bitterness!

[@sophiacaress]

I'm so elated for you being intentional

[@UniqueFrenchy7]

Wow. Reciprocity happens in called places. MY GOD!

[@sherrymi3588]

I serve and wash feet for a living, Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah

[@jackiabranch7425]

Thank you Pastor.Lord I pray that I heal.I pray that I leave the past behind. I pray that I heal my wounds.

[@tracynicole2155]

Jesus sat in front of me for 40minutes today and spoke directly to me through this message! 🗣️EVERY WORD!!!!!!!!!!

[@latuaho3423]

This is such a WORDDDD!!! “Dust ya feet off” phewwwww…🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 praise HIS nameeeeee sheeeeesh 😭😭😭😭 THANK YOU LORD THANK YOU LORD

[@janeg1575]

My fourth time around- listening to this on repeat as I heal from a relationship that ended unexpectedly, but that I know that after listening to this is confirmation it was God. 🙏🏻

[@pinkteeolopeng1508]

I didn’t get closure... 😭 but it already feels like a session with God in a Therapy room.Thank you Pastor Fowers.

[@GodMade1012]

Desired closures prolong GRIEF.

[@meggyeggypoo]

My God, what a good word and nurturing word. The why belongs to God. Thank you, Father, for covering me and keeping me. Thank you for divinely protecting me from what I can't see or hear. You love me, and I trust You. The why is yours God ❤

[@janeg1575]

Amen 🙏🏻

[@kaylamiller8531]

Father give me the faith not only to trust your stops but to trust your severing!!!

[@kgirl2079]

FATHER GIVE ME THE FAITH TO NOT ONLY TRUST YOUR STOPS BUT TO TRUST YOUR SEVERING 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🤎

[@vondaedonaldson4637]

Whew 😖🙏🏾🥴 nothing but the TRUTH! Thank you I needed this. This closure thing is real

[@meekmeek8198]

2017-19 were most definitely character building years for me and that betrayal after betrayal was no joke! It was too much but I got through it and grew a lot from those trying years. Praise GOD!

[@juliemcdaniel499]

FATHER GIVE ME THE FAITH 2 NOT ONLY TRUST UR STOPS, BUT 2 TRUST UR SEVERING IN JESUS NAME AMEN.

[@Iamlonndanicole]

It’s hurts when I caused the closing credits…😢 Jesus lesson learned

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Im So proud of you for being intentional ❤

[@nicoleboyce]

Ive been the one that has been searching my past trying to put the puzzle together and find tge why.... thank you for this word it's powerful AND much needed. This blessed me richly ❤

[@ovstar625]

I received the healing. I pray you cut these ties from 2018. I pray and I command to receive the healing and I pray lord to trust you. And be filled up by you. I believe 2023 is my year of deliverance and healing. Amen

[@samanthajernigan8033]

Amen. God thank you for confirmation!!! Give me the faith to not only trusts your stops but your severance as well. I know you make no mistakes. Give me the courage to move forward in a way and down the path you will have me to go🙏🏾!!!

[@sondrabass5942]

I didn’t get closure & suffered way tooooo long in a state of grief, depression, anxiety of WHY? This Therapy Thursday is helping me move forward even more in freedom! Thank you Lord for your messenger, continue to bless, protect, shield, build, strengthen, pour your power & direction as well as instruction to. & through in the mighty & matchless name of JESUS, Amen. ❤👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@romokeodewenwa7936]

I’m so proud of you for being intentional ❤

[@theegiftofgabb]

I always struggle with needing closure from situations so this was much needed. Thank you❤️

[@lynnlamont8942]

IT IS BETTER

[@joyceervin840]

Father give me the faith to trust your stops and your severing

[@pinkteeolopeng1508]

FATHER GIVE ME THE FAITH TO NOT ONLY TRUST YOUR STOPS. UT TO TRUST YOUR SEVERING IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME...

[@Ruth-zha]

Its 2024 but God Would You Heal me just like you Heal him

[@msaverielle]

You may not like how that went but your devotional life is BETTER.❤

[@sharifalabodie3754]

FATHER GIVE ME THE FAITH TO NOT ONLY TRUST YOUR STOPS BUT ALSO YOUR SEVERINGS

[@emil.hrisstov]

IT’S BETTER!

[@mphohadebe8301]

FATHER GIVE THE FAITH TO NOT ONLY TRUST YOUR STOPS BUT TO TRUST YOUR SEVERING 🙏

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Im So proud of you for being intentional ❤

[@trinity6674]

So proud of you!

[@tromtacular]

Thank you. Now I will leave the city I am in and quit being a single Dad to my three children and leave it all up to my ex’ who never gave me closure. It’s not ‘revenge’. It’s ‘dusting off my feet’. No… I won’t. Sometimes it’s just a gruelling journey. Your pain may be so deep, you may wake up in the morning already sobbing. So cry; Pray & get up and spread God’s Word and His love with the new awareness and empathy/compassion now that you KNOW other people are suffering. Let your heartbreak lead you to gentleness. Work for your earthly masters like you are working for God. Love others as you would love yourself (the way you want to be loved). Be patient with others because you now know the depth of suffering a person can be in. You will make new friends and have new experiences while you are healing. In the moments where you get angry, do NOT sin. You do NOT need to be healed to serve God. He is strong in your weakness. Trust Him to sustain you. Lean in to Him. Seek Him with your whole heart, mind and what little remaining strength you feel you have. Remember, YOU are made in God’s image. You are His child. He will NEVER leave you nor forsake you. He is with you through it all. When it all feels like a storm, speak “‘peace’ in Jesus’ name.” When God achieves mighty things through you (and you consider yourself ‘broken’), honour God regarding the delivered victory. Praise Him. Share your testimony of what God did. Share the Gospel. There will also be a Season where God says, “Be still; I am fighting for you.” Obey that when it is DEFINITELY a message from God. Rest when God tells you to and be silent. Don’t grumble. Thank God simply for Him being Him (and anything else in your life you know is good). Thank Him for what He is doing for you that you are unaware of as you put ALL your trust in Him. - Lessons learned from failure AND from Scripture and occasional success due to obeying ‘Scripture’ (God’s Word / Jesus).

[@stefblanco3887]

I didn’t get closure. I’m still healing from a narcissistic abusive relationship after nearly 3 years later. Lord have mercy 🙏🏽

[@DanielMunoz-sq6bh]

I see you being intentional!

[@ELEMUSIQ5]

Right in the same boat but we can get through this! God has better . I just came to understand what Unconditional love is and isn't through this situation. Now i know when God sends the right person i can really appreciate it.

[@theehardpill]

It's BETTER!!!!❤❤❤

[@Lorine_Nyongesa]

'The why belongs to God'

[@SongbyrdG]

Amen!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 FATHER..GIVE ME THE FAITH TO NOT ONLY TRUST YOUR STOPS…BUT TO TRUST YOUR SEVERING…

[@HorizonEast72]

Amen! 2019-2022 were pretty awful for me…but even now, by the Grace of God, it is already BETTER! Thank you for this Word, Pastor J!

[@lifewithalysse]

FATHER GIVE ME THE FAITH TO NOT ONLY TRUST YOUR STOPS BUT TO TRUST YOUR SEVERING!!!! whewww

[@sotayarobertson2817]

This came on time.. God is Soooooooo Good

[@ia9392]

I'm so proud of you for being intentional! 😀

[@shanelstewart4367]

I am so proud of you for being intentional 🙌🏽

[@victoriouspinkministries3279]

FATHER, GIVE ME THE FAITH TO NOT ONLY TRUST YOUR STOPS BUT MY SEVERANCES AS WELL. 21, 22 & 23...MY Lord has been my years 😢😭✈✈✈

[@CashmereWaddup]

I see you being intentional,I’m so proud of you 😊

[@deborahtolulope8622]

Father, give me the faith to not only trust your stops, but to trust your severing. Amen

[@dariusthompson6680]

"Caring is the byproduct of investing." Help me Jesus, preach brother.

[@2osolow]

Hallelujah 👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💞💞💞💞💞☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽❤❤❤❤

[@kalelahardin9569]

IT'S BETTER

[@Iamlonndanicole]

Wow. 😭 its better hurtful but it will be better

[@latuaho3423]

Amen … wow.. i needed this.. thank you Jesus😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@mfarr10]

Father, give me the faith to not only trust your stops, but to trust your severing!!!

[@Mariliza.]

This was powerful, pastor Jerry. Thank you!

[@2osolow]

FATGER GIVE ME THE FAITH TO NOT ONLY TRUST YOUR STOPS BUT TO TRUST YOUR SEVERING AS WELL IN JESUS PRECIOUS NAME I PRAY AMEN AMEN AMEN

[@jadanicole625]

FATHER, GIVE ME THE FAITH TO NOT ONLY TRUST YOUR STEPS, BUT TO TRUST YOUR SEVERING🙏🏾

[@ia9392]

I'm so proud of you for being intentional !👍🏾

[@cheftwilliams]

FARTHER GIVE ME THE FAITH NOT ONLY TO TRUST YOUR STOPS BUT TRUST YOUR SEVERING

[@loridavis9690]

Father, give me the faith to not only trust your stops, but to trust your severing.

[@loriwright-nb2hg]

It is better

[@akeilatasby6501]

We will have an arena Pastor Flowers🙏🏽

[@no1voluptousview188]

I’m amazed that I came across this I said in my heart God you don’t love me anymore? But this message answered that! My entire being has been SCREAMING YEARNING BEGGGGGING for AN ANSWER AN APOLOGY A WHY OR HOW could you do this to me????!!!!! I gotta heal!!!! 🙏🏽 thank you!!!! ❤❤❤

[@MsElleDluv]

God not only orders steps but He orders severing. Exactly what I heard after countless times I cried about that thing to God. That profound realization helped me heal. I know I am loved by God and He protects me. He sees the bigger picture and I trust in Him ❤️

[@bavakian5000]

I'm so proud of you for being intentional! 💜💙

[@newenglandtoffee9190]

FATHER, GIVE ME THE FAITH TO NOT ONLY TRUST YOUR STOPS, BUT TO TRUST YOUR SEVERING!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@bethanyevekelly7182]

Wow! So, so, so, so good and timely for me! I had a plan B ready for tomorrow morning!!! No more. Plan God all the way. Thank you.

[@treasurewithlove]

This is Confirmation. Thank you for the word.

[@billystevens6076]

So good amen! Thank you Jesus. Thank you God for separation.

[@christiancarr9466]

FATHER GIVE ME THE FAITH TO NOT ONLY TRUST YOUR STOPS BUT TO TRUST YOUR SEVERING!

[@KeyshasCorner]

Jerry Thank you so so much for allowing God to speak through you. He knew i truly truly needed everything you said on today. God continue to bless you ❤

[@MsBuffalo]

I’m so proud of you for been INTENTIONAL!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙏🏽

[@katievaughn8528]

So good, exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you 🙏🏽

[@annatsilo5757]

Am so proud of myself first 💜